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welcome everybody welcome back to the
yemen i'm bate midrash welcome home to
torah a warm
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tsudaka as we all know that fila
right that
and
repentance and prayer as well as
this is the holy trinity in judaism
right
chuva
te fila
and sadaka can what
many different words are used malvirin
removes and knows
tears up
destroys an evil decree
in bizrat hashem we have such
hopes and aspirations for this coming
year
so let's uh let's plug in
for those three i'll just call it again
i just like the way it sounds the holy
trinity and judaism
yeah it just sounds so nice
right
okay so we're in chapter 28 of
deuteronomy
and these are two verses now if you're
not familiar with this verb these two
verses
you should be
right one of the things i also want to
mention is we try to teach or let's say
we learn torah we learn hebrew besides
torah
right hebrew so i
implore you on
the in the description box below there's
also a link to the website where we have
the
original
hebrew source sheets
so if you're if you're following it with
us now put your finger on the place you
have to put your finger on the place
it's not a big source when it's a it's a
tiny paragraph but it's chock full
of very important ideas
and we're going to start with verse two
even though we're going to go back to
verse one the clea car by the way that's
the uh the perush that's the commentary
we're using for this discussion
he begins with verse two and i'll go
back to verse one in a second
and all these blessings will come upon
you and cleave to you i don't really
like that word if this is a translation
if you obey the lord your god we'll
leave it as cleave but you'll see in
hebrew
we're going to see the word
means it's coming to you
what does it mean it's coming to you
these these these blessings
this goodness
is chasing after you
it's coming to you
all of these blessings
now that's the word that we translated
here as cleaving to you
it really it's not a bad translation
i would say they overtake you
they overcome you they reach you
but let's say they overtake you because
remember they're coming to you they're
actually chasing you can you imagine
living a life where the broncos are
chasing you
and and you're you're proceeding forward
and
they're they're coming after you
and they're reaching you
kitish
but one second there is a caveat
there's a condition
and that is that you listen to the voice
of hashem your god
okay
that's the first verse we're going to
deal with and let's go into the cleo car
itself
he says
now we didn't even see that word yet
somehow or another this concept
that we will be
the jewish people those people who
listen even non-jews to a certain extent
if they cling to the jewish people
whether they're full converts or they
are righteous no heights there's some
level
that will filter down to them as we'll
see later on
bieni and hayotam el yona called
that the jewish people will be
considered
i'm going to use the word that is mostly
like translated as elion
supreme
now what it really means is over and
above el yon
okay way above
let's use the word supreme
on all the nations of the world now
don't kill the messenger i'm reading the
torah like everyone else is reading it
okay this is what it says
and then he brings us back to verse one
because verse one that means chapter 28
verse 1
it will be if you obey the lord your god
to observe to fulfill all his
commandments which i command you this
day
the lord your god will place you supreme
above all the nations of the earth
word for word
right the last part is
hashem will place you
he's going to place you now what the
clear car will do is
i guess compare
in verse 2
it's coming after you
in verse 1 it's dependent on hashem
hashem is the one is the actor
in verse
two
it's the block itself that's acting
i hope that's clear
okay
so as the cleo car now describes
what we just read back in verse 1 where
god says i am going to make you
el yon
that is hashem hashem is doing
um
but then
as verse 2 says kolha brachas are going
to come upon you
so the word
is
somehow another
the
the brachas themselves
are
coming
on their own on their own maybe hashem
is the one who initiated it and as a
result of being el young all those other
brothers are going to chase after you
keeping that in mind
i believe what he now asks is what we
call a rhetorical question
it has to be how else you're going to
read it
um
who's chasing after
them or who's chasing after whom if the
word being used is they overtake you
they reach you the broncos are chasing
after you it has to be like that and now
he's going to explain why i'm sure
everybody wants the brothers to chase
after them i don't think anybody would
say no
right we want good things who doesn't
want good things
so listen to what he says and this is
going to be a very important part of our
discussion
anyone who's chasing after
now i'm going to translate
as authority
but it could mean greatness
