The Melting Pot Of Society: How Seperate Are We?

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Fester if you can get it out of him and they're basically about 1,500 cherem now for free just the cost of a blank which is $10 and then we just refill them so otherwise you the cards are there you can get it off the website if you have a filter and an accountability program on your computer if you don't then blow the whole thing up when you get home I'm not giving you a pass to to go on so this so gia is fascinating somewhat counterintuitive and if I condense it to an hour and change tonight as I started doing two weeks ago in Muncie you're gonna hear a lot of things that are gonna sound unusual how can it be and there's always a lot of pushback so I invite you to either go on the site or at the USB because I can't do justice and we can't possibly answer all the shila's it's more to give some of the scientists of the saga and bring up some of the common issue as we find here America I think the sukiya has never been so Nagaya the good news is we're taiking and we're learning the other news is there are certain things that creep in that we've been in America too long and God was too long in general that's what the three weeks is all about the so gears we just heard in the title is really hookah Sam I had a Hawaii my was gonna speak about hookah Sam and little bush which is a so can we went on to afterwards because they have a lot to do with each other but we'll save that for a different year and the melting pot is exactly the opportunity and the problem the opportunity is in a democracy we get to do what we want and the problem is that in such a free society the culture is invasive pervasive and it's never been more difficult to keep it out to the advent of technology we're going to in the first 10 minutes or so just put down some of the rules and then go immediately to the myriad of examples we have I'm going to try to go through the calendar we'll see if we get past Halloween it's well we'll see our big hoax but if you're all still here at 1:00 in the morning we'll know we're succeeding otherwise we'll know we're gonna at least get you interested enough the puss ik it's one parsec one shorts a Minnesotan R which is fascinating so how can you make 70 shehram at a once in Minnesota no the answer is not my fault the 1:7 show Valera gives you the Clallam and in every goalless and every culture and every atmosphere you have to figure out what applies what doesn't apply and these shila's are challenging and I'm warning you a lot of the things that I'm gonna mention half the people say oh that's pushers and the other half say how can that be and sometimes the truth is somewhere in between push it none of this is how can it be again it might be a simin of our way of thinking here in America a lot of things that caught on but we'll get there and you'll understand a little more as we go through it the tour brings that hocus pocus outcome it's Simon KO phayam fasten your damn that's one simin you can and should look it up afterwards just go through the same in the tour BAC Bach the muhabba and the shaft and overnight seek a lemon then you'll have the basis for the thousands of true vers written in this topic over the various generations tour brings the Rambam Kosovar ama made humble focus our guy in Villa Madame on the handle of a mile bish Villa SAR you read this tour you get very nervous such as why I'm starting with it because this seems to be certainly the underlying theme but there are many more coolers than what the three lines were reading suggests Syrah map says that the puss ik says as the Gemara seems to say you can't be damn it to the guy and you have to be different not only in thought scoffs I am the iliaster all move till mayhem and moved all means different religion the only MS in the world we have to know what the I mean if occur but not only in March ovum not only Bolivia duo Bill Maher Boucher Bashar myself commercial moved or bedight over the air self which means that we have to not only think different and we have to have a different set of rules we have to look very different that's a very odd run mom to start off with standing here giving a sheriff Lucas aimless la Lu I'm standing here wearing a tie a Borsellino hat and a double-breasted suit at least on the h2 the double-breasted suit it went out of style years ago I wait till it comes back so that there's a key min that in this sukhiya to not tough to follow every time somebody decides he has to make more money in Paris and change the styles there's absolutely no rhyme or reason it's a classic Lucas saying there's got to be a hectare for biz you all do it but the ties got bigger and bigger and then all the sudden they shrink and they get into the brims get bigger and there's you know that if you haven't figured it out by now that's just to force us to constantly buy things and that drives the economy for all I know it's some util in Paris making all this up but that doesn't mean if the belt is looking at it a style fashion of the Huayra that's a problem and we know we hope it's not hopefully within the next hour we will touch upon Rob mashita where he explains why wearing a regular suit a tie is motor that's the lotion of the Rambam the macabre and there are more I will read parts of olive and surveys the macabre says and hokum of who cassava loved him and he merely gives examples while your Bush ma Bush from a uhud lehem things that are specific to Graham Ramesh's argument I know that what would you look like you're passing out already so before you take off your ties in your jackets how much is arguments going to be that the consumer is the king and they're making it for consumers and the traffic out what consumers want and we're wearing at the same time they are and we're also consumers they're making it for us as well at the same time that needs further hose barb but that just to keep everybody seated at the sheer dress I want to mention because the macabre and there are mama or there are mommies I saw off with them all blue so the mob shouldn't be the same which is a kasha it's not just a cash on us you look at the vitamin various there is I will say the more high miss you are the more of a qiyam there is in the article fisherboy you wear something distinctly different certainly a qiyam that doesn't make it necessarily oscar for everybody else and there are many riots throughout history that jews did wear the typical turbans robes that the others were wearing and it was not considered the same lesotho so emotion is not okay this is just trying to explain why it's so lagos it says ray sheikh ahmet sisters roshan you shouldn't have a wild hair cut or a hairdo like the that still applies so as an example long brisket pay has come and go and they get more popular less popular do you ever wonder why not because you just came back from recess role but often it has something to do with the whether a bootleg sideburn is install or not after some maneuver we don't want to mention and then if you don't know who I'm talking about very good so the practice is that if you're doing it every time the stall changes and clearly with the rest of the getup looks not very using time that we're not that comfortable with that but if somebody is going pay us and it's a Hitler and it goes to the bottom of the year instead of over the bone is it's all the sheath is you can't really say this is the rights of LaMarcus so I like to use the word ulcer and motored are my sure I'm only one it's really all sir and only went through the motor so you hopefully won't hear the word ulcer from me unless it's really ulcer and is the Thorogood when you're changing the haircut every time they change it no is it the race if it happens to be a hit through another area even less not while you're doing it one could argue the perhaps that wouldn't be an is sir however their arm you will bump into people like this they just don't know any better they're getting a very very yachiru shikaka but only on the side where you shouldn't be cutting so close that's the problem the answer of polish passes okay and Malika's shiny macabre has two days of Samedi assuring room where the miss prime cane Tyra's ulcer when you shave it too thin it's an easy thing to avoid even though this time of the macabre stone the ulcer with a razor but why get into a child like that and the people don't know and they're doing it because the guy named are doing it in it's in style so besides having a very close brush with Lucas a.m. they're having a close brush as bad pun to use over here with with the Hissar of pasta right why get into the shy Lizzie we have an officer Mike Lashon Hara on bit Leterrier and the like that we have trouble with why go near Ennis of the race if you can avoid it however you can't say it's the actual lesser necessarily although it's coming very very close