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Shalom and warm greetings. Judaism
presents a fascinating demand. Serve God
with joy. This means that every Jew is
expected to be joyful at all times. In
the book or sadikim, paths of the
righteous. A powerful question is
raised. How can you demand of a person
not to fear if he's genuinely afraid?
How can you demand of a person to be
happy when in reality he feels anything
but that?
There are many actions you can ask of
someone. Concrete behaviors that are
within their control. But emotions, how
can someone be commanded to feel
something, be happy, don't be afraid?
Every person wants to achieve these
emotional heights. And yet, Judaism
takes this demand so seriously that
there's even a strong rebuke in the
Torah for failing to serve God joyfully.
As Mymones explains regarding the verse,
because you did not serve the Lord your
God with joy and a glad heart, this
failure can lead to severe consequences.
Interestingly, there are only two times
a year when we're told to adjust the
level of our joy.
When the month of Av enters, we reduce
our joy. Note, it doesn't say to be sad,
just to dial down the joy.
When the month of Adar enters, we
increase our joy.
This raises an important and pressing
question, especially in difficult times.
When someone is going through personal
suffering, hardship or distress,
when the Jewish people as a whole are in
crisis, how can anyone be expected to
feel joyful despite everything? The
sadikim explains, "God wants the Jewish
people and humanity as a whole to live
with joy.
Serve God with joy is not a demand for
God's own benefit like some cruel ruler
seeking power.
No, God is a loving king who desires the
well-being of those he created.
Everything he asks of us is for our own
benefit. He says, "Serve me with joy
because I want you to be happy. I want
you to know that all of this is
ultimately for your good." So, how can
we truly be joyful even in difficult
times? With God's help, let's examine
the deeper meaning of joy, music,
dancing, and laughter from a Jewish
perspective.
To achieve joy, we need to understand
that there are two main paths we can
take. One is mental, the way we think.
The other is practical, the actions we
take. Through both, a person can awaken
and cultivate feelings of joy.
The book explains that although we
cannot simply command someone to feel an
emotion,
don't be afraid, be happy. We can guide
a person to use their mind and thinking
to generate those feelings. With the
right mindset, the intellect can guide
the heart. When your approach is
healthy, your emotions can follow. Let's
consider this from a psychological
perspective. Is a human being naturally
sad and needs a reason to be happy?
or is he naturally happy and only needs
a reason to become sad? When we look at
adults, it seems that the default is
sadness and that happiness takes effort.
But that's actually not how we came into
the world. When we examine children, we
see something else entirely. In fact,
it's the complete opposite. When you
observe children, you'll see that their
natural state is joy and they need a
reason to be sad.
If something bothers them, they cry
intensely.
But as soon as the problem is resolved,
they return to their joyful state,
completely forgetting they were sobbing
just moments ago. This tells us
something deep.
The natural state of the human soul is
to be joyful.
So what happened? Over time, as we go
through life, something begins to
disrupt our inner systems, especially
our natural connection to joy. Let's
ask, what actually makes a child feel
happy? What are the inner emotions that
generate joy for a child? The answer is
simple and powerful. A child feels that
he is the center of the world. He has no
worries. Everything he needs is taken
care of. There's always someone to turn
to, someone to rely on. He knows he may
not always get what he wants, but the
feeling inside is one of deep security.
He feels loved, central, safe.
And this leads us to something profound
the sages taught in the Talmud, tractate
Sanhedrin.
Why was the first human being created
alone? just one person. Unlike all the
trees and animals which were created in
multitudes, God wants the world to be
filled with people. The Torah says he
did not create it to be empty. He formed
it to be inhabited.
So why not create many humans right from
the start? The answer is astonishing.
The Mishna says, "Therefore, man was
created as a single individual."
Why? One reason is so that every person
would recognize their own unique worth.
So that each person can know there never
was and never will be another person
like me. This idea is so strong that the
Talmud says, "Therefore, every person
must say the world was created for me."
At first glance, this might sound
arrogant or self-important.
But that's not the message. The Torah
constantly teaches us to be humble and
considerate. So what does the world was
created for me really mean? It means
that every person must understand their
own value. Even if you were the only
human being alive all alone on earth,
you would still be worth creating the
entire universe for. That's how valuable
your life is.
