The Hidden power Within Every Yid - Rav Moshe Tuvia Lieff

like to welcome everyone to tonight's share we'd like to thank the sponsor of tonight's shiva baylor shame my grandmother is her pinterest says tonight off of danish processor i'd like to remind ireland that ignores annual dinner is coming up in just a couple of short weeks on august 18th then israel of avenue k it's a great opportunity to show you our curse of tough to ignore terror and all there are bonham which you've enjoyed throughout the year throughout the summer putting an ad in the journal in their honor having a helicopter call seven one eight eight five one eight six five one or email ist at yeshiva ishivanet dot com for this great opportunity time we have the cover time with us once again our emotions of yamiche luther robert goodi's show based on to talk on me show the hidden power within every year it's my cover decor and review for tonight's russian a what's your topic in life how do you know if you're realizing your your inner potential how do you know you realize the inner potential there's a yid actually to yield that are sitting here in this room at shara reby with me mottle cats ravadna his his son ravanashlita and and said on him he's an ish kaddish went to the rebel the problem his son had issues with his legs looks at me says comes from cleveland. he said that um raphael had a very close friend his name was and they had such a close relationship and the multi-tsukemen was nifty so brother of a cousin of mine asked him what's the lumdus what's the lumpness of the relationship that there's so on the same page that abraham warned to sit shiva from tsukuman told them like this before the war raphaim stein was a margaret sheeran tells as a boker it was a margaret sharon tells during the war he led 15 tells the talmidim to siberia and he was a lumberjack he felled huge trees and after the war he made his way back to tells ultimately becoming ashish before the war i was very close to the time talmud of its time during the war my job was to bury fra brent in the covenant ghetto he personally buried hundreds and hundreds of jews at the nazi shimak shaman burned and after the war he became the love of giveaway so people asked for it what did hitler take away from you some people say three years six months five years what do you take away from you and i hold hitler took nothing away from us not even a day because before the war the banshee wanted to be in margaret chan tells during the war to be a lumberjack in siberia after the war to become those shiva tells before the war the benjamin wanted me to be a close talmud at the prophet during the war he tasked me with bearing frabenta hidden and after the war becoming the love of give us show you shalom if you ask any given person at any moment in his life what's your top kid that's your tafket we're living in a world that's unfulfilled i know attorneys that become accountants said it's a beautiful belt with meshuggan of people amanda whatever you're doing you're already in the first grade you're a rob you're rush yeshiva you're making sure you're a businessman you're an attorney you're a plumber that's your vedas hashem so to find the inner greatness that every year is to find the inner greatness in yourself my uncle again it's nice to have knackers from your parents and your grandparents and the whole world but live a life we have nachas from yourself so first and foremost everyone has to understand that everyone in this room and i ask a favor those that are sitting in the back stupidness we have plenty of room in the front we'll fill up the area it could be by the doors it's a school of a lot of things that statement i'll compare them realize that a benjamin gave you a mission he talked about the tells of shivers surrendering cats that sound more invaluable meeting in new york what some tells the talmidim about re knewing transplanting tells of litter with foreign to the shores of north america somebody told me they once came on into a multiple cats in the morning and he was crying why are you crying because every morning he thinks of the 10 children that he had in little killed by the nazis and he couldn't come up with the face of his daughter so daughter he couldn't remember how she looked he was crying so this you would think he's a lost man rebellion a lost man so somebody said to them rebellion your poet your refugee utmodulmayesh one of these haloimas the star tells yeshiva tells yeshiva in its heyday under the guidance of remodeled cats it was an unbelievable mechanic had foreign sent his son to learn tells you she was legendary started with five bankrupt so they told him you plate him you're refugees be happy you're alive sabo you may have brought down the navi that we read on if the arrow is beyond you hashem there's no running for your life said rebellion mayor from model and i escaped nazi europe is a transplant here in america we're not refugees we have from tells to new york from new york to cleveland i spoke shaumbra of greenberg was there i spoke to 500 people gathered under the ages of unbelievable project a wonderful project that mrs lichtenstein of ammodia started project witness and these 500 people were children of survivors give them the next generation and i told them this void they said your parents are not survivors this is day schools all across the country where did something come from where did vishnuts come from where did the mir come from where did travadas come from those roshi yeshiva but my father's levi that