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I visited Israel when I was 15 and I
literally said, "I'm going to find a way
to serve in Israel." I always wanted to
fly. When I joined the Marine Corps, I
told the guys they wake me up 10 minutes
early. I got to put on my Tillin. I've
been flying the F-18 for 2 or 3 years.
We ended up leaving a week after 911,
which I think was Russashana that day. I
remember who by sword, who by fire, who
by water. I did 42 missions into
Afghanistan. Dropped a lot of bombs.
>> None of your business, Oshi. None of
your business, Michael. It's the None of
Your Business podcast hosted by Michael
and Oshi. Welcome back everybody to
another uplifting episode of the None of
Your Business podcast. I'm your host
Michael Greenfield. With me of course is
co-host Ushi Schwarz. And today we have
a guest of all guests. Someone who I've
been waiting for for a very, very long
time. And it's not you in particular. I
didn't really know you. I was just
asking my friends, I need a pilot. I
need someone who's an active pilot.
Someone who's in the air that can tell
me what the heck is going on in Newark
and and JFK. What's happening with the
FAA? Tell me about TSA. teach me about
taking off and landing. I'm so excited
to have you here. And I have to tell you
that um just for the sake of everyone
knowing, welcome to the program, Joshua
Zagger. Is it Josh?
>> Josh. Yeah,
>> Josh. All right, Josh. So, welcome. I
really appreciate you being here. And uh
just want to say thank you again to all
our subscribers. I'm talking to the
crowd now, the listeners. Uh thank you
to all the comments. We're getting more
love than hate.
>> Yeah.
>> So, I think we're doing okay.
>> The paradigm has shifted. It seems to be
that people are catching on and people
are becoming fans. So, it's nice.
>> Yeah,
>> we'll see how long it lasts, you know,
but we'll enjoy it while it's going in
that direction.
>> We're growing. It's good. It's good.
We're heading in a good direction, I
think. So, uh Josh, we have this little
thing called Chat PT says what about you
and that's how I begin to get to know
who you are. And, uh, first want to a
huge shout out to Caim. Um, who was on
the podcast here, was a soldier in Gaza.
He was actually one of the teammates
that were responsible for taking down
Sinir. and he was on our podcast with
Akiva Shapiro who was a nursing home
operator during the day and a soldier in
Israel at night at night.
>> Literally those two guys were on our
podcast and I keep seeing and he tells
me you got to have you want a pilot I
got you a pilot. Got you the pilot of
old pilot. Not only is he a pilot today
but he was a pilot then and he's just
like that's what your world is and I'm
excited to read this. I don't think the
crowd is ready for this and uh you'll
confirm this is the first time you've
ever been on a podcast.
>> Yes, first time. I I don't know how
anyone hasn't uh you know, I don't know,
grabbed you and put you out of I'm
honored. I really am. Um you went from
flying F18 Hornets over Afghanistan to
wearing a pilot's wing for a major
commercial airline. Talk about switching
gears. That's what it's saying over
here. So, I guess you started off in the
uh in Marine Corps.
>> In the Marine Corps. Okay. And now
you're working for
>> United Airlines.
>> United Airlines. You know, I have a lot
of listeners that are listening like,
"United Airlines? Oh, can I be a buddy?
Can you get me a a 1k? Can we get to
global? And we'll get to that in a
minute. But what's uh what was your
career like in the beginning with
Afghanistan? What's that about?
>> Um well, I was a newly operational F-18
pilot in 2001. I've been flying the F-18
for two or three years. I was assigned
to a carrier and uh we ended up leaving
a week after 911 on the on the Roosevelt
and went pretty much straight to
Afghanistan. We were uh we started the
the response to 911 um in early October
2001 and and we spent five months doing
that um flying missions into
Afghanistan,
>> dropping bombs.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I did 42 missions into
Afghanistan, dropped a lot of bombs um
from pretty much from the first mission
to the end. Yeah. We were the we were
the response. The entire world wanted to
to do what I did to be the you all
remember 911. So, you know, everyone
wanted to go, especially growing up
around here and and knowing people that
were in the towers. It was
>> it was personal to you. was personal.
Yeah. Um a guy I played baseball with in
high school um I wrote his name on my
first bomb and uh his family uh was next
to neighbors of my family growing up um
in in Little Silver town next to where I
live now and uh played baseball with him
and and wrote wrote his name on the bomb
and took a picture and sent it to his
mom.
>> Wow.
>> Yeah.
>> I I'm blown away. I'm sorry. I have to
think of that thing like he's dropping a
bomb on us right now. He's just like
starting out so like he go right into
it. It's like this is this is heavy
artillery right here.
>> Oh, she very good. I I missed you.
>> Thank you, Mike. I missed you, too.
>> I I have to put this strategy paper
away. I'm already like I got to I got to
slow down and like Oh, she always likes
to say, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Let's
take a step back.
>> Start from the beginning. How have this
been a fighter jet
>> across the world?" Like, you know, now
you're sitting here in a pilot. Who the
hell are you?
>> How did it get to this point?
>> It's been a It's been a good ride. Um,
where'd you grow up? Where your parents
from? Let's start literally from the
>> My parents are from New Jersey and New
York. I think my mom grew up in uh spent
a few years in Tene which is pretty near
here, right?
>> Um my dad is from grew up in Little
Silver which is the town next to where
we live now. Uh I grew up always wanted
to fly. My dad was in the Navy. He was a
lawyer in the Navy and when I was really
young we lived in Subic Bay in the
Philippines and the officers club beach
was right next to the runway there and
some of my first memories when I was
three or four years old was you know
marine and navy and uh jets coming into
Subic Bay. um coming back from Vietnam
like they'd come down for RNR. Um the
ship would come in and before the ship
pulls in a lot of times the jets will
fly off. So there's a lot of activity
there at the naval air station and at QB
point and I used to watch you know watch
I'd sit there on the beach and play the
surf and watch watch the uh the planes
coming to break to land. Um so I always
wanted to do that.
>> You got the bug early.
>> Yeah. I used to put my my dad had a
hi-fi stereo, a Sony hi-fi that he got
back then. And I remember putting the
headphones on and making my brother sit
behind me. And you know, I'd play with
the dials and pretend I was flying. My
parents are very Zionistic. I uh visited
Israel when I was 15 with like a youth
exchange with the Federation. And then
the following summer um my synagogue had
a uh basically a scholarship program
that my grandfather had helped set up
that anyone who wanted kind of like a
birthright for my local synagogue. If
you wanted to go to Israel, you could go
on the United Synagogue Youth, the USY
summer trip. But I was like, I been
there, done that. I already been to
Israel, but that year um was the second
year that they were doing a Poland
Israel program, which was a week in
Poland and then a five weeks in Israel.
And I said, well, if I can do that, then
I'll do that. That'll be a good
experience. After the week in Poland,
the one the second to last day was in
Awitz. And I literally said, I'm going
to find a way to serve in Israel. Um, I
I the the first summer when I was in
Israel with that youth exchange, I met a
lot of kids who were going to the army
and um and I was just coming back here
to finish high school and and uh you
know, so I I kind of had was exposed to
uh what Israel needs to do to to exist.
And basically I decided I think looking
back maybe this is a little bit of a you
know nostalgia, but I'm I pretty sure
like walking out I'm like a different
person. I got to serve somehow. I got to
do something physically to defend the
Jewish people. So, I kind of dropped the
idea of um of flying that that first
summer I was there. I think the tour
guide knew a paratrooper that was
getting his beret at Ammunition Hill
because we happened to be at Ammunition
Hill when the paratroopers were coming
up to get their berets. And uh so I kind
of said, you know what, I I didn't know
Hebrew. I learned how to read for my bar
mitzvah. So, it was kind of a a pretty
uh big leap, but I said I I could
probably figure out how to enough Hebrew
to be an infantryman. So, I said, I'm
gonna be a paratrooper. and uh and then
set about trying to do that. My my route
to learning Hebrew was spending a year
at Hebrew University. So, I said, I'm
going to try and stay on track with like
a normal progression uh get my first
degree uh and go to college, but then
I'm going to do my junior year at at
Hebrew. But my sophomore year in
college, the Marine Corps came to my
campus with a helicopter, a little
civilian helicopter, but they had a
reserve Cobra pilot who was flying
students around to recruit. And I uh
literally got out of class and saw the
Marines there and I didn't know the
Marines landed on ships and that's what
my dream was to land on ships. So I
walked up to him and said, "Do you have
any information on the Navy?" Cuz you
maybe someday I'd want to land on, you
know, join the Navy to fly. And he said,
"Well, we do that. We land on ships,
too. You want to go flying right now?"
So I I threw my books under the door and
signed a little release. It was like
half a slip of paper and went flying uh
with this with this Marine pilot. And
when I came back from a 20 minute flight
or so, the next guy wasn't there. So, I
went again and I grew up sailing. I grew
up um surfing and sailing and wind
surfing. That was just, you know, what I
did growing up on the Jersey Shore so I
could fly the helicopter right out of
the gate. And the guy came back and told
the recruiter, you know, sign me up and
and he kept calling me and I kept
saying, "Thanks, but you know, I'm going
to join the IDF, you know, thanks, but
no thanks. Thanks for the flight, but uh
I'm going to the IDF." And you know,
even when I was in Israel, my every once
in a while, my mom would say, "The
Marines called again." But that was out
in Pennsylvania. And uh I did I did the
did the Israeli army, came home and um
basically uh I hadn't, you know, been
out of I had my first degree, but I I
always thought, you know, I'll figure
out what I'm going to do next when I'm
in the army. But when you're in the in
the IDF, especially in the in the combat
arms of the IDF, you're just kind of,
you know, you're always hot, so you're
trying to how figure out how to cool
off. You're always cold, so you're
trying to figure out how to warm up.
You're always hungry, so you're trying
to figure out how you going to get a
minute to eat. You're always tired, so
you're going to, you know, try how am I
going to sleep for 10 minutes. You don't
really think uh the next stage I got out
of the army and uh
>> How long were you in the army? In the
two years. So you're there for two
years.
>> Yeah. I was 21 when I got drafted. So um
>> Were you an Israeli citizen?
>> No,
>> you weren't.
>> No, I was I
>> So you enlisted? He didn't get You got
drafted.
>> Yeah, I was technically drafted. My dad
was a lawyer. So he got me with an
immigration attorney. He was worried
about me, you know. So technically I was
uh I made aliyah and I was drafted. And
uh I'm not Israeli at all, but I I went
I went to serve as a as a Jew. And uh I
was very cognizant I never wanted to
live there. I love where I live now. I'm
back where I always wanted to be home
where I am. Um but I wanted to go defend
the state of Israel and and uh and and
uh and the Jewish people. And it was an
amazing thing uh to do. Especially now
in the last couple years. I can't
imagine uh had I not done that how I
would have you know when it was my time
I did my time and it's
>> you feel like you contributed you know
your part tiny little link in a very big
chain.
>> I have to say first on behalf of
everyone listening and myself thank you
for you know being such a person uh that
just puts themselves out there like you
know it's it's very very unique what
you're saying very very unique. I know a
lot of people that served in the army
because they were passionate about
Israel and most of them stayed in Israel
or became Zionistic to the point, you
know, where that was their goal. This is
just a young Jewish man who got inspired
and had an upbringing and the value
system that I just want to serve my
country. I just want to do my this is
what I'm brought. I'm blown away.
>> I was lucky enough that when I came
home, you know, I never thought I could
do both. But
>> why did you think of flying in Israel,
by the way, instead of
>> So, yeah. So, I I barely knew Hebrew. I
mean, I could I can tell you funny
stories about like the Liski the the
draft office and
>> um
>> of things you said.
>> Yeah, I'd love to hear it.
>> There was like a 20. So, I went I
literally landed on a Thursday um and I
got a one-way ticket on Lal because I
made Aliyah. I landed on a Thursday
night on the late flight Thursday at you
know 4:00 or whatever when that flight
gets there. And by the time I got to the
kibuts, it was late and it was a
religious kibbutz. So when I woke up at
noon on Friday and said, "Hey, I need to
get to the draft office." They said,
"Easy, Tiger. You know, relax. I could
wait till Sunday." So on Sunday, I went
up to Tiberious and went to the draft
office with my two-day old two dot
cahoot and said, "Draft me." And they
said, "Uh, easy tiger. Come back in a
few weeks." I got a letter in a few
weeks. And I think I'm the second visit
is when they give you a Hebrew test. And
it was 20 vocabulary words. So here I am
like a 21-year-old college graduate with
an 18 or 19 year old Mashaki assessing
my Hebrew level and it was 20 20 words
like higher sec second third level you
know vocabulary and I was like at the
10th one I didn't know so I said to her
just stop you know I can't even get a 50
and she said no army regulations I got
to give you all 20 and number 17 was
ambulance so I knew one out of 20 and I
said look look at me and at the time it
was 93 and the the I had heard that the
army opanim were just full of Russian
immigrants and that the only thing you
learn in opan is Russian. You don't
learn Hebrew in opan in an army opan. So
I said look at me. I came all the way
from New Jersey to be a paratrooper not
to sit in an army opan and learn
Russian. And she passed me. So I went
straight to the bakum. And at the time I
was the only paratrooper who was doing
what I was doing. Um I didn't speak
Hebrew for months. I I didn't speak
English for months when I was in I was
the only guy doing it.
>> Wow.
>> In the in and then I I became a
commander in the paratrooper. So, you
know, and I went back to training the
next year's August draft. Uh, I was a
commander in in basic training in the
intermediate advanced training. You you
you so you pass the IDF process, right?
Meaning you're you're about to jump to
your next stage of life. I just have to
ask you before you like, you know, move
past it, give me one memory of IDF that
you can, you know, tell people that are
thinking of going to the IDF or somebody
that's saying like, you know, uh, you
know, I'm afraid for my son or daughter
to go to the IDF because that's a topic
that happens in our communities a lot. I
tell the people who I taught to fly, you
don't want to do this, you need to do
it. So, it is like any good hard
experience, you know, it'll if you're
the right person for it, if if you have
the right mindset for it, it'll make you
into the most incredible person. Um, but
if you're not, it'll break you. You
know, I used to tell my Marines, you
know, uh the right kind of alloy under
the the most pressure becomes steel and
uh the wrong the wrong materials under
pressure just is destroyed. So it's
that's what the IDF is. Nothing really
has been difficult since the IDF you
know it's it's uh especially what I you
know infantry if you can lead in the
infantry if you can um not just function
but lead in the infantry you can do
anything in life.
>> Wow. So you're coming back from the IDF.
>> Yeah.
