The Yahrtzeit In Halacha - Rabbi Zev Smith 5780

roofie my boy i'm ashamed you can shoot I'd like to welcome everyone to today's year from our vehicles at Smith's later on DNA Minaj New York's at the outside innallaha today she is less about her only knishmas [Music] harish a mouthful a about services Alamelu fella is showing this is Shawn finish most of two of its Orihime I would like to have the great shows a sponsor here called agency retire at seven one eight eight five one eight six five one we say the best here is what comes up La Mesa two weeks ago my father's first yard site was caught foul of Siffin was Colin Chavez so I was told you can't davon for the UM it because the first yard site is still our valence which of course is a finish then I had a Schuyler with the GABAA gave me Mack they're typically four yard to get some out there and some ones that it's not true it's not right posed to get one of the Civic William if it's the art side baby I'm your Haven alia then there's a shall not McGarrett to me someone that had yard site to spare Shabbos and he wanted to make early Shabbos but he was told that if you have a yard site boy Bo mu mu clave to do Anna Lee took time for the arm it if you make early Shabbos it's not yet the art site let's say huh foul of syphilis a would be the yard site you make early Shabbos seven-thirty that virmire if you're not have any Meyer on the father's yard site because it still coughs even if a person would have a baby at that time the recipe Friday so could you make early Shabbos on a day of a yard site buddy beyond then we had other stylists someone has his a Nicole's house owner was scheduled for the day at yard sided busted they didn't realize it and then he heard that after fifty at the art side you'll have to keep a you outside so certainly we have our work for today to try to understand a little bit about the yard site the truth is the yard site is something that's hard to understand because as we know after 11 months a person has to stop saying Kaddish because we don't want to implicate the father as being a rush and you know I want to keep our valus past 12 months for sure so what is the yard site all about every year persons discard this awesome on the yard site and the cloud what does it mean the whole concept we hear that there's a host for the neshamah how does the neshamah have an alia that the some is no longer alive no longer functioning heard a very clever story some of us want to make an Aldi yeah he was moving very slow so they left he gave ticket sir hook nur was the and ruthless says what are you posed to say you know generally you say when you have a high and you say the shambles of Analia but I tell you there are leaves or hopping on the shaman who a bit abuse alive no I can understand that lease Robin Anna Sharma then in the summer that I could understand but how do you understand that Dahlia that in a Sharma for vinalia so it's really a fascinating so here because it's really interesting to note that there's no mention of yard site in Shas in fact no mention in shafts of Kaddish alia or made but perfect memorize the Torah let's look into cos all and we'll see a veldt about the earth site Rashi in Yama's cook off bays quotes from a to vizago in him that on the yard site at an ungodly they would gather by his kefir and they would be learn his Torah a bank of cameras he said that's the concept of the Acamas my shaver you put up my shave and you go back constantly to connect to the autumn goggle so we definitely see something about a yard site that on the yard so they went back to the camera we also see visiting the kefir on the yard site but there's no mention of Kaddish a fasting now we do see from this Rashi the importance of learning on the yard site because really if you're looking for custom for alia the greatest Talia's Lima retire the eisah fireman's goes back a few hundred years ago annoys shin lime and olive it says Lima retire learning on the yard site much much greater Shiva Sian more than Tabon equally ahmud on the earth side now of course we're not taking away from the importance of dabbling for the army but definitely learning on the yard that is the greates close but we don't see anything about a yard set of a parent or saying Kaddish etc what we do see in both the sewer staff coffin the dorm that few days a totally different context Gamora speaks about you making Neda and you have to connect the nether to something that's awesome is so Asha also enough so what's an example of making an adder so the Kumari says hurry our lives like a little bar search like SDI in the youngish amazed very often so the interesting the muscle of something that's awesome is the art sight sup the safer good and sewers are his test it was a reason and the later tourists hi Menachem are both point out this gamar is the source that on a yard site the son has to fast if you're looking at Michelle me the beginning of the Dorian kick is there like he I'm just amazed by ABBA dr. carpenter ADA then you chose that muscle because that was the Minich too fast on the yard site so we have both are badly and he shall me too fast on the yard site now the question of course is what's the source of a tiny so that should be push it when ye Denise Wilson that generates clusen it generates toover when there's a problem facing class over guys the tightness so evidently the neshamah sullivan alia is accomplished through a tightness now there's a lot to say how exactly does it work asunder something it works with the father and this is not out of my range but the tireless ma that's a basic I mean Baghdad in his tuba synth tough Todd the game will close the lesson of the real car this you can understand that cousin they hate how exactly it works the Sun does Salman it was for the father but he ends very emphatically Mazetti oven tyke for I am you a map tira chegando kala Shauna you Iloilo I say tada Coverity kinshasa be I'm Tara saying in other words that's the great scores that a son has that he could create scolson for the father then a samba Sahab Analia that's the objective of a yard site and a Phenom II may seem a huff Shimon omits this but then again a person still accrues fulsome don't forget a person invests he gives sadaqa the tadaka lives on and on you know i'm always Makana those people that helped our bar when he first came to America those that invested in their early years of Lakewood are the biggest kuvira Manila my MS discuss him grow by the millions on a daily basis the turret that's learned in a Shiva like that because the fugue Ebury KF that invested at the time listen a limitless a person does something in this world he helps the person start off a business start of a family and that person continues with all those hats la face so a person's own mitzvahs are investments that you that yield rich dividends that's one way of massamba so huh Bernalillo and that's why a person when he sniffed the misfit is never finished he invested money in this myths for that Mitzvah and the Mitzvah grows camisa he's still enjoying the benefit of those dividends when is the direct the reckoning when is the attachment it's made on the yard site but more specifically it's the concept of Brahmas akka abba a son does something it has a effect on the father's neshama Brahmas akka AB i once heard a beautiful Vaart Casals Lawson is broth Kyra Devore a son is like the leg of the father that's a very similar poor choice of Lawson you say he's them he's the right-hand man of his father he's the brain of his father what is the father of his father what that mean I once heard a beautiful Vaart the pus akin Zakaria gimble Zion really tight us up what happens when a person is mr. a person his whole life is that Mahalo he's constantly growing he's tagging but Mason hafstrom and I'm it's this so from a Mahalo a person becomes enjoyment that's basic with Mises all the belt but there's an opportunity as the puss