The 10 Miracles Created Before Shabbat PART 4 - MUSSAR Pirkei Avot (95)

[Music] very good to be here it's been a long time since we've been here it's uh some of the best about I've actually been in this house uh so today we're going to continue the series of the we're up to number 95 but now for the last four shim we've been doing the same exact mishna mishna 58 which is the 10 uh special Creations that hem created before Shabbat uh 10 one-time Miracles many miracles have happened throughout all of creation but these specific 10 were Creations that were onetime events one time events even the creation of um hashem's Miracle of uh splitting the ocean splitting the Sea of reeds happened more than once it actually happened three times that we know happened in the sea of reeds that was the first time second time happened in the uh the Jordan the Jordan River was split for Yeshua Bon and the third time is also in the one of the one of the T had to cross the uh River and hasem split the ocean F actually split the ocean f a couple times so the in essence as we talked about in this mishna is that the Miracles themselves weren't created meaning here in this mishna we're going to go over the mishna again even though you guys have probably already heard it already a couple of times it's still good for anyone who hasn't heard it translation 10 things were created on Shabbat Eve at twilight meaning on Friday night but before Shabbat actually officially came in and they are the mouth of the earth which is the mouth of the earth that opened up and swallowed korak and his 250 followers all big rabbis all of the biggest rabbis in the world at the time that joined kak all got swallowed up and they're all screaming in Gom until now for going against mosenu and in essence going against hem the mouth of the well which is The Well of Miram the prophet that followed am for 40 years the mouth of am's donkey that rebuked him that hasem gave this donkey the ability to speak like a human being speaks the rainbow that Hashem gave as a sign to Noah as a sign as a breit as a covenant that he's not going to flood the world again and destroy it that way the he never said he's not going to flood the world or cause tsunamis or anything like that he's still going to do that but to destroy the entire world like he did at the time of no he promised not to do in the sign of the rainbow which we went over yesterday uh that was the creation of the rainbow the Mana bread that fed am for 40 years throughout all the desert that tasted in any taste and any flavor that they wanted yet they still found reasons to complain God bless them uh but this is obviously a uh the lesson from the Mana is all abouta P that all of us worry about too often the staff meaning the staff of mosenu that we talked about last night the uh 672b uh staff that was made from snon which we talked about last night from the Mir seems more like it's going to be uh uh Platinum than sa Sapphire just based on the physics aspect of it the Shamir worm which we also talked about last night that was used to cut the stones for the BET mikdash The is just one of many walls that uh you know had in the this most people think that the the Western Wall is the whole Western Wall it's not it's actually just one small section of it it's one small section of it it continues much much longer and much much deeper on the ground so anyone that hasn't seen it one of the most amazing things that you can do is go into the tunnels into the Western Wall tunnels and you'll see the the the Western Wall from the bottom and you see that the size of the stones that they have on the bottom are much much bigger than the top even though the ones on top are huge also the ones on the bottom are massive something that's uh unbelievable unbelievable sight uh and this is all being really Unearthed now because the destruction was severe and uh for almost 2,000 years this hasn't been this so they're still digging to this day but there's a lot of discoveries over there uh the script meaning the uh special holy alphabet called KES the Hebrew alphabet that Hashem created the world with and wrote the Torah with it's in essence the DNA of the world just like but just like for example in a digital world everything is zeros and ones uh um the uh the real world which is everything uh is actually created it with the AL bet you looked with the alive so if you actually saw the world I remember there was a movie maybe 20 years ago called The Matrix and when the guy discovered that he's in a matrix he saw everything in zeros and ones it was like a green script on a black screen everything was zeros and ones uh in reality the if you saw the world for what it really is and how hasem designed the world it would be the olive bit would be the olive bit of of of Judaism uh so the script was one of the 10 things that was created uh benot before Shabbat the inscription which is the special instrument that Hashem used in order to engrave the tablets of the Ten Commandments because those tablets themselves were a miracle at work how they were you were able to see all 10 commandments From Any Corner that you would look at any any way that you would look at it you would still see the Ten Commandments as if it's in front of you so imagine you look at me right now you're seeing my face you go to my side but you still see my face as if it's in front you go to the back you see my face as if it's in front you either you took some mushrooms or something or there's a miracle happening so miracle that this was a special tool that created the M themselves the tablets themselves were also the original ones that uh ended up being broken because am made a big sin of the golden calf the original set that himself wrote uh that was also created before Shabbat uh during the first six days of creation the second set mosenu himself wrote Hashem told him what to write and he wrote it and now up to up to this we've already covered now we have what we have left in this we'll do our best to finish it tonight is mazikin which is the destructive Spirits AKA demons very interesting subject especially to talk about it at night uh the uh grave the grave site of mosenu the ram ofu the ram that uh in essence ended up using as aan to replace and afterm told him don't touch him so he had to replace that it came all the way here had to aan there's a ram there's a special story in a mid that talks about this special RAM and then last but not least theat the uh tongues the tongues that uh original tongues in in general in order to make them you need tongues so one of the opinions is in is that oh so that means that the original tongue the tool Hashem created the first one because you need one to make one but then you know they uh says no no no you don't need one it's just that the first one uh was actually um um made by you know they molded they made the mold and then they poured the liquid in it but there's a significance in this story as well of why you know this is obviously not a k why is he even part of this mishna so now the actual miracles themselves as we talked about in the past the Miracles themselves didn't happen and the argument is if the Mira if already created all of these miracles for example if he created the donkey and and the mouth of the donkey already at this time at Adam and Eve and he created already the uh you know different Creations in there then that means that it was already predestined for kak to sin it was already predestined for the Aton to rebuke uh bam it was already predestined for a lot of these things to happen so that removes free choice if it's already made before the actual event happened that means it's already you know there's there's no free choice so the rambam explains it is that the technology itself was made meaning the ability for the creation to uh you know to have such a miracle was made Ben but the actual product itself was not what is it like it's like if you have a blueprint you a blueprint of a building so the blueprint of the building will tell you exactly everything you need to know about the building how big it is how you know how wide how tall what kind of wood did you use how much Stone did you use uh how many uh how much glass there's going to be uh a good blueprint is going to tell you literally every detail what knobs you're going to use you know how many doors there going to be how many windows so the technology itself is there but it still has to be built so the technology for these onetime Miracles was made Twilight before Shabbat but the actual creation itself was not made until later on further we also have which we talked about a little bit yesterday and how it talks about in beginning of the par hasem says to Moshe speak to the children of Israel and let them take from me a portion from every man whose heart motivates him you shall take my portion meaning every person that's motivated should give me what belongs to me anyway he's not saying return it he said give it to me what do you mean give it to me because at the end of the day I put the money in your pocket says I put the money in your pocket I put the money in your bank so if you think you actually made the money you're not going to have motivation to give it back you're not goingon to have motivation to give M you're not going to have motivation to donate for the bet mikash you're not going to have motivation to donate for for for all these things because you think you made it but you should know it's my portion really you should know so if you have motivation meaning if you know the truth behind the money then bring back what belongs to me what do you mean bring back take a portion of what I gave you and give it to the BET mdash bring it to KES now we don't have unfortunately a Tabernacle in a bet mikdash today so the said this is in essence to fund Tora funding Tor but the main thing that most people do not understand in today's age is that not everybody can fund toah I know this doesn't sound normal because this is more of the supernatural than the natural especially understand what I'm trying to tell you but not everybody can fun tah especially chuva especially the type of Torah that gets people to do Chua and the reason why is because there's many places in the Tor where hasem specifically talks about getting people to do chuva being the most significant thing that a person can do in their life to such an extent that the Z says that if a person truly knew how important it is how significant it is how big the reward is for getting somebody to do chuva he would leave everything he's doing and start chasing people to in the middle of the streets to get them to do chuba for how long his whole life 70 years that's all he would do if he actually knew the value of actually helping people do Chua he'd leave everything he start chasing people not wait for them to come to lectures like they're doing him a favor he'd actually go to them oh is a here okay I'm going to go to his house yeah but he didn't invite you doesn't matter I'm going to his house hello yeah you there yeah you don't keep Shabbat start giv him lectures but I didn't invite you to the house I want I want 310 that's what you get every time you get somebody do CH says you get 3 worlds when somebody understands and really understanding it 5 Seconds you understand it five seconds I say it you understand it you're not you know I speak English can say it in Hebrew also if you want believe it is something different believe it is something completely different a lot of people understand everybody watching right now they believe they understand what I'm saying even people didn't watch understand what I'm saying to believe it is a different story why because if you believe it it changes your life if you really believe that getting to do CH is the number one most important thing on the planet it changes your life why you can't look at the world the same anymore the significance of the rest of the world changes to you you no longer have time for nonsense you no longer have time to go watch the game you no longer have time to just read a Harry Potter book you no longer have time to just chitchat you no longer have interest in materialism so much why you got to save Jews you think I'm going to waste my time going to uh you know to the store to go pick a watch waste three hours of my day to go pick a watch i' rather not have a watch why I go save a Jew those three hours if you believe it everything changes if you believe it your finances change your mentality change your relationship at home changes the way you raise your your kids Everything Changes cuz now everything now revolves around K everything revolves around getting people to do CH cuz you realize this is number one but not everybody has the and the reason why is because in the book of Jeremiah says to Jeremiah and obviously to us that if you bring someone that's making sense someone that's not keeping Shabbat someone that's not and you make him into a precious meaning if you get him to do CH you get him to keep Shabbat you get it to keep you get it to become modest you get it to do cha you'll be like my mouth what does it mean you'll be like my mouth just like I said 10 words and created the world you will have the power to do the same say to such an extent the power that hasem gives people that do kiru like Runa in thear is to such an extent that even