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So, we're going to talk about tonight
with God's help,
one of the most fundamental concepts in
Kabbalah and Jewish mysticism.
And that is the concept of the Sefirot.
How do you translate Sefirot?
Uh it's a little bit difficult to uh to
translate it,
but you might call the the Sefirot
the 10
emanations.
These are 10 godly qualities or god
godly attributes.
Obviously, God is infinite and cannot be
described because that itself would be a
limitation, but from our finite
perspective, these are 10 contexts
within which creation experiences
Hashem.
So, we're going to talk about the
Sefirot,
these uh divine attributes,
not only
as they are
uh divine,
but also as they are human.
Because we learn that there's a
structure, a repeating pattern,
whereby the
the 10 Sefirot
within Hashem are repeated in the
Sefirot of Nefesh, the 10 soul powers
of the person.
And it's the same exact structure, it's
the same
uh qualities, same names, same
functions, same relationships between
these different functions.
It's just one is the the source and the
other is the
the copy.
Um
And and as such,
this lends itself to
learning in two directions.
There's
the direction of below to above,
and there's the direction of above to
below.
So, below to above, what we call uh
Hafshata,
means to take
the human experience of this concept and
to strip it away from its human limited
context
and use it as a a metaphor
to understand, to lift it up and to
understand how that same structure
exists
within the creator. So, by in other
words, put put in very simple terms, by
understanding a little bit about human
psychology, we have wonderful metaphors
to understand the way God relates to us.
So, that's that direction, below to
above. But then there's above to below.
That's what we call Halbashah. Halbashah
is when we invest,
we take the idea and we we clothe it
within some type of relatable context.
And that's the the exact opposite where
you take the abstraction or the
archetype,
the description of the divine attribute,
and when you have an insight about how
that functions, you can actually then
bring it down and apply it to the human
experience. So, you can go both
directions and we do go both both
directions. And what that means is that
once you realize that these are like
fractals in mathematics repeating
themselves, patterns,
um then
you realize that
a metaphysical insight is a
psychological insight and a
psychological insight is a metaphysical
insight because
it's the same pattern, it's just the the
question of where you're starting and
where are you finishing. Okay.
So, I want to start with a text
which many people know,
especially if you daven
Nusach Ari,
you know it as um
part of the prayers on Friday afternoon
for the preparation
for Shabbos. But it's actually it's not
a prayer, it's actually uh
it's study. We study a text, a Kabbalist
a Kabbalistic text before Shabbos.
It's from the Tikunei Zohar,
which is a portion of
the uh Kabbalistic text, the Zohar,
and it's called Pasach Eliyahu. Pasach
Eliyahu means Eliyahu or Elijah opened,
which means he opened his discourse.
Who's the Elijah? Elijah the prophet.
So, Elijah the prophet gave a discourse.
And we're not going to read the entire
text, but um I'll just
read you parts of it.
He explains Eliyahu, Elijah,
that
Rebon This is in Aramaic, by the way,
cuz Zohar is in Aramaic.
Rebon Olamin,
master of the worlds, de antu chad v'lo
v'chushban. You are one, but not in the
numerical sense.
Meaning to say, if it's one in the
numerical sense, so that mean might
might mean that God is the first, he's
one, but then there's a two, a three, a
four, God forbid. But God is absolute
oneness.
Um
antu ilah al kol ilain. You are
elevated beyond all of the elevated.
Stima al kol stimin. You are more hidden
than all the hidden.
Lays machshavah t'fisa bach klal. And no
thought can grasp you whatsoever.
Now, having said that,
that Hashem is absolute oneness,
elevated and hidden,
unrelatable,
uh
then we're told, however,
and this is a paradox,
antu d'apikusa d'satin d'kunin.
You are the one
who
you you bring forth or brought forth 10
garments.
The kadmin l'hohin asar Sefirot, and we
call them the 10
Sefirot, l'hanhaga b'hohin olamin, which
you use to conduct worlds.
And then it goes on You understand what
we're saying, that Hashem is oneness. Do
not think that he is, God forbid, a
composite of these traits.
But this oneness is expressed in these
different ways. Think of like light
through a prism.
It's really one light.
And it goes on and explains these
different Sefirot or emanations.
Um
Skip ahead just a little bit.
The the the description here
uses anthropomorphism.
And as I mentioned before,
the pattern is a repeating pattern, as
above, so below.
When we describe these qualities
in the context of
an anatomical configuration,
do not, God forbid, think that this
means that we're describing God as
having a body.
But rather understand
that
it's probably more more helpful to
understand like this, that
we're speaking metaphorically,
and
we are the metaphor.
So, when we say, for instance, that
God's right arm is kindness,
that's actually not a metaphor. That's
whatever
God's right arm, so to speak, is,
um that is the archetypical true sense
of kindness. This this thing that I'm
waving at you over here, that's the
metaphor. That's the approximation.
That's the uh
the the simulation that gives us a
glimmer of what
the actual thing is.
So, when we use the anatomical
imagery,
don't get confused. And this is by by
the way why traditionally, historically,
Kabbalah was not always studied by all
people at all times because you do have
to be careful, it takes a certain amount
of maturity. But in this generation, all
of those restrictions have been removed
and when everybody does study Kabbalah.
And this is real Kabbalah, by the way.
This is Tikunei Zohar. This is actual
Kabbalah. It's not like sometimes people
learn other things and it has a little
Kabbalistic uh jargon in it, so they
tell you you're learning Kabbalah. This
is actual Kabbalah.
So, um
he he he goes on and he explains with a
with a anthropomorphic anatomical
uh
model. Chesed d'reya yemina. Like we
said earlier, kindness is the right arm.
Gevurah d'reya smola.
Severity is the left arm.
Tiferes gufa.
Uh compassion.
