Tisha B'Av: Jerusalem, I will Never Forget You - Rabbi Yitzchok Oelbaum

[Music] we get off the floor we just said Kenneth what are we trying to achieve with all the kids that we say what you said so much what are we trying to achieve as Arashi that Isis in kaduche enough our morale from obeys that explains that the hill of capital I in tests it says miss Marilla awesome ganya binoculars aha Tim OS hey Calcutta Osama as usual I'm Liam what I mean the plastic means that the gyeom came and they made everything Tommy I mean everything unpure in the temple ask them a fortune why I would say Ms Marla awesome is more means a song is it a song that the Gentiles the guy who came in and they made everything on pure it should say kiddingly Asif sakina's it's very sad why does it say Miss Moore the answer is Miss Moore is the good spin on things how courage but who could have destroyed class all for all that we did and instead show for Thomas al ain't survive on a mushroom took out his anger on their stones on the bricks caveat oh he took out his anger and instead Clara was able to stay in survives that's why it's miss Merle Asif it's a song how could his mother who decided to take out his anger coming up on the temple instead of us and that's why we're here so that's the white says miss Marlow are soft and not cannoli also says it Dupin imagine you know we always say in escrow fifty we shall I am Tishkoff jiminy right all right some juice simcha is never complete the same college is ever complete what's the most happiest time of your life is you're walking down the aisle to your wedding before you walk down what do we do we take the ashes put it on a forehead what do you miss the happiest time of the year happy time my life and after but I've hoped what happens we cracked the glass again you shall I am so a juice some cars never complete this month is cool toy - have like a donkey said I've means a father I've also means elbow cold shell was coming for the Army's father cause you a question this is probably the saddest month of the year and that's the month you wanna call father nice on Pesach sooo caught do we have a good time why would you want to call this month our Father it's the saddest month of the year we could answer the question with the muscle that I heard in the name of rosh wob it was a kid running around in shul making a lot of noise you know how those one little kid running around he says you have a kid running around and shoe making a lot of noise and there's a guy who gives him a lolly and it gets quiet then starts running around again and all of a sudden this man comes over to the kid and give him a whack across the face and at the same time as he smacks him he goes like this who's the father the man who gave him the candy or the matter smacked him which one is the father which one is the father the one that gave me the candy or the one that smacked him so you'll say the guy is maximum I obviously that was the father the kid that smacked him so the same thing we could say anyway the shop the month of this ah is a sad month but it's also a happy months the Barbara Boxer cook-off out the bar tells us I'm telling them the Israel can be shots about two dollars from the happiest days of the year so we see it in this month besides for having that day of sad and morning we also have that happiness it's like the Gemara tells us well I am entirely so capricious about so isn't this the month to be called father is the mother who taught shows us discipline but at the same time she shows us that love me shall survive and that's why I believe the month is cool credit shop there's a newlywed couple they got married and unfortunately you don't have kids for a long time I thought Alex lon after many attempts you went over the treatment so they had to go through bars lustrum the woman was pregnant comes affords months the doctor tells us things are getting complicated we have to put you on bed rest she's on bed rest finally comes a seventh month she goes for a check of the doctors who have a major problem over here it's either you or the kid who do you want to live she says calm you got to talk to my husband which comes doctors in front of her husband the woman turns to her husband she says I'm willing they should take my life and our son or daughter whatever was should be alive but remember tall our child tell our son that's because of me that he's alive and she told the father may cheat on our son it's because of me that he's alive and I give my life for sensitivity Margaret how courage born close shuffled have oscillate Cinnabon him he took out his anger on the sticks and stones he gave up the base a sham he gave up his house he gave up his temple for us that's what the Skinner was why so my kitchen survived and I should always remember an escalation you shall I am and that's all we say Kinnison depth all original question what are we trying to achieve we're trying to achieve that morning we're trying to remember him as Goethe a few shall I am we had a temple but not only that after his bar who took out his anger on the based on big Dutch he destroyed the base on big Dutch and instead what he did was he said I want my nation to live and I want to give them a chance to build himself up to bring back what has to come back eventually Roth gift is a tally of the brothel who's an heir to throne and he went to where we all go where do we go you go to the coastal I go to get her alcohol it was Ingram on a coil man came over to him and Senator Shiva what moved you more wasn't the cocktail okay for Rocco and he tells the kid this younger man not a kid he tells him he says the case I'll move me more the kid says what hotel anymore you're the first person who told me that kid rotten lose everybody says that's our mother mama Rocco she's Shiva why the coastal move him or her gift it tells him younger man young man you could relate to her mother you saw your mother bench live before Shabbat you saw her cry you saw your mother get up early and stayed up late to be with your siblings so you can relate to our mother he says the only one who correlate to the Corbin says I've gift there is one who saw thyroid needs glory a person who saw what the majesty of Claudius role is what the splendor of Tyra is would understand