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Every Couple Needs to Hear This About Marriage - Joey Haber on TorahAnytime

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every couple I need you to realize this do you want to be married you waited your whole life to be married and what you wanted to marry was a husband or a wife from a beautiful family that's what you wanted so now you're complaining when that having that family comes with responsibilities that's the so by complaining about going to one side or the other you're basically complaining about your blessing you're blessed to be married to a wonderful family wonderful people now if they're horrible people that's not Theo to this class but if they're wonderful people you were blessed to have two sides last night I was on the phone with with one of my children one of my married children I said you know most people view like in-laws as like a necessary evil like I have to have a spouse so with the spouse comes in-laws I said no I don't mean it as a choke that's how people look at it even if they like the inless I said no it's not like that it's a blessing there's a mindset of your family and now there a mindset of in-laws when you combine the two it's a beautiful I love my family we have our own mentality we're very opinionated we know everything that's going on my in-laws everything's happy and good and you know what it's beautiful I love my parents side and I love my inlaw side the combination is what makes my family my family so complaining about having to go to this meal or that side or that house you're basically complaining about the Hashem gave you