What proves this idea? When God created
the world, how many people did he
create?
One. And from that one, all humanity
emerged.
In other words, you are as spiritually
significant as Adam, the first human
from whom an entire world came forth.
You too have the ability to influence
creation, to uplift it, to repair it.
Adam through his actions had the
potential to transform the world and so
do you. In the eyes of God, you are not
just one more person. You are central.
You matter. The sages further explain
that this is why no two human beings
look exactly alike. We take this for
granted that people have different
faces. But think about it. If humans
were like coins minted in a factory,
wouldn't they all come out the same?
Adam and Eve came from one body, same
DNA. So logically, their children should
have looked identical, but in reality,
no two humans are alike. In the United
States, a person can be convicted based
on a fingerprint. Why? Because those
tiny swirls at the tip of your finger,
they are completely unique. There never
was and never will be another set
exactly like yours. Even triplets,
quadruplets,
quintuplets.
They may look similar, but their
identities are different.
Even if others can't tell them apart,
their mother knows exactly who's who.
This is an astounding system, a divine
fingerprint on creation.
Only the creator could design a world
where every single person is one of a
kind. The Talmud offers several reasons
why God designed such a complex system.
One in which no two people are exactly
alike.
Of course, for God, creating such
diversity isn't difficult at all. But
from our human perspective, it's an awe
inspiring wonder.
One reason the sages give is so that a
woman can recognize her husband and a
man can recognize his wife. If all human
beings had the same face, imagine the
confusion. Someone could walk into a
home and say, "I am your husband." And
how would anyone know the truth? The
uniqueness of every face, every person
protects our identities and our
relationships. Moreover, the Talmud
explains why our thoughts are also
hidden from others. Just as our faces
are different, so are our opinions, our
inner worlds. Why? Because if every
person thought in exactly the same way,
imagine the consequences.
Let's say someone won the lottery or
found a suitcase filled with diamonds.
Now imagine a thief, someone dishonest,
thinking, "If I were him, where would I
hide it?
on the top shelf, under the blankets. If
everyone thought identically, he'd know
exactly where to look. There would be no
privacy, no individuality,
no soul level uniqueness.
So the Talmud teaches that God made us
different, not just in appearance, but
in thought, so that each person would
recognize their own unique value and
identity. When you say a simple blessing
over a glass of water,
blessed are you by whose word all came
to be.
You're repairing your specific spiritual
path in the universe. Your blessing
fulfills something only you can
accomplish. Your friend's blessing is
not your blessing. He can't fix what you
can fix. You have a dedicated spiritual
path. When you put on to fillin, that
moment belongs to you and no one else.
Rabbi of Voljin writes in Nephesh Hakim
that every single day is a unique moment
in creation, a pathway that exists only
once. The tofillin you put on yesterday
fulfilled one mission. Today's Tilan is
a different mission entirely. It's like
a ruler. All the markings may look the
same, but each is in its own exact
place. You are living now in this exact
moment of history. And that means only
you can fix what needs to be fixed
today. Rabbi Haim writes something
profound.
A person living today can repair
something in creation that even the
greatest of our ancestors, Rabishimon
Barhai, Moshe Rabenu or Abraham Ainu
could not. How is that possible? Are we
greater than they were? Of course not.
But they lived in their generation and
we live in ours. They fulfilled their
tasks. But they aren't alive now. They
can't fulfill today's mission, we can.
That is the greatness of the human
being. Just like a child feels, I am the
center of the world. And from that comes
joy, safety, and confidence.
So too, the adult must learn to
internalize this spiritual truth. For
the child, this feeling is instinctive.
He doesn't yet have full understanding.
But the adult should reach this same
clarity through awareness and faith.
There's another reason children are
naturally happy. They don't worry.
They're not afraid of war, of financial
stress, of how they'll pay the bills.
They don't lie awake wondering if the
paycheck will arrive. The child simply
trusts there's someone who takes care of
me. And in the same way, a person with
true faith and trust in God can also
say, "I have no worries. There's someone
who takes care of me."
As the sages say, "The one who gave you
life will also give you sustenance."
