Tisha B'Av: Why Are We Weeping? - Rabbi Yitzchak Breitowitz

[Music] there is an interesting observation that difference for make regarding the difference between the way we commemorate mourning for private bereavement and the way we commemorate your observed mourning for the carbon based on McDuff when it comes to private morning person loses a relative then the availa starts off very very humble and then it progressively gets easier with the passage of time we have Shiva where the of L does not even leave his house and then we have lotion where things are much easier and for most relatives that is the end and then for parents this kid base clay dish but basically we go from the Camorra to the college ma Shane came when it comes to the time of year that we commemorates the mourning over the base of Macduff things start off relatively easy we have the three weeks so we don't get haircuts we don't make weddings and then the nine days it's more severe than the week of Tish above and then area of tissue bug with the crescendo of tissue both so the trajectory of mourning goes from the Kyle to the Hummer instead of from the Hummer to the cowl and one of the reasons that's given is that the purpose of the morning is a very very different thing when a person loses a relative loses a loved one the Derrick cloud their life is shattered they are so paralyzed with grief that they don't see any way they can resume life they feel they cannot go on as a results one of the purposes of availeth is to habituate yourself laugh lahat to become healed so you will be able to observe a normal life so you start off with Shiva in which people come to you you don't even leave your house and then that you get psychologically stronger as you experience a certain sense of internal healing you're able to step outside put your toe in the water and then eventually you can go to sim Chris and eventually you can interact with people so the whole purpose of availeth is to take us from a paralyzing grief that shatters our all of existence to be able to eventually live again because it is the resolution that a person lives again it is the ruts on a Shannon that life has to go on because one who says are you more rahman that are you more of a recommended me a person has to live you never you never forget your grief but at the same time you as long as Hashem has given you life you have enough rights to live a constructive and productive and a good life so the surveillance goes from the comer to the cow because the whole tactless of availeth is to heal us so we will be able to rejoin life when it comes to the Corbin day some mikdash we have very much of an opposite problem how many people cannot get up in the morning because there are so to rough him over the Corbin based on McNish that they can't get out of bed that would be a relatively new excuse not to make governing in the mornings I just can't I can't I'm broken I'm shattered I'm paralyzed I can't eat I can't think it's very much the other way around we don't even know what it is that we are supposed to be sad about just as if a person was born blind they could never understand color if a person was born deaf they cannot really understand music we don't even know what it is that we don't have we don't even know what it is that we are missing after all you know the aftermath of the Six Day War when we're Bertha Shane we regained the old city of you shall I am and the Hajra bias and there were people who actually said even within the Orthodox world they were saying you know this prayer are not claimed going to say admin time and we talked about Hashem rebuilding the city hakurei VAR that is destroyed absolute yeah that is humiliated that is burnt that is show mein ma that is desolate and people raised the question what do you mean desolate British only you shall I am in British enema you see tiger you shall I mean you see children in your salon is it true that we can talk about car Ava bazoo Yash I'm a mom so there were people who actually suggested that maybe we have immense the broth of not saying to reflect in temporary conditions but once again this reflects the blindness the deafness of not even knowing what it is that we don't have the generation that experienced the Cortlandt they knew what they were losing that's why they couldn't eat meat literally they felt they couldn't eat meat they couldn't drink wine until the condom told them listen you have to go on with life otherwise you're not gonna eat water drink water because there's no needs to come I am so you have to live but intrinsically and instinctively they literally couldn't eat the loss was so devastating that they literally had no desire for the pleasures of this world but today what do you say that we're morning what is it that we're crying what is it that we don't have you know again it's a six-day war they say when the site religious scale in got to the chi cell and they were crying they were so and one hands happy and in the other hand they were able to truly mourn the Corbin base of mikta so they were crying both tears of joy and tears of sadness at the same time so the story goes there was the peony soldier a non-religious soldier who also began crying and when his friend said to him even somewhat mockingly what are you crying about what does this wall represent to you it has no meaning to you whatsoever and his response which is not becoming kind of entered Israeli folk culture his response was I'm crying because I don't know why they are crying and the