so Armand now says listen carefully because this is going to be a main focus a lot of the shila's what is together if we can we're assuming we can wear suits and ties and hats that only we wear now but it started off everybody was wearing it a few decades ago if all that is not the address of hooker Sam so what is when is it billion it's at there I said well holiday is so the wrong mob it brings down let me first tell you the she's to be shining business a bit unclear who's almost possum like the Reinholds that if they're doing something that you can't readily explain logically the automatic fallback position is that you have to be facie she it's rooted in avodah Zarah quite often especially nowadays the guy in themselves don't know yes come in the street ask about Halloween day asking about even December holidays have been commercialized they won't necessarily know but often if you do research you don't have to you will find out that it is you don't have to do that remeasure says it's not a suffered race the home rod the is arisen is above all dose when you can't explain it why you copying them it might be from a very nefarious source either of al-zahraa knew hush Kishu and the like that's the Ron the my Rick says a similar thing but he adds preachers gave uh shots these are big umbrella words which we're going to talk about some examples some of which as I was discussing with my son in preparation for camp a lot of funny things people wear and can't buy things people do and that's part of the sukiya again for an instant erase we have so many things that we struggle with why should we even come close to a possible listed eraser but if it's something that is picked up from the guy and even if you don't know it is and they picked it up either because it's inherently preaches the guy with the shots somewhere in between there are involved in Keisha for nutritional time superstitions or voters are you don't have to prove it any charge whatsoever is going to be this that the rod eraser Mutombo does and without doing the research sometimes it's painfully obvious for this year gave sharing it for like nine months I researched it just to show it wasn't necessary people are I mean a B'nai my me know but it's just astounding how little research you have to do to find to connect with us and find out how quickly it goes to all sorts of middle-aged Keisha Phoenicians and fortune telling and avodah Zarah and the like and that's the nature of the Asura coin LaRhonda maverick says the priestess and the guide says that even if you're pretty sure the Minich started like two years ago in America and it's not rude enough others are and it's not inherently priestess dick necessarily just strange it's funny it's it's odd so the volnek line says if it's not something we were started ourselves he passing liked Isis the third sheet to me shine him that is also anyway Ramaiah this took about four or five weeks just to move our what I'm telling you in two minutes from Asia in one of his later troopers on Thanksgiving just three different troopers on Thanksgiving anybody who ever bumps into you arrows Thanksgiving and said yeah it's push it it's motor push it is the wrong word to use from Asia apparently struggles with it he has three long choosers and at the end he's more much more than Michael it's not pushed it's uh sir southern I pushed his motor and then I've had many people tell me romesha held it was muttered I said I don't know which I pay fines then you were reading with you apparently read the first one because he keeps going back to it over and over again explains to you what his hesitation is and I'll get to it soon Lamesa if you have pointed on the going apostles like tasteless or a motion third true verse says sort of that everybody agrees to this more or less if you're copying something and it's strange and it's silly why are you doing it if unless you're trying to copy the gonna be like the guy should culture the gun certainly holds like that the question is does the wrong mom that's a question again we're dealing with Ennis at their a style you don't see a mountain before every going but Ramos himself says the sukkah the almost seems to be you better have a good logical reason for copying it one of the easy examples where to give I once had a friend of my son over the house and they whispering and my son comes over to me it looks like he wanted ask something I said can I help you he said yeah my friend wanted me to ask okay so what is it me add a mile is normally this one I wasn't prepared for its number viz uh so he felt funny he said my friend wants to know do you eat sushi so I had to admit the truth the truth is when I first came out for 10 years if you paid me a lot of money I couldn't get near it but people a lot of people eat sushi even though they can't stand raw fish because it's the obvious thing to do and you got business meetings and yeah they keep serving and serving and serving it my son at that point was so young he thought sushi was a Jewish food which if you're young enough you could think pizza is a Jewish food also say he's a good example sushi is very not Jewish comes from Far East and have a lot of rice I'll shame her I snicker a sushi you have it with raw fish you have well-cooked fish whatever you want but it's not American food is not a Jewish food Pizza is very Italian we have this knack of adopting things and enjoying it is there any cultural issue hookah same over here the answer is no not even according to the gun I wanna start off with a cool look after that it's gonna be yes so she's four while eating sushi when I try to be like the guy in maybe at first we brought it in because there was the thing to do with our business associates but if we're eating sushi I hope by this point in time because it tastes good if you hold it tastes good then we're eating for the same reason they're eating it it happens to be a pretty anti-semitic foob is it the broca's disaster i don't know what boss have you been making but everybody even making you're wrong I don't know whatever if you're making one bar it's as you can say some said knowledge pushes Medina so it's messiness very good so the rice I'll shame my sushi Anneka rice and what stew the fish the fish is TOEFL many people think the reading maybe when people think sushi means the fish it's hard to say vegetables with pockets awful V it's hard to say the fish is tough once I say the rice is TOEFL I personally I don't have it that often but when I have it it's not a pasta because I don't hang around the SHM org not that that sinister child where that comes from but I'm usually writing something up in the husband's dish but if I'd have it I'll make them a sinus on the rice and have a charcoal with whatever water or drink I'm having with it and that's partly the best way to cover yourself so it's inherently not Jewish when you have a food you have an acre and nicker you don't know Brock gonna make so that's just an aside pizza why do we eat it the taste it happens to be a decidedly not Jewish food because the tomorrow says you're not supposed to pick up more than a Casillas it's the Hamish come on I says not good manners these things are very not you I'm I picked these two because especially the pizza we couldn't have made up such a food because it seems to run against the Gemara what the head there is I don't know if you've ever seen somebody with a fork a knife which I don't whenever I pizza which is not that often but I was born here also most people Thunder you with the fork and knife question is how you picking up many because a cement putting it toward your mouth that's not a use your food so the argument could be is that that that's copying their culture well my sir Dan's a day we're eating it is a taste good the same reason they're reading it and therefore it's mutter so even the going I would hold anything we would pick up ourselves even if we didn't make it up but we see and we like it and it makes sense so that can't be an it sir Sam LaSalle a who many of the other examples were going to speak about go downhill from there let's first finish the raw mom ma talks about ma Bhushan and he says ma Boucher preaches or something that there's a mini hike vein Tomba Dover doesn't mean there's no time it means there's no apparent reason and therefore we have to be patient maybe it's we turn over Lazaro or Guyver pizzas depending which we should your holds or liked Isis if you can't have a good reason why you're doing it you're copying the game which were almost sure feels we should pass calm like Shh Bosh Emmett service hovering avisae hem meaning even if they don't know I've old over sha na GU there are more continues if it makes sense and they have a TLS and he brings an example from a doctor's overcoat it was a way of hanging out your shingle see a war white coat so I did can wear that even though the guy in front of it