In Jewish tradition, we celebrate the
holiday of Sukkot when we commemorate
not just the booths we lived in, but the
miraculous clouds of glory that
surrounded and protected the Israelites
in the desert. It was a daily miracle, a
divine embrace. But that raises a
question. Why don't we celebrate the
mana and the water as separate holidays?
After all, those were miracles, too.
Every single day, mana fell from heaven,
enough to feed millions in the desert.
The well of Miriam, a rock that flowed
with water, traveled with them. It's not
simple to feed an entire nation in the
wilderness day after day.
Yet they would go out each morning and
gather their food from heaven.
Researcher Yahosua Etsion in his book,
The Lost Bible,
points to archaeological findings in the
desert that support these traditions.
This research was presented in the first
part of the biblical archaeology book.
It includes photographs of structures
discovered in the desert, structures
with no roofs. Based on their form, it's
clear that they were likely covered with
branches or foliage. Archaeologists
found it puzzling. How could people live
in such a place for an extended time?
The buildings show signs of long-term
habitation,
but there is no water in the area. Yet
among the artifacts unearthed in
excavations
were Egyptian items, including pestals
and grinding tools, indicating that
people prepared food there. The late
Yahosua Etsion, a respected
non-religious scholar, wrote in his book
that in his view, there's no doubt these
structures were the original Sukkot
booths built by the Israelites after the
Exodus from Egypt. According to Jewish
tradition, Miriam's well, a miraculous
source of water, traveled with them.
They had food, mana, they had water, and
they were surrounded by clouds of glory.
All miracles in the desert. But that
raises an important question. Why do we
only celebrate the clouds of glory with
the holiday of Sukkot?
Why isn't there a holiday for mana or
water, which were daily miracles that
sustained millions, feeding an entire
nation in the desert every single day?
That's no small feat. And yet people
would go out each morning and gather the
mana. They ground it. They cooked with
it or ate it raw. Each in their own way.
It was a great miracle. So why do we
only celebrate the clouds? The answer is
profound. Food and water are
necessities. If God takes you out into a
desert, then yes, he must provide them.
It's a basic need. But the clouds of
glory, that was luxury, comfort, extra.
We could have survived without them, but
he gave them to us anyway. So we set
aside a special holiday of gratitude for
the extras
to say, "Thank you, God, not only for
what I need, but for the kindness beyond
what I deserve."
And this isn't just a lesson for the
Israelites in the desert. It's a message
for all of us. Each person should say,
"God created me. He wants me to live.
He'll help me earn a living. Yes, I need
to make my effort. But if things aren't
working out, I shouldn't fall into fear
or despair." As the sages said, the one
who gave you life will also give you
sustenance.
Let's read the words of Sadikim on this
exact point. One who truly believes in
God and trusts him wholeheartedly. This
is a muna faith. This is beton trust to
rely on him and feel inner peace. A
person like that will not fear anything
bad because he knows that the one who
created everything rules over nature,
protects him and provides for him. He
continues, such a person will never feel
enslaved to another human being just to
win their favor. Yes, you can be polite,
express gratitude, show respect, but you
don't need to twist yourself or change
your essence out of fear of anyone
because you know they are not God. They
are just a channel. The true provider is
the creator. Your boss, he's just a pipe
through which the blessing flows. He
doesn't own you. He doesn't control your
fate.
Do not rely on people. Don't live as
though your salvation will come from
another human being. As the verse says,
do not trust in princes, in a human
being who cannot save. And the book
concludes with this powerful idea. Even
if people criticize you, mock you, or
belittle you. If you are doing what's
right, don't be ashamed. Don't back
down. As the prophet said, "The Lord God
will help me. Therefore, I will not be
humiliated. When a person lives with
this kind of faith and clarity, they
walk through life with true freedom. One
of the greatest causes of sadness in a
person's life is the feeling of being
enslaved to others opinions. What will
people say? How do I come across? What
do they think of me? That constant
pressure from the gaze of others kills
joy. But when a person reaches the
clarity to say this is who I am. Yes,
maybe I'm heavier or thinner. I have
this kind of face or that. But I'm not
dependent on people's approval. I don't
live to impress anyone. The only one I
seek favor from is God. And the only one
I truly rely on is him. That mindset
restores a person to the joy of
childhood. But now in a healthy adult
form, not like a naive child who doesn't
understand life, but like someone
mature, grounded, and spiritually
centered.
