The story of the Rebbe and Rebbetzin’s wedding 14 Kislev , Part 2 - Rabbi Yossi Paltiel 5779

I don't like competing the same material three times so what I do is each that we're eyeing in I start with Seminary base I continuous you want to finish tomorrow with Seminary aleph one which I do at one o'clock so I started the story of the devil's wedding with the Seminary base girls and I told them the whole story except they didn't get to the wedding at all so I'm gonna be telling you the story it's gonna sound like it's from the beginning but there's a whole prefix to it and then it says your whole suffix if anybody the same speech I give you every time if anybody wants all three recordings send me an email I'll be delighted I'll be thrilled I'll be happy I'll be flattered and honored to send it to you anyway today we're doing today okay that's the topic I told the girls a lot of background had predicted that his oldest son's descendants would be there after four generations I talked to the girls about the initially meeting I mean the way the story seems to have happened was they met and there was discussion of and then trouble started exactly what kind of trouble is hard to know but evidently the rumors are and I never met Mr rumor it's very hard to meet um he likes to be evasive um that the devil's father was not entirely in favor of the rabbit's father knew with his career of Kabbalah that there would not be any children and the Debbie said to his father that ever knows that also the feeder Club also knows that he nevertheless wanted the shida of course they got married right they got married and of course as they say in the real world they lived happily ever after and unfortunately physically they've ever had any children although spiritual they have literally millions of children that have ended episode um but that seems to be what happened it happened in 1923 or the end of 1922 and they got it got married in 1928 between 1922 and 22 and 28 to six years so there was reasons the wedding was delayed it seems that even later on one of the reasons became Financial the feeling of want to make a very very big wedding for the rabbit Robertson he didn't have the resources and the money came like one from someone sent them a lot of money a very big surprise a donor who was broke found the treasure and sent a whole treasure to Vietnam and without money the wedding of the devil was made toughrish pay test the end of 1928. it was November 28th the rabbit was 20 1928 the river was was 25 and a half I think so and then Edwardson was 26 and a half she was a year older than November now there's a story which I did not tell the girls from the other group which I should have told them but the fact that I didn't tell them is your their loss is your game it's an interesting story with uh with a piece of history and again I I people have criticized me for telling the story I shouldn't tell the story because I'm embarrassing to obey him I don't know what bottom line is the story is not printed in the book so nobody can hold it against me telling the story because the story is well known in the early 20s 23. subsequent to those meetings while the feeder kid was still living in that style the feeling moved away from 1924. the represent Khana travel to that stuff by herself that his mother came to the feeding she stayed in the house for a few weeks she stayed in the house to feed the hip of a few weeks it was a tradition of the olden days which of course we would never do because really really modern and sophisticated and cultured and logical and idiotic and fantastic which was to uncooking the color right in the olden days how did you choose a wife take a while yes how did a guy choose a wife or take a while to guess how did a girl choose a husband she asked her brothers or her father he asked his mother or sisters when a boy and a girl had to get married the boy didn't meet the girl what's the boy you know about girls his sister met the girl it actually makes sense there's a point of a boy in a girl meeting not allowed to get engaged with them without seeing the person it's a din but one of the boy know about a girl what is a girl about a boy they should do made by siblings or my parents came to the theater's house and she lived there for a few weeks she wanted to see how the House Runs and of course she observed that episode close and the end of the story was at the end of that visit now this part of the story you want to listen to she had an appointment of yahidas and she said to the theater my husband gave me the authority to agree to the blavik gave the debt the right to decide yes or no and she decided affirmative she said yeah to the green today but there's a condition made a condition that the sugar was based on a condition what's the condition you know what Madness a dowry what's a dog which pastures that in foreign [Music] you name your price you got it it's called The Dowry in the olden days a boy and a girl got married the girls family had to give the boy and the boy's family wealth ashitis as a part of the it's called they used to give chickens and goats and whatever else um but of course the basic not this money now most couples are getting married today I don't know too many people who are not it's it's you can barely afford to pay for the wedding are you supposed to make nothing but in the olden days I was part of the package a boy got married especially the presumption was that we're going to give him money that would allow him to sit and learn for a while to help him start a business the Dowry was supposed to be substantial it wasn't supposed to be 10 cents it was supposed to be a lot of money did ever twice you know that the rabbit twice asked from someone twice twice foreign you have to give him nothing his parents were in Israel you have to give him a diary and Isaac Muslim insisted that the ice cubes are awesome he didn't have a father and that ABBA said you want this question