It literally means beauty, but we'll
explain later why that's compassion, is
the torso.
Netzach v'hod train shakin.
Uh
Call it um
perseverance
and poise are the two thighs.
Yesod sima d'gufa is bris kodesh.
And the Sefirah of foundation
is the reproductive organ, the place of
the circumcision.
Malchus patach rishah b'peh karinin lo.
Malchus, kingship, sovereignty is the
mouth, the mouth of the oral Torah.
Um and then he goes on and explains the
intellectual Sefirot, Chochmah and
Binah, as well.
Okay.
So,
let's let's unpack this.
What are we talking about here?
There's
a section in Tanya.
The section of Tanya called Iggeres
Hakodesh,
which are letters that the Baal HaTanya
wrote on different occasions.
And they were compiled as a volume of
Tanya.
In
Siman Taz Vav, that's Iggeres Hakodesh,
letter number 15.
The Baal HaTanya breaks it down
and explains these Sefirot
very, very clearly. And he explains it
like this. He says, "We're going to look
at it
as it exists within
the human experience
with the understanding that this is how
we glimpse the model for it. Imagine if
someone showed you, for instance, a
scale model
of
an architectural project.
So, you would understand that that's
to scale, that that's not an actual
You're not going to go live in that
house.
You're not going to
open the door and and see Can I turn on
the lights? Is there Is there running
water? You understand it's a
representation.
But it's a useful representation.
So,
the Baal HaTanya says, "Let's look
at
the Sefirot as they exist within the
human experience and understand them
as divine energies
as well. Okay. So, I'm I'm going to read
to you the text.
Um this is This is not from the
beginning. I'm I'm skipping to the the
middle of the letter.
Like I said, it's Siman Taz Vav, letter
15.
Vehinei klalus hayuts Sefirot shebe
nishmas Adam.
The generality, the totality of these 10
Sefirot as they appear within the soul
of man. Noyda lakoyel
bederekh klal
she'amidis nekhalkis bederekh klal azayn
midos.
That the
these attributes break down into seven.
Vekhol protay hamidos shebe Adam
boyis ma achas mizayn midos eylu. And
all of the various different emotional
attributes of a person can be traced
back to one of these seven.
In other words, you may have more hues
and shades of emotions, but they all fit
into one of these seven categories.
Shehayn sheyders kol midos klaluson,
which these seven are the
the categories.
Shehayn.
And then they are, namely,
Midas Hakhasid Lashpiya Bligvul.
So, the first one he he says Midas
Hakhasid, the attribute of kindness,
Lashpiya Bligvul, to give
endless influence.
Now, if you remember from the Pasuk
Eliyahu, he called that Draya Yemina,
the right arm.
Over here, he describes it not with a
anatomical
uh symbol, but rather he describes the
functionality of it. Lashpiya Bligvul,
to give endless influence.
What is this energy?
What is this energy called Chesed?
It is
the drive
to give.
To give
until
whenever.
Just to give.
There are no limits. That's There's
another Sefirah for that.
Pure, unadulterated Chesed is just
giving. That's what it does. It gives.
Sometimes, by the way,
we use a different word for this
Sefirah.
Um there's a verse actually you may be
familiar with that we say
in
in davening,
the prayer services, specifically during
the Torah service,
when we uh
take the the Torah out of the ark, we
say Lekha Hashem Hagdula VehaGevurah
VehaTiferes VehaNetzach VehaHod. So,
you'll recognize a string of those
words, Gevurah
and Tiferes and Netzach and Hod. You
recognize we I read that from the Pasuk
Eliyahu a minute ago. So, but the first
word wasn't Chesed, was it? What did he
say? Lekha Hashem Hagdula.
VehaGevurah VehaTiferes VehaNetzach
VehaHod. He calls it Gedula. Gedula
is like the word Gadol.
It means big, bigness. Gedula
is bigness.
Why is that Sefirah called bigness?
Chesed means kindness. Gedula means
bigness.
Because it is the drive for expansion.
Now,
I mentioned how these these models
repeat themselves on different planes.
The truth is when I say it exists within
the human within the human um psyche,
that's an oversimplification because it
actually
it reproduces itself multiple times
within the human psyche on different
tiers.
In other words, there's the way that
it's present within the godly soul,
which is a soul which is totally God
conscious and surrendered to God.
But that those same patterns reproduce
themselves also within what we call the
Nefesh HaSichlis, which is more of what
you might call a philosophical soul.
And then there's the Nefesh HaBehamis,
the animalistic soul, which is
self-serving and survival-driven, and it
is also composed of those same
that same configuration.
In the animalistic soul is where you see
this
very poignantly.
The Chesed of the Nefesh HaBehamis.
Don't get nervous from all those
Chassidic or Kabbalistic terms. I'll say
I'll say it in plain English.
That this faculty, which sometimes we
call Chesed, sometimes we call Gedula,
in the animal soul, which is bent on
survival, is not too interested in
spirituality. It's interested in looking
out for itself.
So, when it expresses
Chesed,
it can express it in a way
that is domineering,
expansive,
uh conquering,
because
the function of Chesed
is to go big.
And if there's not that sensitivity
of holiness
to give for the right reasons in the
right appropriate context,
if it's just driven by ego, then it can
be
um
it can be invasive,
encroaching.
But it's the same concept. It's just
that's the way it reiterates itself on
that lower plane.
Now, if you trace it back to like the
highest
archetype, which is Hashem's Chesed,
Hashem's
energy of giving,
then that would be the source of
Hashem's creativity, the fact that
Hashem decided to make a world.
And that he decided to sustain that
world, and he continues to sustain that
world. That's an expression of Hashem's
Chesed. The Chesed is always
expansiveness.
It's always going out of yourself.
Umidos HaGevurah, he continues.
