The Rabbi Dovid Trenk ztz"l Tribute Dinner

good evening welcome to the Shiva dinner Viva of Carteret my name is kaskell Bennet and I have the great's course an honor to be I would say they called the master of ceremonies or the co or the host I am so privileged to be here anytime I've had an opportunity to get closer to the extended Trank mishpocha and i've always seized that opportunity and tonight it is a real source a real privilege to be here together with you for an incredible opportunity to celebrate the life and legacy of my Rebbe the one and only arrived of a shrink you say katatak the cutters LaRocco tonight we're doing something unique usually you get invited to a yeshiva dinner if you're close with the honorees or you have a cyclist with the Shiva you show up you get a good smorgasbord ambiance cover shaft Shalom Aleichem brought us from from an awesome car Shubham sometimes if you're lucky Cadell you swell graced the the moment and tonight the yeshiva because of the circumstances obviously obviously has to deal with the corona virus that baka sham Claudius Rahl is forging its way through Lida with so many car bonus so we have to be resourceful and so normally a dinner that would attract hundreds and sometimes more people you did them calvarium alumni parents students parents of the students grandparents of the students alumni as I said and other friends and mishpokhe loved the yeshiva here tonight by say you stuck with me and back atcha I consider it a big horse I have to drive a you stay away I went Delphia shiva's I spent many many years five years to be exact here in central southern central jersey but welcome I don't get out to Lake with that often and so anytime I have a chance to come out to Lakewood to visit what used to be a small town and now a big town so it's so big slows Foss but I do have to say that over the last number of years I had a few times that I did come out to Lakewood always would be accompanied by one special spot without fail if I would come to Lakewood for whatever reason though Bar Mitzvah or a simcha customer whatever it might be Central Avenue was one of my spots and spark show my still go was still visit the Rebbetzin but driving here tonight one year later since the Patera of my holy rebbe reb david trinkets article college of rock oh it's a very emotional time row by site it's a very emotional time for me and for my image become a be was everything to us so here or tonight we have an opportunity yard site is this coming up tomorrow night Thursday night Friday is the yard site and just to share with you the last two hours that I've had on my way here tonight to Lakewood in the studio to help to coordinate this beautiful opportunity of bringing the yeshiva to the next level my first stop tonight was actually to the caver of my holy Rebbe arrived of Isaiah cathodic little cottage LaRocco I dive into the Raby it's an experience every time I go a few times that I've gone tonight it's a dinner that is honoring the legacy of robbed of a drink so what is the legacy of observe a drink how could I in capsulize who have David was what he meant to the United States clinics what he meant to Tommy diem for over a half a century the landscape of Kenneth really groundbreaking legendary visionary mahana a mechanic for the ages as they say so we're holding in my hand I have the great scores one of the few people in America who have it because it's coming out actually to the stores tomorrow is the copy of this fantastic beautiful offering by arts comas aura which is marking the life and legacy as they say the life and legacy of Ramdev a drink and the title which I was involved with and choosing the title how did we get to this good a lot oh it's Besser and a few of the Kaveri me indeed them close how did we get to the title of just loved them so in the hoc number to the book that the author writes just want to share with you the new kuda that i think is really the - irish of what we're talking about over here it brings down a very very interesting story which i did not know but it makes perfect sense and it leads us to tonight's beautiful opportunity to share entire and avoid arguments Kassadin to support Tyra to support us kapha to support my rabi's legacy so the author of the book that we saw Besser writes at a young Lakewood Thomas Holcomb had accepted a position as a high school Rebbe and at this point he robbed of it already wasn't well and he knew robbed of it wasn't well but he was desperate for advice here he's gonna take on a new job of being high school Rebbe he came to rabi's house and spoke about the challenges of the student body and he wanted to know what would be the best approach what would be the best Derick to take with them Abdullah wasn't feeling well he didn't really have it didn't appear as a beast all rights over here that he was following the questions must have been laid on in the illness finally Rab David raised his head and looked at the young Makana love them he said just love them and in five words he shared the pinna approach that had worked for him for a half a century just love them so as tonight we go down an opportunity for memory lane to be able to share to share the beautiful building of a yeshiva that's striking I'm a sifter that's doing well I'm a sifter that is really on the march in Claudius ro Baruchel little is all that really has to emerge out of what we have had the struggles the last few months so I'll give you a chance to connect and get some get comfortable I'm going to tell you a little bit about the program for tonight there'll be a presentation about the Shiva Godiva of Carteret just giving you the timeline well of course be honoring the parents of the Year award we'll be presenting an alumnus award to one of the Tommie them and then they're gonna continue to a beautiful opportunity for you all at home to be missed on t'v in the CMS shots given by the receiver of this beautiful my said of his real brownish leta son-in-law robbed of it accompanied by Kaddish following the CMI shots by the oldest son of the Rebbe develop strength receive abuse even register schewe followed by music and dancing and then we'll continue with a beautiful legacy program will be honored to hear words from the Russia Shiva Shiva da hey Tyra the one and only Rebecca Ben's ashleeta will be introduced by a cover of mine from Atlanta no stranger to the camp Hmong crowd who certainly is tuning in of David Silverman Selita it was a very wonderful person someone who I'm honored and so privileged to be calling a friend so sit back enjoy a beautiful program and I now send you over to the studio to watch a beautiful video about our yeshiva the clinical giving over in Carter earth is we're making Vinay Tyrone the student body wants to be involved in one thing only Tyrel Nevada or well-rounded outlook on life to produce serious brunette aura that are shy have to become tolling Israel [Music] our yeshiva is headed by to Russia's Shiva who are guiding lights to tell me them infused them with a dish mac and with a brand and with a desire to finish the master finished shafts Qasr it living who she was themselves are tremendous comedic are common which are a living example of what it means goddess Battaglia they're extremely normal people down-to-earth people where you could talk to him and feel they understand you the Shiva is privileged to have extremely dedicated Ravana will give of themselves not only during the time that they're in yeshiva but also in all hours of the day and