truth of the matter is this is not just the responsible so VB soldier this is us we ought to cry if someone asked us was eminence what do I do if I can't cry over the Corbin based on Nick - he said cry over the Corbin of our neshama that cannot be Margit what it means not to have a base of measure the base of make this is not just a nice building yes it is true that's what I'll say anyone that didn't see Harrods mikdash never saw a beautiful building in his life but beautiful buildings we have we have beautiful buildings right now the base of Nick just represents a relationship with God a closeness to out of this world a sense of intimacy a sense of love and if our hearts are so blocked and so stopped up that we don't even know the meaning of that loving relationship then indeed we are lost we are bereft and for that as the spy Simon Says that is enough of a reason to cry and therefore going back to the original question the reason why our vaneless moves in an opposite trajectory from the cow to the farmer is that the goal of our bailiffs over the Corbin is not to take us out of our griefs a weak weak we can reenter normal life that's not our problem it's to put us into a frame where perhaps external deprivation will get us in a frame of mind where we realise what it is that we've lost the point is not to get out of the grief the point is to get into the grief because our default setting is we don't feel anything at all we don't know what it is that we don't have this is an awesomely difficult problem a problem that all of us struggle with you know they say rebellion up young I was already a sucking he was already in Hades he began saying he couldn't cut subs he began getting up at midnight and saying the prayers for the Corbyn based on Macduff so somebody asked him you know you're 80 years old why are you doing chicken cut sauce so he said that after 120 years we go up to shamayim so the Malakand that make us give an accounting of our lives go through every page of Shannara to check out what did we keep what didn't we keep did you keep this 11 so he says like this he says if something is like Simmon tougher ation of six 600 chapter 600 alright so by then if I didn't keep something there I already have a track record but simin olive the first simin of the show Canara says there's a mitzvah to worry and be concerned and sad over the Corbyn if I fail something that's on page one I'm really in trouble so I got me fifty concise because that's already page one of the chauffeur Newark submits with the whole year it's not only teachables but this is a time that we focus so we have to think what does it mean to have a relationship with God what does it mean that these Carver's - the strainer what does it mean to feel awesome love what does it mean to be connected and what is it that I'm missing because I'm not connected and then a person feels a yearning and the person feels a lack and a person feels a piece of it and that itself brings gola everyone knows the famous Gomorrah that Mashiach is born on tissue box and the morale says it does not mean that the birthday of the human being will be mushy the night the mouth yes you have other birthdays indeed mm elif's birthday was not the ninth of us but it means the kya that brings mushiya into the world that's the birth of machine that which brings mushiya into the world is the yearning that we have for his car vez to hashem and for gula that is reflected by how we feel on teachables the more we yearn for our Kurdish border the more the Kyoto Allah comes into the world the shiva's mentioned many times the beautiful thunders were putting her when her put her was asked what was it that he missed about Chris Lawrence and reflector says he missed the yearning for Eretz Israel what's the shot we know the English saying absence makes the heart grow fonder in some ways my rehook from Hashem in itself creates a tremendous ascaris direction it creates a yearning a desire for attachments you're in Eretz Israel in Yerushalayim paradoxically you take it for granted even when there's a basin macness you can take it for granted if there's any Brocklin godless it may be precisely by realizing our reflect that creates a machine a ticket Cuba's the passion of wanting to be connected and therefore that's what the morale says is the meaning that mushiya is born on Tisha birth itself that might be the connection as well why the first day of Pesach on tisha Bob around the same the week you could look at it in a negative way that's less but safe see me miss Ryan we had you'd see us with Rahim and now look at but say see me you shall I am we messed up a beautiful day but the other way of looking at it is that the a valence of tissue bug can bring the Gullah sita which is called Khmer Aaron Smith's Ryan by rendering a flouse Hashem will show us wonders likeness Ryan so in a sense from the but say see me or shall I am we can come to but say see me miss Ryan once again so these are my chakras that we have to think about the yearning to be with the Kailash bottom in fact in deeds because I'll tell us that after 120 years one of the questions we will be asked in the basin Shamala is CP solely issue ax CP silly issue it does not mean did you believe in mushiya academically I could believe in all the agimo vCard of the round on life of course I believe in bhashya I believe in to TSM Mason see peace of the issuer is not asking what do you believe what do you yearn for what do you want what do you desperately desire in your life Hashem will