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welcome every Sunday we're going to be a
very important
topic. Someone got married and the first
week he was home with his new wife. She
made the and he gave her a piece of and
she took it and she made
a So after she finished he says what's
I'm not Jewish enough for you. Why don't
you use my bra? He never saw this that
the wife makes her own braha. And he
said besides that you lost Mishna. You
made a m on a piece of a cut piece of
kala. You lost your mishna. So he never
saw a difference. She did like she
always saw and never saw a difference.
the especially is they each make their
own but the question is how do you
understand that where he
make and also what's wrong
with you know that's one question then
another question for every especially by
night is there an in that the people
that are withishna have to have a piece
of the very often it's hot and break the
matzah into a lot of pieces we have it
in the camp where there's but there's
better
theum so they rather have from the than
the but I what was really interesting
someone a father told the son he always
came late he washed it took him a time
to wash cuz you know what if you come
late we're not waiting for you you're
not going to have so the child was you
know as slow as usual and he came
in and the father says see now you have
so the son he's a he took a piece of the
father's has
caught and made a
mighty and father says where's your go
what do you mean every shabas we do that
you make your own and I take your so
what's difference if it's 20 minutes
later might be right
yeah that's right what's the difference
if I make it right away I make it 20
minutes later so as we see we have our
our work cut out for today but we'll
soon see it's really neaya probably two
dozen other shilists and especially
and is coming. We'll even have a pur sha
but it's really a fascinating suga
because the truth is it's not only
shabas the beginning of it says that is
not only shabas
it's so besides 52 shabbas of the year
it's also the 12 days of
yam the embass I think we have to
clarify once and for all is one point
what is the of the mitzvah We'll soon
see. But what is theight
of to put it bluntly but very simply is
it to make
a or to eat to eat
a whatever it is of in other words we
have a mitzvah of shabas which also and
there the says in no uncertain terms at
the end of
our that to
have shabas you have to eat a kaz is I'm
sorry. So there shabas is very demanding
a plus of pass. Is that the mishna? So
then you'd have to have no less than a
kabay of pass. Perhaps each verse has to
have a pass or maybe the mitzvah is to
make
a to be
audo which you like better take a whole
grape a shol but there's no mitzvah for
all the people that y with your to to be
to eat a part of the shim. How do you
understand
regarding make a but there's no to have
a of the it's of the you make
a maybe also you have a make it on a but
who said you have to eat is it a mitzvah
of eating or a mitzvah of making the and
as we'll see there are many napka so as
we always do the right way to do things
is look at this the source
is in two
places
and in both places the
identical you notice it does not say a
word about we'll soon see the
is why do you have to have two because
the
inn now says
So it sounds like by the
way because it's based on a and indeed
the B says that if someone has limited
funds
on his choice is
either
orishnaishna goes
First is a and although it's
pursu is secondary which is we know how
important it is
but priority now many
argue argues
the says that
the is not like that but to make a long
Story short, even if it's not
a but it's definitely based on
a to make sure to have some say
it's but the plea to me and this week I
experienced I enjoyed it. There are
hundreds of chuvas literally hundreds of
chuvas written
about because we don't take it lightly
and that's why it should be
that because since
the is the pursu of the falling so has a
say
that the is taken to commemorate the
nest that It fell double. It must be
that. So now we have to rethink a little
bit our question and that basically
is do you have to have is in the
having or you
eating? So I'll give you
another I think this is a very good
illustration. If you ever have a bris
on, you'll see something very strange.
The the whoever gets the makes
a on the k of wine. That's the meaning
of and nobody
drinks. In other words, he makes the
buria holds the okay. So you give it to
the baby. The baby is not a bar. The
baby is never more than 8 days old.
Can't be because there's no manip. So he
makes a gin and who drinks a baby. How
does that work? The terret says when you
make
a you know is it's
make we say you don't have to drink the
wine. So
the is
make and start the sud
with why are you making two a week a
regular weekday you make one? The ter is
it gives to the suda it gives to the so
maybe that's the of it's not avah like
it's to have a to the to
the now I'll give you another but it's
really clear like this the
isol that the person makes the kdish
Friday and shabas he has to drink
but don't have to drink.
