Chats - R. Meir Simcha Sperling - TorahAnytime.com

So, you're affected by not only where you go, but you're also affected by the chats that you're on. Who would have thought? The chats that you're on, you're affected by. That means that hopefully you don't know what I'm talking about, and that would be great. But if you're on news chats a lot or if you're on other chats which you shouldn't be on or if you're on just there's so many different just late late son's chats. There's so many different chats that there are out there that first of all seem kosher and also the ones that don't seem kosher or that are for sure not kosher that really change your day. It changes what you're where you are all day. You are where your mind is, right? Happiness is a state of mind, right? We know that when you see something, when you think about something, that's where you are. when you're on certain chats and certain things keep getting posted either let's just say jokes all day or late sunsus all day or just stupidity all day. So that's that's where you are and every time it you have to see who and like you know when you're affected by that you're affected by that. Now is that a very very bad thing? I don't maybe not I don't know but it's something to think about meaning who do you want to be? What do you want to do with your time? Who do you want to say you are in 10 year? Who like your future self? What is the future self going to say about yourself now? Meaning, what are you spending your time with? A lot of times people are on the news all day. And I'm talking about all day. I'm not talking about here and there just to know what's going on. I'm talking about all day and with videos that are horrific with the with with killings and stabbings and and and car rammings and all these things, it has an effect on you. It has an effect on you. So, when you're seeing that all day and you're in touch of all these different things, it uh it could it could do damage and it's something that we have to think about. Now talking about the not kosher things and who you're talking about and also the lashhara things that's another one. Lashinhara is so easy when it's on texting and especially when it's on chats on all different types of chats on family chats first of all on school chats on on bus chats on just stam chats on bungalow colony chats on all these different things. I'm not saying anything specific. I'm saying in general there it's very easy to be on because you're not really saying it. You're not in front of anybody. This that whatever. I don't really feel it. We're so used to it anyways. So like and we can't fix it. It's impossible. I can't not talk. All I'm saying is just think about it. Just think about it. Do you have to be on 36 chats? Are all of them a good sviva for you? Are they all a good environment for you? What do you mean? I'm in my house and my house has I have sperm all around. I'm in a great place. I'm in a good Sviva. Yeah, but you you are where your phone is, Lisa, if you're on it all day. So, I just want to point that out. If you're on chats, stop for a second, go through all of your chats, and just ask yourself, is this a good environment for me? Does this bring out the good in me? Is proud of me that I'm on this? And if you're not, so then uh then then whatever.