☎️ Thu Feb 13 | 9 PM ET | Rabbi Shais Taub LIVE call-in show

we are live welcome welcome to the Thursday night call-in show where we get together on Thursday nights and you call in our show and the premise is that it's Thursday nights and people call in and I talk to them real live people like you and funny enough you would think that people don't really call in with serious questions they just call into like cish but that's not true actually um all of our callers are like really amazing and our experience has been really great with people sharing um really I guess I would say vulnerable stuff and honest stuff and it's been incredible we've been doing it how many shows have we been doing you still let me know is this our n9th show if it's our 10th show we should have done a little celebration about it um oh I gotta mention tonight's show is dedicated tonight's show is dedicated tonight's show is dedicated one second I want to read the dedication correctly tonight's show is dedicated in honor of Rabbi label and K shamov kabad of Traverse City do you guys know where Traverse City is it's in Michigan there's um an airport there Traverse City I think it's maybe Cherry something what's it called I don't know I flew into it a couple times um it's a little little airport and uh anyways yeah the Shams are there and they are creating a revolution of Jewish Renaissance in Traverse City so this they don't even know probably that this was dedicated for them but one of their big supporters and friends and fans dedicated tonight's show in their honor okay um so some of you are tuning in for the first time so you're probably not even wondering what this giant thing is on my desk but those of you who have tuned in before you're like I never saw a giant thing on Rabbi tab's desk you're right so would you care to Hazard a guess what this giant thing is on my desk by the way BTW as the kids say in uh texting acronyms uh BTW I did a little change to the uh you guys don't probably even know that I'm a little bit techsavvy I'm a little techsavvy uh I set up the live streams yeah so I changed the setting in the live streams I want to tell you a little bit about it what I did first of all I changed Ed it to low latency ultra low actually ultra low latency which basically means there's minimal lag time we used to have like 10 seconds or maybe more lag time between actual um what I'm saying and by the time you see it so what would happen is I would be like hey everyone who remembers the name of whatever like I would think of some reference and I couldn't remember what it was could somebody Google that and put it in the chat and then it would see like 20 seconds later someone would respond but the reason was because there was a lag I removed the lag I'm going to text test it out right now you're going to see um that I removed the lag okay so watch this um if you know why I have a giant fruit basket on my desk please write the name of the Jewish holiday that was today let's see how quickly it goes all right now I have to fill in something else while you're while you're typing um I have to tell you something else I changed the setting on the comments the live chat not the comments because you could comment later when after this live is finished it'll go up as a video anyone can watch the replay and they could comment but the LI I'm talking about the live chat I changed the setting on the live chat that only members of the channel can post in the live chat why did I do that because I figured if I'm going to remove the latency you know or go ultra low latency where it's like really live you know this is happening in livetime um I don't want any I don't want any trolls basically I'm just going to say it I don't want any trolls posting in the live chat or nudniks or spammers or bots so you have to be n Nooks are spammers or Bots I don't want them so I set I changed it to you have to be a a member now to be a member you have to pay I don't think it's a lot of I don't remember how much money it is the lowest level membership there's zahov and which is gold silver and copper I think the lowest level membership was like a couple dollars a month I don't remember what it is um why am I doing is this a money grab am I trying to get money well I don't mind the money I mean we do need money I mean it costs money we're reaching 10 million people a month jfyi um that's another one BTW jfyi um we reach 10 million people a month and and I know everyone thinks I'm just doing this on a smartphone you know just one dude by himself but there's a whole team here and so yeah we we do need money and uh so yeah if you can give me a couple bucks it'll be spent on spreading the message far and wide but that's not the real reason I did it I wanted to make sure see I figure that someone who's just a troll is not going to go to the trouble of giving me money signing up and giving me money and for fun yeah so as you see um all right I'm looking in the chat so I think M David is Mishi David he wrote that it's to bvat okay and there there is moonlights two Canadian dollars Moonlight or Monique always uh she has a custom she always gives a donation um whenever there's a live show we always appreciate it we're going to call her out and we want to um give you your credit where credit is due thank you so much um Noah's saying Cherry's everywhere up there yeah have you been there I guess Noah's been there I think Noah's used to live in Michigan or do you live in Michigan or East Lancing or something I don't want to dox you okay I'm sorry I take that back okay at any rate but um Noah wrote 15 yeah 15 was code for the 15th day of shvat okay cool uh what's that basket on your desk yes so let's talk about it I want to talk about the basket on my desk this basket was donated by Cove I tried to buy it but they were like you know what just give us a shout out it's okay Rabbi so Cove is my favorite Kosher grocery store in the world now it happens to be in five towns and so it's close to me but I would go there if I I think if I lived in Muny I would drive to Five Towns just to go to Cove I I think if I lived in in New Jersey I would drive to Five Towns just to go to Cove kve is the best Kosher grocery store I think I've ever been to in my life and there's a manager there his name is Mendy Mendy Herz who is a dear friend of this program and of all of the Soul wordss initiatives I call him like Mendy Thursday night we got a call-in show tubish fat can you hook us up and he's like say less and that's what happened so I've got this going on right here um now what I'm going to do is I'm going to do an unboxing going to do a little unboxing how you like that little unboxing all right so this is probably going to make terrible noise people with sensory issues I'm so sorry you know what I think I'm just going to going to cut this okay I think we're just going to cut it sorry okay I'm going to have to get up one second one second [Music] all right okay M says it's ASMR yeah for the sensory people different types of sensory people for some of them it's uh going to give them a meltdown other people it's going to be ASMR here here's a little ASMR for you there you go okay ASMR please let me know in the chat if you found that soothing or the opposite okay so let's see what Mendy from col hooked us up with and um I may have to make a shanu let's see not sure got to see what's in here I don't know what this is I think does anyone know what this is can you see it well enough someone let me know um okay see meny the problem is you didn't leave like the labels on it so I can't know if it's this is a cumquat I love cumquats um I was once staying at someone's house in Long Beach California and they had a kumquat tree in the backyard and they were like Rabbi have as many kumquats as you like and I overindulged in the cumquats and I ate like I took a whole bag of them like literally like a whole shopping bag full of them and I ate like half the shopping bag on the flight back from LAX and then the other half of it I gave I shared with my kids okay this I don't know what this is but this is this is substantial um let's see this is what is this this says kiang Ki Wang kiano kiano kiano I don't think I've had a kiano could somebody find out if a kiano is a ha8 I assume that it is uh what's this I know doesn't have a label stick sticker um I don't know what this is if I don't even recognize it should I assume that I need make a shako uh what are these filis pH s a l i s these are cute these are adorbs like leafes around them like then you open it up you got like