but it's a good way to hang out your shingle won't tell people you're a doctor a blood letter whatever it was then and that is mutter the franscheiss omission covered Oh Tom I'll care motor if it's something that looks nice can you wear a tuxedo that's a pretty good shoes awful it's not it looks very much like a Caputo with a funny different ending but and the Caputo is a Prince Albert I wear one on Shabbos I once met somebody and they were trying to figure out they weren't exactly familiar with our they said oh that's how quaint that's a Prince Albert I'm trying to think who was Prince Albert probably something to do with London but it's a it comes from the Galleon but it's a formal wear that you have two occasions and it looks nice that wouldn't be hookah Siam law famous our friend al Himalayan Momo's room documentary this is a gumar Saharan complicated Omar and this is where the McLucas is they had a mini to burn the personal items the clothing and like when a king died and the Chimera says not that camera donor Basin up uh six the taste it says from there you see even though it makes sense it's for covet nobody else can use those things we still need a deposit because wouldn't have thought of it ourselves it is ball - kiss that stasis is Raya that we're not so quick to pick it up unless it's exam so positive and we have a pussing indicating this was the minikin class all before we don't do it anymore the equivalent lajas bill is retiring a number of baseball player what we might get to baseball weathers hookahs same if you have a game that you might be going to and you solve the priestess issue and the coldly show with the national anthem and the seventh inning god Bless America and all the other issues the good news is Rama sure says it's not Lucas am so I have to solve all the other issues but if you solve all the other issues and you're sitting in a seat that doesn't have all the other issues and when the national anthem comes on you put on my sheer and you listen to Lucas a.m. and and you're sitting there mara says it's the terror maybe it's my shift late scindia's all sorts of other choice names for it but he says it's not hookah saying because they're having a good time and we understand makes sense you could say the rules could be this way that was could be that way but they're running around having a good time so that's not interesting enough baseball apple pie like the things that are so Americans I may says that's not focus aim because we can explain what they're doing I said about counterintuitive you have a lot of things where you start off and you think okay well this gotta be motor be is doing it that's got to be uh sir and sometimes it's the exact opposite as we will describe one other header in the macabre somebody's carved lamellas you ever hear the expression When in Rome do as the Romans do now the classic Lukas a malaria so if you're dressing up top gonna look like them to blend in to hear about the Xavier Sakamoto salon and help get them repealed it's muhtaram and the pest we discussed why is a mutter if it's directs our consul forces already the macabre and if it's not quite a mother it seems to be ahead sir that when you're clearly doing it with a different intent even though you're trying to probe on a long-term jane danger you just want to be there if there's a danger in the next 20 30 40 years that would be motor business move are you doing it just to blend in for your reasons of the security long-term security political action of of Kleiser all needs and not because of hookah Sam needs further Hesburgh but we will go on to the examples let me just discuss the Thanksgiving even though we're going to go through the calendar in a moment but Thanksgiving is a fascinating one because our past Kim held it was completely mutter there many oh he'll do a straight focus Sam emotions I mention has a few different choose was lengthy chooses where he takes the opportunity to explain what the good arm are because you have to explain it for Thanksgiving I measure has no problem with giving thanks no problem with showing patriotism to your host country obviously it's not an issue such a live fourth won't be an issue fireworks on July 4th to go watch or to shoot them off just make sure you know what you're doing we they just became legal in Rockland County so my children asked me if they could buy some I said I'd rather not if you buy it you can carefully get somebody who knows that they're doing and shoot them off on July 5th or 6th and and you can have a good time we have a backyard so if it lands somewhere else it'll still be my backyard I hope and it won't crash into anything why did I say July 15 6 if that sort of misses the mark it's probably motor fireworks or expression of symptom I get a little nervous because if you see enough examples even what you're gonna hear tonight fire is always very questionable because anything involving fire usually involved avodah Zarah and the fire gods and and the amount know about fireworks that all came from the Chinese and the Far East which is all of it as our so I'm a little nervous about it below Mesa not nervous enough to answer it if you want to do in July 4th fine the advantage of doing in the fifth or sixth first we can get a better deal in the fireworks and second of all at least you don't have to be doing it on there hugger to self all things are equal why not I don't believe it's officer because it is a pretty international expression of of Simpson so get it back to Thanksgiving no fireworks on Thanksgiving we have Turkey and interesting enough I made sure get stock on the turkey he has no problem with the giving thanks no problem with the day off helps us learn and go to legal Howell this year that's gevalt ik malaysia wants to know what's this mishegoss about the turkey interesting you know from Asia in the discussion seems to be assuming turkeys kosher which is a big stigma because you need them as siren birds and we don't have any massara because the patching Indians didn't have them as server to give it to us so it's a problem and they were looking for a quick spice route to the West Indies and that's why it's called a zoo because they thought they discovered India quite complicated and they said of course there's my server it's India's close enough to Europe but it's not Indian Birds an American bird so the Shiley is there close enough to a chicken basically to give us a massager and most people eat turkey major cash organizations give that sure there are you feed them who don't throw most she seems to be assuming scarce doesn't mention a word about the contras of it he talks about the hook as I am and he says because he holds that the sagir really points to the fact that if something is silly even if it's not rude enough others arm and it's not preach the stick they dressed the turkeys well on Thanksgiving so nothing preaches dick and everything is wonderful but it's silly while hopping on a turkey for what's with the turkey so again I'm a fifth generation American believe it or not so I'm sure somebody's been having turkey for a while we don't have it but we were almost on the Mayflower so I had some reason to start asking around what is with the turkey so I got a hold of the original menu of that original meal believe it or not they they have it it's not such ancient history and of course almost she's always right even though I'm a sure saying with this das Tegra the men who was very long and they had primarily deer a lot of fish and in the list somewhere was turkey hop on the turkey for it so we all think we know the answer the answer is everything in America's marketing waiting in a market a deer a cow it's good flesh good steak but that doesn't really fly either the turkeys but it's like how's this gonna work so they hopped on a turkey represented a new world bird so they hopped on the turkey so it's funny how we're all ok with that reason Ramona thinks that's absolutely ridiculous you have it a whole jump if all around a turkey he said that's silly if it's silly it's Clicquot saying and he doesn't have a tosser it but he's more nice little firmer than Akula he says at the end noon if you do it don't do it every year hopefully Iver and I get the shine all the time that said don't make World War three have somebody from a family truely's coming in he can't go for their holidays for that fall goes and he can't go for his and Turk like Turkey and Thanksgivings the only thing they can have a meeting of the minds so it's not us there's not us or I might show leaves you a pass off with our post-game for more makeup no more mouth mere Lamaze I tell them you have to do it every year better not eat in the dining room table disjunctive yummy no Ryan Thanksgiving try not to hold the cranberry sauce don't make all the pictures you don't need everything there and try not to do it that's all made sure suggests but