You recognize that in God's eyes, you
are central to his world. You have
someone to lean on. You don't live with
fear. You know what's happening in the
world. You're informed, but you're not
overwhelmed by it. You know there's a
higher power guiding everything. That
clarity brings a person to inner peace
and sustainable joy. This is the first
key. A proper mindset. A shift in
thought can lead to lasting happiness.
Now let's explore a second path to joy
giving meaning to everything you do.
We've touched on this idea before, but
now let's look at it from the lens of
simatim.
The joy of life. Imagine a wealthy
philanthropist visiting Israel from
abroad. He's taken on a tour of the
country's defense industry. At one
facility, he sees three men sweating as
they each drive a bolt into the same
missile, let's say into a nuclear
warhead. He walks up and asks the first
man, "What are you doing?" The man
replies, "I'm tightening a bolt." He
asks the second man, "And what are you
doing?" I'm building a nuclear bomb.
Then he turns to the third and asks the
same question. This man answers, I'm
defending the state of Israel.
Same action, same bolt, but vastly
different experiences based entirely on
how each one interprets his work. The
same applies to the everyday roles we
often take for granted. Take a mother
changing her baby's diaper. Ask the
first woman, "What are you doing?" She
replies, "Gh, I have this fussy baby who
cries all day. What can I do? I have to
change him." Ask the second. "I'm
changing my son's diaper." Ask the
third. "This baby is helpless. Without
me, he could get sick or even worse. I'm
saving his life. I'm raising a human
being. Yes, he happens to be my son, but
my mission here is sacred. I'm giving
someone the care they need to survive.
Same action. Three different
experiences.
Perspective creates joy. Even a simple
fruit vendor can live with joy or not.
One man wakes up in size again with the
vegetables, crates, noise, stress,
workers, mess. But another wakes up and
says, "Today I get to supply fresh,
healthy food to the people of Israel.
Instead of eating junk, they'll get
vitamins, minerals, better health for
kids, for families." He walks into the
same shop, opens the same crates,
but with a sense of mission. That
mindset transforms the experience, and
from that meaning comes joy. Another
major factor that weighs heavily on a
person and harms their joy in life is
personal suffering and hardship. A
person may say, "All of this sounds nice
in theory, but in practice, I'm facing
real struggles.
For one person, it's health problems.
For another, it's difficulties with
children. Someone else may have been
trying to get married for years and it
just hasn't worked out. Each person
carries their own burden and feels
my joy in life is damaged. They try to
stay positive. They try to see the good.
But deep down they're struggling.
How am I supposed to find joy while I'm
dealing with all this?
Let's look again at the words of
Zadikim, the ways of the righteous in
the chapter on joy. He writes, "Even
when a person experiences suffering, he
should still rejoice." And the sages
said, "Suffering is beloved." What does
that mean? Suffering is beloved. If you
love something, you value it. The
Pelleoets, another classic ethical work,
writes something striking. He says, "If
we truly knew the spiritual benefit we
gain from suffering, from the hardships
we endure, instead of asking God to take
it away, we would actually ask him for a
little more." Why? Because suffering
purifies a person. It refineses them. It
elevates them and gives them a
completely different perspective on
life. When people have money, abundance,
and physical pleasures, they can become
consumed by materialism,
losing themselves in physicality.
But when a crisis hits, an accident, an
illness, a financial collapse, suddenly
they begin to see life differently.
All the nonsense of the world shrinks in
importance. Priorities shift. Clarity
emerges.
As Rabbi Eleza once said, "It was for my
own good that the leg of my cow broke."
He saw the hardship not as a curse, but
as a gift in disguise. I've personally
heard people say this. People who went
through serious hardships and later
said, "I thank God for that painful
wakeup call. It elevated them to a
higher spiritual level. It changed their
view of life. It was painful, but it was
worth it. And if we focus just on this
one aspect that suffering cleanses a
person from sin that it purifies and
elevates then even suffering becomes a
source of meaning. The sages said
suffering is beloved and a person should
train their lips to say this too is for
the best. In the Talmud tract,
we read about a sage named Nahumshamu
whose motto was Gamu Ltova. This too is
for the best. No matter what happened to
him, that's what he said. And eventually
the phrase became so associated with him
that it became his name because he had
truly internalized the belief that
everything God does is for the good.
