Tisha B'Av - Doctor Said: It's The Mother or The Child

foreign [Music] there was a couple of [Music] people who didn't have children for 30 years they tried so many different things and after 30 years finally pregnant [Music] pregnancy is not easy and then attractions finally the big day the nine months and they rushed to the hospital she has rushed in the delivery room and wish your husband sitting outside waiting and saying to heal him after they hit him after they hit him so excited finally after 30 years meanwhile half an hour an hour two hours she doesn't deliver you a lot of other ladies come in and out in and out and nothing his wife is still there the doctor comes out doctor what's going on the professor will come and talk to you when she starts being very nervous another chapter another chapter tell him and some tears finally after half an hour the top Professor comes out and he looks very serious it was just what's going on sit down sit down and the professor moishi it's very serious inside there the numbers on the screen are going crazy we don't know what to do to stabilize her Moshi you have to make a decision it's either your wife or your baby boy we can't save both of them I don't know how to make a decision like this and he cries he picks up the phone and calls his rabbi and he explains this Rabbi it's either my wife or my son what do I do is you have to save your wife as long as the baby didn't present its head or the majority of the baby is not out you have to save your wife Moshi hangs up and it goes back to the doctor it says save both if you can't so you have to save my wife okay he goes inside the doctor and after a few minutes he comes out he says moishi your wife wants to talk to you he comes inside his wife is connected to about a million different machines beeping machines she is pale and she can barely speak and she Whispers to him was she Moishy I know you want to save me but I'm telling you I'm not going to have any koi have to survive if you do that Moishy save our son don't save me I don't have any more questions to continue and with that she says it very well and when she gives the okay to the doctor he goes outside continues with this to hit him stream of Tears running down his cheeks and after seven minutes he used the Christ of a baby a baby boy so his tears have excitement for the baby boy are now mixed with the tears of sadness because his wife passed away [Music] the following day funeral of his wife seven days after that a place for his baby boy a year two years three years this little binyamian grows up fantastic 13 years later tonight and what she calls his son before the permission he says to him you know you are just like binyamin from the shabbatim that his mother died when she gave birth to him you know your mother asked me one request before she passed away she said make sure you save him and not me but please make sure on the night above it when he's going to be the cousin make sure that when he says make sure it's a real kaddish sure they are sure when she gets ready we'll send a suit it's about to be the husband for my life they start happening but it starts about all his friends who's here and who didn't come yet and the gifts piling up there in the deserts the fancy chocolates are mixed up with his head and is over he runs to his friends and emotions and fathers drops down it was fainted Nicole's over been here and he says that's accomplished in her Lang and her death she gave you life says Dad up here I understand everything you say but in here I have nothing to do with this lady I never met her I don't know who she is [Music] a boy say that is our story in Holland base the walls of Base took the bullet for us because the vessels instead of on us on the stones on the wooden base of midash yeah but I never met them I was never there appear I understand what you're saying but inside here I don't have any feelings says of those that as if in their death gave us life [Music] one day a year but our heart is distant our emotions are numb yes we're offerings orphans without a father it's double language if you're a yes or obviously you don't have a father why doubling up because there's two type of Orphans there's an orphan who still remembers his father he remembers his mother he remembers her hugs and kisses and remembers her love and he misses it terribly scarved in his heart there's an orphan like binyaming type 2 orphan that doesn't even know his mother we are orphans number two and here the tragedy is double yes we don't even remember so we don't have a conversatory that's how important it is to make sure that we do more at least on the outside for the base of that gave us life in its destruction