he's not comfortable with it because your holds the sauce in heels we should pass can even if the sauce even though we know it's not rude enough others are and we know it's not rooted in cashews that's an important your site and the others who were Michael say knows where I'm more really only asset elites of the key shows inclusion it's silly but at least we know why they did it they marketing they picked the most interesting animal on the menu and the whole thing was interesting they had like out number two to one white men to Indians it was a very small suitor but and didn't catch on right away but as things went on and there are those who hold is absolutely also because it's not cookus I am it came straight from their photos era because as Christians the country they put a fourth to thank their version of God and the history is on their side in terms of it being a religious holiday we have both sham a separation of church and state so it's nice on the wall books it's not a religious holiday and hence the Michaela Murray she is not overly concerned with that he's just concerned about the turkey so that's the Thanksgiving we're going to begin with the calendar we're gonna go back to Halloween so for Thanksgiving and we covered it and there's some fascinating shila's preaching to the converted over here nobody here is trick-or-treating however there were many many people in the 1890s and 1920s and 30s and 40s and who were doing that because they had enough of a struggle figure out what we can do what we can't do so this is not impinging the yerushalayim of the previous there is it just it was struggling with a lot and they came on like bubble when they came to the first godless and everything was set up do the miserable Carbajal we weren't said to that Rock'em is we didn't deserve it apparently and it was a lot of disarray so no what could be wrong with some Hershey chocolates in a bag and some costumes we have costumes I'll get to that soon should we we have the customs different art of the year we have costumes also what could be so bad well Halloween is probably the classic example of a clear clear incident so Lucas I'm the guy you might not know it the hidden certainly didn't know it I'm not talking about the candy bars that were traif and then kosher and they forget a kosher I don't forget all that that was another problem also but these are hella gay they're just trying to figure out what's going on some people asking so the kids wanted to go how often can you say no they didn't know that it's an Isetta right so Halloween is based on heavy heavy sources in averroes our ekishu of Nijo superstition ghosts goblins the dead the lives everything in between it's you don't need to know this if they're doing funny things then it's Oster else hookah Siam happens to be that this is a classic because the game today your average kid in the street will say now I just collect candies and throw eggs penny what neighborhood I'm in and we have a good time so that he doesn't know and he doesn't have to know but it's classic look the same and it's also to participate if you live in a neighborhood where they're coming to you and own a dock a showroom you have to give then give that's not called participating that's called Ava and danke Shoen and that clearly is motor December 25th light off the comet on you don't need the so give cookus I am too after that I mention it because it's an important springboard a lot of people don't know this and it's I'm not here to attack anybody's plan also and they shoul happen also and I always down the COS plus the hidden don't know any better but to celebrate in any form whatsoever January first is I said there ice and totally out of control there are restaurants in the ten twenty thirty forty range in any any newspaper but some newspapers and some other means of communication that have special menus and party rooms and they're just missing information it's not a secular holiday it's a religious holiday there are thousand rise to this this is one of those things you need a little a minute to calm him I researched all of this heavily as a matter of fact in the middle of this year like three months into the sodium I asked some of the guys if they can get a resident gala to sit here with us we get everything right we didn't need it often and it would look look funny way sitting there with the collar upside down you know whatever but it's it's tied in with December twenty-fifth it's a religious holiday before it was a Christian holiday it was a pagan holiday by the Romans there are sources it started as a religious holiday and it's irrelevant if today everybody's celebrating in a secular way by drinking and carrying on first of all that itself is a mini go pizzas so that would answer it anyway but you don't need that just know the history or at least know when there's a shine law we know when Russia Sean is that's not surprising about this why do you even need what need to hear this I asked people and they say I understand Halloween is like instantly I didn't know that's January first it's the only time I can have some champagne I looked him I said are you thinking for a moment that that's our Isham C's odd I know it's not Irish on the Holly was not our Shana is there a Shoshana I said you ever learn myself to Rosh Hashanah it's abundantly clear that Rosh Hashanah is Rosh Hashanah for hidden and got him and every other line and dava ting and Rosh Hashana says that buffet ish and they don't have another Hashanah even though every country has their own although but that's like anything else what they make up when they go all the way there's no shock us anything and it's sources are in pagan superstitions and more recently Christianity and it's all stirred to celebrate in any form or fashion and tell that to some people they say oh it's good to know I'm gonna stop doing it and sometimes I hear comments like so what do I do that night I said it's not Knittle you can learn what do I do that night you go tonight Seder exactly I don't know exactly why you weren't the night side of that night in the other years but there's no Hester to have this and the offices that have holiday parties are politically correct enough suddenly New York to have a generic holiday party Nayla December 25th is no one's there not a January 1st if you have to be there you go to pump some hands and show them you're there and get lost as quickly as possible because the whole moths of is not a place where any venturi should be which is painfully obvious to anybody who's ever been to one of these but guess January 1st is a classic example of hookah Sam it's worse but at least look the same if you didn't know that it might people who never eyes are you know it's not our hug and it's not a hug oh then we can't be celebrating it Valentine's Day did I skip any in between I'm not that familiar with the calendar even though I give a share on this Valentine's Day why not luther king my list okay am i under the king you can give tribute to the civil rights movement and we have that's all whatever yeah you can you can be happy we live in a free country but that way and the civil rights hopefully have helped all the minorities we hope yeah not Knittle we we skipped that was December 25th yeah no that's just too much like as weather December 2015 7 2015 look like they keep the Hitler of not learning I know they do ok you're all invited to Muncie we'll figure something out I've no time to Dominica's a macaron but hurry Kate their ship you have them in egg and you take care of all the other things you can learn every other night of the year it's caval dick but yes the other ones more correct just based my calendar so kiddush that any big it's the first one but that's a difference movies we can't explain every minute a Valentine's Day although there was a very high-profile wonderful ball stalker Yid who made his fortune on Valentine's cards that's caval Vic if you can you know I have no problem with that but and and he's selling mostly to a problem with that don't have an issue the racers who co-signed Evan is the race of a desert but they don't have Xavier the race of Cougar st. Valentine's Day has no shows what's right for both reasons number one it's preachers dick in his nature if you want to show you our curves to tell you then you're alpha to the ones special people in your life so do it every day or want you do what they says no mission get her a gift for salt rebellin that's a fee of the razor so that would be a good place to start valentine's Day is just I don't say it's a waste of money but it's it's it's an Isetta Raisa happens to be the Valentine's Day the valve apart is also rooted in the Greek gods again of Zara Keisha from the like straight there without doing much research and that would make it classic Lucas I am so know even if it's expected although if somebody very close to you expects it