success for the sake look of my house him BAE no I'm the my Ella the father give me the I love my Hermes and he's striking and he's growing and he's going up and up in my drag is how does the ointment become a Mahalo because of the sons cousin so the Sun is giving his father the hilum that's bro Kyra Devore the father has legs the son the son doesn't it's this the father is going hiring I am broker Odawa but be that as it may there's no question about it that the course of the new summer lovin Aliyah is really Tully in the Sun and that's one purpose of the yard site but what I must mention as we'll see today there are so many how luck is based on a different aspect of the art sight besides the fact that the Sun has to generates custom in fact some ever mimic that every end the yard site the Sun says Iran Iike Paris miss Crawley to remind themselves that's the the goal of today but there's more than this it seems chlorine the poisk mmm but soon see how many along is that based on this that the sun also needs an ally on the earth site to quote the leakage to that such a merced essence talmud of quoted heard from Ezra bian and you're a day on the 98 why did you fast why did the Sun fest on the father's yard site some the boy Bo him is sir amaz light because on that day his muzzle is very poor then my remains will soon see one of the cosmonium whose chuva is basic to yard site says the tightest on the yard site is Ezra and the son needs a the back in the end of tough days I read a quote Marie Bruna that says the Sun is in a second at the time and he needs a Coppola to put it very simply then not only in a shambles of Analia but the Sun needs an ally on this yard site what's the shot obviously a day that a person loses a parent is sort of marked with misfortune I'll give a Marshall asaba size and pitch above is a yum of Soros and happened and tisha ba first Corbett second Corbin they say the the in Spanish Inquisition happened the day that a person Lord loses a parent is a day of rare and evidently you know it's like who Allah Allah maneuvers the father's okay but why so no oz of languorous we're in trouble and that's why the child needs Kusum if you look at it a dolphin if of the lavash Talmud are more in the end of very tough base see few days in the end of Shania involved and an arc I am tough raise pay a steep olive three times the lavash rights that the Sun has to fast on the father's yard site because the Sun is in Sakana Sakana the master a male he's believed affairs because he's in a sock corner and it's Marvel dick not only this the father needs a a tickin but the son or daughter that is when I say son of course I mean child son or daughter needed miracle part and that's really the objective of the tynus so basically we could say the yard site has two purposes there is Shambhala pinellia and the son or daughter they also have to have an Aliya now before I actually apply this Lamesa I want to make one point I think I felt this myself you know when a person loses a parent there are different stages of course the the most devastating moments the aminos person is so numbed is Potiphar Mitsos annoyingness partner for mitzvahs that's the most intense form of segregation then the a person has deceiver little less is this the slice him and then he has tight sauna but when it comes the earth site it's not over because at active life that Tata I'm a black tie mama parents are not over 12 months but a person the human being desire first was a barn ash we forget the person forgets it's a tremendous hakama that within 12 months every year we reconnect from one yard site to the air and the next there's never twelve months never twelve four months mace the stack of men are laid with 12 months so every year within the year we connect with we connect with the earth site it's a kind of like Paris Asafa not to forget I'm all I care Lahab the earth of dollars we have to I can't forget parents and of course if we're living die talk how lon if we're thinking of our parent that we lost then die ton Allah he thinks of us it's reciprocal if a person is focused on remembering his parents the parents from their perspective will be the meliha teyze ship for the child so as we see it's definitely not a day of a valus per se because taka after 12 months of eras ova it's a day of alia Alia for the parent and alia for the child now to apply this Lamesa I'll start with a question that is not as simple as it seems because a lot has been written about it when does a person observe the earth sight is it the arm of the Mesa or the aim of the flora I don't forget my stress I've had this this man mr. Mizer he was left on Thursday he brought there to surely through what Sunday could be a three-day difference between resentful sola miser the price can discuss this because really the clue is the end that's the building a certain sense the end of the Mesa the steam is her gala but we are very confident to say a bias a macro ebo years Amos forum there's no question about it that the yard site is the mmm ISA a boy you say McCraw look at the amount of Dharam and show us and the ishani you have surmised the other doesn't say the day of the cruel but mostly body same as swara both reasons for the art site is the alia that's necessary the alia for the father and alia for the son know when does the Sun need the special schmira when was the is-3 male the aim of the Patera and that's why there's a two verse marvel of the vimana Gasca one of the Machinima simmons ayan he says very short and sweet you're first on the a man mesa he quotes alwa Gouda he says of those that's fast and McClure heaven ho it's foolish and the Raya is from the Gomorrah in you're amazed by only so again he buddy saying mccrory buddy same is Farah the yard the yard site is kept on the Omaha Mesa not the a McClure the true Messiah dashing and raised side the gimbal says that my quotes a marvel Dickey finish that we see in in chimera that you're on course also you're a Mesa that's a good interesting rally from the martensite that you'd get mo where rifka foresaw that she's gonna lose both sons on the same day and that's not what happened because by yeah yeah Covina's Lavanya a suppose killed his head rolled into the marsh Michaela and Takashi lost both a time the same day what mean lost both in the same day Yaakov was lifted much earlier so is it right that Game four is also like during my Mesa says he says the tombs of - it's a nice ride yeah but we know better that you a macro yeah my Mesa is still better and that's the second arc in two places you're a day a tough base your days or hi I'm topic of summer has cast that the art side is kept on the Omaha Mesa not your Mac food there is a big village of the Masters Benjamin one of the earlier cranium Simon paid Aled he says but the first yard site that you have to keep under um Hawk foolin why imagine a person has less we said two or three day therefore let's talk about three days even more pronounced three day difference between the meat and the clora so if a person keeps the yard site erm ha Mesa is going to end up making less severe that he should because I valus you need 12 months see I think of FA listen the EMA cooler if you can make the art side on the Mme so you can end up missing with the I wit with the with the art side so therefore across the board you always keep the first yard site on the a Mac for this Smith the massive youngin says the Taz and the Shack and I was simin I mentioned both take very strong exception the tassel Austin I don't believe that that sadek says such words the shock says I never heard of such a thing and the slores plus it what is the art side have to do with with the availeth available something to yard site your site is the day of the material I'm valence to separate I mean I saw from the shank is Rea this in the back of Chaka sorry this pissed cachaça size you've got your test he said you always go bus yard site