The journey of the soul after death and how to make it smoother - Part 8

i'm just going to give a little uh a little uh you know point on it because it's not so important but when a person dies the way it works is once they cover the cable completely they cover the grave with with all the the stand the last drop falls on the sand all the people turn around they go out of the sea out of the cemetery the second the last person left the cemetery four angels go into the cave they grab kevin is the grave then one angel grabs one hand one grey angel grabs the other hand one great angel grabs the one leg and one angel grabs the other leg and they throw the neshama out of the body no no no first of all you have to understand there's different levels of the neshama there's nephesh it's a whole process but they come and they throw it in the shower of the body completely the thing is it's more talking about the nephesh because in a shema like you said yeah the shema goes out right away from the body but what stays in the body is the ruach and the nephesh these malachim come and they throw the nephesh out now the thing is it really depends sadiq doesn't have all that that's a dick the shrine comes and takes the sham out yeah that's it's leak is hashem is there is you know the godly revelation is that mamash comes and takes him out of the body yeah i think it's not ireland so they can start something completely a person who wasn't a dick in this life but lived his life you know according to torah and mitzvot and all that doesn't go through all this process like mara actually explains it that the same way that we slaughter an animal with a sharp knife then there's a malach there's an angel that comes and ki vyakul does like slaughtering and pulls out in the shema very very soft out if a person has a lot of the angel that comes to take out the neshama comes and it uses what's called like a defected uh knife that's why when we slaughter an animal and the knife is not a hundred percent perfect then the the the meat is not kosher it makes the animal a pasul so if a person has a lot of road then the malach just takes in a shama a lot but then comes these four malachin these four angels they again they grab the nephesh out they throw it out of the body no now describes it that they come with with like uh sticks of fire and they start beating the neshama this is yeah no once they took it out of their body and the first thing that they asked in what's what's your name exactly once you say their name they stopped what is the name the way it works is you take your name and you need you find a pasuk that starts with your first letter and ends with your last letter you say it in the end of shmoon and if you don't then you you want to start right away when you memorize you find the pursuit huh that's no problem there's also websites today you put your name so if your name is avraham david you have to find sukim maybe whatever the name is if you have a name with three names then you have to find trip tsukim but you have to find a pasuk that if my name is alone so the pasuk has to start with an aleph and ends with a with a noon and every time before we finish mona i say right before the tsunami you say that so then ask your name you don't say alone you say the pursuit yeah the name has no not really much of a meaning here but once the person says the name then they stop beating him up now the thing is that the process is very very long you know we said that we're going to start next week we're going to start a shoe every wednesday yeah i don't know if we're actually going to do it here menasha is organizing it maybe we'll huh it's going to be here better yeah we're probably going to have it either here or but in this area we're going to do every wednesday night so we'll go more in length to different topics but in general first thing that happens is the the nefesh has to go out of the body now if the person has a lot of mitzvot and right away they start saying condition on the person they start learning torah then the the the process going up is not so painful but if a person is has a lot of average this can be in our lifetime like half a year even it can take a long time till they punch their body out and they're big suffering for the neshama because first they have to for in order for the nephews to start even going up has to get all these dirt out of the neversh has to go out and these that would do that's what they do that's what's called him and the thing is there's a lot of things we can do in this world to save us from so we know many many different things one of the one of the main things that helps us from is memorizing torah off by heart memorizing mishnayot memorizing from the torah memorizing the saying them off by heart so when you do that because what happens is when the shaman goes out of the body it only knows torah so since it's in such a low level it's still connected to the world so it can use its memory to me to start saying sukim and then once you sip sukim of the torah no because what happens is when the shaman goes out of the body it has so much kudusa and if khaswa shalom the person did a little bit of a wrote all this malachim you know kabbalah this outer part the opposite part of they come to bite off the neshama and you can't even imagine the suffering how it is just to see it so when you start in the start saying then nothing can touch it then it's kind of being saved that's why right away we say kadesh because the kadesh surrounds the neshama with this protection then the shaman doesn't get affected by all these music and so there's many things that we can do in our life to minimize the process of rebuttal because mainly what happens every average we do puts a stain on the nephesh now sometimes we do things that we're allowed to do but you know we we have to sanctify ourselves with them conditions so we're allowed to eat but for example it's only a mitzvah to eat on shabbat during the week you're not