please have them call me I baited this to certain people and they said no not for me I'm asking for a friend we've been here too long if valentine's day is being celebrated in your house or any other neighbor in Flatbush but you know what if they don't know well we try to teach them and yes it's not just a display of a cars LaFave it's any sadder ASA what's bizarre and very troubling is now in 80 strong secular and not yet from well intended Israelis took to bars and kidnapped it and hijacked it and made it into a Jewish Valentine's Day it has no cyclists whatsoever two bars a day maybe will be wretched do comes they should get married it doesn't talk about what you should be saying or doing after you're married no shackles whatsoever and because copying look I am and we were Jewish so we need a Jewish Valentine's Day the Valentine anybody is a saint usually has a lot of blood on his hands and that's where it starts and it gets worse as you go backwards in history the next one might surprise you how can we pick on a good old groundhog but once I started giving a lot of sheer amigas of the of the SU gear was that I'm usually talking to intelligent people Boko Shem and they started realizing this also got here that we're really as Americans not too familiar with and what I was able to get across is everything is suspect till you have a good reason you want a class example something is absolutely insanely ridiculous go watch a groundhog and plan your vacation based on that it's totally nonsensical now the groundhog is not Pizza stick bad Sam the fact that I can't believe intelligent people still actively do this why they doing this that's classic Luca same with a half a minute I like using word mini because reserved for a hey ligament Hagen it's a custom to have a custom makes absolutely no sense happens to be it is routed I'm not surprised rooted in a bizarre and quiche of many ways it's astounding how civilized call it that long they said that in pre-war Germany also but how the modern secular man is still doing things they have no clue - Minich of a sandhya them and go back a thousand years fifteen hundred years that's all in superstitions and if one we're still doing it the groundhog lobanov a lot been banished on na'vi their approval and success rate is well below 40% I could do a better job and I know nothing about the weather it's the whole thing is someone saying now they have two groundhogs in they have my ficus every year it's ridiculous so the good news is most people aren't participating unless you're the mayor of New York or something like that and the only way you could be over the sister is to actually look up in the paper the next day what did mr. groundhog say and I want to plan my spring was it to be warm or cold if you're actively taking that even one ounce of seriousness even a half an ounce of curiosity you're getting dangerously close to this because then you're participating in this mishegoss and as I said they have a terrible track record and it is rooted in avodah Zarah and superstitions so you'd be amazed okay the next two I love them together because they're absolutely perfectly fine that's a perfectly fine day to learn all day and night Memorial Day and Labor Day no lush and harder to say about them Morial day people fought for the country respect them and Labor Day the masses the socialist masses Democrats or whatever you want to call them are getting a day off and that's fine so you want to have a day off and there's nothing there's no holidays there's nothing to mark so somebody asked me you could tell we're four months into this year some he said he's a little concerned he thinks maybe having a barbecue as cook Oh Sam I said no that's the sushi hunter we have a barbecue because they have a barbecue and we have a barbecue for the same reason that tastes good so there's no to my knowledge I didn't investigate this heavily there's no official way to have a barbecue you have to have got go for hamburgers seven hotdogs there's no no rules and regulations you have a barbecue people are off why I'm over for dinner the kaname my share said now they think it might be a shy living is that the race sir because this whole scene looks very American I said call me a Michael I think it's motor so they have Memorial Day Labor you have a barbecue on July 4th if you want Lamesa as long as they're not frying your fish on the same barbecue which I thought everybody knew was pushing but this past Memorial Day somebody asked me that he said well how else am I supposed to have my fish in my it's a first of all the fish to fry in a sushi second of all you're using the same thing and it's pretty greasy like what are you thinking fish and meat you like you change your fork so there are conscious concerns about how you do a barbecue I don't believe there is a hooker same issue similarly July 4th and Presidents Day July 4th I'm a little concerned about the fireworks I think Lamesa they're not all sir and Presidents Day ash I Love Lucy Farnham can you tell other stories that probably never happened about how Honest Abe was and how Washington did cut the cherry tree and then he said we do and then he did chuhwa and he went through the hall I don't believe any stories happened but is there an SLS opponent so I was asked recently an interview about this we were talking about ball games and the issues of following sports and our lysing the players which was a new solo Sakana Sakana detail on pain that's a big problem forget your the game just stay clear the pretest kaliesha don't stay too long because you need to relax but you need six hours to relax that's almost as much of lay some bit solitary issue man he said I'm not holding there anywhere okay so you have to see how long you need to relax and there's no hookah same issue but if you talk about how wonderful the players are and what fantastic people they are and looking to throw the ball just to say oh this is the race now try to put what she's doing anyway put a coach bajo into the equation say look at the great sewing arm rush em gave him or look at that guy even though he's a maneuver Lucas screams some of them are some of them aren't he still knows how to throw a ball something like that you're not creating an an idol over here and you're calling a spade a spade and and you you shouldn't get involved in that which is playing the sports is perhaps good exercise it's the following and getting it to that culture so Presidents Day I don't know if it's even politically correct today to give a compliment any president dead or alive so maybe we don't have a problem with this issue but the Shila I think there are I is that if the person is no longer alive than those ELISA honey because this is to come close to them not just the Uman so I think there is room to be make all the person ask me how can we teach it in social studies and they say over these stories is it authorized I don't think it's also I don't think it's true the story but I don't think it's also so that's pretty pretty power of Presidents Day Mother's Day and Father's Day a little complicated because the one hand it's a bit of a head over to us to pick one day when you have leave the rice in this as the dippers to do it every day and unfortunately they're there game who do keep them well there are those who send the card I hope American Greetings on on Father's Day Mother's Day and not much in between that's just us if you're highlighting one day it's hard to say Oh sir because so no I try to do it every day we try to express it in a tangible way it's a very good idea for the American thing but again what's not a sir is not all sir if your parents expected I'm more worried about them getting aggravated that you didn't give them breakfast in bed and or whatever else they do in these days and if you didn't know was Mother's Day and they didn't know which is what happens in my house and my type in my name but you got to know if it's not all sir then why no I'm saying if they're expecting it in you don't and there's gonna be China then what's not ulcer is not ulcer next kula I actually have a we're almost on even ground the Black Friday so some she wanted to answer this Black Friday it's beginning of their hugger the holiday season I said I'm aware of that it's also marketing and this is your marketing and if you have a retail store and you want to sell as nothing do the focus I was vindicated this summer last summer somebody told me somebody told me they're having Black Friday in the mova summer which is their Stickle sacrilegious the answer is there's nothing to do with religion it's a marketing gimmick and they realized why do it once a year you could do it twice a year the mom is ridiculous but sheet awesome it's insane but if it sounds more product they're willing to do whatever it takes and that's my Riya that it's not all sir and it's not saying even though originally