Okay, but both night and certainly day
is on the to drink because it's a and no
one else has to drink. Now how do you
understand
that? You have a
of now if you make a if the makes a
goffin he drinks but no one else has to
it could very well be that's the ofishna
the suda has to
begin with
what's why double like the fell double
but who said the others have to
drink and who says even the
madesh or the in this context the
Who said he has to have a it's making
the so what's interesting I gave you two
choices is it a in
the or is it in the suda you know what
the garra says
note to make the garra seems to say it's
breaking the the two the
But what's noteworthy and this I have to
I I need a little
bit in doesn't say anything about Rashi
in which is not really means to break
says
make Rashi was saying it's
a not a in the breaking and not
a
Now he's got he says that did not mean
the you know Rashi meant to say a person
might think he has a big huge and by the
time he finishes cutting it's going to
be a half. So maybe before you make
the cut it up. So no no lift make the
make the and then cut it. should be a
but now it seems that it's pretty
interesting that we have a choice of
explaining whatn
is eating or making and
even rashi
means so let me ask you a question a
very very thoughtprovoking question but
you see how and the embassy is not my
question all the asked this question
let's imagine you on the times of let's
see okay and what did you do according
to the you took old right it's a parish
good now could I ask you what you did
because there's no
making
that's so the question is the logistics
of it what did you do in the time before
they were messia
See we
associate but in the times of the before
the what they do what
do
they but that's not that's
only okay so you said maybe you said
your own but if he didn't you know the
is you started the suda with Mishna you
ate. So Tuesday,
Tuesday, you ate the chicken first. In
fact, there was no dinner because no, so
you ate ate fish first, then you had a
piece of No, no, no. Shabas, we started
with two Shabas had
of But we see
it's so now we see very clearly what's
going on here. It's not a den in eating.
It's a den in starting the suda with
kashivas and which might be another
lead. Today they make these mini kalas
mini ro they call them. And someone
asked me this morning, do
youn with that? What's the shila? The
many roles are maybe a kazay but not not
a kabaya. How much do you need minimally
for for something that should qualify to
be a mish? I'll give you three choices.
aa a kaz or who said you have to have a
in other words the shabis
that's has to have at least a little
more than a because it says and means a
but has to be so you have to have a but
more than that you have to have
a sh is very simple what's the size of
the kala that's qualified
a kabaya like the sudabis a kaz like a
typical or maybe as long as you have two
who said you have to have a kaz so the
embassies that go is a
that you have to have
a
most you don't need a it's
not shabas is totally in you have to
have a but why should why
Some hold. You have to have a kaz
because a gazay is on the map. But there
are enough poin that hold that even less
than a kaz. As long as you have a sh and
you're taking two of
them. So here's the point. If you hold
that a is enough or even less than
enough, how could it be a you have a
family I assume, right? So if you have
two small and has to go around for the
whole family evidently it's clear that
it's not a not a to eat a big amount the
is start your suda with something that
symbolizes but what's interesting is we
see a different insight
into the very end of the is talking
about a totally different context that
when I make
a no one should eat before I eat. None
of the should be eat
the so says you know
that's
on so if you have a situation only one
so let's say
the so since you have to listen to his
and eat
his don't eat
before he eats. And the rush quotes
this from we see a wealth of information
about is all about that the people that
are listening have to here is one and
eat from
the and this is why
the
follow and as well say to be we need two
conditions listen to
the and eat from his eat from his bread
and this is why you'll notice many
people have this that the is no one else
does and each of the family members have
a little piece of the we'll soon see
it's not they should have a kaz but this
is why our story we started with the
newlywed that has never saw different
because in his family like the minig
which is really based on that that the
makesh is the whole family no one else
makes and everybody eats a little piece
of
the and that's the very the is
practically how does it work because if
you have a big family how is it going to
go around enough for them to
eat so leisa again this is the beauty of
sug has a shila right in the beginning
of tough pay. Let's see a person it's
erup and he's coming to the say the
night he only has three and grly was
anab gave out they had to you know they
had to um economize they had to you know
ration it up so someone is starting off
le with three and only three matzas what
do you do so says if you only have three
mats make yakat listen to this make
yakat and then when it comes to
The make it on the on a sandwich. What's
the sandwich? A shalom on the top on the
bottom and the porus in between the
broken piece in between. Again, the
other half you put
away very carefully make and only eat
the middle broken
matzah. Why? You need for tomorrow. And
this is what their says. Now what do you
do with the rest of the s? So they must
have had either bigger matzas or smaller
kazim. Look at the taz said you have a
big family. But they basically had
enough with the broken matzah. Tomorrow
night you'll have two two for the seda.