allowed to eat like you know steaks every day you have to eat in order to serve hashem so on shabbat eat whatever you want it's a mitzvah to eat during the week you can't now if you all day long eating cakes and ice creams and cookies and you're indulging on it it's not a sin but it's not you don't you're not sanctifying yourself so when a person even does a lot of things that he's allowed to he still puts this little gushmius dirt dust around in the shama so when the shaman leaves the body in order for the soul to grow a little bit higher it needs to be cleansed you can come back from a whole day of work working in the mud and go straight into a cocktail party you got to wash the clothes off you got to take a shower so in order for the shaman to even start growing up it needs to be brushed off and this is part of this rebutta cable so if there's a lot of dirt on the fish this process hurts a lot because it's like you know my grandmother in the olden days they used to put the rug on the on the window and used to bang the rug that all the dust they didn't have a vacuum cleaner so all the dust will come out so that's what they do to the nephesh in order for it to grow up so if the person has a lot of mitzvoth that's where it's much much less then it's it depends on the mainly depends how much dirt than the nephesh has and depends what your children and your grandchildren and everybody around you do that's why you see that first of all the suns they take a dish kadesh is very very powerful and then they learn mishnayot with the kadesh mishnah has the same letters of neshama that's why it says you have to learn a lot of mishnayot our mind can't really understand why but you know in a more kabbalistic explanation so you know we know there's four worlds that's elute the mishnah corresponds to one world corresponds to a different world each topic that we learn it corresponds to one world so for whatever reason this is what we don't really can understand but mishnayot corresponds to a certain level and it helps in the shema a lot but everything that you do in this world helps like exactly how you ask it helps the neshama so it minimizes it there's a lot of things that we can do in this world that minimizes the process of rebuttal one of the main things is memorizing tsukim of tanakh torah tillam everything to memorize so came about and to say it when you walk in the street just to actually say it another thing that is known to be a very strong gula for le manage is what's called i don't know if you know it yeah not only animals the all the creation it's this one if you don't say it i strongly suggest you should say it it takes me like 10 minutes a day i say it every day when i walk from home it takes seven eight minutes keep it very strong if you read all the brightwood before and after is the one of the only things in our teachings that nobody knows where it came from nobody knows who compiled the pirachira okay we know most of it wrote and there's 10 people that compiled so we know who compiled what berkshire nobody knows who compiled it nobody knows but even the result says you know i'll even read to you it's because i this is so powerful now here i'll tell you what the result is i actually i think i have it in a different a different one if i don't have it here okay i have it i have another one that that it says the result basically says that everything in their creation constantly praise hashem all the creation praises shame all day every day the animals they sing the trees everything that's why you say the animals it's not only the animals everything in creation constantly praises hashem and every little thing in creation has a minister in shaman has a sour that tells him what to do so the dogs have a sow there's a minister in charmaine that is in charge of all the dogs the alliance there's a minister that in charge of all the lions for the trees there's a minister for apple trees a minister a minister for pomegranate trees and each creation has a different singing which corresponds to the torah that's why we say the parikshira now they can they cannot start saying their praises until we say that because we are way above all the ministers so the creation all the creation cannot praise hashem till humans do it so if nobody in the world would say panic the whole entire creation cannot praise hashem so we they're like the the channel that ignites it so when i say panic every day i allow all the ministers of all the creations to give permissions to all the animals all the trees all the creation to praise hashem so is known as you know says that it's one of the most greatest things one can do and a lot of people say oh you know it's it's boring it takes time no it takes it takes me like i don't know seven eight minutes you read hebrew you you do it do it a couple months straight you're gonna already know it off my heart yes or no mikvy helps for everything the reason why mikveh helps for hibouta kevin because mikveh when you go in when a man goes into a migraine the action what happens when a man goes into the mikveh is very very simple a person does a sin or even a very minor sin he brings on himself what's called a spirit of impurity now when a person goes into the mikveh the surah cannot go in the water so he goes in the water and the spirit gets removed out of him so in essence it helps because you remove constantly this works from you because uh it's less nogaito than a fish you know the mikvy more works on the body of course it affects the nephesh effects than the shama but the main reason not the main but one of the reasons is when a man goes into the migration with a woman goes into the migrant this leaves the body he goes out of the water you know kabbalah explains we have to close huh huh yeah yeah until he does again another thing this is not the malachor this is a this impurity right now this can happen in all the levels of a person all day long what you're going on in your mind in your body you do a vote