The Formula - Project Inspire Tisha B'Av 2016

is something important sure yeah do you do some K that's another question ask you if you think is important yes yes do you do some no some people are afraid to do kir of some people don't want to be bothered why wouldn't they want to be bothered you got to ask them I'm busy doing other things is something important no is it something important yes do you do some my son does for me do you know any people who are not from no if you met somebody would you want him to become from yes what would you do I don't know why don't people do more C you think um unfortunately people don't feel that close to each other they think that a Russian is a Russian not a Jew and they think a yemenite is a yemenite not a Jew they probably don't realize the importance of it because all of all of yish kite involves kir even people that are formed can even become close to themselves there's always room for kir why don't people do more care maybe maybe because not trying to I guess I have no idea honestly no no idea it's such a wonderful thing it's a very important thing to be okay right do you do no it's now over 10 years since we filmed some of the clips that you just saw as part of the film inspired the film basically was designed to find out two things are people interested in kirv is it something important and are they involved so we went to the streets and as you saw many people agreed kirim is something important our have been encouraging us this is the Mitzvah of the generation but sadly many of us felt that it didn't really involve us that was not something that we could do but it's been a while perhaps there has been a shift a paradigm shift through all the invitations that have gone out these last dozen years or so through all the Suka invitations and the shabas invitations and the kalab bakes and the trips to Israel and so many different easy Outreach gifts that have been given out throughout the years people are getting it they understand they say you know what everyone has to be involved in kirv but is it really so we went back on the street we wanted to find out where are we up to today right do you think K rokum is something that is important absolutely I am involved with Rage which is more with Russian is whenever I meet somebody I talk to him but exell I was now in Switzerland I met some Israeli girls and I I got him to get koser food there it are you serious a lot of people over the house over the years many many people over the house many many my wife has constant people over the house constant constant do Kim an important Mitzvah is a very important Mitzvah yes I learn with someone through uh wonderful group called project Inspire I mean we're still learning but we learn on the phone now cuz he he became uh observant and uh he moved to Israel and he went to Yeshiva wow so now uh we just learned over the phone but uh for a couple years for about uh two years wow your neighbor I invited my Postman in to make kid sometimes I invited him to my Suka one time when he wasn't religious anyone your UPS driver I have done some kind of it's clear we know it ourselves we see the kir of happening it's in our homes it's in our shools it's in our neighborhoods wherever we go it's a revolution bar but today is Tish it's another Tish and we after all we're project Inspire so we're supposed to be inspiring you to do kirov and bar hasm that has happened you're doing it you're doing it in unprecedented ways thousands tens of thousands who had never done it before so the challenge has changed the challenge is no longer isn't important should I be involved the challenge is now what is the formula what is the recipe how do we become really successful is there a way is there something that can be taught that we can understand that this is the right way to do it this is the way to guarantee our success so this TSH what better time to work on our a what better time to work on showing our love for all of our Brethren this Tish let's see if we can find the [Music] formula [Music] for for [Music] and so the quest begins to answer the challenge of finding the formula and we start in Lakewood Lakewood New Jersey SCH weasel not exactly cir of professional but I found after speaking with him that I had a lot to learn from him so will you here was never in my family in any way I grew up just you know we were either it was with a yiva background the yiva setting or maybe in setting but I was never really exposed or had any to do with anybody was not from orish pretty much we invited to sh across the street of a girl who cha and uh it was at the time where I met David at my mother's Jewish I was born a Jew my father's not he's a Christian and so I was raised with um fundamental in fundamental Christianity I met schm weasel about 10 years ago at the final shev bras of my sister at the time I was living in California so I come into this home I See This Magnificent Farm shr all these Farm on it and I was thinking wow look at all these books they must be worth a fortune and this guy's like a professor of religion or something and I'm from California and where I'm from people have a fireplace and a gun r back and a dog in the house nothing like I saw here it was totally foreign to me I'm sitting there in my probably a pair of jeans and a cut off short sleeve t-shirt and um a white silk yamak I picked up at the I'm sitting there and um SCH weasel was sitting next to me he spoke said some deor at the Shas and he bumped me and said you know hi I'm SCH weasel I put my arm on the shoulder and I said David I would like to show you something You' never seen before I do remember he said do you want to go see BMG that's a local uh he probably didn't call it a Yeshiva maybe he said place we learn I maybe he called it a Yeshiva I don't know do you want to go see it and I was thinking who's this guy trying to invite me to some strange place but I'm not scared I'll [Music] go and um we drove over there and I saw a lot of people were looking