I'm the cause if they give a dowry so the Deb is that's what the feeling never said I have no money it was a very difficult time there was no money in the house said drum roll please I'm not asking for money I'm asking for that basement is that the lab is next this is a true story girls before the lab and everything got engaged the devil's mother told it ever defeated but that my husband insists that he asked for a dowry and the Dowry is a guarantee for succession a guarantee that that was gonna be that after the free indicated I know the story from two different sources it was a Jew who passed away very young his name is yasi kazen he told me this story personally he heard it from Matlock secretary in this passion of this father he joined the other team vimized and he left 770 on his deathbed he revealed the story that he was in the house when the Davidson Khan came in 1923 27 years before the 11 became and there was a negotiation that the lab is going to be the next level the story is also printed in a book from abzaman garadi which is called base in emmanu he was also in the house and he also remembered the story and he also repeated the story and I think there's a third source of the story there was a Jew who lived in New York his name was araf sanderanian he was a clean shaven Jew a big big hospital he remembered the story as well so the feeling passed away and the lab is refusing to become rabbit he said excuse me this was it's a precondition to your wedding you know what he answered the feeling ever never told me he knew the story I assure you his parents told them the story more than once I asked here for the fear to get up and that's for my father and that's my mother I have to hear from feet he could have defeated Kevin never told it to him and then the end of the story was that City went to the oijo and they said to defeated saying and hotness can't hate all but he was never told it was like that day that I visited the oil he never used that excuse again the excuse he never used again but before the devil was engaged to be married this was a precondition that the dev would be the next level now so when the feeder agreed that episode kind of said I want you to put it in writing and then there's two suffixes two different versions again I heard to disturb the living people from Lieberman I heard in other words most people words have no kayak words they're called in Allah people I can promise you a million dollars like oh you're not 10 cents because words of no kayak but when it comes to cut him comes to Holy things words are like an action so the feeling he could ever said my words are as good as a star so before that I was engaged this is already negotiated now there's a bunch of Stories the devil's engagement was complicated um apparently oh the the correct answer to that question is I don't have a clue but I have a whole imaginary I have a whole version a whole story which I told the other group they believe it's what he's supposed to be a rabbit because it's said that the fourth generation is going to come back to their brand to the family when they believe it didn't become a Reba and that ever became they ate them he said oh I made a mistake in the generations the dev is going to be the devil do you know a story that I heard and again I can trace I know the names of the people all the way back there was a year by the name of RAB Singh it's a big you know you know why his granddaughter is Mrs Laskin in high school was in Siberia for many years he was in a lot of places he came out of Russia much later he didn't come out with all the anash it was a big husset parents house in the 1930s and the mail arrived the lady picks up the mail he sifts through the mail puts it down his father puts on his kapota puts on his hat what's on his guitar washes his hands and opens a letter now when was the last time you got a lot of many about it and you put in your hat in your guttle and you wash your hands ome [Music] who is that letter from he figured must be from the fleet again ever and I believe it was not considered such a big cause of defeated which is why he wanted to see he said there's a letter from my son says for your son you put on your garden and you wash your hands so the blade accepted which means he passed me by a long time ago the Debbie's father knew who the rebel was he had a very very high opinion of his son and it was very important to him that this should happen that the samacharik's promised that after four generations it would come back to that branch of the family should be seen through should happen now of course I told the girls in the other room the story they all left Russia at the end 1927. between the time they left Russia and the khasana was about 14 months a little bit less than 14 months now of course the plan was that the devil's going to live in Reagan Latvia were the field lived the Latvian go stay in the country the devil left hashan a Russian passport and by the way the devil came to New York under Russian passport the feeling he had ever changed his citizenship to Latvian citizenship and being a Latvian citizen would end up saving his life I would never never bothered changing his passport to remained a Russian Citizen and he had to live in other countries only as a student this is one of the explanations had to be in school over those years even though if you read his transcripts he missed more than half the school days if to 100 days of school then it became for 47 of them was because he had student visas in berlinia the student visa he was living in the country as a student when he moved to Paris he was living as a student visa when he finished school in 1938 Debbie first applied for French citizenship which of course never happened because the war came but the devil was using a Russian passport so they did not allow him to stay in vegan and legal actress had to leave so even though the devil was marrying the free to get up his daughter