if hem passed the decree a negative decree decided so and so is going to die he gave him the disease cancer or some type of disease and rauna came and said no hem save him don't kill himem says I passed the decree you said no fine no change the decree of change the decree of why your partner you're full partner so that's why when rauna died they say where can we bury him where can we bury Runa so says Where can we bury rauna what there's a plenty of Jewish cemeteries not a problem Jewish cemeteries can't just burya anywhere why it has to be next toim okay there's plenty ofad in those days not like today where uh maybe one in a million you're going to find somebody keep Shabbat many many the days of the so why they having such a tough time finding a grave forun says whoever he's buried next to has to have the Merit to be buried next to him why he wasn't just a sadik he did he was a page 25A it says only one only one person around here he can be buried next to who why also did K he could be buried right next to him so okay so who has the Merit to now carry the body and put it into the cave of RAB and bav and his he was buried with his two sons who has the Merit okay buried next him has the Merit but now who has the Merit to actually carry the body of raun it's so one guy one says I have it I have it I'll do it no problem no problem what's the big deal he what's the problem reminds me of uh my uh grandfather ala shalom sa Gabriel he my uh my uh mother's father GI sadik and he used to bury in the days of the war they were in tripol and the bombings all the time and he would go into the rubble he would go into the rubble and take out the bodies take out the bodies and bury them him and his brothers will they were gim they were they were like the uh Heroes of the uh of the city because a lot of the Arabs used to try to kidnap the Jewish women so him and his brothers would go into into their Arab Villages and take the women back they'd fight him and his brothers would go fight with the Arabs if necessary but they also look like them and they acted like them they meaning they they saw them as equals weren't like a regular Jew oh this okay no problem why you want the girl back no problem why he they had no fear no fear but never said two words so anyway when there were bombings and so on he would go and he would take the bodies and bury the bodies I'm thinking about I get scared just thinking about the story I get scared so he would tell my mom and her sisters and all you know the whole family every Friday he tell them stories and uh you tell him all types of stories of how when he goes to the cemetery at night he sees different uh you know different things different things that you only see in movies but he saw it in real life see different Spirits different this different that talking this moving and so on you know it very nice story says yeah you know and sometimes I see them in my hands goes what you mean you see in my hands go I see all the people that I buried all the people that I buried I see all their faces in my hands when I look at my hand I see him so my mom tells him I heard this story a thousand times and if I hear a thousand one times it's still exciting to me why it's unbelievable what he said unbelievable M the of of of my grandfather it's it's just it's very simple wisdom it's very simple wisdom but it's as relevant as you're ever going to get my mom God bless she was tiny little girl she asked my grandfather she goes ABA aren't you scared you see faces and your hands of dead people you're not scared binci my daughter you don't need to be scared of dead people you need to be scared of living people living people you can be scared of dead people what are they going to do to you you have nothing to be afraid of if you think about it it's 100% true not just a th% true so back to the brought rauna into the cave and now R is very next to his two sons and the spirits of the of the sikim remain at the grave so the brothers one tells the other says no move it's not cavod for H to wait for for this guy to make a spot for him move give him your spot give him your spot move so he moved and the guy and it created like a fire like a spiritual fire so the guy that thought he had the Merit to go bury him got so scared he ran away left the body there and ran away even to be buried next to someone that's a you have to have a merit so imagine supporting it imagine doing it big deal it's a very big deal but not everybody has this Merit and the reason why because you could have millions and millions of dollars it's no question but where that millions and millions of dollars are going to go to only hem can decide that it all depends on the Merit there's many people that donate money there's many rich people in am and am is known to be very generous per capita the Jewish people are known to be the most generous people in the world there's no questions asked the problem is that a lot of the generosity goes to stupidity it goes to save dogs cats Dolphins uh certain species of butterfly uh Bertha the elephant a gate in the noahide zoo all types ofy in the world these are all real foundations by the way there's really places to save dolphins and butterflies and the Tigers and the zoo there's one family in Israel donated $400,000 which in Israel is an enormous amount of money $400,000 for what to build a gate for the elephant the the father that died they build a gate for an elephant in a zoo in a noide zoo for the Merit of the life of the father that died so every time the elephant poops next to the gate it's helping the somehow I don't know I mean the stupidity of people the stupidity of man leads him to make sins and then he gets mad at hem for punishing him it's like okay you want to donate a gate donate a gate you want to donate a building donate a building but how is he going to benefit out of the gate for an elephant how but that's the foolishness of man why no merits M why no merits hasem says if you donate that $400,000 to go save am to get them back to to start saying every day to start putting on every day to start listening to every day I have to fulfill what you say if you say if you ask me for something the deal is I have to have to fill it why I told Jeremiah and I told Ezekiel and I told mosenu I told you say something I'm going to do it why you're doing K I don't want you to do K why I don't want to do what you say no deal I rather you not save am is than do what you say why because what comes out of your mouth I don't want to do it what comes out of your mouth I don't want to do it what are you g to ask for you GNA say you GNA say ohem uh I'm going to save one Jew let me uh give me uh another $10 million so I could buy another strip club so you save one Jew and you kill another 30,000 a week I don't want to fulfill your wishes hasem you know I'm going to save one Jew give me another 50 million dollar so I could get a whole neighborhood of of bars and casinos so okay so you saved one Jew but you killed 50,000 a week I don't want to fulfill what you say not everybody's gonna have the Merit not everybody's gonna have the Merit it's very sad and it makes life very difficult for me makes life very difficult fori makes life very difficult for R makes life very difficult for anyone that does real kiru rabbis speakers there's plenty you can get a new speaker every day of the week for breakfast lunch and dinner you're still going to have leftover at the end of the year speakers there's many many but people that actually you come to a lecture and people come out of the lecture doing Chua very few according to a big Rabbi that I know spoke to maybe two weeks ago in his opinion he says there's less than 10 in the world Hebrew English French whatever together all together less than 10 in the world and he knows I didn't second guess him he threw me in there I don't necessarily uh whatever I don't debate I don't have the right to debate anything but he says there's less than 10 people in the world that actually get people to do real Chua to to to to do a few meets yeah every speaker get you to doah you come to a speech he tells you listen do so the whole crowd says okay tomorrow you going to do it too no okay come on guys No I gave you guys free cookies everybody do all of a sudden everybody's basali everybody the blessing so loud the neighbors are complaining are you do you do every blessing like that no it's just right now you're doing why to show off that's not chuva that's just one okay you got the guy to do mitzvah chva means the guy broke his Stone heart and replac it with a flesh heart he is decided or she has decided what hem what does hem want he wants this I'm GNA do it what doesm want he wants this I'm GNA do it even though I don't like it even though this doesn't make a difference chuva means you're removing yourself from yourself you you replace yourself with Hashem what does HM want that's what you care about that's chuva very few people can do it very few people want to do it one of the big reasons is because it's very very difficult to find donors because it's not even a matter of people not wanting to donate it's a matter of most people don't have the Merit to donate because if I get somebody I say listen SE T seph let's let's let's start let's write a SE T you go to any B you want poor Rich Syrian ashkanazi this every B tell listen we're going to do a fundraiser for for seph T you're guaranteed to get the money the same day doesn't matter how big the seph is could be 20,000 or or or 100,000 guaranteed same day you're getting the money no questions asked everybody wants to do SE how many people do CH because not many if any you tell somebody listen we're gonna have a very big poing party porm is coming up in a few weeks we need to come up with uh $10,000 for the bouncy house and the zoo to come to the this and a this and a that same day cash 10,000 maybe I'll give you an extra 2,000 just in case the horse costs a little more in case the Little Ponies need a little extra tip they give you extra no question how many people do from poing parties not so much you tell people listen I'm gonna buy some gar I'm buy some gar for the betet each set is $2,000 it says $2,000 we want to buy five sets five sets $10,000 same day maybe a day and a half it's not as exciting as a t a day and a half cash 10,000 why 99% of the time thear sit in the walls collecting dust no one ever opens them no one ever looks at them but they look good for anyone that comes to visit oh wow look how many books you have he doesn't know that no one actually reads these books they're just collecting dust on the walls the Rabbi says against the gar but he has thear over there he says look we have it in thear yeah you open it though you open it no you never opened it hey open it but we tell people listen we have all these The Party The Party The all of those things is good what about am itself how about we get them because right now 94% 94% of American Jews believe that it's 100% okay to work on Shabbat a Pew research that came out a few years ago says 94% believe that it's 100% okay to work on Shabbat now why is this a significant number because 10% 10% of American Jews keep Shabbat meaning 90% don't 90% of American Jews don't keep Shabbat unfortunately but 94% believe it's okay to work on Shabbat which means that 4% that keep Shabbat actually don't really want to keep Shabbat they say that technically they're only keeping Shabbat because it's family or it's like friends it's whatever it's like custom in reality they believe listen if you need the money it's perfectly fine to work Shabbat work on Shabbat that's what the statistics are telling you if 90% are not keeping Shabbat and 94% saying that it's perfectly okay to work on Shabbat which is the opposite of keeping Shabbat that means that part of the people that are actually keeping Shabbat are saying it's okay to work at chabat meaning that the the T the impurity of our sins is also infiltrating the few religious ones that remain it's not just the secular people that need help the religious need just as much help different ways different days but nonetheless the same thing so we tell Hey listen why don't we help people do chuva no I did chuva already five years ago why' you do chuva I keep Shabbat okay you keep Shabbat so as the monkey keep shabat you have to CH what I keep kosher I keep the holidays I have a Suka it's big of my house fine so you have a Suka you have kosher you have you have you still have to do ch ch means you have to replace your heart CH means you have to replace your will with hm's Will that's what Chua is it's not easy to do you tell people this they look at you you have five heads no you're you're you're stringent I'm like it's not me it's R go to go to G then ask him how come you did like this this what CH is ask him maybe maybe a leniency for you maybe there a leniency for you maybe you have Chua is different I don't know Chua over here is different so when it comes to actual people don't understand the value of it people don't understand the significance of it people don't understand the need and the reality is even if they do it still doesn't mean that they're going to have the Merit to do it to be part of it even if they do like it and they appreciate it and they believe in it and all that still doesn't necessarily mean that hashm is going to allow them to be partners