was in the mirror yeshiva held it was the biggest hesitant that they brought the aramas that suck it up and he said in america where would the time come from did anybody think about that the 30s the 40s we didn't just found find religion that staff tells yeshiva and tara vidas and those parents and the ghabanim held strong to keep them all we think like yiddish guide started after 45 in america and it was just as dangerous in the 30s and the 40s as it was during the war and afterwards the spiritual annihilation upon him you have to first figure out who you are now once you know who you are then you can start realizing your mission that you cannot give a yiddish a child a menace she only has to nurse by a jewish nursemaid can't allow a jewish child to nurse from a non-jewish source and the gaian brings down the macarthur from maisha bainu maisha bayna would not nurse from a non-jewish source maisha your kid get nursed from a non-jewish thought source because of myself and it complicates the issue you have to raise your child he could be my ability that he can talk to rabbanislam um to make sure it doesn't have a non-jewish source you think that the internet is so dangerous because of the visions that you see the words that are spoken the hazarish says that a person with a withering look a structure cook can destroy someone else's life can bring down the malloch what kind of cook do you have to have a good cook we're good and we have to cause that goodness to spread to others i i learned in his house when i was a bakken called darzi learned in his house everybody asked us almond shear we quickly figured out that these were rhetorical questions that he wasn't looking for a 16 year old's answer he was looking to explain to us he said like this what does that mean you knock on your neighbor's door you say heard you were fighting i'm a talmud i'm so imbiler i'm an official talmud i can bring peace to the world is that what it means if you have yuri out in the ottoman from schwab you can go to the whole world and solve everybody's problems why are there pages in the world because people are unfulfilled they haven't realized their mission statement they're unhappy all the gosh miss in the world he writes a billion dollars will not make them happy but a talmud is so wealthy ball you sure it spills over to his wife to his children to his neighbors to his friends this community to gunsville that's mount sholem boiler you hear when you realize what you are what you can do to others the goyin says the consummate mechanic is compared to a large curse surrounded by smaller kaisers and the overflow fills the smaller crisis as the platz that fills the smaller crisis kia duo we've spoken about the commandants and one day he has a striking question who in this market places not destined for them and now who's living now so he explains to him with great detail that yid he goes into the prison and he has a whole potent to save the nishay israel from being violated by the goemon prison and then he says vahani and these two and he disappears all you know if he kills a little more you figure it out for yourself so he walks over to these two fellows and they say marvel de taco what's your job you're like a billionaire you own the chicago and new york skyline you give a hundred million dollars to stock every year maybe you started in your neighborhood maybe you shush people from not talking during hazard shots like what exactly do you do to be a benelli we're comedians we make good jokes rabbis know how to make good jokes you could be a rav and have a sense of humor or psalm told but when we see people are at cv depressed we cheer them up show them by his problems we cheer them up but cheer him up doesn't just say oh look at the beautiful world it's such a nice sky purple mountain majesties smack him we're happy um says rashi so obviously like i talked about the guy and if you want to cheer somebody up you better be happy yourself the saddest case is the clown crying on the inside trying to cheer people up so firstly you want to be a better man you have to be happy and after you're happy you can make other people happy thank you so much for that we're doing this ready for 21 years people okay if you really want to hear the best amines in the world come together any average day listen to the means of sve levy thank you you're welcome oh shikaya but we only have one stickle so we'll have to put this one down there's another one we're going to unbelieve what's going on over here the drinks are flying finally now kupunem i just see you know i love you yeah okay as long as you know this gonna make people happy how do you do that when you're happy a pet comedy club he gets fired out of the laugh from toronto my close friend that when a person is depressed as nietzsche can mensch you're turning him into a bench smack him um you give a smile to someone else how are you nice to see you ain't it from the flatbush i'm not saying his name he doesn't like to be noticed acknowledged but make sure you all buy life insurance if you make a casa the kid should have life insurance am i right am i saying something wrong 100 percent right okay so he's just saying the name of emotion i'm saying his name is when you're depressed you're not a mensch you're turning him into mensch so the mount shaw when a person's arm heard says my head hurts kline my arm hurts when he it is depressed that abandonment is depressed and when you cheer up another year you're cheering up that is that doesn't mean when you won the