Good News, Bad News and Doubt - R. Zecharia Wallerstein - TorahAnytime.com

i have never in my life gotten so many phone calls i have to say this is very very sad in the last six months i cannot tell you how many people have called me that their daughter or their son is dating a non-jew now i'm talking about i'm not talking about the assimilated modern jew i'm talking about the borough park flatbush williamsburg normal baltimore lakewood normal from homes and this was something that was just such a no-no it was like you know chavez all this other stuff but we're not married not into marrying can i tell you how many broken people i have never in 36 years of being a cynic dealt with so much into intermarriage or interdating i don't know if they're all gonna get married but definitely enter dating on that i went out two o'clock at night one night to speak to a girl who came home to tell her mother that she's engaged to a guy from from from a different country her mother sat there from lady works in the inner bay sacko she's a teacher she said she's like what what are you doing what are you talking about she said ma i have good news and bad news what good news is i'm engaged your mother was like oh my full time no he's a guy this woman called me up and she's like great while she was like bubbling do you know what she was saying she's like you have to come and was like i don't know 12 1 o'clock in the night i went i went to the house to talk to this girl it's going to be shack i was a kid all the way to be married to marriage she's engaged to a guy so so it's it's it's at a point right now where where where the assimilation is now going into the front world and never went to the firmware we were 80 assimilation outside of our little chevra but now in the fume world for a child to come home and tell our mother that i'm and it's a somatic world and it's the ashkenazic world and see the show world doesn't make a difference it doesn't make a difference so so the the people that are the kadushu of the tahara we have to work harder so that that we should have this footstep we shouldn't lose so many kids it's mamish it's crazy and i see that that little hole there between the hay and the house that little hole is such a big hole and if you and and i i spoke about it this week um right what is amma like i'm all like his dad all the swarms say that malik is that if i can get you to doubt hashem a drop right if i could do that then i can go in and totally and and that's what this footsteps does just get you to doubt him on one doubt god on one thing like why do you need two weird tits right and i get you to doubt on that mitzvah once you open that hole that was a molex thing about derek right they didn't go after the strong people they went after the people that were outside the cloud they went after the people they had one question then a two question karko also a little bit it's not so exciting it's not so great it's not as good as you think that's the kayak of amalek and that goes so far that a woman could call me and say that her daughter came home a from lady a teacher in a bay sacko that her daughter came home and said i get a mazel tov good news and bad news it's it's a shrek no one should ever ever ever hear such a thing where a child comes home and tells their parent i get a milestone but you're not going to be happy because he's not jewish i think he's not from nothing he's modern he's not jewish and he doesn't want to be a jew and i don't even want him to be a jew so we have to dive for cholesterol and we have to work on ourselves you