Making Amends Repairing Relationships & Moving Forward

It's amends is not sorry. Let's be very clear. >> No, amends is fixing the problem. You don't go to someone and say, "Sorry, I took $500 bucks from you." You say, "Here's the $500 back." Yeah. But often times in an amends, you're going to someone and at the end of it, you're saying, "This is what I did. This is how it affected you. How could I make it right? >> I got to make it up to you." >> And the person can say any the person can say anything. So one of the things that they advise is sometimes you can't make amends to someone directly to them but you make what's called a living amends. You say I changed my way of being like they say truva is what? Not doing the same thing again. Make an amends that you're not going to treat women in that way anymore. Make an amends that you're going to live differently as a human being gets clogged with stuff. The 12 steps the process of clearing out our fears, our guilt, >> our shame like really those things just clearing it out, clearing it out. So, we're free to >> You're free to move