Okay. Now the plea
is they didn't eat from the first night.
What they have top and bottom are broken
in the middle and they ate the middle.
What did they eat for Mishna? So it was
a plea to me. It's an affair and no one
asked his question. I saw the shabas and
then so it can't be that didn't think
about it until the shabas did. So I saw
again it has to be otherwise it's what
meant. So I saw in a beautiful
mdon and he says and that's what their
mom meant. There's no doubt about it. He
says since you're making a moi on the
two and the porus in between it's enough
of part of that if you eat the middle
the the broken one you ate even though
the broken one is not really part of
because you have two but if you made a
brah on this sandwich the brah went on
the entire sandwich what's my sandwich
and so if you eat that porus in the
middle you eating from the mishna
Then tomorrow night you'll have two and
you'll have to be a little more careful.
You won't
break
until so don't forget is only not even
mentioned but is a so you'll make you
won't make you'll get matzah and you'll
do like that only had two matzas but the
point is we see a big and he adds that
he saw this in a I don't have it out yet
because it's put away with the pes but
in he says
this that if you make a onlim plus other
matzah and eating other mat is also
good. Now I would like to add just a
quick point that we we we think it comes
from has to
have it's not in the it's not in the
it's not in
the take two there are
more one
word but no doubt about it and less man
if someone doesn't have what does he do
takes two because the more than what the
is double
So what do we see that a broken matzah
could very well be? So why can it be in
this context do that and that's why Lisa
I think it's posh that here what the
person that has a big family should do
is very simple he takes his two and a
half matzas adds other pieces of matzah
makes the mi on that and gives out all
the broken ones everybody has to and
also now you might be wondering wait a
second if you have to have two now
you're having three two plus the broken
pieces it's no
longer so I have an answer to you I
think it's pretty good there are
more quotes from one of the if someone
mis lighting their shabas so they have
to light a they have to light three
instead of two in those days they only
lit
two if you're going to add three is
not when a number they mean not less but
more so you have to have two three is
also enough no so based on that I'm
going to tell you you have to have two
it means not less than two but 20 is
also good why not the more the marrier
so this is why we see the ofn the point
is that you have to have two whatever
you add is part
of so now getting back to what we said
that's why for someone that has a big
family and he has two might not be
enough. Let him take another half a kala
from during that was from last night.
Whatever it is, whatever you make a m on
that's to consider the Now next question
is how much does have to eat? In other
words, does he have to have a kazaya
just a small bite?
So has no is needed by a suda. sud has
to have a
kabaya is a kaz. So I think there are
enough place that say that the the
the should have a kaz because he made a
mighty and it's going his going on this
let him have a kaz but I did find and
it's in fact the brisk god of all of all
people the brisk holds that there's
no you make a on and give it out as long
as everybody has a piece of the
the has a sh about a father that's
pretty allergic but he wants to be the
he wants to make a miy and he'll eat his
spelt or whatever it is but he wants to
make a a on but he can't eat too much of
it he says no problem make a take a
little bit and give the rest out so I'll
say that is the should have a but for if
if whatever reason it's difficult then
at least he makes a is enough how about
the the rest of the family. How much do
they have to have? So
invest matzah. If you have two matzahas,
two matzah don't go around. Now if you
have a big family make a big and is fine
but if you have matzah it's not going to
work but the you should have at least a
each one should have a kaz but I did see
interesting the son of the carbon and
that was printed
recently vial he says that is no
different than kdesh kesh the is on the
madesh the the
rest he
holds is on
the rest of the family it's
only there's no at all
the begins with to give to the so if
whatever reason doesn't work out we
could say let them all
have the is on
the should have either a or if not Even
tea is not
necessary. Now the question I mentioned
earlier about the ro that has a has a an
an allergy. So if he wants to make the
shabas let him eat at least a something
of a khu from
the now it's a big and I hope to give a
different share but it fits in now just
want to make a make a point to this the
isn do you have to have that you can or
will
eat let's
say so you know it comes down to the
last moments and you know trying to do
it right. Let's say a person didn't
realize but he didn't didn't calculate
properly. He's holding
by in the morning it's pretty early. No
time to run to and he only has one one
but he has boxes and boxes of
matzah right
now because
it's can't
eat. So what's the shil? The shil is the
is it a dinner having two
whole. So this is a whole. So don't eat
it. You'll put in a separate bag. You
won't mix it. Fine. But if it's a dinner
eating and you can't eat it. So how
could you use it if you can't eat it?
