The Last Will and Testament of Rav Yehuda Hachasid - Part 14 : The Grand Finale

this torah class is brought to you by torahanytime.com okay welcome everyone this is what we're going to call the grand finale of the um maybe an original take on the whole thing i think it's the dvaram and just a perspective not a leniency not a loophole just a certain attitude which i think is important to have toward the revie line is one of to abide by it so sava so this is how it seems the gemara says as follows it is awesome for a person to engage in marital relations in years of famine yeah to gomorrah the kumara learns it out from you safe why it says wait a second there's somebody by the name of your bed when was she born she's born so who was her who are her parents right levy right so wait a second that means they were meshamish mithasa mishni rav so they were very nice to them says oster and we learned from you safe but what's lady doing the gomorrah says ah sir and levy obviously wasn't effective is number 63 on the sheet them timer is if you want to act extra pious then it's uh sir and if you don't want to act extra pious you don't have to and it's mutter v i say floyd shimesh you are safe was an extra extra pie it's that was sharpening adam shimsu but levy levy wasn't a husset don't you have to be a husted no isn't it a beautiful thing to be a clustered maybe so shouldn't you do it no yeah but it's an indian shouldn't i do it no but i see the static doing it so should i do it no you shouldn't do it if you want to do it kadashi now if you want to do it you have to do it if you don't want to do it you don't have to do it that's it yeah listen carefully you hear together the gather is are there there are things in judaism that for some people they have to do it and some people they don't have to do it it's not across the board somebody came over to me do i have to say uh your gemalani mamans no should i do it i don't know if you want to do it do if you don't want to do it don't do it you know not everything you have to do you know if somebody asks us should i do this you shouldn't do it but he does it good for him he's a kaddash but listen to what is saying that means for some people it's us or to be meshamish and for some people it's not a sir who is it astra for mesha writes if you want to consider yourself a khasid then it's awesome you don't have to consider yourself accosted i'll give you another example you ready for this that when you get dressed in the morning you have to do it under the covers that means if you take off your undershirt it must be under the cover as the said any part of your body which is normally covered has to be covered you can't uncover it i nobody's in the room doesn't matter to the extent where it seems so she'll know you cannot change your socks you have to change your socks under the cover how could your feet are normally covered you don't live in africa you don't live in israel in israel you could be a member of the knesset and everyone has to see whether your your toenails that have fungal and but in america we cover our feet we cover our socks and it would seem that since your feet are normally covered you should do so under the cover i'll read you the mishna burra don't put on your shirt sitting because again they used to sleep with um basically under the cover without anything on ella while you're lying down you put on your shirt the economist by russia stick your head in it while you're under the cover this way when you emerge from the cover you're not uncovered this continues listen to the mission of brewer may you shove you should get dressed sitting if you get dressed sitting your body will be uncovered person needs to act with modesty and shame before god that philip even in the night time you can't get dressed in your room unless you're covered even in the your inner chambers even a man cannot uncover a part of his arm that's normally covered come ashadak elias you could uncover your your arm until your elbow and your neck until your chest therefore says the mishna brewer your socks you need to put them on under the sheets you wear shoes like a normal person yeah so you can't just take off your socks unless it's the afshar unless you're in a base america that's where it's the dark to go that way fine it comes with moisture and moisture says even though the says you need to do this you don't have to do this says you have to you have to if you want to be a khasid this is most of the khasi dosa but moshe says so how do you know which halachus and which you have to do no matter what you have to ask but this is an example where it says you have to do something and you don't have to do it you can put on if you want to change your undershirt in your room when the door is closed and nobody's in there you're allowed to but the journal says you're not allowed to you're not allowed to if you want to fulfill most of the kasi but this is not an absolute obligation so what do we see from here that there's a level in halacha called no which you have to do if you want to be a hasid and if you don't want to be a hustler you don't have to do it is it paso and i i never saw this anywhere i'm just conjecturing wrote a book called safer these are these practices you think they're mamsur or these are saintly practices that if you want to be ah like to consider yourself a question you need to abide by these practices likewise if you left in refuge is it possible to say that it's not more humber than a suffix of einstein says it's just most of the khasidusah or or i'll give you another example there's a chuva in the viac of hillel hayam the vyankov hillel says the in the um it says in that reason that uh you shouldn't marry a woman older than you so says first of all you have to know that whenever that result says not to do something he doesn't mean not to do it that's not a rule whenever that wreath says not to do it he doesn't mean not to do it he's talking in kabbalistic realm and all the resale means is that he since in the reality of the world most people marry ladies who are younger than them he's commenting on that reality and giving a kabbalistic reason for it but unless he says i passed and not to do it he doesn't even mean not to do it and even if the result says not to do something only if you want to be a hustler if you don't want me to be that doesn't say anywhere you have to be a khasid what but all the women could be a problem that depends how old you are if you're 90 and she's older it's going to be a problem if you're 17 and she's 22 it's not a problem right yeah you can make a few bucks off it but be resume be it as a man i'm just bringing an example that there are in yanim that people think are asserts it's us serve for if you want to be a hustler you don't have to be a hosted nobody else you just did the father you follow the meat and potatoes people are worried about most of the hasidusa stealing and honesty and all the other stuff ah that's not important it's all about talking about extra same practices i think it's very reasonable to assume that when reviewed he's writing most of the khasi dosa now do you have to be do you have to be makbin if you want to then you have to and if you don't want to you don't have to anyway this is not just for your thought i'm not saying this la maisa i'm not saying this i'm just pointing out from the toista suntanus base i'm pointing out from achiva from a motion i'm pointing out from a church from jacob hillel there is a level called nosodakasidusa which is not incumbent on any jew levy milan ugadomi levy where the gemara says asur and taisu says levy did it and there's no problem that he did it the gemara says also rabbi and levy did it how could levy do it because oscar doesn't mean us or oscar means if you want to be a hustler lady said i don't want to be a cluster right now i don't have to be doesn't i have to be a clustered i don't have to be a custom anyway rabbi said this concludes this segment of this and we hope in this course of learning the 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