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The Courage to Argue: Avraham’s Prayer for a doomed City | Rabbi Joel Kenigsberg | November 4th 2025
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Good morning everybody. Thank you for
coming. A pleasure to be with you this
morning. Filling in today for Rabbi
Adler. I believe he'll be back next
week.
>> Um
I'm not Rabbi Adler if anybody was uh
confused.
Okay, so we're going to talk this
morning. First of all, I have to
apologize. I know that it was advertised
on the schedule that the topic for today
was understanding the AA. I'm not going
to be talking about that. So, uh, if
anybody feels that it's a and wants to
leave right now, they're welcome to. But
we're going to talk about something
else. I will say one thing about the but
there's another piece of the para that I
really want to cover together with you,
which is I've called it here the courage
to argue Abraham's prayer for a doomed
city. And this this discussion between
Abraham and Akaresh Baraku, no less it's
very very audacious. This is the
beginning of Jewish. you know, God tells
Abraham what he's going to do and
Abraham says, "God, you can't do that.
You have to do something else." That's
uh it's a fascinating piece. It's a
fascinating discussion in the uh in in
the Torah and we just think about it. Um
you know, maybe again we're familiar
with the story like so many stories in
the Kumash. We know them. We've learned
them. We've heard them. We're familiar
with them. But if we stop and think
about it for a second, we realize just
how shocking this is, right? And uh you
know one thing especially if we compare
what happens over here about Abraham's
interaction with regarding storm and
Abraham's interaction with regarding his
own son which is we're not going to talk
about but I said I'll mention a few
words when Hashem gives Abraham the
command to go and to kill his son at the
to go and kill his own son.
This is an ordeal not just for Abra on a
personal level. It's an ordeal for him.
It's going against everything that he's
brought to the world. He is the one
who's gone and he's showing, you know,
he's taught to the world the evils of
child sacrifice. And now God says, "Go
and sacrifice your son, right? What am
I, how am I going to go and how am I
going to look people in the face? All
these people that I've come and I've
converted to well before Judaism as we
know it but all these people that I've
brought as the says
and I've convinced them and I've taught
them values and I've taught them morals
and I've taught them what God is and
what God says in the world and you're
telling me to do the exact opposite of
that. It's going against it's uprooting
everything that I've done for you God.
Right? So it's the opposite of justice
we would think. Not only that Abra has
received promises Hashem has promised
him
that you're going to become a great
nation through through the son that I'm
now telling you to go and to kill. So he
has all the reasons in the world if
there's ever a place that we would have
expected Abraham to come and argue with
God. It's the God says to him go and
kill your son, we'd expect Abraham to
say that doesn't make sense. What what
maybe I've seen there's a uh it's not
the traditional commentaries as a more
modern interpretation. There are those
that say that the uh that the ordeal
that Aram should have come and he should
have argued against God about the aa I
don't believe that's a correct reading
of the text. That's certainly not the
way that our uh that our sages and our
commentators learned it. But uh but it's
strange why not especially when you
consider and you contrast that against
the piece that we're going to study now
about Storm. If there's ever a case that
I would have expected Abraham not to
argue with God, it's about Storm. These
are the people that are the absolute uh
symbol of wickedness of evil in the
world. They go against everything that
Abraham has taught against everything
that he is trying to uh to establish.
God comes to Abraham and he says, "I'm
going to destroy Storm. These people are
so evil and they're so wicked and they
go against everything that I want the
world to be and they are the opposite of
what humanity should be. I'm going to
destroy them." Right? So if God would
come and tell me, and he hasn't spoken
to me recently, but if he would come and
tell me, I'd say, "Great." You know, go
ahead. That's that's that's what we
want. That's what we expect. And says,
"No, you can't do that. Where's the
justice? Where's the morality?" But when
it comes to his own son, when it comes
to exactly the purpose of what I'm here
for, so go on. You've lost your Now
you've lost your voice. Now you're
silent. What's going on? So that's an
interesting thing to think about. And
I'll leave you to think about that.
Maybe we'll come back to it at the end
if we have time. But that is that is an
interesting question. But let's deep
let's let's dive a little bit deeper
into this whole story and this whole
episode of the destruction of storm of
the of the discussion the arguments.
What I want to do is go through the
sukim. I've brought you've got two pages
in front of you. One is double-sided one
is not. We're not going to worry there's
a lot of text on the pages. I know we're
not going to read everything inside but
we're going to go through the pukim. and
let's go through the sukim with a little
bit of a critical eye. Let's look for
questions. Let's look for things that
jump out at us as we read the text.