Another sage Rabi Aka would say, "Call
Davidid Rahmana latav avid. Everything
that God does, he does for the good."
This is not just a mindset of blind
optimism. It's a deep faith that
transforms even the hardest moments into
stepping stones for spiritual growth.
And from that faith comes unshakable
joy. There's a well-known story from the
Talmud about Rabbi Aka which illustrates
his famous saying, "Everything that God
does, he does for the good." Rabbi Aka
was once traveling with three essential
items. A rooster, which served as his
alarm clock. In those days, people would
wake with the sunrise, and the rooster's
crow would alert them. a donkey which
was his mode of transportation
and a candle which he used to study
Torah at night since there was no
electricity back then. He was going from
town to town teaching Torah and
collecting charity for the poor. He was
the spiritual leader of his generation.
One evening he arrived at a village and
asked for a place to stay but no one
would open their door. He could have
said, "This is how they treat someone
who came to help." But instead, he
calmly said, "Everything that God does
is for the good."
He went out to sleep in a nearby field.
That night, a wind blew and extinguished
his candle, so he couldn't study. Then,
a fox came and ate his rooster. Moments
later, a lion attacked and killed his
donkey. Now imagine what most people
would say in his situation.
What's going on? Why is everything
falling apart? But not Rabbi Aka. He
repeated the same words. Everything that
God does is for the good. The next
morning, he approached the town and saw
smoke rising in the distance. Bandits
had raided the entire village during the
night. They burned it down, looted
everything, and killed everyone inside.
Rabbi Aka immediately understood. Had he
been inside one of those houses, he
would not have survived. Had his candle
been burning, the robbers would have
seen the light. Had his rooster crowed
or his donkey braided, they would have
heard and come for him. He said, "Thank
you, God, for extinguishing the candle.
Thank you for taking away the rooster
and the donkey. You removed everything
that could have harmed me to protect me.
Sometimes we see God's kindness
immediately like Rabbi Aka did.
Sometimes it takes months or even years
until we realize what a painful moment
saved us from. The Talmud in tractate
need tells another story. Two men were
scheduled to board a ship. as one was
about to step on a thorn lodged in his
foot and he had to go to the hospital.
He was furious, cursing his day. He was
hoping to travel for business and now
he'd miss everything. He thought the
delay was ruining his plans. But weeks
later, he heard that the ship had sunk
and everyone on board had died. He
suddenly realized that Thorne had saved
his life. Sometimes we realize the good
right away. Sometimes it takes a
lifetime. And sometimes only after we
leave this world do we finally see the
big picture. But if a person teaches
themselves, trains their heart to trust
and say whatever God does, it's for the
good, they can live with deep joy even
in life's hardest moments
because they know there's a divine plan.
Life is not random. No one can truly
harm me unless God allows it. God is the
artist and I am his creation. No one
gets to scribble over his masterpiece.
If he allows something to happen, it
must be for a reason and ultimately it's
for the good. We humans tend to think
life starts at birth and ends at death.
That's why we fall into sadness,
disappointment, and anger. But when we
understand that there's life before this
world and after this world, that this
world is just a corridor leading to a
greater destination, we begin to receive
life differently. We stop resisting. We
stop panicking. We gain peace,
perspective, and a lasting joy that
nothing in this world can take away. A
person who views this world as the main
purpose of life. Who thinks we came here
for material pleasure will often feel
frustrated and disappointed.
Why? Because this world can be deeply
disappointing.
But when someone knows the truth that
this world is only a corridor, a
preparation,
everything changes. He asks himself,
"What am I truly taking with me today? I
put on to fillin. That's why I came to
this world. I kept Shabbat. I gave
charity. I did an act of kindness. I
smiled at someone. I honored my parents.
That's the reason I was born. Everything
else, that's just noise. So, what if
things didn't go my way today? I lost
some money. Someone insulted me. It's
okay. I evaluate life based on this one
question. What does God want from me
right now? As long as I'm aligned with
God's will, I'm building myself. I study
Torah to understand what he expects of
me. I grow, attend classes, read books,
improve, and I reach my spiritual
potential.
