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platanic relationships are one of the
biggest causes of divorce that there is
in the world today who do people cheat
on their spouses with their
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friends when you do it you're defeating
your whole point of creation and not
from the ear yet at times she is an ears
dropper as it says in Genesis
18:10 now Sarah was listening at the
entrance of the tent
even
when was sitting with the angels He
thought there were just three different
Arabs he didn't know there were
angels and one of them says where's
Sarah your
wife she's not hanging out with the
guys unfortunately like today's women
you see sometimes the the women is
hanging out with the guys more than the
guys hanging out with the
guys oh hi honey oh those Steve's at our
house what do you mean Steve's at our
house no he came over so we were just
talking till you came
home why is a guy at my house and I'm
not here why are you hanging out with
him anyway even if I'm him here no we're
friends hey Rabbi am I allowed to have
guy friends if you're a girl no if
you're a guy
yeah why not because it's
inappropriate you can have co-workers
hello hello goodbye goodbye that's the
extent of the relationship
you know if you need to talk about
certain things to do with work no
problem but there's absolutely no
purpose whatsoever no useful purpose
whatsoever for you to ask him what are
you doing on the
weekends why platonic relationships are
one of the biggest causes of
divorce that there is in the world today
who do people cheat on their spouses
with their
friends you don't cheat on your spouse
with some random stranger you met at
Starbucks you cheat with someone that is
friendly the accountant that became like
a family
friend the lawyer that's like a brother
the next door neighbor that just is like
a
housemate the cousin that spends a few
months a year at your
house that's what cheating have cheating
is from
that as soon as you
stop
distinguishing the difference between
men and women and you simply
allow women and men to hang out with
each other even if they're not married
to each other you're ruining all senses
of of of Shame all senses of modesty
You're simply ruining the world why
because in essence you're telling people
that s menu was mistaken when she was in
a different room while the men were
having a conversation yeah but she wants
to talk too okay so get a girlfriend
talk to
her there is no reason for you to talk
to an opposite gender unless it's again
like I said for work
purposes why because the mind of a man
does not work like a woman it doesn't no
matter what you do doesn't work the
woman could look at a guy or at least
that's the way he used to be and she
sees a
personality she sees a guy like oh he
looks funny he looks smart he looks
honest he looks like a genuine
person a guy looks at a woman she looks
delicious like a steak that's it that's
how guys think it's a reality it's a
reality over the world If you deny that
then you're simply
naive platonic relationships are simply
a weapon of the Satan to make you think
that this is going to
work no you're wrong I've been friends
with them for 10 years and nothing ever
happened
yet never an opportunity perhaps he was
never interested yet maybe he wasn't uh
this maybe it wasn't that but the point
being is that trust me when I tell you
at some point or another if opportunity
presents itself he will or you will
because that's just the nature of the
Beast so even s menu was as modest as
she was she went into a different room
but yet
her nature still an inclination she
still want to hear what's going on and
the mid M didn't say we won't be allowed
to say
it says that the inclination still was
like listen would I be socializing with
the guys if I want to talk to women I
talk to women there's no reason for me
to be among bunch of guys for what but I
still want to know what's going on
Curious says I didn't create you from
the ear specifically so you don't do
that what do you care if there's
something important your husband will
tell you your husband will tell you if
there's something important your wife's
going to tell you what do you need to do
all this for but that's the nature the
nature of a person even if the person's
righteous they still have a nature in
them then it
says I didn't create him from the mouth
yet at time she's a talkative person as
it
stated spoke against Moshe numbers
121 even though Miram was holier than
holy she was
KES she was a
prophet the only reason we had a river
of water that tasted like whatever you
wanted whether you wanted milk or you
wanted wine you wanted orange juice that
River T that was like the B the river of
was like the man whatever taste that you
wanted that's what it
was on what on her Merit that's how
amazing mam was yet the moment she had a
little bit of time with her brother said
Aron what's going on with M why did he
leave his
wife says that those few words already
too much why are you talking about
somebody else I didn't create you from
the mouth you don't talk extra you don't
talk extra and he punished her for it
every day we read about it in our
reminder of the act that M did because
as righteous as she was she made a
mistake once in her life Al we only made
one mistake once in our life only once
once in her life she made a mistake and
hasem reminds us of it everything day
which is to her Merit but
nonetheless he says I didn't create you
from the mouth you don't talk too
much do I really need to explain this
one sometimes you have certain women the
husband comes home from work and she's
still on the
phone tell me say hello to the
husband 50 minutes 20 minutes an hour
after he's home she comes hey honey
how's work I've been home for an hour
yeah I was on the phone with my cousin I
was on the phone with my mom I was on
the phone with somebody in Judaism your
husband is the king the wife is the
queen what does that mean that means
that as soon as he comes home there is
no phone you hang up the front my
husband's home click not like listen H
that no my husband's home bye click
honey that's the way it's supposed to be
what he's a king if the king shows up
anywhere what listen yourness I'll talk
to you in a minute okay I'm I'm finish
the call I'll get to you in 15 minutes
okay I'll get to you does he treat a
king and he say ah well he doesn't treat
me like a queen if you treat him like a
king maybe he
would stopped
working
tell but why is she why is she
why is
she forgetting to treat her husband like
a
king she's too involved in her own
talking in her own conversation with her
girlfriend with her mother with her
cousin with her sister with somebody
else she's so involved in somebody
else's life she forgets the
responsibility of her own life she
forget that the king just showed up or
maybe the little princess and the
princesses which is our kids kids show
show up at the
house she doesn't even notice why she's
busy with other
stuff your kids at
home your responsibility in the world is
your husband and
kids and a says I did not create you
from the mouth specifically to try to
remind you not to waste so many words
because wasting so many words is gonna
lead to problems number one it's gonna
lead
to which in itself could cost you
Heaven number two simply talking so much
about other people's lives will make you
live through them
vicariously to the extent where you'll
forget about your own
life you're so busy talking about other
people's life you forget about your own
life satanic relationships are one of
the biggest causes of divorce that there
is in the world today who do people
cheat on their spouses with their
friends you don't cheat on your spouse
with some random stranger you met at
Starbucks you cheat with someone that is
friendly
