Are You Guilty of This? - R. Meir Simcha Sperling - TorahAnytime.com

I think the key over here in simple English and this is the the most important thing that you should all remember is that don't create competition in your life when I was giving sh one of the big questions were always like are mixed meals M or us don't tell me yes or no is it user well rebi is it user or is it m where's the PK that says it's us to have a mixed meal whatever there's a seminary they're going SOA guys we're going it's not for the wine no we we don't even like that we like the wine but it's not really for the wine we just want we just want we want to hear his he doesn't say the on the wine bottle it's written a nice the the is that or M who cares is it going to create competition in your life by you doing something going somewhere doing a mixed date going with another another does that create competition for you now why didn't you do like that look how look how she she treats her husband you never do that look how he respects her you don't respect me like that you create competition RAB say so it's not even about user iser and M it doesn't matter about that what matters is are you creating competition for yourself you want to be happy look how much you have start focusing on all the amazing things that you have that's what is my wife is the only one for me period period the only one it doesn't make a difference anybody else anywhere else this is my and that's it is it the best is it this is it as far as I'm concerned yes it is the best in everything in everything every single husband should have that outlook on life my kids and my wife are they're the best as far as I'm concerned as far as I'm concerned they are the best in everything you live your own life say don't create competition for yourself a few nights ago while I was Mish thinking about this idea I got into a car with one of my kusas and on the seat where the passenger seat I see a whole bunch of papers there I'm like V is do he's like I just signed the contract Millions baby so I took a look whatever she took a look I was like can I look and taka Millions he just signed the contract so I said who went in this with you like who else he's like one other guy went in with me I'm like who probably like some older rich he's like yeah plainy I'm like plainy he's like yeah in my class plainy my age plainy yeah yeah yeah isn't that nice he he just he just he just put in that much money he had he has that much money but he's really I don't even I don't care about him does he learn is he Stark M while I was writing this and I'm like no that has nothing to do with me let him be wealthy let him him sign the contract let him do that that has nothing to do with me I have my own contract I'll make one right now quickly you know what I'm saying right this uh this is my life this is my story that doesn't affect me that doesn't bother me I am here I have a mission and nothing's going to take me down because it doesn't matter to me there is no fomo and I don't jump to my phone I don't even bring my phone I turn off my phone so often because it doesn't matter to me it makes no difference be happy and move on R say imagine you didn't do this just imagine then every time any of your friends are ever successful in anything and anytime anybody's kid gets a better Mark I remember I went when I went to PTA he went to PTA one time this is a funny story and um so the rebi tells me he's like oh you son ah listen you know like what just say it what he's like how do I say this I'm like just just do it in English just just say what is it what because they told me they told me B was was good then like right after the next guy walks in he's like oh your son's a sadic I'm like who whose son is a sadic you know like we walk there he's like well he his father's a good guy I'm like what what about him you know we walk away this other kid sadic he never did anything wrong he push he he he holds tilling old day just like this but I'm like ah okay what do they do different than me huh and then no you shut it down that has nothing to do with me that's him this is us and as far as I'm concerned my son and my daughter they're the only thing in the world to me doesn't matter what the UPS the Downs it does not matter because this is my mission this is my mission and again say imagine you didn't do this you'd be depressed all day because any anytime you ever see anybody else that has anything more than you it's like hasem what about me this is a big biggy side that