a little orange Berry in there p h Ys a l i s um this is uh passion fruit I don't know what this is um let's see what this is here uh doesn't say what it is okay um this I think is called an Asian pair oh it says it here sand pair sand pair hope it doesn't have sand in it okay what is this this is a papaya golden papaya papaya is probably the least exotic fruit in here cuz sure I've had papaya before what's this is this the same as this are these the same species are these different I think there's like a lot of shaono opportunity here um what's this I'm going to guess this a dragon fruit but I'm not sure uh dragon fruit yeah this is dragon fruit this is a dragon fruit um and what's this I don't know I don't know it's very hard though um okay now I got to tell you I really don't know what to do over here but I want to make a and aano what's this this is Ecuador Prema fresh fruits but what is it it's from Ecuador just says aquador premium okay I don't know which one I should make a a Eights on I really don't know um this one oh that's a papaya I I'm afraid to make sh a papaya because I feel like I've had it um kiano I don't think I had a kanano yeah it's kanano eight where does a kiano grow kiano horned melon it's also called a horned melon uh what's the broa on it got to Google I just got to make sure it's not a a dama uh could be beama I want to see how they grow I need to see how they grow kiano tree do they grow from a tree or do they grow on the ground like a you guys understand jewishly why I'm asking this right because I have to know if it's a or on a vine yeah I'm looking at the picture someone sent me on a vine but it looks like so a horned melon but I think it's aama so I don't want to make all Eights on that um you know what should I do what is this it's 4793 do you guys know I just found out recently this blew my mind that the codes that grocery stores use for produce are uniform across all stores so like if you worked at Aldi and you memorized it you could go work at Jewel you guys don't even know what jewel is do you okay oh this is so cool I just Googled produce 4793 and I got red tamario R and it is I look at a picture of it red tamario can we find out if a red tamario okay or maybe they pronounce it tamarillo what's the broa on a red tamarillo because if it's a eights I'm going to I'm going to be doing that okay and then we also got here a 6017 I'm going to see what's a didn't Google didn't know what it was okay um but this Ecuador thing what is this four 333 it's called a Pino okay I'm going to either do the Pino or the red tamarillo um so oh tonight is our 10th show by the way uh oh the red tamarillo grows on a tree you thank you for sending me a picture of it um can we yeah a red tamarillo red tamarillo and what was the other thing was a Pino red tamarillo tree red tamarillo tree save image hold on W Pepino tree a Pepino tree okay no forget about that now watch what I'm going to do I'm doing all this doing all this by my lonesome okay I don't have a crew in here okay watch this yeah yeah yeah yeah how do I do this um yeah yeah uh just one second one second okay this is going to be so cool guys I did this on the Fly watch this hold on okay guys watch this I think it's going to work and I'm going to be so proud of my tech savviness what no didn't work hold on um hold on hold on how do you do this no one's getting bored are they there's no way anyone would be getting bored with this so interesting okay that's just fading out um I got to remember how to do this I want to show you something yeah forget how to do it though media yeah okay switcher it's not as simple as you guys think okay okay okay no um all right how how did I show images before I remember I did it hold on um did I do it I think I did it I think I did it I got it look at that no did it work did it work guys I'm trying to show you picture of the the tree I am not getting it right I don't know why not so annoying all right I'm really disappo oh I did it there you go there you go that's it okay if somebody says that they toiled and they achieved believe them [Music] yeah okay we did it and that wasn't boring or awkward at all so thank you for sticking with me um and now just like it took me 20 minutes to figure out how to show you that picture it's probably going to take me 20 minutes to stop showing you that picture but let's see I'm back okay that was totally worth it and now you see how the beautiful red tamarillo grows in its natural house habitat and now we're going to make a and as my kids always ask me tati do you make Theo or do you make the first which one do you do first so uh the answer is that we make the and that we make the that's how we do it okay um oh there's two callers waiting since 9:00 okay I'm going to do the fruits later you says there are callers waiting fine so let's take the callers and we'll come back we'll do a fruit after the callers all right uh caller number one youell please put on the first caller okay for our first caller tonight we have jod welcome Jody okay excellent hello hello hello hi did you see my fruit basket oh yes beautiful I got it at Cove it's my favorite Kosher grocery store yes what which one of the five towns is that in I think it's in Inwood because you have to go go across the Rockway Turnpike to get to it oh okay it might be Lawrence though I don't know I never can tell when I'm going across those little boundaries yeah anyways but we could talk about Co save and the five towns and fruit baskets all night but you called in for a reason so let's talk about what you wanted to talk about yes thank you I really appreciate that I'm I'm honored to be a caller on your show thank you what I wanted to ask your guidance about is this I feel that um God is trying to send me so many beautiful blessings he already has M and sometimes I get the feeling that maybe I'm blocking them due to feelings of unworthiness and I would like to know how I can make it easier for God to bestow the blessings on me that he is trying to bestow because sometimes I get the inkling that my own doubts and feelings of inadequacy or unworthiness as unfounded as they may be um are blocking are creating an obstacle a block like a wall between me and the blessings he is trying to bestow on me and my on my life bring it that he's trying to bring into my life yes wow wow okay so first of all for everyone listening uh this is a real concept this is not just um our callers feelings like this is a real concept it speaks about this in cabala one of the sources for it is actually teaching from Le who explains in the name of the BAM yes he says in the name of the bam that there's a there's a verse in Psalms inim it says Hashem hasem is your well you could translate the word as shade and uh I think more conventional understanding of that verse is Hashem is your protective shade but can also be a shadow Hashem is your Shadow what does it mean Hashem is your shadow that just like your Shadow perfectly mimics all of your movements the way that Hashem runs the world is that he reciprocates he mirrors he matches so what we project is what we get back yes so it's a real concept and specifically when we are happy and joy ful and full of gratitude then more cause for happiness and joyousness and and gratitude comes at us and if God forbid the opposite we could actually initiate a vicious cycle which is difficult to break so what you're describing is very real yeah now the here's the thing though and I I don't want to argue with you but I'm going to argue with you you sound like you are grateful well thank you for saying that and that is an excellent point I really appreciate that I am very grateful for what God has given me I just feel that sometimes I get the feeling there's so much more and he's just trying to say Jodie allow the good to come into your life I'm trying to bring even more good into your life but if you don't think you're worthy of receiving it then I can't bring it into your life M okay so first of all there is more because God is infinite so there's always more um but let's talk about this so you do have the Gratitude absolutely you have the Gratitude but the Gratitude is sort of intermingled with another feeling which we'll call self-doubt where you are so appreciative of your blessings and you see your blessings and you're counting your blessings but at the same time you have this feeling of you're you call it unworthy with that that you're not worthy of the blessings and you're worried that because you're not feeling worthy of the blessings that could be an impediment