night the yeshiva covers all the aspects of what a bar needs in order to give him the tools to be successful in half way this Hashem and life and tire and mitzvahs we tried to help them accomplish their own strong bases in tomorrow whatever be in learning and everything we they'll be able to grow from there on their own and continue taking it throughout them and they're like the reveille more deform and it's always a small group it's more personal get a real catcher at the Rebbe very easy with the buckram help them and explain the tomorrow a step by step and they care about the bathroom we pride ourselves in the fact that I tell me them are very parents and that's what we're here to help guide them and encourage them lead them to it you see as the bottom you get older and they become budding Tommy there's a common they know all over ideas and shafts and ice cream and it's really very beautiful in the yeshiva were very very much a that we have a very strong English program as well when about her graduation receptive Carteret they should have a command of the English language and a high school graduate level they shouldn't have a solid understanding of biology chemistry physics they should have solid skill set and now we're here to believe - mmm he says he'll meet him how to learn teach them Tara make them tell me this humming eurasia my Impala me those TVs the coof of the virus obviously it brought many challenges for an old France for the bokram for the rebellion like every other ueshiba we were trying to figure out what in the world is gonna happen I missed you Shiva it was hard not being in Shiva not having been able to learn together in person we were missing the learning and missing the connection the kesha between rebellion townland we prepared our staff to be ready to be teaching from home the next day walking running ready with the phone systems the amount of bottom that called in with Silas to discuss and talk and learning to the wee hours of the morning late at night and the way that they were looking in the sunny they were living it up it was something they kept with them all day long it was constantly on their minds didn't get through their calling again calling again totally get through were able to discuss them and work out their veins effort during the coded to Kufa was unimaginable someone didn't get the circuit straight and you'd have called me call me right after sheer call me tonight anytime you can call every buffer Kent's the warmth and the caring and biggest remark that the Rebbe am infused in their urine over the phone it was so beautiful to see the way that the real true colors shines and there's so many welcome that I would have to say that they gained more from this than in a regular situation because they had to exert more crisis than is usually necessary the buckram have really really really gone beyond their learning well our being responsible it's almost as if you Shiva was still in session now the future of is back it's wonderful to hear the call Tara reverberating it within the walls of the yeshiva here in Carteret it's amazing feedback and she wrote the seeing everyone's facing your Bay and being in base Niger stalls farm the atmosphere around you is good for learning well should another back in yeshiva and it's very good to see if I'm back together but Hashem selfie very enjoyable here we see how much we missed each other and how much there is what to gain from being in yeshiva it's nice to see there a beam and see my friends to talk with them face to face now we have to come to appreciate a much more what I has to offer us make sure we don't lose anything that which lessons that we picked up throughout the buyers room Warren's here and we should keep that with us keep on going I profit tell me them and their families at large our newfound tell me them they should continue in their picosure MS in their avoided session they should be much Lea together the macabre plan yesterday came over me remain [Music] she've of Carteret stands for loving torah and being a good example and being a walking kiddush am [Music] when I think about rabbi Schulman we think of our looked at the home mr. Bokka is such a beautiful family all-around well-rounded a walking talking kiddush Hashem bye-bye Shulman if you watch him Dobbin if you watch him learn if you watch him interact with people you see the words of Hazael Xie hey shame show - I have all your talk that the name of a Kurdish borough who should be beloved through you you see that personified in the way Robby and mr. Schulman lived their lives rabbi Solman is a Makana par excellence in his yeshiva where he is the family as a whole as a family of cinema they understand what it means to be a Rebbe in a classroom trying to get through to tell me them to students I was looking for yeshiva for my son I wanted a place where they would try to mold the boys having fine character and a place where the boys would love learning and by Hashem it's been an amazing experience for him it was ashtag and he able to learn any Paiste want it's more like Co which matters I'm Cesar and I was learning and an older Bey I'm able to talk to whatever you want not all is about her who's the addition hurts comes through to anyone who meets him and that's a product of the wonderful you know that Rabi and mrs. Sherman have given him the more high is such a Levitical Bakr he brings to the everything that goes on in this she with a learning the davines is always coughing and learning handling of ro and Davenant the brand it's very beautiful and it's a pleasure to have such a fine mesh Paco as part of the sister they are constantly in tune with the rules of the Shiva with the wrath of what event errors should be and the way they implement work hand-in-hand with that whole in achieving that ultimate goal Bosch M my son has found a very good path in the Meseta he loves learning Torah he loves his robe a.m. he loves just being around the survivor around the environment and we could tell that he's constantly growing and growing hope that rabbia mrs. Sherman will have tremendous nafas from Mattel and from the whole family and should bring real equation I am in the world on behalf of my wife we give the Miss IFTA a great bracha that they should continue to be varmints Terra to continue to grow that they should be keeping able to inspire their Tom meet him to continue loving Torah and beza gem they will continue to be a flagship yeshiva for many years to come [Music] the Shiva served as a place where of course everything was based on Li militaria and every the fashion but it was a place where I was taken care of [Music] she was hurried Rea found a new year 2006 we started with 14 acrimony Shiva mermando came to yeshiva somewhere like a month or so for Chanukah and he immediately made a very strong presence in the yeshiva the friends that I made me Shiva were friends that I retained for life the close-knit environment that was present and achieve at the time allowed for us to really bond Mei was not just one of the group he was a life force within the group the atmosphere that he brought along and the theists that he provided there's something that was felt throughout the achievement the mayor was always someone that extremely enthusiastic always there for everyone really someone who was a mentor he always made sure everyone was involved he was always you know connecting between the older Bufferin and the younger guys the reasoned mayor fit into the Shiva environment and Carteret so well is