Maybe things that don't make sense,
maybe things I'd expect to be a little
bit different or any questions that are
raised. And we'll go through them and
we'll go through uh go through the text.
It's not a very long piece. And after
that, we'll look at what some of the
commentators have to say and try and
answer the questions and try and tie
some of the things together. we'll see
there are some very very important
lessons that we can learn from this uh
from this whole episode as well. So,
just to put it into context, okay, we've
just had the Malim, the three, right? At
first, they don't know that they're
Malikim, but they discover they've come
to visit Ara and Sarah in their tent,
right? They are told, they're given the
prophecy that they're going to have uh
going to have a child and that Storm
Now, we are told that Storm is going to
be destroyed immediately after this,
right? The whole episode takes place and
storm is destroyed and Lot and his
family hun away, etc. So, this is just
after the angels have come to visit. So
the the the text that we're reading now
begins
right over here is the people referring
to the angels as well.
They get up there looking over at
Abraham goes to escort them out.
And now Hashem is going to speak and
he's going to speak directly to Abraham
begins as follows.
Abraham,
can I conceal? Can I hide from Abraham
that which I am about to do? Now, this
is the introduction to this whole
dialogue. And this is a very, very
interesting introduction. We don't find
this in other places. Normally, there's
a prophecy. There's a Hashem has
something to say. He says it too. We
don't find the beginning of God says
we don't find the beginning of
says am I going to tell me am I going to
tell Moshe what I'm doing am I going to
tell
says am I going to tell Abraham what I'm
about to do this is already this is the
opening this is this says
okay
is become is becoming a great nation,
right? All the nations of the world we
bless through him.
I know he is going to fulfill he's going
to command his children and his
descendants after him to continue in the
way of hem tob.
Okay. So that's the introduction. That's
the opening. And perhaps already here
the Torah is setting us up for a
contrast between exactly what Abraham is
and what's this is the exact opposite.
This idea of Mishbat that is Abraham Au
that is what he brings to the world.
Storm is the exact opposite of Mishbat.
By the way in storm they had Mishbat.
They had judgment. They had a very very
sophisticated and advanced legal system.
But the problem is if you have Mishbat
without staka all the other way around
then then then things things fall apart
and that is but it's together that is
Abra and that is what he brings to the
world. Now
Shem says listen this cry that is coming
from storm and am is great their sin is
very very heavy
I'm going to go go down it's all
speaking metaphorically of course I'm
going to see if they're if they're
worthy of if they can be redeemed
essentially
So now the people leave the malim are
gone and now it's just Abraham face to
face with God. Okay. So we've had the
introduction. We've been told what's
going to happen. Hashem has announced to
us and has announced to Abraham in the
Torah that he's going to destroy the
cities of storms. And this is where
things start to get very very
interesting. Right? Again what do we
expect Abraham to do in such a
situation? We expect him to say,
"Hashem,
that's great. We're going to get
we're going to get rid of evil. We're
going to get we're going to get
justice." But that's all we do.
Abraham, very very interesting that word
Abraham it means in the literal
translation is Abraham approached. But
Rashi tells us, "Now I've brought for
you some of Rashi." I didn't bring all
of Rashi on the because then it would
have just been too long. But what is
what does that word mean? Where do we
find that word?
Right. Rashi tells us in a number of
places that there are three separate
meanings of the word.
One of the meanings is
one of the meanings is
going out to war going out to battle.
Now that I said this is shocking just
think about this
Abraham. Abraham approaches for war to
go out to against
>> action.
Okay, I want you to look closely here at
the word the argument. One of the things
we we need to come back and we need to
focus on it. We have to understand what
exactly is the argument that Abraham is
making. What is he requesting from God?
So here he says,
"Are you going to
kill are you going to destroy even at
sadik with rash in other words what what
what's the claim at this point what's
saying
>> there's only
groups
>> there are right so there are alongside
the meaning I'm not questioning the fact
that the people of stom are evil there
are lots of rashim that are there but
together with them presumably there are
and that's again if we think about the
story in our minds that's we're going to
see the whole thing maybe there's 50
maybe there's 45 there's 40 etc we'll
see it all now in verses. But
essentially, what is Abraham saying? It
sounds like there are wicked people, but
there are good people. It can't be that
you're going to kill the good people
alongside the wicked people, right?
That's that that's what it sounds like.
Meaning collateral damage, whatever.
That would not be that would not be
fair. So, what about the if I ask you
just at this point, what about the
Rashim, the evil people of Storm? What
is Abraham's approach over here? Does he
have a problem? Is he is he right going
to bat for them?
