Align With The Divine - R. Don Jarashow - TorahAnytime.com

The ma goes as follows and this is a story with the rashi said the following story. There was once a couple they were married for many years and they did not have children. It was obviously a very painful decade of time and they were seeing no results, no light at the end of the tunnel. And according to not but the is that a person's to be mash's wife, a person's to divorce his wife if they can't have children. Hashem did not create the world to be to be empty and we need to procreate. So the is that a person's to divorce his wife. You don't pass like that. Thankfully we have organizations that help this issue these days but from the gamar a person would have to divorce his wife. So what did this couple do? So says the med astounding thing they came to the rash they came to the famous story of the rashb is about the carob and he said in the this is not a well-known famous story and this this is incredible. They came to the rashi and they said help us out tell us what should we do? We've been waiting for all these years. We have no children. What can we possibly do to marry Yeshua? And the rashi told them as follows. Rashbi said, "Make a big feast together, have a big suda, sit down, have wine, have meat, and things will ensue, things will develop." So the wife cooked for day for, you know, the whole day. She vodka cookies, poppers, the works, everything. They brought in fresh wine, gishmach, ready to sit down, husband and the wife and they didn't know exactly what to expect but they just said the rash be told this is what we should do. So they sat down, you know, they sat down and after the husband drank a lot and he was filled and he ate meat and and fatty fish, he's very satisfied and the wife saw that he was starting to get tired and the husband said to the wife, "I want you to do me a favor." He said, "When I fall asleep, take the best thing you want from this house." Fell asleep and the wife didn't know exactly what to do with this. The kava the husband fell asleep and the next morning the husband found himself in his father and mother's house in his parents house. He woke up. He was all confused. Last night he was with his wife sitting by the suda and the next morning his bed was removed and he's he woke up in his parents house. He ran back to his wife and he said, "I don't understand like mak what happened to you. You kicked me out of the house. I told you remove the take the best thing out and you kicked me out." And the wife said, "You're the best thing in my life. You're the only thing I really care about. I love you so much. So, I want to fulfill your word to the tea. So, I had to remove you. I had to take you out of the house. Even though I didn't understand, even though it didn't make sense, how can it be that my actions, how can I justify my actions of kicking you out, how can that add up to me loving you? But he said, "You told me and I have to honor you to take the best thing out of the house. I took you out." After that, they went back to the rash. The rash said, "After, you know, a day later, come back." Came back and the rash said knew what happened. And they told him the how how the the story went that they they had the meal and what the husband said and that the wife kicked the husband out of the house. And at that moment what happened the rashi started crying and screaming beseeching the aishar and nasham. This couple was blessed nine months later with a baby. That's the So the kasha is what happened in the beginning what happened in the end. If the rashi was able to d in the beginning he was able to break the iron gates break through to the dishay paya dishaya and break through straight through straight through tashm. What did he wait? What was this whole having the suda kicking him out? Good Kasha understand the answer is that the rashi had to see that there was a aspiration and a chuka the strongest desire for zeros kayama at any cost and even if it didn't make any sense to this couple why they should make the meal why they're waiting why should the wife have to k the husband the rashi was telling this couple that he needed to see full clarity highest level that They were nima they were given over to hem that they wanted and at that point only then was he able to storm and they were they married children. So what do you learn from this? The is telling us and this is the parash we have agendas sometimes we don't understand sometimes we need things and of the is when we remind ourselves that sometimes we don't understand the full picture. Sometimes we're not sure how things make sense. We're not sure how we're going to get from A to B, A to Z. Brother Ashbi Tana reminds us through this story that when we align ourselves with we can be to anything