that the focus was not just on intellectual development but also on proper development of mido that figure is very important in their daily life and my son's daily life there was an atmosphere where one was encouraged to contribute whatever they could every week I put together a DVAR Torah which I was right I would edit just about every day I was able to put out how luckily I miss a peaceful halakhah the riots that he took when he was here and the Christ that he continues to take when he's not physically part of the yeshiva and his concern and love for the Shiva is something that's very very easy he always looks to connect and help the yeshiva in various different ways from keeping connected with alumni itself to the rob a.m. to Dan challah as a whole and always helping the Shiva in any way that he can I have such tremendous acara cetera to the Shiva they were so warm they provided me the space that I needed to be my own person but not just be my own person but to flourish and to truly tap into my personal talents let them come to fruition to my son I wish for him nikhat that we are having and seeing him and his family and the type of success in in Jewish Studies in Yiddish Skype and in general life that we've seen with him and to be Shiva I wish the Shiva continued growth more students and to continue its key role in developing the next generation of Jewish leaders [Music] what a beautiful beautiful video special Mazel Tov to all the honorees and their families the Shiva and the Han hala are extremely grateful to all the honorees who have stepped forward to help and behalf of the entire Shiva and the Trank family would like to thank all the donors who have made tonight's dinner a smashing success it's an unbelievable thing a few months ago when they came up with the idea to make this dinner I don't know if those you've got two months a few months ago because I got a call about six seven weeks ago it's really hard to know who's gonna come usually you have a dinner and sometimes you get the reservations you get a good idea you didn't know if there's going to be a real attraction to be able to get people to be missed out especially in the times that we are living but the Shiva is so grateful tremendous outpouring of support love and respect for what the Shiva is trying to do and together with the opportunity to have sponsorships a special special section that is being created very unique the Shiva must have pull with art scroll to be able to create this beautiful idea and opportunity to be able to have their own special section Saurabh I say if you still have not donated there's still an opportunity to donate to the Shiva and you can still do so please make sure that you don't don't wait to do it do it tonight I think the deadline is tomorrow moving right along in this beautiful program sorry I can't serve you the main dish yet but we'll have to improvise it's my opportunity and my privilege to introduce the executive director the Shiva cthulhu mr. Carteret of Yakov's V Peterman who's been working so hard to make this dinner this unique and special dinner the success that it is rabbi Biederman please join us thank you Catskill thank you thank you for agreeing to be a part of it a major part of it this tonight is quite unique as Haskell mentioned it's the first yard site of rabbi drinks that's how grab a drink had a unique connection with the yeshiva where the yeshiva was sort of his second Achieva in in everything he would come off in visit often the receiver the receiver would have him over for Shabbos often and he always reminded us about how lucky we are to have rekindled Tyrel in a distant place where Tara was lost in Carteret New Jersey the Russia Shiva we'll be following with a CMS ass just thinking about the CMS house I remember the last CMS ass in Carteret where rabbi trank got up and spoke where rabbi Trank was there dancing with all of his Caiaphas but this one will be different this one is in memory of His Holiness Shama I want to start by thanking thanking all the donors all the tell me them family members friends who responded to our call to support the Shiva while honoring the legacy of Rabbi Trank rabbi Trank often visited the yeshiva and he always spoke about how to tell me them the tummy them learned how to tell me them we're so lucky to learn from our commercial yeshiva arrive is real Brown and arrived Yaakov Maher shalita and he would often talk about the asanas to say Fatima and yeshiva where we had to remember to Co Salomon and even talk about I should say he spoke about it every time he came he spoke about it he reminded us how I'm at the CEO danced in the streets of Carteret it is an honor to have had him as part of our yeshiva in such a unique way the donors these donors are continuing that legacy and we're proud to announce that the yeshiva has started a unique fund called the rabbi dovid shrank talmidim fund where the funds will go many as much of the funds from this dinner will be going to help tell me them that need extra assistance wherever it's necessary the the donors are welcome to continue giving on on our website the tribute dinner calm the the the donors that give $250 or more are welcome to are going to receive a book the copy a copy a unique copy is a tribute the tribute dinner edition of the rabbi drinks biography just love them and we think all those sponsors that got involved there's still a few chapters left the book sponsor was taken we think the shroom family and we think all those who contributed throughout this dinner without further ado I introduce the rushing of Shiva the reishi Shiva Rob Israel Brown son-in-law grab a drink before I start with the sium I just want to express kirsov we really had no idea what to expect going to this dinner we knew we had two honorees that were exceptional the showman's as the parents of the year and her mayor and his wife mandro as alumni of the year and we knew we were gonna do something Lily nish Mass Mifare I mean I think they'll daughter had been marami Schuerholz a friend inside the college Sbrocco but we didn't know especially on these times with the coronavirus with the financial hit that many people took whether financially it would be a successful dinner and one of the things that we as an hollow always take from a dinner is the physic we meet with the parents we meet with with supporters of the Shiva and we come away from the dinner mcusic in what we're trying to do with the Shiva we didn't know how this dinner would work out and the response from the showman friends from the people who have a scientist to the showman's from the mandro mishpocha both our mayor and his wife and his parents and in-laws their friends the the amount of physic we got from the responses from their Aveda and working for the Shiva was unbelievable and then this was a very unique experience calling people for the dinner and getting story after story after story of how my fare is the finest of the glabella changed their lives I called somebody yesterday and he told me this is fifty years ago before Adelphia before the mirror he told me he was like a Puerto Rican kid off the block he came to pierce a to my very my shirt change his life and we heard story after story like this people who literally changed due to my fare due to Salva that he had for each yakit due to the tremendous physic and that itself was a tremendously exhilarating experience I want to mention a point about my fare the kernel of rasa that is not generally focused on and I believe that