No, seemingly not. Meaning that that's
what it sounds like. You can destroy
storm, you can kill all the wicked
people just, you know, just like
whatever. Maybe there's got to be a for
the the to survive. Okay, that's how it
sounds. Now, let's see the next say
continues.
Maybe there are 50 righteous people
within the city.
It's very interesting. Would it be
possible?
Would you make them perish? Who of
>> Huh?
>> The 50 ones that are
>> just the 50.
Just the 50.
>> What does the say?
Is it possible you would not make them
perish and you would not forgive?
What does mean? That's the place. That's
everyone. That's what it's telling
again.
And as a result of the fact that there
are 50 in the city,
are you not going to forgive the entire
place
because of the 50 that are inside? In
other words, at this point when I read
this puk, it doesn't sound like Abraham
is arguing for the sadikim. He's arguing
for something much more radical. He's
saying however many righteous there are
as a result of the back to them. Don't
destroy the rest of them. And again, we
have to ask ourselves why what are you
asking? What is it? Again, the question
that's always the entire time has to be
in the back of our minds. Abraham knows
who he's talking to. Abraham knows that
he's talking to God. What is it that
Abraham thinks that he knows better or
that God expects him to know better than
God himself? Yeah,
>> he worried about he already in he saw
that he said he he knows that his
generation is going to be saved, but
he's worried about the future. He
doesn't know what's going to happen to
his children. Is he worried here that
maybe later on when his children sin and
they're going to be destroyed like
Saddam and that's why he's trying to do
this to
>> Inter interesting. Okay. I hadn't
thought about that. You're saying you're
saying is it possible that the people of
Storm is not it's not really that he's
interested in them for their own sake so
to speak but he's laying the groundwork
for us to Okay, maybe that's that's an
interesting it's a very creative
suggestion. Um I don't know. We can come
back to that maybe. In any event, he
continues and then it says
right that expression Rashi says is from
the language of
to say to God again it's it's it's
shocking when you read this but he says
what's the problem now how can it be
that you can kill the righteous along
with the wicked in other words I don't
mind that you kill the wicked that's
fine but don't kill the rightous along
with him. So the the whole thing three
are very very simple and very
straightforward at first glance. When we
look inside and we analyze a little bit
deeper, it's not clear what the argument
is. It's not it's almost not coherent.
At the beginning you're saying
it's not fair. Save the righteous. And
then you say
you're saying save everybody if there
are righteous everybody has to survive.
And then you're saying
you can't kill the wi you can't kill the
righteous but you can kill the wicked.
So it's not it's not exactly clear. And
again the question which we ask in the
first place is of all the people in the
world to be praying for Abra why do you
care why are you praying about the
people of okay we're going to come back
and answer all these questions but
that's uh as we go
he says it again the the problem is that
you are equating that together
could it be that the judge of all the
earth is not going to fulfill mishbat
and of course we know that means mishbat
together with staka
Okay. So that's the opening that's the
opening monologue. Now says now Hashem
answers back.
So Hashem says okay if I find 50 within
the city then I will save.
In other words, so it sounds like at
least from the answer, we understand the
main claim, the main argument here, it's
not just about the saving, it's about
saving everybody. Okay, we'll see. Also
notice that there's something
interesting about that expression. I've
underlined it for you because it appears
twice. It appears once in Abraham's
argument appears once in in's response
as well where he says
what is the significance of the fact
that it says
50 inside the city. Obviously inside the
city we're not talking about anywhere
else. So why couldn't have just said
there seems to be something there. There
seems to be something in that repetition
and something in that phrase. We'll
we'll come back to it later. Okay.
Okay, for whatever reason, right,
Abraham at this point seems to realize
that this is a little bit of Okay, it's
almost like he's taking permission. We
would have expected this the beginning,
but now Abraham answers back and he
says, "Okay, look, you know, I let me uh
essentially that's that's what he's
saying. He's saying, right, please let
me let me speak." He's taking apologies.
I'm dust and ashes. Why? Why that here?
What?
So he says God, you said there are not
50. Okay. And say also why the number 50
of all numbers? You could have said 100.
You could have said 200. You could have
said 20. Why did you start with 50, but
let's say 50? Let's say there are five
less than 50. Okay. 45 again. Why 45?
That's also a very interesting way of
phrasing it. because of those five are
you going to destroy what f those five
that don't exist because of those five
you're going to destroy the city
so Hashem says okay I won't if I if if I
find 45 won't destroy it
and so it's implied that there are not
45 it doesn't say it explicitly
continuing
continues
says okay there aren't 45 maybe there
are 40.
God says, "Okay, I won't do it if
there's 40." Okay, what do we expect
next? We've gone from 50 to 45 to 40.
