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You know, when I put my kids to bed at
night, um, I tell them stories and I try
to be very intentional and I often ask
myself, if I were to leave the world
tonight, God forbid, but if I were, what
Torah truths would I most want etched
into their beautiful little souls, what
truth would I want to bequeath to them?
What ideas have helped me stay positive
and loving and resilient, at least
during the the moments when I managed to
be those things? I'm not always that,
but I I have been blessed to be able to
be that during adverse times. And uh for
those of you who know me well, you
already know what I'm going to say.
Three words. Three words from
Deuteronomy 4:39.
Let's look look together at the whole
verse from which these three pivotal
words are taken. Know therefore this day
and keep in mind that Hashem alone is
God in heaven above and in the earth
below. There is no other.
know this day and keep in mind there is
no other. There is there is nothing
else. And so I try to live with these
words constantly. I have them engraved
on Jerusalem stone in my living room. I
actually have one right here.
Amil vado in Gamu Tova. Right. There is
no other. There's nothing else in in my
living room. It's a bumper sticker. The
only bumper sticker on my car. And I
know that's kitschy. Like what a bumper
sticker. The re the real is it's not
about the sticker or the stone. The real
goal is having it infused into my
essence to carve this truth into my
inner world. And so many Jews here in
Judea and the land. It's just on cars,
it's on walls, it's on buildings. It's
like we're all seeking to remember and
hold this truth dear, right? Because for
me and many others, a Odmil Vado is the
key that allows me to peer through the
powerful illusion of duality and
multiplicity of this world. And remember
that beneath everything, every event,
every force, every experience, it's all
him. All of it. And that leads naturally
to the second, I guess, mantra based off
the words of Rabbi Aka that has carried
me through life. Gamu letova. This too
is for the good. Right? But you don't
need to actually you don't need to turn
to Rabbi Akiva or even Nakum is Gamu for
this truth because Yseph teaches it
first in this week's Torah portion.
Right? That's one of the reasons that
this para is so precious to me. Right?
Yseph doesn't just believe this idea. He
lives it. And he articulates for the
first time in the Torah that I know of
and I'm open to being corrected on this
but it's the first time in the Torah
that I know of. He articulates what the
journey of a human life truly is in
connection with this truth. Right? When
Yseph finally reveals himself to his
brothers, they're paralyzed, right? They
accept they expect uh vengeance or death
or retribution, right? And instead, he
comforts them. It's it's like so novel.
Let's look inside Genesis 45:4.
Then Joseph said to his brothers, "Come
close to me if you please." And they
came close. And he said, "I am Joseph,
your brother that you sold into Egypt."
All right. Now, slow down. This is one
of those verses where without the
Hebrew, most of the beauty is completely
inaccessible. Sra Beerman points out
something stunning. I think I'm positive
I shared this in the past, but it's just
so beautiful and so pertinent to our to
our the world right now that we need it,
right? The word aare in that verse
doesn't only mean that. It can just as
legitimately mean because meaningfold
me into Egypt. You guys remember this
idea? Did you catch that? Let's put on
our 3D glasses for a moment because the
Torah, right, is it's written with
infinite wisdom and divine intelligence.
Much wiser than Chad GBT and perplexity
put together, right? The Torah is
written with this infinite divine
intelligence and it it can you can hold
multiple truths on different dimensions
simultaneously. So on the surface, Yseph
is saying, "I'm Yseph, the vice roy of
Egypt, because you sold me into slavery.
Right? That's what he's saying. He's
telling them the Yseph you see standing
before you, the one with the emotional
depth, the spiritual clarity, and the
strength to forgive so fully, right? And
so quickly, the one who can see Hashem
orchestrating everything. This Ysef only
exists because of what you did. without
the sail and without the pit and without
the prison, without the years of
suffering, I would not have become
this Yseph. Right? In a shocking way,
Yseph is crediting his brothers. He's
not excusing them or justifying them,
but he's recognizing that Hashem used
their actions to save him and to shape
him and to save them. Right? He's
conveying here that the suffering didn't
just create the circumstances that would
save Israel from the famine. The
suffering created him. The suffering
refined him and expanded his soul and
gave him the capacity to fulfill his
mission. This is not this is not Gamula
to in theory. This is a man standing
inside the full truth of his life and
declaring that even the pain was
purposeful.
And now here comes the right here comes
the new thought that I think is going to
change my life. It's just too new and
fresh for me to know for sure. But I'm
pretty sure right I even ran this by
Shaina. I ran it by Jeremy and Tahila. I
even asked our guest for Shabbat,
Professor Eugene Kurovich and his
family. I genuinely I genuinely thought
that this must be obvious and that I was
just I was just late to the party. It
just sort of skipped me. But they all
said the same thing. They're like, "No,
we never thought of it that way." And
and this matters because it reframes
perhaps the most important verse in the
entire Torah.
The verse we say when we wake up, the
verse we say before we sleep, the verse
whispered into the ear of a newborn, at
least my newborns and most God-fearing
Jews do this, right? And the verse we
aspire to be the last words leaving our
lips before we depart this world, right?
