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I want to share with you an incredible story. I just heard this from a refined waxman. Mindboggling. There was a big askin, a wellto-do askin from Israel and he had to go to Europe to Switzerland to oversee an operation for a young boy who is deathly ill. He flies over to Switzerland with the family. He makes sure everything's okay. gets him into the hospital. And after his job was done, he went, he had a hotel. He went back to his hotel, checked in. He was going to relax a little bit. It was a heavy trip and dealing with all the paperwork and the legal stuff. And his family, they didn't know how to speak. They didn't know English. They didn't know anything. So, he was there for them. And he finally was excited to go back to his hotel, relax for a few minutes, get a good night's sleep, and he was going to go a couple days later. He walks into the hotel and he meets this other couple from not familiar. Didn't know them. Didn't know their name. And he says, "Oh, nice to meet you. My name is Schwarz from and I'm here on this mission to help this family." Say, "Oh, very nice." A little chitchat. He goes back to his room, goes upstairs. this meeting, this uh this encounter has happened at let's say 6 p.m. goes back up to his room in the hotel and hours later he needed to come back to the lobby to get a tea. Comes back 5 6 hours later it's ready 11:12 in the morning and he's perplexed. He sees this couple with their daughter still drains in the lobby and he went back and he said, "Are you the same people that I saw 6 hours ago?" And they said, "Yeah." He said, "What what are you doing here? You're sitting on Talabi. What are you okay?" And they said, "Well, truthfully, we're from we don't have any money and we push can't afford another night in the hotel." So, we figured we already were here for one night, couple nights, and we can't afford another one, but we're leaving tomorrow morning. So, we're just going to dre on the couches over here, and when our taxi comes in the morning, we're going to leave. We have our bags ready, ready to go. And this Askin Mish Mish Schwarz looks at this couple with their daughter and he said, "Are you crazy? You think I'm going to let you sit here for the next five, six hours alone?" He said, "Come to my room." He took them, welcomed them into his room. And he had food and drinks and he sat and fang with them danced and was mazic them. 6:30 7:00 the father gets a notification a call the taxi is here. They part ways say months later the thisin goes back to the family goes back to this sick child gets better goes back and this ask gets a letter in the mail and it says dearen I'm looking forward to seeing you at the so So he opens up the letter. He says, "Dear Mutton, I didn't marry off any of my kids." He opens it up. He looks at the invitation. He has no idea who this invitation is from. And he thinks it's just a epic mistake. Some must have made. Day later he gets a call. Shalom. Moshe. He says, "Yeah. Who is this?" He says, "You remember me? I was the Yid that you bumped into in the lobby in Switzerland. And he says, "Oh, of course I remember you." He says, "I just sent you an invitation to your." And he said, "You okay? You're well. What?" He said, "Let me explain to you." He said, "I didn't tell you why I was in that lobby. I told you that I was waiting for my taxi, but there was a backstory. He said, "Let me hear." He said, "What happened?" Um, he said, "I was invited in Switzerland because my daughter, who you saw in the lobby, I was with my wife and my daughter. My daughter was dating a guy. My daughter went off to D and wanted absolutely nothing to do with myself, with my wife, with the rest of the family to the point she was dating this guy and ready to get married. And all she wanted was for us to bring her some money to get the ready, make a few preparations, bring her some last minute possessions, she forgot, but after that saying goodbye to us, say nice knowing you for the 20 whatever years going out living in Switzerland and falling off the map. So what happened was you didn't even know but you came over. You asked us our name. You asked us what you doing over here. You showed you cared. You don't understand the impression the indelible impression that you had on my daughter. For a week we were J in Switzerland and nobody asked us how you doing? What are you here for? You're an Israeli couple with a daughter. What's going on? You were the first one to the point that we got on the plane and my daughter said, "Mommy Tati, if this is what an it is, I may have been tainted. I may have gotten beaten up over the past few years, but I'm signing back up. on the plane. My daughter broke off the sh with this guy, came back with us, resubscribed and a few months later, right now she became a tora and she's ready to commit her life back to mitzvah. And that is why I wrote on this letter, dear Mutton, because without you, there is no chance I would ever have this opportunity. My daughter would never have Jewish of Jews and it's all in and I'm forever indebted to you and I want this. You are the mutton. The moral of the story there's hundreds but one is for sure. We cannot underestimate the power of a kum and like that person ask what can we do these days? How can we bring the B mikdash? If we keep the didn't bring it, if the rash didn't bring it. The answer is one kind word, one overcoming with the we don't know. We can't underscore its value, its potency, its power. It can do anything. But we cannot belittle those moments. A kind word, a kind gesture, showing another person we care. And especially in this time of year, seen them.