the court but he says an Iowa's I said to learn and tells in Europe I saw the splendor of Tyra I saw the clay I saw the greatness for she Shiva's I saw whatever Liz I saw it as her she made two ways I saw the means to her buzzer I saw the fish above this I saw what it means to her toda with the biggest covet and then I saw its destruction and then he says I saw its destruction I saw everything fall apart after seeing what Tyra is at its highest level after seeing what it is and then I saw its destruction says I've gift her I can picture what oil or regolith like on so pious and Pesach I can picture what I'll irregular was like at the base I'm English therefore he says when I doubted at the clay so I could picture what Collier saw was like when we had to pay something tush that's what I've gift her tells us you in the man says I've gift her today in America where it's hard to witness the glory of Tyra we must try to understand as best as we can what the destruction of the base I'm English is all about because to relate to the carbon we must know what we are missing most of us are kids or grandchildren Holocaust survivors so it's hard for us to imagine what the urban was like therefore we need to put a little bit more of an extra effort this we can relate to the urban somewhat says every so little anther someone who mourns you wish Ally him it could bring him closer like others borrow you feeling we have after Yom Kippur we're in sure all day or fasting when it comes to Allah that last few that you all feel great we feel so high we feel huge we feel connected the colors bar who we think this is the year that's it this is gonna be the year we're gonna have whatever we need so certain closeness that we feel Tasha sad the response alot there is somebody who utilizes who utilize attention about the way we're supposed to have it will be safer to have that same closer that you feel then you'll be able to film tisha both at the same courses we have in Kippur we will be able to feel on Tish above the positive tells us in Ezra pair of gimel post-acute base it says Bhairavi McRae Hani Bellavia Austria always has a cane iam our role is by his region so I desire by his by they both McConnell when clients role to return Terrace role and the second the second temple was rebuilt the Kohanim the ravine and the raja boys who were able to remember the first base I make those they were crying nor happy with the second based on Mick dodge and it's Ross here with here in the plastic what do you mean you have to be something that you have the temple how are they happy as Rashi and he says that they knew the splendor the first place I'm in there so they knew what they were missing so that's what they were crying but the youngsters who only saw the second temple they were thrilled didn't know what the first one was like so they were excited and they were all happy cuz they didn't know what they were missing we all know this Gomorrah - mama bastard ops Thomas morale Martynas deflower obeys Allah tells us and top coupe model tells us call mr. Apple are you shall I am is no you sure the ribosome Xhosa I'm true we all her this in Kamara a nice amount of times what other only means who is Mesaba you shall I am will be insightful to see the simcha of underbase I make the SH is rebuilt is it hard to be Misawa on something if you don't know what it is what all we want is to be the Szabo if you want a more you want to have the morning right and then we could be Zeta the ribosome hasa will be easy to see whenever it is really about to share when the temples remote will be so glad to see that simply we all want that but how do we do it how do we more for something that we have no idea what it is Sampo nothing back wiggle the licorice regime is you don't taste I make gosh I'm a cook yes do you know what the difference between the morning and not morning is this is mind boggling see the difference is Curtis IRA a here breath you know what that means the difference between morning and not morning says I'm not so much putting too much gear is a here breath so we think how could you feel it could so far we're so busy with all materialism said that I'll stop and think about it and realize how much we're missing that alone will be the royalism puzzle I repeat again if we stop now for a second says the magic yeah and we think we're missing that we think we really don't have that alone will allow us to be very clever right person casa let's stop for a second think about it we're just like that if we thought about our desire right into some closer to miss gift says now that we were all miserable I would like to help us all feel a little bit more a little more whereas I derive some pasta how do we feel a little bit more we all know the famous positing a Shia pear days plus a give oh he meets EITC Sarah devar hashem guru shall I am wasn't mean literally for out of feeling comes Tyra and a debut shall I in the world of Hashem why is it that someone grows when he's in you shall I what is it this is the here what is it says the manager explains it wasn't just you shall I and was the people of Jerusalem it was the people of you shall I am when people came to Chilean what happened what did he see they saw the great condition of the Cohanim 3 Nevada when they watch the Kahana with such sincerity would such holiness they became inspired and their hearts would focus on one thing learning Tyra and fearing Hashem and on this mattress of our and collards anybody who would watch the Vilna guy we all know the Vilna guy anybody who watched the only Guardian was also affected it would automatically begin to learn and mm better now let's bring it to us I'm sure all of us we also a goggle or come in our presence once the brach hunt there are things we did we went to autumn crush it and you know that feeling that we feel after we leave that customer person to good feeling after they give us a brothel or if we just watch him doing darling we walk out of maze do we feel elevated then amazement that we feel we're their last us for one prior afterwards or for last us for another week or whatever it is it's a great thing that we have we understand the base I make the snail if you feel that by a cockle now we go to today 2017 we feel close to share we feel great