Why Is Saying I'm Sorry So Hard and Important? | TORAH FOR KIDS AI

[Music] now all of us all of us are the chosen people all of us are all of us are very very important in the eyes of a very important well even though sometimes sometimes the uh the uh uh theim are going to make fun of us or go against us or do all types of things we have hasem wants us to always remember that we are the chosen people and part of the reason why he allows these go to cause US problems is because he wants us to remember that we are different than them we are separate from them so now if the go are fighting against us if the going are causing us trouble we automatically think oh maybe this is bad uh maybe we should change but no if we're doing something bad of course we should change if we're stealing from the green if we're mean to them if we're doing things like that then of course we have to change but if we're following the toah but the G are making fun of us the gam are causing us problems do we need to change no no we don't change we don't become like them now the are tools that hasem uses in order for us to remember that we are one nation that we are one people and as long as we remember that hashm is always going to save us but there is one problem sometimes our problem is not the green sometimes our problem is not the Nazis sometimes our problem is not even sometimes our problem is each other where one Jew that's a good Jew doesn't treat another Jew that's also a good Jew nicely one Jewish girl that's good doesn't treat another Jewish girl that's good nicely and sometimes we're mean to each other sometimes we have what's called what's baseless hatred people hate each other for no reason no reason you have a bunch of kids playing and then as a uh another sadik from the school coming she wants to come play too and uh what do you guys think if everybody's playing and then there's a new girl she's a good girl or new boy it's boys and they want to come play and they're good they're not they're not they're not bad people they're good and they want to come play also and the group says no we don't want to play with you what do you guys think of that is that nice is that a nice thing to do terrible horrible now the teacher comes the rabbi comes to the group he says why are you doing that she's a why did you kick her out why did you uh say you don't want to play with her and the group said I don't know they don't even know why they did it did she do anything to you no did this new uh person do something bad to you no did he make fun of you no did he steal something from you no so what you being mean to them I don't know that's meaning hating each other for no reason and I'm telling you says is so horrible it's so terrible it's so awful that the BET mikdash was destroyed because of it was destroyed because of why because sometimes people that are good are not nice to each other now if there is amalik coming the next door neighbor amalik over here he wants to go I want to play I want to have a barbecue with you barbecue go eat your eat your food what do you want from us he's an enemy causes those problems but if a person that's nice comes and says I want to play with you I want to talk to you I want to learn with you and you say no why not I don't know I don't like you why not I don't know is that nice the was good because of this now sometimes good people make uh mistakes even though they're good they make mistakes where you uh come to them and say hi good morning Mr Jew whatever their name is let's say let's call him Steve okay or David go call David you say you know and you are in a room you in a b CET and uh Dave comes shom shom okay you Shalom comes in and you say shom or shabbat shalom shalom right and Shalom heard you said they didn't hear you doesn't say anything he walks away is that nice now if you go to Shalom they tell Shalom how come you didn't say shalom how come you didn't say good morning back to Dave that said hello to you you I'm say I don't know why not I mean he said hello to you you heard him right yeah I heard him so how come you didn't respond hello I don't like him oh you don't like him why not why don't you like him I don't know I just uh I don't like the way he looks I don't like the way he dresses I don't like his accent I don't like his is that allow that's and a person has to know is so bad that I'm going tell you something scary cuz you guys like scary stuff you know how the BET mdash was destroyed it's terrible right but the says don't think that only destroyed the mikash 2,000 years ago no don't think just like that it's not just that is that every generation that the bet mikash is not built again that means that if there was a mikash hasem would destroy again why because they still have the they're still not nice to each other meaning that right now if a person is not nice to his fellow Jew is mean to his fellow Jew in a certain way if there was aash would destroy the whole because of that isn't that horrible so that's why first of all we have to learn hasem counted all of the Jews not because he needs to count not because he doesn't know because he wants to tell us I love each and every single one of you each and every single one of you is a precious jewel is a precious and you have to love each other just the same even if you're from different tribes even if you're from different families even if you are ruen and he's a Pomo and he's a Gigi and he's a d and he's a that doesn't make a difference you have to love and care about each other you cannot not be nice to each other or be mean to each