everything else that he did becomes much more cautious when we know this and that is that he was a tremendous Thomas awesome I mentioned by the Lavanya the last Pesach after the Seder so I took out a Gomorrah to try to learn for a few minutes I was learning obamas and he was really very shocked at that time and he called me over he asked me what I'm learning I told him you promised so he asked me to read the mission on that flama Dolloff and I started reading the Mishnah and he corrected me in the gears sir baba he wasn't looking in his head was a sort of fifth down after the Seder whatever time it was 2:30 in the morning he used to walk through the streets of Lakewood everybody knows he would walk through streets of Lakewood to be MacIsaac people we go to this person to that person to this Skylar to this Talmud but he would also walk through the streets of Lakewood has ring Eve on the small path housing to she or me heard from his great rabbi Bernie's a friend of the brothel and when somebody like that puts all this crisis and all this other into bokram it's not just somebody acting on his emotion but it's somebody coming with the coal kayak I tell yer to build people up in the list and the last Kufa so I visit him one day we were sitting in the in the living room all those of you who came over the last year or so no he would sit there in the chair and sometimes he was more responsive than others and this time he was sitting there he was being very quiet he wasn't really participating in the conversation and I mentioned something to somebody there about the buckram and Carter ad about the Shiva and Carteret and I was like I pushed the button he got all animated he said what you're doing for the buckram and Carter ad is unbelievable you give them the crisis he developed them they become Tommy their class on him and that was really all the years his approach he used to be massaging me and other receiver because my ashleeta he used to tell us if you tell me that come him he used to tell the buckram that we were telling that I saw him and they should get whatever they could from us according to my show there were many more Godot ulam and claudia saw that most people count and this was something this is a running theme throughout the years he would give me practical advice how to deal with bokram and he was very involved both in the particular day-to-day aspect of many things that went on in yeshiva and also in giving us a world view obviously - kafra that he had of how to approach about how to deal with a buffer was something that not just robbed worth but was a direct cash sure - how we dealt with our buffer just to be Messiaen before and make the actual see him somebody wants s my shreds of training of the Bertha she mother asked him how it may be happened many times I heard it from him how she could have a son like him and he told her if you're a mother like my mother then you'll have children like me and I would like to take this opportunity to be market types and my parents my father Selita my mother sleep there they're mysterious knavish retire their godless entire what they gave over to me to all my siblings to the whole world really of what a mosaic of Atomics awesome is what a most thing of thinness is an anal attire English iron our cars Auto if I have to them I can't be here by this see them in person we have a mini emit some some in the room spread out but in 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go home look fine salami Rob off you know be starving after night they re films they may be halo 4 o karna been called the my point II wish my about all them you are mine yeah he's low morale bombings my other fame toy did alright no Val call you out of there I searched all under my mother laughs mother a special I'm Elena Val call Israel they knew our main [Music] La Silla [Music] I [Music] I think I'm a yokai hi [Music] to shave this I feel I've got me oh god yeah [Music] I thought oh give me shake this up it got me your name after even through you shave this stop it come your I did i hi I [Music] yiii [Music] got me [Music] [Applause] ah [Music] Michiko da-da-da-da-da-da-da [Music] he's not [Music] me [Music] say now [Music] Wow [Music] it would be a tremendous not has to do I to donate right now to this amazing amazing dinner amazing cause such an alia for such an ishshah' more of a trick that we all remember touched me he touched me in such a way that elevated - yamo a tremendous tremendous bond that he had a whole family strong hobby is all of its rank wanted ah [Music] Jasha kya [Music] thank you so much of David Cobb a great job as always being macaws like the oil um and yes please take this opportunity this special opportunity in on the eve coming up of tomorrow night of the yard side of our Heyliger a be robbed of a drink - please be missed a safe in this beautiful beautiful minded to help the Shiva kadala of Carteret perpetuate the legacy of our rabbi robbed of it and so rabbi sigh please on the bottom of your screen whoever's watching and you still haven't had a chance to participate and you're enjoying the program and you like the messages that you're hearing you have an opportunity to take part in this historic historic book a special section that has been created for this special moment the once in a lifetime opportunity to be part of our special moment chapters are still available benefactors are still available please donate to the Achieva the tribute dinner dot-com it should be below your screen there are still few few chapters left and borrow Hashem we've had a very very successful program please don't miss the opportunity please donate now it is my privilege now to introduce the next segment of the dinner the next segment of the dinner is a rabbi trained tribute portion of the dinner I have an entire book 15 chapters to talk and even 15 chapters wouldn't do justice legend larger-than-life visionary many names used to describe my holy Rebbe our holy rabbi Arab dove a drink saya Kisaragi licorice LaRocca but to us visionary and all that all true every one of those but to us Tommy diem the highest title the most prestigious way that we could ever remember him was as Rebbe it is my honor my privilege to introduce the chairman of this dinner someone who I've known literally my entire life who has always been there for Rev David when we called upon him to help us he was there Dave Silverman from Atlanta Georgia to be able to introduce the next segment of our dinner after the video after the video please pay attention to the video [Music] my father rabbi Trang grew up in bar o'clock he went to it's time for elementary school he also went to our JJ starting in seventh grade from yak effusive my brother went to Miriah Shiva they became the dorm counselor he became a Rebbe day was a mosh gear there and he was always in camp monk being mechanic children and then he went to adelphia they became a rabbi in Adelphia and he became the man I landed elfia and really adelphia was synonymous with my fair with Raghava trancoso Colonel Abraha and very shame never do what I'm you always saw himself as being of Rebbe teaching tomorrow but also having to all the horizon and all the myriad responsibilities that any principal has and and that he had as a father to always tommy them then he opened up his own yeshiva Marussia Xuan when he moved to Lakewood and he continued on and that you she was still going on I saw Robert rank interact with the boys he was teaching the relationships that he formed how he wasn't