they were separated by countries the devil went to live in Berlin there's evidence and again I'm not sure 100 but there's evidence that while the level was still single and living in Berlin that Eva's Brother label joined him he also got out of Russia he also came to Berlin he was also a student and the rabbit and label were roommates for a while once they never got married obviously they couldn't be roommates anymore but until the devil did everything got married did ebb and his brother shared a room and I told the girls from Seminary base a story about whose name is no no no no no whose name was zeld Slane that he visited Berlin he was a cousin of that and he told them I want to go to your wedding in France I'm having in Poland I'm having a very hard time getting a Visa a commission into the country and the devil went with him to the immigration office to negotiate that it had let him come to our devices imagine that ever helped me come to his wedding that was the lab anyway the the labor was in Berlin and the Phoenix ever was in Latvia now they never used the company to defeated cadaver to The Shred for every young if he came for circus he came for pesach the wedding took place and just lived in Poland made three weddings the small wedding the first wedding was not even a wedding it was a kidish they had they drank lemonade they had no money for masculine a short Marathon garage there was such poverty in the house that they Mama served sardines and crackers the wedding was incredibly impoverished it was a very very hard time in Russia they got married the group of a conditional were the same was kosher legit but it was there was there was no expense disposed for in that wedding there was just no money when the younger sister came out her name was shandel she got married inside the base I think in 32 that made a nice weather in a in a retirement area near vilner the wedding was attended by a lot of delis but it was nowhere near the kind of grand event as our Dev is wedding was hour of rabbit got married in Russia Warsaw was the Jerusalem of Poland Warsaw had hundreds of thousands of Jews including some of the greatest Sadiq of the greatest lived in varshe and the rebe invited all of them to the wedding the free educated invited oil Sadiq boiled to come to the wedding and this was real defeated there was hello Russia hasidus and polish hasidis had been separated by borders and oppression that ever had come out of Russia was living in Poland and this was his hello to the Palace of Sadiq many came personally to participate in the rabbit's wedding was there a lot of them some didn't come personally they sent him to get it ever sent his brother the Bells but most of the greatest came to the rabbit's wedding the rabbit's wedding was therefore a royal event it was very very Grand it was attended by some of the greatest Jewish leaders in Poland they never got to know these people personally and they also got to know that personally and for the fear because this is very very important officially the reason the wedding was so large is because the vehicle was introducing himself to yada's Pilot because the feeling about three daughters and you're not allowed to show deference to one over the next I mean I'm sure all the Phoenix episode were wonderful but only one of them was marrying a rabbit you know there was only one of them was that Ebbets so the weddings were not the same but the official reason for why that Eva's wedding was so large was because it was introduction to yard this toilet but it was important for defeated that they should meet the labor and when they met that Abbott they were overwhelmed when the police had ever met that ever they were absolutely overwhelmed and a lot of them would remember that 30 40 50 years later when it ever became an event they would remember the young man that they met by the hasna it was over the river's presence was extraordinary it was incredibly impressive in any case the wedding started because you have enough roof the Shabbos foreign the girls the women left the four Shabbos Ka and her older sister Hannah was married already ended up and the younger sister shendo they left before Shabbos they went to Poland for Shabbos because they had to buy clothing for the wedding and for the shepherdas and there was apparently places to buy better clothing in Poland than in Latvia hard to imagine but that was the fact so the men stayed behind and the uffruff was in episode oh I forgot something important there is a tradition that you girls are not going to notice until you're marrying off your own children that's called tanayim is that by the Kabbalah spawn him they read a a note of conditions and the two sides make and then the customers are the mothers of the Kala a breaker plate what you don't understand is that that piece of paper by the time it's written in red is obsolete could the time is supposed to make it the beginning of the engagement when a boy and a girl get engaged the parents have to agree after what they're obligating themselves in other words in the olden days the parents sat down and said okay I'm gonna give this you're going to give this they wrote that on a paper and you had to meet them if you didn't give everything you promised they could take you to business and it was very very complicated so tonight it became a big obstacle because oftentimes people would make conditions and they couldn't keep them in weddings and there's a curse there was a curse don't ask so really that name should really be abolished completely the tradition we don't want to give away a minute you throw so our customers buy the Kabbalah spawning that's not even written and it's all about the conditions that supposed to take place during the engagement and it's about a half an hour before the wedding they redefine him but in the olden days became engaged in the rabbits in snowy were also made before the wedding but not six years before their wedding six days