why maybe they made a lot of sins that not yet he doesn't want them yet or maybe they have to do chuva themselves like I have plenty of people that love what we do but they themselves are not ready to do Chua they love the fact that we go and we give lectures and people do Chua and you see people putting TI on they never put a TI and watch they love it but they themselves are not ready 100% to do CH they keep a few they're getting stronger you can't keep watching the lectures without getting stronger but they're not ready 100% to jump on board so I always wonder how come you don't donate or give or this or that why Shem says why you're not ready to do Chua you want to be a partner of chuba how and sometimes you see the most unusual things in the world sometimes I see that people that are not even Jewish people are not even Jewish willing to mamash sacrifice their life sacrifice their livelihood in order to help this is what we call the righteous among the Nations I got a few guys like this that seriously each time there's a donation that comes from them it doesn't matter if it's a dollar or it's a thousand it's always amazing to me because why do you care I know they love hem obviously they love the Torah they watch the sh they they're doing by themselves some of them want to convert but they're not ready yet for different reasons because of living situations because of this sit well different reasons but still I always ask myself you just this one kid I always talk about this young kid my M this kid impresses me every time he's almost 20 years old not even 20 years old but he's a father he's not like a 20-y old playing with video games like the idiots of today playing video games he's 20 years old he has a kid already he's a father makes makes 350 bucks a week he doesn't make much money he has a son you have to support the kid I have two kids 350 bucks a week is not enough for them just diapers I think is 300 bucks a week God bless him this kid is M he donates 20% of his salary donates $80 a week I don't know how he does it but obviously hasm gives is giving him blessing his money he donates $80 a week which means that's 300 bucks a month 320 $ a month that's more than most of the people that I have that donate that make 10 20 30 50 100,000 a month there's some people that I have that literally make a 100,000 a month when they Sendak $25 25 I had one guy three months three months God bless him listen it's not his fault even I'm not trying to insult anyone this is a reality I'm trying to explain to you what it means to have to have married to do chuva and to have Merit to be part of doing of helping people do Chua there one guy three months he's telling me he wants to donate money three months I say okay there's a website www.org even if you misspell the you'll still get there we have the one with two e with the one e you'll get there get even you say.com you'll get there also just just type it in go on the website you have PayPal PayPal you want some other one there's five other way five different ways to donate if you want to donate you don't want to donate online because of whatever reason send a check the address is on the website also you don't want to donate with a check you don't want to donate in the mail come to the lecture send a dove with the change what do you want me to tell you there's a million and a half different ways to send a money three months he's telling me he wants to donate but he wants to meet me and he wants to see me and he wants to this I don't do meetings everybody knows this here I don't do meetings unless it's M Life risk I don't do meetings I never did meetings in the business world I don't do meetings in the Torah World why I believe it's a complete waste of time in the business World each type each meeting that I actually ever had had to be at least seven figures for it to be worth for me to come there in the business world meaning you have to give me minimum a million dollars for me to show up to a meeting why it's a waste of time you could just call me you call me we do the same thing why am I going to show up to a meeting and we chitchat and you ask me about your kids and our kids and that dog and the cow and then they that finally when we get to what we want to talk about it's three hours into it takes five minutes to talk about what we need to talk about and then I go home we could finish the whole thing in five minutes why am I going to waste three hours of my time for five minutes just call me you want to do the trade we'll do the trade fine deal finished you don't want to do it keep your money in the bank will you do me any favors I always tell my clients I have more money than you I don't care I don't need your money I have more money than you I'm my biggest client you know you want to send the money send the money want send the money I have more money than you anyway you're not help him I'm helping you that's the same mental I'm not going to go spell no no but I want to meet you I don't have time to meet you and that was arrogant but that was me in the business World in a Torah world it's very different I don't have the time not because I'm arrogant and I'm still I have my own for but because I'm learning T I'm not going to go spend three hours of Torah time that maybe maybe I'll have a chance to get the GED maybe I'll have a chance to maybe I'm going to go take 3 hours of Torah time to go talk to you about your what about the cars and houses and the food that you're eating what's the meaning about it's five minutes five minutes well you want to donate okay here's the check give me the check goodbye see you later why you want to talk about a problem a personal problem 15 minutes it doesn't require the meeting the meeting is always hours it's always hours the meetings it's never like f no there's no such thing as a five minute meeting doesn't exist everybody knows you guys have you come to the sh I meet with everybody after the sh everybody say No No 5 minutes 5 minutes 45 minutes later we finish with the five minutes 45 minutes later we'll finish with the it's never five minutes so I know it so whatever I limit my meetings to the actual lectures but the thing is though that some people say no no but I want to donate they try to bait me like I'm a little kid like I'm a you know a donkey and they they're giving me a carrot no I'm going to donate I'm going to donate so this guy God bless him God bless him so I'm telling you I feel bad for him I feel bad for him why the guy three months three months he's telling me he wants to donate I want to donate and I want to be part of this and I want to do this and I want I'm thinking this guy wow this guy that's the guy been waiting for this whole time he's going to fund the books that we're trying to do the CDs the movies the few new employees we need to get the office the bet midash he has money it's not like he's poor three months three months he's talking about the Donate I said okay I don't have time to meet I don't have time to meet anyway I don't fall for it but we end up meeting I don't go we end up running into each other at a different place I don't go I don't do the meetings but we end up running into each other in a different place running to each other oh good finally whatever we talked for I don't know a half hour yeah o h okay great yeah yeah I got the check he gives me the check the check is this big he gives me the check and I don't look at checks whatever until I get home or I get time sometimes I don't look at the check for a week whatever the check whatever it is a check I go home the check and I'm thinking okay so what is it going to be okay the amount three months okay if let's say for example the amount of stuff that he said he wants to be a part of minimum 50,000 but I said you know what I don't have that I don't have that kind of uh there's no way I don't have don't way 25,000 then on you start start thinking about what some of the things he said I'm like no no don't wait 25,000 it's probably 5,000 okay but 5,000 is still not so bad we can still do some CDs still do some things with it it's 5,000 5,000 is good like you know what 5,000 yeah maybe four maybe three maybe two you know what let's just see what it says I open a check how much a check guys who who Who's give give or take, without the zako $36 $36 $36 I got $36 $36 two times High I rather get M at least m is 440 but you understand you understand it's not his fault it's not his fault mean it's not his fault guy made Les no less than 50,000 last month no less than 50,000 last month but me skin $36 all he can handle is cannot handle more than $36 it cannot it's unbearable for his if I tell him listen we're doing a seph Tora I'll write me a check for 10,000 no problem if I tell them listen we're going to go buy I don't know uh Hanukkah parties for every sh in the in the uh neighborhood I'll write me a check for each Hanukah party no problem I tell the guy listen we have to save free lectures free books free the to get people do cha $36 all the Nish can hand that's all it can handle that's all it's not his fault it's his fault but it's not his fault you understand the best is sometimes abai is this is all for toilet not to make fun of people this is just a reality I was on the other side of the boat too myself I donated a ton of money I donated over a million dollars in my life it didn't go to kiru it didn't go to kiru only in the end started going to K the first 900,000 didn't go to k so the reality is is that sometimes you don't realize that you don't have any Merit you think you're doing good you think that you're doing good you think that Hey listen I give money to this yiva I give money to this uh Rabbi I give money to this this this this you think you're doing good you donate a lot of money every month but you still have a lot of problems in your life still have no your kids are getting off to Health crisis you pray hm is not answering you pray is not answering what does it mean it means that your is not working that's what it means if you're giving money and you still have sicknesses in your house and you still have no schom and your kids are not interested in Torah that means you're the is not working there's something missing something's missing you're either giving it to the wrong place or you're giving it for the wrong thing or it's not getting there you're giving a million dollars for people to learn to and in reality the organization is using it for toilet paper use it for toilet paper somebody this it's a true story somebody came to one of the in previous generation and uh Whata he told him I want to donate for your a million dollars million dollars a lot of money has a check in everything not just talk has a million dollars cash what's the problem he's a Catholic priest he's a Catholic priest now if I the rav says I don't have the uh memory to remember his name but I I heard the story just the other day the r says if I say no if I say know it could bring it could create hate why they say what the Jews are not accepting our charity they think they're better than us huh you know what I'll use that million dollars to go buy weapons that kill them so if I say no it create anti-Semitism on the other hand if I say yes I take the million dollars I can't use it for T I can't buy with this million dollars came from I can't use this million dollars for for Tora I can't use this million dollar to go uh get people what could I do ah had the idea no problem we'll take it what did he do he bought a million dollars worth of toilet paper and different toiletries for the bathrooms for years literally for decades the Yesa Thea had everything they needed to do for the toilets they didn't have food me skin even food the the didn't have food sometimes but they had toilet paper they had napkins they had m is that serious it's a real story 50 years ago that's a that has today you give any anybody a million dollars that well we'll buy the rabbi too with the million dollars the rabbi will buy for the million dollar put in a package we'll send it to the church with you if you want well you know what bring your Christian priest to our synagogue like this idiot from poon tried to do he paid the guy $40,000 to come give a shield to to Jews $40,000 you giv to a Catholic missionary to go give a lecture to Jews this this is the stupidity of men today so when say take take my portion what do you mean take my portion you should be give my portion or give your portion it's doesn't make he says it's my money anyway it's my money anyway you have to decide if you're going to be the vessel if if you have I'm going to give you $5,000 I'm going to give you $5,000 you can decide to use the $44,900 of it to buy a watch and $100 for kiru or the opposite many people tell me no listen next month next month next month I don't ask for money but you know they always tell people always like tell me yeah I'm gonna donate I'm gonna donate F don't donate donate donate don't donate makes no difference in my life it's better for you but people always like tell me they're going to donate okay so donate oh but not now next week okay so next week I don't have now I'm thinking I have now okay and then you see the person posting on you on on Facebook they just bought a watch for $115,000 okay so you don't have $1,000 to give to K you don't even have $50 to give to C forget $1,000 $50 to give