lottery you're um do you have a sore throat you have a strep throat you have a stomach you get things on doesn't mean satisfied with his lot it doesn't do it justice he celebrates his lot japanese wanted me to have something else i would have had it he's given me everything i need i'm emailing the potential that we have that we have is limitless and every time we smile on someone and say good morning now if we got that kasha tisha book what's the kasha we have a problem yeah yeah remember guys i told you if the cell phones are going to go off has to be a zippy tone you know what i'm saying like beethoven's ninth pacquiao bell something schmuck nothing wrong the first time is nothing second time there's nothing the third time maybe but nothing wrong what were you talking about put a cell phone off oh tissue buff so where we how do we get into this mess are we into the mess we didn't treat each other nice we didn't talk to each other so in tisha we should be giving everyone big slobbering lit fisher kisses what do we do we ignore each other uh that's good someone says good morning you have to be like you're hoping you're diving somebody but it's not really that's what you're doing tisha buff this you should grab and hug everybody what are you ignoring everybody maybe he doesn't exist you don't see him for 25 hours versus mid-torah so what do we do we don't want to turn for 25 hours but forget about the kids just learn the guns that tug what's the rationale problem with interpersonal relationships i just heard a person say they do it all the time maybe in your block not on my block my blog people say hello to each other hello to you i know who you are but welcome i'll come on him i don't know i don't want to i don't want to say anything negative about flatbush life is a great place minneapolis is a great place muncie is a great place milwaukee is a great place you should like him a lot give it safer most people that i know walk in the street and say good morning so i i apologize if they haven't been nice to you and i'll make sure they say good morning everybody say good evening to the gentleman but he says this is the way it is all the time good morning in in you feel like you're a member of the club okay i'll go upon him does it make sense that we push it don't talk to each other where's the rationale a person who's a menace to society has to sit outside of the camp for seven days a matzah mukhlet and he has to have his head and his face cowled up to his nose and when a person approaches he has to say to me tommy tommy tommy yikra he screams out stay away from me i'm a home wrecker i destroy relationships okay two on this side we're on that side i destroy relationships between ambanim and tamiden but you know she's shiva santa meadow between fathers and mothers and children i'm destructive i'm a menace to society tom made tommy yikra stay away from me so what do you think happens after seven days after seven days of complete introspection he runs back he speaks lotion he tucker gribs the first year that he can and he says nice things but for 25 hours the aside is my friend rabbi roseman said there's a bug in the system you have to shut down the virus i should go without it a little bit and see what it means so the insight is obviously that when we're not available we can't talk to each other the idiom so when a person realizes the potential that they have to push it bring a person back to life how do you terrify someone who's about to commit perjury so we tell them adam never yahidi if you kill this person's false virtue you're killing an entire world but that's not enough as if it elucidates that we finally tell him you've got to say every day bishvilin is that world and if a person realizes that he's an entire world he won't do an aved he wants to come to the aveda there used to be a sprock that was used when i was a kid i'm not that old sepanesh [Music] not because you read the pillar yaya if you look at the wrong thing they'll hang you up by your eyeballs and you hit them or you talk russian her through your tongue surpass it's beneath your dignity everybody has a beneath their dignity and once you have the dignity of the shalini alone even a person is about to kill someone through perjury will hold back reviews to wake up as children used to say prince your world is awaiting your rule how to wake up the kids get up you can miss the bus you're going to be a bum you're going to sleep in late you're not going to make the test it's like a transition from 1 60th of meesa to life you got to control the transitions the person comes home from a busy day at work and he knocks on the door walks in the house with a smile don't bring the load into your house and have palms outside not everything at work do you have to tell your wife could you imagine that you come in and you smile you had a rough day at the office just because you had a bad year why should she suffer fiddle on the roof chinese is that transition and she was expecting you eagle rabbits and esther hobart was she was out of a seminary she influenced thousands of girls you know what happened when her husband come home and she's on the phone i'm sorry i have to hang up right but hoberman just walked in the door i'd been hoping we just walked in the door that's not like a fantasy right here robertson's on the phone bala bunching my husband just walked in half to hang up i gotta i gotta i gotta like i gotta tie all things up within a half an hour because you just got home and it goes the same way there was a