let's just use authority
and everything that comes with it
that authority or greatness is actually
going to run away from you it's going to
flee you're trying to trick to chase
i don't know let's say
you know fame
covet and honor i don't know exactly
what rahra is other than authority but
again everything that comes with it
it's going to run away from you
it's repelled
but someone who runs away from again
authority and everything that comes with
it whether it's honor and fame and maybe
wealth see
has it
so if you're running away from it it
will chase you
now he's going to tell us right now
these next four words which is
hard to understand
but we're going to try
he says
that the actual authority itself
is the source for all the blessings
now i want to translate to a certain
extent the word authority
as responsibility
i would like to i'm not sure if you'll
buy by that
but with authority should come response
i was told as a kid i had a very loving
father
who told me
son
i understand you want privileges
you would love privilege who doesn't
want privileges
but son
along with privileges comes
responsibilities
it just goes hand in hand
it was a wake-up call you know as a
young child to hear such a thing but it
stuck with me
so hasra whatever
is
royalty
being supreme being on top
being in authority
that's the source of all the blessings
and we all know and i don't have to tell
you i go through isaiah from chapters in
the late you know 40s all the way 42
let's say until 50
israel is called my servant yaakov my
servant
a servant it's not just
lower than the master
it's someone who has responsibilities
shay root
right is service
right we are of service and therefore we
serve in fact
even the word
if you think about it we call minister
asar
like you know what i mean you take the
i'm not a linguistic one of those guys
that go into the hebrew etymologies what
it sounds like there's a there's a
interesting
uh
coincidence right is that's how we say
it
now listen to what this he says like
this
now there's a there is a midgestand
let's stop here a second let's discuss
it
i have it on the english source sheets
number three
it's very long i already cut out a lot i
only want to talk about what i
underlined
okay and so that means you have to go to
the very bottom of page one
am i right did i skip something did i
not do something right
i think we have to start in the
beginning i don't know why i didn't
underline it okay start in the beginning
the lord called to moses vikra right
leviticus 1 1
interestingly what does it mean vayikra
we would translate that as called but it
also means to greet it also means to
come forward hashem went towards moshe
in other words in the discussion someone
opened the discussion someone which is
god approached the yikra it's it's
concept of approaching
okay so so god is approaching moshe what
do we know about moshe
he is or it says he wrote it but he says
in the torah that he is the most
enough
the most humblest humblest person
whoever you know what i mean like in the
world whoever was and ever will be
now look at proverbs 29 23. by the way
if you want to look at it number four
a man's haughtiness will humble him in
other words the what do they say the
bigger you are the harder you fall you
ever heard that expression
sometimes believe it or not we have a
lot of have to have to have a lot of
faith when we see roshaim when we see
evil people prosper
we have to know there's
bone right there's going to be an
accounting right god this world is not
heathcare it's not um
pointless and aimless
there's a judge
and there's a judgment and sometimes
he's building the person up only to
create a greater fall and if those who
are paying attention in the united
states
politics maybe even here any anywhere
just be aware of that never give up
faith and hope but
god has a a tremendous amount of
patience
so
again the bigger you are the harder you
fall keep that in mind anyway what does
it say here in proverbs 29 23 a man's
haughtiness will humble him
but one of humble's spirit
will grasp honor i hope you understand
what we're talking about
right the bigger you are the guy the the
guy the the hardiness of a man causes
him to actually stumble or be humbled
brought down low
whereas the shethel ruach
is a humble of spirit i mean just think
about king david well
that's where and and what is king david
other than
you know the soul of the meshiach to a
certain you know and the seed of
mashiach comes to him and we're going to
talk about all the exile arcs all of the
princes all of the leaders all of what
we call authority
through the jewish people come through
king david
right at the even in the exile
right we're going to talk about yehuda
hanasi and yehuda nasi was from hillel
hill came from king david from yehuda
and
he
we're going to talk about the whole
difference between bake shammai and base
hill
beige shamai and base hilla why do we
possibly like beisham by like who by
base hill instead of big shaman we're
going to talk about that
