The Shela HaKadosh Uncovers the Underpinnings of Parshas Chayei Sarah - Journey to South Africa

okay good afternoon thank you for giving me the opportunity to share with you a few uhra so actually prepared something on basal but maybe next time when you're actually learning basal we'll do that I'll share with you har on the par the gra we know that when elzar Tells over to B and toan his whole conversation with Abraham that AB told him to bring a wife for so elzar says as follows I told my master well maybe she's not going to want to come with me so Rashi says even though it saysi elzar had a daughter and he was trying to find an excuse that abam should say you know what instead of going to my family just give your daughter to yak so AB says no no you can't do that not a good idea I'm you're and asks a very strong question I've later found it in the I believe in the and that is the remes is in the wrong place because there two records of the conversation between Abu and elazar you have in real time what we call when Abu actually tells elazar and then elzar repeats it to rash says so the question is the first time the first time that it's recorded it says there Rashi doesn't comment on anything that uh Rashi doesn't comment a because taka it's not a it's and there we don't so to speak detect the ulterior motive that Eleazar had so why is this REM why does it appear daa on round two actually there are a number of very interesting discrepancies between the first record and the second record between take one and take two so for example the P says so Rashi says why does the Torah tell us the measurements and the of the says and yet on take two when elzar repeats it over to he doesn't say I gave her jewelry all these do not appear so so why does it only appear in round one why doesn't it appear in round two and the biggest discrepancy is when elzar Tells over the story he asked and then he put it on her hand he first asked uh lady who are you and then he said oh you're B okay here's the jewelry but in real time when it actually happened he first gave it to her and he says by the way all the millions of dollars I just gave you who in the world are you so we have that discy by the way you know the ran um Rashi says that Rashi says that he lied he first gave it to her and then he asked but then when he said it over he lied and because he was trying to cover up because he looks ridiculous having giving the jewelry and then asking after the fact the ramban says no Raman says he always first asked and then he gave it to her when it says means in real time in other words he first gave it and then before having given it he then he asked in other words according to ran he never did he never gave it to her before he asked but according to Rashi he gave it to her before he asked and by the way there's a very interesting are you allowed a lie to cover up looking ridiculous we know that there are three things you're allowed to lie for says could lie for three things so the once are you allowed to lie to avoid looking silly so the says from Rashi it would seem that you are allowed to lie to avoid looking silly the ran according to the way the ran learns you can't lie to avoid looking silly and basically so you can't lie to avoid looking ridiculous but again this is another discrepancy between round one and round two so you have the shim are mentioned round one and not round two you have the ulterior motive mentioned in round two not in round one you have another interesting thing elzar says you know maybe my daughter is appropriate for and says no not your daughter you're and I'm this is not a good you know maybe they should have on the reses you know just one thing or and then you know is it a good is it not a good but it's interesting because when dispatches the says the say he looked like a him so the question is he seems like a pretty good guy this is the guy that says you're theor so there's an amazing approach of the kades is not really coming to answer all of these questions but according to his approach many of these questions are answered what's interesting is has a very similar approach in and the approach is like this remember last week by the the says two times abam but the says in what's the of Abraham Abraham NE says that contrary to popular opinion if I were to ask you right now where is yourish some people they would point to different their eyes their brain their their heart none of that is true only the lowest point of the nsh is actually in the gof but it trickles down down down the is primarily and it trickles down down down down to all the and the body to the is like a shoe to a body the same way nobody lives in a shoe only the lowest part of the body is housed in the shoe so to only the lowest part of the Nish is housed in the body right now yourish is primarily in upstairs right now that's what we say in our are deposited by you it doesn't mean at night time when you go to sleep it means right now the only thing is there is a he between what's the he the Goof the fact that the lowest part of your is housed in your goof that creates a between your down here and the upstairs that's why by Abraham it says Abraham Abraham however by it says without any because was is like him his goof was not between and has a general rule that whatever happens downstairs in this world really first happens in the spiritual and then down here it just materializes in a concretized form therefore whenu is sending elazar and there's another question we have to ask the brisar asks that Abu says to don't don't worry I'm going to send the Mal in front of you really could anybody please find any mention of any Mal in the whole there's no Mal in you see the word Mal you see any Mal in the whole there's no Mal that's bris there's and Sh shal is sh is the guy elz elzar down here is an eror is says the first report of the story is the episode as it happens upstairs in and the episode the second record of the episode is the way it played out in this world in the flesh and the blood by the way it's very interesting he says did you ever notice that Rashi always brings to p for example Rashi brings theat and the med theat and the med the and the med say there probably a half a dozen times and the says yeah sent physical malim to the physical as of down here in this world and he also sent spiritual angels to the who upstairs and the uses to explain many different rashis about a half a dozen rashis in but coming back to basically this is not a repetition of the same information round one is the way it played out upstairs round two is the way it played out downstairs the says that the rim thatu is saying is not relevant to downstairs it's only relevant in the upper worlds so in the first report we have the exact weight of the jewelry it was it was but when it's repeated which is the record of the way it played out in the flesh and the blood down here in this world none of this information is necessary it's all it's all not relevant to LA elzar upstairs he's a great guy he's down here is so I was just thinking that according to this we have a very clear answer to the gra question on Rashi where he wants to know why is this ulterior motive detected specifically in the second time that elzar says by the way himself says a gotic answer says it's it's clear it's a there's a psychological reason why we only detect it the the second time and not the first time you see the first time elazar is talking to Abram so it's a very logical question Abram says you know would you mind going across the world to find the sh for my son so elazar says yeah I don't mind I just wanted to know maybe she's not going want to come with me it's a legitimate concern but when he's talking to elzar and B why in the world would he say you know I told my uh boss that this is a ridiculous idea for me to go uh bring her because she might not want to come with me what in the world's he doing he's staring the whole he's sent to get a and he's telling and you know I told my boss that it's who in the world would want to come with with an evid across the world so the fact that he brought up the subject all together in that we could detect he must have had an ulterior B that's what says but according to the it would come out there's another very clear answer to this question in round one when we're dealing with the upper job of the Mal of the Mal mat which by the way answers the bris where's the Mal the Mal is the entire round one of the story so there the Mal has no alter career motive he's Faithfully fulfilling the bidding of Abino but in round two where we're dealing with elzar down here in this world so in the physical job that elzar had in this world kazal detect that he had an ulterior motive he wasn't really wholeheartedly Desiring that the sh should work out he had an ulterior motive he wanted to marry off to his own daughter so this is just uh it's kada to be aware that the the learns the whole par differently than rashi rashi learns that there's a repetition and from here we see and the learns actually round one was what was taking place upstairs round two is what was taking place downstairs the uses the same to explain many many rash and and it's a common theme in general thatan would say you know this is a big issue in America when dealing with you know uh issues pressing issues of the day you know how should you how should the community conduct themsel should you protest should you march and raban would always say that when there's anti-Semitism in the country that's not the source of any issue it's not like you wake up one day oh and there's anti-Semitism okay let's address anti-Semitism whatever we see that that takes place in this world is just a reflection of what took place in shamay so it's more effective to deal with the root of the issue namely with the currency that has an effect in shamayim than dealing with the uh side effects that we see down here in this world I'm not saying that's always the right approach but that's how ran uh would look at it and uh this is this is an approach that we see in thank you for your kind attention mention and I wish you in all of your thank you very much thank you