The attribute of the attribute of
Gevurah. Gevurah literally means
strength,
but we might translate it as
self-containment.
Litzamtzeim
milahashpiya kol kakh.
To compress or
put a filter or a damper
on the level of influence.
So, you see how it counterbalances
Chesed. Chesed is Lashpiya Bligvul, to
give limitless influence. And that's
what it is. There are no limits inherent
in Chesed.
But it is offset
and complemented
by its
opposite, which is Gevurah, which puts
the brakes on the Chesed. Sometimes when
I talk to people about relationships,
I'll tell them um Chesed and Gevurah is
like love and respect. That in a healthy
relationship, love is what you do for
the person, how you approach them, how
you give to them. Uh respect though is
what you don't do because of them, the
space that you give them, the the fact
that you back off in certain things. You
don't go there. This They don't want it.
Back off, right? So, there's the gas
and there's the brakes. There's getting
close and there's backing off. Okay.
So, that's Chesed and Gevurah.
And he continues, "Umidos Harachamim."
Now, he calls it Midos Harachamim here,
which means compassion.
In the Pasuk Eliyahu originally, he
called it Tiferes.
Why Tiferes literally means beauty
or harmonic beauty.
Rachamim means compassion.
What's the What's the relationship
there? So, I'll explain while I read to
you. Leracheim al mi sheshayakh lashon
rachmanus alav.
To bestow compassion upon one
who is
befitting to receive compassion.
To give
to pity the pity the pitiable.
Vehimida mumtza'as beyn Gevurah le
Chesed. And that is an intermediary
attribute that falls between the
extremes of kindness and strength.
Because kindness is
to give to everyone.
Even to one who is not
pitiful.
Because he's not lacking anything and
he's not in pain.
Because it's an intermediary trait, it's
called beauty. It's like a which is made
from many different colors which
complement each other. It's like a
beautiful garment which is made from
many different colors which complement
each other.
It's like a beautiful garment which is
made from many different colors which
complement each other.
In a way that is beautiful.
Follow what he just explained.
What's the difference between kindness
and mercy?
Kindness and mercy.
Kindness gives because that's what
kindness does. It has nothing to do with
the recipient. It gives because that's
what it does. It gives.
So you're walking down the street
handing out $100 bills. You're giving
$100 bill to the to the rich guy, you
give $100 $100 bill to the homeless guy.
It doesn't matter. You're not asking who
needs $100. You're just walking down the
street giving out $100. That's kindness.
It's not looking at the recipient. It's
just giving.
Kindness he says or mercy
is only giving on a need and and and a
basis of need.
That the person who needs it.
You look and say, "Oh,
look at this person. They they could use
$100. I'm not going to give it to that
guy. He doesn't need it. That guy needs
it."
Why is that considered the intermediary
between kindness and strength?
Well, remember we said that strength
is the brakes.
It throttles the giving.
Says, "Let's not give so much."
Uh there's another name for strength by
the way. Just like we said kindness is
sometimes called greatness. And all
these spheres have
various different names. Strength is
sometimes called judgment.
Judgment means judgment. Why is strength
judgment?
Because
it makes a judgment. It says, "Maybe
not. Let's not give.
Maybe the recipient's not worthy.
Maybe the recipient can't handle it."
So strength says, "No.
Let's not give."
Kindness says, "Let's give." Strength
says, "Let's not."
Mercy is the mixture of both
that says,
"Let's make a judgment. Yeah, true.
Let's not give to everybody. True.
Let's give when we judge somebody's
situation worthy of giving. Oh, look at
this guy. He's so pitiful.
Got to give to him. That's mercy."
So you might even say like kindness is
indiscriminate kindness
cuz it's not really taking the recipient
into account. Mercy is judicious
kindness.
It has the judiciousness of judgment and
strength.
But what's it doing?
It's giving.
It's just doing it strategically.
And it's called beauty
because it has properties of kindness
and strength. Just like something that's
monochromatic
generally is not so beautiful.
Beauty, aesthetically speaking, is where
you have opposites that are harmonized.
So he said if you have a garment with
many colors, so that's beautiful. A
garment of one color is, you know,
kind of boring.
Black and white, you know. But you have
a nice, you know, like
Joseph's
multicolored garment. Beautiful.
So that's
that's why it's called beauty.
And if you remember from the past
anatomically how it was described, you
remember?
We said kindness right arm. The right
arm.
Strength left arm.
Strength is the left arm. Beauty
body, the body, the torso. Yeah. So I I
mean again, God doesn't have arms and
torsos, but the point is just like a
torso is
the bridge between the arms. Uh actually
I should I should reverse it.
It's making it sound again, I told you
which one is the metaphor. We're the
metaphor. So it's
the fact that there's a torso connecting
your arms
is a lower level manifestation and
derivation of the fact that there's a
middle called beauty which connects
kindness and strength on the
godly plane.
Okay.
And then afterwards,
what does it mean afterwards?
Before and after are chronological
terms.
Like what's the time frame here? What do
we
What are we describing here?
Well, let me ask you a question. That
whole anatomical configuration
um arm arm body and then you have the
legs and all that stuff.
Aside from the fact that you can't
describe God anatomically,
can you even describe God spatially?
No. So
we don't obviously mean something that
we're plotting on like a Cartesian grid.
Like, "Oh, here you know, like you sank
my battleship." We're not trying to
figure out where something is.
We're describing
a process.
And
the process
we we we talk about earlier phases and
later phases.
We're not speaking chronologically. Now,
perhaps on the human level you can say
that we experience these things broken
up
as
under the dominion of time space. So we
only I mean it happens in a lightning
flash, but these things are happening
in the on the human level in in a time
sequence. When we're talking about
the the divine paradigm,
we're talking about a process,
but it's not a
it's not a process in the in the
temporal sense.