was tied in with the beginning of their season and similarly they have this thing afterwards they call Boxing Day where everybody starts returning all the things they didn't like in the first place which is extreme lack of a cursive type so don't do that if you get something for Hanukkah which I'll get to soon because that's a problem perhaps but you can guess on the clavicle Sheil is how we'll get to it in a moment so Lamesa the fact that these things are around there huggers doesn't make a cooker same if it's all marketing and returns and that's fine let me go to how to code because Hanukkah is a is a big issue many have this feeling and the feeling is kind of obvious many have this feeling that there's something going on in America where in Europe they weren't doing this moment where they were they weren't but someone not to the extent we're doing it and there are families that give money and Families give a lot of money and the families would give gifts and the families who wrap the gifts if you come downstairs and they're a bunch of gifts wrapped onto the menorah we have a big problem that I will tell you so it's frightfully you know something's growing on us and how does he the same time of year and there's something suspicious about it with that said what's not ulcer is not all sir and their pace game in America who tried in the ashes the mini gov and it was a mini Rankin says there was a minute to send money to the Robin al Qaeda con they sent with the kids and kids carrying monies they wanted to get in on it and then others add that it's stolen simple I'm Conoco China maybe but there might be it then simpler and is a yontiff and therefore just like this we'll see if the rice as a vegetable for to get your children and your family presents on children : so - this is a yachtie meat robot on and therefore there was a minute in europe i asked somebody whose grandfather was in germany I picked Germany because in Eastern Europe it's hard to know because if they had them any most people couldn't afford it is enough what to eat quite often in Western Europe they had a little more money he said his father his grandfather actually was in Germany upper-middle class and he asked him and he said they had no such many it's not a ride just one country well my son there is a traumatic so if you're doing it in your house you have what to rely on there some who gave certain days the days that never fall shop is their various mahogany glycerol Lamesa don't overdo it because if we're feeding into the marketing and we're giving every single nights and it goes told me every night and they don't spoil them it just goes up they start off with something very low value and then they get into the thousands by the end of Hanukkah I was nervous he was gonna tell me he was doing that for 12 days so sorry I guess this is I'm being sarcastic but this a lot of this is suspect its motor just don't go overboard okay this is the introduction it's already tend to let's go to birthdays that's always a very hot topic so they're too shy Liz celebrating birthdays is that hookah same as that come from the guy named does it not hi scam have many to verse on it there is for and against some say the only birthday we see highlighted and who Misha spiral and that's not good company and the discussion okay that's one that's one angle Tara doesn't highlight it and said other Salem I said there are some birthdays that are involved 60th birthday first since brush em out of me sedation I am it doesn't mean Ramon salons somebody who didn't make it got it that was his amount of years but it is a milestone of IBA says himself celebrated in some sort they bring down so I'm safer that maybe even a chef yellow by 70 biz that summation I serve and now he's getting extra so there are mahogany bar mitzva is a marsh Loma there are certain benchmarks what gets everybody very confused is the even more fiery debate on bas Mitzvah ROM Misha has two troopers on this and he says there's no Makara it was never the Minich and it was never mentioned in previous years and it shouldn't be done it comes straight from the reformed took a train from the Christians and you have to be suspect because that is all of a sudden it made either a comeback or it just came and it would be a very strange coincidence the Christians have the twelfth birthday as a as a as a highlight then the reform copied everything from the organ and their temple copied from the church to possibly the BAS Mitzvah with that said so I'm not sure is not a fan at all so to speak I'll just save as a juvenile meaning they quote a Benesch five sometimes it's miss quoted that I didn't say you should celebrate it and make all party he said if it's being done he likes the minute ago at least getting her a new dress and talking to her about all mitzvahs and marking it in some way which I think by the way is where it landed in our community it's I hope it's where Atlantis sometimes is a bit overdone but to market in some way there is a lion in a private setting the family a couple of friends fine to make a big bash we're still suffering from the bar mitzvahs so before I even get to the bus mitzvahs and Rahmi she clearly is concerned about the source and historically there are those argue we had it first and just say says that Shuvo there are markers mothers frightened and their true was written already in Germany that we had it even though that's where the reform started but they were defending it that the girls need it and they need encouragement which which they do but again in a very toned down version because the hype about it in terms of source is hardly suspect because it's not suspect we know why it got popular to the extent that it did the birthdays themselves Bar Mitzvah bas Mitzvah even 60-70 whatever you're celebrating if you're doing it every year ya have what to rely on the milestones you use it in the context of you know the year you think of Carrboro who yes for another year after that even though we do that Arshad I'm Kippur there are some very very strange things going on in terms of the significance I am and primarily around the cake there arm Icarus this is this part is not push it I'm Icarus that the whole thing with the round cake was worshipping the moon and that you could take her leave because you ever won why matzah was by default around and had to make a whole complicated machine to make them square because if you take a round ball and you keep hitting it and it goes that it's normally things around so it's easier to make a mold with it's round it's not such a kasha why you have a round cake who goes rushing round so that wouldn't be a to you still it goes very much downhill from there you're talking about candles as I mentioned before often when you have fire there's something rude enough others are and didn't first of all candles used to be caused a trace paraffin is not we wouldn't put candles in a cake we also many of omitting not to block candles that's not term escena either yes I am he doesn't see a problem blowing out candles your grandmother will tell you not to and don't start up with your grandmother and there are sources why you shouldn't well my so whether you do whether you don't it was never a popular minute das gotta have candles and blow them out and that's Make A Wish after you blow out candles if you haven't yet figured out in the last 45 minutes that serious cooker same territory then go back to the video and stop doing that's a disaster the whole game you can take apart each thing and maybe defend the round cake and maybe defend the birthday in the first place which is much like is celebrating it did it come from power or not then celebrate in a way where you're serving food and maybe giving gifts putting candles on them sticking into the cake and blowing them out of make a wish is way over the top so I've said this so many people that can't believe it's such an entrenched American custom I said yeah American custom the Eastern Europeans are doing it and the little I've run on it it was all immersed in superstitions and others are in Kisha for nutrition the like we shouldn't be doing it there's no reason to be party to sort of thing no pun intended and you want to serve cakes or cake we don't need the candles again this sodium whenever you're learning is so gear you want to be make all you want to be mock me first figure out if we're dealing with a possible lucid eraser and if we are and you don't really need it you don't need a desk you know desperate for a cool why get into the territory so it's certainly not not a great let's continue yeah I think the round is also okay that's the easiest thing to me ashes i kibosh and oddly enough what's called like even though he was when the longest living people he got Ike you know the cause I'll tell us he came Tom Medina Pesach I'm if he knows making round matches of course he said have machine