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you uh see that some people still want
to have a connection with uh
and do what most of us did growing up
which is uh you do whatever you want
during the year without really two
considerations about it but then you
figure you're going to fix all your
mistakes in one or two days you go to on
but for sure you're going to go
and fast on uh Yipool.
If you think you saw a lot of people on
wait till you see in a few days and
Yokipool, everybody shows up. Especially
in the last hour and a half, two hours.
Last two hours when there's
everybody thinks that the is blown, it
fixes all their problems.
So they go just for the sha. They sleep
all day because they're fasting.
like everybody was supposed to do today
was supposed to fast today
tell some people you have to fast. Why?
Cuz uh they gala died. He goes, "Yeah,
but I don't know him."
It's like, "Yeah, you don't know either.
You don't know, but you have to fast."
Goes, "Yeah, but it was a long time
ago."
Okay. It was a long time ago. Moshe was
also a long time ago. Goes, "Yeah, but u
I'm hungry." So, it didn't happen yet.
Tomorrow is the fast. No, no, I'm
already Today I'm hungry, but tomorrow.
So, today was a fast. Today was an
obligatory fast. And trust me when I
tell you, nobody likes to fast.
Even the people that do it
like do at times that you don't need to
do it,
which we'll talk about a little bit
today.
There are times that you don't need to
fast,
but if you want to be a sadik,
maybe you should,
but like anything else,
before you do anything, you have to ask
your rabbi
because your rabbi is the one that knows
if you're capable of doing it or not.
Not physically capable of doing it,
spiritually capable of doing it. Because
sometimes people jump too fast and they
do things that they're not capable of
doing and they end up breaking because
of it. It actually happens very often in
the chuva world where people get really
zealous very quickly. All of a sudden
they want to rebuke the entire
neighborhood. They just learned the
first three of Shabbat. Don't light
fire. Don't uh you know uh murder
anybody because the blood is also it's
not good to murder and it's also not
good to make uh the blood everywhere and
uh have kush they already think oh no
they'reuhenu
start rebuking people and in reality
they're walking
so
your rabbi knows where you stand whether
you can or you can't do it and if you do
things based on your own assessment of
yourself you're guaranteed to become
with your going to become a rash. Why?
That's says
in
first
a person who's fasting by choice in
essence to do sins certain sins that a
person did it's not enough to just stop
sinning. It's not enough to just stop
sinning.
Sometimes you have to fast to repent for
those sins. Sometimes you have to pay
money. Sometimes both.
But
says someone who's fasting by choice to
do chuva
and can sustain it. He is at a level
that he can keep a fast. He's called
kadosh. He's a holy person. Holy person.
He comes to your house says honey
somebody kadosh is coming to the house.
Why this person fat?
But if he's not, if he can't sustain it,
if he's not at that level, if he becomes
uh weak and sick, abuse of Kaw says he
can't really function,
he's called what? A sinner. He's called
Why? But he's fasting. There's not a
mitzvah. Everybody's complaining about
fasting for yam kipu. This guy's fasting
Mondays and Thursdays. How come says
because the the purpose of fasting is to
do chuva.
Purpose of fasting is to do chuva. It's
not to just stop eating. If you just
stop eating, that's called a diet. It's
called a diet. It's no meat for dieting.
You don't go to Gan for be being on a
diet. You go to Jenny Craig, maybe
be on a commercial that you dieted,
maybe they'll pay you some money, but as
far as grened, you don't get ged for for
doing Jenny Craig. You don't get ganed
in for being on Slim Fast. You don't get
Geden for not eating all day.
All you get is a maybe a stomach ache.
That's it. Why? Because the whole point
of of fasting, we learned from the
tells to the prophet, tell the nation,
I'm not interested in them ripping their
clothes and putting sacks on and putting
ashes on their head
as a form of repentance. I'm interested
in them ripping their hearts.
Meaning, change your actions.
be sorry for what you did and do
something about it. Some people are
really really busy about the sorry but
they don't do anything about it. The key
is to do something about it.
Now the commentary on the
by the uh called by Moshe
says that a person who's in the middle
of eating
and stops himself right before he takes
a certain bite that he wants to eat. If
you ever noticed the last bite is
usually the best one. Last bite is
usually the best one. has like all the
flavors. It's the one you always want.
So the BV says if he stops himself
before he eats it for a few seconds like
he wants to eat it but he said hold on a
second and then he eats it that's a form
of tan that's a form of small suffering
like you just fasted a little bit
without actually fasting
showing that what what do we learn from
here it's not about your diet that a
really cares you eat you don't eat it's
showing that you taught yourself how to
control yourself. You're no longer an
animal. You're not like a dog that's
untrained where as soon as he sees food,
he runs. He goes through the closet,
jumps through the wall, you know,
through the window, doesn't know. He
sees food, he jumps after it. No, you're
like a trained person. Well, you know,
there's a time to eat, there's a time
not to eat
because even withholding something
delicious from yourself for a few
seconds, eventually you ate it though. a
few seconds is actually a form of tan.
We call that it's tan by the raad. The
raad is the one that came up with this
is a form of tani. This is a form of uh
fasting. Obviously, it's not a full
fast. It's not to the same level as a
full fast, but you guys get the idea.
Now,
now who's doing these fasts? somebody
that used to be somebody that
used to sin, used to make all types of
sins and he realizes that okay I got to
fix myself
there and certain sins that I made that
okay I have to do the steps of chuva
first step of chuva is stop it's first
step first step is stop the sin if
you're addicted to any type of food
intimacy
uh television, all types of things that
take your time, attention, money, and so
on. Remove you from Hashem. Stop.
First, stop. You don't need to drive on
Shabbat. You could drive on Sunday. You
could drive on Monday. You could drive
on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. You can
drive any other day. Don't drive on
Shabbat. Yeah, but I want to go to Shu.
Walk to Shul. Yeah, but it's too far.
Okay, don't go to sh.
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