bus in in bernay brock that uh they had a phone in the house and every month ago donald schneck is busy at the table with the phone with the business so one time they say there's a phone call from you it says 11 year old kid on the phone he went to the next door neighbor and he called his father he says tati the only way i can get hold of you is by calling you on the phone because that's the only people you talk to while you're eating the dinner it's all part of transitions you treat him like a king he'll be a king [Music] i want to take there was a song many years ago that became popular not going to sing it now because that's irreverent we're done irreverency is done it's my friend i have to listen to my friend he needs a good also by the way i'll cope on him you know the eighth zohare has to grow commensurate with you or else it's not because it's not freedom of choice if you're left with the eighth hour you had a nursery school bus fight so you're gonna borrow a kid's mark without letting him know and put it back the bigger you are the biggest the eights are hungry so it's constantly a challenge however times outside said people think i'd overnight so i have a huge azara for everything so let me ask you a question talking about the inner greatness of every yid there hasn't been a door lochara since pre-asylum that has the tithis and the instant gratification of our dog they never dreamt of such hates others so you know what that means the average kid is a godline you do the math if they have so many eights of hearts muslim voice to mention and we get upset at them the button's not buttoned they're not wearing the hat the whole time or other flagrant violations they're wearing like cool socks that good you know i have some fat chef mishpockers so many many people they approach they come in but so good is it when they come over milo david give me show there's a family sits in front of me they had a couple of boys and married to make you in brisbane nicole did the same thing so one boy got killed when he was in fifth grade he was wearing a lot of funky socks i'm not looking at your feet right now but the kid was very insulted now i'm not starting with the school there's a bonus for it but from my perspective my vote and child is being loved so he used to come over to me for three years so he went to base management he came over to me so he would pull up his pants leg and if i saw his neon socks i gave him a thumb up and if i saw black or blue socks like that that's it the godzilla licked in the socks i want to say something that sounds like fire when i was at bhagan khaim berlin the best-based marriage bakram wore blue and green shirts and the mirror yeshiva and murray virata multi gift is that a picture of him but a very cool shirt with stripes it wasn't white so that's it it's all over you know it's a penguin look it doesn't work is it that a kubo made up 500 years ago is based on stanzas of kambola it was the secret purview of the notions of kanye's and the men never heard about it as i've been knocked in brooklyn we never heard about it until a few years ago they made a song in it um when they shed copious tears they dive in for the children otd so he dedicates himself to mechasic youngsters i was there to speak and in a time event where they finished shas in london and in america amateur frank once spoke at an event and he said we're learning shas to create nunes summits for mishpockers and after none of children but what about the neshamas that we lost what about the children not keeping shabbos anymore see he quoted this and he said this patent saw 500 years ago that not every kid is [Music] he works for hawaii hashem what happens if it doesn't happen what happens if in 11th grade and the gemara sounds like mandarin chinese he has no idea fango gongai has no idea what the gemura means so that's it comes a push stock becomes a bomb the mothers and claw you smell probably millions of mothers continue to dive in um and if it's not in terror mason turkey could light up the night the same way and if you don't mind but what's happened to us is the primacy of life but you can light up the world with masum you know understood this the mastermind my father yank of avinu you should know that i wrote this when this opens that cell asked me to write this article in the jewish observer about my rebbe remember the jewish observers be a magazine called jewish observer so the kitser he couldn't believe this is what shmuel said he called me up to make sure shmuel said charles nift i told him yeah i did such a great job in this article that i closed the jewish observer that was the last issue they ever published i was telling you the facts i wrote an article they didn't have another issue so the stomach closed another measure says for two years when he's in jail she shows up in the outside he took it out of here and you know what it means pastas it means he saw anchovavinu and he couldn't do an alvera with the visitors of yankoma is that what the slanoman says [Music] refused to give up on yosef and yasif didn't give up on himself i would say according to the slaughter is not just learning it's sitting and saying tell him and saying yourself is alive and i'm not giving up on my kids 22 years i don't give up my kid and that's the most duke of the ace of swords the father never gave up on him i had a relative of mine stick a levitic started going bowling and movies and mainland whatever someone says how come you never went off the dark how come you never really did things