at these books with the Hebrew couldn't read Hebrew I didn't know what was going on but there was people learning it was religious and he took me on a tour and I'm going to be honest with you okay i' I've sat next to people at chevis isn't that people who are not necessarily observant the last place I would bring them Midnight is to go to Bas medish Gava he must have had some divine inspiration because that I don't know why how that would make sense to most people you're right it sounds ridiculous there were hundreds of young walking out um so I was like standing behind him and trying to motion sh if I you know give him shal a few people you know stuck out their hands give Shalom you've never done this before did you ever try something else uh like this or no I don't recall trying to be M of anybody in the past you had never tried to M for anyone in the past this was your first time this is my first time and you went right to the extreme it's a little mindboggling well the whole story is mindboggling you realize what we're talking about it just to step out for a minute there's tens of thousands of people watching all of them benra and and you have somebody from Eureka California who probably has never seen not only a from Jew maybe not even a Jew hardly and you Tak him to Bas medish gavaya and and hoping for a miracle I guess I I wasn't thinking more than what I had at hand like I didn't have a plan it wasn't something I've done in the past this is what this is what's supposed to be done now that's what I did I listened to Schmo weasel and I like you was astounded by the story and then I had the opportunity to sit down with the rashash Shiva of Lakewood of Mel Cutler schita to ask him his perspective on it says that that's the way of bringing people people to T by showing them the effect of T showing them someone shows that what is either as himself as an example or other brings him to and he sees this just it's just different it's a different world ni is and there's no comparison because if you you're coming from the convictions so they'll they'll go back in it they'll think it over maybe yes maybe not but this just draws them we came back he was leaving here from the sh so we came back here and I gave him my phone number I asked him for his so we switched numbers I said you know what we'll stay in touch sure it's about a week later and I had that paper in my pocket and I decid I'll give him a call mhm so I call him up and I said David this is he obviously talked to me about my Heritage and um that was the main key to getting me you know to keep to getting me on this journey was just to be in touch to just to talk to me he used to call me email me send me packages what I did get to realize is we have a wealth of information stored inside ourselves that we don't even realize things that I would be telling them is not things that I even think of about but now you know you you're confronted with it and the questions are asked and you talk about you talk about Hashem it was just a very it was a it was a very beautiful feeling every single time David came to us many times that we that together in the je and slowly many people would come and say hello and uh and I was getting requests to please share the and many people in the neighborhood open their doors and David would they would beg me can we can we have him for a meal can we have him for a meal and uh some of some of the Miss became very close with David he called me and said you want to come for suus and you know we all sleep in the Suka we'll sleep in the Suka with my boys I'm like a bunch of guys sleeping in a Suka this is crazy this is I did not know what sukus was I think we called it the Festival of booths or something and booths sure I think that's what it was called and I was like I was still this mentality you know what I'll see what you guys do I'll see what you do this film is being shown to tens of thousands of people all people who are religious and people who want to know how they can help others get closer to their Heritage and a lot of people think that if they just knew the right technique that that would do it what do what do you have to say about that people don't want to have techniques used on them they want to have a relationship with a real person he just presented the real deal and I I personally took it as it was and appreciated it and he that along with genuinely caring about me what is a successful uh kir of encounter how do you get there people are watching and thinking how do I become successful in kirov do you have some uh some thoughts about that hard to say what's called success and kir of I remember the conversations we've been having many times I was questioning myself am I doing the right thing like guidance you know but I D every time before I made a phone call I asked hasm to help me guide me that I should say the right thing and not make any mistakes and barem it uh it went well I got married July 1st 2012 which I just had my anniversary fourth anniversary I have Gabriel schm is 2 and a half and raeli just turned one David gave me the honors of being a sandic on his on his G the first time I was sandic and I remember holding the baby and thinking to myself unbelievable it's just even if I wouldn't say another word it's just continuing on the yish is continuing future Generations because I had this and brought David into my life my son is a complete Delight he's uh I every time I drop him off at daycare before work I just can't wait to see him when I get home and play go jump on the trampoline watch Airplanes listen to birds he's not ready to learn yet so we don't do much that sometimes we sing the olive based song but uh I absolutely love my son spending time with him total Delight life changer have you ever think about what would be if you had not met CH weasel and who knows it's a major Braha that I met him and um I'm so glad to be able to continue the tradition with my son I feel like I'm part of a bigger picture a link in a chain that