but you have $115,000 to buy watch this is again it's not his fault mkin he just doesn't have the Merit he doesn't know it it's like somebody has cancer doesn't know it someone has he doesn't know mkin he's the he's more someone that has cancer and knows it is much better off than somebody who doesn't know it so that's what people need to understand last but not least since we're already on a topic and then we're going to move on to something completely different there's the issue of what we're trying to doing this fundraiser on the internet for a while now and a lot of people ask me what is it the the bottom of it mean because people like to ask where's the money going so I put a list of all the money where the money is going not a single dollar is going to me so no one has to worry about me getting rich not even a penny goes to me um all of it goes to all of's money goes to K no one has to worry about me being being rich I'm still G to stay where I'm at right now um no people are worried No is's going to get rich come on no then he's not going to give lectures anymore so people ask where's the money going so I listed it but also on the bottom I said that we have this thing of we're going to give a uh M for anyone that donates $5,000 whether they donate $5,000 one time or they sign up to a recurring $400 a month whatever it is so I got these Special M from a big in Israel uh the M themselves just themselves are worth $300 CU they're big they're extra big CL and they're coming from a big and then we got special casings from it which I give you a few of the examples uh and we're going to get more in the mail in maybe uh two months from now takes a while to make them I only have a few left but anyway for this fundraiser that we're doing on the on the internet for $250,000 it's not the annual budget it's just to get us to complete some of these projects it's not all we need if it's all we need you have to add a few zeros all we need people are worried about oh there 200 telling you get rich off it is not even paying for all these projects but anyway the few things that on this list because some people don't know what the money is going for so I'll just repeat it once and for all maybe we'll make a clip out of this so people know where the money is going to again not a penny of it is going to me so you don't have to worry about me being rich you don't have to worry it's fine people that are worried about me being rich or me taking all the money and and going back into the stock market I'm not going so what's the $250,000 going to it okay currently currently with or without the $250,000 somehow we're doing these projects how we're going to pay for all of them I have no idea that's up to hasem it's his problem but this money would help every one of these projects first one the uh CD the first CD by ra there's already a CD it's almost finished as far as making the CD uh and we need to print it we need to print you know many many copies each one of these CDs cost money I know we give it for free but they cost money so Robert F's first CD we're about 65% away we're 65% into the project pretty much what's missing is the last two steps of the CD the design is already made the last few things as far as picking the lectures and the money second project is mass production and distribution of my CD number three we have number one and number two we need number three next thing is it's actually not on this list but uh this actually just came up we we are officially 500 CDs away no a thousand CDs away from finishing all the CDs we have we have no more we're out of CD number one and two so there's a few left in the car there's a few left in the warehouse we're finished so we have to do another run of CD number one and two the double CD uh and we have to do CD number three uh CD number three we haven't even started we have the lectures but uh next is the big thing the the biggest thing that I think we're working on already for over a year sadik in California has been working on it app the app is theem I just got noticed from uh Apple today that they're reviewing it and it's in the final stages it's been reviewing it for already for three months it's not so easy to get an app approved but it's the app itself is finished we just need the final uh tweaks with apple which can take another month another week I don't know yet but it's in final stages he finished the work we just need the final things from Apple so that the app will be released very soon uh the website as anyone that's gone to a website was renewed about uh five months ago needs constant maintenance there's errors there's bugs there's different additions constant maintenance we need somebody to do that uh more than what we have now the KY packages even though everybody sees the C packages we advertise them it's $95 for domestic C package it's $200 for international if you want to ship it to Africa or to Canada the shipping is very expensive you want to get it in America it's $95 and we keep adding more material to it in the beginning was just a book in a few CDs Now it's 12 CDs two books a bunch of posters um but the best part about the GU package is that 99% of them nobody pays for nobody buys it for $95 99% of them give for free once in a blue moon somebody pays for the C package 99% of the time anyone that's gotten the C packages knows you got it for free no one can say oh I paid for the C packages it's rare if you do the numbers literally 99% of them are give for free so why because I tell people listen it's $95 oh okay let me get back to you I'm like okay okay I'll send you for free get back to me you you we die next week without Chua what's going to be they're going to come to me and TR and say oh for $95 your uh your your fellow brother or sister Jew didn't do chuva so I can't take that on my so uh next thing is uh DVD DVD with the different movies that we made we have over 30 movies a lot of people like them this is good stuff it's another thing but it's still early stages I mean it's I mean the movies are made we have uh one two three for f five movies in the makings right now five movies in the makings right now one guy in California one guy in uh Florida and one guy in Israel making movies for us bem some of it cost more money some cost less some of it doesn't cost it's charity but the point is it's all time consuming and uh cost money lecture tour lecture Tour all of these lectures New York Canada California all these different things people want me to come but somebody has to pay for it and uh since we give lectures for free people think that it's free it's not free it's cost money cost money for a plane it costs money for cars it costs money for all these things so we need money for that also uh the USB driver with a lot of the lectures I'm not exact to be honest personally I'm not the biggest fan in the world of the USB things cuz even though you can fit a lot of information on a USB I think that uh it's bad for Market it's not as good for marketing you can't fit that much marketing on it but whatever we're going to try to do some of it print a few thousand of them uh social networking uh uh and media and marketing uh production of more more um oh here has five of the movies I told you about each one of the movies one of them is 25% in two of them are um over 50% two of them were recently released and there's actually two other ones that also about 50% so there's four 50% two recently released and one is at 25% uh then there's the huge projects brother frim has three books it's a three book series called D that already were written they're already published in Hebrew but We're translating it to to English uh it's about the first book is a is a about every par second book is about every single significant day in Judaism whether it's sh is azv and so on is a from the T in different places about each one of those things and the third book is a about every single every single tractate in the the entire so it's a fantastic book in Hebrew but most of our fans don't read the Hebrew so we're we've been working on it already for almost a year to translated to English we're about I'd say almost 50% 50% uh more than 35% we continue so we're about 50% in as far as the translation part uh and then obviously we have to print it uh oh uh's third uh there's a he already wrote two books there part three of shot questions answers series that he has uh he already wrote the first two and published the third one is in print right now it's being printed right now hopefully will be released next week next week will be released in Israel next thing is the uh supporting full-time Torah Scholars we have an average of about uh several s thousand a month we sent to Israel every every uh every month several thousand every month we sent to Israel learn to full time some people partner with us specifically for that some people donate in general we use the money to send to uh so that's an ongoing thing it never ends we'd like to increase it obviously to to help more people but the biggest project personally for me is a six book series that is my book it's six books uh of M six books six books six books maybe even more about M the uh sources just like the lectures just the lectures the pr vot series printing it we are right now still early stages I think we have maybe maybe 300 Pages written so far 300 P which is like a book but there's a lot more there's a lot more so it's probably I think by the time we finish with the whole thing it's probably going to be like 10 books but it's big it's a big project it's going to take a while I don't think we're going to release the whole thing at once probably going to be one book at a time but takes time for somebody to write for somebody to this it's all me doing some of the uh the information but I need help with different things so this is also why cuz some people like movies some people like lectures some people like books some people like CDs so we got to get any way that we possibly can now the $250,000 will pay for some of all of these things it's not all of them just the books themselves that give you an understanding just the six to 10 books themselves my that project alone is not going to cost anything less than $100,000 by the time we'll finish with it so just that project alone is no less than 100,000 it's probably going to be even more 150 so obviously the 250 we're not going to use half the budget just for that book you have to get more and the CDs each time you buy order CDs is 25 $50 $100,000 obviously this 250 is not for all of that it's just for so that's the thing so we're trying to get as many people as possible now to encourage some people uh to donate uh we have these mot from Israel we have some left but we're getting more that a special made like I told you each Meza is it's very very special um and the scroll is already in it we already have put the scroll in it the scroll is much bigger like your average scroll is like let's say the a little smaller or about the size of a coffee cup this scroll is almost double the size so it's a much bigger scroll and we have different houses special houses that we got from y that are in it the M itself is probably around $300 three 300 to $400 in in America uh and uh Israel it's also expensive and the house itself is about probably in Israel it's probably close to $100 in America it's probably double that the point is it's very valuable but still I mean we're not going to give you $5,000 worth of stuff five for for some of the money is going to go to but the point is anyone that donates will get one of these M it's very uncomfortable for me to ask anyone to donate but the point is this is what we're doing so this specific mza I'm giving to the B as a present because we've been doing lectures over here for the last couple years as a sign of thank you very much for all the lectures for learning to with us this it's been an enormous amount of that we've learned and this is for you the other ones look like it some of it look different this one is beautiful also it's metal um each one of them is uh has its own uh has its own Beauty this one's also beautiful we put it back in the Box because you know I'm not going to carry mus by themselves but each one is metal and this it's beautiful beautiful stuff anyway the uh campaign is going and this is the last time when I talk to anybody about money BM I don't like talking about it if I want to talk about money I go back to Wall Street but at least people know that it's available it's very very very uncomfortable to talk about to and and money at the same time usually people have like assistants I have my assistant just hands up me me also I'm My Own assistant so we go back to has starts off with in regards to if you're going to give give with your full heart not with just words don't be one of the the M it says the righteous say little do much the wicked say a lot do little the wicked say a lot do little so the u t here one of the uh beautiful things about this parasa also is that there's actually two verses in this Paras that are proofs for the oral tah the oral tah that all of the secular people that don't want to do Chua all of the uh Christians the missionaries especially that battle the the the oral Torah um they say where does it say in the Tor oral Tor says written Torah where is say oral Torah so actually this par has two verses that are