Let's say someone only has machine
matzah and he's very mid and matzah on
pesa. All these type of shilas which is
share for itself. I'll tell you an
interesting shila. If someone ran short
in the bungalow county and he has a
neighbor, could I borrow uh I need a
shalom? Because I have a sham, but I
must have it back. You don't use it
because I I don't have shalom myself. So
if you can't eat it because
it's so the place say that if the food
is that's
fine. You don't have to be able to eat
this particular mat. If you're allergic
to it, it's good. If it's using matz is
good. But if it's machine matzah, if
it's someone else's mat in they pass
around the mat, the two the two and from
one to the other, you can't eat it
because you need 10 other people need
it. Terror is it has to be
royal. What do we see once again? It's
not a den of it's a den of making the
suda
withn I'll tell you a beautiful shila
happened someone a small him just him
and his wife said they invited a guest
so his wife made a nice beautiful kala
fresh kala for the guest and they made a
shabas day just the two of them they're
going to have bought
bul said the guest didn't show Friday
night so the man decided let's at least
enjoy it so he cut up the the
Friday night and enjoyed it. Shab is
right before kdish. The guest walks in.
His wife says, "I don't know what you're
doing, but I'm not serving the guest too
dry." She goes, "But we need goes, I
don't care. We're not serving the guest
too." He goes, "I have an idea." So he's
so he put he covered up the with the big
the two he kept to the side. He kept he
made he did a little kept the cover made
a cut up before the a few pieces of the
wife's kala gave it nice piece big kala
to his wife and to the guest and he ate
he was the kapurhindel he ate the dry
kala then afterwards he asked me I
didn't do the right thing because my
wife and the guest did not have the
mishna so the shila is was he right oh
so that's good so without So without you
here because some say if the guest don't
eat so your wife's feelings also worth
something right
so it's got a school says above if you
treat your wife properly it's a school
of we'll get to that soon so he wanted
to do that but the he did better than he
realized because he
was if he made on the two with the big
piece of so it was so the guest and his
wife did in fact have from
the now
midi we had the in our camp there are
like 12 on a table and the camp gives
but no so some tables depends which
table it is but some of the from table
they make one makes and the
whole so they asked me once what do they
do on two for 12 hungry
It's not going to work. It's not enough.
I said don't be a bottl make a on all
the they give you right let's say a bag
of then on all them and give each a
whole so he's happy and you're happy
because if was on all the so all the
works it's a meaning of two not 12 is we
saw from that more than the number is
not the same is in any situation like
death ma true story a person washed made
a miy and didn't realize his wife wasn't
by the table and how that happens I
don't know but anyhow she was in the
kitchen said no what about me so he says
like he notions you listen to the then
you could wash and you'll eat the kala
so he made a little of
a she was holding before washing she
listened to the then she's going to
wash and then eat from the does that
work. So believe it or not, this is
a Zion not regarding husband and wife
because that shouldn't happen but says
with and this exact case and says it's
fine now he has to wash he can't even
for let be a between the but
let be a between the and the eating
there it is posit
So this
is don't talk then wash
until someone asked that's
an reprinted it. He says maybe that
maybe to to save time we'll have some
some people washing
after tell everybody washes. So he says
not a good idea first don't don't do
this thing but he has a that's the women
right when you when you're allowed to
talk women talk they don't talk now in a
woman's mind after she has a mighty
what's her
location I'm
before right she is now women know you
know how to talk after but before why
can you talk right after so she doesn't
know she doesn't remember that what's
her real location funny location after
she's after so she can't talk. So
therefore it's better don't start
because end up people end up
talking. Another big question and for
those that have the meaning of each
family member boys or girl wives that
each family makes their own. Now this is
the meaning by many and the question is
twofold. First of all, why you're
losing with one and more than that if
you make your own on a piece of cut
piece of you
lose and tackle as we told you earlier
that's why
the says
the
was
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and was asked why someone he writes
someone asked me I dash inim that only
the father should make a mighty and none
of the family
memb that one for all the family members
and no one makes their own. So those
that have that only one makes it they
have
the those that have that keep up the
good work
but a big part of have the minig that
each family member makes their own. So
as far as the
potential that's true there is a mile of
but in two places recognize the big
problem with and that is a person's
concentration span is not that good