just a nine-to-five Rebbe he was part of their lives he became part of our lives and it was the beginning of a relationship that lasted years and years his home Mahalo how famous is that he was able to see the tremendous miles everybody had and tremendous maila's buckram had an young girl I'd had and Rob a.m. had and he was always able to see that because he had a tremendous honor for every year he would love every buffer regardless of his katrina's regardless of his background and accept them he looked at all of us he identified everyone with their maila's and out there Castro knows Robert rank was someone who drew you in it was the heart the Shama of the boys that and only their neshama the boys felt it every single buffer who was there built a lifelong Kesher with him as I have and as my son you hooda had with ready not only was he teaching the boy is not only learning with them but he was driving around Lakewood he was picking them up in the van he was making sure that they had night activities he was bringing them to his house but by trying was a 24/7 for all of the boys he lived with them he ran to the dormitory two o'clock at night would lie back down four o'clock in the morning six o'clock in the morning he was up preparing going tend to make for dampening saying tell him learning preparing his share he loved them he loved them he loved them rebby would come years after my son had already left Marussia sure sure baby would come walk Shabbos to the house to check in on us to say hello you'd be walking around the whole Lakewood Shabbos morning checking in and all of his boys the love the affection the caring that he had the lengths that he would go every talmud there were no limits to that and I sure would do anything for his children and his grandchildren he developed an ongoing shyness with all my children and even though they didn't live in Lakewood they would they were constantly with it they receive every week they got to see him instead she was with him and spent time with him he was devoted singularly to every need that any of his children would ever have regardless of the time and effort that it took obviously any event in the yeshiva he was here and he would be massing the buckram and the last seven eight years every single time he spoke he spoke about that across secretary he was really bringing out how much their bench don't love the Shiva and loved the hidden in Carteret Reddy's legacy is not just for the Tommy them it's not just for us and the impact he had on us and our families but I think so many other of them were motivated and inspired to adapt how they related and how they relate to their Tommy them because of the model that ready said there's a lot of noise in this world I've been trying had the unique ability to cut through that and to have a genuine relationship with lakota sparkle in a way that we felt that we ourselves can improve our relationship with Hashem by watching how rabbi Trank conducted in Zola's tens and tens tens of talmidim and their families are out there lighting neighbors being miss paulo by their Rebbe who loved them who took care of them who was their father was the grandfather who danced with them who cried with them rhabdo be drank kottbud over my wish is that we should learn to emulate his me dice and by doing that I think his new summer will go a little bit higher in Xiamen he should be a male teacher for wall of Kali soil should tackle learn this lesson that every year deserves a bath my brother two rabbits and shrank the whole Trank family to the the most oh that were dear to Rabbi drank is that we all should continue to emulate rabbit rec we should grow with his ways we should continue to serve Hashem and draw people close with rabbit ranks inimitable sense of love and sense of vibrancy tonight the night of the dinner is the yard site of Rebbe sacred sonic ricotta salata what more fitting way to honor his legacy and to continue his work of bringing every buck or two the maximum potential by supporting this beautiful you sheave of Carteret which follows in Reddy's footsteps [Music] that was a very moving expose a of Robin tranq I am rabbi Dave Silverman I live in Atlanta Georgia I've been involved in the Atlanta scholars kollel since its beginning 33 years ago my connection to the doesn't rank runs deep and wide for 36 summers our families and lives were intertwined in camp monk my connection to the Messiah shots this evening rivers real brown is also about that old I helped raise him on the campus of Mary Israel when his harsh of a father Randolph cavora which I attended on Friday nights we learned we got a little dislike able to cake and we had the warmth of a family experience during my eyeball from years it's a common to be a part of the roshi sheep of Carteret 11c oh my shots Mazel Tov I might be off by one Rafa said he could be off by one I wish him his talented Rebbetzin Mazel Tov on this beautiful seal is a furnish mass affair but doesn't rank to the Messiah's parents Russian Leia brown your mother-in-law as your mother-in-law Rebbetzin lay a Trank may your children in a no clock bring in much nachus and comfort it is a bittersweet joy knowing that red oven chefs novice from gone Hayden Mazel Tov to this evenings of honorees the Monde rose and the Shulman's dogged Schulman is a Landsman from it land I've watched him grow I know that and Voxx eyes to become a fine Aventura I know that his parents Allen Roseanne are in cheffing Navas his brother Jeremy who I couldn't get to sit down and learn too much in high school is also chuffing Mathis from the accomplishments of their brother and son dr. morning this house Ben Bruce of cap long fame as the alumnus chair this evening and I also helped raise more delish house in camp I work together with his father Bruce in camp I've spent much time trying to figure out how awardees sense of humor is not the same as his father Bruce I'm most grateful that I didn't have to fly a to New Jersey to be part of this wonderful and meaningful evening he did Goodell in the sift of Carteret and has dedicated this evening Lee Elia mich knishmas but AB dubbin shrank to Carla Bravo Koosh mo Kaku from dovid was beloved and he loves everyone maybe better put he was beloved because he loves everyone he imparted his larger-than-life energy to anyone he could give a hug to he was a town of Gotham he knew parts of shots ball pad one time at a meal in the dining room and camp monk his smuggler of loved' cohen mentioned the Gemara relevance started rattling it off a few seconds later Yoli gold walked by and he started rattling it off I felt so out of place I just started to say the ASHRAE along with everybody else Reb Duggan was a real olveda xem he was the only looking for ways to grow to be more sensitive to the needs of others people would come to visit him in camp and discuss their issues for hours beloved would sit he wouldn't eat he'd miss meals Rebbetzin Trank woods she saved the food for him it would sit on the plate with a paper towel on top and get cold sometimes too late in the evening he was in the dock taking mitzvahs all summer long this man was marked it on the smile of the Creole on of the mugging of Rome is mark Krishna Morgan I have wrong and that's very early in the morning during the summer times he went to bed as late as all of the other campers but he was up in time this man krishma of the maginot run he was an athlete loved it had strength one time in his learning groups he asked where is certain young man 9th grader