has meaning and I'm doing something with eternal purpose more important than the day-to-day ephemera that's meaningless it just makes everything I do feel like it's for a purpose for the future for now for it's purposeful a truly remarkable story when you try to find a formula you look for a story you see that it was successful and you work backwards you say hey maybe that's the formula and no question this is a successful story David Shera mitzvas living in pic with a beautiful family it's quite amazing but when you look back on how it happened and you saw my reaction in speaking to Schmo weel when you look back on it you say is that really the formula bringing him to the B medish and Lakewood at 10:00 at night it worked that part is for sure but I think we're still looking we still want to find if and what is that formula so let's go to bur Park and let's meet a younger man from bub of Yakov Weinfeld he has a fascinating tale to tell us so when when do you remember first feeling anything about Judaism I think I when I was very young I always felt something I was very thirsty for that knowledge but because there was no uh you know Jewish people or even you know synagogue in a town constantly I would come to New York and I felt very special and that's why I talk to my cousin you know because he worked in the Bora Park as a driver and I always joke about it I was uh I always said you know I'm here all the time but I never have an experience why can I have uh somebody to put me at fine on and that was you know I I don't know I was feeling it all the time I really want [Music] it it was about 6 years ago I went by on the street and suddenly I see somebody coming out from with tto on his hands he was and he didn't even look like he's Jewish and he started to scream at me and ask me you want to do a Mitzvah Mitzvah Mitzvah I didn't know what he's talking to me I was like I was overwhelmed I at one point I thought maybe some kind of missionary is trying to get people into his cult or something I didn't know exactly what what kind what he wants for me and we were in one of the Russian restaurants so we were just you know having a nice little time and uh my cousin was outside like having a cigarette and he just runs in you know it's like Alex you know you always talk about you want to have Ain on I have outside a person aim who said he will do it for you and everybody's not laughing everybody and they they they thought because I always say this you know and they're like you know this is one of another jokes you know they thought we made it up and he said you want to do it and I I don't know I felt that he's serious middle of everything I said absolutely where he's at said he's outside and then he just brought him out the cousin and he looked at me and he asked me with such a sincereness this Russian Jewish guy Alex and he tells me can you please I would love to do a Mitzvah so I told him do you want a p do you have a so he says no so I said you know what if you want to come to my home which is this is a Flatbush I live in bar Park I said you can come to my home and maybe I'll put I'll put you on some film but since it was already late in the day I want to him to be able to put out that film still during that day before night time otherwise it would be wouldn't be a Mitzvah anymore we went in uh right to this home uh did not have a keep on absolutely you know he was so interested and so really he was like excited to be able to do this Mitzvah so I gave him the the film I put it on to him I physically put it on to him showed him how to do it and then I told with him I said with him have to just a you and he said word from her after me he never he never obviously not life said these words never in his life from what it seems yes so I I because I see the way he said the words he didn't have any recollection of anything so it seems he didn't even have a rabak put in on me that was I can't even describe that was mystical that was I mean sh I had shiver Shivers absolutely it was I Can't Describe right now but it was again it was like surreal at that moment after he finished saying old theum he was like almost I I was almost in tears just watching him because it was such a strong emotional experience and I think it was a good for my children to see as well my children still till this day remember this and they came into the sh and they were standing there respectfully and waiting for me to DAV and then Alex asks me ROV please teach me how can I DM I want to davem so I told him God understands every language and you don't have to D from the S the way we do just by talking to God directly with a communication like one man to another that's what daving is all about and that's how you can D to hasem so he was like so mesmerized and he was like you were able to see that he was like all steered up and he was like so envious of us Jews like we're going in and out and it's like part of life and he doesn't even know what this is all about right right and you met him one hour before correct and he looked at me and he said if you're really serious about this I will give you a present and I said sure what you know present I thought you will give me a book or whatever and he brought F in and you've never seen him since no I've been in contact with him on the phone many times the best way to keep him going in yish K to keep it moving forward would be by having him connected to someone in the area where he lives I get a phone call from aid from Bor Park saying that there's a Jew in Frisco Texas who wants to learn about Judaism and it's very very hard to reach him we're playing phone tag for days for weeks and I still have not met him I've barely gotten a conversation with him and it was time for rosashana and I talked to the uh RAB Yakov and he said where you going to be in rosashana have able to contact with rebi zon and I said we kind of are playing you know phone calls but I never have and he said so where you going Rashana I said I'm not I'm working I had