not bus at Mesa not clear so imagine the purse didn't have before so there's no your outside now people that off during the world they have clue but he says more than that he says when is astray Mazel this is this symbol screen apps come when is history male your Imam Issa okay John McWhorter says the gomorian son engine of memoir vomit Bay's this is a cap IRA to Zionism as Leah McClure so therefore dick Dalia oppose him strongly rejected this master spin yeoman and attacker that's the Minich that the the art side even the first yard side is always kept during a Mesa not your eMac for interesting suggestions someone mentioned that how is it shy that a person is nipped let's say risque this year but the art side is a month early risk itis listen campy but maybe here's the Casman if that year was a leap year so then 12 months later is his high dish listen so maybe you keep the art side a full month before the um up theorem however to quote the my memoir the high in the end of tough cuffs amicus and I quote is Lawson whoever said that it's a Minich Boris but a naive ain't Sarkoja save olive it doesn't dignify response why same slur regarding on valus is tell you in 12 months the art site is thali attire your tank why 12 months the art side is when the TM up thi this year and this is a point that we have to realize something get confused but there are two dhinam this yard the eye yard said the yard site is a matira the young deer a alia and a very loose a veils the different a locking dancing I saw in the safe it's a uni hollow heard that sake from rabbi Josh about you know valus they asked him if person has a if it's 12 months but it's not yet the yard sale I can leave here maybe should make a see him on the base whitish the curb we are saying map atone you're basically this was that this you know also blaming the art side is the art side not the end of availeth the next question could be a share for itself maybe it will be because it's negiah to command a local key so Honora but what's the gaya for us is when someone has the art site on a with the burn if the lifter on a door and the ones the art side when you have to outdoors we have a leap year listen Ageha to Bar Mitzvah you're a day as the Gary Sinise but but what's the gaya for us is a beautiful tube of Murray mints in the earliest of your cranium and for us as music that way is this show there are more in in the end of tough days says that the mini gets to keep the art site in the first adore now this one of the Macarius is our Murray mints in the end of semen tests but this is the whiskers he begins with a three dollar riddle very weird but he says a riddle how would the child someone is born a month after his friend okay come out a month after his friend and as my mitzvah is come out a month before his friend can't be right since it could be very possibly one boy was born coughed as other each other Rison okay the friend was born bathe adore Shanee okay live amidst a year for both of them of course came out on a regular a door so whose permits is first days a door we were its little a second tough test so even though he was born come out a full month before his friend his Bar Mitzvah he's older so to speak a full month come out a full month then before his proposed friend taco so here we see that's what he says but listen to this regarding the art site you keep the first that door if you have odd the region are the same why listen to this guy's room even though for something to go Buster either Shaney but since the art side is the Qataris are viv the earlier the better and also for the Sun is room as lay the quicker that you could achieve that tickle the better off you are I listen to this I do my purana Islamic demeanor that's a good moring Magilla if you have to delay fish stuff you don't make it earlier you make it later he says that's cuz it's a per Gnaeus it's not a peroneus there's an opportunity of Tuva Zilla sadaqa learning a character the earlier you make a tick on the better you are you know what I think it's like we pushed off fish above shove us to the commas later one fast we push earlier if you notice that and that is tiny zester why tiny that's the aim of trillium Achutha forget the earlier the better yard said also the earlier the better now I do know there are various men hugging regarding yard site during a to outdoors the miry mints there are moss says to keep the first one there must send you to Eric I am that theory says some keep the second one and some keep both the art sites first if you like be on it so it's a good excusing they both but basically it seems very clear that we can understand why the first yard site the first either might be the acre what's more process if the mace was miffed in a door shaney and next is only one outdoor or anyway there's only one outdoor so that's positive you don't need I don't research a nick is the day of every ray amaz lay that's when you have to keep it but I think it's very important to realize and saves a lot of confusion there are three different dates there's the your outlook way there's regarding Kaddish stop saying carbs not to make the father of Russia your base height is available and then the art side the art said has nothing to do with you basically this again it could be that the I've a little longer but the art side is the art site the next question is interesting lighter was the game than the last curve in the class or went through people don't know when their parent was Lifta during the Second World War and they I saw that they asked this to the Torah shy Hey look out tough cough pay hey what does a person do when he doesn't know when his parents was lifter so these says the Makarov ROM quoting the matter Moishe and mathematics is tough since I'm Italian if you don't know when the parent was nipped up choose any day and that date the first and keep the are tip now the truth is you look at the earlier place Kim they spoke about yard site it was fasting today I will soon see why we don't fest most on fence but the equals the other is fasting so pick a day of a tiniest and make that day for the yard saying as I say in math the most quoted by the monodrama ah our tastes only a minik suck team duck tea to a shy but since Clara kept it and keeps it so faithfully it's like Phyllis Arbor that became a resource I became a clear Manor from her just became a kid then dr. Chiu a shy so one second if he knows when the mother's yard site is why did they choose that day for the father's yard site so we have to face once or I let them let them choose the art side on the day of the tightest it's only a min ago whatever is a failure but it's not Mama's like it there ISIF it's up to chew si happy to do that a day of a yard site Israeli amass lay and the only were fool is the art site the first thing she's gonna pick a day that any hours at fast Chimaera suck on to me sewer he says clear that's how serious they took the the art site a person the living the surviving children boys or girls need the art that for themselves forget about the father themselves in fact this law cut this held that if the art site telling the day you now at affairs life a Shabbos so conic whatever it is you have to make up the first on a different day stuff to cheer shy our medic is not like that why not he says because the day is so big that's disgust for the Sun so you have this caused by not fasting but like you know like Shaba see Melissa crew a cry for love I by not crying out that's disgust by not fasting on the Shabbos so um did that's discussed for the NIF though and for the living but it's America physic to see how the pie scam took the earth site for the living very very seriously it's a day of history Mazda that has stuck on in it let me share with your fascinating Shia you might make nothing of it but if you think about it it's a problem that I gotta saw all the place can discuss the Heian ticket bicycle especially let's