of rather large size someone said Ali wasn't feeling so well he's sleeping in the bunk from dove and tripped up ran down the hill which is a rather long hill that's probably a football field he ran down the football field he went down to the bunk picked the kid up out of his bed ran back up the hill with the kid in his arms and sat him down at learning groups and continued to teach without missing a beat he was a machine at about tishrin he put things together in his mind that sometimes no one else could see sometimes no one else could understand he may be grounded up on the spot some things they were so happy he had to explain how the two ideas fit together from Eli monk asked from David to be in charge of telling people in the dining room the staff dining room the SDR for deburring children he gave an introduction it was beautiful and his magnificent was so original he would often forget the name of the buffer he was introducing but it was beautiful be very shocked about this young man that made him feel better his introduction than the words of Torah that he shared yet tremendous collateral he had here effort a miracle coming we have Mahone and camp grab dubbed cone as an opportunity to share he brioche scuffle with the campers the older campers the staff of camp there was not on my phone that went by that didn't hear a bite shrank yelled from the back you're the guard or we have to have respect for the gotta learn that is why we are here to hear how you convey to us the way we should approach today's situations today's issues it was unbelievable I had the opportunity of being in the presence of Ruderman when rabbi Dovid Schrank came to visit rabbi Ruderman he had been a dorm counselor many years before and he came to visit the Rosh Yeshiva the moment he walked in the door or another train started to sitter and he came into the office the library where the Rosh Yeshiva was and he and he started to sit though he stood and he stepped back in the row she she would start to speak and he he couldn't decide whether what the superstand he was in tremendous or of being in the presence of the rosh hashanah the rosey Shiva what was smiling it was quite humorous to him how he couldn't figure out exactly where to be silly tokens next urbex it and then he drew him very close so he could speak very closely to him it's a beautiful sight robbed of it had such a gyro for lofty hailing of people Revan was MacIsaac all of us - he used to say over to me and he had his stick laughter are they shared with each and every person he often had a vort an insight that he felt was appropriate and he would say it over many times - that's particular person so says on a ptosis in condition that if a person a fisherman puts bait in the water then he's Kona those fish and if another fisherman puts his nets up and intercepts those fish is your egg was so high of of the original fishermen who put the beta so the sauce is exhaust of fish their death cur what shyness are they to that original fisherman who put the bait in salted sauce says robbed of a drank saying over the coast think so says that when the fish come up to the bait and he's Conan the fish sucked robbed oven shrank when you raise up a Talmud your Kona Talmud and he used all of his energies all the dis strength is to use is larger than life used to raise people up myself included he remembered details about me about my family about anyone and everybody that he knew that he just dug right back into our lives every time we would meet on this day of this yard site our dear friend were gundalian throttle it yes I helped raise Gedaliah zloty wits as well has published through art scroll a beautiful book maybe we could even call it a safer a loser safer just love him was written by Shirley Besser yes I tried to raise Shirley wrestle in camp and we are grateful to all of you who have been sponsors and donors to a special edition that is being published in honor of this evening seal and the yard site of robbed of a train there are actually still a few dedications that are available and for a minimal of two hundred and fifty dollars you can get a free copy of this special edition that is being published in honor of the sheep of Carteret this evening I would like to suggest that it's required reading for any ready and for any parent giannis love him for many years in camp I was a learning group rebby of the seventh grade and as an incentive to memorize charts were shackled material in Laura I offered to meet him a glass of beer and I spoke that Abdullah drank about it and he said if it's under rabbinic supervision you sit with the Walker you could share the beer with him sometime in that winter I got a phone call from a mrs. Gordon in New York Review ankle benders secretary and she said my ankle bender wants to speak to you and this is what he wants to speak to you about and she proceeded to tell me how inappropriate it is to be giving beer to seventh graders because in New York it's not appropriate Priyanka bender called a few days later and shared with me his perspective which I was Mikado will a charlatan as it was given so lovingly since then I became Mohnish pounded of the manna Hill against Claudius realm from david shrank used to call his brother observe a who works in his shiva dark a tell her that I don't even say observe II get mihrab yeah uncle I have to ask his advice it's an honor and a cover to present but yong-chol bender it shows how dynamic thailand her a jakob mayor and our abbas real branch leta both of them Shamy iraqi of a mish they say i'm where in the world that we have to russia shiva shoots them first will get a long civil with each other what a special Brucker that is but have too good a leading daily israel mommies that still the shots constantly and know so much Tyra and sternly me dice they should both be eventually to see on the shine and continue their have I this accreditation issue because I look Carter breath in wherever else it might be Thank You above it babe Silverman if there's a paradigm of Hesed in Phillip this is the men have introduced me is about a questionable thing to me was I suppose I shouldn't have a son should i you're going his father's footsteps as ready now he Shiva I brought confuse Dave should continue to be the great merits area that you are lack of beer man you put this all together we're grateful to you it's just call I call I call each other becoming tonight to honor to one is of course the she with their love Carteret is crushable my cetera and this occurring the day no I have a no you did shall call yourself the cupboards if Italian college the rougher what an extraordinary man what an experience should the enemy just the up that he became a wooden with her Mayor Brown shillitoe and his Rebbetzin that ripped up his daughter Mary goobers real Brown I think what this shoots this earth of a drink tonight the she was there loved Carteret she was a venture stalled after Tyra if I buy that Miller's Kassadin have a drink personified is it Ron bond and the practice we read is paribus typical practice to understand what's going on away a very very difficult process they just left hurry Farsi night being there a little bit under a year ten days less than a year and they leave because I'll tell us there's two sukham that have to interrupt somehow don't don't belong get along better to go home I even say all right and there's to learn our focus over there why cause I'll tell us because I have little bit put on isla peroneus to separate you two Baird