It's it's a process in the sense that
we said the spheres are for the infinite
to relate to the finite.
They are interfaces for the finite to
experience the infinite.
So as such, you can think of it like
this. This process is the process of how
infinity
creates a relationship with the finite.
So for instance with with with God,
there's this impulse to give,
to create.
Then there's an impulse, "No, don't."
Because if you don't put a filter on it,
you won't be able to create because if
God just projects his infinity,
then he'll just have more of himself.
He has to mask himself. He has to
withhold himself in order to create the
possibility for
finite beings to have an experience of
finitude and not be overwhelmed out of
existence.
So we're describing a process.
So he says, "You have kindness,
strength, beauty which is like let's say
the first plane.
And they are on a plane, you know, the
arms and the torso are on a plane.
Then he says, "Afterwards,
as this energy is coming closer to
actual application,
that means when it's actually being
delivered,
when it's going from conceptual to
practical,
when it's going from conceptual to
practical,
there's
an internal consultation about how to do
it.
Kindness and strength is whether to do
it.
This next line is, "Okay, we've decided
whether to do it. We've even decided how
much to do. How should we do it?" The
fine-tuning.
In a manner in which the recipient will
be capable of receiving.
For going.
For instance,
he wants to teach
wisdom to his son.
If he, the father, will tell it all to
his son
as the father understands it in his
mind,
the son will not be able to receive it.
So if you have a professor come in
and give a lecture the way that he would
speak to his colleagues,
it's a waste of time.
Nobody's going to understand a word of
it.
Rather he has to organize it in a new
system, in a new context.
Dover al oifnav. Every word spoken in
the proper
manner. Ma'at ma'at tzo bislach, a
little bit at a time.
He has to dole it out.
Meet it out carefully.
U'vechines eitzah tzuney kras.
Netzach v'hod. This internal
consultation or fine-tuning is netzach
v'hod. Now, I I think I before I
translated it as
um
perseverance and poise.
If I remember correctly.
And there are a lot of different Look,
literally netzach means uh
eternality.
Uh
hod means splendor.
So, the the literal translations are not
necessarily so
helpful.
Shehein kloyos yoitzos, these are the
kidneys that advise.
The kidneys that advise. Again,
anatomical
metaphors over here.
The kidneys are sort of the last filter.
This is sort of like the last
filter before
delivering.
V'gam
trein bein.
They are also the two male
reproductive organs.
Hamavshlim hazera, which prepare the
seed, the reproductive seed.
Shihiya tipa hanimshachas mah mayach,
which is the drop that originates in the
brain.
D'heinu dvar chochma v'sechel animshach
misechel av, sh'lo yumshach k'meishu hu
sechel dak m'eid b'meichav sechel. In
other words,
taking this refined wisdom that's in the
father's brain and delivering it to the
child in a way that he'll be able to
handle it. D'rak yishtanik tzas midak
u'sechlo v'yischaver sechel she'einah
dak kolkach. It has to be brought down a
level. It has to be coarsened. It can't
remain in its abstract version as it is
in its source. K'dei sheyichol habein
l'kabel b'meichav av onosay, so that the
child will be able to receive it in his
in his mind.
V'hu mamash al derech moshal k'tipa
hayoredes mah mayach. And this is
literally like
reproduction. That's why we use that
metaphor. She dak m'eid m'eid v'na'asis
gas v'chomer mamash b'kloyos hatrein
bein.
He says, the energy
is a little bit of under you know, you
know, kabbalistic understanding of um
of genes. But he says that basically the
essential energy
that the the father contributes, the
mother as well, but they both contribute
obviously genetics. But the seed, the
energy, which is the essence of the
child that the child is built from
originates in the brain.
Now, it doesn't mean that it it It's a
piece of the brain.
It says that Alter Rebbe actually speaks
about this elsewhere, not in Tanya, but
in Torah Or. He says, obviously it's not
a piece of the brain. That's the whole
point. That in the brain it exists
energetically.
And it it has to be drawn down and
become physicalized or materialized and
turned into substance. And then it's
turned into the genetic material, to the
seed that is used for conception.
V'gam netzach v'hod nikraim shchokim
v'richayim, sheshochekei kimon
latzadikim. And there also these two
properties called the millstones that
grind the mana for the righteous.
Again, why are they millstones?
Processing. It's processing. It's
breaking it down.
It's making it more deliverable and more
consumable
on the user end.
So, what did he just describe here?
He said, we have one level,
chesed and gvurah.
And tiferes.
But that's not enough to be ready to
deliver it.
If you're talking about Hashem's
relationship with
the finite creation, so it's not ready
yet to practically create a world. If
you're talking about the way it exists
within us,
um then meaning it's not ready yet to be
delivered to a person. I'm not ready to
go deal with the other person yet that
I'm relating to. So, there's another
line that needs to to to
get in its its
to contribute its its um function over
here. And that's what we call netzach
and hod. So, he compares it to the
kidneys, he compares it to the
reproductive organs, he compares it to
millstones. But he says very clearly
what it does is it's a it's another
layer of processing.
Kind of like the the triple filtered
vodka. What which which company has that
on the bottle? The triple filter.
Whatever. Okay, I don't know.
Um
K'meihu toychen chitim v'richayim al
derech moshal, sh'mifored achitim
l'chalakim dakim m'eid. Like millstones
where you take the kernels and you break
them down into little uh specks of
flour.
Kach tzorech av l'haktin hasechel so
too, in the metaphor of the father
teaching the child, the father has to
break down his wisdom
u'dvar chochma she'reitzah l'hashpil
l'veinai d'hi want to teach to his teach
to his son
u'lachalekam l'chalakim rabim, and break
it down into little pieces. V'layma
layma at ma'at b'meitzas v'da'as. And he
has to say to him a little bit gradually
at a time with
different devices and discernment.