ask us do we want Yeshua no they tell the joke and the joke is maybe not so not even so funny because there's a lot of truth to it about a person who had been planning his retirement for quite a long time is them again and then go on a vacation and the day before it was retirements machine comes so he was quite annoying he talked it's life you know I mean I'm happy but she is here but you know the timing is lousy he kept us waiting for 2000 years I want to go in a two-week vacation couldn't he wait another two weeks unfortunately in some different levels this might be sometimes the way we think we think is well the Guarani Monaco's tells the story at the time of the Romans destroyed the second temple they sent in a Jew and renegade you Yosef mushiya obviously not a very righteous person they told them go into the base on Macduff take out some stuff and whatever you take out you'll be able to keep they wanted a Jew did that's a great example so Yosef yeshiva comes in and he comes out with de manera de midnight right so the Romans said well we're not gonna let you keep that I mean they're of solid gold which was quite quite valuable he says go in and take something else so yes of mushiya refused to go and he says I'm not going in again and you know he was tortured he was killed he died all kiddush Hashem and the Punnett that Europe said what exactly happened here the guy was perfectly willing to go in and he even wanted the menorah all of a sudden he's told he has to go in a second time they're gonna kill him if he doesn't go in and he dies all kiddush Hashem what was the difference between the first time that he went in willingly with enthusiasm and the second time where he'd rather die than do it a second time and the part of it Europe says that the very experience of being in the mikdash changed him it changed him that was the base of McNish the kedusha Sonic Josh was much beyond him that that which he was perfectly willing to do when he was minutes when he was outside now became absolutely unthinkable even at the pain of death and indeed the Nuggets ESCO when they never accessible describes the third base of mikdash the by she-she-she Burnett premier of Romania we should be safer to the Binion abayas so he describes a certain ritual a certain how locker that's very interesting now there are many gates to the Ozora of the base of mikta the Mishna says there are seven gates there's another opinion there are thirteen gates because the whole thing the sport did you try that its own gates and if you didn't know your tribe you went into the thirteenth cake and the Ariza writes that that's why there are different News close up it's Fela each shaver has its own Musa and if you didn't know your notes or theory said is no suck would be the Shara clay well first what is their reason of such as a tremendous uncertainty as well but whatever it is there are many many gates five seven thirteen those are the three numbers that we have but the plus success in your testicle that if you enter by ignore them gates you must leave by a southern gate you are not allowed to leave by the same gates that you entered and there's no particular explanation given for that but the more I'm saying that this is symbolic of an important lesser you don't leave the base on Macduff the same way you went in you want transformed you are elevating you are different in other words this physical law is reflective of the spiritual phenomena a person is this hapax a person is transforms I mentioned that during keynotes other times as well the talmud you show me that says every generation in which the base on Mukesh is not rebuilt is that's guilty as the generation of the Corbin itself called or shall own infinitely enough ke Lu natural of the I want to again emphasize how significant this statement is and this statement is a real finish because without the you saw me I would have understood it the following the prior generations committed horrendous of Eros hashem destroyed the base of Makdessi removed to shekinah we are not guilty of the same but we don't have the specialist to bring it back that's how I would learn without you show me your shoddy is saying very very different the Ashanti is saying you don't need a special circus to bring the basin Nick - what you need is not to be guilty of the original sins that we're going the Corbyn because if we wouldn't be guilty of the original sins that our garden the court above it would be never never Yama and therefore the you show me is telling us for when they submit - is not an event that happened it is an event that happens every single day if oz all say the mick - was destroyed because of this of area or that of era it means it is being destroyed today because of that very a favor the basin McDuck is burning this very minute because if we don't have a base of mikdash on the ninth of hours of tough Shin Island s it is because the Ave knows that were gerund the Corbyn are still present in Kuala Israel and the building is being burnt this very second we are destroying we are being martyred well we know of course that the second base of mikdash was never us because of sin Athena hatred polarization dissension McLucas you know it's very very interesting that one of the interesting figures of Jewish history at the time of the Corbin is Joseph in Matisyahu known as Josephus Josephus and sometimes called the Benedict Arnold of the Jewish people because he was a general of the Jewish army that he surrendered to Rome and he spent the years of the