interestingly enough it comes up in our
discussion tonight but we're still in
the middle in the middle we're in the
beginning of this midterm
iii
where if we brought down the idea of
one's pride will bring him low but the
low in spirit will obtain honor
whenever anyone pursues a position of
authority
authority flees from him
but whenever anyone flees from a
position of authority authority will
pursue him now we're going to skip the
rest at this point about saul
and i want to go down to the bottom
of
this page
moses also fled from authority when the
holy blessed be said and we know
god asked moses to free my people and
what does moses say
i
take someone else take someone else i
can't speak i'm not charismatic
and you know what for seven days hashem
spent with him on
mount moriah and mount moriah
it's a mount khorev
and it has by the way there's seven
names to
sinai and moriah is one of them i didn't
and it was not a frauding slip at all
but moses asked in exodus 14 13
please
please take someone else as your agent
okay
i am a slow of speech and slow of tongue
all these verses are to teach you that
he fled from authority in the end he led
them forth imagine that who who we call
moses our teacher moshe rabeno i mean he
has a title i mean he's more than just
moshe he's moshe raveno
he was the instrument right
the instrument in dividing the sea he
brought us into the desert he brought
down the mana right he brought up the
water for us
right
um and so forth and so on
if you turn the page number two
uh moses fled from authority and it
pursued him
in the fulfillment of what it says in
the verse we just mentioned proverbs 29
there's also a verse in psalms 8 6. this
is talking about
i'm pretty sure it's talking about king
david as well
8 6 do i have it here on the sheet
yeah oh let's talk about moshe okay look
what it says yet you have made him
slightly less than the angels and you've
crowned him with the glory and majesty
who is this pussic talking about rashi
says
when it says you made him slightly less
than the angels which is it right um
no it's number seven on the sheet
uh the english sheep and it's psalms
eight six i hope i got it right
so me elohim right your um
elohim
elohim could mean judges it can mean
angels it can mean god himself
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so the word elohim rashi says is an
expression of angels for you gave power
to joshua to still still the sun and to
dry up the jordan and to moses to split
the waters of the sea of reeds and to
ascend to the heavens and to elijah to
resurrect the dead so we're not talking
about only motion we're talking about
people like moshe we're talking about
good jews really good fine you deem
okay let's go back into
the clear car we basically talked about
this majestan
mentioning that the sarah itself is the
makur is somehow the source for all the
blessings
so if you're running away from it it's
going to chase you it's you have to
think metaphysically
like magnets like you're
i don't even know how to explain it
but kima shikana avid konorabo now we're
going to talk about this in a certain
sense whatever the slave let's say the
servant the one who's employed
whatever he acquires
the master acquires
so let's say for example we don't have
slavery today right
but let's imagine and you have to know
what slavery even is and i have a little
um a few
interesting paragraphs at the end in the
english describing it it's an
unfortunate situation okay we're talking
about for a jew
a jew who's a slave because he either
was a thief and he didn't have any money
to pay back or he didn't have the
original thing he stalled to return
and he'll become um
we don't have jails which is a good
thing so it's basically rehabilitation
the person is not fit for
society maybe he's a kleptomania
whatever it is he stole something and he
no longer has any money to pay it back
and there has to be restitution so he's
basically sold by the bait then
okay
so the the money it's like win-win the
money will go to the person who was uh
um affected by the thievery
the
the the person buying him
or let's say it's a it's a lease
is basically has to treat him with such
respect
there's so many laws of what a jewish
slave how he's kept
okay that he can the own the jewish
owner cannot do with him anything he
wouldn't himself do
he can't give him degrading uh work
okay if he only has one pillow he has to
give it to the the slave
he's to feed him when he's feeding
himself there's so many laws not getting
into it now
um or someone is just so like a
miscanned so poor and has no way to take
care of himself he will also sell
himself
but it's a win-win for everybody okay
let's put that aside when it comes to a
non-jewish slave believe it or not a jew
cannot basically
go ahead and make a non-jewish slave
that's a big misunderstanding
you can take someone from the market
who's already being sold who's already a
slave and you can take him and again
there's you're elevating him first of