What do we expect coming next? 35. Okay,
this is a very very mathematical
audience. So he says,
he says, "What about 30? So I don't
understand. You went from 50 to 45 to
40. So if you're going down in all of a
sudden now 30 numbers seem very strange
very random
and again he asks for this takes
permission to speak
there's not 30 maybe there's 20
god says okay I won't destroy for 20
>> so the answer for all of them
>> he said the 30
>> so the truth is that for all of them the
answer is implied Meaning even if we go
back to the 50 right in
all it says is if there are such a
number then I won't won't destroy it. So
it's interesting as well it doesn't
anywhere in the say explicitly that God
turns back and says there are not 50
there are not 30 that's implied but it
doesn't say it anywhere explicitly. So
he says
last chance, last try, last attempt.
Maybe there are 10.
Okay. So the question to ask here is,
Abraham, you've done so well until now
and you've tried so hard. Why do you
stop at 10? Why not carry on down to
five? Why not carry on down to that?
What's right? Why stop?
>> Gold left.
>> Huh?
>> Many gold left
>> afterwards. Afterwards. But he could
have said, "Okay, you said not not 10,
maybe five." Okay, so we'll see that as
well.
God says, "Okay, that's it. I've had
enough. I'm going."
God goes back to his place, whatever
that means. Abraham goes back to his
place and that's it. That's the end of
the story. Okay? And then we know the
continuation is that ultimately that
storm is uh is going to be destroyed.
Okay? So there are a lot of questions
here. There are a lot of unanswered
things, a lot of very very cryptic uh
things going on in this. As I say, very
very shocking and very very dramatic
encounter. Let's unpack some of the
questions and some of the things. Again,
the main question, the the main thing
that really strikes for me and we we
spoke about it, but when you look at
these and the question is you have here
an argument, you have a claim. What is
it that Abraham is asking for? What is
the argument about? Is it about the fact
that there he says maybe there are okay
but the question is maybe there areim
and therefore what is it? Maybe there
are sadikim and therefore those sikim
should not should they should be saved
and everybody else can be destroyed.
Maybe I'm saying maybe there are sadikim
and therefore the entire place deserves
to be to be rescued. And if so, if
that's the case, why why do the other
people deserve it? Right? At the end of
the day, why why are these numbers the
numbers that they are? Why does Abraham
stop when he stops? Essentially, we can
ask another question. Is Abraham
satisfied with the answer that he
receives at the end? If the whole
argument is maybe there are sadakim and
I I don't want the sadikim to be killed
because that is indiscriminate justice
and god says well there are not sadikim
so says okay so then so then it'll be
destroyed if it's something more than
that then maybe is not so satisfied
again maybe there are less than 10
sadakim if the question is about those
sadikim if there are less than 10 what
if there are five sadakim in in the city
we don't know the the sukim just ended
the fact that there are 10 and the whole
argument there are not 10 and the whole
argument stops so Maybe there are five,
maybe there are four, maybe there are
three. What?
>> There'll be no minion. Okay, so we so we
so so we're going to get into that. But
are those individuals going to be saved?
Now the truth is we know we know that
there are some individuals in the city
of storm who enter the category of
sadikim for these purposes who are
saved, right? That is Lot and his family
and they are ultimately saved or some of
them. So let's see. Let's have a look at
Rashi some of Russia. We haven't brought
everything but but some of the rashi
where he he explains some of these ideas
and we'll look at some ideas from some
of the other that will help us to to
unpack. Okay. So remember the beginning
before we got into the whole argument
the the introduction which was very very
strange the introduction which was
should I hide from it's like God is like
thinking to himself like should I tell
him or should I not tell right obviously
it doesn't mean that but what what does
it mean what are trying to tell us so
rashi says
it's like a rhetorical question is it
possible could I possibly not tell
Abraham what I'm doing which again we
don't find by any other says could I not
give him his
he says
it's not nice for God to do this without
letting Abraham know
I have given him this land as an
inheritance
okay so this is the first thing that's
going to help us just unpack the of the
story a a little bit. Rashi tells us we
talk about storm maybe storm and Amarad
there were actually five cities. So once
I understand there are five cities
things start to make sense. I say aha so
now I understand where the number 50
comes from because 50 means there are
five cities and each one has a minan
right 5* 10 that's 50. All right she
says that
etc.
But more than that, why do I have to
tell him? I've called him Abraham, which
means
he's going to be the father of many
nations.