other for no reason not if you have a problem with somebody let's say they did something wrong to you you tell them said listen you did this to me and uh it hurt me okay first WR I'm sorry I didn't know I didn't mean to hurt you I didn't even know I did it and you fix it and that's it and then you make Shalom and finished what about people that somebody somebody does something mean to them or somebody hurts them in some way not uh you know they Hur him and then the person says I'm sorry I didn't mean to it was an accident or I made a mistake do you have to accept the apology or no yeah yeah of course you have to accept the apology or if you did something you hurt somebody it's a mitv from the to go and apologize they said yeah but I'm embarrassed to apologize good good you're embarrassed that's the tun by doing the apology you're fixing your mistake for the fact that it's embarrassing is good because now they remember that okay last time I did something bad and then I had to apologize and it was embarrassing to me I didn't like it so you know what I'm not going to do anything bad anymore right I don't want to be embarrassed so I'm going to say I'm sorry right or no now there's a third part there are sometimes that there are certain people that are either or they're just in such a bad way they having a bad day or bad life that they decide that they're going to take out all of their frustrations on on you on the person that didn't do anything to them what do you do in a situation like that well I'm going to tell you a big secret that I learned who told the story and the name of one of the great Shalom he said you know that sometimes there is an evil decree there's an evil decree there's an evil decree something somebody did something and there's a decree but hasm really doesn't want to punish in his Mercy he always gives us an opportunity to get out of the evil decree so says if somebody has such a horrible decree on them they can even save their life if they do this what is it if somebody comes to them if somebody embarrasses them if somebody insults them if somebody makes fun of them and they don't respond they don't start fighting with the person they simply know hasem you know my heart you know that I don't deserve what this person is doing to me but they don't fight back with the person they accept it whatever they're saying they're yelling at them they're screaming at them they're making fun of them they don't respond at that moment can cancel a decree that's an evil decree andl tells a story of something that happened with who with his daughter he had a daughter like you guys sik but she grew up already and she was married and she needed money to eat food but there was such poverty in those times in people did not have food to eat and this is a story this is a life-changing Story the daughter of came to the rabbi came to Aba and said ABA I need food to eat I don't have any money AB says I don't have any money either says what do I do he says go to the cour go to the court of the Mal and pray to pray to what can we do who else is going to help us hasem right anybody else can help us no only hasem can help us right does anybody else can help us other than Hashem only Hashem can help us not even a rich man not even a rich man can so the daughter of goes all the way to the she goes all the way over there and over there they have a men's section they have a women's section and she starts praying to hem and she's praying to hem and praying to hem and praying to hem and then she starts crying you ever pray so much to hasem that you start crying you know crying to hem is good crying you know if you cry if a person has a crybaby like somebody took their toy or or or something like that that's not good crying what's a good crying if you cry to Hashem when you're crying so she was crying to Hashem please help us we don't have any food we don't have any money to buy food uh please help us only you can help us and she's crying and crying and she's loud she's loud she's crying to crying no she's crying she's crying did you did you guys ever fall and you got hurt so much that you started crying a lot no you know well well some people did you did yeah you got Hur I fell back on my chair and I got cut here I didn't cry didn't well most people sometime they fall they cry or some other reason people cry sometimes you cry sometimes something hurts you so much you start crying well the daughter of was hurt why she had no food to eat for her for her kids and she was crying to hem she was crying to hem but all of a sudden this woman that's also at the Cortel comes to theik hey what are you doing crying here you're too loud be quiet check it what what the daughter of look you shck How could somebody do to me and all said hey you Qui you're not alone here we you're ruining our prayer we're pray here too you quiet check it is this nice what she's doing my be are [Music] terrible terrible horrible but what other say he if somebody comes and insults you what do you do be quiet be quiet you don't respond she didn't respond she didn't want to fight with her she knew that if she would have said something to her the woman would have said something even worse and it would have been a fight no fighting Shalom we need Shalom so ysf you know what happened after she went home and she's walking home a long long long way home and on the way home all of a sudden as she's looking in the ground she sees something shiny she goes down she picks it up it's a Shiny Gold Napoleon coin worth a lot of money that it's enough money that you could