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Okay, good evening friends. We're
continuing in Devra. We're up to the
fifth mida. It's a brief recap. The ra
told us it is for a person to be
comparable to the creator
to be similar to him.
How can we just look like him and not
act like him? So the mido is amido
number one is
to emulate Hashem's incredible tolerance
that while he is giving us our life
force we're using it against him that's
amazing tolerance on Hashem's part that
Hashem who is so kindly
which is represented by the word kale
kale
and he's also a god of vengeance
Nevertheless, he tolerates. He doesn't
say, "Well, yeah, you want to sin? Well,
figure out get your own generator
because I'm not giving you power. You
know, I'm not pumping you electricity.
You go go to Lowe's and get your own
generator if you want to sin against
me." The second does that when we sin,
we create this mash and Hashem has to
feed it. So, not only does he sustain
our sin, he even supports our monster
that we create. Number three, that
Hashem personally cleanses
our sin. So all of these things we have
to try to emulate. Hashem's tolerance,
Hashem's forbearance that even to be
able to tolerate
whatever result somebody hurt us and it
continues to to cause us aggravation to
continue to help the person. um Hashem
personally cleanses our sin and then
that Hashem acutely feels our pain as if
he's our our relative, as if he's our
spouse. Okay, we're up to the fifth mid.
Fifth Mida is very interesting.
He does not maintain his anger forever.
This is another mid. The mid is like
this. Until now for a person did a ver
Hashem
in order for the person to do a ver
Hashem has to give the person life
force. So Hashem continues to give life
force even though we're using it against
him. But what if a person continuously
sins? So Hashem should therefore
continue to punish.
Even if a person
perseveres in sin, he continuously sins.
So, Hashem's anger should not subside.
But there comes a point where Hashem
says, "Okay, I got angry. I punished.
It's not working. The person's not doing
chuva."
So, really, nothing is saying that
Hashem should stop getting angry or
minimize his anger. Hashem has a mida.
Okay, enough already. Like, the person's
continuing to sin. My anger is not
changing him. My punishments are not
turning him around. Okay, let me try
something else. Let me try being nice to
him. That's another of that even though
a person continues in the sin,
Hashem does not continue in his anger.
And even if he does continue,
it eventually stops. It's not forever.
He nullifies his anger.
Even a person does not repent.
Like we find in the days of Yuramayash
in Malim
in the times of Yuramayash
Malik Israel where Hashem returned the
borders of Klis to its original spot
before it was conquered by Aram.
The kings of the goyam conquered the
cities
from Kamas until the Mediterranean.
Yuramoyash came and he restored the
original borders even though we were
still serving a des.
So why was Hashem showing us this
kindness? It's not like we did chuba. We
kept on serving idols and Hashem stopped
being angry and he allowed us to restore
the borders.
So um
even though we were worshiping uh the
calves
and hashem had mercy on them they never
did chuva
came if so why is god having ramanus on
them if we didn't do chuva why is hashem
having ramanus on k if we didn't do
chuva you know you would think we didn't
have era hashem punishes us we continue
to have era hashem should punish us more
like you know in the you do you sin you
get punishment you attribute the
punishment to coincidence so then I'll
double down the punishment you still
attribute it to coincidence I'll triple
it I'll do it sevenfold so what exactly
is this mida where we're continuing to
sin and hashem traps drops the
punishment even though we don't do chuba
why
you know why because of this mid
it's because of this mid
that God does not maintain his anger
forever
just the opposite
he weakens his anger. You see
if let's say a guy comes into my into my
uh house into my closet and I have let's
say I don't know six shirts and he takes
my the first shirt and he draws it on a
with a permanent Sharpie on it. So I'm
going to get angry at him and so get
angry at him. So what does he do? He
goes and he takes a red Sharpie doesn't
I'm going to get angry at him and get
more angry at him. No, by the So you
would think by the fifth shirt you
should get, you know, really angry. No,
if we would be emulating Hashem, we got
angry. We had a right to get angry. We
needed to show the guy he can't do this,
but he's not listening. So we just we
chill.
In fact, we show kindness. Look,
Even though the sin is extent, it's
still around. It's still happening.
Hashem doesn't punish.
He awaits
and he has mercy.
Lest a person do. This is the meaning of
the
I will not quarrel forever.
I will not bear a grudge for eternity.