war against Rome under the protection of Titus the emperor in Rome himself on the other hand Josephus wrote historical books including historical accounts of the Corvina bias and obviously every single thing he says has to be taken with an enormous grain of salt because he had to be very very careful in what he said because he was literally literally living in Rome at the pleasure of the Emperor but there are certain things that he said that I think have a certain ring of truth because they amplify and correspond with with Kazan tellus he portrays Titus in a much more positive light than we believe and of course obviously he's lying because he had a reason he had to write it that way but he quotes a conversation Titus had with one of his generals in which Titus is reputed to have said you know maybe I don't have to destroy this base on McDuff if I just leave the Jews alone for long enough they will destroy it themselves and Josephus describes a scene in which there were warring factions of Jewish people that were seeking control over Jerusalem different rebels these are what hazael called the Brioni 'm the wild rebellion people and they were shooting arrows against each other from different sides of the Ozora and the Kohanim were ducking the arrows to bringing corbino's so when cuz I'll say there was sin us kingdom of the pious Shanee they don't just mean people weren't nice to each other Jews were fighting Jews and Jews were killing geez this was the cynicism of the bashing but if we ask ourselves are we still guilty of sin Espina you know one does not need a lot of grass I think I could prove it from the you show me a few Sami says learn if maybe I'm of tila neckla be I'm up so it must be we have a Rio way of synesthesia who needs a Rio it's obvious it's clear the divisions between religious and secular division seen religious and religious the hatred the demonization on both sides and this creates a vicious circle gush lamomam ella said already the kata Michal hadn't come I am upon him upon him came labor on the other mats water reflects the face that you show it so to the heart of one human being we flex back that you show it and the Vilma Gong explains the potential Micra that if I look at a reflecting pool of water whatever face I show the pool I'm going to see back I smile at the water I get a smiling face and I frown at the water I get a frowning face says the Vilna Gong interpreting on the left the heart of the human being reflects back that's which we show that person we show that person disdain we show that person beetle denigration they don't matter they don't talent then they will feel the same way about us we show a person respect show person covered we show a person that were Maki er the good that they are doing then they who everything they is I don't want to be Myra they will be macchia as well so we will get different parts of the world and you can divide it anyone whose firmer than than me is a is a fanatic anyone that's less firm than me is a not be chorus whoever me is and we divide the world and to us and them and we created a certain group and the clicking and if you're in the clique you're good and if you're outside of the clique your battle this is sin us FINA this is sinister and sinister Kenan is often than its it rights and then it's it was criticized then it's it rights that often people use sin asking them to look down at other ways that people are trying to serve Hashem because it gives them a sense of superiority and divert and it takes away the arias of flesh bone and ethic of looking into ourselves so I don't have to be Myrick and I don't even want to be my rest in particular regarding with Sinha screen amiss see not screening is not about looking at somebody else and saying oh yes they are guilty of semolina it's about looking at us and asking ourselves how proper have we been towards building to showing towards our to be short show chart showing the sweetness of Tarun the goodness of flavor to make the name of Hashem beloved in the eyes of others and if we write off those others and we say they don't matter that is sin asana and that is the reason for the Corbyn by shaming and called or combined if nebula evil never ever be so if the mikdash is not NIV net its neck river and if it was never over because of sin athena and that means today there is sin us freedom but i want to focus on a different Nikodim actually although this the Kudus is divert I start to think about very very seriously that is the Rambam in the parish omission is says a very interesting thing and you don't tap it the famous rerun it from the camera although the Rambam interprets a kumara this way the Rambam says that the fast of Tish above was observed even during the bias change even when there was a second temple they observed the fast of the ninth of us and the question becomes if the IKAR time is satisha buff is because there's a Corbin bias regime urban bias then when you have a base of Nick - why would you be fasting so the explanation the simplest explanation there there are few explanations actually the simplest explanation is that even when we regained by a shaming we were still mourning the loss of the bias region because there were things in the bias regime that we never regained again for example neva neva was lost at the very beginning of the bias Shanie target area Milwaukee there was no neva really for the vast bulk of the bias shaming the Orem determined by which the Kohen Gadol would would be able to answer questions again