V'gam b'chlall b'chinas netzach hu
l'natzayach v'lamed neged kol minei
hashpa'os al im mibnei mebayis
u'm'chutz. Also, netzach
is he says l'natzayach, that means to be
victorious, to triumph.
There's that's that's another meaning of
the word netzach.
To triumph over any opposition
internally or externally.
Remember earlier I translated it as
perseverance.
Netzach is a push to break through
anything that would hold back this
process from moving forward.
So, that's why to be m'natzayach means
to be victorious, it means to overcome.
If you think about also spatially or
anatomically,
we've been speaking about lines,
chesed, gvurah, tiferes,
netzach and hod.
But also you can speak about axes,
meaning vertical lines.
So, just like chesed
is on the right side on this plane,
you know, in like uh
uh when you look at your ticket for your
seat, there's the aisle and there's the
row.
The x-axis and the y-axis, okay?
So,
you have here this plane.
The right side of the higher plane is
chesed.
On the lower plane, the right side is
netzach.
You understand why netzach would be a
lower level
expression of a similar concept as
chesed? Do you understand why they're
both on the right side? They're both
both pushing things through.
Now, what's the difference then? Why
then they're synonymous. No, because
chesed is more conceptual. Chesed is
more like
I'm in the mood to give.
I want to give.
Give what? I didn't work that out yet.
Netzach is the fine-tuning
that when we get there, we're in the
thick of it,
and we need to negotiate through
whatever the obstacles are. So, netzach
is the one that's actually Okay, give
this, give here, give how. But the same
thrust as chesed, but it's more
um
it's closer to delivery.
Now, he doesn't explain here
um so clearly the function
of hod, so I need to unpack it
a little bit more. Um
Hod I said before means splendor.
But that that's not helpful. Um
hod is related to another word, hodaa,
which is gratitude.
Like toda raba, right? Toda. Thank you.
Gratitude.
What's the concept here of gratitude?
Remember how I translated it before when
I was reading the Pasach Eliyahu source?
I said netzach and hod, perseverance and
poise.
So, I sometimes I translate hod as
poise.
Um poise I I think is like
someone who has poise, they don't burst
into the room.
They don't make loud noises.
They have certain like
refinement.
They know how to
control themselves.
You understand why that would be on the
same axis as gvurah?
Right? That makes sense. So, just like
netzach is a lower level
of chesed, they're both on the right
axis. So, hod is a lower level of
gvurah, it they're they're both on on
the left
axis. So, hod
hodaa, gratitude.
Gratitude is also related to the concept
of admission.
Admission.
Like in a legal proceeding
where one litigant concedes to the
other,
you would say he is modeh. It's the same
word.
He admits that the other person's
uh
claim is is true.
Now, why are gratitude
and admission
related? Why are they from the same
word?
Um
because
you know, it's interesting. Most people
um
it when they're grateful for something
then they let it into their reality.
They admit that it's true.
And if they are not grateful for it,
they don't like it, then they have this
neurotic sort of reality rejection where
they like to ignore it or be in denial
of it or or at least be resentful of it.
Shouldn't be true. I know it's true, but
it shouldn't be true, right?
Um
when we talk about Hod, it's actually
the reverse. It's not that you admit
something is true cuz you're thankful
for it, but you're thankful for it
because you admit that it's true.
That if it's real
then it's got to be what it's supposed
to be. God knows what he's doing.
So, the poise, the ability to step back
and sort of not have your judgment and
to receive.
Hod is an ability to receive.
Um
that
is related to gratitude and it's related
to acceptance. Obviously, a person who
has acceptance is going to live in
gratitude.
Um, now when we talk about Hashem's Hod,
again, we're talking about Hashem
quote-unquote taking a step back.
Obviously, he's not literally taking a
step back. Where would he step to? You
know, where would he go? Where would he
go that he's not there? But meaning um
again, masking himself allowing us an
experience and an experience of autonomy
not objectively ontologically
uh
autonomous because God forbid, there's
nothing separate from God. But to have
the experience of autonomy.
Um
which by the way is not free will. But
it's not the time to discuss that right
now. Free will is actually quite the
opposite. It's not time to discuss that.
Um
so you have
you have
Netzach and Hod
the perseverance and the poise which are
sort of making last-minute adjustments
how much to either push
or pull back.
Okay.
But we have to continue here.
We'll begin with Yesod.
Then we have Yesod.
Yesod literally means foundation.
Like a building is built on a
foundation.
He held Derek Marshall his kashrus shema
kashrus of sichlei besichlei denach.
If you want to use the metaphor again of
the father teaching the son, it's the
relationship
of the father and the son. Yesod is the
relationship of the father and the son.
The hiskashrus, the kesher. It literally
means a knot. Means that they're tied
together.
Bishas limudah imei ba'av avaros in
sharaits sheyavin benai. When they learn
together in an environment of love where
he lovingly desires that his son should
understand.
Umlav deizeh and without this, without
this feeling of connectedness
gam im hoya haben shomeya diburim eilu
atzmo mipi aviv.
Even if the son would hear the very same
words being spoken by the father
shemedaber ba'av deiva lo made atzmei
where the father is speaking to himself.
Let's say the father is a public speaker
and he's practicing his lecture for
tonight pacing around in his office at
home and saying his lecture. And the son
is sitting outside on the other side of
the door overhearing every word.
Lo haya meivin kol kach kima achshav.
The son will not understand it to the
same degree she'aviv mekashir sichlei
eilu medaber imei panim el panim ba'av
avacheishek beshacheishek mayishiyavin
benai.
The same way, he will not understand to
the same way as if the father is
lovingly speaking face to face to the
child.
Yesod is a very
intangible
but extremely decisive factor
in this process.