before their wedding that everybody got married to the adult kids lived that noim were made an evolved kiss of eight days before the wedding the rebe Satani wrote him defeated committed and he wrote Allah Mazel Tov today we made volume and we made a Kenyan and we broke a plate and so on we didn't know this till recently that the rabbi the rabbit's name were made on vacation the reason this is important to me is because that is my wedding anniversary of so after the fact it became you see I got married on a special day except when I got married I had no idea that it was special um after Shabbos whatever the men's contingent left Riga and they went to Poland now one of the sad pieces of the story out of Russia who indeed who were not allowed into Poland the lab is personal secretary Fagan had already left Russia and the Polish government would not let him into the country he missed the rebels because the Polish government did not give a rights to enter into the country the feeling ever came on a train together with the rabbit and a whole bunch of and there's a wonderful letter which is printed now in English from Aid by the name of Elijah altoy's was a foreign does anybody know the significance of that ever was born in Nikolai Elohim Alpha is a child he was now a senior hasid very close to Phoenix he was so defeated calls him he did nothing she did base that be so close to Phoenix in heaven he was he was older than the feeder Club he was an old man yeah so they had the Royal you know that term that they didn't have much pain that's the term that ever used one of them Altos he was unfortunately killed by the Nazis he was a very special the very high ticket closet he knew the love from childhood he was the revenge he followed the Labyrinth the last couple days before the wedding so he writes intimately hour by hour the time that he spent with the young husband with our rabbit he wrote these letters to his children who were still living in Russia so they should have some idea what was going on by that if he wrote two beautiful beautiful letters one he wrote in conjunction with and the other one he wrote in conjunction with t-shirt was in America acted in lieu of the rebe in Riga and he was there he describes that whole tishna so he was that Evan Schreiber so they arrived in Poland on Sunday night got off the train and there were hundreds of photographers and you know many Yiddish newspapers they were in Warsaw in 1929. if you tell me they were 40 or 50 it wouldn't be an exaggeration in those days everybody reads newspapers today nobody even knows what paper is in those days they were newspapers there were all these papers and Yiddish and polish and whatever it was and then was coming to Poland was so famous he was the Jew who defeated Stalin and on and on the theater began on the train and he had to stand and post for pictures and answer questions snuck out of the train station literally snuck out of the train station before people could catch them they never was not on display they never didn't understand the impulse of pictures he was only the question then I had quote better things to do and him describes them sneaking away and what happened was they went to the wrong Hotel they went to the hotel where they're supposed to go they end up in the wrong Hotel they're backed but the one hotel they went to a different Hotel they ended up paying for more than one hotel I mean the whole thing was a couple of nights once did ever got married obviously he went to the same hotel with the feet he never was but al-heim describes being with that last couple of days and throughout his writing he had these musings he's talking to himself and he's writing you know we know this Mendel when he was a little boy he uses the word mental and he was so pure and he was so holy and he was so intelligent but now he's faced the big world you know it's never had already been before in Russia that I had gone to college in Leningrad and then in Berlin and he writes is it the same mental is it the same Mendel and then he describes that ever getting ready for his name is it's the same mental that we knew with children in Goliath this is one of his musings another one of his musings that you have in this letter is I'm standing and I'm watching this young man get ready to the daughter of everything that is precious to us he keeps referring to the feet he can never call her your car alone or anything which is expresses to us and I'm starting watching this young man getting ready to go to the khope with the daughter of all that is precious to us and I'm asking myself how much of my future and your future is bound up in this young man he's he's talking about you know but what would be and he's correct but he describes it very emotionally how much of the future your future my future our children your children is are bound up in this young man who's getting ready to go to his hope and of course that little that's the way it would play out he describes it was very they wouldn't rest for a minute he spent the entire day learning the day of his wedding now the wedding was supposed to start early the wedding was cold like three four o'clock supposedly was very very late the neighbor's wedding with prayer ended up being like seven o'clock the hook was much later than scheduled now you have to understand Poland vasher had hundreds of thousands of Jews hundreds of thousands if not millions and a good percentage of them called themselves so he had a lot of curious onlookers hundreds of thousands of people came to watch when he went the only way to make the wedding orderly was to have tickets to get into the wedding you needed a ticket and there were different tickets why because which was probably a small building the dinner and the the dancing took place in a hall so when you were invited to the wedding if you got invitations depending on who you were you got I think one two or three tickets if you got one ticket you invited