How to Feel The Pain - R. Yitzchak Oelbaum - TorahAnytime.com

something that bothers me and I'm at fault also until I saw something we have three weeks to mourn and as we go it gets stronger and stronger in the nine days above itself how many people over here when we go Terrace Israel and we go to the castle we try to get out of rice in Korea and when we get there I see Smiles in the face I'm gonna go tomorrow tomorrow's Friday fry I have to do Korea I got to Thursday I'm going to try I'm not gonna go today Fridays no creates air showers I'm not gonna go ice cream there's no Korea are we out of our minds there's three weeks when we're talking about this and we're thinking and thinking and thinking how do we connect and here we have an opportunity to connect more than ever I'm chooping out on a shirt I'm cheaping at doing Creator castle that's what I'm keeping out on CE it sure cost twenty dollars fifty dollars if you fancy you got a Hermes shirt you spent 300 000 on a shirt that's we're cheaping out on so not the resources time that we spent trying to connect and we've got to actually I'm not gonna rip that shirt what is the big deal to pack a shirt you're throwing in the garbage anyways if that's how it's hard for you I struggle with it also so a few years ago I went there to start with my father knows my father very well am I follow somebody that he feels pain for other people but you don't really see it very strong I went to the castle with him never forget this probably 18 years ago I'm walking up to the castle and I see he has a scissor there and he looks at the looks at the Western Wall looks at the castle and he gives a cut I as he's ripping I hear cracks oh and I see his eyes start tearing up they start watering up and when I saw that I'm like whoa I am not getting the easy way out anymore I changed my perspective totally as I just roll a few months ago I went to the castle I was excited due to Korea I felt like I was connecting to something I felt like I was mileage connecting the first step is we got to connect but she began on the shirt that's not called connecting that's my book is it's already late my Brokers and this course that we hear and we're trying to connect to the base on migdush we're trying to mourn it's hard the first step is that we're trying to be inspired and the fact that we're sitting here that alone is a tremendous connection that's cool that's definitely what it's called who says