Be Nice - R. Meir Simcha Sperling - TorahAnytime.com

there's a guy I'm learning with now who we're working on this we're working on being sensitive and being nice and whatever it is and we started by doing which by the way we have a v on to any time check it out over 100 CH and it's it's a game changer when you learn how to talk nicely and what you're yes allowed to say and what you're not allowed to say it's just a different world you literally learn how to be a nice person and how to think nice and then you build a sensitivity and then all of a sudden you realize like okay maybe maybe I don't know his full story maybe I don't know what happened I don't know why he went in front of me why he swerved in front of me why he cut me off why he didn't respond to the email why he didn't call me in time why he didn't come to my SIM all of a sudden you're not just aggressive and mean and tough and no you have to be tough cuz we're we're a man I don't you coffee you have milk with you coffe you just chew the bean cuz we're a man no that's not what the teror wants from us it's not what the teror wants from sometimes to be is being a man people think that to be tough means to keep going sometimes to be tough is to to back up and have a for a second and think a little bit and sleep on it a little bit not always we have to jump right away and and and be aggressive and be tough so this is something to think about remember the message of the and if you could do this and you could learn and you could learn how to be sensitive and to be nice then you'll taka be a true role model and will be proud of you and then you'll you'll there'll be Shalom around you and if there Shalom around you then you have a CLE of braa and who knows what braa you'll have in your life so everybody say think about this let's work on it slowly and will make proud with bringing up the whole level of