A person who lives like that is filled
with deep lasting joy.
Now, let's look at some practical tools
for joy. So far, we focused on mindset,
but there are also experiential paths to
happiness.
In the book Hutzoen the code there's a
deep teaching in our tradition singing
music and sacred melodies can uplift a
person and bring them real joy.
Our sages say the following. When the
musician played the hand of God came
upon Elisha the prophet.
2 Kings 3:15.
The Jerusalem Talmud tells a story about
Yona son of Amiti. The prophet Yona, the
one we read about on Yumkapur, he wasn't
born a prophet. He was an ordinary man,
one of the pilgrims who went up to
Jerusalem for the festivals. But
something incredible happened. He came
to the holy temple during the festival
of Sukkot during the celebration known
as Simhadashiva,
the water drawing celebration
which the sages describe as the greatest
joy imaginable.
So great they said whoever never saw the
joy of Simhutiva never saw joy in his
life.
Men and women stood on separate levels.
Holy music, dancing and light lit up the
entire city of Jerusalem. Yorna entered
that atmosphere of joy. And through the
dancing, the music, the singing, he
reached a state of spiritual elevation
so pure that he merited divine prophecy.
That's what the Talmud means when it
says the divine presence rests only upon
a person who is joyful.
Why is that? What's the logic behind it?
Each one of us, every man and woman has
a soul that is spiritual.
But most of us don't hear the voice of
God. We don't feel that spiritual
connection. Why? Because there's a
barrier. And that barrier is called the
body.
God says, "No human can see me and
live." The body is heavy, physical. It
separates us from higher awareness. When
a soul leaves the body after death, it
suddenly sees and understands things
with clarity.
But during our time on earth, our
spiritual essence, the soul, is cloaked
inside a physical form. And yet when a
person experiences spiritual joy, joy
that comes from purity, from holiness,
from a mitzvah, something amazing
happens. Music, singing, and sacred
melody have a way of piercing through
the barrier of the body. They reach the
deepest parts of the soul. They awaken
the spiritual self. When someone dances
with joy during a mitzvah, sings with
holy passion, or connects through music
to something higher. For a moment,
they're not just in a body. They feel
like they're above the body. No
temptations, no distractions,
just a soul yearning to connect to its
creator. That's why in the temple in
that joy, Yona became a prophet. Because
true joy is a gateway to prophecy, to
clarity, to purpose, and to God. Music
has the power to touch the most
sensitive strings of the soul
to the point that a person can still be
inside a physical body and yet feel as
if the body isn't even there.
This is what happened to Yonas of Amiti.
At the height of the singing and dancing
in the temple, he reached such a level
of the spiritual connection that he no
longer felt the weight of his body. No
urges, no temptations, just one desire
to cleave to God.
And at that moment, he was filled with
divine inspiration.
He became a prophet. He could see what
was happening in distant places. God
spoke to him because although he was
still in a physical body, he had risen
above the the limitations of the
physical world. We see something similar
with the prophet
Elisha.
At one point he wanted to receive
prophecy, but he was angry. Even though
his anger was justified, a wicked king
had approached him alongside a righteous
king. He couldn't receive prophecy in a
state of emotional disturbance.
So what did he do? He asked for a
musician. And as the music began to
play, the verse says, "When the musician
played, the hand of God came upon him."
2 Kings 3:15,
"The Talmud presents a seeming
contradiction in the words of King
Solomon. In one verse, he says,
"And I praise joy," implying that joy is
a wonderful thing. But elsewhere he
says, "About laughter, I said it is
madness. And about joy, what does it
accomplish?
So which is it? Is joy good or bad? Our
sages resolve this beautifully. I
praised joy. That refers to joy
connected to a mitzvah.
And what does joy accomplish?
That refers to empty joy. Joy that's
disconnected from purpose. The lesson.
True joy. The kind that invites the
divine presence only comes from
meaningful joy.
Not from sadness, not from laziness, not
from foolishness, not from small talk or
frivolity.
Only from the joy of a mitzvah, from our
higher purpose.
That's why it says, "And now bring me a
musician."
And as the musician played, the hand of
God came upon him.
