The biggest mistake loving parents make #parenting #family #shorts

Raising children means raise them from just biological creatures to better [music] and better pleasures. What is the greatest pleasure? Serve someone else. [music] If you raise a child like that, you got a mensch. What does a child need more than anything else? What does a human being need more than anything else? A child needs to be needed more than he needs to be loved. Loving a child does not make up for the child feeling unnecessary. The fact that you love me doesn't make me necessary. I'm just entertainment. So, if I don't get the feeling that you need me, you can keep your love. And that's why children rebel. And the parents say, "What? I love him. I love him. I gave him a lot of love." Yeah, but you made him feel unnecessary. You undermined his existence. You can't make up for that by loving.