>> You have all this energy inside you all
this experience leadership capabilities
now. You've learned a lot of course
right
>> what's next for you? Well, I I uh got
back to the state. Oh, so one
interesting thing is I was able to get
hired to be a Madrich for the same USY
program as a leader. Yeah. As a
counselor. So
>> when I at when I got out of the army,
there was a ter there was a lot of ter
terrorist attacks almost every week. I
put in a request to get out a month
early so I could be a mandre. I had two
I did one month less than two years. Um
and I uh the way he did that was this
this mashaki tas I couldn't write. By
that time I was a commander so I could
speak Hebrew. Um but I couldn't write
and now you could just talk in your
phone and you know almost perfect
spelling but uh she came down I was with
my soldiers at jump school. My soldiers
were going through jump school. So I
wasn't going to that sit. We were down
at jump school for a few weeks and she
came down so that I could dictate the
letter to her that she'd put up the
chain of command. I dictated this letter
to her on Thursday and then she said,
"All right, cool. On uh I'm going home
for Chabas. I got to hum, you know, I'm
going home straight from here. I got a
hamu. She wasn't going back to the base
for Friday. But Sunday, I'll go in and
type it up. Sunday she was in the
terrorist attack. The guy put the blew
up um the device and then he rushed in
with another device like as if he was
going to help and she was one of the
people that rushed in to help and uh and
she was uh um she was blown up with a
second charge. Um but they never found
her bag for a while. So I had to rewrite
that letter and I got out a week, you
know, a month a month early and I went
and was in Madria which really closed
the circle
>> like student became the teacher and uh
full circle
>> having served in the IDF being a
paratrooper done a couple frontline
duties in different places. Um it was
just amazing. Uh
>> I I can't keep I'm sorry I can't jump
past the IDF still. Um how many jumps
did you do? Do you
>> uh I did nine which is considered a lot.
I did my five to qualify
>> and then I did a six with my my I got
taken out to be a commander.
>> Um but I went back and jumped with my
original unit as like a end of musul fun
jump.
>> So did you ever have to jump in combat?
>> No idea. Not since 56 is done.
>> Okay, great. It's not that.
>> And then I did three with my soldiers uh
training and stuff.
>> Yeah, three training.
>> Yeah, I I uh drove by at 3:00 in the
morning once towards Yamamel. I was
going to the Dead Sea for an escape with
my family actually. And um on the way we
look up and we see hundreds hundreds of
paratroopers landing all at once talking
about 2:00 in the morning in the middle
of a field near the Dead Sea
>> East of Bea.
>> Yeah. Yeah. And we couldn't believe what
we were seeing and we pulled over
>> and we watched it happen and they, you
know, a lot of soldiers backed us off
because it was training. Of course they
do it on purpose. The land tests at 2
o'clock in the morning or at night. the
the second and the the third, fourth,
and fifth jump I think were at night.
Maybe just the fourth and fifth you do
it at night. It's a little bit different
than jump at night.
>> And you're jumping with also hundreds of
people like at the same time like
>> Yeah.
>> Is that on purpose that way?
>> Yeah. It's to get a nice uh tight You
want the unit to be together. You don't
want a big spread.
>> Wow.
>> So, it's jump.
Um and we train. That's what a lot of
the training is.
>> Have you skydived in your life before?
>> No. I I'll jump out of an airplane for
Israel, but I'm not going to do it for a
thrill. No, it's jumping out of a good
airplane is a bad idea.
>> Wow.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. All right. I'm done with that. I'm
good.
>> It's not operational. It's not But if
you can get yourself to jump out of an
airplane, especially the second time,
it's probably the closest thing to
combat that you can kind of simulate.
It's you're very you feel very
vulnerable when you're up there. Um and
uh to to just do what you need to do and
operate and and execute the train what
you're trained to do, then you're
probably going to be able to operate in
combat, too. So, that's why Israel still
does it.
>> Got it. That makes sense. Even though
they don't need to use it, but that's
the process, right?
>> Okay. Makes a lot of sense.
>> It makes Yeah. There are those who have
jumped out of airplanes and those who
haven't, and it's changes you a little
bit, especially when you have to
operate.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah.
>> I'm ready to move past this part of your
life. Let's keep going. Yes.
>> Because there's so much so many layers
to you. I love it.
>> Uh you know, like I could do a whole
podcast about the IDF. I can keep going
like and I and I want to, but I there's
so much more to you that I want to
learn. So,
>> uh
>> back from the IDF, finished doing this
uh rotation. You went to work. What did
you do that?
>> No, no. I got home and like um my little
brother was at the Naval Academy and I
got home and went to go see him. Uh he
was in a leadership role and and it was
an amazing day and then I went stopped
by the bookstore and outside the
bookstore in Annapolis is an F4 which is
a Vietnam era fighter on a stick on a on
a display an actual F4 and I got out and
I was like you know what doesn't hurt to
ask. So, I came back home and I got a
haircut and went to the enlisted
recruiter in my in the kind of the
downtown bio, which is called Redbank.
And uh I asked the uh the staff
sergeant, hey, is this is this even
possible? You know, I served in the IDF.
Can I still get a commission and be a
fighter pilot in the Marines? And he
trying to after a minute trying to sign
me up for uh to be a reservist or
something. I said, "No, I got one
question. Can I still do this? I know
all about the program. I was being
recruited in college. Is it even
possible?
Is it possible?" So, we called up the uh
the officer recruiter who was up here
where the turnpike and the parkway come
together. Um, and it was like uh I was
across the desk from this staff sergeant
in Redbank and he said, "Hey sir, I got
a guy here who wants to be a pilot. He
just got out of the IDF. Wants to know
if it's possible." And the guy was like,
you know, shut the f up. You know, I
hear he's like, "No, sir. I'm not effing
with you." And I'm like, "Uh, he's like,
"No, sir. He's not fat. What are your
SAT scores?" "No, sir, he's not dumb."
And he's like, "I got to talk to him."
So he he uh he gave me the the phone and
uh you know he's like come on up here I
need to meet you. So I went up and met
the guy and he was a a gung-ho uh
infantry officer, a recon marine who had
been through Ranger school with the army
and gung-ho but he'd missed the first
Gulf War. you know, he was in training
in 91 and this is like four years later
and he had never done anything real and
here I am a guy who just landed his lap
who'd been, you know, I did two stints
in Lebanon in the security zone and I'd
been in in uh after um Bar Goldstein and
like done like done some real stuff. He
was just picking my brain about, you
know, tactical operational kind of
tactical stuff for a long time. And then
he's like, I want to put you in the
Marine Corps. And I said, hey, I haven't
looked at a book in three years. let me
do some studying. So I studied for a
week and came back and I took the test
and I aced it and this is in mid 90s
when the the military was shrinking
because of the postcold war pie you know
dividend and but New Jersey had two
flight slots for two marine pilots and I
got one. So in a couple days I had it
was approved. I had done like the
security questionnaire because I told
him like let's make sure I did the
security questionnaire my first time my
my first time doing an SF86 security
questionnaire and I uh you know and then
I had I had that burden hand and I was
like let me think about it because I had
a couple months before I had to show up
to Quantico and I you know went visit my
grandparents. I hadn't seen them in four
years. Um, friends and stuff and and I
then I ended up saying, you know what,
let me go try this Marine Corps thing
out. And that turned into it's almost 20
years. You know, I I I uh it was
everything about the Marine Corps just
impressed me more every every day. You
know, it's just uh great organization.
So, I I love it. I got to do a pause
again. I'm I'm back at you now because
I'm first of all, I'm feeling that
energy of being a 21year-old. 21.
>> Yeah. At that point, I'm hanging out
shooting pool with my friends and uh my
friend walks in the door and he's like,
"Okay, hey, what's up guys? How you
doing?" Yeah. Hey, how you how was your
year or two? I was Yeah, I've been in
the IDF about to go to the Marines.
Like, wow. You're competition for me by
the way, you know, at that point. So,
I'm like looking at you like and I'm
imagining that's your space that you're
living in. You're going to visit your
grandparents. You're going to tell your
family.
>> I I'd love to know the energy around
your family at that point. Like, what's
going on? They're allowing you to do
this. They're supporting it. Like, we
we're finally getting you back and now
you're leaving us again. Yeah. Well,
even when I went to join the IDF, like
this I wasn't really asking my family. I
I I like I said, I didn't want to do
this. I needed to do it. I I can't
imagine not having served in the IDF
after being in Ashitz at that. You know,
for me personally, there was no I had no
choice. Even though I was kind of I was
definitely a unicorn back then. You
know, no one was doing it. I I paved my
own way to do it. But um I I told my
parents you know I remember thinking I
had some very close friends who were you
know supporting me and stuff but
actually that they had been on the trip
in in to Poland in 88 with me those
close friends. So like but my parents I
remember thinking you know what I'll
just tell them when I have to tell them
and it's it is what it is you know um
when I got back from the IDF I think
they were they were pretty much like not
surpris like I don't they knew me my
whole life so it was like it wasn't like
a thing for my parents you know
>> right so basically if you had to do it
they had to accept it which is nice
>> my parents my my dad always says you
know I'm living his dream you know he he
>> he flew in the Navy for a little bit he
was an ROC in school and uh it was
Vietnam and he had met my mom wanted to
get married so life expectancy of naval
aviators in Vietnam wasn't good and he's
I think I'll be a lawyer instead and you
know both both my grand my grandfathers
served in World War II one of them was
in flight training until until uh he was
transferred to the infantry to get ready
for the invasion of Japan but he had
done some flying for the army airore
>> they're actually really proud of you
>> yeah of course which is really nice
>> yeah nothing but pride I don't think
that's amazing
>> yeah I'm sure and I can't imagine now
that I have kids and And I can't imagine
what, you know, they were going through.
I was cognizant of it in a theoretical
way, you know.
>> Yeah. For those that are wondering, her
his daughter is in the audience.
>> Yeah. Um, in a theoretical, I was very
cognizant of, um, what I was putting
them through, but just in a theoretical,
you know, when you're 21, you don't know
what it's like to be a parent. And so I
want to go back to that interview where
you're meeting this person and he's
learning about your history in Lebanon,
which I didn't know about because we
skipped the whole discussion of the IDF
and about your tactical uh you know
procedures,
>> right?
>> What did you tell him that impressed
him? Tell me. Tell me. I think I think
if you if you're in the military,
>> you kind of you can cut to the chase and
it's very, you know, if you have that
kind of stuff in common, which we had a
lot of stuff in common, but um I don't I
forget what I probably told him
the stuff, you know, we did ambushes.
>> That's what I'm talking about. I'd like
to hear that lingo. What does it mean an
ambush? What mean you're telling him
you're trained for an ambush? So, so in
the middle in in the in the mid '90s,
Israel was still maintaining the
security zone um which is a buffer. It's
basically the second ridge line north of
the border because uh the the PLO and
then the Hisbellah were able to shoot
into Israel. So, if you have line of
sight, especially, you know, you've all
been to the Golan, you know, they had
line of sight right into the farmers
field, the kibbutz fields down below and
they, you know, tractors had to be
armored and they planted the eucalyptus
trees along the road so that they could
get around without getting shot at. So
in order to keep that from happening,
there was a security zone. We pushed
them two ridge lines north of the
border, which meant if we controlled
that second ridge line, we could we
could have line of sight into the next
valley, which you know, you know, 10 to
15 kilometers north,
>> which gives you a technical advantage,
>> of course. Yeah. Right. The terrain. So,
and then Israel had, you know, probably
pretty primitive electronic
surveillance. Um but the terrain there
were there were known entry points that
his below had probed and found out how
we can get through
um Israel's defenses. So in order to
cover that we would lay ambushes. We had
we had observation posts. My second time
in Lebanon was in Lebanon at an
observation post on at the where the
Lutani River bends flows south and then
bends to the west to go out to the Med.
And right at that we called it the uh
the uh the elbow of the Latani River. We
had a OP an observation post right there
that we maintained. there 14 of us and
it's almost like being on a ship in the
middle of the ocean because uh all the
terrain up there was considered his
controlled and so every time we had to
um re you know resupply a convoy come up
it had to be opened up and cleared
during daylight hours and you know so
we're up there 14 of us we had artillery
support and air support but we were 14
people in his blood territory when the
sun set we were on high alert you know
everyone was on the position in the
position was awake uh an hour before
sunrise eyes, our first light. Um, and
we're all ready for
um it was very operational. We couldn't
take our shoes off. One person could
have their shoe off at any one time. So,
one of the 14 of us, it had to be during
daylight hours. So, if you were changing
your your socks, hey, I'm changing my
socks. And we had about enough water to
take a shower once a week or once every
10 days or whatever. And um it was just
very operational. And then, you know,
I'd be up there and then when it came
time, we were up there for four months.
when it was my time to come down. I
might lay an ambush cuz you know if
you're going out for a couple days, you
kind of work hard the last couple days
because everyone's know knows you're
going home to sleep for a couple days.
So pretty much you you did an ambush or
you know at least a couple patrols back
to back to kind of pay for your your
time off. So, I would do an ambush in
Lebanon, come back before sunrise to the
position, and then the convoy would take
me back to the border with Israel, and I
could be back in in Tel Aviv, you know,
for lunch.
>> Wow.
>> Um, be on the beach in Tel Aviv for the
afternoon.
>> That's a nice way to spend the end of
the
>> Yeah, it was like, so that kind of thing
just blow it blew his mind, you know. I
I had called for fire once. We saw a
truck of his below truck that I was able
to call the helicopter in. And here I'm
just a young I was only a sergeant. I
was
>> And what happens? So you call a
helicopter in and
>> Yeah. So we saw the the the Kusha truck
and we called the helicopter was a Cobra
and we called it in and um he was able
to eventually see it and blew it up um
>> in front of you
>> across the river.
>> You're seeing it happen meaning you're
so you're responsible for the defense
and you're seeing it happen right in
front of you.
>> Yeah. Right. when the position we were
in. I mean the we pulati had it before
us and they were attacked. His bullah
came up. They they uh over the course of
many weeks and months maybe they um this
old shepherd brought their gear into the
olive olive um or grove that was right
underneath the position. And um you know
over weeks this guy was just grazing his
sheep supposedly. But on his donkey, he
had a piece of a Sagger missile, you
know, a control box and then the missile
itself and then a 50 cal barrel and a 50
cal um body for a machine gun. And they
brought this all this gear in there and
then this his came up and put it
together one night and attacked the
position and and killed the Givati. And
when we came up like they was a couple
weeks before we took it from him. Um, so
like we uh it was very very uh
operational and you know for a guy that
a marine officer who just been through
training and he was he was a very
successful marine officer and he was a
captain who was uh recruiting for New
Jersey. He was a recruiting officer for
for uh for marine officers for New
Jersey and he uh but he never done
anything real like that. So, I just told
him, you know,
>> the average IDF soldier is seeing more
action
>> than some of the high-end people in the
US military
>> because uh you know, like you said,
Israel is defending itself at all times
and they're battling so many fronts as
well. They're surrounded by enemies. So,
the casual soldier is seeing more action
than just you know, most of the people
in the military in 10 20 years,
>> right?
>> So, they're more impressed by you just
this, you know, guy just made his way
from the IDF and he's showing up here
front door.
And he's he literally and he's like he's
got to pick your brain. He's got to see
what what is it like
>> and to that.
>> I think it was on your podcast the guy
who killed Sinir was a a young commander
trainee.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Exactly. Just uh you know someone who
was in s you know ended up learning all
the tactics and brought that back with
him and you would have told me that.