all for many reasons because he's like
semi-jewish speak circumcised and you
have to treat him with respect as well
not on the same levels that you were
slave but if you would hit him for
example
and would wound him in one of different
ways he's free
you just invested what twenty thousand a
hundred thousand dollars who knows how
much it cost
you lost your money so you better treat
that person with a lot of respect
the point is this that if you had a
slave and he was walking down the street
and he found the gold watch in a case
where he didn't have to return it
did he acquire it
no he you acquired it because he's an
extension of you it's like your property
keeping this in mind whatever acquire is
acquired by the slave
actually the owner the the master
acquires
now keeping that in mind he says
now we have an understanding when it
says when god says i'm going to place
you
as supreme hashem himself
god your god will place you supreme
above all the nations
to a certain extent there's this
relationship we are god's
i'm going to use the
you know what these are right as if
right
slaves we are god's servant
on the other hand and this may sound
very controversial
that's what's happening with the rest of
the world
they're here ultimately to serve god but
through the jewish people in other words
they're gonna what does it mean to serve
us
to assist us and to help us with our
mission
back to the seven no laws i speak about
this a lot the rambam says there's a
difference between the
different types of
one is called haside
and the other type is called
believe in the jewish mission
they believe that the torah is given to
the jews in mount sinai that it's a
unique gift to them and they buy into
the whole mission and they support the
jewish people in that mission as
non-jews
and they go to heaven
because they believe in god and they
believe in heaven
they believe in the torah
and then there's
who came to the the realization of these
seven laws out of logic
just pure logic makes sense
but they don't believe necessarily in
god
and they may not buy into the jewish
mission here
but the main point is they don't believe
in in the in the torah being from god
and therefore everything else falls by
the wayside just as well they have a
nice life in this world
they will be blessed
they will get a reward
for doing the right thing and behaving
but they will not see heaven there is no
eternality there is no ulam
i mean it's just a sad thing so they
might as well learn some torah and try
to figure out if it's really true or not
and then
you know what i mean you might as well
your whole life
in the world to come depends on it
anyway keeping that in mind
god will place you over them
they on a certain level also and
whatever they acquire on a certain level
we acquire whatever we acquire
ultimately is hashems but let's go on
he says kizer
this type of authority
is not something that is so fitting for
you even we're talking to the jews
to seek out and to try to grasp
we're talking about honor we're talking
about wealth whatever it is obviously
responsibility is something you have to
take
me come
nevertheless god is the one giving it to
you
you are running away from authority in
the sense of
like i said honor
and
wealth nevertheless god is coming after
you he's chasing he's giving it to you
um
and from that moment onward
has
so from that point onward that authority
will be chasing you it will be chasing
after you and if you want to use the
original word cleaving to you overtaking
you
overcoming you
now as a result of that agav
has
a result the authority itself is coming
to you on its own
remember we saw the difference between
verse one and verse two it's coming on
its own it's bringing along with it all
those brachot all the goodness
meaning as a consequence
the authority
will be chasing after you
what happens as a result all of those
blessings are chasing after you
without you chasing them there's no need
you're going to be overwhelmed
with all those brachos hashem
agave
they're going to
cleave to you or they're going to
overcome you by way of this authority
and now he ends with i told you it's
going to be very short
so he says
basically
you're acquiring this authority
um
you're acquiring all the brachas by way
of the authority
shall call goyaris that you are going to
have over all the nations of the earth
and he ends up with that statement i
said before kima shikana edward conorabo
now it's on that other level because
what the servant that lower sphere
whatever they have you acquire
now that's a pretty big trip to tell
these jewish people you know
but the question is
let's talk about another
a new because that is what moses in
capsule encaptured he was able to
perfect it
so i want to take you on a little
journey
to um
you don't have it in front of you but
it's in gemara a reuven
and it's on page
bet
if you want to pick it up on safaria
please do
um so it's right before the new mishna
begins but it wants to tell us
that there were
three years that bashan mind-based
hillel