I say intangible because technically
what difference does it make? We already
have the chesed, gevurah, tiferes,
netzach, and hod. The father already
basically decided here's the lesson
plan, here's what I'm going to deliver,
here's how I'm going to say it.
The Yesod just means how he feels about
his son when he's doing it.
What does that have to do with anything?
And yet the Baal Tanya says
it makes all the difference.
That when there's that loving connection
the son understands better.
I tell this to parents all the time.
It's not what you're saying. They say,
"Well, what can I say to my my child
that they'll listen to me?
Are there different words I could
memorize? Give me a script." They don't
literally say give me a script, but
you know, in so many words, that's what
they ask for a lot. And and and I always
tell them, "It really doesn't matter
what words you use.
If there's a connection
and you can't fake a connection.
If there's a connection, an emotional
connection, what we call Yesod
what he calls hiskashrus
a being bound up together
then the words will work.
But if there's not a connection, then
then then it doesn't.
So Yesod is the
the relationship between
the giver and the recipient.
Um
you see when you speak to crowds
that
in the end of in in the in the end and
it really is literally the end cuz Yesod
is like the last
link or it's the penultimate because we
have to get to malchus, but it's the
last thing before
um the delivery. Remember by the way in
the pasuk of Yesod anatomically what he
said that Yesod was?
He said Yesod was ice bris kodesh.
Siyuma degufa ice bris kodesh. Siyuma
degufa means the end of the body.
Um
means
the
the terminal point. If you think about
uh many times as the kabbalists will use
um reproduction as the ultimate metaphor
for creator and creation or for the
creative act.
So, like that terminal point which is
the actual bridge between one party and
the other. So, that's why it's likened
to the place of the circumcision.
So, you know, obviously people who are
not mature, they hear this and you know
you can't handle the fact that it's
speaking about the these types of uh
these things and you get very
distracted. But if you understand the
the the the metaphor properly
really what it's saying is this is like
the final delivery.
So, this is the bridge that connects the
giver to the recipient.
Um in emotional terms, he says it's the
relationship between the giver and the
recipient.
What I'm saying is it's not inherently
sexual. Sexuality, human sexuality is a
lower level manifestation or metaphor of
this concept. In its archetype, it is
the essential concept of connection. It
just in on on on the physical plane,
this is how it's manifested. At any
rate, the point is
you you see with with with a when you're
speaking to a group
you know, you have to prepare what
you're going to say, you have to know
what you're saying, you have to care
about the subject, then you have to
think about your audience and you have
to think, well, you know, how should I
say it to them? Which jokes, which
references should I use? Um how much
should I give them? What will be
cognitive overload? What will be
too much? What will be too little? That
will be too boring. And you do all that
stuff. That's the chesed, gevurah,
tiferes, netzach, and hod.
But at the end you walk into the room
and you feel the connection with the
crowd.
And I mean I I do a lot of speaking, so
to me this is a
very common experience in my life. I
don't know how often all of you are on
this side of the podium, but
after all the preparation and all the
decisions about how you should say it
and how much and
at the end it really comes down to the
emotional connection that
if I'm feeling like
I I care, if I feel I I can't be
eloquent for an audience that I don't
care about.
So
if I feel
uh
that I care about this, that I want you
to get this and not that I want you to
get it because I want you to tell me I
said it well.
Then then it's about me. But I want it
for you. I think that this is going to
help you. And therefore, I'm going to
only say it in ways that are helpful to
you. I'm not going to say more than is
helpful. I I'll try not to say less than
is helpful. So, that's the Yesod part.
Okay.
What I didn't speak about
is I mentioned that there are 10
sefirot. Right? So, there there's 10.
And 10 koachot hanefesh, 10 soul powers.
So
we're missing three.
Oh, I didn't do malchus, did I?
Skipped malchus. Sorry.
Getting ahead of myself.
So, malchus is the seventh of the seven.
And that is called literally malchus is
kingship.
Kingship
means
um
an administrator.
That's what a king is.
A king is an administrator.
Malchus is executive functioning.
It's the final delivery.
So, if you remember in the possible of
the year, he called it the mouth.
Malchus peh.
It's the It's the mouth.
That's the final delivery how I actually
And the mouth is a metaphor because
sometimes we speak without our mouth.
You can speak in many ways. There are
different languages. There are different
modes of communication. But, the point
is communication is always for an other.
So, malchus is for an other. When we
speak about Hashem's malchus, we mean
Hashem as he is therefore an other.
What's the other? Creation.
So, Hashem as he becomes a creator
and we have a relationship with creation
is the attribute of malchus.
Hashem's self-expression. And the same
within us that when we express
ourselves, that's called malchus. The
way I interface with that which is
outside of myself
is called malchus. Okay.
So, we have the seven. Chesed, gvurah,
tiferes, netzach,
hod,
yesod. Did I do it? Chesed.
No, I'll do it the way you're facing.
Chesed, gvurah, tiferes,
netzach, hod, yesod. And usually it's
drawn malchus down here
just to illustrate that it's even more
close to the culmination of the process.
So, we have seven.
And that corresponds to the seven weeks
between
uh
Pesach and Shavuot, the Exodus and the
revelation at Sinai.
But, I didn't speak But, I didn't speak
about There are three more.
Okay, very good.
So, where are these other three?
The other three
as opposed to these seven, these seven
generally at the very beginning I call
them attributes. I translate the word
middos as attributes. You can also
translate them as emotions.
They're all emotions in the sense that
an emotion is um an energy that compels
me to relate to that which is outside of
myself.
But, then there's a higher plane
of chochmah
chochmah, binah, da'at,
which are the intellectual traits.
So, I just want to speak quickly about
what they are
and their relationship with the seven.
Chochmah and binah are called father and
mother respectively.
Middos
are the children.
The emotions are the children.
And And the concept is
that
the way that you cognitively process
information
is the way that you're going to end up
feeling about that subject matter.