He is the father, at least the spiritual
father of many nations on earth. I'm
going to destroy these nations and not
let him know. Okay? So, that wouldn't
make sense. Have a look. We'll come back
to Russia in a moment, but I want to
just uh uh explain this point. Have a
look on the third page. You have your
source number seven on your handle is
the katams. This is a piece that's
printed in the introduction to the he
says something tremendous something
remarkable and and and essentially
answers for us the question of why it
says
what he says is the following. I'll say
the general idea and then we'll read it
inside.
er says
that he doesn't say by any other prophet
that God says should I tell them so to
speak because once a prophet reaches a
level reaches a a spiritual level
reaches a level of nu so it makes sense
and it's fitting that he's going to
receive that prophecy of Hashem but he
says that Abraham in fact did not reach
that spiritual level says Abraham didn't
have time to reach that level himself to
work on his own to invest in his own
growth so to speak because he was so
busy going out and giving and helping
the rest of the world and therefore he
says something startling says
means actually I don't need to tell
Abraham I don't need to he's not on that
you know he's not on that level in terms
of uh of of of prophecy but nonetheless
I'm going to tell him because the reason
he's not on that level the reason he's
given up of his own growth is because of
what he's giving to others, because of
what he's investing in my children, in
his children. Okay? And it's something
it's something remarkable and it's
something for us to think about when we
talk about the balance between one's own
growth, one one's own growth and giving
to others, right? There's something
something very very uh fundamental to
think about here. But says says source
number seven. He
was not on this high level of
the Rama
his introduction to to there's eight
chapters. Therefore it's called he talks
there about what is necessary how one
becomes a na'vi right what one needs to
the levels intellectually spiritually
the heights that one needs to reach it's
not so easy um but he says saysam
Abraham did not reach this level
to to be in by himself with his thoughts
and to connect himself to this uh to to
this level
all the time he was busy teaching
He was involved in bringing other people
closer to God rather than engaging in
bringing himself to ever higher levels.
So obviously if those he was teaching
were on a higher level then he would
have reached that level himself
but they were on a lower level. So he
had to uh he had to speak to them where
they were.
Amazing. Amazing. Says he continues.
In other words, why did Abraham not
reach the greatest spiritual levels, not
reach the greatest heights of prophecy?
Not because he was watching the
football, but because he was involved
because he cared about the honor of
Hashem and he was trying to spread that
into the world. And therefore, he
sacrificed for himself. And here's the
paradox. Because he sacrificed for
himself in that way, God says, I'm going
to bring him up, right? So to speak,
he loses out this level.
if all of this was done because of his
service, because of his great love for
me, it doesn't make sense that he's
therefore going to lose out on it. And
therefore, that's the meaning of amazing
says when Hashem says, should I is it is
it conceivable that I will not tell
Abraham this prophecy? He says, what the
Torah is implying is yes, it's
conceivable that I won't tell him
because he's not on that level because
he sacrificed his own spiritual growth
in order for others. And that again that
ties in to the whole story of storm and
that again ties into the whole story of
what is what is taking place here. Let's
go back to Rashi.
So Rashi continues and again I say I'm
skipping there are there is more
commentary on Russian which you don't
have in front of you but you're welcome
to go and look at it after the sh. So he
says
maybe there are 50. We ask the question
why 50 right?
There are five places and in each one of
these five I'm questioning maybe there
are there are 10 in each
sorry these people are Jewish
>> they're not Jewish this is there's no
there's no such thing at this point
>> right so what the whole idea about
minion
>> no okay so it's not it's not minion in
the sense of if there's a minion and
they can get together and they can say
baraku and kadusha right that's not what
it's not what we But why a min we we we
assume right a minion is 10 people
that's learned out from an ad that is a
community that is a certain that is a
certain minimal unit that we have that
we that we call 10 people okay um so he
says again remember so remember the
question we asked are we praying who is
praying for is he praying for the is he
praying for everybody so here says
So that sounds like there's a two-tiered
argument here. It sounds like Rashi is
say he's saying first Abra is saying
right you should save the you should
save everybody. In other words theim in
the merit of the you should save the
entire city. And if that's not going to
work, so I say at least at least save
theim. Okay. The problem with that
interpretation doesn't quite fit into
the
because how does it start? It starts off
the first.
So you could say that's maybe sort of
the opening for the whole thing. And
then he says his real argument is
maybe since there's you should save
everybody and then saying if you're not
going to save everybody so then I'll say
okay that's how that's how Rashi seems
to uh seems to understand it and then he
says continues continues
we ask why all of a sudden do we get to
45 is the number which is the anomaly
here right understand if you would say
50 40 30 20 10 okay makes sense but why
45 and then why if it's 45 why not 35
right so he says why 45
you would have nine in each city
you together with them that makes 10
okay
he continues then he says so then now he
changes tactics in other words the way
Russia understands is like this when I'm
asking asking for 50, I'm asking for all
the cities, all five cities to be saved.