argued they were in a dispute for three
years
these
there were those that followed
hillel there were those that followed
shammai
and then a boss call came out
a uh what's a boss called by the way
it's very interesting a bosco is a voice
from heaven that's how we translate it
it's not a physical voice that you hear
it's a voice that one hears inside their
head
it's a type of prophecy
what happens is this
right you would all think after reading
all the different stories about the boss
call that everyone just heard a voice
coming out of heaven
no
everybody who heard that voice not
everyone heard it but those that did
could all say
i came to the conclusion this is the
truth because i heard it
from heaven
it wasn't an objective voice that
anybody else could hear it was only
something you could hear
and therefore
you came to the conclusion based on
having conversation i heard it you heard
it you heard it that's called a bosco we
all heard the same thing
but it wasn't a objective out external
voice i just want to read a comment here
about what a bosco is
bas kohi madriga
kodesh it is a level
no you don't have it on there uh it is a
level of
kodesh
the next level above that is called what
we had the on the breastplate of the
coin guttal it lit up it basically
didn't speak but it lit up and told over
uh answers
hasselhoff like a lahav deal like a
ouija board
right but it um it had letters
and it had yes and no it was able to
trans um transmit a message
through uh through the lights
wherein futurmim that's a level of
prophecy
lamala mayhem dargah to nuvua then we
had what we call prophecy now all of
these
have the general
label of prophecy but obviously
navua that's what we call prophecy and
the other is rural kokodish means the
holy spirit
is a lower level of prophecy it's not
prophecy itself i know i'm probably
confusing everybody hang in there
there's a general term we call prophecy
and then there's specifically levels and
one of them is called prophecy and we
know what that is
and then he says
the gam akasha
at the time that we no longer had
prophecy we still had ruach kodesh basko
is basically rukha kurish and we we call
the basque home we all receive
the same
level of kurdish
so the government continues
and it says
this
famous expression which really we would
require a whole shear in itself
says that
this side who holds this argument and
that side that holds that argument
they're both true
they're both the words of the living god
however the the gomorrah here says
halachika base hello the boss kohl said
the law goes like base hillow the
question is why now hillel has the
authority by the way
right they weren't chasing it in fact
hillel followed big shot by one of the
reasons that we possibly like base
shammai
ah nobody's correcting me the reason we
passed lake base hill and not like
beishan mai is the gore is going to tell
us why
right
so listen to this
after the fact that we say they're both
true
names
what exactly is the reason why the
vipassana like hillel
the first reason given
youth right they were
what is that what does noisy mean
they were kind they were peaceful they
were pleasant
they were pleasant people to be around
and
a losing eluting means enough they were
another
haiyu
that's who they were the shoni the
second reason
is shonin the freehand device am i
basically means code them right they
always taught over the opinion of the
other guy how could you do that if you
didn't understand it so they went out of
their way to learn everything the other
guy in this case beijing had to say
they didn't
they didn't know vazel they didn't miss
alzail the words of their opponents
but
they they try to understand it and give
over
counter arguments with respect below not
only that elisha mcdee means
they always gave over the other side
first
meaning first of all every mishnah
who wrote the mishnahs he will i'm sorry
rebbie rebbie who's from base hillel so
you always see
shamai comes before hillel i think in
every case except one there's a reason
why okay so you always see big shamai
says and then hillel says
even he kept that tradition
okay i don't really know i want to skip
a little bit down to the other place
so
i'm skipping a little bit in the gamora
but it says like this
why do we again why are we pascaning uh
setting the halakha like base hillel
anyone who what is mashpeel
brings himself down
i don't know what that means but
basically no
has a certain amount of humility
especially towards hashem which who is
hashem his stamp is truth god stamp is
truth and that
so you're you're fighting for truth use
some humility here
kris barco
so if you lower yourself hashem will
raise you up
the cold hammach
but anybody on the other way is trying
to raise themselves up
with gaiver
towards hashem
god will bring that person down
okay he goes on i'm not sure we'll talk
he goes like this the more continues
if you reach right
if you're trying to reach greatness
the greatness itself that's why i said
what is what does it mean it must mean