talk about a typical case a person was an iftar Tuesday Ray's crazy dish Thomas yes we just had that okay and if turn America seven o'clock p.m. note that about at the yard side is very straightest Thomas he has a son living in hurl they called up the son they told him the bad news the Sun looks at his watch in there too so I think it's two o'clock a.m. Bayes Thomas no doubt about it two o'clock in the mornings already based Thomas when does that son who listen Eretz Israel when does he keep the first yard site when he'll be back in a row for the first yard site so it sounds funny but the truth is isn't that totally in the two reasons if the reason for your outside this was for the father so the father's yard side is reciting this but when was when the when did the father passed away when is it rare your Ma's Lila flora when did it for the son find out the bad news - am based hums looks like it's totally in the two reasons PSP OBS Turkish Mac if a person lets it lives in America and it's very pacer but it's he has combat scenario and there it's already pacer but to come he didn't tell the commentator yes time still so that they say you go after where the person is a cervical where the person is when it comes to yard side maybe just a carrot maybe the yards that goes with the Sun is so the Emmis is it makes sense that the Sun found out and by him it was based Thomas Andrew Bozeman Haley Clarisse a Mahalo for looking to the tubers dude a solid at inhaling down of Priya soda Simmons advocate and sama cos they all discussed this question and of was this night that the yard say goes where the Sun was but I looked into this because of the kiddush to me the Geshe kind and the para clambered days the charmeuse animal of courage traced a foul of Daladier keltus Yankee me or Day of Rage llama days the bad they are so fun and the end of statement of Bayes and the funeral of forever yeah Steven tough go find gimel all say that it can be firstly can have that as two sons about different yard sites but more than that I think the smaller is the lawsuit in the back is the son has to face lahat so axe Murray me always say sure she ear alike after the cattle the the son has to keep your self because that moment was a terrible moment the moment is not where the Sun is the moment is when the father passed away so just hard to believe that there to yard sight but this good reason to believe again there's good reason to believe that yard said is Tully where the Sun is a looser Mazda but I guess we have to accept that the history mozzie of the Sun depends where the father was question someone once was not so careful with the yard said he went out of town someone is them but yeah yard say my father was such a big table but he doesn't need me and my Kaddish so that's foolish for two reasons first of all even if his father was italic he doesn't think too much of its article and he needs the art side don't forget as we said one of the main reasons is for the Sun is sir Maslin also even its Isaac I saw the state Emmett has a whole lot explanation first of who knows who's its object and besides that there's no Swiss there's no limit discussing and look what goes on every year school some of reps women by your height thousands of years later but every slows adds up so the my sir there's no doubt about it there's no such thing as my the father was a child like did needs closer what I did here once is after 50 years you don't have to keep the art site now the embassies this is hard to accept eBay is a McCraw Eber you same as far if the vote is for the son history Maudsley what's the difference if the voters for the father is there an end to school semantically but the Venice guy in the raft in the tubas Ralph Paul I'm sorry disarmament he has to be Kabbalah failing Dalek Simon you're Zion he says this a love hug of all there's no gavel to a yard site even a thousand years custom are still needed the moon catcher in the MOOC Eric I'm and dice office in the back and Simon tough pay test he says I was shocked people said this foolish small in the name of God Island he says you know this coming from this man he says because by the golovkin after 50 years they dig up the mace and they throw away his bones make room for someone else so it came to us that's for sure and he says don't don't quote to tell them that sanction this minik now what's interesting and this is this is hard to understand I saw in the the two of us knishmas Israel I'm a tough soft cook I in tests he quotes a I am that didn't keep yard cycles parent after 50 years now this one he says he says it ought to understand not know no one else has this minik maybe he knew differently but basically this minik I served by a ship and a safer tough government s also rejects the Minich maybe targets conspiracy of the kevoian yet so many yard site not one day so they wanted to trim the list of God you know yard site and so after fifty years but it seemed that that minute was strongly rejected no crime can Jeff ski has a dick this is typical of Khayyam there are more says in Shania involved a lead when a person reaches the earth side of his father he says Kaddish la jolla l'm lost in the island maybe to say after 50 years awesome okay someone asked the father was Michael keeping a yard site so hurry this also told you two reasons if the art site is for the source of the father so the the Mahela helps but if it's is room as lee of the Sun so the Sun better keep the Arts then I saw the vanilla the safe full of showing how come the Knitting of real quotes it says that if the father is Michael and the father doesn't want you to keep the art site then don't keep it and don't worry I discuss so it's three miles of the Sun the source that he keeps keep it of that's better than keeping the earth safe and has a beautiful value it's amazing the old child of Wendy make it is Levana on greatest history before Yom Kippur that masseuse or STM Kippur mobile simcha so the Bush says even though it makes sense to do it before Yom Kippur so you have extra scores but if you wait till after thisch above so you have disgust of doom the midst of it the Mitzvah that's better than doing the mitzvot so he says here also the still keeping keep it off is better the source of keeping the yards but the emesis fathers don't say that and the sons you try to keep the earth site for both reasons what's probably the most challenging is the concept of the tiniest as we said earlier you see from the podium at the ich of the arts that was a tightness and the question is and today why do we hear that many people don't fast so the Embassy's the bobbly do you sell me as we mentioned all mentioned yard set as being a tightness the kisses of an arcane race cough Aleph Aleph says the yard side is kept to a tiniest clearly solid silver the phosphate for myself this is why that the tiniest always was part and parcel of a yard sale like I saw a beautiful kid issues the end of the tube is kind of basically who them Simmons of Gitmo from a free of dickham he says if someone has the art set on Friday you should fast into Shabbos I you don't face them to Shabbos but this one time we do fast even on Chavez even on Shabbos and that's time is hollowing because the person got a dream it's not a theater a foreboding simin she says since the yard site was this since the yard said is is room as lay of the song so you have to fast into Shabbos magic Affairs on Shabbos he fast into sharpest that's his appreciation to the tightness of a yard site iolair so if I was a on Shabbos why shouldn't you fast on the yard site so that we saw from the true I shine discuss of keeping sharpness is a biggest mirror but the question is why do we have so many people don't fast so the answer is a dropper since we understand that the day of the art site is a day of alia that's the objective that's the main purpose why the Alba diaries are much locker you know you look in the place can