>> Yeah. And like you said also just using
that leadership skills, you know, you're
in a team of 14 people. You're the
tender age of 19 or 20. You have to
announce when you're taking your sock
off. You imagine any yeshiva buffer
listening to this and thinking like, "Oh
my god, like you know, yeah, you this is
quaint compared to what's going on in
Gaza, you know, right now."
>> Absolutely. Absolutely. This was this is
routine. Um, but yeah, it's it's he
can't the experience this generation of
Israelis, every generation is amazing,
but the the the uh the stuff that they
have to go through uh the stuff that
they do, what they're doing right now.
>> Um Yeah.
>> So, you start in the Marines, right?
That was uh and you did you said 20 plus
years being 20 years. Yeah.
>> 20 years in the Marines. Um
>> which I was the last guy to ever thought
I wanted to go fly jets off ships and
then move on with my life,
>> right? Um, but the Marine, like I said,
the Marines just
>> So, what year are you enlisted? What
What year was this?
>> I I was uh I became an officer in '95.
>> 95.
>> 96. January 96.
>> 96. So, I'm just thinking from 911
perspective, what we said earlier,
right? How many years you're having to
prepare and become who you are. You're
not knowing this is coming, but you
know, think back now.
>> No, it's crazy. I came, you know, I back
in the day, it was like, remember the
quaint old days before terrorism came to
our shores? You know, I I figured I was
done fighting terrorists. That's
something Israel used to do. Now I'm
back. I I thought I'd just be I I never
thought I'd have to go to war for the
United States. Um
it's just I thought I'd be uh you know
just peace, you know. So I I joined in
96 and it takes a while to become a
pilot. I in the Marines you have to do
about a year of training to become a
marine officer which um was it's amazing
training. You know every Marine officer
does everything.
>> You're talking about the guy with the
big hat that's yelling at you like that
type of thing. No, I never had to do
that. But um like at first it's I became
a marine officer. It takes about 10
weeks.
>> Okay.
>> And then you go through we have the
basis school which is you know you learn
how to call for fire you know artillery.
You learn engineering you learn offense
defense in the infantry wise offense
defense. Um you you take classes on the
un uniform code of military justice even
though you're not going to become a
lawyer but we had lawyers in our class.
you know, you take Marine Corps um
officers basically go through Marine
Corps 101 of all all aspects of it,
which makes it makes a little bit
different. You know, um one you spend
that takes about six, seven months. You
sp you're with, you know, when I when
I'm called in to drop bombs for
somebody, there's a good chance I know
the guy or he knows someone that that I
know. So, you feel that it's just like
um they feel that like we're one big
team. So I did that and then you go to
Navy flight school and you know after
you done with that. So that took took me
about two and a half years of flying to
get to the F-18.
>> Oh.
>> And then about a year of learning the
F-18 before I got to an operational
squadron. And then I was in that
operational squadron about a year before
911.
>> I see. So uh and just for the casual
listener which is myself uh Navy,
Marines, Army. The difference between
them real quick is
>> the Marines are easy way to look at it.
>> Yeah. We have the Department of the
Navy, the Department of the Air Force,
the Department of the Army, and now we
have Space Force. Uh we have the Coast
Guard, too. In the Department of the
Navy is the Marine Corps, which most
Americans don't realize. The Marine
Corps is so prominent. We're we're tiny
relative to other services, but we're
we're in the Department of the Navy. Um
so, yeah.
>> And the Navy is responsible for
>> the Navy is uh for for uh sea dominance.
>> Got it.
>> Um and but Strictly speaking, the Navy
kind of stays on ships and the Marine is
um goes ashore in what we call the
latoral zone, like the first x amount of
miles from from the beach inland. That's
what the Marine Corps controls.
>> So from your perspective, you're getting
the best of both worlds.
>> Yeah.
>> Right. But where's the Air Force
involved? Isn't the Air Force separate
from the Navy?
>> Yes. And
>> you're not in the Air Force?
>> No, I was in the I was a pilot in the
Marines, which means I'm a naval
aviator.
>> Taking me back to when you were a
teenager. That's when you saw the
helicopter and you're like, "Oh, I could
do both." And that's what ended up
happening for you, which is kind of
cool.
>> Yeah, totally. Yeah. I I didn't I didn't
know the Marines had jets, right? You
know,
>> um,
>> did you ever like fly a plane prior to
going to flight school? Never.
>> No. This captain that recruited me said,
"Hey, one of the questions on the test
is, have you ever flown an airplane?"
>> And I hadn't yet. So, I called a friend
who um his brother was a pilot, like a
Cessna guy, and he took me flying, let
me fly it, you know, for 20 minutes,
whatever. I flew it. Um, I had flown a
helicopter. Yeah, I'd flown a
helicopter, but the question was, "Have
you flown an airplane?" I was, you know,
let me just
>> So, yeah. So, I can answer yes to that
question. Yeah.
>> One second. Did I Did I fly a
helicopter? Hold on. Uh, no. Yeah. Not
yet. I don't know if I helicopter flying
one.
>> I I I agreed.
>> Yeah. That's like very very rare. How
old were you the first time you actually
flew a fighter jet by yourself? By the
way, are they single seaters? Right.
It's not too one person.
>> I was probably 20. So, the first time I
flew a plane by myself, it happens like
I think the 14th flight in the in the
first plane you fly in the Navy. By the
time I flew F-18s, I'd already flown
three airplanes.
>> Uh, at the time there were three
airplanes in the jet pipeline and then I
flew F-18s. So, it's the fourth airplane
I flew. But you fly solo right away. Um,
I think it was the 14th flight on the at
the time it was a T-34 which is a
turborop um, tandem seat twin two seat
uh, trainer and then I flew a T2 which
is my first jet and then a A4 Skyhawk.
So uh, which is a Vietnam era jet um,
which was a trainer back then and that
that you know ve especially after like
the second plane you fly in the third
plane, it's very early on that you fly
by yourself. You're you're being trained
to be in in that pipeline in the jet
pipeline. You're being trained to be a
single seat aviator
>> and some of the Navy guys and some of
the Marines have go to two seats,
>> but uh you're trained to be a single
seat guy.
>> So, do you vividly remember that first
time that you took off and you're in the
air and it's like you're flying by
yourself now?
>> I wouldn't say vividly, but I you know
>> I remember thinking, I can't believe
they let me go do this. Yeah. But the
training is so good. Like um Yeah. You
definitely feel like you were taking
your dad's car out when you were 15 or
something. Yeah.
>> And you're like nervous, excited, like
what are you what are you feeling? It's
like
>> it's all that.
>> Scared?
>> Not scared. No, just scared of messing
up. Yeah. You know, you don't want to
mess up. The way the training works is
you're not really scared of You can't be
scared. You can't operate if you're
scared. So, you're just maybe if you're
scared of anything, it's just not
performing up to your
>> Yeah. And all this is exercises, right,
at this point. Like, you're not actually
doing any type of missions just yet,
right?
>> Like you're going up there, you're doing
whatever it is that you need to do, and
then you're then you're coming back and
and that's it.
>> Yeah. It's it's the way the way military
train flight training works is um the
you never really get comfortable. It's
like going to the gym. Soon as you can
do two plates, they're putting another
10 on each side. So you never really you
never really get comfortable and that's
the way it's got to be. So when I had to
go to combat and it was like Yeah. It
was almost easy.
>> Wow.
>> Yeah.
>> Sounds like a good recipe for life. Like
just the kind. And you said that earlier
and I I love you know
>> seeing the comparison of life when it
comes to these kind of things like keep
pushing yourself right. So, what do you
take out of that?
>> Well, you asked me before we went on.
I'm like uh about being religious. I I
think it's very it's parallel. Like I I
I feel like flying is the physical
world. And I I was um a master of
manipulating machines in the physical
world. That's what I was trained to do
for years. And then, you know, what now
you learn about growing as a as a person
in a spiritual way. It's the same thing.
It's like the same thing. just always
how can you get better if as an aviator
if you consider yourself good you're
you're dangerous what people don't
realize and I was talking to my rabbi uh
yesterday
you know we're talking about uh big how
it's you know boed comes from the word
bog like your clothes can you know not
be who you are and and I was thinking
like we you know when we go flying in
the Marine Corps you know you walk
around the ship everyone knows you're an
aviator you're a fighter pilot from the
patch you're wearing um but and And we
and we are very confident if you're
comfortable with who you are and you're
not trying to get better, you're
dangerous. And the same thing with I
think as being a Jew, you know, if
you're if you're comfortable where
you're at, you know, it's you got to
keep moving forward. And um just keep
improving and keep um challenging
yourself and and you know, I heard one
of you say you're working on yourself. I
think it was you one of your
>> I think lately it's also him. So we're
trying.
>> Yeah. Yeah. We're working.
>> If you're not growing, you're going
backwards.
>> Exactly. pick up on what you just said.
By the way,
>> you're you're dangerous. Like, first of
all, I have a question.
>> What's your call sign?
>> Zed.
>> Okay. And like, you know, you like were
like uh spewing Top Gun right there,
like telling when Iceman told Maverick,
>> you know, you're dangerous.
>> The themes in that movie are real. It's
it's really cheesy and it's it's um
>> it's really cheesy and really uh
Hollywood, but I saw that when I was
young. That's when I I learned a lot
about, you know, what being what naval a
aviation is about. And the themes in it,
like I said, are very real. I I had a
friend who flew two seats and his he had
a mishap and his backseater didn't
survive and he's still plagued by it
today.
>> Wow.
>> Yeah. Like he didn't, you know, you were
near the pilot and your backseater goes
out flying with you, you need to bring
him home. And how do you face his wife
and his son if you didn't bring him
back? And that's a big theme in that
first movie. And you know, that's real.
Um, and I'm not like I'm not being
dramatic when I say you're dangerous. If
you know if you're not um if there's a
special kind of humility that we that
all naval aviators have, you know,
especially when you try and land on a
ship at night, we may seem, you know,
cocky and overconfident, but there's no
such thing as overconfidence in a
cockpit.
>> You're constantly thinking, what can I
do better? What can I, you know, um,
this little mistake that I made, how can
I not make yesterday, how can I not make
that today? you know, and when when
you're by yourself, you know, hopefully
the the mistakes you make, you know, uh
um you catch you catch.
>> When did you open that world of
spirituality? It seems like it's
something.
>> I think I always had it. I just didn't I
didn't grow up with religion, so I
didn't I grew up conservative, which
wasn't really spiritual. I I think I
always had it deep down. I just didn't
have a framework for it.
>> Can you share with us what happened?
Like did it
>> So, yeah. I mean, it's been a obviously
long. I I um I wanted to go to a
religious kibbutz for a few reasons.
One, I want I wanted to go to kibbutz
because being a combat uh being in the
paratroopers and in combat arms, I
didn't want to have to worry about doing
my laundry and going shopping on Friday
afternoon after not sleeping for a
couple days. You know, I'd heard all
this. So, I wanted to go to kibbutz, but
I was going there to serve as a Jew. I
didn't want to go to a kibbutz that was
kilan.
>> Got it. Okay.
>> So, I there's a few few kib. as a
conservative Jew, you're in Israel and
you're like, "Let me go to a religious
kibbut." Also, I wanted to know just
made sense.
>> Yeah, it made sense and I wanted to know
>> more about it.
>> Sure.
>> I had never kept actually I knew that's
why we kind of kept Shabbat, but we
really didn't. So, I went to a religious
kibbutz and so there, you know, I
learned I was exposed to it. Um,
obviously I kept kosher in the IDF
because I was either in the kibbutz or
in the army and the army keeps kosher
too. And I didn't really keep Shabbat in
the IDF because if you're on the base,
if you're in Lebanon on Saturday, it's
just like Friday, it's got to be. Um,
but on the kibutz, you know, and I was
exposed to holidays I'd never heard of
before.
>> Did you experience Purim?
>> Yeah. Yeah. Purim we used to do as kids.
>> So, what what was another new one for
you then?
>> Um, well, I guess tishab I really I I
was exposed to that on the summer trip.
I never heard about that. Yeah.
>> Because it was in the summer like we
took the summer off from being Jewish.
So like um yeah. So I I think I but so I
was in the religious kibbutz and there
was an American kid there who wasn't
there for the army. He was there to
learn Hebrew but he was religious or at
least buba and he begged me to put on to
fillin and I was like I had these to
fillain from when I was bar mitzvah but
my synagogue didn't even teach us how to
put it on. I just had them. My
grandparents got me
>> them. It was like symbolic more.
>> Well I think my grandfather was like
well when you get bar mitzvah you need
to fill in. So he he got me some to fill
in but my synagogue didn't even do it.
>> And then when I went on that summer
program was the first time that that USY
I didn't know how to do it. I had to ask
someone but I did it for the summer cuz
everyone else was doing it and that was
it. And it was so and this guy like
begged me to put it on. I was like no
dude I'm not
>> Was he Lavich by any chance?
>> See later on I realized he probably was
influenced but he was an American kid.
>> Yeah. But my rabbis now take credit for
for it because they're like, "Of course
he had to."
>> Yeah.
>> But I didn't know that. I didn't know
what Labovich was at the time. He begged
me to put on to fillin. And then we went
on a on a a trip up to the northern
border like a few weeks before I was
going to go get drafted. And he said,
"You know, we're seeing soldiers go up
the good fence up there near north near
near Matula, north of Kashimona, which
ended up where I was as a soldier twice.
But we see these guys going up there and
he's like that was like the third time
he begged me, "Please just put on to
fillin and say the schma and take it
off. It'll take you two minutes. Please
just do that for me. I'll sleep better
at night." His name was Daniel. That's
all I remember. So I was like, "All
right, dude. I'll do it for you." So I
started doing that. And then and then I
just do that. Like I did it like for
years and years. And that I think when I
look back on it, I think that really
doing that like eventually it just
seeped in like
>> Yeah. It made you more connected.
>> Yeah. it like and then and after a while
I'm like I I'm still around like I'm not
going to stop if if it ain't broke I'm
not going to try and fix it. I'm going
to keep doing it. I just kept doing it
and it became like when I joined the
Marine Corps I told the guys they wake
me up 10 minutes early I got to put on
my tofillin
>> because you know during that first 10
weeks
>> that's so interesting. So you kept doing
it throughout the Marine Corps while not
being observant of anything else
>> a little bit. So I I I kind of wanted to
move in the right direction. Yeah. So I
came back and and my wife is uh grew up
conservative like me
>> and um like you know we started kind of
not mixing milk and meat when we got
married. I when I went to college I said
I'm not eating anymore trafe. I'm like
this you know I I kind of wanted to move
in the right direction.
>> So it was more than just filling then.
It was uh Yeah. But slowly but surely it
was
>> Yeah. But it really like and I I don't
I'm a I'm a a sample group of one so I
don't maybe just as I got older.
>> Yeah. I I don't know. Um but definitely
I feel like I've always been spiritual.
I just didn't have a hook to hang it on.
I didn't know what it was being
spiritual was. I was I I was spiritual.
I'd go skiing and I'd be like, "Man,
look, you know, this is incredible." Or
I go sailing and on a beautiful day like
I was definitely spiritual, but just not
in a as much in a Jewish way.