a form of avoid so even when we had a by a shame we were still in our valus because we lost the bias region what that means is when we are miserable the base on McDuff even today we are not only thinking about what the Romans did in the year 70 but we're still remembering what the Babylonians did in the year that they destroyed the bias because we never recovered from that the bias Shanee was not the bias region now here's the problem the bias shame he was Nessa because of synesthesia okay Cena Cena but when you say no hi Robin we do have we understand our advisor but the bias riche eyeing was not right because of the worst of a nose of a blazar Amelia Ryan a trapeze was dubbing am i that bad am i guilty of oh boy what's my such banana fish I'm supposed to think about the first place I make - enemy I'm supposed to think about the a virus that caused the quorum of the first base emitter what shyness does not have to me okay Russian haris in Athena I can plead guilty unfortunately a bizarro Amelia right we could stop it I'm not that that in other words what relevance given given the fact that the Rambam tells me I am miss I'll bail the bias tree shine even when I have a body training what type of freshmen do I make visa vie the bias tree showing that's relevant to my life in other words what is my I've waited Delia right so here I just want to give you three Terezin to this question that are somewhat interrelated terrorist number one is that even if I haven't worshiped an idol and even if I haven't murdered somebody and even if I haven't been Rosanna by HTC there are many of a rose that's cause I'll have spiritually equated to those of Amos for example because I'll say call Hawk is anyone that is angry ke Lu evade avodah Zarah cuz I'll say mouthing Pinay of a raper Robin you humiliate somebody publicly a Micaela clear the mapa because I'll say here hooray Avira thoughts of improper sexual behavior could even be worse than the Avera the itself that disease or whatever so here is the thing even if I'm not guilty of a lady Zara have I been angry do I have cos even if I haven't been guilty of murder have I been mildly potentially over Robin I heard a mice again I mean okay it could be I don't know the whole story but just an example of things that happen in the world even in the most highly addictive situations a family that I know not not in this neighborhood they're different different country they were going through a divorce they were divorced unfortunately and the father reported to a teacher a from teacher that the child was not paying improper Kiba da ba keep it up whether it's true or not is not relevant so the teacher was a front for a moment makes an announcement in class that's so-and-so does not respect your father so none of the friends should talk to her you know it's one to use as a method of cleaner to be mouthing Panera vary but Robin it violates every single principle of favor every single principle - where where it's brought down over and over then you do it privately you're not mom and you're not provided and yet this is how it's after being Mulvaney available Robin means nothing today you're doing in the shim sham I am so it hasn't the blood culture so that's what secret my mission ends here who are a are very right again I don't have to be modest in a world that's saturated with with with Internet's and smuts and and every every every step that one takes in the streets good the person if a person's not little bi riots that itself is a tremendous to vicious a hater but here who are a they where there is so so that's terrace number one terrorist number one is that maybe I'm not guilty of mom Misha burgers are an Amish Recife - Julia Reyes but I have cast severa by robin IFA who are availa so I connect indirectly to those of a gross of avodah Zarah give the Orion vehicle stomach by the way the brother Tanya says very beautifully what's the site call a case to evolve a debate of Zara why is anger away good anger is bad bad neither but what makes it a blazing Zara Suk dibala Tanya based on the reversal above us if a person is my man be a muna Salima that everything that happens to him was decreed by the rahbaniya Lila now this is a great theological mystery because on one hand if somebody hurts me he has four theory he has free will Hashem didn't make him do what he did and for his free will he's gonna have to give a denver freshman okay he's not gonna get a free ride on the other hand says the flavor syllabus he wouldn't have been able to hurt me unless it was the will of Hashem for whatever reason we don't know the reason that I'm supposed to be say though a certain amount of her so the flava soul of this actually writes it's impossible for any human being to hurt another human being until and unless it is the gazelle for Tillich part so says the pilot Anya I'm angry at you because you hurt me I'm angry at you you did something bad to me but if I believe it comes from the Rebbe initial over then how can I be angry at you it album I I don't believe through bunny shall island runs the world that's already apartment you're ascribing the running of the world to something other than the replenish eleven o'clock is is therefore te mueves of a desert cane so tissue Baba we can't be marking this the emesis that's an RS I am that that says the opposite direction actually says but Kira can mean that one person can hurt another person without a shame she's a rat but the ballot Anya goes with the chaos all of us okay so that's terrorist number