to receiving more of the blessings um I hear that okay that is exactly correct okay okay I'm glad that I understood it but you made it really easy to understand because you're extremely articulate so let me suggest something to you I'm going to sidestep the whole thing I'm not going to going to even deal with the unworthiness because we could talk about self-esteem and I could try to boost your self-esteem but I think we could just sidestep it we don't even need to go there and I can give you a hack are you interested in a little hack that might work here yes very much okay okay great so in order to explain this to you I'm gonna have to back up and I'll talk in general about prayer what's the deal with prayer isn't it selfish to give God a shopping list like give me this and this and this and this and this and this and this like if we're really God conscious people we should just show up and say God thank you for everything and uh I put myself in your hands and do whatever it is that you want to do and yet we are told to pray yeah I know and and yet we are told to pray and we're according to to many opinions it's actually one of the 63 Commandments is to express our needs to turn to God and ask for our needs so how do we reconcile that is it selfish to pray and to ask God for our needs or um or is it proper so the answer is like this it depends why you're asking it depends why you're asking there's you know I don't think a lot of people realize that one of the models like archetypes for prayer in Judaism is Hannah Hannah the mother of schm or Samuel she was a propheus and a very holy woman and in the book of Samuel describes when she was Barren and she went to the sanctuary in we call it Shilo or the engz version is Shiloh but Shiloh reminds me of a Civil War battle so shil mishan shil she went to the sanctuary in Shilo and she was praying for a child because she was Barren she was praying for a child and this is before she conceived scho the prophet Samuel so the K God the high priest his name was ay and he comes in and he saw her praying and it says that her lips were moving but she didn't make a sound now if you've ever seen Jewish people praying especially um the what we call amida which means standing because it's the stand standing prayer it's a central prayer where you stand um you'll notice that we move our mouths but we don't make a sound silent prayer and that's because we are imitating how KH or Hannah prayed um so yeah so ay the K the high priest he's the one who runs the the sanctuary he comes in he sees her praying moving her mouth not making a sound and she's sort of like murmuring to herself like that's what it looks like like cuz we started praying this way after her so before that it wasn't like a known thing so he didn't know what she was doing he thought she was like maybe like talking to herself so he asked her are you drunk and she says no I'm not drunk I'm a brokenhearted woman and I'm praying for a child now I'm going to just cut to the chase here but if you learn the laws of the Holy Temple you will know that if somebody is drunk they are not asked if they're drunk they're immediately removed so he didn't really mean are you drunk like intoxicated with alcohol he meant are you being indulgent are you spiritually drunk you're in the holiest place in the world the the mishkon was the sanctuary that's where the holy of holies was where God's presence was was revealed in this world you're in the holiest place in the world and you're you're praying about what you need like is that appropriate so it's drunk It's spiritually drunk It's indulgent it's self-absorbed so she says to him let me tell you something I'm praying for a child and he's like yeah that's that's exactly what I'm saying you're you're coming to God with your needs she says but no listen the rest of the conversation she says to him I want this child to give the child to Hashem and when as soon as he is able I'm going to bring him here and he will serve God here in this house which is exactly what happened she raised him until he was yeah until he was self-sufficient and she brought him to the sanctuary and he he lived there he lived there Samuel lived there he he was raised there and so basically what was she saying to him she was saying yes I'm asking for a child you think I'm asking for a child for me it's not for me it's for God I want to give this to God that's my gift if God gives me this child then I have the ability to dedicate that child back to God so when we im a pure pure motivation um yes completely not a selfish motivation correct real altruism where our only concern is to be givers so it's interesting if you ask God make me Rich why because I want to be rich you know it's a little bit self-indulgent but if you say God give me the opportunity to give you my wealth to dedicate wealth to charitable causes ah so then I'm asking to be a giver I see that's extremely insightful and helpful let's go back to your issue and maybe even you could Intuit why say this will be a hack cuz your problem is you're not sure if you're worthy of more blessings so how does this clear that up and avoid the whole issue because that's kind of not relevant necessarily it seems yeah you got it because this is for yeah no say it to everyone else because everyone else is listening they want to understand it thank you because whether or not I am worthy is not relevant to well he believes we are all worthy the prayer must be for the higher good for to get order hold on repeat that phrase hold on that was a great phrase say could you say that again I I want everyone to hear that just the prayer must be for what the higher good I love it I love it okay sorry to interrupt you keep going you're doing great thank you thank you so whether or not I'm worthy it's like a little is not relevant in the in God's eyes because God is saying if I say a prayer if one says a prayer for the higher good something that I will be able to gift back to God yeah then that prayer will be answered whether or not I may see myself as worthy you got it you nailed it yeah can I tell you what my my favorite Parables yes okay this Parable is about a guy it's not a real guy it's just a parable he's a parable guy and he's driving in the car one night what was his name whatever you want it to be okay he was driving in a car one night and he was hating life he was miserable and he wasn't a big believer but he was so miserable with with his life he actually murmured a prayer and he said God I hate my life give me a new life and in the middle of the car he wow yeah yeah yeah well it's just a parable don't get too excited and in the middle okay in the middle of the car God starts speaking to him you remember like John Denver you remember that oh yes see I really appreciate the callers to this show a lot of times I I'll drop a reference like that people won't know what I'm talking about remember when John Denver was in the car and George Burns started talking to him yes I love it okay fine so and people don't know what I'm talking about you just go Google John D driving in the car George Burn talk then you'll understand what I'm talking about okay so anyways this guy's in the car and he's oh God I hate my life give me a new life and what do you know God answers him in the middle of the car and he says to him a new life a new life yeah sure you're in luck today I have a new life for a very reasonable price the guy said says what yeah how much is that and God says well how much you got the guy's like H I got about 20 bucks on me God says Okay um give me the 20 bucks the price of of your new life is 20 bucks the guy's driving remember he's like he looks at the gas tank and he's like but I'm running out of gas I need to put more fuel in the tank and if I give you my 20 bucks that's all I have I won't be able to get more gas God says oh you have a you have a car price for or your new life just went up it's 20 bucks in your car the guy says hold on a second if I give him my car how am I going to get to work in the morning God says oh you're gainfully employed yeah so the price for your new life has gone up again it's 20 bucks your car and your job the guy says guy says if I give you my job how am I going to pay the mortgage mortgage oh you're a homeowner yeah seems that the price for your new life has gone up again once more the price for your new life is 20 bucks your car your job and your house the guy says God if I give you my house where are my wife and children gonna live God says oh dear price of your new life has gone up again it is $20 