>> You just you weren't observant, but you
were spiritual, which is
>> more time closer to God than we do cuz
you're in the ear most of the time. So
you're already halfway there.
>> Very true. you probably have a better
relationship with him than we do.
>> Very good point. Very good point. But
then there was one point throughout your
past, I guess, years where you're like,
"Okay, I'm going all in." That's like I
guess obviously like there's Yeah.
celebrations. But um it's a cool
journey. It's it's it's been great. It's
been amazing. And uh
>> yeah, I told you before we went online,
I've been keeping uh we've been keeping
Shabas for two years now. And it's
life-changing. It really is.
>> Were there any uh really from very
religious ultraorththodox people that
you remember serving with you
>> in the IDF? in the not in the IDF in the
uh Marines.
>> No, I was the only Jew. You were the
only Jew?
>> Yeah. When I was an instructor Jews, but
not religious Jews?
>> No, I was the only Jew that I knew of.
>> Uh there was one that came through when
I was an instructor. I'd been in about
let's say 10 years. Yeah. About 10
years.
>> Um a Marine that came through. Um there
was a Navy guy that came through that
was one of my students who's
his uh his mom was Jewish.
>> Um but yeah, there weren't many Jews.
>> Makes sense. Jewish people are not known
for their, you know, we're known for our
fear of heights. Like it's not something
that we we love. Like I was in the
hospital the other day and uh I've seen
like the doctors coming at Jewish, the
nurse Jewish, the pediatrician Jewish.
And I tell I'm like honey, I feel like
everybody in this hospital is Jewish
over here. And she said, "Are you
surprised like that there are Jewish
doctors out there?" Like Jewish pilots,
you know, that's not something that's
our we're not athletes. Like we don't
like jumping. We don't like flying. Like
that's that's not a Jewish
>> Israeli Air Force is pretty good. But
>> I'm curious how many pilots are out
there even today not working for LL that
are
>> there's there are Jewish pilots around.
Yeah.
>> Yeah. I've flown I had one flight where
all three of us were um
>> Oh, that's cool.
>> Jewish. Yeah. Um Well, yeah. Yeah. The
third guy considered himself Jew, but
there's there in in commercial aviation
there's more a lot more than the war.
>> Um but yeah,
>> you said something earlier. I got to
pick up on that and then I'll I'll uh
I'll pass it back to Yoshi.
>> I cannot wait to start talking about the
>> I know. I know. I know. I am
waiting. I'm so I have to go back to
Shabas. I'm sorry.
>> Aviation IDF. This is Michael's jam, by
the way. The IDF. So, he could be on
this.
>> Shabas is my jam, too. So, I have to ask
you, you mention I I promise I'm going
to back go 911 all in, baby. But we
actually had a survivor of 9/11 here.
Say survivor, a first responder of 911.
Interesting that one.
>> Yeah. And it was fascinating to hear
that version of his story. And uh you
know, we we lived it. So, we appreciate
it a lot and it's in our blood and we
want to hear and it's like yes, I agree
with us. I'm like
>> I'm waiting to get there. But you did
say Shabas helped change your life and I
got to jump on it real quick. Explain
that for just one minute. How how is
Shabas what has it done for you?
>> I know it's been like almost two years
now or maybe. Yeah. I I can't imagine
not having it like you know it just you
know that everyone says you shut off and
it um but the ch I think so we had we
bought a place I was just driving to
shool and back for a lot of years that's
pretty much all I did on chabas but when
we bought the place where we could walk
to shul and shut down entirely um I
remember having like a six-hour
conversation with with my wife like like
we were on our second date
>> like I don't remember even though we
would go skiing together and we'd be on
lift, you know, for 10 minutes. Um, or
having dinner together for 2 hours. But
I remember like it was probably this
time of year two years ago when it's
really, you know, sunsets early. So,
dinner was over, you know, it's 7 or
whatever and we talked till 2:00 in the
morning like, and I was like, what just
happened? You know, it's just there's
things like that that, you know, of
course, you're shutting down and I I
can't wait to turn my phone on,
especially in the last couple years, see
what happened in the world. um you know
or see what I'm doing for work the next
day. I can't imagine not having that
especially the world's just accelerating
into this complete connectivity. I was I
was asking Lily um you know do you know
do you know the idea of being good at
directions you know um on the way here
she's she's never heard about it like I
was always good at directions I have a
spatial mind I you know I can look at a
map and know where I'm going and and now
like her generation just plugs it in her
phone like it's just constant constantly
connected uh in ways that just didn't
exist when I was Lily's age and like and
it's just like a lifeline you know, I
can appreciate it. I don't think, you
know, if you grow up like Lily does, I
don't think she can can appreciate it as
much, but I because I live before, you
know, the internet was in your hand and
um, you know, just when we'd go on a car
trip and be bored for hours, you know,
and there's some val value in that just
not being distracted by anything else
and be able to focus on your wife.
>> Yeah. I just told someone I just told my
neighbor um over Shabas I have something
called the road trip theory and that is
like a lot of times forim like you know
people like you know they uh recommend
boys to girls or girls to boys and based
on a picture or based on a 1-hour
meeting nah she's not for me or he's not
for me and I say you know it's
interesting if people spend a little
more time with one another they might
actually get to know each other and they
might actually and it was a whole debate
can you build an attraction to someone
and I was saying yes and someone else
was saying no and we were arguing about
it,
>> right?
>> And I was saying my road trip theory
which is I guess based on the shabas
theory. You're talking to your
relationship. You're talking to your
partner
>> for what you did when you were dating
and it's just awesome. I love hearing
that.
>> It's amazing it there's so many ways I
mean in the community we have an
incredible community just to be able to
>> you know sit at the kdish and there's
nowhere to go you know just be with
people. There's no everyone's on a
clock.
>> Love kdish.
>> Yeah everyone's on a clock you know
who's doing the next thing. what's next?
You know, I got to get home for to make
dinner or whatever it is. You know, just
sitting there like nothing to do. Just
be with your peeps. And it's it's just
>> be in the moment. Be present. Right.
>> If it wasn't for Shabas, let's face it,
we wouldn't turn it off.
>> We'd be in the office on Saturday. We'd
be right back at it. And we would ignore
all those meaningful things that
actually matter. And this kind of forces
that. And I think that's what you're
saying. Shabas really just forces you to
reconnect
>> um and to just be really about what's
around you and what really matters and
what really matters. It's a beautiful
thing. It really is. And anybody can
practice this. It's not exclusive to
just Judaism. It's just a great concept.
But I think Judaism put a nice package
around it%.
>> We made it into like a you know it the
kdish part.
>> I was about to say you like the kdish
>> the meals. No the shabas meals. No, it
is. It is.
>> You add all these elements to it and we
found a way to make it fun, right? We
found a way to make it in a very
entertaining. So, it's
>> your kids just come by us.
>> I like my
community that you are that there's a
kabad there. That's Oh, there is. That's
beautiful. Okay.
>> Later on, I've learned about Labavich
later on. I was in the Marine Corps
actually. Yeah.
>> All right. Back to landing planes on
ships.
>> September 11th with that rubber band.
>> September 11th happens.
>> Whoa. Whoa. You're jumping to September
11th. is 20 years. 20 years. You jumping
over 20.
>> No. Why? 20 years. Five years. Five
years. Five years. Okay. You're right.
He was going through five years. Okay.
You going through the training, the
process. Okay.
>> Four or five different fights till you
got to the big one.
>> No combat, no missions, no real a lot of
just training. Training training.
>> Like I was saying, the training get gets
you ready.
>> Yeah. I was very
>> Because you're always pushing yourself
further and further.
>> Yeah. And the one big thing is landing
on a ship. The the TA4 Skyhawk, which is
an A4 Skyhawk with um two seats. Um, the
only computer chip in it was in my Casio
watch. The plane was made in 1954. You
literally started it. Um, you'd have to
start it with an external uh, huffer
start, an external jet engine that
pulled up next side and they plugged it
in and that would get the motor going.
And once the motor was spooled up, you
could give it gas and light it off. The
way you lit it off was banging on the
throttle like your gas grill. Your gas
grill you would hold, you hold it and it
goes click click click click click.
Well, you have to go click click click.
You know, every time you banged on the
throttle, it would ignite it.
>> And this is the training. This is that's
the that's a jet that was fun in Vietnam
50s. It was designed in the 50s but in
the 60s
>> how are you training with throwing bombs
down? I'm curious how
>> that was like we call it um iron sights
that was no computers involved. I
literally drop bombs the oldfashioned
way.
>> Yeah. With your eye with your eyesight.
>> With Yeah. You're controlling you're
you're controlling for the different
factors which is the the angle, the
speed. you know this um if you're have a
shallow angle the bomb can um land in a
long there's a big problem uh more of a
uh a problem to solve longitudinally
right if you go directly down it's you
know it's going to where you're pointed
because gravity's not playing on it. Um
the less you're vertical the more
horizontal then your speed. If you're
going faster the bomb's going to travel
further. If you're going too slow, it's
going to So to hit a target when you're
having and of course laterally at the
lineup on the target, too. To hit a
target took some training and there were
no simulators and I did it in the plane
for the first time I dropped a bomb was
it was a 25 pound practice bomb with uh
a little charge on it so you could see
where it landed in the desert. But you
know it was all just done you know
>> manually.
>> Manually so and then same thing with dog
fighting the same thing with landing on
the ship. So, you know, it's it's great
training. And then, of course, when I
was given a Hornet, which had the
computers in it, and it was fly by wire,
and then I could I mean, I think my one
of my first, you know, the average for
my first bombing mission of Hornet was
like 11 feet. Whereas in the in the in
the in the Skyhawk, if you could have an
average of 75 ft, you throw out your
worst bomb and your best bomb and the
average of the other remaining bombs is
if you can have an average uh of 75 ft,
less than 75 ft, you were uh
>> and how did you score target-wise? Like,
you know, is there
>> you see there's rings on the desert.
>> Yeah. So, how like at a certain point
you're like, "Okay, I got this." Like
I'm I'm landing and it's going on the
target like over and over. Do you get a
score one to 10?
>> You come back from the mission and you
have your score. Yeah. Um, and then
there's, you know, the comms, the the
communications and and how the flow and
and if you did the pattern doing
>> and how were you doing? How was your how
were you scoring throughout? Yeah. Well,
I I really wanted to get a bombing E,
which was an average of better than 75.
>> Okay.
>> Um, and because I was a Marine,
>> E is a good thing.
>> An E excellence. A bombing excellence.
>> Oh, I see.
>> If you had a flight and I I didn't get
it. I didn't make it. Uh my first flight
in a Hornet, I got it, you know, because
but because I trained in this primitive
jet, it's like, you know, just made it
easy.
>> Yeah. Not to compare, really, not the
compare, but I have to mention is that I
I wanted to learn how to be a DJ.
And uh, you know, I went out to Best Buy
and I bought an electric board. It was
the newest one. I felt like, wow, this
is so cool. I'm going to go to YouTube
and I went to get a lesson by this guy,
DJ Gold. Shout out to you, bro. You're
awesome. And he looks at me, he goes, do
you really want to learn? And I said,
"Yeah, I really want to learn." He he
took out two CDs and he like, you know,
he put it in there and like I think he
had an eight track and he took an old
old machine and he said, "Use it with
your ear. Learn how to just, you know,
jump from one song to the next. When you
master the eight track, you go to the
CD. You master the CD, you go to the
USB, then you can go to automatic. And
I'm just remembering and I'm thinking
how amazing it is. Also another lesson
in life when you're learning something.
You know, you're going to go straight
for the kill
>> and you're not going to have the tools
to know what happens if something goes
wrong or 100%. Yeah.
>> And so yeah, you have if you have the
discipline to get a a bomb that's close
to 75 ft to the target with a primitive
A4, then when you get in a Hornet, it's
easy,
>> right? So you got on the Hornet and
suddenly you're E++. You're doing great.
>> It's
>> Yeah.
>> And Yeah. So, and then landing on the
ship in the in the primitive jet, it's
steam gauges. It's it's um
>> you really have a seat of the pants.
You're really dialed in. And then when
you have a a jet like with a Hornet
where you have a velocity vector which
solves for where the jet's going to um
where the jet's going to be downrange
um it's an incredible amount of
information but um and it makes it
easier like like I like the analogy with
um being good at directions and now
everyone's good at directions. They
don't even know the kids don't know the
concept of it because everyone has an
iPhone.
>> So if if you're good at directions and
you have an iPhone,
>> it's a nice combination.
>> Love it. So you're landing properly.
You're doing the bomb things. I'm sorry.
I have to go back. You said a dog fight.
>> Dog fight. Yeah. Air combat.
>> How do you train for a dog fight? Is it
literally playing chicken?
>> Yeah. Yeah. Navy in the Marine Corps. We
do it before we get our wings. We do it
uh when I was done training, I I
finished instructing like 11 years ago.
It was a 14 flight syllabus where you do
um you start off being defensive one
against one bandit and then you you go
to being uh offensive against the
bandit. Uh no, you start off offensive
then then you go to being defensive
where the bandit starts behind you. And
then you do neutral one versus one. And
then you do uh two versus one. So let's
let's say I'm the Bennett. The two of
you would be working as a team to kill
me. Um one v one. It's just, you know,
so that's that's a syllabus. It's 14
flights. Um and it's just basic. But if
you can do that in the basic trainer
jet, then when you're given the fighter
jet, which has a lot better performance,
um you have the concepts down and uh you
have a big advantage. But yeah, that's
that's the um very cool stuff. And
you're ready for all these three things.
And then comes 9/11 and you're watching
an Ushi take over. Here we go.
>> Here we go. So 9/11 happened. Where are
you? What where are you when 911 at that
morning?
>> So I was in South Carolina. So I'd been
an operational F-18 pilot for about a
year um with Marine Fighter T squadron
251. We were single seat boat squadron.
So we were assigned to a ship and we
were scheduled to go out the very end of
September that year. We were the ready
carrier. We'd been through our airwing
workups. We were in uh CAG one, air
groupoup one, carrier air groupoup one.
Um and we were like kind of the ready
carrier. So the carrier that's at sea
can't come home until the next carrier
high-fives it. It's a con like cops on a
beat. There's carriers out there on
patrol. So we were the ready carrier.
And I knew I was going deploying. Lily
wasn't born. My son was 14 months old.
Um, and uh, I remember we had a bear
patch in the backyard and my wife's
like, "Got to lay the sod before you
go." So I was, we had a half a palace
sad that someone dropped off and I was
laying the sod and my neighbor came out
and, uh, we called him Michigan Mike.
Uh, and he said, "Um, a plane just hit
the c the trade center. You need to go
in." And I'm, it was beautiful in South
Carolina, but I didn't know what the
weather was here. I assumed it was
cloudy and a Cessna hit the uh, trade
center. And I I laidside for a few more
minutes and he came back out and said,
"Josh, you need to go in and watch TV."
So, I went in and the reason why I was
laying inside that morning is because we
were landing on the ship at night. They
were training until to land on the ship
at night and it was a 10-hour crew day.
You can't be at work any longer than 10
hours when you're landing on at night.