kavod you're looking for honor you're
looking for wealth looking for authority
everyone has to listen to me i'm the
boss
you don't do what i say get out of my
store i mean
chicola max
but if you run away from this thing
called gdula which is greatness
then the
greatness is going to chase after you
okay there's a few other very
interesting pieces i just want to skip
that for now i want to just talk about
some of the comments the gemara mentions
and there's really a lot here and i know
that i think i bore everybody
but i want to mention um
what does it mean a little of the
eluding
i use this example with my students i
take a bottle let's say it's coca-cola
or if you like something better nesty
iced tea whatever it is
now of course there's 360 degrees right
but you and me you and i are going to
discuss
what we're going to come to an absolute
truth
what does this bottle look like and i
will describe it but you realize i can't
see from your side the label goes around
it's not exactly the same on both sides
so i'll describe it
which i think is true
you'll describe it and you're for sure
that's true
now what i could do is try to understand
your side
because then i'll get a better picture
of what it really is
and if you do the same with me you'll
get a better picture of what it is
so there's a certain amount of trust
integrity
that you have and i have the a-level of
you very looking high only together two
heads are better than one as it says in
in proverbs right that we'll be able to
actually get a better picture of the
true reality and objective reality in
fact i sent a cartoon to a friend of
mine this week there was somebody
standing over number six and there was
somebody else standing on the other side
and they were arguing one was saying for
sure it's a six the other one's saying
for sure it's a nine
and there was you know a conflict there
but if you try to understand there is
another perspective and i want to try to
understand it you may actually learn
something what do we say who is a wise
person
someone who learns from everyone
i mean that's true humility because it
means i have something i can learn from
you it says every man
who's why someone learns from every man
right you're not the same color as me
you're not the same
status in society as me you didn't go
the same school as me right i went to
harvard and you went to who knows what
whatever right i went to mit and you
only went to harvard or yale but
whatever right i don't know how all
these
different
conflicts right
some you can even learn how
you know the opposite in other words you
can reach between the lines too
someone who's you know scoundrel you
know listen to you know learn from them
what not to do
you know you can learn from everybody
and that's true humility
albert einstein was asked by a certain
student so
the student i don't know exactly how it
worked it was a story i heard but let's
just say he was taking another course
and
by albert einstein so you already took
the course before he already
i'm going to say aced the test but he
already took the test and he says to his
professor albert einstein
you gave out the same test
as you gave last year
so what did albert einstein say to him
this is pretty humbling
for albert einstein
he said
yes you're right it's the same test as
last year but the answers are different
how do you get to that point where you
can say that
think about a basting the basting goes
by whatever is greater in hakma
or or or mispar let me just go through
it
so what does that mean hakama or ms bar
how do you determine that
so basically mispar means age
you're going to go like a bastion that's
all 70 year olds or based in what's all
30 year olds so you're going to say
we'll go with the one in miss parr miss
bar of age
what about hakma
remember the basic difference between
bass hillel and beishamai is basically
comes down to this
argument misspar means number
now number can mean age but it can also
mean rove and it usually does and that's
how we passkin they had a majority
that's how we possibly can right it says
in the torah do not follow the majority
for evil
and we know that means yes follow the
majority to do good
so you follow the based in
to do whatever they say
so when it says misbar there's one
interpretation it means age
but that's too similar to wisdom we all
we we do assume it's not always true the
older you are the wiser you are
so there is an opinion now beisham was
harif they were so
exacting
harifut is not necessarily the right way
to go
hillel
was
as we said already they were noah
they were
humble
but what brought them i mean it had to
do with a personality had to do with his
relationships with his
students as well
not saying he was mr popular
but he got more students in the end
and that's why so in other words when it
says miss sparr it's going according to
the amount of students you have
he was the party i don't know the
numbers just imagine you have one school
with a million students in another
school with 15 or 20.