Sometimes Hashem acts softly. Sometimes
he acts harshly.
This is an an astounding mida. Even
though the person's not changing, he's
not repenting. He's not relenting. He's
at this he's he's at it. He keeps on
sinning again and again, still Hashem's
anger. At a certain point, Hashem allows
it to subside.
Now
the Rev Goldberg in his commentary to
quotes the P in that we laid on
Bozimisar.
You know that Pyzimisar
in Hashem's fierce anger, he remembers
his mercy. While he's getting angry,
even when he should get angry, Hashem
cools it off.
Where's an example of this?
We're going to see. I want to share with
you two things.
One,
page 352 by Rev Goldberg. There's a
yakuchim yakman says that if does chuva
we'll be redeemed. If we don't do chuva
we won't be redeemed and we will only do
chuva if we have to go into exile and in
affliction and not having food and we
won't do chuva until eloh comes. So if
goldberg asked what do you mean until yo
comes? Why would elo come before we do
chuva? If all the punishment didn't get
us to do chuva. So why is Hashem sending
alo in the first place? So he says the
answer is that
it could be sometimes even before we do
chuva while we're sinning, Hashem says,
"Okay, I'm you know the anger is not
working, the punishment's not working.
Let me try being nice to them. Maybe
maybe I'll get a different results."
Okay, now you could already imagine how
we should apply this in our own lives.
You know, let's say you have a kid. They
did something wrong. They need to be
punished.
and they need to be punished and then
they're continuing to do this something
wrong. So now what do you indefinitely
just show anger and punishment or at a c
certain point you say okay now I'm gonna
emulate Hashem
they don't really deserve the kindness
and they they're continuing to sin so
they really still deserve the but to
emulate Hashem I'm going to show why but
they're still sinning no that's the it's
called
now the following idea from is oya. It's
one of my favorite ideas.
to 1945.
Obviously, there was a decree on the
Jewish people of unparalleled.
Never in our history have we seen
anything like that.
Was God sending a message? Says
you have to say he was sending a
message. What was the message? At the
very least, some kind of change, some
kind of chuba.
So then, now you would think if if a
nation doesn't respond to such harsh
punishment,
then we're hopeless.
So now what? After the holocaust, so
then what Hashem do then? I didn't get
their attention. They didn't change. So
now I should bring a double holocaust.
What do we have now? Hashem said, "Okay,
take Israel here. take your own homeland
unparalleled.
In other words, you a Jew has to
appreciate that if we're able to have a
certain sovereignty in Israel, whether
you consider whether you like the way
it's run or you don't like the way it's
run, but the fact that you could go
there and you could go to and you could
buy real estate there and you could live
in communities there. It's a tremendous.
What was 1948 says says
1948 was the
Hashem says okay the Holocaust I sent
the Holocaust I sent it for a reason I
was sending you a message you didn't get
the message okay let's try something
else let's try the state of Israel
I'm not going to be angry with you
forever at a certain point of time
Hashem says I'm going to cool
That's how the looks at the
establishment of the state. If you don't
like that, you could take it up with
him.
That's how the understands the divine
orchestration of the establishment of
Israel
in the aftermath of the Holocaust. I'll
read to you his words.
He said, "Let's look very carefully.
It's to learn and do cha.
If you don't do cha, there's no hope."
No, there is.
Even those who didn't learn their lesson
the extreme from
maybe a person says you know the didn't
work but maybe they'll do from the
that's the
says the establishment of the state he
says I would not call it
you know And he he says I would not call
it the beginning of the gula but I would
call it
from one extreme of the of 6 million to
the second extreme of the establishment
of
that's
by the way said the establishment of the
state of Israel is like
you know, there's a sick child. They
have terrible maka. So, what happens
when they're recouping? So, the
organizations come and they'll drive
them around in a Porsche and in a in a a
Lamborghini and they'll give them, you
know, like some of these hostages, you
know, they had there's a guy in Israel,
right? Uh he goes to the hostage, you
know, what do you want? And you know,
oh, you you want a Lamborghini? And the
next thing they know, they're driving
off in a Lamborghini, right? What is
that? What? because they were held in a
cave now they get to drive a
Lamborghini. So it's like yeah there's
such a phenomenon in this world that
like you know after suffering there's
like a a consolatory prize so to speak
that's how the panovich
uh looked at the establishment of state
but saying a little different saying
that what it is is basically the
so let's let's uh over here how does
this apply to our behavior
This is fitting for a person to custom
with their friend.