So, we weren't supposed to come to work
till 2:00 that day. So, that morning, I
was working in the yard and went in to
watch the TV as a second plane hit. I
saw the big impact. I'm watching the
fire and when the second plane hit I
flew I I threw on a flight suit and went
to the squadron because at the mo at
that moment the report the news was
saying we don't know how many of these
planes are out there and then I don't
think I don't think the Pentagon had
been had been hit yet. I don't think 93
had crashed yet. So we went thinking
we're going to have to shoot down some
airliners and no one in my squadron
there 18 of us in my squadron. No one
had a cell phone. This was a 2001. We
were you know Marine Corps officers. We
weren't paid that much. We didn't have
cell phones. So we just went to the
squadron. All of us like even though we
weren't supposed to go till 2 that the
night operations were over, you know, we
all kind of independently we didn't call
anybody. We just went to the squadron.
Um and then after about an hour we were
told, you know, the reporting reports
were all the planes were on the ground.
Um and then you basically we all kind of
stood down. There's nothing we could do.
But they pulled up the uh the deployment
a few weeks and we left September. The
ship pulled out on the 18th, literally a
week after, which I think was Roshashana
that day. Um, a week after 911 and I
remember we flew out on the 19th because
the ship pulls out of port out of Norfol
and then we fly out the next day and
land on the ship and then we didn't know
where we're going. Um, but uh I think
Bush had given the axis of evil speech
at that point. So we had an idea but we
didn't know and uh I remember that
Roshashana you know who by sword who by
fire who by water was like I knew I was
the next day I was going out to do
something I didn't know what and our
routine deployment the women the
squadron wives were planning to meet us
halfway through the cruise in Italy you
know it was a med cruise so like we had
this rough plans that halfway through
the women would come to Italy and the
ship would pull in and we'd break the
supposed to be a six-mon deployment and
break it up in half. But on 11 that all
changed and we um we uh we went we flew
off on the 19th and like I said we
didn't know where we were going. We we
went across the Atlantic went through
Gibralar. We hung out off Syria for a
few days doing planning some raids into
Syria because Syria was in the axis of
evil and we kind of wanted to let them
know we're keeping an eye on them. Um
but then uh you know we snuck through
the Suez Canal the the carrier battle
group snuck through the Suez Cano. The
carrier is not just the carrier it's the
destroyers and the submarine or two and
uh you know other ships cruiser I think.
So we all kind of snuck through uh I
think we hit the canal at 11:00 at night
or something and and by sunrise we were
in the wide open Red Sea. Um and then we
started flying missions that next night
before we rounded Yemen. And what kind
of fighter jet is this?
>> F18.
>> Is this the most advanced
>> at the time? Yeah, at the time it was
the F-18 Charlie. The C model was uh the
most advanced on the ship.
>> And how many F-18s are in that part of
the world?
>> Um well on my carrier there were three
carriers to start off with. Um the two
that were out of patrol and then we came
out and the one we were leaving stayed
out for an extra month. So we had three
at the time.
>> At what point did you know where you
were going and what you were doing? Like
>> I think uh when we when we hit the
canal, the Suez Canal, we knew we were
going to Afghanistan,
>> but somebody on the ship.
>> We were already planning that.
>> Someone on the ship knew though
>> or no one.
>> Yeah, probably a couple days before.
Like I said, we were planning strikes
into Syria.
>> Um who knows if that's a faint or if
that was actually an option, but uh I
don't know when the actual decision was
made to
>> to attack.
>> But you knew you were heading in this
area like just And how many ships you
said? Three.
>> And there were three uh for the first
couple weeks and then it was two. There
was a Vincent. My brother was actually
on the Vincent. He was an intel officer
on the Vincent. Um, which is kind of it
was wacky. I hadn't seen him in a year
and a half and he was 100 miles away
from me on another ship.
>> We ended up spending Thanksgiving that
year together. He came over on a
helicopter where we spent Thanksgiving
together.
>> But way to celebrate.
>> Wow. It was a It was not Yeah. Uh 20.
This year will be 24 years I guess. Um,
>> so you're hanging out out there.
>> Yeah. So we were in a box about 100
miles off Karachi Pakistan and flying
missions
>> into Afghanistan, you know, for almost 6
months. I didn't get off the ship other
than to go flying. So I didn't touch
touch land for 6 months. We pulled into
Bahrain in uh early February, I think.
>> The first mission you went on, let's go
to that for a second. So
>> take me into your headsp space if you
don't mind. You're on the ship. You're
What do you guys do on the ship? You
play chess. You play
>> Yeah, we flew We flew day and night.
>> Really on the way over there. We flew
day and night. That was the first year
that I remember other than the IDF of
like I had a bagel on Yum Kipur. I
didn't put anything on. I just had a
bagel cuz I I wanted to fly. I felt like
my life depended on being as sharp as I
could be. It's like getting ready for
the big game. I knew I was going to war.
I wanted to uh be as sharp as I could be
and I wanted a little bit of blood sugar
when I was trying to land on the ship
that night. So,
>> as you're non rabbi, I can tell you that
what you did was okay.
>> Okay, good. I didn't have a rabbi. you
needed any validation from somebody.
>> Thank you.
>> You did the right thing.
>> So, actually, look at that's the jet he
was flying right there.
>> That's it's much easier to have this
conversation and put us there while
we're looking at these uh at the
pictures of the jets.
>> Really talking about how fast does it
go? What's the speed on it?
>> A little bit faster than the speed of
sound.
>> Wow.
>> Yeah.
>> What? Like 1,000 miles an hour? How?
>> Yeah, about that. Depends on your
altitude, but yeah.
>> So, again, so you know, you're on your
way and you're, you know, you're passing
by the Swiss Canal. You're doing your
thing. You're not sure yet.
And you said every day and night you'd
be flying though during those.
>> Yeah, you generally fly day and night.
>> So just while the ship is going
just for practice just for practice.
>> So you're constantly flowing with the
ship. So as the ship is moving forward,
you're taking the plane going up.
>> The ship will turn into the wind
operate.
>> Yep.
>> And when we're done operating, you'll
move down range, move somewhere else.
But it it needs to be oriented to the
wind to take off and land.
>> Got it. So, you're constantly in like
combat ready.
>> Oh, that's that's
>> that's that's taken from a tanker. You
can see the two the uh refueling probe
starting to come out there and the nose
on the right there.
>> How many uh bombs are are on your plane
attached to you?
>> Um generally flew with uh either one big
bomb, a 2,000 pounder or sometimes two
thou 2,000 pounders, but generally uh
like three 500 pounders became the load
out. Um
>> okay.
>> In the beginning, we knew what we're
going to go up. Like my first mission, I
blew up a Taliban barracks. That was one
2,000lb bomb with a with a GPS.
>> I'm sorry. We got to do that.
>> That's what I did. That's his uh
operating.
>> He's about to take off right there.
>> Amazing. So So we'll we'll watch that
another time, but for now, I I want to
feel the the reality of what it was with
you in it. So
>> you're going every day, you're
practicing, you're keeping your, you
know, you're keeping yourself at the
edge of your seat, you're sharp, you're
going to sleep every night. I'm imagine
your heart is pounding a little bit
throughout the days or you're calm as a
cucumber. Like what's your
>> Oh, no. I mean, you know what's crazy
about the ship is um there's not that
many of us on the There's 5,500 people
on the ship, but there's not that many
fighter pilots.
>> Okay.
>> There's three squadrons of three F-18
squadrons and there's about 18 in each
squadron. Uh 18 pilots, and then there's
one F-14 squadron, which I think had 15
pilots. Um so there's not that many of
us. the whole ship, the refueling
planes, the radar planes, the
helicopters to pull us out of the water
if we bail out. They're all there to
support the the the onboard delivery
plane, they're all there to to support
us. The whole reason the whole carrier
exists is so that we can go do our
mission.
>> If I can get this correct.
>> Yeah.
>> Over 5,000 people to support the three
fighter jets that are going out. Three
squads. Three squads. 50 pilots. 60.
>> How many jets?
>> 12 in each squadron. 36 F18s plus I
think I think they had 10 F4.
>> It's just the the that magnitude of of
what amount of support it needs.
>> Amount of support that it needs which
obviously makes sense.
>> That's a lot though. I mean most
countries in the world don't have an air
force that has what a carrier has.
>> Wow.
>> In terms
>> what a comment
>> and and and the and the capability naval
aviators. I had a a cousin who married
an F-15 Israeli F-15 guy and he said I
always respect you because you land on
ships.
>> It's a whole different ball.
>> It's a whole different ballgame. We had
like a fraternity of the of the of the
pilots on the ship. When when there's
night operations, they they have a
midrats, a midnight meal, and it doesn't
start until the last guy lands.
>> And when the last guy lands at night,
there's like a collective exhale.
>> Wow.
>> It's risky. And if you the most
experienced person can have a mishap,
>> it's such a tiny runway on this uh
target.
>> Let's go back to my uh documentary that
I'm painting here. So, you're you know,
you're going around every day. You're
practicing. This is a few days already
happening as you're getting closer and
closer to a mission that you don't even
know when it's going to come. Right.
>> When is the first time you hear about
that mission? So the first So we're
dropping this weapon which is a new
weapon at the time which is a JDAM and
most of the time like you especially
with this with the F8 team we could
simulate something and do it in a
simulator and then you do it for real
for training and then but the JDAM was a
new weapon at the time the joint defense
attack munition which is a GPS guided
weapon and we had one laptop computer
that was secret a secret laptop that had
the software to drive this thing and we
had never done it we never done it never
dropped it. This gets back to the
training. Like, so we had 18 of us
around one laptop trying to figure out
how to do it. And at the time, my plane
didn't have a G uh they had G. For some
reason, it took like 10 minutes for the
GPS to align on the ship because you had
to tell where it was in the world off
off the so you have to align the INS,
the inertial navigation. So, it took
like 10 minutes on the deck of the
carrier to get the jet to know where it
was. It's not like your iPhone, which
always knows where it is right now. And
then once the jet knew where it was,
you'd have to figure out there's a
special cable to connect to the to the
bomb. This is bringing me back 25 years,
but a special uh cable that you'd have
to tell the bomb where it was and then
make sure everything was working. And
this is you're going to destroy things
and kill people with this thing. It
needs to work right. So there was a lot
of stress like when we found out what
our first mission was and what our load
out was and that we're dropping these
these weapons that we we went up on the
deck that day to to take a physical look
at the bomb to see it for the first time
and to see the cable for the first time
and it was a few hours before we were
doing it for real and we didn't want I
didn't want to mess it up. You know, no
one wants to mess it up but you want to
do the mission. So, we uh you know,
we're literally 18 of us huddled around
this one laptop going through it. Oh, go
back. You know, I missed it. Go back
page trying to figure out how to do
this. And then um and we went and did it
and everything went well. And it was
like because like it gets back to the
years and years of training where you're
just never comfortable, always trying to
figure it out, leaning on each other,
you know, you knew one guy was a little
bit more geeky than hey dude, tell me
what I need to know. You know, like
that. And it's just all you're trained
for that.
>> Love it. You're hovered over the laptop,
18 of you. You go look at the missile
itself. You get familiar with it. You
touch it, right?
>> You feel it. And then you hear that what
the mission is. They get you all
together.
>> Taliban barracks in a place called
Harat, which is in the southwest of of
Afghanistan,
>> which you never heard of before in your
life. You're there for the first time.
Yeah.
>> You never even practice going in this
area that you're going to. You're just
using guiding.
>> The big thing was the air fueling. We
need to refuel lots of times.
>> Interesting.
>> At night, you know. Yeah. Um
>> but before the first mission happened,
they're telling you, okay, this is the
barracks that you're going to
>> and uh we have intel to tell us that
this is a targeted area that you need.
They don't tell you came through uh a
Taliban base and I had a barracks
building which was three stories tall
and we had this primitive like
>> really primitive software to weaponer.
So I I fused that bomb to go off on the
ground floor because a contact fuse
might go off on the roof and then you're
just going to blow the top off the
building, but I want to destroy the
whole building.
>> So how do you fuse the bomb? So we we
like estimated what it was made out of
like what
>> what the what the structure is made out
of.
>> Yeah. It was like probably uh you know
bad you know low low uh quality concrete
this many floors. I I forget the data we
put in there but it was a primitive
system to weaponer and then it told you
the fusing time. So when when the bomb
impacted the roof how many milliseconds
later before it went off. And in the end
you go through the software but then
it's like ah you know what I'm doing
this I think this makes sense and worked
out. Yeah. My brother was an imagery
officer on the Vincent. So then I on the
secret internet I emailed him and said,
"Hey, I did my first mission. Here's the
dimpy," which was the target number. And
so he sent a satellite picture the next
day on the secret thing of what? Because
I I got a picture of the building before
I went. But uh the next day, you know,
he sent me a an after, you know,
>> you get to see if the calculation was
good.
>> It worked out. You could barely tell it
was a building. Yeah. There's like one
corner that you can kind of make out was
a corner, but the rest of it was just
>> So you're told you're told there's a
mission. You all get together and it's
at night.
>> Everyone had different missions. Some
did bridges like I was in a foreship
that was going against this base
>> and you all went at once.
>> Yeah. The four of us and we came through
on one pass and J I couldn't believe it.
The GPS that at that mo almost that
moment I was like I'm not a fighter pod.
I'm an aircraft carrier cuz that that
bomb's an aircraft. It flew itself into
the target. So it was really a um I had
never trained on it ever and we're doing
it for real. The first time I did a real
mission was in this weapon I'd never
used before and it was really like uh
turning a page in in airto ground
combat.
>> It sounds like you literally dropped the
first bomb.
>> Well,
>> so to speak, you know, your your group
>> I think maybe that might be the Yeah.
the first time a GPS weapon was used in
combat. I don't know.
>> Or just like the war against 911. Maybe
>> that wasn't like I got my air medal for
supposed back in the time back in those
days UAVs were a new thing and they
weren't weaponized. They only were you
know surveillance. So the the Predator
or whatever other drones were out there
would watch stuff, but we'd have to go
blow it up.
>> Wow.
>> So my air metal was for the first time
supposedly, I don't know if the air
metal says the first time that a a
predator, an unmanned aerial vehicle,
which is a predator at the time, gave me
a talk on to blow up al-Qaeda
leadership. So who knows if it was
actually the first time, but it's it's
the way it was. like and and it nothing
was like I said the training even though
this might be new stuff the training was
just we were ready for it
>> first night you come back you you just
did a mission the four of you went and
you just you completed it you fly back
what's what's the energy like is
everyone clapping their hands when
you're coming down or are you talking to
your fellow
>> I need to get to sleep because I need to
do it again tomorrow
>> because you you come back for a night
trap on the ship so everyone's just in
serious mode
>> yeah I think we took off at midnight
we're probably back at 5 in the morning
and um you know, you're you're wound up
and then the sun rises. You kind of
wanted the sun to be rising so it wasn't
a night trap. But if if the sun was
rising, then your body was more awake
and be hard to get sleep for the next
night. And that's just the cycle. You
just it was it was a battle to to get
sleep to to get rest.
>> What's your trick to falling asleep?