we're not that focused we drift off we
don't hear the so these can say whenever
possible it might be better to make your
own and not relying on if you make it
you did it good if you listening you
miss a word you drift it off now of
course
byn would say follow the meaning of
making one but this is of giving up
because a but if you don't hear the
whole you don't have a bra so of half a
bra so the problem of is not is not a
problem again the ra says this the other
say this that if you're afraid you own
this and good better make your own
bra. But the problem here
is what
about how does carry
over? So the truth is this is not really
such a big problem because really what's
the as we explained the suda needs to
start with a
double but it's not
necessarily how do I know for you don't
need
a because made without because he didn't
make the so what exactly is Start the
suda with the of if possible make the on
but more than the it's to start the suda
with who's included in this whoever's by
this
table part of the
suda. you make your
own the
beautiful he's the first and that I
think that this discusses this and he
explains the like I told you the
obviously held that the is the suda
should
have if you're part of the suda so you
have make your own that doesn't take
away from and decl
He he quotes from the father
of one of the in Europe and he
says that the
women were were by the table
by
the and the wives are in the house
nearby and the minute he says the mig
was that the the reb made sent to The
rabbit sit at home and she made a on the
where's could be a different with a
different room is that if she's part of
the bay so the on for this for the
family went all the family and she's
part of she gets the same fish and the
soup so was on the piece of making is
not so he's going a step further not
only if you're sitting by the table and
you hear you can make your own fine but
even if you're not by the table and you
don't need that's this that's the step
further you don't need you make your own
on a piece
of believe it or not the does exist as a
entity so again
each writes inf
in what my hugger and my family is try
to make your own. So, he puts it very
sarcastically have if you're not is not
much of a commodity. So, we're going to
say that this is like we always say the
beginning from and the is one and all
eat from it.
But those that have the each family
member make their own on a cut piece of
yeah if you're
not what else what else connects you now
what what's interesting is the began
with the father that his son always came
late to the suda and the father said
listen I can't wait for you you're going
to come late you're not so the son
promptly came 20 minutes
late and he rolls in the father says Now
you get punished. So he was a a step
ahead of the father. He picked a piece
of the
cut the and made a on it says where's
your he goes if it's good for you it's
good for
me just like the family makes it so
what's wrong 20 minutes later and the
says if he's he's av but he's
right if you hold like we said that it's
the family and everybody who takes
him so he's part of the family now if
his father banished him. He's not part
of the family. So, he's like a stranger.
He can't walk in from off the street and
take but if he's still part of I I think
he's right. The says it in a much more
um you know nice situation the women
that are sitting in a different room.
But what's the difference? If he's part
of the family, he don't hear the he
makes his own.
So again it's not right of course there
but if someone is late and missed the
might miss the one or two options either
here's the mighty before they wash and
don't talk or if he's really late he can
make the
the on the slice even when he comes late
but as I told you is a time for it
should be an is not excluding people
This is true. It's a school of treat
properly and certainly the wife should
be waited for till she sits down to
make. Now what's really interesting is
the following sham. Let's say a person
made
perfect. No one's coming, no one's
going. It's just him and his wife. But
after he started the suda, I don't
believe it. He looks in the bottom of
this the one
was not missing a little bit. If you're
missing less than 148 he didn't realize
but the whole bottom was was cut off but
he made a mighty onishna that was in
other words he didn't have and he
realized it before the soup. What do you
suggest he does? You have to have a
mouth to have but this happened. So
So do you start again? Why not? Well,
you tell me. I already ask you. You tell
me. If someone made a barrier on an
apple thinking it was a shalom and it
wasn't a shalom, you don't make another
bar, right? So this is a beautiful
because if there's a den
of but if the is that you started you
have to start the sud
withn. So now we have to clear you
holding if you just made a and didn't go
further and ate
a why not why not take
another you didn't see you would start
the suda properly
you but if you're holding in middle of
the suda so it's not going to be anyhow
so what are you gaining
and he says it's totally if you're in
then start again but if Once you started
the suda, you started
eating. Now if someone did not eat the
for example and during the sudas, you
eat the butishna has a function and if
it's
not doesn't make sense to to eat again.
