Divorce Impact Shielding Kids From Painful Legal Battles #podcast#devorce #prenup

your kids are going to get hit the hardest. They get affected the mostffect all of it. They're the ones who get affected the most. Correct. So, so when you ask me the question is like I have seen some families when they get a divorce where there's a healthy relationship between the parents and that's where the kids do well. Okay. And there's a which is why an uncontested divorce if it can happen is the best thing for them because you put the kids through you know a year or two of torture through the courts. Often times, you know, one of the things that that happens in a divorce when custody is an issue is they have to appoint an attorney for the children. That attorney is interacting with the kids. So, they're seeing conflict. Then they have to get forensics and they have to get psychiatrists in there and all sorts of people. And the kids become pawns in this process and they see the hostility. And it's the worst thing you could do for the kids is put your kids through two years of a divorce proceeding where they see mom and dad the animosity animosity and the venom going