they fast that literally yet the Montague and on a stick Bob and sleek there's no busy fast thing it didn't but in effect them today a person fast he needs Stein love furnished I'm Raphael they prepare to recuperate and how fast and you see the like it said almost as mine is over you know it's just it's just too devastating we don't fast well they are so friend and Shania involved at Gitmo says if you can't fast give sadaqa and so one guzzle says if you better don't fast make it tight as diva I think some people would prefer a tiny sip but what's interesting is the artists revenue in Bay's cook sama gimbals quote their prime KFC is his father if he's most offense on the yard said he says no our meaning and the meaning of the knish is not the fest on the yard site better to learn but to me was shocking visit savour of herb Akiba ager give a girl wrote Bona even though he say I give you see that the Tinus and the Earth's that is both boy men and women she's not fast on the earth site Apple I'm the photo lotion Jelena do color I love college I'm huh who believe have sick now he says not that could you I know you can't do that but make sure this learning the entire maurice place obviously the person's fasting he won't be able to do that so it's push it a sense of priorities how to generate the greatest custom the some safe is rabbits are left in itself up to a children not too fast he said the boys should learn and the girls should make sure the husbands learn now that's that you realize is the finish of a father don't forget that some safe is relatives of give a guess daughter she had the same mindset so this is something that's reassuring and they told you early the I survive it says the discursive learning on the yard side is great and much greater than tapping for the arm it so it's all about priorities now of course I don't minimize the tiniest rabbi yosef and is safe a tough go find Zion says don't forget it's been a Gomorrah whatever you say it then item orange so generic and a few places but if someone feels you can't do it then there's a better way and that is to generate score some other ways there is one form of fasting that many people do and that's giving up the tickin tickin by giving a high and to Broca's it isn't enough to eat is a proper crinum so that's a way of basically creating schism but I should mention today we see the chicken has you know grown into a lavish party with lox and sushi and you know it's it's something that the mice of the money that's spent on this party is coming use better and also it sets a room tone it's not a party day you know there's a mob of the ketubah the seminar you wanted to be daily Europe hi i'm simon adalat he writes with great pain that the arts I lost the whole meaning people stopped fasting and instead of becames a day of partying he says how could this be he says people say just like like by him is a party so you're at safety party so of course that aggravated him and he says you're it says you have to understand tackle what like blame is all about but it's only like blame up he says but to make the yard set into a day of a party that's if hey Mason now the Embassy's you know it has to be a ticklin not to kalila kill KO now the money that's spent on all these lavish stick you know partying the money can be used for a mitzvah and that's certainly much better the question that of a husana on the yard site or as somebody asked me his a Nicole's house and it was scheduled on the day accurate site paper should forgot that to say dad yard site so this is a tricky question I'll tell you why because there are more in the end of since addict olive yes I am the austere left will be sued the Belial should be a Mothra's maze of of an email this yes mmm that you can't go to hostel note when a person has the art site there are more in the end of tough days again mentions that a locker that's a very strange Lawson yes mmm and also not to eat buy a soda what Sudha the Mitzvah Cerebral Assassin em so the MS is the leakage oyster and page 94 the lavash says Larry Eastern I hadn't came I never saw this many come no the art said will soon see the first yard site isn't innovativeness but there are you outside the 30 yard said what kind of available is why can you go to a house on him is up the shaft below Bush didn't see it but I saw the Minich what's the shot so it seems posh it soft is it when Yahoo them it's a day of history Missoula Saturday a part of a partying to come to Carson is min the Samaritan more than a few save him that's what he says now am i sir again it's not available per se but it seems that a person that's going to a Hasan on the earth site is really squandering the day it's really focusing on the wrong Lamesa de pais Kim and I saw the Pisgah chuhwa in the end of synthetic our quotes and became small that's only by a fastener a bris you could go by gosh it all said a bris you could go the liquor Joyce just says die theme ice chemist with the poi skim not a su this shows simcha like a fastener and many place can make this sure to go to hostel or Sheva brachot on a yard site is inappropriate but any other simcha bridge and a ban is okay it's not a bit of a veil it's mamas I think the point is it's very distracting a husana the whole night you just just you know it doesn't sit right with the earth side the mice that's all the hot Killa to schedule the husana on the yard side of course it's not right I saw the nish Massey Cheryl I'm a tough sell cough nan na neun test quotes they Estes at me Robbie about the timer cuts clear off if Lamai Siddhas ADA has a custom they forgot they didn't realized he could go look at it to a different angle that it's a source that the elf to say there has an and of course getting married that night whatever the case is the schedule that is not right if my so summer that's an important fast enough he could go don't forget even availeth if he serves he helps out even go during the valus so some holes is no ass at all but Bush another place Kim so we keep it regarding yard satin but perhaps on the hospital to avoid it if is a big reason to go then a value and specially be helped sell a father that's a great schmira the next question about the earth side is interesting that someone once forgot his parents yard site so the place he has to have a can ask all yama be asked to add something every yard site it's like you know and II should have forgot to light nails now the point is that it's a very serious thing to forget that's why once summer months told me a while ago story that someone forgot the yard side of his mother and her mother came to a dream and said the fact you forgot the yard side doesn't bother me but have you forgot the tickle so they say I saw the knishmas Israel said it all sits the Rebbe said a shitcan made up that story because the message is so poor the arse has an account the only thing is the tickler so sick and made it up I wanted to mention that because that's not the Icahn the Inca is the Ilia and how could a person forget this parent yard site ok the mom is more useful but you know the message is the day that oppressed in a person's mind prepare for it and use it properly the yard site lists that people of course light on the on the yard site is not found in gomorrah or so Honora but the marshal in simon member of rights that's the make the whole era Ashkenazi in fact he even Pascal's and there are the Morgan Aram enrage Sam akalabeth quotes of Allah if a person forgot to light the yard site lift before Shabbos and it still been a smart choice you can have a guy do it because for him it's important it's considered a toy of God so it's not in Gomorrah or even in Sahara rabbi towba high and beautiful explanation why Nair is always connected with yet with yard site to shiver or whatever there's always like I think you know yard site lift up and V is go so he doesn't talk anything about specifics but he says in Paris is true