What verse am I talking? Jewish
tradition teaches that when Yakov and
Yseph finally reunited, father and son,
they embraced and wept. And in that
moment, when they were weeping on each
other's soul shoulders, Yakov recited
the Shama, right? Shama, Shama, Israel,
Adonoi, Elohu, Adonai. Here, O Israel,
Hashem, meaning Y Vave, the tetragamaton
is our God. Elo Hashem Y vave is one.
Right? This tradition is so deeply
embedded that we've seen it replayed
again and again during this war.
Soldiers returning home, hostages
reunited with their family. It's the
same experience as Jacob and Joseph.
who's able to just cry in five seconds.
You know, a hostage being reunited with
his father and that's the first words he
says. We saw it again and again. So, you
know, Rdererman brings a teaching from
Rav Schlommo of Bab. Yakov was not
merely performing the mitzvah of
Creatma,
right? He wasn't just fulfilling the
commandment that this was the time he
was supposed to say the shama. He was
teaching a lifedefining truth. Right?
For 22 years, Yakov mourned Yseph. He
believed tragedy had struck. But now
seeing [snorts] Ysef not only alive but
powerful and vibrant and sustaining the
entire family. Well, suddenly Yakopen
himself understands that he was wrong to
see those years as pure loss and to
suffer perhaps to suffer as extremely as
he did. Right? Everything everything had
been for the good. And Yseph himself
says, "Hashem sent me ahead of you to
ensure your survival." And so that
moment of ultimate clarity clarity Jacob
declares declares.
But Jacob is not merely reciting words.
He's proclaiming a truth. Israel, this
is what he's saying. Here's what he's
saying. Shm is children of Israel,
listen carefully. Pay attention to what
I'm about to teach you. Hashem, the
ineffable four-letter name, the name
that represents Hashem's highest
manifestation of pure mercy and infinite
compassion as the loving father behind
all of reality. Elou, right? The name
associated with judgment and concealment
and strictness. The name associated with
moments when Hashem appears distant or
harsh or painful, right? in Yakov's
message is this Hashemad
they are one and the same
right even when Hashem appears to be
acting with Dean through suffering and
confusion or heartbreak it is still the
very same compassionate Hashem there is
no other force at work no contradiction
no randomness I hope I explained that
well if not reach out to me and I'll
explain it to you again right the the
tears of the past 22 years were not
wasted Yakov realized they were rooted
in a limited perspective. And now Yakov
sees that deeper truth. What looks like
darkness is often mercy in disguise. And
what feels like loss may be the very
path to salvation. And ultimately the
Hashem of judgment is never separate
from the Hashem in love. They're they're
one and the same. That is the shama.
Yakov teaches his children in all of
Israel for all generations. Do you know
how many times I've recited that verse?
Never have I thought of it like that.
Never have I seen it as a unifying
expression of both and that that the
shama itself is not only a declaration
of faith but a declaration of
interpretation
that it's not merely saying who God is
but how to read our lives. Because if a
odmil vado is true, if there's no other
force, no other source, no competing
power, then gamulatva is not a coping
mechanism. It is it's not optimism or
spiritual gymnastics. It's simply the
truth, the logical conclusion. If there
is only one, then even this is him. And
if it's him, then it must be for the
good. And suddenly the shama becomes the
great unifier.
Not just between heaven and earth, not
just past, present, and future, but love
and judgment, mercy and pain, blessing
and breakdown, right? Hashem and elocu
are not two modes fighting with one
another. God forbid. No.
There's one story, one author, and one
loving hand. Even e even when it feels
clenched,
it's still a hand of absolute
uncompromising
compassion and love.
And so that, my friends, is that's the
breakthrough that changed everything for
me. Yakov was not saying the schma
despite the suffering of the past 22
years. He was saying it because of the
suffering. Only now, after the tears,
after the confusion, after the years of
unanswered questions, could he finally
say the shama in its fullest truth.
Because only now could he see that the
pain was not a detour from the story. It
was the story. Only now could he see
that Yseph didn't merely survive the
suffering, he was forged by it.
And only now could YaKob understand that
his own grief, his own broken heart, his
own long nights of anguish were not
mistakes. They were the womb from which
redemption was born. And that is why the
shama is whispered to a child as they
enter the world and whispered again as
we prepared to leave it. Because the
deepest truth a human being can live
with and die with is this.
There's nothing outside of him.
And everything he gives us, meaning
everything that happens to us is
ultimately for us as an expression of
his fierce, unwavering, burning love,
shaping us and refining us and drawing
us closer to who we are meant to become.
And yes, ultimately for our joy, for our
happiness, not shallow happiness, but
the deep unshakable peace of knowing
that the hardest chapters of our lives
are not betrayals, but they are
preparation for something great. And so
I want to end my little message to you
with a blessing for us, for our whole
fellowship.
May we be given the eyes of Yseph to
recognize Hashem's hand even while the
story is still unfolding. May we be
given the heart of Yakov to look back on
tears and see God's loving hand. And may
we be given the faith to say Shama
Israel not only in moments of comfort
but in moments of confusion knowing that
Hashemad
that Hashem is one even now. May the
pain of these days be revealed as
preparation. May the fractures become
openings for light. And may we merit to
see our personal journeys and the
journeys of Israel and the world resolve
into clarity and healing and complete
redemption speedily in our days. Amen.
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