How to Know if you Married the Right One - R. Shmuel Silber - TorahAnytime.com

one of the several blockers that we recite is especially beautiful the bracha that we say as America sama Rhema Hooven kiss America yet circa began Eden macadam Baraka Tasha Miss America Santa Carla so literally translated means rejoice beloved companions as God made you happy in GaN Eden evolved and GaN Eden of old so the Broncos make comparing across and in color too-hoo too-hoo Ultima cava so the Baal Shem Tov o bobl sure but both bring this up and it's interesting like since you were saying to the cousin in color is you should be as happy as autumn and cover in GaN Eden yeah I don't know I could figure out some better Broncos than that but I first saw other men having running I need them for all that long right second of all I don't know out of all the marriages we read about in the Torah I don't know that other men however are like you know I know that anybody's putting that figurine on top of their wedding cake IIIi don't know it's interesting ordered me to be like Adam and Sarah like a power couple to be like it's cooking rifka yeah cool in Rafah okay III kid but Ottoman have a for so we don't even know so much about them and the stuff that we do know about them is so tragic remember again rava gives to autumn Veatch Anna it's a dance such a terrible thing but she keeps him teach without telling him what it is that she's giving him he blames her for everything there's such disconnect and such conflict and this is the bracha so the baal shem tov says something amazing he says no no we're not trying to tell people that they should replicate the marriage of other Makabe but other than how that something very unique you see sometimes after you get married there's what's called buyer's remorse right and you think to yourself you know what I don't know maybe I could have done better right or maybe this and when there's conflict sometimes I think you know what this is what I signed up for like this is what it's all about and that's normal that that's no no one likes to admit it but that's that's natural and that's normal you make the biggest decision in your life it's only normal some kind the second guess than to wonder what happened over here do you know it was unique about the nincada other man have a never second-guessed their choice do you know why it wasn't much of a single scene right there was not much going on Adam knew that Havel was his bashert and haven't knew that Adam was her bashert there was no ambiguity that they were made for each other the broker that we give for a hustling Carlo it's not necessary that you should have a marital dynamic like Adam akava but just like Ottoman hava had no doubt that they were soul mates made for one another we tell the COS in Italian when you get married know that I could sure borrow who it's been part of the plan of creation from the beginning that you husband and your wife create a life together we don't just wind up with the people we marry it doesn't just happen it's part of our College borough whose preordained plan just like alderman Havel were created for each other every husband and wife were created for each other you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you like Torah any time calm