proofs for the oral Torah in chapter 26 verse 30 uh hem tells mosenu that you know as far as building this Tabernacle he told them all the instructions what to do how to do it and so on and so forth but in this specific verse he says you shall erect the Tabernacle according to its manner as you will have show you you have been shown in the mountain meaning you saw how I did it what do you mean you saw I did it hasem literally showed mosenu how to do everything which means that it's not just what's written in the Tora that's our Tor there was also part of the Tor that was shown and told to mosenu that's not that's not actually written and that's what we call the oral Torah in this actual uh verse it's said twice it said twice in this Paras one I just mentioned to you the other one is in chapter 27 verse eight verse eight also again it says as you were shown on the mountain so shall they do so again obviously showing that there was a lot going on in Mount saai much more than Moses just going collect to uh tablets so now going back to our Mish it's already been now talked a lot so having fun so the uh the Tor the mishna continues and it says that the things that were created B we had the Mana we had the uh Torah we had the scripture and so on the next thing is a very interesting subject that a lot of people like to talk about is the mazikin mazikin means these destructive Spirits so people love to watch scary movies people get an adrenaline rush by watching watching scary movies but here we're not talking about a scary movie here we're talking about reality now when hasem created he created him on the sixth day and the same thing with even though she was a second after him he took a bone from his rib and made he created them complete afterwards afterwards the explained to us this Mish commentary on this Mish is that he created many other Spirits many other just like he put for example the soul in AD or one part of the of and and then he put the body and connected the two in essence after he created ad he also created many other spirits but he did not complete the creation because Shabbat started Shabbat started not all to create on Shabbat even hasm has to keep Shabbat so before he actually ever gave these Spirits bodies Shabbat started and therefore they were if you will not really but if you will you could say that they were like incomplete creation they were created that way for a purpose but in essence it's what's the what are these maik maik are these spirits that in essence could have been human beings complete human beings like you and I they could have been they are they have the ingredients they have the makeup they have a part that we have but they're missing the body they're missing other parts of the also for example we have they don't have they have do they don't have so it's different parts they have different parts they don't have in essence it's like a incomplete creation Now one of the reasons that hasem made these shind dalits is to show us how significant Shabbat was Shabbat is so significant that even hasem stopped his own creation I mean technically couldn't created them in a second he doesn't really need but he said no no I I did it right in the moment right before Shabbat to make an you know like somewhat of a illusion or an implication that I stopped really because of Shabbat he really didn't stop because of Shabbat but it's more like an analogy or a metaphor that it's a he didn't complete the creation because of Shabbat to show you that Shabbat is so important that even hasem stops working on Shabbat doesn't just say it he really does it so that's one thing the second thing is is what's the really the bigger meaning what's their purpose these creations why couldn't he just complete them on Sunday the next week is because as they are they're complete for what they need to do what are they complete for they are the tools that hasem used is to punish us one of many there's many other tools there's tornadoes there's earthquakes there's diseases there's many things this these specific Spirits they exact retribution on man for a sins that's what the says that's what the says that's what the says all the agree this is not like a debate there's no they have a single thing now page 52a says an enormous story where there was a couple that would fight on Shabbat constantly and one day they came to they said always fighting when are you fighting all couples fight here and there when you fight he go no we always fight on Shabbat oh fight on Shabbat something's wrong something's wrong there's something in there's something in something's wrong not enough there's this there's a lot of things shabat is a holy time now a person needs to know that when they come home from on Shabbat there are two that come with him the says one is a good one one is a bad one if when he comes from the house is prepared it's holy the the Shabbat is prepared the salads are already on there the everything is good there's good mood there's good even though the kids are driving the mom crazy still she kept her spirits up she's excited for Shabbat and it's a good environment the good Mal says may next Shabbat be just as good as this one and the bad one even though he doesn't want to he says I'm in against his will he says I'm in now if it's a bad environment where as soon as you come home fromet your wife is still in a robe she doesn't really want to do Shabbat the kids want to play video games no one's interested in keeping Shabbat the the food is not even made yet you're going to eat some uh some uh some fast food the bad Mal says may next Shabbat be just like this one and the good Mal says amen this is why sometimes when you have a fight on Shabbat you have to do everything you possibly can to do as many mitv as you can throughout that entire week especially on that Friday before Shabbat begins why because already the Mal says the next one is going to be bad so you have to do everything you can't to save the next Shabbat and get out of this cycle that you're in get out of the bad cycle that you're in this is also the secret if you remember I told you a few months ago the secret behind why when someone makes a sin at the times of the bet mikdash they told him to bring a uh bring aan you ask the question what is a poor cow why is she at fault for the guy violating Shabbat by accident what the cow do what the chicken do M he should be uh slaughtered not the cow he says the cow obviously is is really in essence supposed to be the person being slaughtered so it's representing the whole Slaughter of the cow is representing that really for the sin even though it's accidental in reality if hasem wasn't merciful he would uh Slaughter the person instead of the cow but why do this whole act why can't he just uh just say okay I'm sorry says because he has to right now even though it's an accidental sin turning on the light by accident or violating Shabbat by accident or doing something by accident was an accidental sin it's still a sin even though it's accidental it's still a sin and since the Torah says one mitvah leads to another one sin leads to another the reward from Mitzvah is another Mitzvah the reward for a sin is another sin you made a sin even though it's it's accidental it's still a sin which means that unless you break that chain of sins by bringing aan you're going to make another sin it's GNA get worse so go go go make the first M bring the cow bring the chicken do thean do something as soon as possible to make a mitvah to break the chain of sins that you started accidentally because you started accidentally but if you don't bring a Corban you don't do Mitzvah right now the next one is not going to be an accident the next one's going to be on purpose cuz you're already in it has already taken control so these mazikin when are they created they're created when we make sense and each time these couple that came to got into a fight they create more of these maik every time a curse word came out more miking came out cu each sin creates either or either a good angel or a bad one you say blessing you create a good Angel you say curse you created a demon and the says it's also the sources of when David says 10,000 on your right hand and a thousand on your left hand what does it really mean it means that if a person really saw all of the beings next to him he'd see that there's 10,000 demons that want to rip him apart right now but the Thousand righteous ones that you did some are protecting you you have 10,000 angels and a only a thousand sinful ones in reality most of us have the opposite in reality most of us have much more of the opposite that's why you have to do Chua every time you do chuva every time you make a Mitzvah you're destroying them so went to the house says you have to sanctify his house make some and he did a few different things using and he kicked out the Satan himself out of the house he said you got got to the point you got Satan himself showed up not even the demons he himself is in your house and he kicked him out of the house and Satan got angry at he said you're lucky I kill you you're lucky I kill you imagine that just thinking about what says the Satan is All Eyes he's so scary and so big just from seeing him mankind dies some sees him dies just from seeing him doesn't have to touch him that's how scary he is so the talks a little bit more about them so first and foremost page 61a it says meaning the son of he gave a lecture he said what's what's what's what's the verse in the Tora in Genesis 2:7 it says it says that in the verse in Genesis 2:7 it says that AEM God formed man but it seemes that the word uh formed has an unusual spelling there's two letter udes usually it's spelled is spelled with one UD so what's the second UD he says one is for one is for so you see this is in in the verses it's in the writings it's not just a a figment of our imagination he says this word is the only time in the entire T it's spelled this way it's not a spelling error it said this is in Creation in creation this is the time in this specific verse cre you have one good inclination One Bad Evil inclination good inclination will try to convince you to do mitv bad inclination will do everything you can to get you to do a they make sins so and it shows different verses in the Tor of different sources saying the same thing but rimoni said got scared from this why he says o wo onto me for my creator y for woe unto me for my inclination my evil inclination why woe unto me he says this evil inclination this yet is so strong W unto me how am I going to deal with him and if I don't deal with him W unto me when I meet my Creator too because he's going to punish me for not dealing with him to me if I don't do who's saying this T someone that can revive the dead he's scared we we think we're all going to G him he's scared to death just just someone said you have he said oh to me I have just hearing got start new so now why why he saying to me because he knows what the outcome is early in the the same page six it says what actually happens what are these things what are these things that are created from our sins ABA bamin ABA bamin says if the eye would be granted permission to see meaning everything that's around it no creature would be able to stand in the face of the demons that are around it is saying if you actually really knew what's next to you from your own creation not somebody else's stuff not somebody else's Sins Not somebody else's problem your problems what you did he says you wouldn't be able to survive you'd get scared to death why they don't look like us it's not uh not your friends not your boys AB says they're more numerous than us there's many more of them than us meaning if let's say there's eight billion people in the world there's 800 billion of them 800 trillion of them it's not like it's one to one and they stand about us like a ditch around the mound what does it mean they completely surround each person because each time he does something it creates it each Act something creates itun the same one we talked about before it says each one of us has a thousand of them to his left and 10 th000 to the right like I said the verse before this comes from Psalm 917 and R says Raa says do you ever go to a lecture he says this you ever go to a lecture you ever go to to Torah lecture not going to T Tony Robbins lecture you never go to the Torah lecture you ever go to a Torah lecture and you feel like you're being squeezed like you don't feel comfortable you're like you can't sit down you just can't sit down just you went to election but you feel like you uncomfortable the chair is not comfortable and all of a sudden he smells and she smells something wrong there just you ever feel that ra ra is saying this you ever feel one of these things maybe your your legs all you're sitting down but your legs got tired you're sitting down but your legs got tired all of a sudden your legs hurt your feet hurt or you're standing and all of a sudden you're like unusually tired you ever feel that because you know why it's all due to them they're doing it to you he says where else do we see them they ask him where else do we see these demons where we see what they do he says you see people learn T notice especially in those days today depends where you look but especially in those days poverty was everywhere it's not like today today for