Thinking of Working More; or Getting A Second Job? - R. Yisroel Brog - TorahAnytime.com

rely on me and you will get whatever you are supposed to get so here's a guy that's i rely on your shame so i'm not gonna overwork myself to be stuck because with people that overwork means they have no reliance when somebody takes two or three jobs that's the most tragic thing in the world you know why because hashem never even in the head that i should never mention guys you read 24 hours a day never should have never meant that even in the head that i said never mind why are you working two or three jobs you got to make a product that means that person has zero beeta absolutely zero guitar the guy who needs two jobs when that person tells me my job doesn't earn enough to feed my family you know what he's saying i can't rely on my penalty for my job i have to get another apprentice if the guy would have any cycle he would say hashem i'm doing what i can i now i'm boy that you are going to provide for me and my family and you're going to give me everything i need even though the numbers don't end up making 60 grand a year 70 grand a year and he needs to make 200 grand here to feed his growing family i understand your dilemma but you have to if you don't want to work like a charts and you don't want to end up being just a slave in evan kenani you better work on be tough you've got to work on that this lady says another thing but if so to the degree that you think you need to work two jobs you will not get your money unless you work two jobs so you're your own worst enemy i tell people your own worst enemy remember fellows very involved in the talk nationally called me up and you said struggle you want to have it if the new job went through take your night jumps i said you're out of your mind if you were 24 hours a day what are you doing would you be talking about me talking over there if you're doing what you have to do you'll have to talk you'll have your money you know what to worry about that's what a person has to realize how how because but if you don't have and you feel that your job will never give you the money but now can you say now let's say a guy asks himself do i feel do i need to work nine hours a day for my partners if you worked eight hours a day would you not have pronounced it guys you know if i work eight hours a day know what that means that one hour extra the guy works is oscar gummer completely prohibited it's mamish forbidden legalry to do that extra work you don't need it you know i took a fellow tom of the mind it wasn't a youngster anymore 50 years old he had a company he had a partner and i told him how many hours day you work eight hours and say how do you mind why would you work 10 hours a day you just have to smell you don't let me show you i'm gonna show you don't have to work eight hours so from now on you're gonna start leaving work instead of four o'clock or five o'clock 15 minutes early do it for a few weeks and see if your panasonic becomes diminished his prognosis did not come diminished take another 15 minutes off now leave at four at 4 30 a few weeks later i said how's your professor doing pronunciation wonderful i said now take over another 15 minutes at the end of six to eight months the guy was working four hours a day and earning his same partners it's his partner can i agree with him a hundred i'm putting in eight hours and you're putting in four hours he said i'm bringing in the exact same money i brought before what's the difference you can do the same thing gets every time the guy uh i don't believe that stuff but look it works look for me not one set list it's amazing here i took a doctor a doctor who worked like a sus a very funny business but wasn't the kind of doctor like a heart doctor people came running to you more of an allergy doctor less of a demanding i told the guy you work in the you know retirement sorry take off five minutes each day from your work and i did then able to learn five minutes a day five minutes late it's a very assertive thing again let's go ten minutes a day at the end of the few years i say how many hours a week are you learning now you said 16. i'm running 16 hours a week that's a pretty i said how's your pronunciation he said not affected who's that club not on that i'm giving getting my expected raise you know earnings to be raised every period doesn't make sense because that doesn't make sense how can you make money and more money if you're working less you know why because it's not the working that brings you the penalties if you're a lazy bum and you hear this year and you decide wow i love this kind of i'm telling my wife i became about me talking and now i'm staying home and i'm going to play with my phone so she's to throw your head out the front door because you're just a fight like or as they say in english you're lazy but no such thing you got to be real you got to be honest and you're relying on a but i'll tell you another example that i had a doctor who was thinking of working at night what do they call it and i told him why would you he was moonlighting in an emergency room i said are you out of your mind why would you do this i said how much do you make from this one like 25 grand a year 200 million that's not bad just a little more lighting down to work the whole night there were a couple hours so i told them what if you could make that money without moonlighting you could stay home you could learn you could have carrots yeah but i might pronounce it right now for my main thing i'm short so what he did was i told him to stop the nonsense i told them to go learn because when you should told him to go and give it up don't move light and i'm telling your pandas is not going to change one bit you're getting hashem decided at the beginning of the year what you're going to earn you're not going to earn one penny more when you moonlight you're just getting your panasonic spread out over and longer but he couldn't figure out how is that gonna happen i said if you challenge hashem and it can't happen if i do my regular job is silly because i shouldn't could make your regular job give you more money not that that could happen but he believed that hashem was going to give it to him in some way and at the end of the year we will talk at the end of the year i asked him new what happened [Applause] said hashem reimbursed me to 25 grand i said can i ask you how yeah said my family adopted an old russian lady who had no family whatsoever and she was put into a nursing home she moved out of her apartment she told us to clean her apartment and she told us to look for the silver foil balls keep the silver foil balls [Applause] i don't know if you know but i aware old ladies like to save silver foil because they it's a waste save the next hanukkah maybe for next peso i don't know for one it comes in handy [Applause] so they say bowls of silver foil in bottles you know so she said look for the silver foil balls she didn't say why anyway they found this little foil ball they opened it up and the seat was full of cash now they started ridiculous cummins anyway they found a number of silver balls and it was a total of twenty five thousand dollars another guy said i mean this same guy wanted to put an ad in the yellow pages i was gonna cost him 40 grand i told him are you because some person came to sell you some nice ad for 40 000 you're going to pay i'm telling you it if you believe you need that you're not going to get your pronuncia only through that but if you believe that hashem could give you the pronouns without that you don't need you