Now the truth is the already taught us
that the has nothing to do with the fact
that you with the first the first does
not exempt you from taking if a person
made at a
wasn't then he should start again
take take another and cut that yeah like
the did like they did in time they
didn't have they didn't make a strings
it's not but it's
Oh, the only thing is if you want to say
I'm using a porous right broken can't
but if a person wants to do it right
what's the difference before after I'm
just telling
you what what I what you're saying is
like like a shalom in a fruit
but
invas discusses this like we said in
simud he has was an unbelievably if
someone
made and spoke
out. Okay, he cut the but before he
spoke out what should he do? So he says
in that case he has to make another
right and if he cut the then he has to
take another because he didn't even
start he didn't start the si yet but if
he spoke if it happened much later once
it happened too late too late is too
late so it seems very clear that should
be done I'll tell you another
interesting I saw this also one of the
discussed this if someone fell asleep
and whatever the
He's okay. Now
generally he's not but let's
say he wakes up he has to wash and make
another does he have to
take because it's not a new it's a new
but it's still the benching pot is the
whole suda so he will not
need because again it was a new it was a
new sud now the next question seems
unrelated but it's very related it. You
might notice by
the they take the two and they make the
both which we all do because you make
you pick up the two hold and make all
but then something interesting they hold
the as they cut if I have picture two
two like two box like this to hold side
by side sorry I'm going to rip this hope
you don't mind but this is So typically
we make a and then you know the knight
you could we cut the bottom on top and
the hold the home and hug you but they
would make they cut holding both in the
hand. Now holding two piece of paper is
easy. Holding two big kalas you hold
side by side. Why do you have to cut
both holding both? Make a mi and then
put one down and cut it. Why have to
overexert yourself?
So theor says
that
shabusya you have to you have to say
I'll stay. What did that mean? You cut
both. Oh, very good. Very good. So this
is why the sons of had this many he
was
the says the that the
was
but says that the is he does also to
hold both and when you make you cut as
well. Yeah we get there we get there.
Wait no that's not true. We're going to
get wait I worked hard. Wait, wait.
But that's not the I mean the sons make
it is not the meaning of this is very
part like this said Rashi says what does
it
mean? So there goes from now the go had
a whole different go learned to
same that
says you have to be for the whole suda.
So is that during the week when you cut
a piece of bread cut a small slice don't
be a raster don't be a fessa take a big
piece you cut a small piece a big piece
sorry that's of most that's the going
learns like
the means you you cut whatever you made
you show
such you have two cut both of them the
go cut both kalas but you look inside
and the the the raw the the Ro minig was
not to cut both at the same
time in
pes did not cut both the same time he
cut both for the suda that
shows why the is
showing now what's interesting is the
goyan always cut both kalus but the
goyan did not was makid in yud kalus
like the minute by many people now the
goyan learned kabal like everybody else
rather but the held that it's a
mistake
that it said in he says the way that's
he understood
it does not stand
for stands
for because later you have two per suda
always cut it in half so each sud you
have
four times three is 12 now they once
brought to the gobbalas maybe they
wanted to make it
So what did he do? Promptly cut all
12. So you're not going to get away with
it. The go had but it's interesting that
I also thought that but the go does not
have to cut at the same time. You have
to cut it by the same suda. So that's
the difference between the meaning of
holding cutting both is one and this is
a different. The last group of questions
is it
goes
the so the is what's considered we hope
to give a sh for itself the matzah
cracked or is burnt whatever it is but
let's talk about our our part of the
suga regarding pes so the is that this
question we have when one person
makes and the whole family like the
meaning of the
was even on PES. So it's pretty
challenging to have
from a matzah two matzas to give out to
the whole family to save the night but
even the rest of the pes how does it
work. So the that we saw based on a ra
in tough pay is hold all the matzah you
would like to hold for the and
that's and then get out from that you
could take broken you could take whole
matzah but the main thing is make on a
bigger two and 15 is also good again the
numbers that go higher does not mig and
that's
okay and interesting this is very rare
because it's not typical of rais
who was very about I know someone that
went 17 years old in
MTJ so he was there all 17 years old
says what's your
minig everybody makes or only the makes
so you don't know where leading goes my
family everybody makes their own kdish
says great you'll make kdesh and be
mighty myself and my rabbitin