Michaela I'm involved that it's as you do it that the neshamah is Nana from neighbors because the neshamah is a lipstick ight this is a physical doctor guy but they're very similar and in the sum as a tremendous a dune a simpler from the from dualistic kite of the nares that you light and that's why that's why it's Weimer in this late compared canary sham this mass autumn somehow pick up aside there's a benefit that the neshamah has from Allah Nair much late I saw and to say felafel Morgan that's on the matter framed in a Kaddish gimel in the hora he says so since then the summer has a tremendous benefit so it could I to light a near neshama on the yard side of a parent now the EMA says you looking older earlier poi skin you look in the Marcel the Miss Marron so lame I saw beautiful true in the potato Hoffman ballad cuff test that me it could have been the right place to light any in there in this genre is ensure boolean keep Jewish M says the plastic that's the real covered for the neshamah that the Sewell has in there and talk of people are marked with the earth site from Cape where they bring it to zoo Lamesa I think the narrowness some of the yard site specifically most people light at home and I think the heads like real like I told you earlier it's a day that you have to remember is a day full of potential when a person sees then their yard site lifts burning this house a whole day it's the best their mind to trust me you know reminds me of the I'm Kip a lilt you see in sure you come to the beginning of college when big Mayoress is burning brightly as day goes on the nares gets smaller and smaller and you know all the day is running out you know it's a good your mind at home to have the art side the day is the day of tremendous potential but copper right now why do I say this could have another husband Magan Aramis says that if a person forgot to light the yards I just call a going now if the guy lights minor Hanukkah I'm a yard sir I'm the girl lady my America not nearly summer thirst is not the myself Locker it's the mice of remembering a 26-hour reminder copper line it's a day once a year and do it right khadisha said on the yard side Kaddish yoson taka again is not a Gomorrah the whole card is not a gumar it's a message but the Morril in lamb evolved to mrs. eshton and race at the gimel marm instance simon pegg all record the Minich to say Kaddish on a yurt site now it's not because it's a valence there's no our valence on the earth site but then again the whole Kaddish is not available Kaddish you don't say the definition mr. father Kaddish is a fever for each mi I've added because a person isn't if there's a deficit in collection.i and the Kaddish sort of replenishes that but the Kaddish is hm I know that's the most appropriate thing to do on a yard site finish off hamdulillah doubling for Kreutzer my says the canvas on the yard site yes know what he's saying he's dampening her rebook quite some I am and that's the greatest either for the neshamah that's why la mesa the place they'll even during the year you don't say Kaddish for the for the father you say uncle hm on which a man will be asked us for the father there's another source which is quoted is quoted in there are more and the end of shinai involved mm for the omelet there are more says Valverde for the armored is a greatest was then Kaddish that is will be made for katana about yah and the safe and tough Kufa is quoted that he was my son FS till his last year's he lived over a hundred he always tried to davon for their parents yard site but like everything else a person has to you say ho you know there's some times to yard sent in one day and the only one brave one arm it it's like everything else the greatest course is doing what's right they're doing our paella also I want to mention that it's interesting a lotion of their and more me she a Dale the spa wall years follow I don't think it means what I'm saying but I think it's included sometimes a yard sale in sharpest and it doesn't had a Davin he shouldn't have it I saw a quote from the shunova if someone is ain't coiling the Kabala Bria's I'll leave that very vague for you to interpret but if he's not appreciated and he thousand for the army and I called his lost chin is it's a pillow Shabbes and Mufasa so my advice I guess if it's Yom Tov and Shabbos and I'm not gonna touch that but you know some of the person gets up you know and he he proves what somebody once said very wisely the father makes the son a novel but not a thousand so if you can't down but it's not gonna happen so again Mishka see this is do what's right not you know what's emotionally you know charge to do person can't avenue won't diamond look at the father's system not just my father wants to do what's right now I'm not saying what it means but kouvola LaBrie is he doesn't have to be developed as ins but it should be acceptable or find the school doesn't care but a person that's that's that's called causing a a long table all the time is not generating too many custom Simon Tom he has someone who table and did a lot of wrong things knew how many have errors if you do today was there from this was your father hey that was fast you know you have to know it's disgustin that were generating also the minik is together Nalia that's not an Shannara like a joy sir love was quoted but i must mention that you look at the list of cuban that that's the bottom of the list in the mugging of Rome the famous Mona from raise pay base and the other place Kim it's back on the list but it's not a fee of that though you've got anything else what do I mean true the macaque I'm the happiest your says that the alia is more than the babbling to the omelet why Delhi is the cry of terror besides but again you have to realize on a regular monthly or third is only one alia and it could be two or more yard site or two markovin so Lamesa like the Magana rom says Vicki cider hey I'm a nun gimel Simmons if Cotton Club of endless sky take of or some Mitzvah well how do you work it out you work it out yes the rod is the gobby but the fight cold autumn Kivar is not the determining factor which alia which is the gate to myself talk about in the first year it was on Shabbos which alia do you get when it's Shabbos yard site boy be I'm so what you do of that the sharpest before yard side you get master there are more in the end of shin I involve said that toy if Shana it could die to the oval to get master so obviously there's some Shia fizz between a novel and a mastiff probably I should explained that there's an assay Futuna a lava that really a Percy - Davin Chavez also but the man exactly Davin but what's the second best thing to dive into the UM it the master there are a lot of Broca's the to Brasilia the Brock enough Tyra it's like a quasi Hazara shots nope sorry buzz oh it makes sense that if the yarder is baby I am is the same expand discuss and talk to the earlier poison in the burka Oyster Bay doll that I love the sheriff Ryman testament base the Geisha hiya mama days days the office web a new game or Islamic gimble quote the house innocence type love that even the art site boy BOE you get laughter now there is people few people told me if I got an after but we supposed to get one of the Civic William that I saw a bee I ain't givin em ously anchor of Seminyak ascension I involved and others suggest this also but the emesis again as I told you this iron frying the break a ISIF or certain sense the PI scheme regarding touches are frying is the paisa kin Yanni Chris I tell you even though there is a P of alia but if the master has more than that even though it's not from the Civic William so I saw some people have a minute they get math fear and they get a leave I'm info so you get both or if a person's yard site is on yonder a is nothing to worry about because the young div master is one of the earliest because it's different Korea so am I so I think a person