a restaurant at that time he said you should call you should reach him you should reach him rashishana is coming up and I said join us rashishana we have a learner service which is perfect for people who have very little background in Judaism teaches you the basics of Judaism what the high holidays are all about and how to use that to gear up for a really meaningful year you know he's like come come to you know and I was nervous I don't know what it is I don't know how it's going to be you know I was in the Orthodox Sho before and I was hesitant a little bit and he's like come on and I said I don't know if I will to make it or so I don't know what to do he said just come and come over we would love to see you here and I get up in the morning and I said I will go comes rashash morning I'm looking out for him not knowing what he looks like looking for a stranger who looks a little lost he's not there I went to the I don't know what to take check with me I took my you know uh Talis I took my you know filin but I did not even know you cannot put fine on the holidays so I came over and the rabis zakan was speaking I don't even know who is who I walk in you know man sitting listening so I'll sit down and I have my bag with me at the end of the service as the I go to the learner service everyone's leaving after the service I see a man with a big smile a big mustache and a big smile radiating Joy reading and he says rebi I'm Alex I said oh great to meet you welcome and that's how it all begins that's how it all begins I went for yon kipur that was my first real I will say you know holidays right and that's how we start to keep in touch so we met for lunch and we discussed that and Alex very much wanted to study and he started coming to one of my my weekly classes I believe it was a class on the paraa in the paraa class we discussed the concept of bris and he came to me and he mentioned he never had a bris wow and I said would you be willing to have bris and he said absolutely immediately agreed he wanted to have it he wanted to have that connection and even though it'd be painful and difficult there was no hesitancy he said I'm here to help you what do you want I said I want to have my Breeze done I never done my family you know it was illegal how how old were you I was uh again I was 41 41 years old no 40 no nothing no and he said you really want it I said yes I do and my family took it negatively in the beginning like you all growing up man it's a surgery I want it actually from that time I will say my life changed when I have it done my brother drove me home that feelings I had you know it's like I was freed I truly fell I was freed and I got a call out of blue the blue and it's Alex on the phone and he says with excited voice yako rakov you know who this is I said yes Alex how are you you're going to be very very excited to hear what I'm going to tell you right now so I said what is that I just had a bris so I asked him Alex are you in pain yes but I'm happy and proud to be a Jew that's what he said he was so proud that shavas we did a naming for him we naming for him and he was so proud he asked he brought kosher food so he could celebrate he brought his family and he was glowing and we gave him the name avam a true Trailblazer aam and he kept on growing and I asked him a short while later I said Alex we have a learner service every shabas would you like to join on sh I always tell him I want to do it but I have no woman at night at home my wife works my daughter in the college and I'm working and he said Alex concentrate what you can do not what you cannot do he said can you light the candles yes I can can you have a kidush yes I can do it Das press is incredible man walks down the street in King's Highway minding his own business and somebody walks out and says my cousin wants to do a Mitzvah few minutes later he's in Bur Park putting thin on him but what makes the story really great is that it had been six years since Yakov Weinfeld had met Alex Alex went back to Texas Rabbi zon a very qualified prominent C professional was now involved in Alex's life but when I interviewed Alex I found out that this was now going to be the the second encounter in six years between Alex and Yakov Weinfeld every time I call reab Yakov or he called me you know I I have to be ready because he will ask me how's your study going and everything and I'm ashamed myself I don't do enough and I wish I can tell him I succeed in this and this and this and you know you know raka when he talk to on the phone he like you know like a father figure he asked you what about this and what about this and you know I feel very you know kind of humble to not to not disappoint him because he's the one who started and this week he told me he's going to be spending a full shabus here in Bor Park and have a full shabas the First full shabus of his life as we're sitting here as we're sitting here this week in this house in with the wine felds with the wine felds he's going to spend the entire the entire shavas wow and you're coming in tomorrow you're going to do the burrow Park Shabbat here in Brooklyn absolutely that's why again everybody think I'm crazy here six years this is his first chabas now you've waited a long time it feels exciting that he's going to the next level at this point and I'm hoping that this will bring him to start to be able to maybe keep shabas every week you know right but uh I'm just cautiously optimistic that it should bring him to the next to the next level right I want to do it first time and from that now point I know I mean there's no more excuses than not to do it right I I want to see how it's have to be done it's so I mean know to me again it's a fairy tale are you nervous are you are you scared I'm more excited a lot of people define success by the ultimate result by the end result but here we are six years and he's taking little baby steps so to speak do you feel like you're a success I feel that we me success is not measured by what we