>> I couldn't. There were nights I
couldn't. There were days I remember my
I lived in a twoman with uh with another
guy, a guy from Arkansas. I grew up on a
farm in in Arkansas and he's like a
brother to me and he ran he wrote the
schedule who was doing what mission and
I I remember having to get up for a
flight. He knew who what pilots were
available in the squadron and who what
everyone had been doing because he wrote
the schedule. I remember getting up and
the ship changed it whole routine. 6 PM
was 6 a.m. Breakfast was served at 6 PM.
Again, the whole ship oriented itself so
that we could operate in in a in an
effort to try and shift us to the night
page. We called the night page cuz we
were the night carrier for the first two
months. And like it it didn't really
work. Like so one night I got up, it was
one morning, one night I got up to go
flying and I hadn't slept and I'm like
how do I do this? I got to refuel six,
seven, eight times maybe. I gotta drop
bombs. I gotta not kill myself when I
come back to land. And I remember
telling my buddy like, "Dude, I how he's
like, "Dude, there's no one else. You
got to go." My wife sent me a bunch of
candy bars at Thanksgiving when
Thanksging.
>> Um,
>> jeez, battle of attrition over here.
>> It's really It's like the NASCAR racers,
you know? They have to be in shape. They
have to be totally fit. They have to be
mentally aware like it's it's it's it's
not just fighting, you know, flying the
plane. No,
>> there's a lot of ancillary things going
on that you got to be managing to be at
your best self.
>> 100%.
>> I'm I'm curious. How much money
>> are you earning right now from the
military? What are you getting paid?
>> I'm getting I stayed in for 20 years, so
I have a pension.
>> No, no, no. At that moment, what you're
fighting a you're flying a fighter jet,
dropping bombs in Afghanistan, basically
managing America's war right now.
>> Yeah. You're not paid that much. And
it's um I think at that time I don't
know 70 grand a year in 2001 maybe 60
grand. We get flight pay which a little
bit more. Um
>> so you're making like a public school
salary public school teacher.
>> It was it was better school. Yeah. A
little bit better I would think that
back in those days like
>> Yeah. No back then, right? It's uh it's
decent salary.
>> A decent salary. Everyone gets paid the
same,
>> right?
>> Um the compet the competition is like
who you are as a pilot, as a person,
>> as a dude. Like um
>> it's bragging, right? It's more like uh
>> Yeah. No one really brags.
>> Not brags.
>> Yeah. Everyone kind of knows.
>> Yeah.
>> No. Like when when this when the sun's
setting on the carrier and like the
sun's getting low and we're doing night
ops, you can tell if someone's scared
>> if they've lost their edge. You can tell
and you don't talk about it. You just
know. Someone had a really bad night
last night. You know, how's he going to
do tonight? There's a camera watching
every landing, you know, and you know,
you know, someone's having a, you know,
maybe not doing so great. He's coming in
to land and man, you know, you knew how
he landed the night that night before
and it was a bad really bad landing and
man, I hope you come on, dude. You got
this. You know, like you just everyone
kind of knows, not just your squad or
not just the 18 of you, but the other
Navy guys. We all got to know each
other. We sometime we do missions two
two Marines and two Navy like like we
were one big team and um you don't you
don't really no one brags no one talks
about it but it's a constant like you're
constantly thinking oh man I owned him
yesterday in a dog fight
>> it's crazy
>> to push yourself keep pushing yourself
>> push yourself yeah you know having the
support of others any rituals that you
had did you listen to certain music when
you woke up
>> my my wife sent me an album for a band
we liked and it was
>> what' you listen to band called Better
Than Ezra
>> Oh Better Than Ezra I remember them
>> my really good buddy. He's from
Arkansas. The guy from Arkansas, he had
a whole sleeve of CDs and I think all
but one of them were Johnny Cash. So
whenever I hear Johnny Cash, I think
back to
>> to that. How So how how long how many
missions? How long did it take this
process?
>> I did 42 missions in Afghanistan. Um how
long of a period?
>> About over four or five months.
>> Four or five months. Any mishaps? Any uh
it's almost it's acceptable to lose
aircraft when you're operating on a
ship?
>> Yeah. um less and less so over the
years. But
>> but you're saying you didn't have
>> we didn't have one.
>> What a blessing though. Say all of you
just you know
>> I felt Yeah. like we it was really
incredible. I think because when it's
game day you reached that peak
performance and uh everyone came back.
>> You know I said I can keep going forever
and I'd love to learn so much more but I
do want to I do want to get to where
you're up to now and because that's also
interesting for me. We've gotten so
distracted with this whole history of
yours and everything cuz it really
deserves a podcast in it on its own. But
like when I heard you were coming and
you were united uh pilot I'm like wow
that's so interesting to me like I want
to I have so much like to discuss like
it's like an hour and a half in Michael
I was like now we're up to that there
yet.
>> I only read one thing on Ch. But um
>> but no I I I want to know
>> our podcast is going to be delayed.
So you had flown these missions. You
continued to serve uh for the following
15 years or so, right? Right. Um seen
any combat beyond that?
>> No, not in the Marine Corps.
>> Okay, good. And it's like, you know, uh
>> Thank God. I think you've seen enough.
>> Thank God. And um and then you decided
to hang your hat of service and then
went to work for commercial. Tell tell
me about that process, the transition.
>> In the Marine Corps, even before on my
way to flight school, I was in a
squadron for a few months with a lot of
reservists who were airline guys. And I
realized that you I'd already start kind
of started flying a little bit and I
realized that I never want to stop. So
although um I never planned to be an
airline pilot, you know, it just seemed
like I had, you know, was the logical
next thing. And so I um kind of always
thought I'd do that. And uh I was when
you when you get your wings, you have an
eight-year commitment. And now I think
it might be 10 years even. But um so I I
only got my wings after being in the
Marine Corps for three and a half years.
And I then I had eight years to go. So
when I was done with my operational
tour, I still had like two and a half
years left of Marine Corps time and I
was I wanted to get out. I was planning
to get out. I had done two deployments.
Lily only was alive for one of them. Um
but saying goodbye to your kids for
seven months is not natural. It's not
right. It's not
>> um not something I wanted to keep doing.
So two of those was enough. And uh I
said I'm going to go be an instructor
and I'll teach kids how to fly and then
I'll be able to transition to the
airlines. Um octo uh age 65 happened in
2007 where the airline industry the
mandatory retirement went from 60 to 65
and that's when I could get I could get
out that next summer and but the the the
the progression career progression was
stagnant because of that. um it already
a downturn from September 11th in the
airline industry and then with the
financial crisis of 0708 was another hit
to the airline industry. So they had
they didn't need any more pilots. There
was no expansion going on. So I said um
right at that moment the uh Marine Corps
asked me to go be an atache. So I went
and did that because they asked me to do
it because they needed a guy who could
fly so I had an airplane and I could
stay current. Um, and then I at that
point I said I'm staying in for
retirement because that took me to 15
and a half years. Um, and then uh so I
had to do another couple jobs but I was
able to finish up current as an
instructor pilot. Um, and then I got
hired at at United right right like went
right in the door.
>> You knew you wanted to work for United
specifically?
>> Well, I wanted to work for Continental
back in '08.
>> Okay.
>> Because I wanted to come home. It was
literally my ticket to come home to my
hometown. Lily was able to go to my
middle school in high school, the one I
graduated from. And uh being military
kids, you know, that was like something
I wanted to give them. A little bit of
>> Let's give a shout out. What school was
this? The
>> Rumson Fairman High School.
>> Oh, nice. Okay.
>> And then um so yeah, I always wanted
Continental and then with the merger
became United. It's amazing airline.
It's been an amaz I've been there 11
years now. November was
>> You wanted United. I'm I'm just curious
like over Delta or American%.
>> I'm so curious about this topic. So at
the at the moment in in ' 08 the place
to be in 0708 when I was first thinking
about getting out the place to go was
Southwest which seems kind of weird now
but it was the place to go.
>> Um but I always wanted Continental.
>> Are you talking about in terms of
compensation? Are you talking about in
terms of
>> Yeah. flexibility stock? You want to get
a you know you want to get inv video
when it's X not Y,
>> right?
>> You know you want that's the way I
looked at it. And it's also I what I
always told the my marine pilots like my
my Navy students as well like um this is
not a date this is not a girlfriend this
is a marriage because it's all about
seniority when you go in an airline a
pilot's a pilot a captain's a captain
you know how I get my schedule it's
where where I am let's say on on the
line for the buffet at the kdish is
based solely on the date of hire yeah
>> so it's you don't ideally you want to go
to an airline and and like you're
getting married, you know, I want to
pick the right woman. I want to pick the
right airline. So, for me, um,
Continental and then United, because of
the Newark base being 45 minutes from my
hometown, I didn't want to commute. I
wanted to be able to drive to work.
Commute is when you fly to work. So, I
wanted to be able to drive to work,
which gives you a lot of flexibility and
a lot of, you know, you know, I once
went um for fun and I drove a race car
around the tracks and it was
exhilarating. It hit 200 miles an hour
and it was crazy. And then when I drove
back home, I was like, "What's going on
here?" Like, I'm doing 60 go.
>> That's what I'm curious about you is is
uh are you finding any thrill out of it?
Are you enjoying it
>> in flying?
>> Yeah. Right now, you going to
commercial? I mean,
>> even in the even in the Marine Corps.
>> Yeah.
>> Like it wasn't thrilling. It sounds
crazy, but
>> um the same thing that you just
described my we one of the things you
learn is low-level flying. So in this in
the TA4 that I flew, like I said, it
didn't have a computer chip. There was
no recording device, no recorder in it.
So the the the instructors in there were
like a little bit cowboyish. And we did
our low levels at 50 ft. So we'd fly
around at 420 knots, which is like over
500 miles an hour. At 50 ft.
>> Wow.
>> In in the canyons out west in uh
Arizona, New Mexico, and Southern
California. So, we're like down in the
in the ground in the earth in the um
flying very fast. And when you first do
that, the world, it takes a couple
minutes to get used to that. We call it
the speed rush speed. But then you
develop a speed rush baseline. And I
remember my instructor at one point
being like, "Hey, go up to 50, go up to
100 feet." So, I go up to 100 feet doing
420 and the world kind of stopped
>> because that was half as half the speed
rush. Same thing. So, then all of a
sudden, like flying at 100 feet was like
boring. I want to get back down to 50
where it was like a little bit
challenging and that's the way it always
is like it the minute you is is a thrill
for a second and then it becomes all
right routine and you're constantly
>> you don't you're not even flying an F-18
fasten even dog fighting when I was
teaching dog fighting it was almost like
I could be thinking about three things
and teaching it
>> when you're first doing it your head
your mind's exploding call your helmet's
on fire because your your your mind's
exploding like Um, but it everything
that's what it's it's about being
routine. Nothing is if it's exciting,
you're doing something wrong.
>> Love it. So, it's time to get into the
secrets of the airline industry because,
you know, when I'm sitting on a plane
and we're on the runway,
>> right,
>> and they cancel the flight and they go
back because of weather, right?
>> I always ask myself, who decides that
it's weather? Who decides that it's not?
Right?
>> Is it governmentrun? Do they have to say
that it's me? You know, they sometimes
say it's mechanical because you could
get your money back if it's not. And
right,
>> I'm curious about that world. Here's
it's it's a very gray world. And here
here's a a good example. You're at
Newark and there's a line of
thunderstorms coming through, right? And
um you can get out now. Let's say you're
trying to go west going to Chicago or
California, but the line is coming from
Pennsylvania and there's some hole maybe
there's some holes in it. You can get
out now, but you have a minor mechanical
that sets you back half an hour. And now
the holes in the in the thing closed up
and you can't get through that. And now
everyone's trying to get around the
south through Georgia, get around that
line of thunderstorms in the south. And
now there's a hu everyone who was trying
to go west needs to go all the way down
to Georgia to go west. So now you're
like 10th in line, right? And then the
pilot times out because that minor
mechanical and he's on his third flight
of the day and he doesn't have the crew
day for it. So now you're two hours late
and the pilot's timeout. Is that a crew
issue? Is that a mechanical issue? Or is
that a weather issue? So it it depends.
It you know and obviously the airline is
going to they're very very transparent
with the app now. I I found out a lot of
times from the app what you know what's
going on. Um
uh for weatherwise you mean?
>> No. Like the other day or um there was
Yeah. Um now not now my iPad shows
exactly the same thing as the app. So
it's the same thing. But
>> yeah um yeah like the other day um I
went to Chicago and back and it was when
the uh there were long long waits for
wheels up times to get back and you know
I landed Chicago and I was coming back
supposed to come back to New York and I
I open up my iPad and it's two and a
half hour delay 2:15 and then it became
2:45 delay just because there weren't
enough slots there were wheels up times
to come back here. Um yeah, so you it's
it's what what's on your app, your
United app is pretty much
um yeah and the other day actually it
was I remember looking and saying now
this isn't quite right, you know,
because um we were delayed first flight
of the day that shouldn't have happened
but there was a maintenance issue on the
jet and we were delayed um
they they ended up saying this jet's not
serviceable so we had to go to another
jet and then all But our original jet
had been catered.
So all the all the catering carts were
in the original jet. So the people by
the time I got out of the cockpit, they
had they had they knew they were going
to gate 80. I got out to the to the gate
area and there's no one left there. They
were already all the passengers were at
the new new gate, you know, and I we had
to get the flight plan and took So we
get out there and now I have the new
jet, the gas I need, the the people on
board, the car goes on board. Oh, wait.
It hasn't been catered because they had
to get an extra catering truck to go to
the old jet. Instead of taking it from
the warehouse directly to the jet, they
had to go unload it and reload it.
>> Give it more time.
>> Yeah. And then so we end up taking off
an hour late. I think it was going to
LA. And we take off and I see the reason
for the delay is servicing. They blame
the caterers. It's not the caterer's
fault. The jet maintenance should have
had the jet ready.
>> Yeah.
>> I'm sorry your your plane was late. The
app said because of servicing.
>> Can I just point out I don't quite
frankly care what it is and whose fault
it is. Here's what I know. When it comes
to these airlines, it's not just United.
It's not exclusive to them. And they all
do it. They do whatever they want. We
are at their mercy at the end of the
day. The passengers,
>> uh, we fly when they tell us to. We go
home and the flight is canceled when
they tell us to.
>> And weather, service, who cares? Who
cares? I feel like they get to do sort
of whatever they want. And it's it's a
little bit not fair. Like as the
consumer, I would expect a little bit of
accountability to the point where we get
some some rebate, a refund or like a
free ticket every now and then because
of our feel like nobody cares. I feel
like the airlines get to pretty much
like what's the deal with that? Do the
does the government regulate them a
little bit? Anybody hold them
accountable?
>> There's no there's no
the airline has no interest in delaying
you. We only make money when that jet
takes you where you need to go and is on
to the next mission. There's no reason
why the airline wants to have any delay.
>> Okay, I get by but I'm sorry to
interrupt. I get this. I fly literally
every other week for 20 years. I have
really important questions to ask you.
Serious a serious question.
