Are You Making This Dating Mistake? - R. Elazar Meisels - TorahAnytime.com

is the one who makes shidduchim okay i know everybody knows this but i don't know if everybody actually believes it what do you mean of course i believe it i heard i heard in seminary he had a whole yomian and i i read a book about it yeah yeah yeah right do you believe it or not are you the type that comes back from seminary and runs to go get your pictures taken runs to go to every single shotgun and your appearance and your mother's working the phones and all that because if you are i question whether you really believe it are you the type that obsesses over your resume which name is on there because what happens if we put the wrong name and what if they call this one and every single time a new show comes and you have to go change your resume for these people or do you say you know what i got to make a shot list i'll pull up pull together a resume send it out it'll be what it'll be does every choice you make reflect back on how will it affect your shidduchim or do you say i'm going to be the best person i can be i'm going to live the life i can live i'm going to do my best i'm going to diamond hashem and he will give me the when the time is right which one are you ask yourself that question the answer may help reveal to you whether you do or don't truly know accept and feel that hashem is you