bad he said because i used to stay out till two three four o'clock in the morning and my father would stay awake by the gomorrah waiting for me and the minute i walked in the door he said you're okay i said yeah go up to his room sometimes he fell asleep by the gemma father doesn't give up on the kid the kid doesn't give up on himself but jesus is called jesus i better go see him in this world because who knows if in yennevelt yes i'll be allowed in his environs do we know what it is for a kid to be aiming do we realize we're raising royalty and the challenges and the turmoil that our kids have today i heard the fair share of that if he salmonella up with the age of computers he doesn't know if he'd be shamed so we take it for granted does that yeah it's good no he's a godless thrill so granda i once had high school 12th grade is about 20 kids there i love it so they said we have a swear kasha for the roof and for surgical deuteron then how come people go to crime for a bracha and they don't come to us for a break that's nice why is he inside the gomer i want to give a hundred bucks my kid should live faster that's it kiss though so i fixated on the word oimer could you imagine when a michelle comes to your door and you tell them somebody's ill in the family and i would give you a thousand dollars and you could save this person's life what's in this you want the person to think he's doing you the favor it's okay but he doesn't want the fella to feel that he's doing him a favor he's doing me a favor there's so much you can teach your kids there's so much that we can teach from ourselves we have to believe in it find the resources in yourself beautiful nice rhyme it's great here and this is when a person would knock at the door give him a ruble and then he'd take him a maltese into the wine cellar give him 500 rubles ever heard about it big mistake because your kids see you give a rupaul each have the exact same ingredients but the configuration of the pan is different mahreshis is a deep end mahavas is a flat pan has to be commended has to be i hope you don't think of me as a linker but when she was in cleveland and in minneapolis she had a nursery school for three great for three-year-olds and there's a mixed class boys and girls in the same class they're three-year-olds i hope nobody's nervous there was a seizure ever bloom he said his kid with the girls but that's the way it is out of town i know here separated from the hospital but dalton in minneapolis and in cleveland and chicago and detroit and los angeles and they look at me amazingly she can't believe it nursery school has boys and girls in the same three-year-olds zorganemus my contract's up in two years you see if you don't want it then find another rapper look upon him so what happens is that you have a shabbos party what's the shabbos party the kid puts on one of my hats and he like strangles himself with a tie and the girl puts on a tickle and she makes believe she's sitting in their shops and the kid makes kiddush so most kids they stand they sit they stand and sit they're dominating their father there's one kid in another nursery school he gets up to make kiddush and he says boy am i tired do it to them before they do it for you to you dabbing for the doubt for everybody in my that's how his father makes kiddish he's tired he's exhausted he can't deal with the market instead of in stolen ignition terra stone many years ago i'm sure big dodge can find the tape to see dear tape in those days and a stolen yoga man came out to me afterwards and said his wife was also ghanan at the nursery school teacher and she had a different medicine but a child got up he started making kiddush and he closed his eyes and he says mommy thank you for making such a delicious suit the kindle for setting the table not fighting how do you want your kids to make kiddish if you don't find that inner greatness in you and then they're going to find it in themselves this is this site that's whatever you're doing in life is the wrong hashem you know what the is feel like the world you want to activate your inner greatness every year it is special if the kid's off to derek it's called because it should have been misspelled what he means is to be over they all kinds of tyvers he could have dive and take away the hofstras even the god was taken to task how a person killed with shaykh take away his but he wouldn't walk in with faulty equipment inherits israel there was a strong movement in knesset many years ago to legalize its on abortions following rowan wade they want to legalize it and it was headed by a fellow named shmuel tamir i don't know if the tamir hassan hall is named after the guy but shmuel tamir so the good islam got together and said how could we allow and they decided let's take a going before levine i going before levine was like going with levine's son i i met him he told you that he sort of on you it was unbelievable why him because if i lived all of those people imprisoned by the british sentenced to death sometimes stirring russian compound or violin used to be makarov them and them and give them messages and remember a hundred messages on shabbos and yiddish guide he was called the love of the assyriate and shmuel tamir was of the assyrian so he said let's bring her before and it kind of good albertan with this small tamiya i mean but every rav who's going has to spend three days davening like he never darwin before mustafa and fat sloga of course they'll mask them so the ariel levine's son of befall comes