your car your job your house your wife and your kids at this point the guy realizes he better shut up because every time he makes a comment it's getting worse so now he's not speaking wow he says mhm mhm so God says to him all right now you have any comments you want to say anything okay now before I give you your new life I'm G to give you your brand new life um I need you to do a few things for me um is that okay the guy says Okay God says first thing I want you to do God says you see this $20 it's not your $20 God says it's my $20 was your $20 now it's mine um I want you to spend it for me but it's my $20 God says so you're going to spend it but because it's mine you can only buy things I want and God says you see this car it's not your car it's my car now I want you to drive it but because it's my car you have to drive it to places where I would want to go God says see this job it's not your job it's my job but I want you to show up there every day and do business the way that I want business conducted you see this house God says it's not your house it's my house but I want you to live in it but I want you to live in it the way a house of God is lived in with open doors and hospitality and see this wife and children this family God says they're not your wife and children they're my wife and children and I want you to treat them as such can you do all of this for me guy says mhm God says great then here's your 20 bucks here's your C car here's your job here's your house here's your wife and kids and here's your new life the difference between the old life and the new life was simply ownership to whom does it belong in his old life which he which he detested it was all his in his new life he doesn't own a thing it all belongs to God but he is assigned with the Holy task of making use of it and that's all of us wow that's all of us all the blessings that you have and I know that you're blessed and that you feel blessed those aren't for you to use those are for you to to give away you know I I got my fruit basket here and I'm thinking about fruits you know think about fruits like a red tamarillo um and if you don't know what a red tamarillo looks like just let me have fun here you know just look this is how they look when they grow on the tree look at that okay I don't know if you're still watching but okay so the red tamarillo gorgeous little fruit but I want to tell you something a red tamarillo tree doesn't eat red tamarillos no it doesn't an apple tree doesn't eat apples a plum tree doesn't eat plums an orange tree doesn't eat oranges the tree grows the fruit for others to consume so your blessings are not for you your blessings were given to you as a stewardship that you are being entrusted by God to make good use of those blessings oh I love that perspective and if you are of service then I want to tell you something there's no limit to the amount of goodies that you can run to the back and you know go to the kitchen and grab as many platters as you want because you're coming out to serve God's kids that's a that's a a perspective of abundance There's No Limit right I appreciate this so much because it's really changed my perspective especially on prayer and and I really appreciate that because I'm going to have this in the Forefront of my mind from now on when I pray that is so cool that's great and thank you thank you thank you this was this was a wonderful discussion really appreciate it amazing amazing for me too I'm honored to be here thank you Rabbi thank you so much our pleasure our pleasure thank you for that call that was amazing um we're going to go on to our next caller our next caller is sholy welcome okay hello Hi how are you thank God I'm doing good I have a question yes good I have a question I'm asking on behalf of my wife who is uh recovering from an eating disorder okay and there's two parts one is she's been going to a lot of therapy and she wants to know when is uh there too much therapy when is therapy too much and the second one is just in general how to connect more to one's body okay so the question of like when is therapy too much or too much of it or uh you know when are you doing it too much it's a really hard question to answer um especially not knowing all the details but even if I knew the details I'm not sure if feel qualified to make a judgment call like that but what I can say is this um I don't know if it's really a question of quantity like too much too little as much as it is a question of quality getting the right kind so when you have the right kind of therapy that's really supporting you and giving you Clarity then you know even a little bit of it can be extremely effective and and um when you need more of it even even a lot isn't isn't too much but if it's not really the right thing and then you just try to make up for a lack of quality by overdoing the quantity sometimes that becomes a unique type of burnout therapeutic burnout I've seen that many many times where someone who's already emotionally Ted because they're dealing with whatever it is they're dealing with and now they're engaged in a lot of therapy that is not really hitting the spot and that becomes like a secondary source of burnout so my my real response to that would be like I can't say there's too much or too little what I can say is there's the right kind and if she finds something that's really connecting with her and she feels like it makes sense to her and she feels like aligned with it where it feels it just feels right I don't know how to explain other than it feels right meaning you feel that it's nourishing you like if you eat a meal and you you finish eating and you're still hungry so it's like a therapy where you do it it's like the end you still feel emotionally empty yeah so that that would be my answer is just to find the right thing there's so many different modalities and so many different approaches and you know it's really unique to each person right and you just got to keep right trying different things to you find the thing that connects part of it is that part of it is that the the therapy that she's been going through hasn't really aligned with her values well that's going to be an issue that's been if if you're in conflict with the therapy and from a values uh perspective that's going to be like yeah it's I don't want to call it a deal breaker because I don't want to tell somebody to drop therapy until they have an idea of what else they would do but yeah definitely it's yeah essential that it be aligned with with your values yeah yeah yeah yeah that's okay makes sense thank now your other question is about what feeling more present in your body in general yeah how to connect to the body more yeah how to connect to the body more so what's interesting to me is you know that question I would just guess taking educated guess that that question itself comes from some type of therapeutic experience I mean that's probably something somebody heard in therapy right right okay so I'm correct about that um this is a really great concept connecting with the body why did I think it came from therapy just because that language because the wording used is more like wording that you would hear in therapy but the reality is the concept comes from Torah and more specifically comes from comes from the teachings of the BV who taught that in in in contrast with many of the spiritualists that came before him who were Aesthetics who tried to attain spiritual refinement through negating their bodies the BM taught that we need to accept the body to embrace the body and to uplift it to bring it along in the spiritual journey and the successors of the BAL of theic Masters through the generations especially I would say the the seventh in his teachings regarding mhia and what we call a Dwelling Place forem in the in the physical world really really stresses this concept of that Hashem wants us to be present in the physical world and for our souls to be fully aligned with our bodies and that this is the ultimate expression of infinity that the ultimate expression of infinity is specifically in the physical world because it is a finite realm time and space are limited so the ultimate expression of infinity is when the unlimited can be present in the limited and I know that's very philosophical talk but I just wanted to make a point that being present in your body may be something that somebody heard in therapy but the concept is much older than that and it's a it's a holy concept so the biggest way to be present in your body and connected with your body is to