one terrorist number one is yeah I've ladies are a killer right from custom him back even indirectly I have them through cos through mouth pimping a car they right and through here hooray of Ava Terrace number two we know of course everyone has heard of aversive karo they the macabre of the Shannara and it's actually very interesting there's a special little bit of historical cyclist tootisha buff you know when it's brought down that one of the tragedies that happened on Tisha Bob later was it was the final date of the expulsion like the Jews were given their they were told to either convert in 1492 or leave Spain and some Jews converted they became the morano's who tried to keep mitzvahs privately other Jews were forced to leave and their their date of departure was said to be the ninth of us and the only Jew that was given the option of remaining was the Abbar bonel Ritsuko Bernal was the finance minister for Ferdinand and Isabella and they needed his acumen so much that they offered to let him remain a Jew as long as he would stay further stay with them and he of course refused the offer and that's the head of that he was at the head of the procession he was the make of the of that tehila together with other abundant and towards the rear of the procession there was a four year old boy with his mother leaving Spain and that four year old boy was reveal Saqqara we grew up to be the F Garrett was actually a child at the time of the expulsion of the Jews from Spain it is brought down in sworen that the Abbar Bernal together with other abundant postions that they should leave with music they actually hired musician scientist above playing joyous music as they were leaving Spain and they give to shut him in Hertz against a lot obviously but they were to shut them for this hi Raja why this was done one shot was that people were so suppressing that there was a matter of because Memphis they needed their spirits to be picked up but there's a bit of a deeper plant the deeper plant is there leaving Spain and they're crying like it's a carbon base on McDuff there's no no no they didn't have to know Spain was never their home to begin with that's not their mahkum that's not their place they're not being kicked out of our chests well and you shall I am and they need to know that that this is not real Gus in order that they should be miserable now you shall I am instead of leaving Spain but be this at night pervasive Cairo in addition to being the place that adorned was a great great mobile and in fact although he was 70 when the original came two spots my reason was only 38 39 is only a year and a half they sift IRA I used to go to try to learn from the Ariza but he always fell asleep and the IRAs all said it was Niger Menasha million that a person of your toddler should not learnt IRA for me at all so be it as it may but your this if Carlo had a solution with a mallet a maggot and he actually gave us a safer of his shiorin with this maggot it's called noggin make sure you can get the safer mommy the tire he learned from his mother and then the safer maggot mushara pervasive cairo tells the following story then he was learning over a sukhiya very very difficult so again and he was me Ageha many many weeks and he finally had and he thanks arkovich Baraka for enlightening his eyes interestingly and then he's walking in spots and you know you've been there you know what it looked at the narrow alleyways of spots and he overhears a shoemaker learning with his son that's singular and lo and behold the son the eight-year-old boy asks his father at the age of Kairos Kasia so hey Sumer it was Cara didn't want he's dropped you know he's trying to hear what's going on so the father is annoyed at the son the father says I know this Kamara was too hard for you your kasha is not Akasha is so push it and the shoemaker proceeded to give what took Raviv karo weeks and weeks and weeks to figure so if your Saffiano is Sbrocco because he figures if this is so pushes that the shoemaker is upset at his eight-year-olds for not getting it so it's pusher it's obvious if I didn't get it after weeks and weeks it must be Hashem felt I was not worthy of understanding the tire market I see what was my sin why was I not to say that to understand the obvious so we asked the Malecha and this is what the model told him I'll have told them really it's very much the opposite the Taira that you brought into the world was something that was deep and inaccessible and so holy that the world was not deserving of it but through your yogya through your own mailing list you brought it into the world and once you brought it into the world anybody could get this is what is recorded so the hard way the question is this doesn't make sense on a rational Stambler what do you mean he brought it into the world he didn't teach it to anybody he didn't write it down he did explain it he brought it into the world it's in his head how does that make it easier for somebody else to get it and the answer is that's exactly how which works in bookies when we learn we do mitzvahs we bring to do Shea into the world people say what is a been tired of doing sitting in a basement rich good he's growling that's fine what is he doing for the world how is the world getting better because he's okay and the answer is very very real and very very tangible a person's Aveda creates waves of holiness in the world and it lifts up the world and it changes the world and it makes other people able to be Masek things that they never