So, emotions don't materialize out of
thin air. They're not out of nowhere.
You're processing information
and you're coming to intellectual
decisions
about what it means. And based on your
interpretation of the data
then you come to emotional conclusions.
So, the emotions are the children, the
offspring
of the intellect.
He says something very interesting here.
And And I'm again I'm reading from uh
Iggeres Hakodesh Tazvav from
letter number 15 of Iggeres Hakodesh.
So, he says um makor deshaish middos
eilu
the
source and the root of these attributes,
the seven attributes,
hu mechochmah, binah, da'at shebe nafshi
are from chochmah, binah, and da'at. And
I can translate that literally the way
they do it as wisdom, understanding,
knowledge. I don't think it's helpful.
I'll get into what they actually are in
a moment. Kilfi seichel adam kach hein
middosav. Because as a person's
intellect, so are his emotions.
As a person's intellect, so are his
emotions. K'nireh ba chush, as we
observe empirically.
And I love this example.
Sh'ha katan, that a child
she chochmah, binah, da'at she le hein
b'chinat katnus, his chochmah, binah,
da'at, his intellectual faculties are
immature,
kach
kol middosav hein b'dvarim ktanei o
erech. Therefore, his emotions are about
trivialities.
Right? He gets all gleeful about
something
as silly as
a candy.
And he gets heartbroken in gut
gut-wrenching sobs, falling on the floor
crying over something as trivial as
also a candy. Right? The candy fell.
Now, he's crying.
So, he explains
that emotions are the product of the
intellect.
Cognitive capacities determine emotional
capacities.
You cannot
have an emotion for something you're not
cognitively capable of appreciating.
So, as you mature and you become able to
understand things more deeply,
then the things you care about
become things of greater consequence,
things that really matter
in the long run. But, when you don't
have that cognitive capacity, so then
you just have strong emotions about
candy and other little
trivialities.
Okay.
But, what What's Let's break it down.
I mentioned chochmah is called father,
binah is called mother.
Chochmah is father and binah is mother
in the sense that
these are two partners in procreation.
And I mentioned that that the emotions
are the children.
And
chochmah's contribution
is like the contribution of a father
to rep- to to to reproduction
where he gives a tiny tiny little packet
of of genetic code.
Little microscopic
zip file of genetic code.
And then
from that is unpacked
this complex being called the child.
Chochmah is hyper-condensed.
Chochmah
is sometimes called barak amavrik, the
lightning flash, because it's the aspect
of cognition which is often brought on
through sudden inspiration.
I suddenly had an idea.
Boom, it hit me.
I have an invention.
That's chochmah.
Um
sometimes chochmah is compared to seeing
because when you see something, you can
see it all in a flash.
You can look at a complex painting and
you've seen the entire painting
immediately. Now, you may not You may
not remember what you saw.
You didn't process all the details, but
you've seen all the details.
As opposed to hearing where if you hear
1 second of a symphony, you haven't
heard it. You only heard 1 second of it.
But, seeing, you could see the whole
painting in 1 second.
So, that's chochmah.
That initial flash.
Binah is the mother in as much as it is
akin to the womb of cognition wherein
chochmah becomes expanded
and elaborated upon and articulated into
details.
Which is Which is why, by the way, binah
is often compared to hearing. Just like
chochmah is compared to seeing, binah is
compared to hearing.
Because with hearing, you can only hear
one note at a time. I mean, you could
play double speed nowadays, but you
still There's a certain amount of time
that it takes to listen to the whole
song.
Binah is breaking it down
and processing it.
Taking it apart.
Now,
a little retention here. Remember when
we spoke about the emotional plane?
Chesed, gvurah, tiferes.
So, these axes extend all the way up to
the intellectual plane. Chochmah, binah,
da'at. Chochmah is on the right axis
like chesed. Binah is on the left axis
like gvurah.
Would it make sense to you
if I were to say that binah
is related to gvurah? They're both on
the left side because just like gvurah
is judgment
on an emotional level, like should I
give? Should I not give?
Binah is cognitive judgment.
It takes
the concept
and
breaks it up.
Makes distinctions.
Makes Makes
analysis.
So, that's the father and the mother
that create the emotions.
Um I was actually I was just telling
my daughter Friday night on Shabbos.
She went to look for something in the
fridge.
And I told her
um
I said, "You know,
sometimes men go look for something in
the fridge and they can't find it."
And then their wives tell them, "Well,
go look again." And they still can't
find it.
And then the wife takes the thing, the
jar of mustard, whatever it was, and she
says,
"It's right here."
"Why didn't I see it?"
So, I was explaining to my daughter
the difference between Hochma and Bina.
That a man, being a man,
is not purely a manifestation
of of divine masculinity, but generally,
you know,
that uh you know, we all have different
uh aspects. We're complex beings. But
generally speaking, a man has more
masculinity than femininity. And a woman
has more femininity than masculinity.
And on a cognitive level, that means
that men have more Hochma and women have
more Bina. What that means is, in
general, we're speaking generalities
here. Obviously, you'll find exceptions.
But what that means, I told my daughter,
I said,
"A man will sometimes look at he'll open
the fridge and he'll look at what's
there, and he just sees the big picture.
He can't see the details."
So, he doesn't know that the the jar of
mustard is right there.
The beauty of Hochma
is that it's the initiator. It's the
beginning of the process.
It's the one that comes up with the
concept.
And you can't do anything without it,
without its contribution.
On the other hand,
if it doesn't quickly deposit itself
within Bina and get something going over
there,
it will dissipate. It'll
it'll disappear.
It's not sustainable because it's so
abstract. It's like that thing where
"Oh, I just had the coolest idea. What
was it?" "I can't remember." "I can't"
"Well, if it's important, you'll
remember it." "No, that's actually not
true. Sometimes it's important you don't
remember it."