use your body the way that it was designed to be used which is something called a Mitzvah Mitzvah directly translates to commandment but we know that it's much more than a commandment it is an action Mitzvah aren't ideas they're not abstraction they are actions and by doing Mitzvah with our bodies we align the soul with the body and we fulfill the purpose for which we came to our bodies so like literally getting up and moving your body to do the will of God is the most grounding thing that you can do for yourself um I I I I was talking to some people the other night I have this new thing called uh Soul Survivors actually youell could you put maybe in the chat the link for Soul Survivors this this new group I have monthly thing called Soul Survivors s o l survivors uh for like highly sensitive people and stuff and we're talking about one of the things we can do to feel more uh connected to the body I said um that when you give charity that it's good to do it as a repeated action to do it at least on a daily basis and um okay like hold on a second let me just grab this here so I have on my wall you can't see it because it's out of the camera shot but I have on my wall the um this pushka this uh charity box it's actually on my wall to turn the whole room into a charity Box by extension and like literally the physical act of reaching in your pocket pulling out the money and putting it in is is therapeutic it's healing it's sematic healing so um that's why like before we pray we give charity and before we study Torah we give charity and before uh you start to cook you give charity and before you um start a business deal you give charity because using your physical body in that way is so grounding and it's not just that you physically take your hand and take the money and put it in the Box but also what the money represents that's money that you earned with physical exertion and then the money itself could have been spent on resources for your body and then you take that and you convert it into a Mitzvah into something holy and it refines the physicality in a very powerful way so yeah Mitzvah all types of Mitzvah things that you do with your body but especially charity and especially especially acts of goodness and kindness get up go visit the sick um you know make a meal for a woman who just gave birth and deliver it um unfortunately it happens but you know when it does happen to comfort mourners you know I I lost my father a couple of months ago and I was sitting shiva I was in the seven days of morning and the fact that people physically showed up yeah and but you want to know something it was very comforting how many people showed up they came to the home and it was an amazing thing it's like you know just call just send a text that's how we all do things nowadays and yet people physically showed up and and that's what a Mitzvah is it's physically showing up I had a friend who told me once and I and I never forgot it he said you could fake caring but you cannot fake showing up like either you did or you didn't but I think that's the problem go on you know that's that's it there's a there's a lot of demand to do things but it's you can do it and be disassociated from the ACT I think maybe specifically the question is but that's okay okay so let me let me explain to you why that's okay okay it doesn't have to be so mindful bring your body bring your body and bring your body and bring it again and bring it again eventually the mind and heart will be able to show show up for it the most powerful thing is to physically show up see if we do the reverse where we try to get ourselves to be mentally and emotionally congruent with the act before we do the ACT we're often waiting a long time or maybe even waiting forever it never happens but if you can just bring the body the body's so powerful it will draw the mind and heart after it so it feels like being a hypocrite you're doing it in a perfunctory way I don't really want to be here I'm forcing myself it's okay but you're doing it you're really doing it and it has such power and it's so healing it is so healing you you want to know something um so I told you I'm in in my I lost my father so I'm in the year of morning so we don't attend festive occasions during this year so I'm off the hook as far as going to Weddings But I want to tell you something um I learned only in the past few years how important it was for me to go to weddings it's a Mitzvah actually is it's a to uh to celebrate with the bride and groom and I avoided it because I don't like crowds and I don't like leaving the house if I don't have to and I don't like loud noises and there's always music and it's loud I don't like social interactions and you go to a wedding you're gonna have to have a hundred different social interactions but I realized that showing up at people's Simas at their happy occasions like it means so much and I had to sort of realize that it's not so important for me me to be emotionally and intellectually congruent with this it's important for me to be physically congruent by showing up and by showing up I want to tell you something since I started doing this just really in the past few years it changed me I have come to appreciate it more and I don't think I would have come to appreciate it if I hadn't just forced myself to start okay next one what are some ways to get out of the mind and and and get into the body you know just doing doing something for others because that really gets you out of your head showing up for others and it could be your own children but doing something for someone else is the best way like when we get deep into that spiral into that rumination and we need to just break it show up and do something for somebody okay yeah sound good thank you okay awesome much uh success to you to your wife thanks for calling in thank you so much okay y what's up you have more callers I didn't look on the Google sheet or doc or whatever it is do you want to do a a fruit and Shu yeah okay fine no problem happy to do some fruit okay all right so ladies and gentlemen boys and girls children of all ages I just want to tell you we're getting a lot of Canadian money and I appreciate it so Mo'Nique gave her 199 Canadian now we got from Marsha Beck 279 Canadian and that is very exciting we love the Canadian money because it's pretty it's colorful why can't American money be pretty and colorful why does it have to be so Spartan I can't answer that okay so let's um let's do some fruit okay let's do some fruit let's do some fruit here you go this is called a red tamarillo a red tamarillo where do red tamarillos grow you st could you find out for me where they grow this what they look like when they grow on the tree gorgeous okay where do red tamarillos grow does anybody know could they write it in the chat perhaps all right here we go South America New Zealand Australia and the United States I wonder where they're indigenous to because South America and New Zealand I doubt I doubt they're indigenous to both places they probably started in one place and were brought to the other can you find out where they're indigenous to indigenous Ecuador Colombia Peru Chile Argentina and Bolivia yeah and then they were brought to New Zealand can you find out if a granny smith apple is indigenous to New Zealand if it was brought there please I'm betting it was brought there because I think apples are from Europe um The Granny Smith is a Australian native I don't believe it I don't think I think it was brought to Australia like the Australians I don't believe it I don't believe there's an indigenous Apple to Australia you're arguing with Google you want to know about arguing with Google uh I wanted to see how much a parking ticket was in Cedarhurst okay let's just have a little bit of fun here who wants to have some fun who wants to have a little bit of fun a little bit of fun all right hold on a second I'm gonna we're gonna have a blast over here uh yeah okay you're gonna have we're gonna have a blast don't doubt me just roll with it just roll with it one second I got to do this I got to do what I got to do you got to do what you got to do okay and if you got to leave I understand you could leave there be no hard feelings okay one second uh yeah okay this gonna be Co it's going to be cool okay so I had to pay a Cedar Hurst parking ticket um and it was like $75 by the time I paid for it and I was like man that is rough like how much was it original I want to know how much it was originally how much because you know they raise it um and I was like what was