to one part of the wedding let's say the dancing at the end of the wedding what we would call today if you got two tickets that means you were invited the dinner if you got three tickets three different tickets you invited to the civilization decided who he invited to his wedding who are out of Russia got personal invitations to feeding with tickets and Gordon who describes being at the wedding he got three tickets he was at the Cabela's pandem he was at the sudhasna and he was at the same and everybody got tickets based on when you know there was I'm sure there wasn't much it wasn't enough room for all the people certainly at the Cabela's upon him and police stood at the door and checked your tickets I'm sure there were many people who snuck in anyway but polish policemen would we were commissioned maybe they were paid to make sure that there was order the color was in one room the castle was another was an old man he made the terrible Aveda to go look at the color and he describes in his letter how she looked they made a garden an indoor garden with waterfalls he describes it very elegant very very articulately you could see that he he has a feel for it the the the colors room it was it was part of the Yeshiva it was made to look like a garden it was inside with a waterfall and trees it was beautiful he just huh Altoid was his name you can read this letter it's printed kadish and I'm sure it's been translated into English it's very interesting he describes how the depth in hayabuska looked I mean he was I guarantee you he wasn't a person who went to the women's section with the wrong makshavas he budget wanted to see the Frida Carrabba's daughter and he describes to his children in Russia how it looked and the Hassan was in another room and of course the feeling got up by the cabalosponim and he said a famous famous paragraph it's very very famous which we all know and we all at least a lot of us repeated by our own weddings it begins with the words yaduoma for some it's known and it's famous that by every single three generations of ancestors come to participate in the wedding that means the appearance and grandparents and I guess great grandparents and they never said this is by everybody and by some people it's more an even more so the mail I'm going to say yes in this moment there's going to be a peace for my father a piece from my grandfather a peace for my great grandfather the great great grandfather of the Hassan a piece from the middle of peace from the outer River and then he finished with the words and you say it in his name it should be as if you see him when the freedom could ever used to say that there was an understanding to see them physically when they never used to quote there was an understanding that he actually saw them in the room and then the Philippines which is the relatively short bible then after the mymed they went to the decking now the feeling they have his parents went out the wedding the rabbit's parents were not allowed to come to the wedding one of the reasons the Debbie's wedding kept getting delayed there was I told the girls in the other group there were three reasons why the wedding was delayed one of the reasons was because they were hoping that the deva's parents would be given permission to leave Russia for the wedding and their government said no they kept on tried they kept on trying eventually they gave up and they finally set a date for the wedding more than a year after that had left Russia so who was the interfer of the sad and this is interesting this is very interesting were present Medina's parents were at the wedding is father and mother his name is they lived in Legend they were at the wedding but they were not going to feeders who was the interference was married to a daughter of the rabba marash in other words he was defeated of his uncle and his wife was a physical aunt that Ebola Shop's younger sister their son mendelhardenstein would later marry defeated Kevin's youngest daughter Shane though with the other interferes okay and by the way from what I understand that everything with the Davidson went to her Hupa they went as a couple in other words he was taken by two men went back and took her in other words even though means two couples a man and a woman and by us it's the two men lead the Hassan and the two women lead the kala the three Rick have went back to lead and Mrs Mrs told her I can still feel the way my father was holding my hand that to walk down steps and she couldn't see what she was walking and the devil was holding her so she shouldn't fall said I could still feel how my father held me would say that 40 years after her wedding 50 years after wedding I can still feel how my father held me they took me to the hopper so this is interesting in other words in that wedding it sort of seems that the shashwini should be couples not like we do it a father and a mother should take it which is not how we do it but if this is what happened give me one minute and I'll talk into the color section and they did their bedek and after the badakin they went into a private room I'm going to get to this in a moment just go ahead [Music] some people do some people don't I I honestly do not know the answer the the I mean I'm assuming it's tradition you do what your parents did you know my father was taken to the by two men my father's mother was not at his wedding my father's mother had passed away um and my mother was taking so thank you my brother by by her mother and her should we get because that's how their parents did it it's very possible that someone decided at some point that we need a higher standard of sneeze but I've seen many of the Babbage weddings many about in the garage and garage are a substantial portion of the Babbage they all do couples they all do couples it's always a father and a mother leading videos you see that in that family they go to the group of couples not two men and two women I I really don't