>> By the way, flown on one of his flights.
>> We fly out of Newark a lot.
>> So, I I need to know a few a few very
important questions. First of all, if
you don't mind, it's just like
>> I'm I'm living in the East Coast. What's
the best airport to fly out of? Is it
JFK, Newark, or Lagu?
>> On the other side of the river, Newark.
>> Newark. work is always if you're in
Manhattan, you can go either way.
>> It doesn't matter. If I had a choice
between all the river any you have to go
one way.
>> If I had a choice between all three,
which airport is performing the best
>> as far as reliability? Which one?
>> As far as taking off on time and you
know,
>> I think JFK has the most resources.
North has a lot in compressed area.
>> Okay.
>> Um but
>> so you're saying stay away from
LaGuardia. Got it. Okay.
>> Well, LaGuardia, no. LaGuardia can
sometimes you get in and out of there
real easily. It the answer is it
depends.
>> Okay.
>> It's where are you on this side of the
river? I am, but I would literally
rather drive 20 extra minutes to go to a
better airport.
>> Maybe. And it depends on the flight.
Depends where you're going.
>> Depend. You're saying it depends on so
many things. Back to the gray thing.
Okay.
>> Depends on where you're going cuz the
airport. I'm going to keep pushing. I'm
going to keep pushing. I have other good
questions. So, when you when I'm flying
and I go to Google flights, it gives me
20 different options. I can go to Delta,
I can go to American, I can go to
United, I can go to JetBlue. Literally
almost every time I fly and I'm talking
about going to Chicago, going to LA,
going to Florida,
I you're obviously you work for United.
You might have to say United.
>> We already have the most points. What do
you want to
>> No, my my question is, you know, you
we're talking about mechanical, we're
talking about catering, we're talking
about logistics, we're talking about
processes.
>> Airlines ultimately have to take
responsibility for all these things,
right? So, if they have a more well-run
oiled machine, right, then likelihood
that I'll get out on time,
>> 100%. Is there an airline that ranks
like if you fly Delta or United?
>> I think Delta and United are pretty much
neck and neck and American's not far
behind. Okay.
>> We like I said the resources we have now
with with the there's so much data going
in.
>> Sure.
>> Uh the there it is an incredible I've
been doing it 11 years now. I'm amazed
at how operationally efficient it is
when when there's a wrinkle in the
system. How we compensate how we we we
make it.
>> Are you talking about United?
>> United.
>> Okay. Yeah. Because does that mean
>> I'm Delta. I don't fly for them, but
Delta I'm sure has the same technology.
It gets down to the dollar. I'm not
kidding.
>> And Michael, these things you can Google
and see how the airlines rank and how
to airports are the best or not.
>> You might ask good questions like
>> there's so much data.
>> You actually do. Are you actually
pushing buttons the entire time or you
actually that was a question?
>> You just like take I don't mind you
getting
>> I don't mind you getting to that
question. I still I'm still pushing. I'm
sorry. I have to because ultimately I've
heard in the past that Virgin Airlines
or other airlines like that they pay
extra to be closer perhaps to taking
off. Can you tell me about that?
>> It depends on like like if Delta owns it
owns it like you go to Hartsfield, Delta
is going to have the best bait the best
gates. You go to Newark, we're United's
going to have the best gates.
>> There you go. That makes a difference,
right?
>> It makes a difference.
>> Okay, perfect. So United So United
Newark, that's the marriage over there.
>> 100%. JFK, who owns JFK as far as
airlines? We don't we're not in JFK at
all. Okay.
>> I think that's all the other airlines
besides United in this area.
>> United is not in JFK whatsoever.
>> No, we pulled out we gave our slots to
Delta. It's about slots, you know,
landing
>> because that gives you seniority as far
as who's taking out and who's going to
the front of the line and getting that
pocket to get out, I guess.
>> Yeah. pretty it's pretty um like I was
at Heathrow a couple weeks ago and I
felt like British Airways was getting
better treatment but you know there's a
reason there's stuff you don't even as a
pilot I don't know I don't know what
every flight in front of me in line is
going and maybe I'm waiting uh in line
for takeoff because of my SL my uh exit
fix like the fix that I'm exiting the
area on maybe like there's spacing
there's a guy coming from JFK and a guy
coming from LaGuardia for the same fix
that I don't know about those guys so we
can't hit there at the same moment in
time So why is that why is American
taking off in front of me? Well,
probably because he's going to a
different fix, different departure fix.
So it's uh there's so much stuff going
on. It's it's an incredibly huge, you
know, the United's music is Gershwin and
it is so fitting like I you know our
when you're on hold or whatever you hear
that Gershwin in Chicago when you're
going through the tunnel there you hear
Gershwin. It is a symphony when it all
comes together and we push on time like
and I have you know a window into all
the different moving parts and to some
extent I can you know lean lean on that
but um it all when it all comes together
it is a symphony. It it it is an
incredibly complex operation.
>> Love it. I have one more question. So if
I'm flying United Newark that's smart
right because United Absolutely right
owns Newark so to speak right and that
and that helps. What about just one tip
for flying so you could fly less
stressed right? A lot of people fly I I
I chill when I fly. I fly an hour and a
half before and I go
>> a lot. Yeah. So um
>> what are the tips for flying like early
morning or you know
>> I like any other tips that you
>> I call the dawn patrol. That's what we
called it in the Marine Corps. The first
flight of the day. It's painful to get
up but the jets generally there. What
people don't realize is is that jet is
constantly flying. Um it's like the
opposite of the Pony Express when the
Pony Express riders they used to swap
horses because the horses could run like
12 miles. Now I'll take your word for
it.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Now the horse keeps running.
The plane can fly all the time, but the
people can't fly 24 hours a day. But the
the plane is constant. The plane that's
taking you wherever you're going to LA
might have come in from Shannon,
Ireland. And you know, it's a constant,
you know, we don't make money when our
jets on the ground. We make the money
when when the when the jets are flying.
So, first flight of the day, the plane
probably got in that night, maybe the
red eyee, couple hours. First flight of
the day is always the best. Definitely
wouldn't fly in the afternoon in the
summertime around here. Thund, you know,
daily heating thunderstorms, which is
the afternoon thunderstorms are a real
thing. And it might be a blue sky here,
but the way the airspace is, if there's
thunderstorms in the wrong place trying
to get into Newark, your plane's not
going to be there on time. You might
your plane might have to go to an
alternate because it doesn't have the
gas to hang around to wait to get into
Newark. It might be in Philadelphia or
um, you know, somewhere else. So, and
that's going to go you up. So early
morning if you can't do that maybe later
in the evening when you can like say
yeah my plane is coming in from LA and
it's landing on time. I'm going to head
to the airport.
>> Okay. I appreciate it. I do have more
questions but I'm going to I'm going to
pass it over to Ushi cuz he's curious
about the
>> I want to know exactly what Stephan I'm
also very curious about.
>> I want to know exactly like how much of
it do you as the pilot actually control
versus just push a button and it just
automatic? Like I imagine when you take
off like that's very manual, right? The
actual take process.
>> Taxing is very manual.
>> Yeah. Um, so you know, taxing is moving
the jet on the ground. That's very
manual. I'm literally steering it and
starting it and stopping it. And then
the takeoff is very manual, but even
that's somewhat automated. The throttles
most of the time set themselves. But I'm
airline flying. I usually fly for 10 or
15 minutes until I get bored. And then I
put the autopilot on. It's kind of like
you got like when you get on the
Parkway, you know, you you drive around
here, but when you get on the Parkway,
if there's no traffic, all I'm setting
the cruise control, I can take a little
bit of the work off. So we do the same
thing. We get up to a certain altitude.
optional like if you wanted to fly the
plane the entire time yourself you
could.
>> No. When you're up in the cruising
cruising altitudes, everyone's got to be
on autopilot.
>> Oh, the automatically you have to go to
autopilot.
>> And then coming down the same thing. If
there's bad weather, I generally tend to
fly a little bit earlier. Like if it's
going to be really windy on landing,
gusting, challenging landing, I'll fly a
little bit earlier so I can get, you
know, get the motor skills going, get
get warmed up. Um, but you could
theoretically when the weather's bad and
I can't see, I have to be able to see to
land, you know, I have to use my eyes
for the landing. The plane doesn't the
plane can land and track down the runway
on after landing
>> and that's the only way.
>> You could sit back for the entire even
the landing part.
>> Yeah, I could.
>> You push a couple of buttons and the
plane lands.
>> Then you don't have to see when you're
landing. Technically
>> plane doesn't have to see. I have to see
if I'm physically at the controls
manually landing. I have to be able to
see something.
>> Well, when you when you land, do you
land with auto land or do you actually
land
>> once or twice a year? I have to use auto
land when the weather's bad.
>> But why wouldn't you always use auto
land?
>> Good question.
We'd rather trust a machine than a human
making an error perhaps.
>> Uh maybe there's I think there'll be
there'll come a day and a lot and a lot
of the airlines not United but some of
the foreign carriers especially use the
automation more
>> and maybe that you know like there was a
mishap in San Francisco that might have
been part of that being because
automation in the end is a crutch. So if
you're leaning on a crutch all the time,
>> you're not as strong as you know you're
not you're not gonna walk as strong,
right? If you're on crutches, if so
automation is a crutch, we I like to
look it as a tool. That's the way the
airline looks at it as a tool that you
should use the appropriate times. But in
the end, we need to be able to fly. Like
getting back to my uh analogy of like
being good at directions. The best is if
you have a good if you can read a map
and you're good at directions and you
have an iPhone and you have automation
and you could do both,
>> you could do everything. So that's the
reason why you shouldn't and my airline
doesn't you know encourages people to
fly to keep the skills up and to keep
>> okay
>> this is for me a very important question
Michael if I could have just one
question to ask him like this is what I
would ch this is what I would pick
>> I am a what you call a very anxious
flyer
>> and I flew a pretty decent man I think I
fly more than the average person flies
>> and it's always an adventure for me
already the night before I'm getting
anxious about the fact that I'm flying
the next day
>> while I'm on the flight the entire time
I'm nervous You worried about lo miss
missing the flight? What are you worried
about?
>> No, no, no, no. The safety, the the
danger in flying is what I'm worried
about,
>> right?
>> Uh I don't love the uh comfort part of
it either, but that's, you know, not
what keeps me up at night. While I'm on
the flight, if there's a little
turbulence chair, I hold on to my chair
like
>> or to me I or to my whoever's next to
me, whether I know them or not.
>> Um and I'm just always nervous like
something is going to go wrong. Too many
things have to go right,
>> you know? I'm in this like metal tube
like 30,000 ft in the air and if god
forbid something goes wrong, there's not
a lot of options for us here. I'm not on
solid ground.
>> So, I'm always very nervous about it.
And I keep hearing from people, it's the
safest thing. You have more of a chance
of getting struck by lightning and dying
that way than you do on a flight. And
there's more automobile accidents that
goes on. You die faster from a car crash
than you would from a plane crash. All
that good stuff I keep hearing. Yet
somehow, I'm not convinced. I'm still
very, very nervous. I'm still very
anxious. What could you tell me as a
I'll tell you one of the things I'm very
nervous about is
>> I think of the the amount of maintenance
that has to go into how often do they
actually maintain these planes and it's
some lazy guy that's at the bottom that
has to do something he forgets to do it
and there's so many things that could go
wrong here that I feel like I just can't
trust the system. I can't trust it
completely that I feel like I I'm going
to be safer. What could you tell me?
>> It is 100% the safest thing you could
do. like the the most dangerous thing is
getting to the airport once you're
there. And but these are just
statistics. I can tell you this for
three hours and but it it is truly the
the safest thing. Yeah, you are in an
aluminum tube hurdling through space at
8 n 10 miles a minute. You know, you're
going you're going around the we
demolish time and space. I mean, I can
take off and take you to Johannesburg,
you know, in one flight or I could take
you to Hong Kong in one flight. It's an
amazing thing that we do, but it is done
to a level of safety that is uh it's
it's astounding to me even after 11
years of seeing it. I I I was I consider
I love my my my family my um we just
hosted some uh some widows from Israel
the last chabas and it was like a a
nightmare of mine to not to go and not
come back to my wife and kids. Like I
was obsessed with being of course I was
going to get the mission done being as
safe as I could be as a Marine fighter
pilot. Of course I had to get the
mission done. I get to the airlines and
I realize that me on the contin of like
cowboy safet dude. I was the safest dude
in the squadron. I get to the airlines
and I'm like whoa flying a single seat
fighter. I was a complete cowboy. Like
the levels of safety we have in the
airlines. And there's a reason the
statistics back it up. Um you guys would
be hardressed to remember the last time
an American airliner crashed. Can you
remember one? It was in your lifetimes,
but it was a long time ago. It is so the
statistics back it up. We United
Airlines alone flies half a million
people a day. That's one airline and you
know sometimes more, sometimes less, but
on average half a million people a day
fly on us safely most time on time. The
levels of safety are incredible. It it
is a it's I'm honored to be a part of
it. And that's what I would tell you.
Have you tried vodka?
Xanax? No. So that's what I would tell
you. But for you to really turbulence,
which is most people ask me about is the
same as, you know, some days you look at
the ocean. Uh yesterday the ocean was
flat. It was glass. Um some days you
look at it and it's choppy. That's the
same thing with air. Air is just a fluid
like the ocean, right? So when when you
go through pockets of choppy air, you're
going to bounce around a little bit. The
plane is overbuilt like 20x stronger
than it needs to be to get through any
kind of turbulence. Have you ever heard
of a plane losing a wing over
turbulence? It just doesn't happen.
Sometimes people bounce around if
>> but the wing looks so fragile when it's
flopping around. It looks like it's so
feeble and like it could be easily like
be like I'm not an engineer but that
gets into like tensil strength thing
like something that bends is in in some
ways stronger than something that
doesn't bend. It's more brittle. So the
aircraft is engineered to be it's
incredibly engineered to do this
mission. It's just perfect tool for the
mission and you're so safe up there if
you really want. Have you ever flown an
airplane? Like gone and flown?
>> Flown one?
>> Yeah.
>> What do you mean flown one?
>> So you can go to an airport like been on
the cockpit?
>> Yeah. You can go to any flight school at
any airport and I don't know for 150 or
200 bucks go on what they call discovery
flights.
>> And I've told this to a number of
people. I don't know who's taking me up
on it, but if you go actually fly an
airplane like the instructor will take
you up there and he'll let you fly it.
You'll see how simple it is and you're
going to bounce around a lot in a light
light airplane a lot more than you do in
a heavy airplane. Um even a 737 which is
one of our smaller airplanes at the
airline. um bounces around more than
like the plane I fly now or the the the
trip 7 the mass of the airplane like a
big ship going through the ocean doesn't
feel the waves whereas a little a little
speedboat feels the waves
>> right
>> so it is it's it's scary because you're
not in control and you can't see the
waves you know and you're not in the end
you're not in control yeah
>> so unless if you really wanted to solve
it go fly an airplane and get at the
controls and see how simple it is if you
really wanted to show you ready.
>> But in the end, it's
>> going up an elevator. You know what I
mean? Like if it's the highest floor.