it originally was it 40 bucks was 50 bucks like because by the time I paid it it was 75 bucks so I go Googled how much are Cedar Hurst parking tickets so this is what I get one second one second okay so it says in the village of Cedar Hurst New York a first offense for violating parking regulations can result in a fine of at least $500 I don't know how they know if it's your first offense sounds more like a criminal thing than like a paring ticket but okay subsequent offenses can result in higher fines first offense at least $500 fine for violating parking regulations second offense at least $1,000 fine if committed within 18 months of the first offense third offense at least $1,500 fine have committed within 18 months of the first offense other penalties in addition to a fine a person may also be imprisoned for up to 15 days for a first offense we're talking about parking in Cedarhurst you'll they will put you in prison and I don't really think they'll put you in prison for 15 days I think that's more like a County lockup type type thing thing you know like 26 in California you guys from Chicago know 26 in California right most knows 26 in California okay for a second or subsequent offense a person may be impr prisoned for up to 45 days or 90 days respectively metered regulations are not in effect on Sundays or major legal holidays and then at the bottom it says generative AI is experimental so I'm going to pray that the case here is that that was just Ai aiing and that there is no basis in reality I hope that they're not giving people $1,500 fines for parking in Cedar Hurst or putting them in the county lockup in the husa for 15 days you know where the word husa comes from that's Cowboy slang Cowboys called jails husa put them in the HCA you know where it comes from husa it is um a gringo pronunciation ofuscado but they would hear talking about the Cowboys they dealt with a lot of Spanish speakers because you know that part of uh United States was like well actually used to belong to Mexico a lot of it so uh they would hear that term hus scato and they would say oh husa husa Hout just kind of slur hus scow put him in the hus scow okay so who's ready for this ready for this okay oh you so I'll pull it up the grany Smith cavar originated in Eastwood New South Wes Australia now a suburb of Sydney in 1868 its Discoverer Maria an Smith had immigrated to the district from Beckley East Sussex in 1839 with her husband Thomas okay but here's the deal I still don't believe all right let's just read the first because I don't believe that any apples are indigenous to Australia maybe that that that what do they call breed they call a breed species not a species that what do they call them what do they call different types of apples breeds um there's a word for it can someone find out what the word by the way what is the worst type of apple red delicious it is not delicious it's taste tastes like paper it's awful the first description of the origin so I don't believe any apples are indigenous to Australia but I do believe that maybe that the First Time The Granny Smith breed was bread was in Australia but I don't believe that apples I believe they had to bring the apples from Europe to Australia then they messed around with different types of apples till they got the Granny Smith okay at any rate I'm starting to think that this Maria Anne Smith may be the aforementioned Granny Smith let's find out if she was a grandmother or if she just liked being called granny the first description of the origin of the Granny Smith apple was not published until 1924 in that year farmer and settler which is the name of a magazine published the account of a local historian who had interviewed two men who had known Smith one of those interviewed recalled that in 1868 he then 12 years old and his father had been invited to Smith's Farm to inspect a chance seedling that had sprung near a creek and chance seedling is clickable you said all can you just click chance seedling and find out what a chance seedling is Smith had dumped there among the ferns the remains of here we go Smith had dumped there among the ferns the remains of French crab apples that had been grown in Tasmania now there's of unpacking there because they'd been grown in Tasmania this is in Australia but they're not from Tasmania either are they no they're not they're from France how do we know they're from France because they're called French crab apples like I told you apples are from Europe so basically these French crab apples were brought from France to Tasmania then back to Mainland Australia specifically New South Wales and she dumped some um French crab apples among the ferns Where the Red Fern Grows don't cry another story recounted that Smith had been testing French crab apples for cooking and throwing the apple cores out her window as she worked had found that the new cavar had sprung up underneath her kitchen okay so I feel Vindicated because basically what we're saying here is that she was messing around with apples however you want to say she threw them among the ferns or she was cooking with apples and she was tossing the Apple cor out her window and that caused this uh new cavar can you also you so can you tell me what a cultivar is just cultivar is a variety of apple variety of Apple Mendy Herz just Ted to me it's they're called varieties varieties of Apple you know what my favorite varieties of apples are I'll tell you no particular order um uh um I'm blocking can't remember remember now but I hate the red delicious and I've I'm only 50 years old I'm not that old I've experienced in my lifetime the degradation of the red delicious they were better they weren't so bad back in the 70s they were decent now they crumble apart in your mouth like sand they taste like paper you should just do away with the entire variety okay um a chance seedling is a plant that is the product of unintentional breeding so what do you know is a little hus little Divine Providence that's really cool a chance seing may be genetically unique individual be a be a genetically unique individual with desirable characteristics that is then intentionally read so you're like wow cool let's do this again on purpose the kindred spirit hybrid Oak and the Granny Smith Wolf River lady Alice red delicious a red delicious Graven braburn s CH cville Blanc de B and Baldwin apples are all examples of varieties that started with chant seedlings that were selected and assigned Cult of our status owing to their desirable properties okay so at any rate here we go red tamarillo I'm just going to show you a picture again of a red tamarillo tree oh no that was the that was the Cedar Hurst thing and they are really I gotta tell you they are aggressive that's the one thing just they are super aggressive about the parking tickets like that's why by the way jfyi just going to co save again myy Herz that's why I go to Cove because there parking there and I don't want to mention other places but some places you go there and like you could run in for two minutes and you're looking at the meter and the meter says there's one minute left you're like okay but I'm just going to go in for one minute and then you run in for two minutes and you come back out the guy he watches you like a hawk it's predatory I do want to say that I feel that it's predatory I do feel that way I feel that way and that those are my feelings I'm sorry okay anyways this is the red tamarillo see gorgeous all right so here we go here we go don't eat off the knife like that not bad not bad pretty good it's red tamarillo um let's try some other stuff this is the Ecuador thing what do we say it was what was the Ecuador thing still remember what it was called okay we're going to try this e goo our thing right or do we have a sh wasama feel like we had a sh wasama I don't know come back to this let's do a little sand pair it's good I like the sand pair m is this ASMR listening to me chomping on a sand pair okay this is a cumquat I want to show you something you guys probably um Monique is writing they usually make juice from it make juice from what what do they make juice from so a lot of people are going to be shocked they like don't do it a kumquat you eat the you're going to say you got to peel it because it's citrus fruit no you don't peel it you don't believe me you don't peel a kumquat you eat them whole I mean you could cut it if you want but you don't have to peel it you don't have to take off the peel you eat the peel it's very thin and yummy I'm going to show you wow I got to tell you something I