know if I'm going to keep on talking I'm not going to come up with a better answer go ahead obviously beautiful he describes as being pale her face was Angelic White I'm assuming I do with the makeup that she was wearing but that's how he describes her the picture that you see she's pale the picture in the hallways from her wedding in the hallway just hanging a picture of the rabbits and that's from the devil that's her wedding dress several different dresses but you didn't wear white that I didn't wear white the base I didn't wear white he described it being pale I I you I'd be so much more comfortable if you would ask a woman that question rather than a man but you could read the letter inside he describes her as pale very white very he describes her beautifully but this is this is the specific characteristic that you're asking me about that she was very uh she looked again I'm assuming it's from the makeup she was a white whitish but I don't know what that means um then they went into a private room the rabbit the feeder cabinet with a private room to get ready for the first a whole bunch of people went in and then ethicum told most of the people to leave you know what happens right you have to untie Oliver your entire shoes did not have any nuts even the Garfield is untied the the tie is on the no nuts I don't know why but does and um and then you have to dress it you put on a kettle on top of it foreign but he said um this world than the next World it was a very dramatic moment there were two witnesses his father-in-law was a witness and also the same was there the feet that is tying him to him now the reason this is significant and this is hard to prove but it's my belief it's because there's a whole long history about gatlach but the middle I was a child he didn't give it to his other Sons he didn't give it to his other grandsons was the child he didn't give it to his other children from his father and when he got that doctor he told his mother that evidence and if I'm thinking to give the free decade so she said to him the way your father gave you a Gotham said there was an idea that every neighbor gave the next none of the other children they never never got such a girl so I read between the lines although there's a lot of a lot of guessing a lot of making it up that the god almost it meant something much deeper and then they went to the The Hope was in the courtyard is describes it was a free-for-all it was outside he says I was older couldn't push I was quickly pushed out I couldn't see anything he was a very important member of the wedding was outside he says I found myself I couldn't see anything but I could hear the devil went to Philadelphia went to the group and again the other in Hollister and he was defeated kept his uncle through marriage they brought it over to the Future went back and took the rabbits in with the rabbits in Medina and again I'm assuming that the that the that the other sister's wife's aunt she was also there and they brought their rabbits into the cup so he writes writes that the whole time the feeding him was singing after them and it says who who read the exuber and who sangir but the feet basically did everything committed to see the condition and all the brothers did everything himself but I heard his voice and I swear that as the devil said the shepherdas I heard the voice of the rabbit you understand S I couldn't see but I could hear and I swear that when the rabbit said I heard the voice of do you understand what I just said he said he heard the voice he heard the voice of his father which reminds me of another important detail about the khasane which people don't pay attention to do you know and I'm going to say you don't know this is for the rest of his life he wore a schlapping a hat like this you know with the brim up you know maybe it didn't have pinches the rabbit did not wish I move after he left Lubavitch the three they could ever became Madame he didn't put on his triangle you never knew this the freedom ever became a devil with a hat never when did the field again put on her style for the first time as a rabbit by hour now since he was doing it in Poland and all the pilot should happens we're going to be there it wouldn't have looked right if it didn't go with I'm sure this is the fact was the first time was wedding and later on he told that I have an interesting thing that a few weeks after akasana defeated had a dream and he saw his father and the rabba rashab told them quote a dying Farah thank you for the hat thank you for putting on and defeated I decided I wanted to wear my father's house but I couldn't so I put on my sadness defeated camera couldn't put on his father's hat it was too hard for him foreign now the devil wear a hat down you know like this and he walked around with white silk gloves I think even by his husband had gloves he was shaking those hands with gloves he looked like a French gentleman not like I said that she ate them but when he opened his mouth and Taylor started coming out he blew people away the rabbit's presence was extraordinary and McLeod didn't have his eyes I mean I'm sure you've heard about the neighbor's eyes the devil's eyes were something else never looked at you and he would burn through you like a fire I know the experience that had happened to me many times you couldn't believe a human being said how shut eyes I I I have eyes my father has eyes my wife has eyes my children have eyes I look into their eyes nothing happens the rabbit's eyes were a physical Force they were physical like like electricity Zoop and they had those eyes when he got married too he didn't get those eyes when they got older he had those eyes the eyes talk about eyes being a window to the soul in the case of the rabbit was a very very plain and obvious thing now wait listen to me took place in the Yeshiva series then the family members went I think to the hotel to rest and there was a break of several hours