to small tamiya says to when i was a little boy i remember vividly a couple came to my parents and they said and myself called kali financially is impossible we can't put food on the table and the lady said we have some kids and she's pregnant and they want to head there they're going to go crazy they can't put food on the table sir arya levine spent the whole night fighting with the malacha to save this kid's life and they will mask them and nine months later they had a baby boy and arya levine was the sandik the koresh maybe israel tamir this was you if you had a lot you wouldn't be here today runs out of the room no cell phones in those days he calls his mother she bursts into tears what shall i tell you we had no money and the rav convinced us and bought hashem you're the result shimon tamir came back and he said i promise you as long as i'm a member of knesset then he became a justice supreme court justice they will never pass the abortion law as long as that didn't happen [Applause] that's why i drove you crazy maybe everson said i suffer what does that say sumualai who does she invite says the goyin hitler because they said so to make sure there wasn't any happening to rely on haman on esther they all said she's a turn coat now we have to get on top that was more and before i was saying you think and kesha said before absolutely not now you got it done this be a lady in detroit her name was rebecca pereira and when things started heating up she would tell his kids yeah can't rely on this anymore we gotta say tell them the kayak feel isn't unleashed it can bring today but we have to believe it in ourselves that's the gemara shashani two were sentenced to the garden to be hung by the king two was sentenced to death by illness they both love and one was released and one was killed one got healed and one died frantically they're both done he dive into complete feeler and he died an incomplete feeling the terrorist is worse than nakasha he's about to die from an illness and he fudged rafael so she this one was a scavenge this one is not a scum means he believed it would work so the fellow who was crying copious tears those were tears of frustration angst he gave up but this one dominant and he had carvanha he knew that it would work tele works if we realize that it's going to work and each of us has the opportunity to do that he tried saving call israel after the war he traveled to far-flung locations he came to morocco for sukis he says to somebody i gotta get hold of a lulu an answer like oh aquila dog give me so sad don't worry about it rap buddy take care of everybody it comes to show the morning of suckers he sees a festival of his reagan like 300 swag him in the barrel as i did a minute last week you all know what was supposed to do pick out 50 love and parcel 49 love me that's love and estrich he was very upset the kids are he was soon malified he was mollified because the hazan mamash was like a nightingale it was gorgeous so even though he couldn't pick out his own little vanessa the hazan made up for it the next day the next day he comes back to show gets his esther got in a barrel and he has a fella daviding for the ahmed it's croaking terrible voice he is to somebody what happened to the hazard it's [Applause] so he said to himself who's bigger than me that looks for an s rig or the killer morocco if you lie you can't dive in for the omitted i'll let you want the story i have a friend of mine yeah friends also thomas meister from his sister i represented one of the biggest rebellion in bernie a young man walks over to a fifth grade rabbi and he tells him rebbe because of you i finished shas twice with brahiness gomorrah she takes his russian run and he never got less than 95. normally hundreds it's all because of you doesn't remember the kid then he continues ready we were in fifth grade we're very chakra class so the guy in him on the board decided they passed the law that any kid who fails a test in the fifth grade the rebbe has to mark it and circle it with a red crayon or a marker and inside it should say the word nichol in big red letters means failed which means he's a failure and rebbe remembers i could never pass the test 40 45 60. i never got a and dutifully every single time you'd grade the paper and you'd write 49 and you take your red marker and you'd circle it and you write nershau then you take a ballpoint pen and inside the circle you would add an eva to ice i and your child know how hard he tried and every week my parents would get the paper and every week they'd see the test and every week they'd have to sign it and every week it said nichole and every week they saw how inside the rebbe had written and every week they did the same thing they hugged me and they kissed me and they told me how proud they were rebbe i finished shots twice i took some olaf never less than 95 hundred so how do you want to raise your kid raise that medium how to raise up achievement and how hard they try and how incredible they are that's the future of kaiser that's the inner greatness that every year it has and you have to find in yourself questions to reveal the majesty of being beneath malachi to influence hundreds of thousands in the years to [Music] the upcoming annual dinner august 18th in the newsroom of avenue cave we're putting an ad in the journal another abandon which we've enjoyed and how that hey look in our what's the satire of ignorant throughout the world throughout the year call 718-851-8651 or email ist at yeshivanet.com [Music] foreign