I'm serious. If I go to a hotel, I don't
want to stay in the highest floors. I
>> I am so scared of heights. I'm really
paranoid of heights. I I can't deal with
it.
>> And the plane is the pinnacle of of the
heights for me. So, it's really really a
challenge.
>> But I, you know, I a little secret,
pilots have an extreme respect for
gravity. We're not afraid of heights
because I can be an airplane at like 8
miles high and I'm totally fine. I used
to my plane I used to fly. I used to go
8 miles high with a view of a
motorcycle. I'm totally fine. But if I'm
not if I'm next to the edge of a cliff
with I'm not tied in with repelling
gear, no thanks. On a tall building, no
thanks. It's um we have we we understand
gravity mo more than most people and
yeah there's I think fear of heights is
natural. I mean it's a good thing
>> and so you're always calm like just
another day in the office like you never
get nervous about anything like for
>> the only thing that stresses me out is
inconvincing inconveniencing the
passengers. The other day I didn't know
how long the catering trucks were going
to be
>> and hey ops you know what's up with the
catering trucks? Oh, yeah. They're at
the other airplane. All right. How long
is it going to take? I don't know. Like,
I don't know if it's gonna be 10 minutes
or 30 minutes, right? And what do I tell
the people? That's the only stresses me
out. Like, in terms of operational
stuff,
>> you you got it down there.
>> My job is to make it so boring to make
this flight to London the most boring
thing ever.
>> I'm curious if anything stresses you
out. I mean, what what do you stress
over? What's your What?
>> My daughter being pissed off me.
>> Not getting not getting a kosher meal.
Has that ever happened?
>> Yeah, it does. Yeah.
>> Oh, okay. Yeah. a real short.
>> Do you guys get the same meals we do?
You get the same food.
>> I get business class kosher, which is
really It's amazing.
>> I feel like you deserve that.
>> No, it's amaz The airline is amazing. I
I couldn't believe it. From day one, I
selected business class kosher and if
they have the I I've been called out to
a flight two or three hours before the
flight and somehow they get me the
business, but sometimes they don't.
>> Have you flown to Israel?
>> Yeah, I used to do it a lot.
>> Yeah. But October 7th changed that for
you?
>> No. No. Uh uh uh COVID.
>> Yeah. Okay. And and I I wanted to become
a captain, so I had to come down an
airplane to become a captain.
>> I see. So now you're domestic only.
>> No, I go to London. I go to Europe.
>> Oh. What's your favorite place to go to?
>> Tel Aviv.
>> Oh, nice.
>> Like Paris. I had to learn French for
the Marine Corps. So I like to practice
French. Um
>> are you in and out or do you like stick
around wherever you go for like a day or
two?
>> No, generally when you go to Europe,
you're there for a day. So it's not a
day, like a 24-hour period. So most of
the nights like now is when the flights
start leaving. Five or six flights start
leaving at this time of day. So when you
go to Europe, you get there in their
morning, which is kind of very early in
the morning for us.
>> Do you have a separate pilot voice?
>> No.
>> People you're hearing native.
>> Like how do you say it? If you start off
your sentence, what does it sound like
when you first welcome?
>> I know what you're waiting for.
>> Yeah. Know I want to know how it sounds.
Yeah. What do you say?
>> Welcome aboard. Welcome aboard. United
Flight XX. You know,
>> regular tone. Okay.
>> Some of the pilots are more talkative
than others. Like some of them like they
like tell you everything. They explain
it to you nicely. And some of them are
very curtain and direct. You only my
first landing. That's a I tell you
welcome aboard the flight time today. If
there's any operational thing like a
closeup time, I obviously cover that. I
tell I get the weather in for the
destination. I introduce my first
officer.
>> Um I usually know who the first officer
is going to.
>> Yeah. Well, I don't know who they are. I
don't know. I know who they are by name,
but you fly with different people.
>> You meet them. You meet them for the
first time every time you go on. Is that
awkward or is that like
>> No, it's amazing. It's It's amazing
>> cuz you automatically connect cuz you're
both like very
>> Yeah. The first couple minutes you're
kind of hanging out. How's your day
going? You get to know the person.
>> Sorry, I'm jumping only because of a
time and we have to wrap up. So, but I
have a couple more thoughts. You ever
had to do an emergency landing
>> in the Marine Corps? Actually, I did one
here at United, but it was like nothing.
It was the C I was a first officer and
the captain's like, "Do you think we
should declare an emergency?" I'm like,
"Yeah, why not?"
>> What was it?
>> What's that?
>> You ever have to put Phil?
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Depending on the time
of day when the first
>> What was the like your co-pilot? Was
they ever like
>> They love it. They I the last two guys I
flew with two guys ago, he he flew with
a Bible. So he asked me what hey, what
is what is being what's a Jew? What Jew
is all about? So I said, "Hand me hand
me your Bible." And I, you know, we're
in the beginning of the Torah. So I I
saw it. It was actually incredible
translation, but a Christian Bible. I
started going through I'm like, "Here's
Abraham. He married Sarah. Here, you
know, I went through it.
>> They The guy flew the other day
>> and we're walking out like he's like,
"Dude, he literally said, "Dude, you're
an inspiration." Wow.
>> Because like we got to Chicago and it it
was too early to take off to Davin
before I took off. I had to do it in
Chicago and hey dude, go get coffee
whatever I got to pray.
>> Wow, that's beautiful.
>> He asked me like uh um it comes up a
lot.
>> Sometimes I say Psalms and I'm you know
and he like you know for friends or who
are who are ill or whatever it comes up
all the time. We always talk about where
you were before. Sometimes I bring up
that I was in the IDF and they want to
ask about that. So, you know, it it
comes up a lot and and you'll find that
pilots are spiritual people. Like I
think because we're so in the like you
said, I think like we see sunrises that
no one should ever be able to see. We
see
>> we see things that no one like I was
going to London the other day and I I
see I see a satellite. It's always cool
to see a satellite moving across
tracking across the the night sky. I'm
like, "Oh, dude, check out the
satellite." And then another one showed
up chasing it down and then another one
and another one. And I think there were
20 of them and we're like, "Dude," he's
like, "I think that's Starling."
>> They're just like hanging out in the
air. You're just like driving around.
>> We're going to London. We're halfway to
London. And he's like he he got on the
internet. He's like, "Yeah, they um
Starling launched tonight."
>> What did you see it as? A light. You saw
>> there were like like follow like ducks
in a row.
>> But what did you see as a light going
the lights?
>> Yeah. You could see satellites.
>> Yeah. And and uh a star like a star
that's moving, but there were like 20 of
them in a perfect line. He's like,
"Yeah, Starlink launched probably an
hour before or whatever. 20 minutes. It
launched from California, but it chased
us down and he he did research on the
layover and he's like, "Yeah, that was
Starlink and it splits. It goes out like
that and then it splits up somehow and
covers the night covers goes where it
needs to go."
>> So cool.
>> But we see stuff like the Northern
Lights. We I mean
>> that's the one thing that 911 took away.
I remember when I was a little kid, I
used to be able to go into the cockpit
during the flight and stand there and
watch. It was amazing. And you can't do
it anymore.
>> We bring I love bringing the kids up. We
do it on the ground, but I remember
doing that as a as a kid.
>> What do you appreciate more? Sunrise,
sunset, moonrise, moonset.
>> It's all great. It's all great. Yeah. I
mean,
>> that's cool. You get to see it all.
>> I see it all. And Yeah.
>> The concept of moon rising and the moon
setting.
>> What I love is when the the moon's
rising, the sun's setting.
>> Oh, yeah.
>> At the same time.
>> You seeing it both sides of the world.
>> I've had two sets sunsets in one day a
few times.
>> You know, the sunset like in the Marine
Corps, you'd have to get nighttime. Like
you had to log time a certain amount.
So, we'd have to fly at night. So we go
out there and be waiting for it to sun
the sun to set so the sun sets and then
you take off right after sunset and when
you gain elevation you see the sun
again.
>> That's amazing.
>> Yeah. Stuff like that. Like I could go
on and on.
>> I have to tell you this this has been
uplifting, inspiring, and just like
>> no pun intended.
>> It's it's just been such a pleasure
getting to know you. I feel like I made
a friend today and and I'm so happy that
you were able to come here. Thank you
again for recommending us that we get
together. I'm part of
>> Yeah. Thank you and exactly not how they
say it in the Hebrew way. Uh they're
taking lone soldiers and giving them,
you know, family feeling where
everywhere they go around the United
States.
>> Camaraderie.
>> A camaraderie. Exactly. A feeling of
family. And that's beautiful. So, shout
out to you guys. Uh I just joined a
Tillin chat a few months ago and Michael
Rapaort recently uh joined and he put
himself out there and showing that he's
putting on fillin every day.
>> The actor.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I have to ask you to please
send me a selfie every once in a while
from the cockpit. I'm going to put it on
that chat and show people and I think
it'll be inspiring for others.
>> Well, maybe he could join that chat,
Michael.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I don't know if you want to
join the chats that are going to It's
all day long. You know, you're busy.
>> You can mute it.
>> But definitely.
>> Do you want to use your your phone while
you're
>> No. No.
>> Oh, you also don't have a phone?
>> No.
>> Under the cockpit?
>> Yeah, we just as bored as us. Are you
watching Are you watching movies?
>> No.
>> So, you're just talking to the co-p hang
out. It's like It's actually like a
podcast. I mean, we sit there.
>> They should do a podcast.
>> Yeah.
>> Oh, wow. What a great idea. Somebody
should do it.
>> Part of the fun of like flying with a
new guy all the time. Like I two weeks
through a school I flew with a guy that
had flown two or three times. Um but
most of the time it's a new guy and you
get to know him and
>> you feel like you make a friend. Like
you got to trust the guy.
>> Yeah. Sure. um to begin with and then
you go on a great you do a great
>> what it may be routine for us in this
day and age but it's not routine. It's
an incredible
>> feeling of of accomplishment to to to to
accomplish that mission to get the
mission to get people to London to
wherever you're going. I have to ask you
uh before I let you go, there is there's
two things I want to ask you, but uh
first of all, you have such an amazing
uh history and experience from all
different walks of life and you've gone
through everything while being spiritual
and finding you know uh orthodoxy and
then you know from conservative so much
that you went through in terms of also a
job and a career and uh you know a path.
What would your message be to the young
people that are the young generation?
>> Yeah. Yeah. So, I'm involved in the
mentoring thing at Arkabad. And I told
these guys the other the other day, um,
do what you love. It It's a blessing to
do that. Um, put the hard yards in,
figuring out what you love, and then
don't give up. Once you figure that out,
you know, they say like, how do you chop
down a tree? Well, you spend a lot of
time sharpening the axe and make, you
know, then you start chopping down the
tree. Well, just figure out what you
love and be very sure of that and then
everything else falls into place.
>> That's beautiful. I appreciate that. Um,
you know, we also ask you, I don't know
if you remember that we're going to ask
you to pick a candidate who you think
would be a good guest on the podcast. I
have to ask you that before you go, but
do you have any questions for us before
we let you go?
>> Not at all. It's been amazing. Thank you
for an incredible experience. My first
time on one of these things. People have
said a number of times I should do it,
and I don't look for it, but somehow it
happened. And uh,
>> we're going to make you sign an
exclusivity, by the way.
>> Exactly. I don't want to share you with
anybody. And we need to also do part
two. Michael, I love it. We got to get
to this whole like
>> on the cockpit. Anytime.
>> There's so much stuff. Anytime. I love
it.
>> So, who would you recommend?
>> Even to bring a guest into the cockpit
if you wanted to.
>> Absolutely. Yeah. Not while we're
flying, but on the ground and do it all
the time.
>> Can we do a podcast there? That would be
interesting.
>> I one of my my first flight to Tel Aviv.
Gado was uh
>> on asking what kind of celebrities he
had on.
>> Yeah, she's one of the few a few few
others. But so, uh I went to Tel Aviv on
the trip 7 the first time I went there.
And so this is the flight back and uh
the you know I'm doing my stuff in the
cockpit and one of the flight attendants
came up and said hey go Gdot in 1K or
one whatever that seat was and I didn't
know the layout of the seat. So I looked
on the app and I said oh I just been
talking to her daughter. I just was
talking to her because I was I went out
to go to the bathroom whatever before we
took off and and I said uh there was
this this like 10 12-year-old girl in
first class right there and I was like
hey do you want to come check out the
cockpit? And she's like no no no. Her
mom's like go and it was Galadote. I
didn't realize it. And I said, "Uh,
>> don't worry about it." You know, she
go's like, "She's go." And then she's
like, "I'm sorry. She's shy." You know,
I'm like, "If she changes her mind when
we land, she wants, please come on up."
And uh yeah, so and then um so we have a
we have a a bunk in that plane, which is
right over first class. So I got home
and the bunk it was right over where
Galadote was sitting. So I was like,
"You take like a six hour nap coming
back from Tel Aviv." So, I got back and
uh I was like, "Honey, I was I slept on
top of Gaga last night,
but um yeah." So, uh
>> that's fantastic.
>> Yeah. So, I don't know why that came up,
but um
>> it doesn't have to
podcast in of itself. No, we're saying
to do a podcast on the cockpit that we
can go on, but I was asking you
essentially who would you recommend that
would
>> So, I threatened my wife last night.
>> Yeah.
>> That uh I was going to recommend her.
>> Oo.
>> Um she's like, "Forget about it."
Obviously, I thought about my kids. I
mean, this there's American heroes out
there that people don't know about, and
those are the kids of the people that
are serving, you know.
>> Um I thought about people I know who are
fighting now in Israel. Um not just in
Gaza, but people, you know, people I've
met. I went skiing with wounded Israeli
um guys in France last year and met some
incredible people who um there's just so
many people out there. But my uh my
rabbi and I don't know if you've had a
Labovich Kabad guy on but he's a rock
star in that world.
>> Um
>> what's his name?
>> Label Shapiro.
>> Amazing. I mean I don't know if you've
heard about what we're doing down in
Kabato the Jersey Shore, but it's
incredible. And
>> tell us I I call it I lived in Jerusalem
for a year at Hebrew University and I
call Long Branch Jerusalem on the Jersey
Shore. it. We have built like uh when I
take the 15 or 20 minute drive from Fair
Haven to Long Branch, it's better than a
flight to to Israel to go to Jerusalem
for Shabbat. It's it's an amazing place
and he's built an incredible community.
Um and he's really brought so many
aspects of being uh Torah observant to a
place in New Jersey where I never
thought it never even thought it
possible. and he's made it so accessible
and so he and his wife obviously Khani
and and we have three rabbis now and
their wives. Um it's an incredible
community, but label would be probably
my top choice to
>> Okay, I appreciate we're going to ask
you I'm not going to ask you to call
them now because it's a Sunday for those
of you that don't know. We came in on
Sunday for this. We had to you know you
fly so you don't know one day to the
next when you're not here.
>> Call I might have to fly tomorrow,
>> right? And uh that's why we had to pick
today. So thank you for you, your
daughter, your whole family for allowing
this. I know it was a family decision.
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>> that was awesome.