Music has a powerful sacred force.
It goes straight to the soul. There was
a fascinating study conducted in the
United States. Researchers discovered
how deep music's effect can go,
especially for people with uh and
chronic pain. Many patients who suffer
from constant pain are forced to take in
strong painkillers. Some even resort to
controlled substances just to function.
But these medications come without
serious side effects and long-term
damage. So researchers tried something
new. They told patients, "When you take
your painkiller, when your body begins
to calm down, listen to the music you
loved most before your pain began."
Maybe you were 17, 15, or 20. Try to
remember what music made you feel most
alive before the accident, before the
illness. Make a playlist of those exact
songs. Even if you haven't heard them in
decades, then listen to those songs
every time you take your medication.
Do it consistently.
What they found was extraordinary.
Over time, the brain began to associate
the music itself with the relief of
pain.
Eventually, patients could listen to the
music
without the medication.
and still experience relief.
Why? Because the brain had been trained
to connect those melodies with comfort,
safety, and calm. That is the power of
music.
To reach into the soul, speak to the
mind and command the body to relax.
Even when the pain is physical, a melody
from the past tied to a feeling of peace
can a heal.
This discovery is something that should
be shared because it can genuinely help
people.
Music is not just entertainment.
It's medicine for the heart, for the
mind, and for the soul. And when used
with purpose, it can bring people
relief, healing, and even spiritual
elevation. Let's read a beautiful
insight from the book Live Nath. Why
does the soul feel such pleasure when a
person hears music? What is it about
melody that moves us so deeply? The
author explains, "The soul comes from
the bundle of life, from the higher
realms. Before entering the body, the
soul existed in the upper garden of Eden
where it was constantly surrounded by
the songs of angels praising the
creator. So now, even while inside the
body, when the soul hears a melody, it
recognizes it. It feels a deep familiar
comfort, a spiritual delight that
reminds it of where it came from. And
when that musical pleasure is elevated
with holiness, it can even bring down
the spirit of God just like in its
original state above.
This explains how music can awaken
within a person a longing for closeness
to God, a powerful spiritual yearning
and connection.
The Maharal of Prague writes that true
joy brings a person to spiritual
completeness
and through joy the divine presence
rests upon them. It's in this elevated
state that a person can merit ruahhes
divine inspiration.
The great cabalist Rabbi Khim Vital
teaches, "If a person rejoices in every
mitzvah he performs as if he just
received a reward of a thousand,000 gold
dinars, it is guaranteed he will attain
ruak hakadesh."
These words aren't poetic metaphor. He
means it literally. But what's the
condition? He says, "Train yourself to
rejoice in every mitzvah as if you had
just received an unimaginable treasure
because the actual reward for a mitzvah,
it's far greater than a th000,000 gold
coins.
Imagine this. You wake up in the morning
and head to synagogue to pray, just like
every day. But today, to your surprise,
the entire street is filled with tables.
You count them. 1,00 tables and on each
table is a pile of 1,000 gold coins.
You're stunned. The sunlight glimmers
off the coins. You ask the guard,
"What's all this?" He replies, "The
moment you finish putting on your
tofillin, these are yours." Then he
adds, "And if you put on your head
terillin as well, look down the next
street.
There's another 1,000 tables waiting
just for you. Now imagine how you'd feel
during that prayer. Would you dance
while putting on tilin? Would your heart
be filled with overwhelming joy? That's
the point. Rabi Vital says this is how
you should feel every time you do a
mitzvah because the actual reward in the
world to come is infinitely greater.
There's a profound principle in Kabala
that physics has only recently caught up
to. From a small amount of matter, you
can unleash enormous energy. That's the
concept behind a nuclear bomb. It might
be the size of a table, but its energy
is devastating. Cabalists say the same
is true with mitzvot. You gave five
shekels to charity. It seems like a
small act, but in the spiritual world,
it creates massive energy. You overcame
a temptation. You avoided anger. You
kept Shabbat. You just generated immense
spiritual light. A woman goes shopping
and chooses a modest outfit. It may seem
small, but in heaven, the reward is
enormous. And this brings us to
something else. The phenomenon of dance.