Better or For Worse the world is rich For Better or For Worse especially in America the world is Rich poor people in America are considered rich in comparison to previous generation so he said Rabbi students people that go to to col and and study for that's what they do they study all day you everever notice they look worse than everybody else why they have holes in their clothes they constantly have holes like you give them brand new shoes next week the shoe opens up like it's about like it's like a whale why why why why is why is their clothes wear out so quickly these people have learned T he says they're affected due to their rubbings meaning rubbing against these uh these demons and they're affected and uh those feet that are knocked are affected due to them so this requires a little bit of an explanation is a little bit of cabala but it's necessary for you to understand what I just said the the the the impurity the power of impurity in the world in order for it to live in order for it to survive it has to have Kus like it doesn't just survive off of sins it actually survive off of what kind of mitv if someone for example made a mitvah but he regretted it regretted that Mitzvah the entire mitvah that he had goes to he regretted making me he gave a donation and uh then he said ah you know what I could have bought a watch with this money I could have done this ah is better off he has enough money all this whatever he did something or he did uh you know he went and bought kosher food he said ah the same thing the same thing kosher not K all the same thing he regretted a mitvah or he went to besset and he ended up missing an appointment ah I shouldn't have gone to B the entire that he has goes to so the T the impurity feeds off of people that learned T they're not make the same level of a so these T these demons are constantly trying to bother them to get them to make sins now since they can't get to them because they're holy and says the um people they're complete fire the demons and different Spirits keep trying to bite at them to to get something out of them they can't because they complete fire so what do they do all they get is their clothes they keep making holes in their clothes they can't get the they can't get the body but they're going to get the clothes at least that's all they get and then it tells you how if you want to know if they're around in those days it was more possible I don't know if it's possible today if a person wants to know who's next to them he could do whatl did SCH if you remember inim in Song of Songs it says that he has 60 strong men 60 Heroes surrounding his bed why 60 Heroes surrounding his bed cuz he knew who's next to him he saw them he was friends with them some of them but he knew they're also trying to hurt him too one of his friends was the king of them ashai was his friend ashai was the king of the Demons one day he got a uh they got into a uh little tiff got into a little argument now these demons they don't have power like us they don't have the same thing like us so this ashai kicked he kicked schlomo kicked him and schlomo went all the way to the other the other part of the world he went across the world he Liv lived it's not like he physically he went through he got to the next corner of the world and as changed form and became SCH so now people thought he and this continued for years it's not like a week why becausei it's not they don't have planes he's not going on uh Jet Blue or El and he's uh flying back to the kingdom he has to travel back he has no money no one knows who he is after after a little while the war the the the clothes that he has tear up he looks like homeless one day he gets to the gates he's like they start beating him up it's like you you who are you you homeless person you're saying you're you're King they start beating him up me skin so what is he going to do he just uh sits over there sets up shop he's homeless now King the mashia comes from him he's sitting in the uh streets homeless while this demon is running the country he's running everything how do they figure it out how they figure it out one day this fake schlomo the demon comes on tol's mother B he tries to come on to her she knows her son is a sadik what's wrong with him say something's wrong here something's wrong it's not my son what do you mean it's not my son he looks exactly like him physically it's exactly identical can't tell the difference not like it like a scar it's not a costume it's not a costume he physically looks exactly like him so how could it be she was a holy woman say it's not my son something's wrong so how can we know put refined powder put powder around the bed put powder around his bed without him knowing so when he wakes up in the morning he's going to walk on it before he knows why because the shim they have three fingers like a chicken their feet are like a chicken like a rooster so throughout the whole day he always had his shoes on so no one knows what his feet look like but he's not going to go to sleep with his shoes on so he says we're going to put it and we're going to see the Footsteps in the morning if they have the footsteps of a chicken or rooster or or batana or what is it called batana those big Birds arrich if it has a footstep like that then we know it's not schl and that's exactly how they found out so now what's going to happen to him what we're going to do where's scho then where's scho one of the servant says you know your highness you know that there was some uh homeless guy there was some homeless guy that said heo a few months ago go find them they went found them they found this one went back to his kingdom but this was a that got so the says someone wants to know what's around them don't try this at home by the way because I don't think even if you even if there is or there isn't you don't want to know trust me it says you put a bunch of uh powder around your bed if you have footsteps of a rooster they're there that's what the says there's also another way that you can see them but this one I'm not going to tell you and the reason I'm not going to tell you is because I know there's going to be an idiot that tries to do it I know there's an idiot that's going to try to do it and the problem is that if he actually succeeds the rare chance that he actually succeeds to do it we can't undo it which means he's going to go crazy if you see like I said if you see what's not what's really next to you you're going to go crazy and I don't want anyone to go crazy anyone that wants to go see it and find out for themselves they can find out for themselves I'm not going to take it on my own it's for you to go see these things it's uh it's too much of a responsibility we already have enough problems we don't need to create more so the second system I'm not going to tell you for your own good for your own good not I think you guys are going to do it but I know somebody on the Internet is going to try to do it and then uh put it this way somebody actually did it somebody did it somebody did it on uh in the one of the T tried doing it he did it he succeeded and he started losing his mind because he was so scared he couldn't move until the all gathered together and prayed for for hem to remove this thing now we can pray all we want we're not it's not going to work you understand so since we're not t and we can't do it I'm not going to take the chance of anybody learning for this yes over and took to get back I think it was three years considering how much he knew a little bit less Ken Ken Ken he did come back how to do what do you mean travel through time travel through like what uh uh through a dimension of some kind there is a limited amount of information that I know that's that's not that's not part of that limited information uh I mean listen it's also you have to understand is that just because somebody knows how to do something doesn't necessarily mean that hasm will let it work you know that's that's another thing now there is another thing there is another thing that we need to know about these demons it looks like we're going to have five shers about this something because this just this thing is very deep there is something more when is the time that a person creates the most amount of demons wasting seed like typical a a typical sin that a person makes usually makes one makes one sin makes one demon the problem with wasting seed for men is that there's many sins being made because each seed is a sin of its own it's an independent sin of its own it's an independent a uh demon of its own that's created which means that each time a a man Wast seed he's literally creating hundreds of millions of them hundreds of millions of them so it's obviously a bad idea to do but no one talks about it now in page 16b it says that each time seed leaves the organ of a uh the member of a of a male an angel is appointed over the seed and the Ang angel's name is Laya and this Angel takes this drop and brings it to Hashem what will be with this seed what will be with this seed is it going to be rich is it going to be poor is it going to be alive is it going to die is it going to make it is it not going to make it rich tall you know and so on and so forth what's going to be master of the universe the problem is when a man Wast the seed the angel can't do the same thing why the man already decided with the fate of the seed to kill it problem is that the seed itself already has something in it's already a being so each one of these seeds creates a being it's an incomplete being it's an it's a demon and now that demon is actually considered his son and that demon is telling him ABA how come you didn't give me a body how come you didn't give me a body how come you didn't give me a body how come you didn't give me a body and we've talked about this many times the scary aspect of it where literally that as the the r says in that a person literally needs to understand that each seed has a potential for good and evil each seed has the potential to be the mashiach or it could be Hitler each seed but you deciding but you deciding what that this is going to be wasted you've decided this is going to be Hitler you've decided the fith for it but Hitler for you not for anyone else for you not for anyone else him and 100 million of his friends I'm going to tell you something I never said before about the same subject says that if at the time of intimacy between a husband and a wife if there are pure thoughts if there are pure thoughts in the mind of the wife and the mind of the husband this is cre creates that the sh of the of whatever comes out the seed that actually that laa brings to asem and Hashem says okay this one will live this one will be twins this one will be a baby that's a boy or a girl whatever because of the pure thoughts of the parents during the ACT not before not that he went to and he read sh all day no no during the act itself he's thinking about Hashem because in Judaism in the tor the intimacy between a man and a woman is Holy it's not like the go where they think it's filthy and disgusting in Judaism the intimacy between a husband and a wife is a holy event if you make it into a holy event so if the thoughts during that time Are Holy says the will be pure that that succeeds Hashem says give this one potential of being mashia unlimited why the thoughts the thoughts of the husband the thoughts of the wife were pure during the most difficult time you can say otherwise the says it can be an evil soul that that would have major difficulty to do chuva meaning as a Jew you're even expected to control your thoughts during the time that you're intimate with your wife or husband it's not just being being uh good thoughts when you're inet or when you're praying to Hashem even during a time of intimacy an evil Soul can get to such a point where it could have it could be created in a way that it's difficult for it to do chuva already predestined this is a soul that's one of the of doesn't mean it can't do chuva it's G to have a difficult way to difficult journey to do chuva sometimes you see certain people you tell them the truth 500 times they don't listen 5001 they're going to listen why what was the one difference nothing 500 you have to break the stone 500 to break the stone some people like that an evil Soul just like it's given extra power from Sham in order for it to beat in order for it to create evil it's also given extra power to beat the too so it's still measure for measure it's not that hasem you know ties its hand behind its back it's that he gives it a lot of power in both ends a lot of power to make evil a lot of power to make good the same of mosenu could have literally been the complete bam and if it beats it if it beats the this Evil Soul it could attain the highest levels of Kusa so now heroes are going to say okay so I might as well think bad thoughts give my kid a chance to be M please don't do him any favors like somebody used to uh somebody said this story one time about that a person came to them and uh asked him to borrow some money he had life saving he said listen I'll give you money give him 100,000 shekels and whatever the was you supposed to give it back to him in six months years passed he never gave it to him Stein you borrowed money from he didn't get paid back he didn't pay back five years later five years later he comes and he