New Episode out now with Moshe Zev Lamm, LCSW #thestruggle #marriage #marriagecounseling

just married somebody. Everybody was dancing by by the was so happy. We were smiling. And then I get home and there's something about my something about my that's it really bothers me. I really don't like we tend to think communication is about talking, >> right? >> Everybody knows how to talk. Nobody knows how to communicate. >> And then she yells at him and he yells at her and they're not talking for three days >> until they get to the therapist office. Marriage is a struggle. It just is. I want to show respect really for the people who are who are staying in marriages that are not these ideal marriages. looking to marriage to help me feel a certain way about myself, >> right? >> It almost always fails. I mean, the tit of mashia, if you look at the translation, mashia makab doesn't mean boss and servant. That's not >> right. We got to make that clear. First of all, >> I I I know couples who spend all day together with the kids and they go to Costco and one's pastor just feels lonely. >> We're so the same. We're so wow, he's just like me. We We finished each other's sentences. That's a disaster. In one word and short, if you can explain me what is marriage?