so anyway you you that's how you get
i'm sorry to say
we're passing this is true
based on majority
so doesn't it pay
to work on your character besides the
fact that anyway
the bill negone says the whole purpose
of life
is tikkun amidos is to work on your
middles you know our souls could be old
souls we're here because we didn't
finish we didn't
complete
something perhaps in an earlier life or
maybe earlier part of our
own lives and god's giving us
opportunities to to to complete and
perfect ourselves
i just want
so much to tell and i just want to go to
one one other idea
um brings down
what exactly is the relationship this
idea of a myla tana
lipsa
how can you say that if you're humble
you got the truth
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how can we say that you know this if
you're humble
you're going to have the truth
so
the base yosef explains
he says like this
it's not such a big
it's not you shouldn't have such a
problem figuring this out
now i have to try to understand what
these words are saying
because humility itself is such a good
media
it will overturn anything negative
it has the power to overturn
negativity
could just mean to overturn even the
truth i don't know
elisha
but he goes on he says because of this
humility
that you will end up in the direction of
truth you will end up with a true
outcome
try to imagine a personality that is
just so pleasant
and so humble
nobody would ever
try to argue with you
and that's what it says lo mit are
nobody would come to mix in and to argue
from an aspect of a conflict to stand by
their words
they would acquiesce
i always say this
to fight evil or to fight hate
you can do with love now obviously we
don't turn the other cheek right we
don't turn the other cheek
got that we don't turn the other cheek
but
how do you fight an evil eye
when people have jealousy when you know
be humble
exude love
it's not easy it's a big test and i
don't pass it all the time trust me
but when there's an evil eye when
there's jealousy when there's whatever
it is
just smile
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try to show some some love and i don't
mean turn the other cheek please don't
get me wrong we're not gonna lie down
right there's a time to fight there's a
time to take up arms
ella cole de vray and amit lagamre
but what happens is their words are
absolute truth
that's why the is going to end up like
them now there's an interesting footnote
on that
ayan laholan
the mahara comments on the rest of the
gemara
regarding the indian showing him the
rayham divre bay shamai
remember we said that hillel would
always try to learn the other side first
they would always put the other side
first i mentioned to somebody otherwise
today yesterday
it's not easy
you know that you're right
but you know what you say to the other
person i really want to understand what
you're saying and try to repeat back
then because if you can't repeat it back
to them then you don't understand what
they're saying and you know what
sometimes they're just saying such
foolish things and there's no point in
trying to fill your head with this i get
it and that's where you have to make
some borders but if the person has
integrity and they're a thinking person
why not you engage them try to
understand because they may not be an
argument
ma rosh shiva revenge weinberg always
said most arguments
most
i i would say almost all
is usually just
the definitions you don't have the
definitions once you try to define
like this person is saying something and
you think he's saying something else you
haven't defined it but once you define
you realize oh we actually agree
most cases once you define the words
that you're trying to you think you're
arguing about you find that you're not
arguing at all
anyway so he says like this
he's holding this is the very reason
that the humble person reaches the true
verdict
because he's always concerned for
himself that maybe what shema and me
you want to get to the truth then you
have to dig into the other person's
brain
it'll only confirm if you're right it'll
confirm everything you you know is true
but until you get to that point you have
to be concerned maybe you're wrong
maybe you're wrong
i'll just read again
check out well the opinion that's
arguing with you the other side
until you reach the ultimate truth
anyway we'll we'll end there i know we
went much further than we wanted to on
the one hand you know we also
skipped a lot but i hope that the lesson
is clear
what's the lesson
the lesson is well there's a lot
first of all true first of all
it sounds like you know
the jews are supreme why why why
unbelievable
no
yes and no i mean the torah says it
the torah says it but it's coming from
we are the servants and by being the
servants and i'm employing every jew i'm
asking every jew out there
you can join us to be true servants of
hashem be an avid hashem
and the brokers are going to chase you
right do you want to oh how come they're
not chasing me well first of all we're
all so collective and unfortunately it
may be true that collectively we're not
on the level we should be on and we're
all sharing we're in this together so
that's why i'm asking you to lift
yourselves up it's going to help me i'll
try to lift myself up it's going to help
you and we're all this together
right michael michael rose rode the boat
right if there's a hole under my seat
it's going to sink the boat so let's
plug up
right let's learn torah
let's elevate ourselves this restaurant
is coming up
right truva
prayer te fila and of course
sadaka so i'll end with this note here's
an opportunity elevate yourself by
helping elevate others
culture have a great life and welcome
home to torah we'll see you next week
mizrat hashem
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