because he wouldn't deviate from his min
of but he wouldn't change the boy's mig
of all the 17. Now this same Ramosa had
a problem on Pes because he wanted that
to say the night we should do the mita
properly. So Moisha said that he would
advise and that's what he does and he he
says he writes I hope my children will
follow my mic. I don't know why pungi
was all concerned about that each zer
each man should get their
own of three mats. So this way you could
make enough
of and you could have double
and the whole thing says if you if
you're so give each two girls give them
their own three mats that I've never
seen but was very concerned that the
that the apparently is more important
than so give each family member their
own of three god he doesn't say three by
the boys when he talks about the girls
he says give each two girls three
matzas. I guess he always meant give
them three even though himself grat did
committing a girl only two but that's a
different story but seems to say that it
would be best to avoid this
confrontation. Now whatever it
is or shabas or have the
same they should be given the right
amount the matzah for the seda for the
suda and of course they should get from
the now the is to only have two matzas.
So when you break it, it's only one and
a half is not because is not so
important. But as the go says in in
the that is a dinner
of is good with
a so that's not going to change that.
Now an interesting
question. People a person asked me this.
He ran out of of actually he had a whole
box of matzah but his ankle dropped it.
He had only
one needed three sudas. So the embassy
is that a regular during the year you
can
find you can find but and he was didn't
carry the he has no eight. So what to
do? So I told him very simple eight.
You'll do like there are mosses and
tough babies. You'll take if you have he
had got two mats. He had two mats. I
told him a Friday night make your health
cup take two matzes put in a few broken
piece in between make a on that don't
break the two matzes do that by day
again
and this is doing the with all
it is on the
two on the in between
that's
now I on say the the sheet is one is
that's only
in now this is the best we had another
shil where where a son came late to the
seda and there was a shale available or
his father's
matzah from the matzah but it was a
broken piece which is better what would
you say which is better if you have a
piece of alishna that was the same sudis
part by the same sudam or one shulling
So it's not so hard to believe that the
schol might be better. It came from but
we shouldn't be a what it should do is
make a on the together with the porus.
So you have one and a half. Now if you
hold that you don't
need then he's doing good. So that's on
in fact
the writes why why didn't any why didn't
the say but kick why only have to add
that. So he said that Mo wanted to tell
you that the ick is not so much slam as
the is two. If you only have two pieces,
take two pieces. If you only have one
and a half, take one and a half. Because
the ick is two more than than actually
having two. Two pieces is definitely
a another question. This is happily he
was thinking he's very mockb of having
his own matzas and doesn't eat his
father's matzas. Okay, so that's a
little tricky. But and his father like
his whatever. But then he worked it out
that he could eat the mats that he has
without his father realizing. But his
father gives him a piece of the and he
doesn't make his own what should he do.
He says is your father's m then eat it
for two reasons. First don't embarrass
your father and also you have to have so
eating the rest of it from his own is
okay as long as he had a little bit of
the Mishna from the father and it
embarrassed the father of father that
would be okay. Now
if so
then don't eat it then eat from your own
and you don't have to have from the
actual we have a problem not a problem
we have to eat very challenging is
almost and
it's so it's interesting the attitude
which mentioned
he gave directions
for and he writes for the only cold
food. I don't know why exactly but he
says cheese gina bum he didn't want hot
food he didn't want any of mixing and
matzah even though we do pretty well we
have but he was like concerned more
about the aspect keep it very mild
again okay that's not our meaning but
one thing he writes which is important
he says try to minimize the amount of
you
need and have to and therefore better
be and use a mat
for now of course the stipler and
add not to put the matzah on the on do
it put the matzah in a bag and two bags
or three bags whatever you want this but
don't mix it but The to me is what did
he mean
use
and the meaning of the meaning of
why there is
very both of them and here both of them
because you don't want to you can't use
the matzah so dad you're allowed to give
up and don't worry question someone only
had one kala or one matzah nothing
the sh was and he didn't he didn't get
any pr either and it could happen on a
regular shabas or by he came very late
there's no pres there's only one what's
the
procedure so this is interesting there's
a beautiful cha from
the writes the mish was a son
of that is
that was that if there wasn't
It wasn't panicky. You took two and made
a why was
two. So that's not a terrible problem.
