To experience INTIMACY, the woman MUST feel safe

when a woman feels safe then intimacy on all levels I know when we use the word intimacy we mean a specific thing we use it as euphemism and I mean that as well obviously but I'm saying real bonding can happen on every level so it's just good advice for a man and if you have the type of relationship hopefully where you can communicate openly you might even just tell him overtly like listen you're going to be a lot happier making me feel safe than pushing my limits making me feel uncomfortable and in most cases that will work obviously if you're in a situation where that doesn't work where he says no I don't care what makes you feel uncomfortable you know then there are bigger issues unfortunately but then it's good to at least have clarity about that