wants to give him the money back oh no don't worry you don't have to give you don't owe me anything what do you mean go love I'm sorry I was supposed to give you five four and a half years ago and give it to you now no no after I saw that you didn't give it back to me after six months I figured you can't give it back to me so I decided already it's a present keep it so it's not an a it's not a sin I don't want to what's going to happen with sin that's a holy person so the very same R steinerman there was a guy that plenty of times people went against him anyone that's people go against him so it was a guy that went against started embarrassing him later on he realized that he made a mistake later on he realized he made a mistake and he came to apolog Stein came to apolog I'm sorry no Shalom thank you very much I appreciate it you did me a big it's good for me thank you the guy is shocked he's thinking that uh he's going to get it on the head really what he deserves instead is telling him thank you for embarrassing me he doesn't know what to do to himself he's okay okay he starts turning around and walking away goes oh and by the way before you go oh yeah yeah just one thing you did me a favor just don't do the same favor for anybody else for me I know it's a favor for me but nobody don't try the same favor for anybody else so don't make this uh future baby any favors now the biggest I just learned recently every single time we've talked about wasting seed we've talked about men because men have seed and men have a problem the rambam calls it the most difficult thing to do chuva for why because it's more addictive than any drug once a person is addicted to wasting seed whether it's by himself or with somebody doesn't make a difference it's very very difficult to overcome this uh this addiction but according to the Ben I love a shalom he says that according to cabala when a woman has in essence an orgasm whether it's in our dreams and in essence on purpose unintentional or so on she's also making demons if it's not used for the purpose of recreation it's also it's in essence the almost the same level as a man it's not the same level because not actual seed but according to theab says it also creates bad bad spirits there's no free lunch no free lunch now this the uh the calls wasting seed for a man the biggest sin in the enti so there's no there's no debate of whether it's allowed or not allowed like like some people think that it's it's okay it's not a big deal since everybody does it for some reason people think that just because everyone's a Nazi it's okay to be a Nazi just because everybody's a you know does bad things it's okay to make bad things this is completely illogical just because the vast majority in the world don't make a lot of money does that mean you're not going to make a lot of money no you're still going try to make a million dollars why because you want to do good so you can't look at all the bad and say oh because everybody else is bad I'm it's okay for me bad too no Tora says not allowed not allowed to such a point that a person literally is self-destructing and we've talked about it extensively I just want to cover some of the things that uh we didn't talk about before so these maikin these incomplete beings are created mostly during that such an act both for men and women both for men and women which means that modesty and watching your self as far as how you use the tools that hasm gave you if you use them for Kus for Holiness you have nothing to worry about why good is going to come out of it if you're thinking that uh you and the animal should be able to behave the same way animal works on Instinct and you're going to work off of instinct just because you feel like doing it you're going to do it then you should know that you're going to have a lot of new friends you're going to have a lot of new friends they're not really your friends I'll give you a last thing maybe it's scary enough didn't scary yet I'll give you scary enough a little bit we're already in it might as well go all in go in the um Shalom used to deal with these things something something called a debuk a debuk is when one of these Spirits goes into a human being person walks around they do something the spirit goes into them and takes control over the body this is like the but it's like the movie exorcism or Exorcist or something like that was made 30 years ago 40 years ago it's a real thing a debuk is a real thing it's not so common today but it used to happen very often years years ago and more and though only holy holy people like AB the uh the uh and people that were experts in this specific field were able to even deal with these things so actually wrote a whole book about his different conversations with these things so one of the times that he actually talked to a person that was controlled by someone you would find out what's happening in the next World what do they see who's next to them da different conversations scar is can be scarier than the scar unbelievably I'm not going to give you all the details people think that this world is the real world they have no idea so now one time he sees there's a poor woman that was taken over by some person she doesn't know who it is and this person is torturing her it's not a person it's a demon but the spirit took over her body and he's torturing her how is he torturing her he's having sex with her he's in essence raping her imagine non-stop this is for a woman this is like the the night better off go to G why this woman was how how how did you have a right how did you have a right to uh get into this woman she said she covers her hair with a scarf she's moded she prays she's a good woman how do you have a right to get into her what' you do oh one time she got upset at her husband and she threw something and says when somebody takes something he's in the middle of anger he throws something it's in essence like he's giving Corban to the Satan himself because anger is a what you're worshiping the Satan himself how do you actually exercise it by breaking something during anger you break something during anger you threw a remote across the room you threw your phone you threw the kid you threw the table you did something consider himself all of us have after so now says one time she got she goes to mod the dress is this big everything is good but she one time she made a sin worse thing what she threw something after she got upset at her husband she threw something that gave me the right to enter now this specific Spirit wasn't a normal one why because usually would be able to say a few holy names and they would run away these things they' leave sometimes it a few hours a few days a month this one nothing works he says this one is something different this one is unbelievable this one is this is this thing is too powerful so now he starts asking who are you what's your real name where were you before this where were you in the world he doesn't want to tell them and they fight and eventually he says who is this sh sh is one of the worst human beings that ever lived in history he was a false Mah a few hundred years ago but before he became a false mashiah who's a bigal there's a big wasn't an idiot he was went crazy now after he found out who he was he started asking him other questions what's happening to him he says listen I'm only here because I'm I'm running away from all the uh that sends to beat me every day for my as a punishment for what I did they torture me they this they beat me so one time and I let you guys go with this story because it's scary enough especially for men he ask him how do you look how do you look now he goes oh way I look I'm full of hair like a like a wolf why because of all the uh sex crimes that I made during my life hasem made me disgusting his hair coming out of every place out of every poor disgusting and sweaty and gooey and gross and naked said them and he kept asking him question having much conversation and then he stops talking like is talking to him he doesn't talk he doesn't talk back but he sees that the woman is going to like she's conving and she's like CH like something is happening but he's not answering for a while eventually he starts hearing the voice again he says why don't you talk to me why don't you respond he goes I'm dealing with an enormous amount of pain right now he goes why because one of the Angels one of the just came and ripped off my testicles people think that the sh G is everything that's there it gets much worse the point I'm trying to make why did all of this happen to these people because of sex crimes in yip yip before before we y Kip we just prayed for a day straight you barely have any breaks on yum Kip there's no eating there's no drinking there's no nothing you don't you're not even allowed to sleep very much you should sleep very little in Yip after we've prayed so much you figure that you're holy no no no before make sure you do a special a special for what all of the sex crimes you committed there's a special just for sex crimes no I didn't do all those you did you did if not now in your previous G if not now last year two years ago 10 you didm didn't have the write it in the for no reason people need to understand hasem considers the breit holy that's how started with abuu start with so you you take when when someone desecrates the ble they're taking everything that started everything and they're making it to they're taking all of the Power all of the Kus that put into this world and they take that and put it into the garbage this is why every mother must teach her kids these things not wait till they're 20 years old and it's too late already the father must teach their kids these things if there's a father he it's better off he does it than the mom cuz the kid's going to feel a little uncomfortable if the reason the mom needs to somebody needs to do it don't wait till the kid's 15 why if he's 15 already it's too late you have to explain it's uncomfortable it's uncomfortable for me to tell you about it but no one else is telling you do you understand it's not comtable I think it's comfortable for me to talk about this every other day I've become uh the uh bre expert every single day somebody's telling me about their uh their uh their problems and people get graphic people get graphic they send me these emails they start now now they want me to become a sex therapist too that I don't do no seriously because they think I'm telling no one else telling you about it so you have to do this is Torah too it says actually inar one of the T taught his taught his daughters how to please their husbands when they become married why it's toah you need to know why it's a holy it's a holy event it's not filthy like people think but you have to prot protect it if you don't protect it then you're an animal meaning you're either and or the cow the lion the Hena there's nothing in between there's nothing in between I'm I'm that serious it's either you'rea on the Discovery Channel and you're working purely off of instinct or you in sah you have to decide is that serious so it's funny but it's not funny you know so that that's the thing that people must understand if you don't teach the kids young kids 11 12 years old before he understands what it all means not after he's already used to it he's addicted to it 13 14 year old kids they're destroying civilizations every week they don't understand what it means and they don't learn the stuff in Yeshiva either and people there's actually research research real research done by scientists that are completely not Jewish completely not religious purely scientific recent not talking about just 186 years ago that I have a book that said it recent it said this stuff destroys your body meaning overusing yourself your sex drive and so on and so forth so the point is there a lot of good things and a lot of bad things if you use it for good you'll be good use it for bad be bad point being is anytime you have a difficulty arriving to a difficulty staying in a t a difficulty understanding Tor a difficulty praying a difficulty with schom for whatever reason your wife can't stand you you didn't do anything but she can't stand you for whatever reason your husband can't stand you you know you didn't do anything but your husband can't stand you your world around you can't stand you like something's wrong you always feel like something's wrong you're like itchy but you're not really itchy like you feel like there's pressure there's always like anxiety something's going on but nothing's really going on nine out of 10 times it's this nine out of 10 times this is what it is many times I've tried and proven it's nine out of 10 times is this very rarely it's something else so people need to understand it's not like uh oh you're too it has nothing to do with stringency this is basic level minimum this is mishna It's M it has nothing to do with anything else this is basic level Jews non-jews everyone so you have to decide do I want to be AA a lion on Discovery Channel I want to be a Human Being Human Being has to act like a human being not like the guy that uh yelled at me on the highway for absolutely no reason and then decid to spit on my car like AA why because I had uh my brights were on and even though no one was in front of me it didn't affect him but he decided that I'm an idiot and he he has the