But he says the following. If they give
you in front of you
a what do you do? Because the has a and
he he based it on two or three gumar.
But I want to be mad. I want to say one
more point. But he he's based on a gar.
He said if you have in front of you a
half a kala that's called a porus that's
a cut piece of kala fine that is good
for but if you have a sham and you cut
it so he says that is you made
from is not good for he said if the
people in the kitchen would realize that
you only have one and they cut it in
half and send it to you so you're lucky
so you got two prim because you didn't
make it to but if you're going to cut it
be a d that's a problem. So he says that
basically the fact is that if they break
it first you're right then you could use
it but once you have it make a on that
now there's a little
because but the terrorist is by breaking
it you're not going to gain what do you
gain by keeping it at least you have a
of now someone asked
me what about the fact that they break
in the kitchen they're breaking
What about
that
which quotes it from
the
was and all the later discussed this and
I'm telling you now because they g for
us this coming pes we take because of
shabis two portions fell so the of
course the silly question is and what
about yam sheni
they have in the times of the only two
portions felt
but that when you have Friday going into
shabas or shabas going into Sunday you
should have to have three for those for
that two-day
y because when they had Friday going
into shabas how much felon of shabas
three three right there have a Friday uh
Thursday, Friday, Shabas and Sunday when
Shabas when Yam fell on Friday. So how
many fell on Thursday for Thursday for
Yam to Friday and Shabas? Whenever you
have two days consecutive you have to
have three for so not
anymore.
So because we
have going into Sunday
and Friday going into Shabas. So we have
to know we have to take three. So I saw
in the is a beautiful based on the on
this says that the is what you take
double why double they
they is not just double they fell double
but really yeen eat more on chabas and
yam. So every portion that fell was
double that was during the week. So the
the the this day the night suda was
double. So he says based on that the
reason for is not it fell two portions
on shabas but every portion was
double the portion was double in itself.
So means whenever you have
aud this suda was double. So you don't
have to have double
three is
enough to make sure I'd like to thank
Rabbi Smith for the wonderful sh also
today she was
dedicated who's the father of Rabbi
Deutsch he's not here by the because his
We're having the
shortly make
the say now for then we'll say
afterwards. Okay. Just like we learned
today the importance of has to be
reminded of it. Some say it's the all
say it's at least
it's but it seems that the identity of
is
of
double also but the is that the and the
should begin with the lift says is
whether it's or but that's the identity
of forishna you don't need a eyes of a
kazay is good and maybe even less than a
kazay some make with that from
the it seems that one should be all the
people and all should eat from the
mishna we did find that they can make
their own bra but no doubt about it if a
person wants to extend the put in pieces
of kal or matzah before the and that
goes the the is expanded whatever you
make the bra
It's an it's an important to no
doubt even said each one should have
their
own but at least make sure there's
enough for all the family members to
have a little bit of
the how much do have to eat
or most say a little bit's enough or
even if they don't eat at all it's not
if someone has two he can't cut so then
keep the and put in between or in
between this is the eight that we keep
on saying that's a Very good idea. If
someone didn't hear heard before they
washed, they can
make they can listen then wash and then
eat the mini. But don't forget, don't
talk before eating the If someone walked
in late and just picks a piece
of if he realized it wasn't already
started the suda, it's too late. If it
is not the suda it's to be take two and
cut them and
make before the suda the is to hold both
by the some hold both by the cutting as
well that's based on the
gor to cut both during
the le say to try to make sure each
person has at least a small piece or we
mentioned if you ran out of we only have
two matis so keep it for the all three
sudis just keep on using asnah with the
two. If someone is doesn't want to take
from the because
he's then he doesn't need
necessarily and as we said every we take
a double portion of our
food like to thank everybody for joining
us on this big day. would like to thank
you today.