Even if you have to rep reprimand your
friend with
you have to rebuke him or you have to
rebuke your children.
And let's say your friend or your
children, they're basically they're
suffering from the rebuke you gave them
deservedly. They deserve it because
they're not re improving. So what do you
do if they're not improving? So you hit
them harder, punish them more. You know,
you think here, they did this crime, so
I punish them this amount. Now they're
upping it. So now what? At infin. I just
going to keep on hitting harder and
harder, punishing more and more. No.
You don't increase the rebuke more.
Don't keep on being angry.
You have to nullify it.
Don't preserve the anger indefinitely.
Even if it's a permitted anger,
similar to what was explained
If you will see the donkey of your
enemy.
So do you know what the case is?
Remember the garra? The gar is in I
believe
it's
in
it says if you will see the donkey of
your enemy crouching under the burden
you have to help him and actually thear
says what if you see your friend's
donkey needs
help unloading which is a
and your enemy needs help loading. So
Tyus asks, the Gomorrah asks, "What kind
of enemy?" What do you mean your enemy?
You're not allowed to have an enemy. So
the Gomorrah says, "We're talking about
you saw somebody violate Arios, but you
saw it by yourself. So you're allowed to
hit the guy, but you're not to testify
against because you only have one
witness.
So he's an authorized
enemy." There are certain people in this
world that are hakic enemies. How? Let's
say you witnessed them commit a cardinal
sin, but because you witnessed it alone,
you can't testify against them. So this
guy, the Torah says if he needs help
loading up his animal, you should help
him. But what do you mean? The says I
have to hit him.
The answer is yeah, I have to hit him.
But what? Forever and ever and ever and
ever and ever. But right now, he needs
help. So what's going to happen? I'm now
going to invoke the mid of
I know I hated him. I hated him for the
last week ever since I saw him do that.
But now he's in a jam. I'm going to cool
it right now. He needs some help.
The say what is a s
you saw him sinning
and he's an individual
and therefore you can't testify
you hated him because of a sin he
committed
and even so the says
you should literally you should help him
however it could also be interpreted as
I forsake. What are you forsaking?
Listen very carefully. You know the way
the Torah says to help him is forsake
you shall surely forsake with him. Why
doesn't it just say like
what's what are you forsaking? You know
what I'm forsaking? I'm forsaking the
hate I had to him. I was allowed to hate
him. I was supposed to hate him. I was
commanded to hate him. But at a certain
point of time, cease and desist,
forsake what's in your heart,
it's a mitz to draw him close with love.
Maybe this will help.
So, you know, I like over here this sh
there's no talking, right? We don't no
talking or no phones. I don't want any
phones, especially on chabas, nobody.
But even during the week, no phones.
Yeah. So if a guy takes out a phone, I'm
calling him out. No, you can't. You
can't. You go there. There's so many
other shs you could go to. Don't don't
ruin. There has to be one shaw at least
in the Jewish people that's holy. You
could go if you want to defile the shul.
Go to a different shaw where everyone's
on the phone. Everyone comes in with
like 90gallon slurpees and uh and
they're talking and they're on their
phones, you know, they're ATM machine on
their phone. Netflix. I don't know what
they're doing on their phone. You know,
you have a guy in middle mill. I don't
know what I can't even, you know, not
initial.
So now, but after after I already, you
know, after he's not feeling good that
he got So now I'm going to go over I'm
going to be his friend. Why? How how
long am I supposed to be upset at him
for? You know, he got the point. I can't
I can't like be on, you know, bad terms
with him forever. Okay, he got the
message. Now he's going to be my best
friend. the other guy who didn't bring
the phone, he's not going to get the
same best friendness because I have to
stop the,
you know. So, you're saying we should
bring our phones? No, bring your phone.
I'll throw you out of here.
But then afterwards, I'll be I'll be
your friend. Yeah. Um
anyway, um she says,
This guy who was a mitzvah to hate now
you have a mitzvah to draw him close
with love
it might help in this fashion meaning
sometimes where
cannot influence the guy maybe
this is of
that hashem does not preserve his anger
for ever Okay, we'll hold over here.
Now, you have to hear a little bit about
the war.