monsters yet and he yes the mother was and he was the spoil he told arity about this cookie this cake there's a lot more to say on that but it's not a sure abortion was a lot of us over there why he what his purse was to live so long and he had us some elements of rush Gnaeus but it was round and when they date it was rounds that that wouldn't bother me so much but the candles and if you hear the first 10 minutes of this Sylvia you will get very nervous some candles and wishes and prayers and muttering things under your breath even if you're saying I'll kill Molly here you're saying to people tell them we don't blow candles and pray it's just and it's a game but then we get to have no clue why and that's why we're nervous about the hooker Sam again you know dr. Shalom if you're not participating if not asking you to blow which sometimes is the case tell them you're all winded you just came from the sheriff hooker Sam and you have no strength left and that will hopefully get them asking like what you saying this year and it'll give you a pass off to say that this might be a fee of Marcus but you know if you just stand to the side and you can't think anywhere yes you could be present because it's not live neither if making the party anyway okay a few of the middle hugging by she Dukan so somebody asked me is it cooker saying think of a diamond ring when you get engaged I told them you're not getting out of this one I knew where this is coming from I know people ask questions as probably invented by Jews they controlled the diamond industry as they do control all the world banking and everything else so and there's a McLaren the Gomorrah they sent Thomas you get a gift does that have to be a Thomas they said mob shall be uh sir what's with the diamond this crazy minute I said I'm okay with this Akane amande the cheaper versions nobody could tell the difference but if she finds out you're gonna be in big trouble so I would stick with it because it's a nice gift that's not cool cos and if it makes sense you give a jewel you give jewelry that someone's no problem with it I do have an issue and please tell your friends because I first heard this during the shear and I thought the guy was making it up and then I heard it again and again and I've heard it 50 times it is straight straight out of the so key of what you shouldn't be doing there are bokram bar Hashem who get to the point where they're proposing kebab leak the moment we're waiting for it I can't figure out the life of me who would think in their wildest nightmare that you should get down on your knees and propose like where are you allow your honor from home we don't get down on our knees for anybody even our wife when we hold them in the highest esteem where it's its priestess if you get down on your knees okay so a few bottom Esmee so I promise I'm not doing all the shame of a desert I said I I wouldn't even accuse you of deifying your color because that would be too nice but so we don't get we have you have to know when something's a gosh I mean if we don't get down on our knees I've had I've had electricians the construction workers ask you know for the job they got to get down there can they go down the knees the answer is yes if you have no other way to do it even that there was it there was an intuition that my grandmother told me don't get that manie's we don't get that on our knees number one number two the whole Mahalo you're proposing getting married the whole mouth is a very sensitive thing and you ever have a balance between preachers and Smith's and the whole thing is straight from the glacier culture people have told me that after hearing this they now understand why it should be absolutely also to open the door for her in the date it happens to be that there are I don't get myself too much trouble over here I said the one thing we know for sure which never ends up happening is if you open it in the day you should open it when you're married also and they thought I was going much too far with that so where does it come from this is from the gyeom again we're not against you want to always open door for her because she's holding the baby she's only thinking II don't wanna have him wait in the rain caval dick then be consistent if you're doing it because you're trying to show chef really is not dead and you're a knight from medieval England that's not very Yiddish I can't say it's inherently preaches take that example but if your sons are going out just advise them I don't like saying things are an absolute as the writer this is not very Jewish it was never done and they tell me it caught on like wildfire there's no reason to get down on your knees you could say the same nice thing which should be short and sweet without getting down your knees and why should we adopt things that are clearly goyish and stance and I just thought it was bizarre and I told my son who's a Hassan that if anybody even mentions the idea please send them to me and nobody came but I think he did it the right way so I just don't think it has a place and was never part of our meaning we shouldn't make these things up and somebody asked me well we never had a minute to propose that's not true it's a favor Gomorrah that you have to when it's a priestess if you get married without proposing it's also dangerous so we have a system we don't we don't make things up and certainly getting down on your knee one knee to knee whatever it is there is a Shilo standing up by a hope of the minute clearly is that most people stand up when the Carson and kala come in the question and the place came is where in the world has come from Malaysia was very against it because I Mischa held it was straight Lucas I am from the guy am who stand up when they come in and I should did not get up rank you have held that there was a source for the mission of be calm when something's about to do a mitzvah you respect them I standing up they brought the procurement you shall I am and the people the tradesmen would get up for them I lose the sushi fell because getting married quite the rush is not a mitzvah it's on the ashram its loom even according to the Rambam it's not Hermits together for the false and not the kala and that already looks strange well my most people are doing it somebody told me it has nothing to do with any of these people just wanted to see and everybody was standing up and looking over everybody else okay then it's not hookah same if it's a practical thing it's clearer than in Europe they never had this many because nobody ever sat they were standing Genesee is a famous picture in Europe of the hope oh it's a very famous painting they were standing they were in the hot stove the base catalysis and they were standing they didn't put down chairs she couldn't stand up because you were standing already so to say this was the minute in Europe is completely wrong so now we have something I started in America the question is can you imagine it or not it's that a good example everything has to be examined over here many of the meaning and that is the Minich I'm gonna round out the hospital before we go on to the next item and that is for those of you marrying off your last child this mashenka is bizarre that's a nice word is it absolutely uh sir I'm a big fan of Queretaro and when something's already happening on the ground even though it was probably started it was not probably started it was definitely started by people who were not from I traced it this old Milligan Kleist roll back to the 1922 the klezmer bands that's as far as I got back you're not gonna get any farther if you do you're reading a forged document there is no such custom in class all's not such minik and you wanna have a curse a toad you married off your last child it's like a valve leakage simcha you want to dance more you want to dance through the night mitzvah times depends if you're not learning on it'll so you'll you'll figure it out the whole special tune which is probably some Hungarian folk dance that's a different problem getting it to guys your music which can be hookah Sam but it depends how good you should have preachers think it is even if this is relatively tame I never stayed around for it oh exactly what it sounds like Lamesa we don't have not only because of the fairy tales we don't do well with people coming in with brooms and I know they have a trap they retrofitted the whole thing it's a Sinan you want a brush we from out of the house you don't want the back let's see you don't want the back I want my kids back every week each one comes every other week so no no no you don't want to back the bad way that's the broom somebody betcha I don't know somebody made the whole thing up and now it's like terramycin I says not tearing me scene I it's because she motor and if you see people doing it so you said what if you're at a Hassan and they're doing it call me I may go again