Why do humans naturally dance? We all
see it at weddings, at joyous
celebrations, it feels so natural, but
think about it. If we asked the best
dancer in the room to get up and perform
right now with no music, he'd probably
say, "Are you kidding? That would be
insane." So why is it that with music we
feel free to move, to leap, to dance?
Livnat Hasapir explains, "When a person
hears music, the soul remembers. It
remembers the melodies of heaven, the
songs of angels. Even though it's inside
a body which is heavy and governed by
gravity, the soul begins to move. And as
the soul moves, it takes the body with
it. Sometimes it even jumps upward as if
trying to return to that higher place."
So dance too is not just physical. It's
the sole yearning for its source. A
physical expression of a spiritual
longing. That is the power of music and
mitzvot to lift us out of the mundane.
To connect us to eternity and to fill
our lives with joy, holiness, and
purpose. Why is it that when music
plays, people suddenly feel free to move
in ways they'd never do otherwise?
If you ask even the best dancer to
perform without music, he might say,
"What am I crazy?" But the moment music
begins, everything changes. Even alone
in a room, people can dance. What is the
secret?
According to the teachings of the great
cabalist who authored Livnat Hasapir,
this phenomenon is deeply spiritual. He
explains, "The soul originates from the
bundle of life above and is accustomed
to hearing the songs of angels. Now,
even while enclosed in a physical body,
when it hears a melody, it finds peace
and pleasure because it remembers that
spiritual music from its heavenly
source. The real you is your soul. Your
body is just a temporary container. It's
heavy. It's bound by gravity. But when
the soul hears a melody, it stirs. And
as it begins to move, it moves the body,
too. This is the essence of dance. A
physical expression of the soul's
longing to return upward. The soul wants
to ascend, but gravity pulls it back
down, so it jumps again. That's dance.
Dance at its root is a soul reaching for
heaven.
There's a powerful spiritual principle.
This opposite that whatever exists in
holiness has a counterpart in impurity.
So music can elevate or it can degrade.
Some music awakens holy emotion. It
brings joy. It inspires. It uses pure
sacred words. It can connect you to your
creator. But other music it can do the
opposite. It carries destructive energy,
coarse lyrics, crude beats, and it dulls
your soul. It causes confusion, noise,
distraction. It pulls you into chaos,
where deep reflection is replaced by
impulse.
Music is power. That's why it can move
us so deeply and why we must be
selective about what we let into our
ears and hearts. Here's a curious thing.
People often idolize singers, think
logically.
Why do we admire singers so much? Some
of them in their personal lives are
angry, abusive, dishonest. Yet on stage
they are adored.
Why? Because they produce sound from
their throat. Air, vibration, rhythm.
And suddenly people elevate them like
gods. This teaches us something
profound.
Music touches the soul. So when a person
hears music that stirs their heart, they
can transfer that feeling onto the
performer. But we must be careful. We
must monitor our admiration.
Who do we look up to? Who do we model
ourselves after? A popular singer or
actor may be idolized here, but in the
next world, no one may want to be within
a 100 miles of them because of the moral
destruction they caused. So don't be
swept away by pop culture. Look at life
through a true lens.
Don't let the noisy world around you
drown out what really matters.
And what does bring deep lasting joy to
the heart.
As King David wrote, "The commandments
of God are upright. They bring joy to
the heart.
Learning Torah brings true joy.
But there's a challenge. The evil
inclination constantly tries to
distract. Watch the news, eat something,
go for a drive, watch a movie, anything.
Just don't open that book of Torah. But
just like the body needs daily meals,
even when you're busy, the soul also
needs its daily nourishment.
Open a page of Talmud. Study Jewish law.
Read books of ethics. Listen to a Torah
lecture. Even if it feels hard at first,
over time the joy will awaken.
At first it may feel like a struggle.
But then the light breaks through. As
the verse says,
those who walked in darkness have seen a
great light.
Suddenly Torah starts making sense. The
language becomes familiar. You feel
uplifted.
And as that spiritual world opens before
you, you begin to feel real joy. The
kind that fills the soul.
Let us dedicate this message to the
protection of the people of Israel and
the soldiers of Israel wherever they may
be. May God guard all those who are
learning and listening with us wherever
they are and bless them with long life
and peace. Amen.