If you don't put it in Bina right away,
you'll lose it. So, what's putting it in
Bina? Bina is articulation, breaking it
down. Like I saw this thing, it was a
picture speaks a thousand words, but if
I don't start putting it into words, I'm
going to lose it. So, Bina is the
breaking it down, the process of putting
it into
or articulating it
in in in details and
words and descriptions. Um
Bina is expansive and elaborative.
Um as far as a cognitive tool,
metaphor is a primary example of Bina.
When you compare one thing to another
thing,
a parable, an analogy,
that's that's Bina thought, horizontal
thought. Where you use a different thing
to get a new angle on something else.
That's Bina. Okay.
Now, I mentioned that there are three
intellectual faculties. So, what's the
third one?
Right, Das.
But there's only two parents, there's a
father and a mother. So, what's this
third
what's this third dude here?
Das
is not a parent.
It is the relationship between the
parents.
The first time we find that word
biblically is where it says
the Adam, that Adam, the first person,
yada, knew
Chava, Eve, his wife. What does it mean
he knew her? Well,
you read the rest of the sentence, he
knew her and they begat
a child. It means
he was intimate with her.
And they uh they had offspring.
Das is intimacy.
What does that mean?
Well, remember how like
at the end
of the emotions, we had that center axis
of Yesod, and we said Yesod is
hiskashrus, is connection.
If you go all the way up to the top
plane, the intellectual, the center axis
is Das. It's also connection.
It's also connection.
The only difference is Yesod is a
connection between me and the other.
Das is all connections going on
internally, within inside inside myself.
It makes sense, by the way, that the
central axis would be a connector,
right?
Because thing in the middle, right?
That's the glue.
And and again, we're not speaking
spatially over here. So, when you say
something's in the middle, we don't mean
in the middle spatially. What we mean is
functionally, it's in the middle. When
you say one thing connects another
thing, so that thing is {quote}
{unquote} in the middle.
So, Das performs
internal connection.
What to what? When you connect, you
connect one So, one thing to another
thing. So, what's Das connecting?
There are two levels of Das.
There's Das Elyon and Das Tachton.
Higher Das and lower Das.
Higher Das,
Das is always a connection. Higher Das
is the connection between Hochma and
Bina, the father and the mother
themselves.
Their intimate relationship.
Lower Das is the connection between
Hochma and Bina together
and their children, the middos, the
emotions.
So, the higher Das connects the father
to the mother so that they can have
children. The lower Das is the
connection between the parents and the
children.
What was that? It's very abstract. What
does that mean? Very simple.
In in terms of the human experience, Das
is called concentration or focus.
If you don't continue to focus,
so then Hochma is not marrying Bina.
And your great idea will just disappear.
And if you don't continue to focus,
then the marriage of Hochma Bina can
remain academic or theoretical, and it
won't turn into an emotion.
So, it's the focus both on on both
planes
that sees to it that the process gets to
the next
phase.
Hochma and Bina will not unite with each
other and have children if there's not
continued focus.
They just go their separate ways.
And Hochma and Bina together will not
end up
sustaining the children
if there's not a connection between them
and the emotions. In other words,
you might say, "Well, I used to be
passionate about that subject. I'm not."
Well, what was happening when you were
passionate about it? Probably you were
thinking about it a lot.
And I stopped thinking. I got bored. I
had I don't know, I had burnout. I
couldn't deal with it anymore. Got
distracted with other stuff.
All right, would you like to feel
strongly about it again? I mean, it
depends what it is. Maybe it's something
you don't want to feel strongly about
again. But would you like to feel
strongly again? Yeah, okay. How do I do
that? Well, just start focusing on it
again.
Start thinking, perseverating on a
cognitive level. I promise you, it will
lead to an emotional outcome. It's
inevitable. That's just what happens
when Hochma and Bina get together and
stay together,
then they have children. So, Das is that
connector that makes sure that
everything
continues, that there's continuity.
Okay.
Um
Let's just
maybe wrap this up like this.
We understand this idea that these are
patterns
that repeat themselves
in
on every level.
So, a lot of times people ask, "Why do
we learn
this information? Like it's so
uh abstruse."
What
How will this make me a better person?
So,
let's look at it like this.
If you
if you understand better
how these archetypes operate on the
spiritual plane,
you will gain new insights into
how you are wired.
And if you gain new insight into how you
are wired,
obviously, that kind of self-awareness
lends itself to being a better person,
making better choices.
So, you can study these spiritual
concepts, and it can actually lead to
personal growth,
self-refinement.
Conversely,
you can work it the other way around,
like I said.
And that when we learn these things as
the metaphors of human experience,
we can glimpse
a little bit of appreciation
for the way God relates to his creation.
And if you can appreciate even a little
bit how God relates to his creation,
that will increase your love and awe of
God.
Which, first of all, are mitzvahs. It's
a commandment to love God and to
be in awe of God.
But uh secondly,
this also
causes you to become a more refined
person.
The more you love and awe God,
then the the more refined your pursuits
and your goals and your values will be,
the more you will be able to
to commit yourself to what really
matters, the more you will be able to
pursue things that actually have eternal
value rather than just
doing what feels good in the moment. So,
even though these concepts, these
spiritual concepts are very, very lofty,
the more you learn them, whether you do
the Hafsha'ah or the Halbashah, the
you strip it away and go from below to
above or you take from the archetype and
you bring it down to the to the
terrestrial manifestation,
either way you do it, and both ways that
you do it,
will make you more of a mensch.
Will make you more refined.
And who
who doesn't want to become more refined?
That's what we're here for. We're given
a lifetime
to work on a project, and we are the
project.
And these keys, these 10 Sefirot, are
the language
that we use
for
for working on that project.