can Define as being the rashish Shiva or becoming a rabbi that's not what we have to Define as success success is when we bring someone closer to Hashem and every baby step that we do that brings them closer that is Success obviously we want them to grow and grow until they become part of soet part of the Orthodox Society part of from y but that is the goal that we have to focus on is what can I do if I can bring one Jew that was not close to Hashem bring him closer to Hashem with every deed that he does with every that he does with every putting on or with every with every he has what and that's the ultimate what we really call success amazing great story what a a joy what a privilege it was just to be able to meet Alex and see how far he's come but it's taken six years this is his first shabas ever would have love to have been there together with Yakov Weinfeld and Alex it must have been some remarkable experience but you know Yakov Weinfeld was privileged to see the success of Alex even though it has taken so long through the relationship constantly talking connecting eventually he's getting there and he's still on that Journey schm weasel in the previous story he saw the success of David he was able to see it an amazing way that he had come so far from Eureka California to Bic New Jersey but it's right in front of him what a Nas what a success but you know success is not always defined by what we actually see a short time ago we experienced the tragic passing of doid winad a man who was a businessman by trade but his passion was really kir of and AAS and shortly after his passing we put together a short film to tell a story just one small snippet of what was an tremendous accomplishment from David wiard's you might call it a success story that unfortunately he never got to see my father would always differentiate between a living and a livelihood for a livelihood he would work but his passion what he did for a living was reach out to K I think his mission was to make every Jew feel proud that he was a Jew he knew how to focus on a person to see what would bring out the happiness of religion in that person that was his great concept uh he got to know this woman who worked behind the count in CVS that uh found that she was Jewish not from she she was expecting and she told my father that you know there she was going to have a boy so my father came in and said you know to our house and said we have you know 6 months to convince her to have a bris and when she had the boy she had a medical circumcision she had no religious circumcision and it broke his heart he felt terrible about it my father passed on and during the Shiva this couple comes with their little baby to the Shiva house she told my my mother I want to honor your husband RAB by David wiers I want to honor him I want to do a br proper bris me love for my son who's now 6 months old and she said you know now I feel so bad that I didn't listen to him about the bris I never gave my son a Jewish name I would love to name my son after Rabbi win ARS so I said I got a great idea for you why don't we do it when does the Shiva end the Shiva ends Sunday morning let's transform this house which is a house of mourning into a house of Happiness let's do Sunday afternoon I was the sandic and my brother gave the kashim he named the baby after my father quite ating to watch how the events unfolded and to actually see the success of some of our labors it's quite uh a moving experience it is a great comfort to know that so soon after he's gone there's a little adorable gorgeous baby boy that carries his name now this little boy will be connected to R WIS forever my the ABA fulfilled his T in this world and uh we definitely miss it though he built a legacy he built a legacy for generations to come I have no doubt that doin winar is in some way whatever that means was at that bris and that he experienced or witnessed that that baby was named after him but of course in his lifetime he never saw it he never actually witnessed the success perhaps he thought that he failed who knows but we're looking for the formula we all want to do it the right way the best way but this Tish ofv I think we have to remember that sometimes it's not exactly what you do that equals to the success as in the first story and sometimes it's not how long it takes as we see from the Second Story and sometimes the success comes even though we don't see it at all that's the way it is so what is is the formula is the formula one strategy is the formula particular way Maybe not maybe the formula is the doing just that we have to do we have to care and we have to do and no matter what the results the actual doing of it is the success a new definition the definition of success is not connected to the result and so to define success to understand what it really means in the world of I turn to my r r for over 40 years R Hill David SCH who gives us some fascinating insights into what success really means over the years a lot of people ask me they're afraid of disappointment of failure they don't know how to face a failure but I want to tell you son I met many people who were disappointed but I never met a failure no one's a failure if you open up your heart you open up your house you open up yourself to a fellow Jew and who's far from being religious because he doesn't know what's all about he doesn't know what to appreciate what it is I never met one one failure yet oh yes there are some people I'll invest time in them and after time I may quit because the guy didn't turn into religious yet you're not a failure first of all by us inish as bis was saying inish he said our job is to do not to accomplish when we do then it's all up to the so whatever you do you're not a failure you're a great success secondly you have no idea what you accomplished if he didn't turn out what you want to the see that doesn't mean you didn't accomplish that person now has an understanding for religious Jews he has understanding for religion he has