The Best Kind Of Embarrassment | TORAH FOR KIDS AI

Shalom about 80 years ago. He asked he needed somebody to come help him raise money for his yeshiva. So he looked at this young rabbi Tommy Kam. He told him, "Why don't you come help me raise some money for uh for the yeshiva?" And he saw the guy was very worried. Why? Even it's very embarrassing to raise money. Somebody asked me today, "How come I give anytime somebody comes to my door, I give the money? I don't have much money, but anybody someone comes to my door, I make it a policy my whole life. Anybody comes to me to for money, I give them something. I give him a dollar, give him $5, give him $10, depending on what I have. When I was rich, I had more. When I don't, whatever I have. This student of was scared. He was scared. Why? He didn't want to be embarrassed. He had cav and he didn't want to go doortodoor asking people, please give me money. He didn't want to do it. Shalom. Said, "Listen, I've seen your face. that you are scared to come with me because you think oh you want to get embarrassed you should know if you're supposed to be embarrassed that was decreed in heaven already which means if you're going to not come with me that embarrassment IS GOING TO COME TO YOU FROM your wife from your job from your students from the store clerk it's going to happen anyway what do you want your wife to come in the middle of the street to, you know, start yelling at YOU BECAUSE YOU FORGOT SOMETHING HER BIRTHDAY. WHAT DO YOU want one of your students to embarrass you because you forgot the answer? He's telling everybody you forgot the answer. What do you want the store clerk to stay? Listen, this guy been buying stuff from me for the last two weeks. He hasn't paid me. This broke guy. You want that embarrassment to come that way? At least if you're going to get embarrassment, wouldn't it make sense to have it for? Meaning that a person needs to understand everything comes from Hashem. Even that embarrassment, even the bad stuff, it comes from Hashem. If you think of things that way, that already solves half your problems. That already solves half your problems. Why? Because you realize the good and the bad both come from Hashem. The [snorts] stick and the staff both are from Hashem. That's what David says. So now when a person doesn't think that way, his life turns into just one big curse. Jeremiah says his person is cursed. Why? Because he's constantly turns himself into a victim. All the things that are bad that are happening to him, he thinks it's bad happening to him. Like he's the one that it's happening to. this woman didn't give him a tip after three months and this guy didn't uh pay him his money back and this this thing happened to him. He's a victim, but in reality he doesn't realize all of it is from Hashem. Hashem is doing all of these things in order to guide you to where he wants you to be thank 1 2 3 1 2 3 [screaming] >> [music] >> Beacious.