could you imagine me something gush can you imagine we're missing the only reason why we feel close - I'm happy to see us all calm because we see the godless that he has but what's the godless it's got a sham it's got the cetera could you imagine the base a sham could you imagine the base I'll make this where you have that straw Selina how we will feel if we look at it like that we'll definitely be able to feel the horror Livermore to bring at the point a little bit more the Vilna Gaon said i could imagine what there is shining word what the going don't work what that Moroni were what the tallow you were I could imagine you know what I can't imagine I cannot imagine what a ball of us a regular working person what they were like at the second base ending touch cuz the amount you can do sure that they saw the magic illusion they had put them on such a high level says the guy you know I cannot imagine how harsh it and how great these people were a regular person that sitting and working he's not regular yeah the producer to be some bigger says the gun I cannot imagine what he was like that's your question we had it horribly some big not wanna be through the temple we did have Aris the question is obviously we did our beerus i made his fault although level that's who it was the temple wouldn't it be better for us to still have the base on my gosh that would help elevate ourselves doesn't see little backwards we're sitting here a morning for we want to get it back from the other hand we lost it because we did have errors but it'll be here we would have that patient we would have that chuka to get closer Tasha so what was the point of destroying it shouldn't it be here and then it automatically with elevate ourselves much more sad abstention Pincus it's the following mushroom was once an artist excellent excellent artist decided one day he's going on top of the mountain beautiful sky he's gonna paint the view of the sky on top of the mountain you could see everything it's to be gorgeous close up on the mountain could imagine how he's sitting sitting that diligently and he's doing what he has to do and all sudden his friend comes up in the mountain his friend says wow you're talented he wants to get a better glimpse I remember that on top of the mountains friends backing up it's like wow you're talented and the artist starts screaming style we're gonna involve the clips the man is still going back wow it's gorgeous I never saw stuff like that in my life and he's literally a step about to fall off his friend has no choice after all this hard work and hours of putting in he smashes the painting knows what his friend stops daddy of mine you worked hours on that he says what do you mean I'm telling you to stop your last step is off the cliff my only way to save does that would break the painting that's what I did the same thing is with us Claudia's role when client so I had to be some big Dutch they had that trust of Sheena well they did I said what did they do they brought a carbon now Vader was wiped out no more you know what the problem is you started doing the various Burmese it on purpose and they said I'm gonna do this and I'll bring a carpet I'm scot-free no problem and then avium and the concern were screaming you can't do that you can't do that and they didn't hear anything and you kept on doing that there is in the world of carbon they didn't realize that it's not a cut part for them and they were so into bringing the carbon and they order like that couch it works really didn't work so that his mom had no choice but to break the base how big does the thing you see it doesn't work and I ain't gotta worked all the way around we have to feel it we have to work on ourselves to bring them a something goes back and that's what colors bars we get it that way I like to conclude the fascinating story actually her this my mentor of mine has a grandchild off model its lon that cannot talk I think she has a trach in her mouth for him I know it's a boy or girl and finally they had a mahalos how to remove the trach and put it somewhere else maybe in her neck and now she's able to talk however that comes the mate becomes a major Youssou room every morning the father has to give her shots shot after shot and my mentor my friend goes to see his granddaughter and she's crying to him and she says baby Saba grandpa my father is terrible every day he takes a shot that's goes for and he's giving me pain talk to stop it already and he looks at her and he said what do you mean he's helping you it was a small kid you can't relate but she says he tells her he's helping you he's not helping me I could talk I don't know what he's doing to me every morning I get up he gives me a shot why should I get up he puts me through pain and he tried to explain it to her and obviously she's a kid it'll let you was able to get and then he tells me says you'd see when I saw this I remember what my father did this is the girl's great-grandfather what did his father do his father never was sick and he was in the hospital and he was in a lot of pain a lot of pain and he calls a doctor over he takes the doctors hand and he gives him a kiss I want to thank you for all that you're doing I want to thank you for keeping me alive I want to thank you for making the best of the situation and he gives a doctor a kiss what about Shem does for us is the best but at times you don't see it now we'll die I'll read the little girl or we the grandfather how many times did a chef do something we say why are you doing this for what why why only that little girl who doesn't understand that we get a little clap it's to elevate us and availably fall further and further or are we that grandfather who gave the doctor a kiss when in pain and he said thank you for trying we understand for like that we look up to Shania me Sakura Sparkle I understand what you're doing now I'm gonna take this has growing pains I believe this is part of that vojta today a lot of things today but to believe whatever Hashem does it's for the best Kumada rocks mud on the top of it we're not the little girl with a grandfather whatever our Shem does is for the best if we have that look will ultimi help us to do true BA or B's actually to see the ghoulishly mm hair made how many you [Music]