love the tartness of a kumquat I love it so delightful um let's do some of these these little guys what was this called falis p h Ys a l i s product of Colombia Colombia this are really good I like this um so this is all from Cove and if you would go to col You' be able to get this kind of quality produce for your home your family I'm sure your kids would appreciate it imagine how your children would feel if you would come home this shabas with a bag full of rare fruits you'd be a hero kids would love it can promise you that let's cut one of these what is this called someone told me what is called let's cut this gosh okay it's like kind of white inside translucent white just eat this so Monique says the tamarillos are often used for their juice I would drink a whole cup of tamarillo juice like for breakfast I would enjoy that I think I would enjoy it let me just okay little more tamarillo yeah it's got a weird taste I don't think I would drink a cup of its juice actually I'm taking that back and now I was just thinking to myself what am I going to do with this um like 2/3 of a tamarillo it's all cut up and I was like you know what after I'm done with this show I'm going to go toss it out the door and you know what I thought of when I thought of imagined tossing a tamarillo out the door throwing it into the bushes Granny Smith Granny Smith well actually I thought about making a chant seedling can you imagine if like one day you go to the store and they're like they call like a z tab I am a grandfather by the way I know I look young um and you're like what is this 8ab tamarillo oh it's a chant seedling it's the variety that was cultivated after the Thursday night Callin show Chase Tob threw a tamarillo two-thirds of a tamarillo from col saafe just tossed it out the window among the ferns among the red ferns okay um ladies and gentlemen boys and girls children of all ages welcome to our show ironically we're ending now so I don't know why I'm welcoming you last time we had the show I think I went on for like three hours and uh I feel like I may have set your expectations a little bit a skew is that a real phrase setting one's expectations a skew I feel like I made you think that I could just rant for three hours and be semi intelligible and semi- entertaining um I'm not sure that I'm capable of that and I don't think that we need to always do three hours of ranting although we did uh did get some nice material out of that I would ask you for requests or for prompts to get me going but we have a very limited ability to take comments in the chat because Monique is writing is it singing time well if you insist we could sing a song sure um and so as as I mentioned I'll do a song in a minute um but we got with God's help I mentioned that we limited the live chat to people who are members of the channel so um I don't know how many people are members of the channel probably like 10 people and like three of them are here right now so I don't know how many people are really capable of um commenting but yeah that's the deal okay we're going to sing a little song we're going to sing a song um can you please tell us a story before the singing yeah sure of course I can tell you a story before the singing of [Applause] course the story is that actually this is a story from the townwood oh no all the seites are going to come the talm mod okay yes I'm going to tell you a story from the talmud um the story is that there were two rabbis um who were taking one one was taking leave from the other and uh you can check this out this is the the gor Tinus uh which is a tomod track H about fast days and it's on uh da hey over the base means folio 5B anyways so this one Rabbi who was leaving this other Rabbi and he's like give me a blessing like you want a blessing come out it's locked okay hold on yeah take come come on come on just come on screen a second okay Randy Herz is here hold on a second okay I'm hiding what I'm you're hiding just go in front of the camera for one second just show everyone that you brought me the apples just just just go on screen just get in get into the camera got to duck down get into the camera you going show the apples he's not here's not here no he's texting me oh bad yeah sh I yeah there was a little bit of mold on one of the kumquats we good I didn't show that yeah they were good yesterday uh okay these are not red delicious these are Honeys honey crisp honey no no no no these are honey crisp on crack what is honey crisp on crack these come around as often as the Cubs win a World Series what is this they're like once a year for like a month they're called like a hone but like a with a lot of n's h u n nyz Honeys yeah they're delicious okay let's check it out let's check it out Savage okay your thumb okay never ask a man how to Knife Fight no mhm was I making it up is this a good one it's legit no a good apple crisp you hear that we have for like a month a year I'm too tall for this we're going to do a little um Apple ASMR these are my favorite yeah those are good golden gooseberries they like cart and sweet wait silence listen list I'm going to crack uh honeys I'm going do a little ASMR here I'm going to crack it listen listen hold on I I jiggled the mic and it took it it took energy you can see you're struggling didn't your weedies today by this is a golden this is like a golden this is a good apple Honeys they're only around for like a month or so then they're gone not pulpy like a red delicious goodge called a meie you know it has like that me that's the text me yeah a crumble um I'm going tell a story and you're going to sing the song so but start thinking of the song and we're gonna no you're you're going to sit in my seat yeah yeah show the okay um so this one Rabbi is leaving this other Rabbi he's like give me a blessing he says okay I'll give you a blessing but before I give you a blessing I'm going to tell you a story right story Story Time Ione like stories is once upon a time there was a guy who was hanging out under a tree and he had eaten from the fruits and he had luxuriated beneath the tree and he was really enjoyed his little time by the tree and as he got up from the tree he says to the tree Elon Elon not Elon Musk Elon Elon that meanso tree with what shall I bless you what what blessing should I give you shall I bless you that your fruit be sweet your fruit is already Sweet should I bless you that your shade be plentiful your shade is already plentiful should I bless you that a stream a pleasant stream runs by underneath you it already is a pleasant stream runs by underneath you rather I bless you that all of the the the trees that grow from your seed should be just like you and the rabbi understood that his friend who was taking leave from him was telling him I can't bless you with any qualities that you don't already have cuz you have it all what do you get what do you get for the man who has it all penicillin okay I can't bless you with any qualities that you don't already have because you already have all the great qualities but I can bless you that all of your children should have these qualities as well that's the greatest blessing and who doesn't want a blessing for their children everyone wants a blessing for children we don't want a blessing for ourselves we want our blessings for our children we were talking about before about it's all about service it's all about what we can do for others having children who serve Hashem is is the the greatest calling it's greatest purpose that's what we we all strive for okay um come on over come on sing sing a song are you gonna sing that song I don't know what song I don't know it come come come not a love you they love you really you went through the through the pit come on what are we doing you can put on the headphones if you want I don't know the I don't know what the headphones do you don't you don't I think I had weigh this chair destroying it okay what are we doing here tonight you're going to sing a song ladies and gentlemen I was waiting for you welcome to the Ladi gentlemen boys and girls ages welcome to the show okay what are we doing you're singing a [Music] song for [Music] no [Music] [Applause] [Music] no know [Music] can you hear it [Music] I'm dying up here am me okay that was good warm up good warm up that was the song that was a story amazing that was amazing that was the song that was the story so if people didn't understand the words that was exactly the words from that story from the talmud have you heard about the tal mod heard about the T you didn't get into this one the