When I'm asking for 45, I'm asking for
all five cities to be saved. I'm saying
maybe there's nine in each city. Nine
together with
that makes 10. But then he says, even
that's not not enough. So then he gets
to 40. What are you saying when you get
to 40? So he says
he's saying okay I understand at this
point that at least one of the cities is
going to be wiped out but maybe there
are 10 sakim in four of the cities maybe
there are 10 sakim in three of the
cities maybe there are two of the cities
okay so at this point I'm you know
asking for for each one of those at
least one of those cities should be
saved and then he says
we end off with 10
less than 10 he does not ask
He says, "How do I know that I don't go
below 10?" Because in the times of Noah,
right, there was Noah and his wife and
three sons and their wives. That's eight
people. Eight people couldn't save the
world.
And he said, "We've already asked for
nine when we asked for 45." Okay. So,
you could ask a question. Well, why
don't you ask for nine by itself? 45 was
nine in each of the cities. Maybe one of
the cities. That's a question. But uh
but nonetheless, he says we know from
that we don't need that below that
there's no hope. Again, here it sounds
like again that's eight people that
saved the entire place. It sounds like
here it's not just about saving it's not
just about saving the but it's about
saving everybody. Okay. And the question
again is why? So have a look that uh the
draid brought to you on source number
three. This is the taz. You're familiar
with the taz is one of the commentaries
on the he also wrote with different
works and one of them is called the
david which is a commentary on rash's
commentary. Therefore it is a super
commentary. I love that word but it is a
commentary on the commentary and
therefore the dvavid is one of the
explanations on rashi. Um in fact there
are many commentaries that are written
on rashi's commentary. But this is what
the dvavid says. Again he's he's
addressing this point that uh that we've
been asking the entire time. He says
kashet
says the obvious question is you started
off questioning asking why how is it
just that you're going to kill that the
righteous will die along with the wicked
obviously the are going to die and then
he says
again if you look in the we said was
can the righteous perish with the wicked
and then
It says,
"Will the entire place perish?"
In other words, I'm implying that the
wicked should also be saved. So he says,
in other words, if my first prayer was
accepted, so then I would ask, then I
would ask for more.
He says, "But the way it's just it's not
logical the order the sequence here.
You're saying first you're saying you're
asking for the small thing and then
you're asking for something more."
Right? Normally you would say, you know,
I'm asking for something you you ask
somebody for you have a request that you
make and you say, "Can I have
something?" And you say, "Okay, if you
won't give me that, so at least give me,
you know, something less." So he's
saying at least save first of all I'm
saying save
save the righteous and you know what if
that's not enough you save the righteous
well then actually you should save
everybody it's the order here is is is
wrong
so therefore says that like
how he explains what she said
other what he's saying. The first point
is obvious. So, obviously, you're not
going to kill, you're not going to make
the righteous perish along with the
wicked. That's clear. I don't even need
to say anything. I don't need to qu
that. I don't need to question.
But goes much deeper. Obviously, you
won't kill just theim, but allow those
to save in their merit. Save the entire
place.
And then he says because then he goes
back he says so my first request is
actually save the entire place
if that's not going to work
then we go back to the basic which is
what doesn't need to be stated which is
at least save the as we see going on
that doesn't that doesn't happen either
because those do not exist
reverse I think has opens up this entire
this entire for us in a new light and he
focuses on specifically that phrase
which I mentioned before.
This is going to help us understand
really what is all about. Have a look at
source number six and again I brought I
haven't brought the entire passage as a
very very long piece but I brought a lot
of it. We'll read through because it's
uh it's really fundamental says as
follows. He says
says once tells Abraham about this whole
plan to destroy these five cities.
There's one thing that's that's that's
gnawing at Abraham. He says
he says there is no as we just saw there
is no question in Abraham's mind. Ara
does not suspect God so to speak that
the righteous are unjustly going to
perish. That's not the question.
That's why when he says when he says
it doesn't mean you know God forbid
don't do it. It means I know you won't
do it obviously.
He says I know that if if storm is going
to be destroyed storm will be destroyed
the righteous amongst they will escape.
There's no question obviously
even if it's one out of thousands
he says but and this ties in with the
whole introduction and tells us why
Abraham knows what it means to be at
the question that Abra asks himself and
this is why God tells Abraham about this
is Abraham says if I was there if I was
the individual if I was the one in storm
how would I feel and what would I think
about What's going on?