an understanding for Judaism and he will respect it it may be too difficult in his eyes to change he's an adult he's has his whole culture and his Society he can't change it all at one time but he understands us and he appreciates it he doesn't have what it takes but you know that fell his son may join up with some religious group and he won't object to it CU he understands it he respects it but what can you do it's not for me but you're a great success success is in many ways there are people who if they did a few mises now they'll accept something they won't even tell you they're accepting because they don't want you to to Badger them and inist insist on doing more and more but there are certain things they'll take upon themselves he'll see the religious way and we know we are mourning for the destruction of the Holy Temple and our sages tell us the reason why the second temple was destroyed because there was sin there was hatred without any reason for it sin you know what Sin is Sin is the effect of not caring for a certain person for any person that's called sin we have to learn to open up our hearts what does it mean to open up our hearts open up our hearts means we have to start thinking about other people people tell me that they're afraid to get involved because they're afraid of failure disappointment well disappointment I can't say I didn't meet people that were disappointed but I never met a failure L yet that it doesn't exist no such things a failure what do we know what's doing in another person's heart that person you opened up your heart to him he will open up his heart if you had a brother if you had a son a daughter who went off the way of religion and you try to get him back once you didn't succeed twice three times would they give up well our Jews who are far from religion they are our brothers I'm not just giving you an example I'm telling you the case the way it is these are our brothers and we can do for them no such thing as failure somebody was being marar he from Russia and in conversation after a while it came out that his great-grandfather was the villan but the leader of Lithuanian jeury the V who was Mish like aish the he he was the greatest of the great and his great-grandson was irreligious and he said imagine a person is learning his whole life he learns garas he learns whatever he's learning and he learns together with the V the and perim if it's on sh if it's on if it's on the Kesh and he has a difficulty and he's going to come up I can't wait until they have 120 I'll come up in heaven and I'm going to meet the vill and I'm going to say to him what do you mean when you wrote this and this and he'll say oh before we talk in night let me ask you a question you know my great-grandson lived next door to you what did you do for him to bring him closer to to bring closer to Hashem what will you answer and they you want talk with the you didn't do anything for his grandson who lived next door to you a very sobering thought that's amazing again today is Tish today we're going to work hard to bring back the Bas of mikdash and our very day and our very lives and the first point is the came because of sin and we're going to do everything that's possible to bring back all of hashem's children he said listen if I failed bit I didn't do for The Bu grandson don't you think I should feel bad not doing for hashem's children first generation we're all the hashem's children let us do and open up our hearts of open up our homes and let them see the light let them see the warmth of religion let them see what it is to be that's what we need to do we need to understand what success really is we started out with a challenge trying to find a formula for kirv but now we understand what we might think a success really isn't sometimes we see it and sometimes we don't sometimes it happens now and sometimes it takes years it doesn't really matter exactly what we see what matters is that you are really trying if you're caring and you're trying never forget it you are 100% successful leave the rest up to theam if you're sitting here right now on this Tish above and wondering what can I do what can I how can I start what can I do to try to make a difference there are so many ways project Inspire has so many ways that you can get involved but one of the best things you can do is learn study with somebody one on-one we have hundreds of people unaffiliated who are waiting for you and you don't have to be a rub and you don't have to be a t you can learn something very simple you can learn something that is very not timec consuming and you can learn it at your convenience on the phone but you have to get involved you can do something do something together it's an experience this is what shapes the relationship this is what brings success real success why because you're doing something that's why this is the time to do it if you wait till tomorrow it may be too late you don't want to miss this opportunity you want to show theam today that you are taken care of his children his children that are waiting waiting to be introduced in some way to their own very Heritage and in fact they actually may be waiting for you that's right don't think that it's any different and don't think that you can't do it and don't think that you have to see the results they're there they're there because you are doing something this year on tiab let's all resolve that we are going to make a difference we are going to bring back the basa mikash one brick at a time the wordban also has the word in it means destruction but means togetherness Unity unity means reaching out to your fellow Jew become one learn with someone study do something go to our website projec inspire.com you'll find that you can sign up for one-on-one learning or any other of the amazing programs that gets you on the road this year let's understand the formula is caring and doing nothing more than that and in that's May to see [Music] the [Music] for [Music] for [Music] for [Music] for for