Mango Steam no spple has a flavor Mango Steam it was I was intimidated by the our shell what happened to the old days where we just got a starf fruit and a Sabra and you were good yeah I was I didn't find out what this was till I was 17 in Yeshiva in Europe what happened to the old days when you could use just a pomegranate as your new fruit a pomegranate right yeah now pomegranate is like it's like an apple now with travel everything is like in season all year it feels like so did you hear me talking about throwing the red tamarillo out the window and unintentionally starting a chant seedling I will I will bet that it won't sprout in Cedars you think because the too cold it has a nice pit that's what I like about the liy nut that's what it called Ley nut mhm that was good so we got the Honeys apples here these this was gaval now they have Alina has like a cousin that's the hairy one it's called the rutin rutin yeah Rasputin no it's like a Rastafarian long-haired uh Le uh it's dreads dreads dreadlocks that by the way is very fun looking it is the most Bland boring it tastes like a cucumber wow it's very cool like green neon like mucus SE seeds on the inside so it's it's deceptively interesting visually but it's boring quite tasteless yeah yeah oh you missed this one you know this is oh that was the big one what is that that's a cacao pod what's it called a cacao pod to make CH to make like cocoa beans oh this is how they make chocolate well you never done the Hershey the Hershey Park trip and they offer you chocolate the you can't e oh hold on I had some carab some buxer oh sorry okay bucker hold on a second so I actually I bought this in Crown Heights yesterday some some some bucks I'm going to see last year there's a shortage I think everybody was panicking carob it's awful by the way no offense look at this gorgeous who ate buckser Raj B rash B yeah yeah I think that's why we're all we all think we have to eat it but I want to tell you something that carob you know there's these trees in cron Heights I think outside 770 where these things hang yeah but they're not carob they look like carab yeah but they're really like I think they're like locust trees or something okay I'm going to need a little carob I didn't bring you Tamarind Tamarind is my favorite why don't you give me your favorite cuz it was didn't come loose it only was in a big box and I didn't think it would look nice in the uh even though I did give you a box of the golden of the gooseberries you got another song not really while I'm chewing my carab did you hear my do you hear do you hear me I didn't brought you water start now this is some sort of something Apple I it only has Chinese lettering in it by the way not all numbers are Universal like when we put these on tell everyone about it 4225 is I know this because I I like to do talking to the mic uh yeah a lot of numbers are Universal because they come from the market like this bananas one two uh no bananas are not they have numbers on them but uh avocados all have two or three codes that are pretty much I don't know Universal but definitely in the states uh maybe even Canada this I've never seen this one before in all my years of working in grocery business some sort of Apple I don't think it is an apple or it's like like the Asian peir is like called a Chinese Apple so it's like soft oh it's pulpy yeah I'll show I'll show the camera oh look at that that looks nice that's like a fleshy pulp I think this one's off this that looks like fun it look it looks like a type of a larvae you could trick kids you could tell them like this is like like a something like a butterfly Crystal this is this is this a passion fruit not passion fruit is this a guava this is a guava and guavas for some reason are great as a flavor they're terrible as a fruit they're like they're Bland out you put like a th000 grams of sugar in them they're great in desserts and fillings little guava people looking now these are like hit or miss they're either like really tart or they get the sweet and tart ones do you know how much I love kumquats I heard about it yeah I ate a whole the the I'm a texture I'm very big texture person and the idea of the peels puts me off I love it I love that you don't have to peel them feel like you're breaking a rule really okay what's a good song not taking request now it's going to be a disaster what is this by the way hack you go to the local Asian stores they always have these fun things all year round oh now you're going to ruin it you have to slept in nobody slept in uhuh where are the Asian groceries around here there's a couple there's about probably flushing no even on the island there's on see say that properly there's by town of Hemstead by the uh by like Town Hemstead uh courts and stuff there's one it feels like by the way I was in Hong Kong for nine weeks it's literally you go in there and you're through a portal in Hamstead they have a there's like a real Asian asan market real Asian market like what Market you buy bats there I didn't check in the uh in the dark uh corridors but uh yeah it's very cool actually you feel like you're out of miles away from New York like Long Beach you ever go to Long Beach and you feel like you're miles out of New York City right it's 10 minutes from here it's like a portal and you're like whoa where am I yeah are these really New Yorkers right they're like you know flipflops and surfboards right Atlantic Beach not as much you go to Long Beach you're like you might you may as well be in a different state you mean Long Beach New York not Long Beach California well obviously Long Beach New York you know who's from Long Beach California who Snoop from oh yeah I could say Warren G too but Snoop is more well known sing a song what am I singing I lay the Busters down I let my cat explode go ahead no I don't I'm not a hip-hop kid what I what do we got I don't have to Lan this job this it's going to be brutal you do I don't have to but not entire up yeah Ten Commandments what happened to he goes back to midan yeah and he was done we thought we got him yeah you did he went oh yeah officially is the first one yeah it was the first one going after yeah oh interesting we're not doing much here just like dead here Doge [Laughter] H yeah sing us a song sing us song is that thing is that like a s thing yeah they drew that one up how do they do it sing it's I don't know but same sing song it's great it's not great I don't like it because now my kids think you know Sound of Silence is kosher because five Jewish singers sing it well two Jewish singers are the one who originated I know but from singers it's about the Sheriff right okay so what do what do you have for us musically I don't know I'm I'm I'm really I'm not good at this okay I'll give you a song um let's here what what do you do R when you have to put in iner I don't that's why I D an inside not outside oh you skip the N you no I'm not a big and Guy during do and we' discussed this P I mean I'll do it but I'm not a I don't like having to fit words [Music] in even M Clan you don't [Music] sing as opposed to I don't know just saying that's a little B no it's ones some ones you have to hit yeah so you do that yeah that's like saying by the way you people s and yeah 50 40 years ago not 30 years ago they never sang did they say it the L they didn't sing so I went to a SCH I went to a when I was younger that used to do the so when I was in I remember which kid my age knew as a saying they knew it as a song right but I had heard it growing just go like back and forth yeah very exciting okay let's give the people something what are we give what do you have for us I'm not something heart sick you do a sto you all the words you don't do that not your not your style okay what about um real you do you could do it but really do it you really put yourself into it we're gonna make a clip from it we're gonna make a clip from it Mandy for the clip no do tick for faster tick what do you want to do go I'll go back to work one more song One More song before you go back to co best I told you I would drive two hours I was listening and you don't get TI TI when you parked there I I tell everybody it's uh it's 20 I tell people when they go to the other store it's either 25 cents more or $50 more if you don't pay the ticket by how much are the tickets 50 bucks 50 bucks you saw 3 35 or 50 you saw that generative AI thing that said the people get flogging for yeah I want to know why you didn't pay your ticket in time this is why I 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