occurrences to difficult occurrences one was obviously missing in the Makai Searle decided to complain right she says limb cell Lila against her mother funny that's caveat hell yeah we know it's a brownie so what's the other premieres was the traitor brownie is that the left has seen ice so much is what says they left Tennessee night but the eleven cause I'll tell us Katina a cabaret up and basis a child runs away from you Sheila too quickly they should have realized where they were bond speaks about it but stood out though you're talking about leaving I've seen it the same thing as I'm assigning it but stood sound up so to my char Mary Dickey site they will live him a half a rave they were living in Derry Shiva daddy Sheila by rc9 embassy Shiva with a lantern room I sure I baited with the greatest Rebbe that ever lived how's it sure if these people should go ahead and become bombing I've a review right has a major minor on this house it Shia becomes writing him it's the big I see them I sure I know the other party it was they went too quickly because they didn't should be what it means being an easy Shiva they lefty she was up to my show I beg to be Shiva when you leave the Shiva and you figure who you are not far behind that is them assigning them both parties sent are very very difficult becoming here to speak about a man who lived in as you see his entire life as a child that as a father and as a movie she whoever was an adult fear later marches Yeshua he lived the Shiva is gonna Shema man called yama from Tubba trach was the embassy Shilla man let's get at you laughter me Shiva he never stopped learning he understood what it means to live in Ichiro who makes your brows those like is that you start Rebbetzin Ezreal Brown's father once told me married Iike my son it was one seeing a man that left there he stood on the boat somebody went to say goodbye to zagging in this is where she brought Greiner up her team is an Italian traditional brother well rudiment told him whatever you do don't forget stay close to each eva he took that with that brothel that service sort of un taxi stroll he took a job you have to join the meal in the reserves where the reserves work you go for two or three weeks here in the army and then you go back we can probably have three in the reserves in case custom you need it so the single mind joined the reserves and the first day they come to reserves to get the captain of that battalion or whatever it is it was a dress shirt orientation this particular person was ecstatic hope he waits merely person but he spoke to almost like ashamed about caviar who better cut each bar who it's all us cut he made some yummy we're gonna run out Robby with a b and c we don't need their buddy slum he said all kinds of terrible terrible things this you know mine was very very uncomfortable he couldn't handle it anymore to jump out of his he say sure how can you talk like that didn't have a the first day in the army he just couldn't do it let's fry this you look jumps up and he says you talk like that there's your buddy some of the rules how do you talk like them quickly to soldier sent oh wait took him by the arms they put everything I believe Salter can find them for two days this younger man coming out in the East Earl issue mom is embarrassed the field achieve a man yet he stood up here as a chef and I couldn't do it when this fellow came back into the into the into the into the camp here at all this has told me something barest you did it I couldn't do it first up chance they says for what do you do for a living brother what do you do the incident I'm the cook and punished ranked back in his head oh I rep your who have been said to me stay close to me Shiva but love it Santosh laRocca's event Maya Shiva from the day he was born till the day he was lifted that kill lepton yeshiva not just because he was a merits Pharaoh because he/she learned and learned and learned I've learned never stop learning he we just need to send me Michaelson he was calling me regularly will he have the time the car who cometh and distant comers of that thank knew this thing before that he was a learner yeah sure I've been on their prices TC seller Yami should say foil that's a compliment yeah sure burden are what appear equal to say you should say years ago to Marina thank you too baby who are you the shooting man I think the Chinese push it in the middle very nice words he touched up by the cruising had the parts of Teaneck they were sculpted like two children I heard this dress should I became accustomed my dad my fare and militia let Shabbos and he spoke and price is true huh and those names here come to shine mister still you know made much very shrinker my collar that Chavez for treadmill your threat you're gonna put up two sculptures what you put information thanks tonigh once I get back it's coming that's the other one to the daily throw put a relation if you have guys what are you putting up to children for did you know he says my really gonna votes he says children no they have to learn adults I think an older and older I know everybody very hard to argue with someone very difficult to argue with someone very hot they're older I don't think you have experience I'm better than you child those he has to learn old prison stops learning they sharable numbers in middle 50s the petracles me sure but didn't matter around this really moisture babies are given a diary never stopped being an IRA youth to learn between the manic you saw 1995 96 years old you should be done well let's give it an are called Yama that sleepy team the received a meteorologist row you land from the rebel was there ever a bigger now in the sense that moons erupt of it set aside the cottage love Russia the topic shrinks difference idly push the brother white a level of Nara never stopped learning column of that's a musical to be the Gotham handsome in America has that called Okinawa with the grace of hearts with a huge heart that's the good ones word of it that's what Carter it is Rob I see Cara wet are it was the bottom and it's so much they are coming home they're producing go through the common cause reverse real a CubeSat themselves some of them it's not them at all it stable Tyra they meet this one thing is story if I say I discuss in Baltimore they get together all the schools they give half today you off to all the schools they come all the hand come of the stuff come together all the money stuff come together and they and they hit Russia so I was again speaking when you spoke a number of times one of the speeches of us to 250 motorist from the city of Baltimore so I wanted to tell them what it means to be motor how you are a huh sure you are ready but your motor so I told them you know does the Union man's nose receive avocado bread New Jersey was real brown was your Brown wrote his first say free came to visit me he will learn tonight she bought all three years great six seven and eight and he brought me the safer inscribed to his Rebbe you Jakob bender I said neither but surely became a godless true so he bring me a safe before he says you were a babe end up he says you Rebbe I went to my I love these motor and bolts when I gave her the safer also because she taught the ala base hit me this time ice so I said this over to these they service your brand as a goggle goes to visitors preman a more important one because there's really more of Baltimore to give her the safer that he wrote because you're the one who started me off you know I forgot the