The Shiur At S.S.S.S. Parshas Tzav-Erev Shabbos Hagadol

all right this week we're going to go a little bit off the beaten path of what we do the par of the week uh we're we're now a couple of days before PES before the so we're going to discuss a little bit something about P but first I I have to give a compliment to yose over here of the Southside sandwich shop I want to tell him that this week um on the lakew scoop.com we had a video of I don't know if you saw it the video of singing at my sister's wedding and the bottom line is I realized after that that obviously I've been singing a lot more years than I've been saying a year but the bottom line is I became the the person who says the shear at the SSS you don't become famous until you do something do something in learning do something that's actually important you do something that I'm going get in a lot of trouble of course singing is important also but uh anyways as far as PES the the Jewish calendar in general is full of many different different times that are for many different things that gives us an opportunity in many different times of the year to grow every time of the year has its own unique we have ability to help a y grow that's how the Jewish calendar is based different things around the whole year and of course unfortunately we know that if there are so many opportunities and every time of the year gives us the time to grow unfortunately we know also that what happens is is that these are all times that could be missed also and more times more often than not unfortunately but before you know it you know we're starting PES in a couple of days and then it's after PES and we always look back and we say had I just known and thought about it beforehand I would have tried to inculcate so much of the lessons that the Y can give us and the same thing with SH and rash and everything and so unfortunately we missed so that's what we're doing here tonight to warn you that in a couple of days PES is coming and there are so many things that we could get out of the PES we're going to discuss one or two of them tonight but here from the Southside sandwich shop we are going to be ready for PES all our wives are home they're cleaning and uh they'll be ready for PES of course in their way and we'll all be helping out as soon as we get home but we're going to be ready in in in another way take a look the brings down by PES aik that's very interesting it says like this the night of the s in it's one night here we have two nights but shim is is like Kipper if you think about it if if you think about it it's very interesting to note many times people that are very very far from yish kite if you ask them and I can tell you from business also there are two times of the year that even people who are very very far from yish or haven't gotten here yet there's two things that they'll observe they'll be and S night they'll have Mrs ad fish or whatever it is or divor but they will celebrate they'll have the mor they'll have the matah these two things it's it's an interesting thing to know that when you say two things that that that are ingrained in a the Kipper and PES and even though were not and then people but the heart of even knows how important and what what is something that's common that is that we have in common on Yumer and PES on both nights on Yumer the entire day but on the night of PES we were K we wear white and what does white show us White shows us something that white so so to speak symbolizes a new start a a clean slate and that's something the many bring down that P Ander both give us this opportunity to have a a clean slate but there's one very important difference the new slate that we get on yipper comes we have to work you have to do cha you have to be M you have to you have to do all these things and then tells you that going to do have a new slate but P has something which we it's it's a for us P has something in a way which is even more than that you don't have to do so much P night you have to just be conscious of what the S there is and and and remember about and and and all those kind of and all the things that happen on P and from gives you a new chance gives you a new slate and that that's that's just from so therefore both on and we were to symbolize that but there's a special special you have which could be even more than I actually heard a beautiful chot this week from someone that go to a every morning every night he said a beautiful this week the comparison between the and he says many people people are not to eat Walnuts R what's another thing we do on R we go to a body of water and we take we symbolically we take our a we throw it into the water and we throw it out so that's what we do on rashash right we we don't eat n he says on P to do the opposite I have to be allergic to nuts so I can't do it but on on P night we take walnuts and it's brought down to put walnuts in the we also do we take the water we draw the water out and bring it back to us on PES and with that we make our mat why because on PES we have even a bigger with the walnuts with the water that we're drawing back out of the ground with still is going to give us this if we conscious of it and we think about it that is going to give us this help and and and and give us the start off with with with a clean slate the uh the just to end off with something that I heard a couple nights ago somebody said over says we got to I just I just I left that one small thing I just want to say that what we're telling is also the the reason part of the reason why p is different is because gave us a g even though we were in the me sha going down into the 50th sha so that's that's on P we have many many deficiencies and we have a lot of things that we have to work on we're not going to have time to work on it tonight so do just as you did in MIT that you took them out of MIT while they were in the 49 sh so don't wait for us to get to where we're going to do we have even a bigger you did it once on where you gave them a do the same for us today to now also Elevate us give us a just like we had a even with our deficiencies that's another we got it we we have we tell our children what do we say so we say every person has to see himself as if he went that's we from the for me so we say that you have to you have to be picture yourself as if you're going out of so why is that something that we tell our children and that's not going to thing that we have to tell our children that that that that lead that we have to look at it as if it's as if it's us so said I heard somebody speaking two nights ago at and he said that it's it's brought down from says that a parent has to know someone who's leading a Seder someone that has a family someone that wants to have family he has to know that before you tell other people and you want to das to other people what to do you first have to know first you have to see yourself in other words you can't teach your children if you don't see yourself also in that position a person has to First work on yourself take a look at yourself accept yourself and then you could first give it over to your children that's why the most important thing is first you have to take the lessons of p and teach it and teach it to yourself and that's what we're doing here tonight we're getting ready you in a couple days we're all going to impart our children story of the and we're going to ask that this should be a g even if we're not finished doing chba we're not finished we're not finished everything but we're going to ask you once did it a few thousand years ago you did it for our forefathers in MIT you're going to do it you should please do it for us also now even and we're dressed in white and give us that new slate let us start a new use the and that this start that should be the and the next year of course will only have one day PES we bring the curent PES will all be in right