THIS is the greatest compliment for a MAN!

you know the greatest compliment when he gives you receive women don't realize the ways in which they shut down their husbands and you don't realize right or wrong how fragile the male ego is and how low of a threshold he has to the embarrassment and the shame of failing an attempt to provide something to you that you would value so the art of being married to a man is the art of encouraging his giving now that's a really difficult art and I'll tell you one thing that makes it super complicated and that is you know as well as I do that you can't receive everything because sometimes even the people that you're closest to are trying to put something on you or in you that's not healthy and you can't be present to receive it it's not safe it's not self-respectful you have to have boundaries and standards that's what makes it so difficult to be a macabo