et cetera et cetera especially you go to sleep at night when you go to sleep at night there's a lot of on your body that's why first thing you do in the morning you go into the microwave first thing what happens when the body goes into the water the ruach can't go into the water so that's it now the kabbalah explains it in a very nice way it's the same way that a fetus is in the body in water the second it goes out of the stomach it goes out of the water it gets born so when a person goes into the water and goes out of the water he gets like reborn a new beginning woman and men men go every day well suppose they still have to go over there they don't have to it's not it's a great he do that's why according to kabbalah according to you know it's it's beyond amazing you can't even imagine what a mikveh does to you every morning to go to the mikveh and the thing is that when a man goes into meek with so many things happen it's it it triggers so many things first of all it removes this second of all this has the whole effect the whole action of mikvez you go into the water you immerse yourself into the water it has the action of of like subduing yourself nullifying yourself i'm nothing i'm you know you're like so you bring on yourself this because the person to serve hashem has to be an old it has to be has beethouse if a person if a man would know what to do mikvy brings on him i said it last time i was here you would sleep in the mikvah yes this dusha it brings on your economy the baal shem tov says we cannot understand what a kedusa it brings and it's not it has to be a migraine it has to have a certain amount of water there has to be rainwater that was collected and poured into the maker there's a whole thing in it this is one of them it's bought that we can't we don't understand that we don't know it's you know there's three types of mitzvoth this is falls under them it's what's called we don't understand the whole concept of tuma and tahara we don't understand there's many more no no there's three categories but there's a lot of mitzvot that fall under the category of hukim you know red heifer uh there's so many things that we don't really know nobody knows what why we do it but we do it because that's what hashem commands us to do but mikvy is one of it and make way the level of that it brings on you it's unbelievable when i sometimes travel because i get invited to many places to speak sometimes i travel to a place they don't have a mikvy there i have to wake up in the morning and you know pray right away if i if there's a day that i don't go to the maker my whole day is messed up you can it's not the same it's you can you can learn you know the lobby said that if you can't go to the mikveh if you learn the mishnis of mikveh and you learn you kind of get the same effect yeah but it's still it's not the same a man man can go i take my kids my my two-year-old goes with me till they make me they don't go every day i have three boys about hashem they go with me every every year of shabbat since they're three years old they go with me every other shabbat they the whole thing i don't expect my four-year-old to go to the mikvah every day but i when i go to the mickey early i see boys eight-year-old nine-year-old it's amazing so when a man has nothing to do married a normal a woman only once she gets married she goes to the midway this is one of the greatest mitzvahs a woman can do with the the level of purity she brings on herself her husband the kids everything my mom she never went to the mikveh and now hashem she's uh she's 66 and last year i told her you know you don't have the nasheem you don't have what me women have every month you're already in your 60s but the last time you had it you didn't go to the mikveh so technically you still have this tumour no you should go to the mikveh and i explained everything to her and she did according to alexa she counted the seven days the whole thing the whole thing she didn't touch my father i explained the whole thing she went to the maker when she was and she told me it was like refreshing that's an understatement she told me like this rock of her head was removed so even you know a lot of ladies unfortunately they never went to the milky way they still can go but a man is something different a woman by default is in a much higher level there's less less tumor less impurity on her a man you know just breathes he gets impurity on him so that's why women don't go every day a woman by default is in a much higher level but for a man to go every day to the microwave that's like a must it's not a must it's not really a lakha a lot of people don't hold by that but a person who wants to to get closer to hashem and serve hashem much better then you know a lot of people that i that i tell them go to the midway you'll see your whole day is different and and i know men they tell me yeah when i go to the meek with the day my prayer is like think clear my when i study i understand what i'm studying mikra is very very special it it so essentially what you ask it does help with rebuttal kevin but as many there's other things one of them is learning things of my heart sukim from the torah there's many other things mainly mainly mainly these things one of the greatest things is chanting to keem off by heart when you walk in the street when you're on the subway or whatever even though people will think maybe you're crazy because you're walking like but you shouldn't care when i walk from one place to the other you know i try to say things off by heart and the thing is that this is a according to hasidut when a person walks in the street and says who came off by heart he purifies the heirs around him so when you walk in the street and you say mishnayot by heart you actually purify the air around you but the reason is when when the shaman leaves the body in the beginning it's very connected to this world so it with a chance says the tsukim that's that's its power that protects it