If I was the one individual going to
survive from that destruction,
had it been that he was living in storm,
what would Abraham do if he was in
storm? He would open up his tents on all
four sides and he would bring people in
and he would talk to them and he would
try and convert. He would do what Noah
failed to do and he would do what Lot
failed to do. But he would be something
else.
He would never despair. He wouldn't give
up hope for those people
ultimately if he failed in that mission.
But he would mourn just as much and he
would grieve for all those who he was
not able to save. Skip to the second
paragraph.
You know what it means when it say when
it doesn't say there are 50 of the city
at the city. It's within the city. By
the way the says he says what does it
mean?
He's saying it doesn't have to be
doesn't have to be that. It means within
the city relative to the wickedness of
storm. Surely there's 50 people that are
righteous to the extent that they don't
deserve destruction. Not that they're
complete. That's how he understands that
phrase of says something else. He says
means that they are within the city that
they are involved in the city that they
are able to influence those around them.
says
there might be storm but the of your
definition that does not exist. What
does that mean?
We're looking for the type of in whose
merit again it's not when we say
save the city save the entire city
because of the tarikim that are inside
he doesn't mean that there is some
scholar he doesn't mean there's some
mystical power you know the fact that
you've got your you know that are
sitting somewhere and in their merit the
city is going to be saved it's not what
Abra is asking is saying the following
he's saying maybe there are 50 there are
people that are within the city and even
though they're all wicked now but that
influence is there that potential is
there there are people those sikim in
whose merit they might be able to change
they might be able to tell the other
people to leave their wicked ways and to
and to act differently the same way that
that's what Abra has done in the world
again what no failed to do and what Lot
didn't even try to do but this is what
Abraham would have done and this is what
he's asking for he says
second line Now the second paragraph
towards the bottom of the page.
Who is this in whose merit the city will
be saved?
He doesn't say ah look at them.
to the rest of the of his city.
He doesn't just sit in his ivory tower
and say, "I'm fine." Remember,
it all ties together beautifully.
I'll save myself
because the minute that he says, "I'm
fine and I'll just save myself and
everybody else can." Well, then you're
not at sadik. You're not the sadik.
If he's truly at sadik, he understands
he's in that situation for a reason.
At le the merit of that type of
individual, the city will be saved. And
the message here is storm was so lost
that even that kind that a few even 10
people like that did not exist.
There is by the way there's another
there's a beautiful interpretation I
heard this from Rabbi Saxs in the name
of Rabbi Saxs
we question the numbers we went from
remember we went from 50 to 45 to 40 to
etc. So Rashi said when we're going down
from 40 to 30 to 20 it means that there
are 10 city five cities excuse me I'm
only looking for 10 for 10 sikim in each
city less and that's not going to be
enough. So I'm asking maybe four cities
can be saved maybe three cities can be
saved maybe two cities can be saved. So
there's an alternative explanation that
says we don't go from five to four to
three cities. The entire time Ara is
asking for all the cities. So when he
says there's 50, it means maybe there
are 10 sedakim in each city. And when he
says 45, he says maybe there are nine
sedakim in each city. And when he says
40, he means maybe there are eight sakim
in each city. And 30 means maybe there
are six. Right? And 20 means that maybe
there are four. And 10 means maybe there
are two sikim in each city. So then you
can ask the question why didn't he ask
for five? Why didn't he ask for five?
Maybe there's one saddak in each city
and that's enough to save them. So the
answer that I heard and the name Rabbi
Sax he said and it ties in exactly with
what Ra says because if you have one
Saddic in a city that's not a Saddic.
>> If there's one Saddic in a city that's
not a real Saddic. Meaning one person
you couldn't in you couldn't impact you
couldn't influence at least one other
person. You're the only one. Again
you're sitting in your ivory tower.
You've made no change. You've made no
impact. Not even one other person. So
that's hopeless. So that's what that's
what Abra that that that's what he says
and that's what Abraham says here. So I
think again going back to the question
we asked which is what is Abraham
governing for? Who is he asking for?
What is he praying about? We could
answer in a word that Abraham sees
potential. Abraham is praying for the
potential of the people of Storm. They
may be wicked now. He says but surely
surely there's somebody there who can
help them. Who can raise them up? Who
can bring them onto this path? Surely
there are 10 Sikim within the city. 10 9
8 whatever it is and Hashem says no. He
says for for them the hope is lost. But
Abraham refuses to give up hope. He
refuses to give up hope until the point
where
says to him in this case there is no
hope. But the message for us is storm of
course is the is the exception. Storm
happened one once upon a time. But in
our own lives in our own world in our
own community is never ever can we give
up hope and never ever can we lose give
up on the potential of people. There's
one more point I want to make. I know
we're we're running out of time, but one
one one more thing which I saw there's a
beautiful dasha of Rabbi Lamb by Norman
Lamb. This was a dasha that was given in
1954. It's called How to Debate with
God. I brought for you some excerpt
before we read the excerpts that are on
the page. Let me read to you some of the
excerpts that are not here because he
says he says essentially Abraham as we
know was not the only person to argue
with God. He writes, he says, "It is a
popular undertaking to argue with
Hashem." He says, "I say it is a popular
undertaking because since Abraham, men
have not stopped debating with God."