to make them alcohol where it might be it's certainly not not a medic is it perv enough that you can't ask for it and slam somebody with a Kia malthus for this so yeah possibly it's mighty strange so I missed a sham plan unless it's gonna start World War three with my Mac wooden I have ways to go of not having it and I don't make many conditions that I marry off my children this mr. Shem will be one of them and if there's major pushback and that's the only Marcus we have I'm just saying this now if you come to my class and I'm out there don't blame me but Lamesa it's not our meeting no one's arguing it was our minik the Shiley is how bad is it so when something is strange and there are theories that they traced it to some back roads in some village in Czechoslovakia Hungary or something and the guy and we're doing it then that's not good if you trace it back there but to say it's absolutely all sir can't go on record as saying I'm just not comfortable with it okay we have an hour and 20 minutes on the CD six minutes okay I will be giving as I said of thought of kazaar Muncie I'll be giving part two so wherever you do Hazara from this one you get part two then go back to the 74 of the other ones you'll have a slower version this charter comes up in the office a lot I move into the life cycle on the calendar so there are two issues one is there's a constant fight with Obamacare and the crisis in health care over the last 10 years or so it's hard to get good health care and the prices keep going up so sometimes the boss offers if you pay in $15,000 well cover it's very very expensive as you all know recent years that have these health share companies this is a big problem I'm not going to do justice to it now but this is actually no gala on my saw too many people even if not going to birthday parties or not dancing with brooms and not doing any of the other things people need health insurance a lot of people can't afford it they have health shares out there now there's one on the from auspices it's not an advertisement for them I'm sure they're trying to do a good job but they patted that after the one which is extremely problematic there are many of them out there most of them are church based and when you look at the paperwork it's appalling because I was evolved in the sukhiya I gave Moses Sherm I started getting him four years ago and I got calls from the people involved in the Midwest and these things we're trying to correct it and maybe make the wrong which they did already the ones that are very popular I used by many from people again I'm not gonna say it's all sir but Aska Shiloh the thing you have to sign has a list of beliefs you have to sign on to with clear references to a voters era and Christianity and Josh got all these things and they fixed it up a couple years ago but there's another line that says and you check this box you're also agreeing to everything else in this 55 page small prints well I have to read 55 pages of small print and guess what it's a lot of pretty bad stuff tucked in there so your great-grandparents might have been killed rather than say when the Costas came at the town they could stay in town I believe in something and it is your heart forever to sign it that's those who wanted to say without Araya that yeah you don't really mean it you're just finding it I have a better idea when the Crusaders coming to town come on why don't you just say it not mean it why is every two getting killed the answer is this is serious stuff to say it sign it or whatever the case may be happens to be behind the scenes I'm still working on fixing it up and we got them recently to agree to another version which we marked up and crossed out many many many lines and we asked them to think and he said they said fine because business is business and that's good with that they don't have to be doing it lachemann and that works but do not if you have one look at what you signs read all of it if you don't be careful before you sign it that's not just kouko-san that's a Shai loading module but Azhari even though you're clearly doing it because it saves money but you can clearly do it to save your life and in Simon cook lasagna or there it was assumed throughout all the generations that it was often it's a very serious thing the oarfish aisle that comes up when you're not talking about which health plan you're being given is when the boss's mother dies he's a very devout nice Italian fellow and you know where your bread is buttered and the boss's mother passed away and you got to come to the funeral so you can't walk into a church that's the first day sir that's all sir no more comment on that if it's in a funeral home they usually have a viewing the viewing the mimic the custom of a viewing is kouko-san and we're not setting them up we didn't put the lipstick on him and the Rouge and usually they look better than they did before they died so we didn't do all that but walking by the procession and participating in the viewing is a problem it's sometimes a political liability enough to be able to do it and if you're faced with a possible hesed that s kosher law I think there might be some wiggle room and there might be what to discuss but Lila if you send a nice card you send flowers or you go to the outside and say I'm just here we shook it all to shake his hand and better even to give them give them a hug and tell them you feel really bad but you don't really want to come in for the viewing you say you're queasy make up some nice story it's that's called being Machado minute dr. shom and then it's motor participating is an issue I mentioned two more quick things because we're almost out of time somebody had asked me is there any I might ask me this also a classic example some of these are more great some of them I believe I'm not fully Oh sir you can't what I stay on the mic okay I think everybody's hearing me loud and clear so far maybe you wish you wouldn't heard some of it so somebody asked me about the thing that he does in the city when it goes to Manhattan all the time they have a lot of parks and fountains and in these fancy of doing this I think a lot of us have been doing it they have a custom they go and they throw pennies in and quarters so right away I heard this I said it's zip - of the ricer because Jews don't throw away money that's the first thing so so can't be a Jewish custom when you throw away see said no no I wanted to go in and pick them up now yeah that would be a pillow sham where did this come from so if you're a to to this already this classic example hooker Sam it was hard to fire freshwater for centuries in Europe when they finally found quite often a Germany this is rampant they used to put an idol right by the well that the idol should the gods should bless the water source they shouldn't lose it and every time they drew water they would take a kopeck and throw it to the idol so the idol should keep giving them fresh water you ask average grade today never heard of it what do you do I don't know Rockefeller posi I throw pennies in that's classic vintage so tell somebody gonna sound by your hair to share tonight this is the rights of throwing pennies he's gonna say uh ball toss kiss now pennies not a chauffeur boot I don't think about that you having a good time what should be ball touchless so you can't explain this in a sound bite but I think you're with me until now this is I wasn't so not surprised when I found out where who would be crazy enough to throw money into a pond the answer is there was a God there with a fountain and they had to please the gods so they were sacrificing to the God I don't have to tell you at this point about the nefarious evil Tooth Fairy do I there people do this you have to do you have to never have heard of this little Kasane Luis Alejo any custom that depends on fairies and ghosts and goblins which is part of the Halloween scene here it's a nice fairy and she brings money so besides the fact that a lot of your kids you know you can't tell them that the Tooth Fairy brought 25 cents maybe now is $25 and you can't say that she came through the chimney either and you can't there are all sorts of crazy things people tell the kids you can't lie that's first of all second of all this is again hookah saying based on superstitions these Christians alike and they you if your kid is crying because the tooth fell out you can give them some ice cream or ices do something else but don't make a quarter appear under the pillow and mention anything about fairies you can give them cash will never be refused you said you're crying here have a ten there's no hookah same over there I think you're spoiling the kid rotten but there's no way sir a lot more to be said so I guess you'll tune in when I continue a Muncie next week and any questions we could take it after Meyer the u.s. 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