should realize that the alia is talkative but a person be flexible what do I mean let's say a person's meaning is to get master even by behind but that year there's a bomb it's a boy that wants them after him so I saw the might that has initial mice is a la Veuve profess he says depart the rough pass can to give it to the violent about yard site and have initially that was not right because the art side is every year and my mitzvahs once a lifetime so again if your person there to yard site both one math there so the consolation prizes if you get them off there it's discuss if you give in this customer Vata is probably hundreds of times greater and also some whole that is the Shiva claim is they occur so you can't lose by doing the right thing the challenging question of the gate also to myself when the yard side came out on Shabbos and I was told you can't doubt him for the arm it and that was strange to me but let me explain I looked into this drama and shin Sadiq a giemo says that the many gears to add a day of availeth and keep the day of the first yard site as a valus the shark says even if it's cowboy Shabbos now the question is why so sums to make the freshmen because usually you might miss a day of availa scuzz the clue is the next day but besides that it seems to be emitting to keep the availeth on the yard site even check alibi Shabbos Jacques de vivre Marquis LaHaye like volve Simmons off chemo they ask them this question his first yard site is Shabbos could it after the ummat - what's - island he says I don't hit the Schuyler since there it says in grandma's to keep you outside to keep of a loss and the staff says even on Shabbos and do we know the famous Rahman in the end of your idea it shows a Shania involved gimel that no novel is not the album for the art side during the year so you can tavern the first yard site because the chopper swamp did rumba yeah she was asked in tough cuffs a McBay the biggest Schuyler someone had yard site for the mother and it was tight Sunnah of the father and he wanted to dive in must've on risk raiders servi ashes at calema because there's clay this year on thalamus ooh now this is often a person as yard set with one parent and interaction of another parent so like these PI scheme you can't a person can't album for the young however if you look at the lotion of the drama no hago to enter next today the Maggie dice that's the tubers of the Prima garden and simin pay tests as the minik is what sauce the alpide in muscle symphysis etc but what's only a minik and one thing that clearly only a minik is that the oval doesn't Davin on Chavez younger during the year the Iran arcs of the fair the most of the Farish that the meaning is not to Davin on Shabbos and yontiff al stood Sieber outcry at Seaver Mariah if the shots cavora lost a parent during the year he's a lot of davon young Laura him if he's shot cavora if the Sheba's mindful so then there's no problem if I don't it surveillance to din that you know he's a novel and we asked this off of you know uncharged and it's just like it's depressing so you put this all together I saw the do they saw the mandala the Basilica modality cook-off tests all say that if the Seba doesn't mind the mini the mini gets the daven then even during the year for one parent yard side of the second you get down to the army that's even at the yard site even though during the whole year so here where a person in a quandary some say Auster some say Madame so I've had they'll say but how could he give up his father's you're outside to give up having to the arm it Tarek's is both are true if the Seba doesn't want then you're not doing this course so then don't happen if the Seba doesn't mind if i character Dobbin caballos suggested don't have it on the yard site davin the next day and rely on those seats is that the young McClure is the yard site but again emotional I think they do allow the Dobbin person down with the army and the horror in the hurry go past eight on a regular sharpest there's a minute that the sharp and the regular yard site during the week there's a minute on the the mature Shabbos before it happens Myron and gets master and Muslim I saw a number of poly skimmed Akashic I'm the dark a kind the Shalimar but yeah I should all say that that's if a person has the earth site during the week if someone has yard site on Shabbos as the price can explain you need a Shabbos to prepare for yard site but the orchard on Shabbos you have everything in that job is so he doesn't have to get math fear or most of the Shabbos before the only thing is where the orchestra pain with chemo raged on Bougainville quotes the stapler that he did davon my rib the mercury shop is before but the master Muslim is unnecessary there's a minute to give the other the the bowel yard site to shop the Shabbos reform after and most of we understand why the thing is diverting Matsuri Shabbos is the minik in Roy foods as he Searle the matter shoppers before the yard site however the pen a bar I'm a tough with rest quotes up small salon to who strongly rejected that Minich and he said that doesn't make sense why because you're worried about Jahannam after 11 months there's no get him talking a minute here installing is not the Davin so again if the meaning is to Davin fine but if there are if there's a novel toy Oksana about he goes first or if there are two people have your site and you want to be my father you're definitely a bigger source that gets to avoid mark like is somebody at the art cemetery Shaba shall be humped if any gonna get the ummbut yom tov davon inc but that's wrong because the only the davines they starting to hit him but my shop is a hobby umph there's no Gahanna now the master and they told you is also a mini even though the place gave there's no there's no Makar for this I so many place get his number curve with happening most of this chapters the the Shabbos before no they're all man hug him fine do it cousin date but a person has to have the right miss Cola I see this the question of davenic make me early Shabbos on a yard site is not so push it let's talk about the Earth's that being huff I love sipping and the and he wants to make early showers so if it makes early shops in vehicle tomorrow but he's happening on Friday afternoon she obviously after shadow you're cold she obviously afternoon cough seven so tacky the is yanking me or a day a racial Amidala says it's best if you want to Davin on the art site wait till Lila and Davin and Dan Davin then but the happening early is not the art set now the Meister I was thinking like the merriment that we mentioned earlier that happening earlier is better discuss some early maybe that would be a limits close but his target could die to avoid the Davin Inc making early Shabbos on the earth site someone asked me a painful question he was on vacation caught on quote and he had yard site and there's no menu what should he do so I want to tell him he should learn what yard say told her belt you know there's a Miss Mary someone has a safer on different in yharnam on yard said I stairs Bob he says the real meaning is not to go to work on a day of yard site devoted cool Alicia and I grab the store the Ralph column and Dollard mammal if it's the Bennis kite the Dominica them was not to go to work on the yard site he says but to go the business is also not advisable a day of rare male you might not succeed in business it's like you know from ascribe right there are there's not a day for business now I can't say you can't do business and you can't go to work on a yard site because the belt does but you think about it because egg is agenda first children give a go not to stop learning for one Arriaga commemorate now we can't do that and we can't take off from work but at least they have the right priorities beepers should be vacation no menu if it's unthinkable another example we have that priorities the meaning of going to