Moses carried out lengthy debates with
God. At one point, his rebuttal became
so sharp that he said,
"Raise me from your book if you'll not
consent to me and save Israel."
Pictured God inviting Israel to join him
in debate.
Yona Yona Navi engaged God in a
protracted duel because he Yona was
worried about the safety of Israel while
God was concerned about the safety of
Nineve as well. Maybe that relates to
the what you asked at the beginning the
wonderful ofism. What a unique place in
Jewish history. We all know the stories
of arguing with God so to speak almost
solely because of his debates with God
and his intercession for Jewish sinners
and his remarkable way of making them
seem like saints. So we have a long
tradition of the Jewish people arguing
with God going back all the way to
Abraham. And then says Rabbi Lamb,
right? Really giving a rebuke here. He
says, "We too of November 1954." And I
add that was November 1954. Let's think
how this applies in 2026.
We too debate with God. We demand a new
home. We insist upon a better car. We
argue for a fancier neighborhood. We
eloquently engage God in debates for
health and for prosperity. And if God
sometimes refuses to submit to our
demands, we counter with that
stereotyped hacknade and empty rebuttal.
But I deserve it, God. After all, I'm a
fellow with a good heart. I've never
done anything wrong to anyone. What says
Rabam? And he's obviously being cynical
here to the point. He says, "We all
argue with God. Look how Abraham argued
and look where we argue." That's a
message here. And he says he he quotes
it he quotes. Kazal really say that
there are two uh types of argument. We
find Abraham and we find in another
individual who argues with God
throughout and that is right and he says
he quotes Kazal who say that that Abra
was the example of a mature argument
with God and was ultimately the immature
argument. Let's read what's on the sheet
in front of you source number eight. So
this we'll close off. He says here then
is the difference. Abraham debates with
spiritual maturity with spiritual
ripeness. Ear of debates with immaturity
is spiritually raw and underdeveloped.
One's words are sour, the other sweet.
Abraham's attitude is expressed by the
fact that he debates while standing
before God in prayer and addressing his
remarks to God. While Eve sits in his
parlor and complains about God to some
friends. In other words, Ara doesn't
come up and say, "God, what are you
doing?" He says, "I'm coming from a
place." Remember
it's not by co the as well is a
beautiful explanation you can see it
after it's on the sheet of what those
words mean come from a place of humility
from a place of submission from a place
of god I know that you are the master of
the world I know you are the god of mish
but therefore I don't understand what
you are doing and how this could be
whereas if comes from a different place
entirely he says here there are two ways
of debating with god you can debate like
or like an a will ask his questions and
think carefully. He might assume there
are those who dedicate their lives to
such problems and ask guidance. He will
offer the challenge in a polite, humble,
and intelligent way. Skipping. But a
neot type does nothing of the sort. He
tells the rabbi off and he snubs God. He
measures religion and the worship of God
by his own standards of what is right
and what is not right. Abraham, the
sweet and mature debater, might have
lost the debate. Saddam was destroyed
and is desolate to this very day, but he
won the other world. He emerged
unscathed, a glorious loser. The
biblical passage ends with the words,
"Abraham Shavelim Kum." Abraham returned
to his place. Not one chip was there in
his spiritual stature. He was as great
and as holy as before, although he lost
the debate. When we debate with God as
we may, let us do so with mellowess,
understanding, and maturity. and in the
synagogue if nay hashem let us not do so
with a sourness and irreverence and
smuggness and impudence better let us
lose like Abraham then win like you so
that is the message that we take we
understand what Abraham was debating
about it's all about potential it's all
about seeing the ability to influence
others it's all about bringing out that
greater potential in the world and the
message ultimately the takeaway for us
is that was the first debate that was
how Abraham argued with God and since
then The Jewish people as you may have
noticed have never ever stopped arguing
with God and with others as well. But
that is the way and that is what Raam is
telling us. Let us learn from Abraham
from
what is the mindset? What is the
starting place? What what is the
framework from which we are coming? And
in that way we can how does he say it?
We can ultimately even if we lose the
argument but we emerge we emerge winners
ultimately.