would have been massive the cubby time used to say the intensity of the learning and Wratten affected the sea Gnaeus in Paris like an atom bomb no ground zero the radiation is most intense go a few thousand miles it'll be weak but it'll still be there so by the time the Rodman radiation reached Paris they weren't learning 12 hours a day but mahalo puffs there was a little bit more Severus incidence this is the pellet the caduceus mashanda the world magma vice versa if you live in a world of tumour and you live in a world of a right even if you didn't do any of them by definition we didn't create enough kedusha because if we would have created enough kedusha the world would have been different so the anti-semites are right when the anti some attack some nights blamed the Jews for all the world's problems don't tell people outside the room here yeah we are responsible for everything so I play this our tequila right sweetest onion maybe I'm not guilty of a virus or maybe I'm not guilty of special summon maybe I'm guilty of delirious but we live in a world which is Shaku us certainly in murder and violence all the time we live in a world that is filled and besmirched with gilja Raya and we live in a world at least of of I desire which can take different forms if not piling on to idols but worshipping money worshiping power right now if I desire the Grasse says it says when the Guara Newman says they took away the eighth's our heart of everybody's Aria because it was too hard to deal with it was replaced with the eighth Sahara for money so if I desert is anything you have in your life that is the center of your life other than a champion so I'll buy desire can mean money it can be power it could be political ideology we live in a world that is filled with our ideas our Aguila right for you Simon so even if we has been a terribly don't do those all things but we have a not rise for those of a less because it was within our power to make this world a different world as the basis of story indicates and if we didn't make the world of different worlds we become at least partially responsible soma mainly that's the second Terence why we wear them to sob Errol I'm not waiters are not killing or is Rita stunning the third answer to this question I want to give is based on you sowed of rough Southern Oakland and Suffolk says the following it is true that our ideas are give a rush because dumbing are extreme behaviors and most of us may not be guilty of those extreme behaviors but they are in fact external symptoms of character flaws in me toes that are very very deep and even if a person doesn't have the symptoms but the cause of those could be mush rush inside of our personalities now cuz I'll tell us that the three positive forces of holiness in the world shimon hatzadik right there is Tyra a violation of our Mahalo my mate the world stands on three pillars Torah avodah Camilla ska Sunday but what are the three negative factors that destroy the world well the Elissa a copper says kina jealousy Tyva extreme lust for the pleasures of the world and covered looking for honor ego gratification my Seon is so odd on men huh hey mom they take a person out of the world the altar of the but they used to say not only does it mean that you lose your alumni bar which you will but it even destroys this world a person is never going to be happy with what a sham has given him if he's filled with jealousy and tiger and exalteth the public so here's what's of excessive subject wants to say avoids our regulatory system you have a correlation to Kenneth I go to college now how is that social some of this is a little easier a little more obvious than the others he said jealousy when taken to an extreme results in murder and in fact even statistically if you factor out terrorist killings which unfortunately there to throw is is a big factor you simply look at you know crimes of violence you will often find that most commonly it is done for jealousy trivial jealousy somebody might be jealous of your jacket your shoes whatever it is you're talking to his girlfriend's whatever it is in a violent world that we live in the extreme manifestation of jealousy could literally be to take somebody's life because you want to take away something that they have so the mayor of Southwark says if Tina is the Shailesh of Shilla stunning then even if I'm not a shape a stunning calls man I have the meda of Tina in my Macias I am connected to that symptomology of being a shape this time because I have the seed within me that class officially could result in schrieffer stomach taiga is obviously connected to our ayats my Gilly arias is the extreme symptom of titus but if even if a person hasn't gone all the way there are the tightest of a long has that that take a person away from my cottage burger now again although Judaism is not ascetic we do believe a person should get reasonable pleasure from the world in fact that only you saw me says the person is a sickly penis again for all the pleasures of the world who could have enjoyed and did not enjoy because they can be used as a springboard to be mock your toes direction and to see a college boy whose greatness and to love option but still it is a double pushes that when a person is shocked who are in the tightest of a limousine their heart is not open to the roughness of Tygra and there's an interesting psychological reason for that because physical pleasures are instant gratification and ruthless pleasures take time and efforts and the cloud when