name of the lady right there dear lady stood up but she says it's me she's still Amara it's me he brought me the safer know will he have such a meal ace you know where you have it it is being taught by the island Carteret and your top a drink to meet this of this man I'm waiting for the book I've spoken through Lee Besser not the book the safer many times about this wonderful safe they're looking forward to it cuz it's Molly the godless pirate me but you're you don't know me the terror starts maybe this ends on to meet the Stars Tyra you know it's one Basha it's telling me this that's a given depth of it the great shrink well we all miss him some people hell says no such thing as indispensable person and of art they say excuse me cemeteries are full of indispensable people that's the best line to use breadth of it was in this pencil and you know another reason why cuz he had a wonderful wonderful Rebbetzin Rebbetzin lair quite an extraordinary personality work together the higher offer for each other the way they treated each other if this was live now if I say I feel like its life the whole place we should be standing up and screaming and cheering because hey look I represent rent by the extraordinary lady and waited to live with each other where's my wife because she was tough that's for sure cuz I keep my wife she's my shooter but everything I do what she was the same way it is redundant when you have a couple like that the tire is more pure essence more pure and you are abduct rink and your Rebbetzin why that's tube the hey love your stubborn the way they are produced by sharing their family they run bands risk exposure magic around man Christ was complaining them assigning him they want me to make sure it says like what magnifies all the meat his Roman says they had a shunt it's our intention I can't handle them the cottage barkal s fully shipping issue is Aquila Israel give me 70 s km they'll help you sir I'm bond says like you know olicity does he's worth is it that butchers this Kanan they're gonna get shot meat for them the chef meats for them what are they gonna do Center I'm Bonnie Murray the east side who can look really and this is dedicated towards a Heyliger above it marry together he says Christ I was immortalized the traveling they were demoralized they needed people to calm them down when you are the more always but happy you need meat you know things you're not supreme mean that's really problem the word he uses on we'd all run by now they say these kidding will do the job with shaft 8's from Shin puff and Huff Huff Huff Hamas hemella Chicago this where is the first parameter system calm down a fish bearish the job at his kingdom will be to calm down Klein so that's a bit things are ok class over it's okay and it was fresh stain what's going on in the kids house in the kids mind in the kids kishka so he can work with the child in common my kid doesn't album only achiever but I'm a drink was the kingdom this you understood there's something going on over here what's driving this shall do what he's doing let's find out let's see what it is could they leash a song to quiet down the nation quiet out of people that's he opens Arab buffets in September was I mentioned that no I worked with kids he has always tell me them good telly I love you Tommy them and those didn't turn out to be clear day alone you know what he loved every single one of them does he understood what kind of business what it was all about so to have his memories to be honored tonight at this virtual dinner but dinner nevertheless is very extraordinary very special our brother tis my father took me there absinthe is that I only have memories but all of his great accomplishments that he did in this world will be around to give us all to give you all sad and support and all that you meet how special this man was how great he was we got to remember how we ran past him across the world should read everybody everybody safe little safer that's coming out to learn what it means to reach every single neshama plus the villains are abducted ruin the Rebbetzin thus is the Cthulhu Island fearing the great Shiva Cthulhu card with New Jersey bench them to continue this yachts dish might at the Ergo have bats Laughlin Bravo to build this great mercantile and it'll be a source of course from Ezreal Schware abducted a big race the gracious hosts for observer to see their profession is truly believed such a Shiva and all of us together should one day rejoice again with the cunning mushy at the pier summation will be able to dance crypt of it again my hair Abhimanyu ki I was she like many of you may know I'm in the main thank you thank you Thank You rabbi bender what an honor rabbi Silverman we I want to thank also the dinner committee members are observing bald from Catskill Bennet who was our emcee the RAB enough Tully Miller or a penny monk get see Tischler and my she tres among all the others that contributed to the success of tonight but Dave Silverman expended himself tremendously the the the rabbits in rabbits in Frank she was so kind so helpful so happy to help us and in her in her typical elegant way she didn't want any any thanks any appreciation any show of appreciation she's not able to be here now as we have social distancing but with she's sitting home watching us we think her Thank You mayor Montreux and dogged Schulman an alumnus apparent both really helped to really reached out and we thank them from the bottom of our hearts for reaching out dr. Morey list house good friend who I brought the Carteret back in the day ah such great memories with Mayor Morty how those days were just a couple of buffer him twenty guys when when I came to the yeshiva and some twelve years ago and how it's grown to a full high school it it's just incredible I want to thank the show and the shroom family once again for sponsoring the book the the all the all the chapter sponsors were all really made a big difference in making this dinner a success the Shiva she was happy to send the book out to you if you give $250 or more and we thank you all the donors from the people who sent in two dollars in the mail to the people who who gave over 36 dollars to the dinner we thank all of you each of you are making a huge difference in the success of every single Talmud we also want to thank the hosts raise it the co-hosts I should say raise it and ego productions and all the other and mint media who made such beautiful productions and who helped us out through each step some of the footage was taken before the before corona when we was still able to have the Shiva open and then some of it he had to squeeze in at the very end when we had to have social distancing already right before when we were just able to reopen he really made it happen they really made it happen I want to remind everybody that you could continue to donate we hope to have the wooden the this program will continue to be available online over the next hopefully we'll have it up and ready shortly and without without much more I want to say thank you and thank you all for helping you ship it's very dark and we want to thank particularly rabbi occupancy Biederman for going above and beyond the call of duty this is a unique situation it came up with unique solutions based on sharing their branch some should give them Brava the the I skated sightsee Berber muna that he should be as I said be continuing as I by the sakai - to help both the sheep of Carteret and all of call you sell ya show Chaya Thank You mal