everything was delayed anyway it was supposed to start at like 4 30 something like 6 30 70 everything was very delayed I don't know the reason but there's reasons and then they went to the dinner the dinner took place in a hall a big Hall they could accommodate many people and of course arrived and the crossing arrived and there was a wedding they served a meal uh during the meal there was By Invitation Only from times if you learned it at the back table belong to the bahren and during the dinner what I'm trying to explain to you there was a dinner and then they bench and then they had all night of dancing it's two separate ceremonies during the dinner with the invitation normally the Freedia took a towel put it on his left hand like a waiter and he held a tray in the tray he had a bunch of shot glasses and he held a battle of mashka and he would fill up the glasses and he went from table to table imagine that everyone is sitting and the dad was walking around like a waiter saying with all of the guests and it was so heartfelt and it was so intimate and it was so full of joy Yeager and Gordon was at that wedding and he says to you saw God who describes it in the videos the devil was so happy the feeder cat was so joyous it was like wow the Elation was like walking on water you saw the feeling of you never saw a man happier than this he was he was so happy at that episode it's Indescribable and the result of this happiness was an overflowing of broadcast he just showered people with Brothers he went from table to table people sat and the devil walked around the free of the kept walked around I guess he had to have an assistant because when they took the glasses off the tray someone to put new glasses on the tree and I'm assuming they didn't use plastic they probably used real glass he would reload the tray and then I would fill up all the glasses and he would give everybody what they needed from table to table and our rivers and I would ever said I was sitting at the head table and suddenly back this is before the dancing this is at the dinner the feeder Gabba gets up and he starts to go around to give mashkas I thought to myself the dev is going to stand how can I sit so I got up to go and help maybe I'll hold the bottle maybe you know around with his eyes saying you're the hustle tonight you're the king sites so I remained sitting on my seat but I was very uncomfortable and the feeling I went from all the tables every single table said look I'm to every guest until the devil came and sat back the last group of people that I went over to was the bahren the baham at the back of the hall and then said to the bahram I'm not going to give to you directly I'm going to give to you are going to give it I think you realize that wedding is is is over 90 years ago right it's it's 92 years ago to be exact it's a long long long time ago foreign to a man defeated camper had three daughters I don't think he said it by all three hassanas I understand as big I have given my daughter to an ish the devil's father heard about this and he wrote that up and said I want you to tell me every single nice thing to feed him ever said about you I'm your father and I have a right to know I don't know after that but defeated but during that week made comments showing the pride that he felt that he took the never found him at that point it was for a son-in-law now at one point they benched they benched and after benching there were new guests who got the third tickets till the morning during that night a lot of the playlist came Jacob and Gordon remembered he described it a dads of Rebus now today a dance of the devis just means who don't forget to brush their beard on that particular day but in Poland 90 years ago there were big foreign but you could see Holiness you could see that this was different this is holy people dance in a holy way and the whole ring of Rebus they dance together they participated in the they came to the Hassan um and they danced the whole night another second which is printed of course and that's the story of the wedding itself the next day there was a meaning in Poland it's a good thing to do you should know certainly means a feast to invite poor people to a wedding today somebody told me Yin snack they told me you have to hang up a wedding invitation in 770. I said why because you need to have people by your wedding who are not invited you have to hang up a wedding invitation you have to have poor boy wedding you can't make a house and not have schnother sitting eating your chicken it's true it's it's a good it's a correct he's right he's really right I know but the wedding invitations bring them he was saying that it's negea it's to have people like that at the wedding and um but in Poland they made a special meal the next day was a dinner for and I think the feeling of being participated and hundreds and hundreds of people who are poor came and it was one of the things you did when you made a wedding you made a Citizens it's very very embarrassing for them I know it's even more embarrassing being hungry being hungry this was the tradition no you're coming from Thanksgiving you're in America the president goes and he gives he goes to a homeless shelter and he gives people food it's embarrassing for them too right but what's more embarrassed that you go hungry unfortunately there's poverty in the world and there's a mini consultation for yourself you shouldn't forget my four the gay and the Yosemite almana and the lady you have the band and the past you have your four and I have my four maybe she says you look after my four and I'll look after your four the orphan and the Widow and the convert and the Ani the poor person so those days was part of the tradition now there's more to the story which I'm going to tell tomorrow at one o'clock if you want send me an email after tomorrow at three o'clock and I'll try to send it to you good day thank you all for coming and listening yes