a person is submitted to the instance they no longer have the patience of the situation for things that take time is like this is even in the secular world this is a major concern people are concerned even in colleges that the use of the internet which is web surfing going from this that that people don't know how to concentrate anymore they can't stick with something they just go ape easer hadass in which the mind is moving in all different directions you can't concentrate right so it's true that - meais is instant gratification and ruthless requires a Ghia and being a made on something the same of hi am used to they might say wondered if I am was once had to get a safer so he climbed onto the climb solavei checked and those men and he had to climb on a ladder to get it and he took the safe or any was good on the ladder for 12 hours and one hand was behind his back he was holding the safer with one hands and after 12 hours he finally started screaming he says what is this way behind me was on his arm like fell asleep he lost circulation in his arm and the Shetty's he got soaked so ironic done so concentrating and what he was doing he's standing on the ladder for 12 hours to be shot going I hate to say it you know modern science says the amount of time were able to sustain the thoughts runs to the level of one and a half minutes we can't think about anything straight more than one methods our minds our mind starts wandering already right away this was 12-month can you imagine 12 hours of just chikuwa' in a mash-up and that comes because when a person is Minu top from the typhus of a lomasa they have more of a catcher so again that southwark says that Tina is the shy rash of shabeeha stomach taiga is the shudder ish of delirious now the third one is a bit more difficult but he says the shire ish of advaitha Zora is curved lines this is interesting because there Southwark is understanding that people invent religious and systems not because they are philosophically convinced that those are correct but because they seek a they seek a spiritual system that will allow them to do whatever it is they wanted to do so the philosophy again Reshiram Francaise the philosophy follows the psychology right again the mushroom let their sheep offering gifts is if we have a religion if the Tiber weren't to say you are commanded to indulge in every tire that you want whenever you want somehow we would be asking fewer questions about how do I know the Taurus minutes of mine now you might say well wait a second objectively it's the same problem there's not but if it fits what I want to do anyway somehow I don't have the philosophical questions the philosophical questions come when it's stopping me from doing what I want to do so therefore all of the other leaders artists all the ideologies in the world although externally they seem to be based on philosophical premises and logical argumentation they all come because I want a system that allows me to be the master of my face and the captain of my ship and that comes from the carbide and the ego and the arrogance and the Guyver of wanting to be in charge together a very common human flaw and therefore an answer to the question of success even though we are not directly guilty about my disorder a kilo rice because Thummim but we're guilty of our ideas are a vehicle bite and Gila arise to be anti ba and shamika's done and via kena and therefore is part of our freshman or nephesh and the day that we mourn the Corbin bass Amit - on the day that we yearn for the rebuilding of the base of meditation we have to be Misaka not only the sinner screen on which as they say it's very obvious and a very very central nevada but at the same time we have to be the second even the per gunman of the bias reaching I play Gazzara Gillian Reyes shigeko stomach can we hope that this will be the last time last year that we have to talk about these things that be a source of shame we should be safer to the ghoulish Lima Binet Romania we should be likely to opinion abayas you know there's a beautiful old minute of a new Shania that the afternoon of tissue of after Mincy the Housewives the women of the house would clean the mess it will clean the porches would clean the floors in anticipation of welcoming welcoming mushiya's and even on the ninth above itself because as I said before is the mr. Marshall as the morale learns the yearning brings girl into the world even on the nine to five we express our hope we don't say Tom and today right you know this we don't see document today because it's called MOA it's called a young term what type of young to us that's that it's the least likely young chef you would expect but again even on the ninth of Ivan indeed precisely because of our yearning in arts are this is the coop that will bring Google into the world so if we try to resolve to make our heart and our salt a place for us raw sestina if up enough of us doings but right the pus accessory also we make touch but your funky bass icon Hashem says make for me a holy place a bit a temple and I was it's well in them because I'll say it's not that ashamed Wells in the building Hashem dwells in us so we read the pus ik backwards if the utterly Mick touch for sure haunted by siphon when is for sure the beside calm then there will be the UH so we make - so be as recession may we be safer that the shekinah should be should dwell within our heart within our soul and then we should be safer to the by Ashley she that is your a measurement [Music] [Applause]