Tickets to the World to Come - Rabbi Ilan Meirov

[Music] good morning the level of bow ties in schoolish animal abhart name of the servos the story takes place in the city of majestic vet there was a retired Rob Thomas Holcomb Agatha was a man that was very influential in community that was his wife and he was living alone at home the Barker Shammi had a very very loving children and grandchildren they never left him alone your mom Delilah every day there was someone at his side tending to his needs food clothes walking shopping whatever it may be and what happens is it was relatively healthy individuals in nearly nursing in her owns over hospital stays at all and one day while ventolin what his grandchildren was sitting and learning at home with the grandfather he started gasping for air and the grandchild sees as a grandfather needs some medical attention he wants to run to his aide get the phone but the grandfather is saying come here he's calling the grandchild this is called Mishima shame on come over here and she went approaches his grandfather's like Saba sada what's happening he says Shimon he's gasping for air she mom do me a favor get me the ticket for the belly dancing show with a Filipino girl and and the grandson here is acceptable you to say and his he can't talk anymore he's guessing forensic mental Russ gets a phone father seller but before you know it talks on each module can return his soul to his creator like you just imagine the trauma the confusion a you see a grandfather passed away before your eyes and be not Korea and not be doing these are asking for ticket for a belly dancing filled semi rockin this kid is absolutely confused he's traumatized comes along to avaya everyone standing there what a Kashmir of young members ila learning Torah has said and the grime started sinking by blablabla if they only knew who he really was if they're home you know what is about last request one and this is what happened they met the first internship such relationship well eventually once it is ready to ever have to tell you what happened before my grandfather died and the rabbit excited let me hear what kind of store does authority to reveal to you well what was this we really see before was if there is reverie don't think anything major Happy New Year my grandfather was a gasping for air and he tells me to get him ticket for a certain critical shoulder was that was apparently techniques taking place the Rebbe hears this and he takes his comment and he starts giving a little stroke in their hands and he says what happened forget about it don't be mighty la jolla mace he probably lost his mind forget it ever happened customers telling me to talk to anyone about this Thomas had ready no problem but he walked out thinking yeah rabbi's covering up the rabbi's you know forget about it that's what he's asking for before he lifts her and you tell me to forget about it the center third leadership every was freezing in Thamud so I'm going at the about tested so does got all nine yards and the grandson is eating himself up he mentioned a few other people but no one could answer just keep it quiet forget about he lost his mind one day a group of elderly people walk in people that knew the grandfather the mixture for many years earlier each one tells over his story and I wanted to tell the family I want to share with you an amazing thing that happens four or five decades ago when the nixar with a young rub in the community there was posters all over town there'll be a certain show a female dentist in the Philippines all over town and the young Rob the nibbler saw this and he was eating himself up knowing that many of his followers many of his youth will be going to the show so he and his Robertson they decided that to put an end to this what did he do they went to the bank and it took a major loan they went to the box office and they were not briefly all the tickets came along the day of the event and you had a few bullet English showed up yeah five 600 seats and maybe 20 30 are being used mission accomplished we're now vision accomplished we have to be thousand dollars it yes imagine have $18 seats in the twenty six dollars you can imagine how much money he now has he has to pay back to the bank so he and the registered cells good but it was disturbed they went to decipher gone to ask them it's what they did was was necessary do they have to keep you know putting themselves in trouble to stop these kind of things from happening and the cipher told them very simply I can't tell you if this is your volunteer obligation to do but what I will tell you is that after 120 years take those tickets of this dancing show take you to the revival show because that's your tickets again agent the grandson is sitting there and he's like now I understand why my grandfather asked me for the ticket for this for this dancing show ladies and gentlemen you know when people reach a certain age a lot of things are floating around either in the thought in their mind a lot of things that going through their head remain unnoticed but they're thinking about a lot of things what's going to use my wife my husband my children my friends my family my grandchildren my community everyone I don't thought they think of allocating gifts like IVA Krone said potentially to their you know grandchildren maybe to an organization maybe to one of their friends that has children in coiler whatever it is he's had many thoughts maybe even hinted it to his family at one point I'm alive at all ties we doesn't take them up Chava I put it onto paper that's going to be accepted by a lifetime by the law then you know what the grabbed a chrome pointed asked a lot of Mucklow kids in come a valid a lot of arguments live hatred we see what happens in families original rip families are torn we're father could have wished he could've said something now but it's really too late though I have the tightest initiative rubbers own is starting on 300 for many years but giving it a little push yes it's very uncomfortable yes to sit down and to talk into writing assignments to direct it very uncomfortable but like they point to that is much much worse when he goes up to say Miami C's when you left in this world has a job this is an amazing amazing initiative that's being put forth and something that everyone should really discuss really at the right time with their loved ones when they're healthy and there's because everything's good wash em everything be put down on paper like you said you could update updated every few years but it can be must feel in many many who borrows a lot of court but that may happen cause it's out within families you know every cronin is often I end up with the same way you know I love I everything that I know we'll be talking about today whether it's about these the world's the best autopsies are going on a tremulous game whether it's about all the different things that are cremations as muslims hopefully everything we talk today should be a Brock Lovett alum hopefully rosada Sherman Shelby's like to see Michelle Vizcaino women Lobby Romania we should be seeing here it's amazing they were remain I'd always think shouldn't be done but we have to realize we're living in all of my fear as to make sure you re Szabo's the business even if everyone could follow up every rubber zone we'll talk about this right now and take these these documents fill it out with your loved ones and wish only here BAM is that when a person lifter from this world and he leaves Shalom and his role not hard to sell them just like it's amongst our members here are some hobbies okay like we said to see the big-ass sonic they may not be a manual ahmen ramen [Applause]