a cave on the yard site is based on the passage in / but your voyage have rain now she says color wanted Arvind by kiri avoids a SUP takabayashi shanterrica and out of the terraces Roland and the idiots a pair of Bay's of the end of India's he says that the sum has a specialized spot on the yard site good but then again I saw from the fuzziness and mice is gimel iron Bay's that if it's a big tear come and time-consuming to go to the - to the caver stay home and learn better I'm not saying all degree but I saw up slam the Salman and this is a letter printed and leave - Lima until you test 74 he said it's probably better he said instead of spending money to go to the kebra Alvis narrow give the money for Sadako now again I'm not saying all agree but the sense of priorities they are exclusive and their exclusive potometer can air get cooler let me just close with one thing our palms are kind of broken said I think that's the right agenda for a yard site he said he was a twelve-year-old child and his parents Anthony Shiva swat-bots come to learn and he was homesick occasionally the Bala Gullah would come from his city and pass through some pots can give regards from his parents and for a homesick child that was very reassuring when his parents had more notice that the ball girls going to Sloboda they would send a letter to their home sick child when they had even extra time his mother he quote would send the haste of kögel now I don't think he got haze but still hates when I got the Sobotka but ASA kugel has a secure meaning to it he says when I got older I realized that the same thing isn't in a gaya but a reversal of roles now his parents are Nisha Vishal Mela and they're actually waiting from something from the child she said that when the child says Kaddish so he's sending regards to the parents when the child learns Tyra he's sending a letter when the child learns Tyra and his mom's if Tyra he's sending a hey circle that's the earth site it's a time to send a letter it's a sign time to send regards but most important it's time to send the haisa kugel and that's the parents need it desperately like the kisses as the echo of the Kaddish and daven is the improvement of the child and this is always the hardest time of me to say thank you first of all for all of you for making this year a wonderful year I even though we had a tremendous the soient in between but Branca Shem the Coulter was like pus sick who maybe as I am and when I first thank the stolen a base magistrate being this unfailingly graceful mark the soil I want to thank of course AB simcha dice for all that he's done and continues to do but the greatest occurs at time I have is told I was a bar of balled for his devotion to Tyra in all times we didn't miss a share and the cloud his devotion I have a site area that is bothersome so contagious I just thought of it as I was talking his horizon once said this story about your Pam in his novice year and he got a check in the mail two days later for $25,000 this is my haystack local to my mother use it in the best way if someone is listening and once you send a struggle to floss the bar of balled who certainly could use it but certainly to it to be MacIsaac every time it's something that is being mahalik the world on a great way the brush some should help us engine advocacy don't assume because under some some of our lien and we recycle to be a knight and even against your attorneys like my blue you of him here via 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Shem 11 is Simon leftover gives something for each costume the tragedies all your menorah and my chemicals exact according to English at our office at seven one eight eight five one eight six five one or email two tapes under each even a calm give a check and make it a check make putting out a check or credit card anyway you could help out will be a big hoods and the original bench and Elena's anger zone in Turkish only no semblance metemma ha ha magazine - Ximena schmear Alyona Menasha mine everyone's responsible at this summer serum please call ignition seven one eight eight five one eight six five one or email think Santa is even a.com this commit suicide but can a Dominican sorry man it's rocket just somebody learn today but as I said a yard site is a very very special day it's a big day in alia for the father and also for the son son or daughter I should say the fact that the history Mosley of the son or daughter so both need Analia as we said both need that special Liam Brock character who is a special way of a person's chicken Pecola from Totten and the person should realize that there's 11 months for Kappa Kaddish 12 months for valus the yard set is always a baby I'm your mommy not yay Makua its Matt Olien in valus its Tully simply on that day that both need that's vessel a Liam if there are two others they were different man hug him but we explained why it should be Tully in the first one because the earlier the better a person doesn't know the yard Satya pick a day that has a tiniest in it to try to affect the most custom a sunlit in did that when the father was nifty and the son was in a different time zone we go after the mahkum of the father not after the way the son is even the fathers that Saavik even after 50 years the meaning is to keep a yard site no eylem I should mention someone pointed out that in the title of eylem is 50 years of other the eylem so maybe it's not such a rally abut I'm deskey felt it is Araya the father's Michael the son still should keep the the art site with fasting because it brings out the best of a person today we generally not get fast this learning is better it's custom is better but to something else the tickin should be taka appropriate as we said a person should not scheduled a Kozma or avoid going to a husana on the night of the art site a bris and others other - simcha so to speak is Motum a person that forgot to keep the earth it has to have a canal the art site Lilith is a special enough for the neshamah I should have mentioned also the sium is made pushes to increase custom the whole year the Sun is focusing on getting to the day of the sium so it connects the person the whole year and of course on the earth site condish is not a valence car - is quite samarium that the father have asked us on that but it's a philip equation i am a shots Oralia they're all greats custom but within reason but you skated a voice your mitzvah discuss a big nevada is bigger than this course of anything else and that certainly will prevent mccoy cos there is a minute to give master and moosa on the week the Shabbos before the yard set but it's not a fee of and if it can't be done it doesn't have to be done when Shabbos is a yard site you don't need them after most of the week and for Shabbos the first yard site is a manic to keep availeth even on Shabbos but that wouldn't be on with most tools allow it a person could do it even there were today of our valence the shower before the yard site Matsuri Sabbath to the Minotaur Mohammed but again it's not day for a novel with Avila's more Kadima than a shabu-shabu for the earth site the regular yard site is mahogany the mouth to a regular Lea the doubling is when possible of course early Shabbos should be avoided on a yurt sidechick Alba Shabbos because it's not really the earth site and the key is to remember going to a caver and connecting to the art side chicken Peck was but the most important Pecola chick is a person's focusing some don't even work at the goal to go on trips but definitely to use the time properly that's the greatest Aliyah for both the father and son of Adam are taken by the know that hey come high in Kokomo join the Boise please help out for the assignment mom's all kinds of houses and lovely son give something to eat awesome the homeschool similar designs of the star can have a smear Joyner small to say Nevada rock i'ma sha'lame otaviano Allure magazine summer