use it to eat for a whole year [Music] she felt like a little treasure she was so happy wow she made mirle these types of coins don't just appear people don't just throw them in the street this is m a miracle and a time she CRI to that she needs money to buy food she finds such a precious coin that she could now buy food not only for one day not only for one Shabbat for the whole year it's amazing right so she comes to our she says to Aba we had a big big miracle today I listened to you I went to the Cel I cried over there a woman made fun of me she yelled at me and I didn't respond and then I came home and hasem made a miracle and I found the coin it's not amazing ABA that Mom no no no let me explain to you my dear daughter what happened to you so you understand stand he says what you didn't know that when you were hungry and you were starving and you didn't have food there was a bad decree against you in sham for some reason something from a previous G something for whatever it was there was an evil decree Satan came to hasem with a decree Cree against you that he wants to kill you and your life was on the line that you would starve to death no food and die but you went to the cotel and you cried to Hashem you cried and cried and hasem and his Mercy he says Ah now that she's crying to me I have to have to do something to save her life because wants to kill her how I'm going to give her opportunity to destroy the in one shot now I'm going to send her somebody to make fun of her to yell at her to embarrass her and if she doesn't respond that kills the it can't kill her anymore it runs away so going to give her opportunity and that's whyem sent that woman that's whyem sent that woman to go make fun of you to go insult you to go yell at you and embarrass you because if you pass the test and you listen to what I taught you which is not to respond then hasem will save your life and will tell the yet go away you can't kill her and when you passed the test and you didn't respond you now had life again but since this was such a difficult test so PID for what she did to you has says when I give my dear beloved children a bitter medicine even though the medicine is good for them it's going to heal them but it's still bitter I want to give them something sweet too so what did he do he gave you a gold coin he gave you a gold coin to make the bitter the bitter test the bitter medicine he made it a little sweet he gave you the gold coin so now you can eat and not have to worry about anything for a long time so you see from here my little that if you have another Drew boy or girl and they are good they're good people but they're doing bad things they're distracting they're annoying they're mean whatever they're doing you have to not hate them you have to find a way to make peace with them you can't just hate them for no reason you have to find a way to make peace with them somebody says hello to you you say hello back somebody wants to play play whatever it is but be nice to each other no that's number one number two if somebody is a rash and they make fun of you and they insult you even if they're not but they're doing something that do and they make fun of you and they do something mean to you you should know we have a m to all of these Generations that if you do not respond to the insult if you do not respond to the embarrassment you are saving your life you now have a very very big present in sh that hasm wants to give you and once you pass that testm will give you that prism before hasem gives us a big present he gives us a big test if we pass the test we get big present so the daughter of needed food gave her food after she passed the test the daughter of you needed to continue living she passed a test he gave her more life many many more years is is counted in the par one after another to show that all of us are beloved to hasem but we have to also remember that we have to be beloved to each other you have to love each other but even in a case where somebody's acting not in such a nice way we don't have to fight back oh he said this to me I'm going to say something bad to him again and then it goes back and forth somebody did something NY to you don't respond and guess what Hashem will send you a present Hashem will send you a very very big present much bigger than the stickers and the cars of the RAB much bigger big presents but hopefully we don't need people to do vetting stares for us to get presents hopefully sees how much to we learned how many good things we do anyway that we don't need this but if it ever happens we know that even those things are for our benefit even those things are for us to be able to get a big big sh a big reward that wants to give us and we just need to pass that test okay does anybody have any questions no you understood the story so we're all going to so you guys tell me what's one thing from the story that that uh you know you learned from that you're going to do or that you really really like somebody being nasty very good very good Leo very good okay anybody else V pray very good anybody else me yes um to not I respond when somebody uh is nasty very good okay okay very good all right anybody you anything okay not complain not argue not argue very good Le okay shalom shalom very very good okay the prophet says that okay let's say thank you to for giving us the holy Tora and giving us opportunities he give us the ability to get close them we say big thank you to has big thank you to sh and then I'll give you guys another little sticker that you guys like so much one two 3 [Music]