The One Thing That Makes Anyone Feel Truly Heard ❤️#Relationships #Communication #LifeLessons

The main thing is that the reason why they keep on coming back is cuz it's personal. What I find is the biggest tip a lot of kids share things with me. Oh oh you know oh my brother's not feeling well or my I came late cuz my I had to babysit. So you know a week later or a couple days later hey how's your brother feeling? Or just remember even insignificant things they told you. Oh you know I went to I went with my family to Florida. Oh how was your trip? Did you enjoy it? And then they they see that they matter. Oh what do you mean Rabbi Hershkop remembers what I'm saying like regular thing. And that's what I that's it's not anything significant. I mean it is but it's not anything I'm not doing anything wow. I'm not doing just paying attention noticing and then sometimes I guess if it's Alec well God has to get out of jail. He met two people that were probably not famous for their obvious stroll they were working for pirate right in a prison system. He had every reason in the world to be miserable. He was his father's favorite son he was ripped away I'll be Peter he's never getting out of here. There's no human rights in that side of the country today in those Middle Eastern countries certainly back then. But he notices that two people are having a rough day and he said and just the ability to notice to pay attention and when they do tell you something follow up with them. You know and I how do you how do you know this? The kid asked me how do you know this? What do you mean you told it to me a few days ago. And when you tell me things I pay attention. They're shocked because nobody else gave them the attention all of a sudden now you build a connection.