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do you have a good day at school huh you
had a good day at school yeah oh you
have stickers yeah can you see them yeah
your
stickers sh
man camera's
out
hi did you go to school today yeah you
like that yeah you had fun
yay are you
cutie but you can't touch the you can't
touch this part cuz this is very very
delicate if you touch it it can
break we have to clean
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it you made a yeah
I whoo
cany you're eating it for shabas yeah oh
wow is it yummy yeah
he need to OB himself for
shabis
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yeah you made
AA yeah where's your where's your kala
in my in my a can I see it yeah I want
to see it did you also make AA yes did
you also get no I didn't get springles
you didn't get springles can I
see wao that is so cool are you going to
eat it now or you're going to wait till
shabas wa you're going to wait
okay you put it inside but first I need
a
little you make a Kala today I you did
where is it can you show me please
it's
nice it's really
nice do you want to go on Sunday on the
no it's on Sunday I can't
believe every
day 10 days it's 10 days 10 days in
showers yeah you listen to Country YY
even know that song I know you listen to
country in
Australia cremma and tiger stripes
coming
down oh beautiful talk about a double
whammy right there
wow wow the aroma
getting some tomato in
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there do you ever play cricket yeah you
know how to play cricket
yeah is
it not the same this there's lot more
people
really is it too
dangerous no you want to play soccer no
of
course now
I imagine you KCK it
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okay guys scar of me dog you took the
final r scar of me dog you get your feet
off of this ship quick about space for
you you seven dog place you call me the
time has
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come you
scabby you want to hi aare to burn the
Healer
prepare to sweep your face
with I told you once and I'll tell you
again scar dog the Seas belong to me you
s the B against your neck
ah I have the power of a
cbol you copy breath let's
go scar dog Monkey
Island
Gish hey we're friends after all it's
good to see you Sam always a pleasure
welcome on my
boat sopy dog
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welcome to the balsam's advice on we
have no advice this is all hypocritical
why are your kids so resilient and so
strong and also figure things
out okay our kids are 5 and 1/2 3 and
two so I cannot say that we figured
absolutely anything out many parents and
understandably so they won't allow the
kids to pour the drink because it's
going to they're going to spill over and
over again wonder and create a massive
create a massive mess um but
unfortunately when you don't allow him
so then he's not going to develop that
skill earlier so you're waiting until he
develops that skill meaning the enough
stability in their hands uh to be able
to pour the drink without spilling um
and when you do that teaches them okay
when you have this skill then you can
perform that task uh as opposed to
allowing them to Spill and learn from
spilling the drink how to stabilize the
drink and eventually to pour the drink
which is the real way to learn anything
I think that's how is learned with the
we both had a very like hands-off eyes
approach and like probably from like one
half too he was pouring his own drinks
spilling everywhere and now he's five
and he easily pours his own stuff and
and I noticed by the way at the meal
that uh you know somebody was uh
screaming about a cockroach on the floor
and the ran he's 5 years old right he
took a paper plate and a cup and he
slipped the bottom the plate underneath
the Cockroach and then put the cup on
top and walked outside the house cly and
the and the woman eating here was so
surprised she's like oh my gosh that's
exactly what you're saying that like you
give them the ability to figure things
out and then you see that kids are
really so much smarter and more capable
and you're teaching them that life skill
which is that you don't need the skill
in order to chase after something in
life so when my son wants to learn gamar
that's beyond his reach he's not going
to be like oh I can't read Aramaic I
don't know how to put the punctuation in
the words I don't know how to do this
therefore I'm not capable of doing this
task same thing when he wants to open
his own coffee shop he's not going to be
like oh I've never open the coffee shop
I don't have the skill set he's going to
be like oh no I can develop the skills
and fail till I make it um and through
the failure I'm going to learn how to
eventually read gamorra open my own shop
uh carry out my own Endeavor in life um
and that's like a very important skill
and we find that it's worth the $5 of
spilled grape juice and the 10 minutes
of your time that it takes to remove all
the plates from the table and wipe up
the whole tablecloth and then put
everything down and the embarrassment of
your of there being spilled grape juice
all over the guest plates uh we find
that it's worth all of that uh to be
able to give your kid that skill of
being able to reach Beyond his current
skill set uh and learn through
failure awesome high five thank you so
much for your interview and um yeah
you're really an amazing family I'm
proud to be
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