right to spit on my car because I had my lights on it's if you know this is this is a person that was better off that uh his mom had an abortion instead of having him because this guy doesn't realize what what his purpose in the world is he's a Hena but is not supposed to be holy be holy CU I am Holy that's what hasm says what does it mean be holy protect your breit that's what it means protect your breit so I think this is the end of this specific section we're going to try I mean it's kind of late we'll try to go into one other one last one then we'll finish because the other two are going to take a while is grave this is a mamash seriously you can make a lecture just about this why because decided that mosu is going to be the prophet of all prophets after mosenu perfected himself there's actually a very famous mid where one day this King heard the story of mosenu and he uh asked his uh people to go and and draw mosu him draw mosenu they came they drew him they went to the desert they saw Moshe they drew him and they came back and then he had these uh people that were able to read faces and the character traits based on a ficial features and uh he said what so what what's this person tell me a little bit about him he didn't tell him who he was what do you see about this person I said oh this guy's a rash he's a murderer he's evil he's angry he's this he goes I'm going to kill you or I'm going to kill you why either you didn't draw Moshe you drew maybe bam you drew or you guys don't know you've been lying to me all this time you don't know how to read faces why because it can't be that the same Moshe that the god of Israel freed all of am for is is wicked and evil it can't be he said listen uh your highness uh this is what he looks like and the other one yes and your highness is the truth that's what we see so you know what only way I can prove is if I go to the desert myself and find him he travels into the desert he gets to Moshe he looks at the picture he sees M this is like they say in Hebrew like two drops of water looks exactly like him with the drawings how can it be how can it be this is him so these guys are lies I'm G to kill them said hold on a second what are you gon to kill no I'm going to kill people telling me you you this why why they say it and he told him the whole story goes no no they're right I was born with the midot of a murderer I was born with the midot of someone that had anger worse than anyone else I was born with horrible horrible midot but I perfected myself and I worked on myself and the toah softened me but in reality they're both right the drawing looks like me and the midot match but I've worked on it and that's why the ramb in says what's the difference between mosenu and all of the other prophets why is he the prophet of all prophets that was able to speak to hasem face to face meaning at the highest possible level everyone else had to speak to Hashem through prophecy that was through sleeping epilepsy meditation they weren't awake mosenu walking standing up straight and talking to hasem like you and I talking to each other what was so special why says because mosu perfect to himself each time a person works on a character trait and fixes that character trait if they overcome let's say for example they were stingy and now they've worked on it and they're no longer stingy they've broken a wall that was separating them and Hashem they used to be angry now they know it's not good to be angry why everything that hasem does is for the good so why should I be angry they've perfected that they broke another wall that separates that them in hasem which means that each of the prophets also had certain amazing character traits to be a prophet but there were also certain character traits that weren't perfect mosu literally perfected every single one of his mid to such an extent that the rambam says it was the difference between the separation between him and Hashem was like a glass window nothing there's no separation so that's why he said hm show me your honor meaning I've perfected my M I got to the highest level Hashem says no one can see my face and live meaning youve have you have gone to the highest possible level of communicating with me through perfecting your midot that you can be as a human being any higher you cannot be a human being anymore you can't stay in the world anymore you've got to the highest level so now this mosu thear in page 13A says that hasem concealed his tomb he decided to bury him himself and not let anyone know where he's buried as it says in the book of Deuteronomy 34:6 no one knows his burial place to this day meaning to this day now etern no one's ever going to know where mosu was buried in thear it says that there was a bunch of people that went looking for his grave based on where the Torah says roundabout of where they were they started looking and they found something they found a cave in a mountain where at the end of the cave they saw that there's some type of Tomb special holy something something's there they started running running running running running they got to the end of the Tomb nothing where' It Go it went to the top of the mountain so another guy says okay I'll get it he went over to the top of the mountain running running running get as he get closer he moves somewhere else and no one can ever get to it no one can ever get to it why hasem says it's not for people to get to why why why not for people to get to the very simple explanation is just look at what happened with some of theik that died in recent history and what people have made their tombs into they've turned people that are holy what they turn them into false gods they go to their graves and they start praying to the rabbi not to God they pray to the rabbi if the rabbi was able to to to come back to this world he'd kill all of the people that are praying to him the rabbi is is Holy no one doesn't want anybody pranked him he's not God if he could he'd kill all the people that have pranked him why he suffering in sham for this they're embarrassing him look at your students look at your students they're praying to you what kind of students do you have they're praying to you instead of praying to me is telling them they're praying to you instead of praying to me what kind of students do you have don't you know in a that says the need to be careful with their words need to be very careful with their words to make sure to tell their students don't pray to me I'm not God I'm not the mashia I'm not anything I'm just a Yi that's it that's why people make even funny jokes they say certain things oh yeah you're mashia yeah you're sadik you're nothing I'm nothing you're nothing everybody's nothing why it's all AEM it's all AEM it's all AEM 100% not even not even 99% it's all AEM the more you realize that it's 100% hasem the better off you are why because you're closer to reality the more you think you've done you contributed to the world you've contributed to mitv you've contrib contributed to your company you contributed to anything the less less room you're leaving for hem the farther you are from reality so Hashem did not want to take the prophet of all Prophets and make it available to the public why because he already knows the future if they're making a local Rabbi into a God or some imbecile that people killed 2,000 years ago into a God and cows into a God and snakes into a God and everything into a god what are they going to do into the only person in history that actually spoke to God face to face he says he's too holy I don't want to ruin it no one's ever going to go to his grave no one's ever going to go I don't want to ruin it he's mosu he's my special mosenu that's it Hashem says no one's going to go to his grave no one's going to do any lat no one's going to do anything we don't need your candles we don't need your prayers we don't need nothing a lot of people say oh yeah I'm gonna do seventh of do let's do a special for what what you think he need your help you need his help what you think he need your help study T study his Five Books of Moses that's the best thing you could do he doesn't need your and your candles and your special study Five Books of Moses every week read like you command it to you're fine and that is the end of that particular one I think that the relevance the relevance of the grave of mosenu could not be more relevant than it is today because many people love their rabis so much they've turned them into a god and the problem is that when you did that when you turn your Rabbi into more than a rabbi you ruined him you ruined them you ruined your connection with hem he may be holy he may be great he may be smart he may be a lot of things but he's not God and he's not the middleman between you and God why one of the 13 principles of faith in Judaism is there's no middleman not even mosenu is the middleman not even mosenu no one there is no that's that's the difference between Judaism and everything else in the world we don't believe there's a middleman you want to pray you pray directly to God you don't need Moshe you don't need the rebi you don't need rad you don't need the rambam you don't need you don't need anything you pray directly to God to be even uh the the grain of sand they stepped on once in their life but we don't pray to them we don't pray to them why not allow not allow and the reality is that even though there are certain and certain stories where for example Shalom at one point of his life he was uh losing his vision he was losing his vision and he went to RF Caro's grave and he he prayed there he prayed not to rabf he prayed at the grave and he asked for rabf Caro to help him and fight for him in sh because he has he wrote the he says fight for for to heal my eyes why because what's what's in it for you I'm G to take your and I'll publicize it all over the world my whole life's journey is going to be to publicize your and he prayed his prayer was answered and his eyes healed even and the rest of his life he wore these red glasses to protect them even more so because he knew what it was to lose it he was Doctor was saying you're going to go blind so yes there's Gul but why do why does the rambam say the rambam 900 years ago say don't go to a grave don't go to a grave at all ever why because the reality isai most people don't know how to do it most people go to Graves ofik and pray to theim they go to the graves and instead of praying to hasem and praying to get the sadik to TR for you and maybe you're going to do something in return it's like a business transaction not you're praying may help me help me help me for why why would he help you oh i l a candle for you take your candle and uh go sell it we do your candle do what are you going to do oh have a I'll learn your Torah I'll learn your Mish that you wrote I learn thear that you are a part of okay that's something I'll do teach different things that you said that's something but people just go and they say no no help me help me this one help me that one for what so what do they do they turn these sikim into Idols they start praying to them says don't go and don't do anyone any favors why you don't know how to do it anyway it's a place as T it's a cemetery anyway it's not ideal for people to go there anyway and either way the ones that are going they don't know how to do it and instead of going to get a merit of a of a sadik to help anything that you need special assistance with special instead you went and Idol worshiped so this is one of the things that's happening every day today every day people are making this mistake they're praying to the sikim you're not even allowed to pray to you have to pray to Hashem you have to know what to do you have to know how to do it in reality don't pray to anyad pray to hem you'll be fine you'll be fine even if mosu was here tell you the same thing don't pray to me pray to hasem this is the mistake that the Christians made it didn't start off the way it started now Christianity didn't start off the way it is right the original Christians were fools but they weren't uh secular like the Christians of today a lot of them were fools they were ignorant they were illiterate but they were somewhat religious though but now then they turned their man into a God and everything turned into a complete idol worship it's completely 100% idol worship that's why the ramb that the Christians are 100% idol worship so it's very very critical to understand the difference and that's why better off not in my op opinion don't do it at all unless you are 100% sure of how to do it but why if you could pray to hm why you need anything else people do this all the time they go to the oil in uh in New York for the rebi Lich REI or they go to uman for or they go to Morocco with different sad that are buried there or they go to Israel and they different Sim there yes if you know what you're doing do it enjoy if you you have nothing else to do and you know you are not a go ahead you could do it you could spend a little time doing it I don't know spend an hour a year doing it but uh you know as far as the people that are going there on a regular basis even if you know what you're doing you shouldn't do that whatever an hour a year is fine you know but that's the thing that's the that's what people need to understand and hopefully we'll finish thisn next it's already late it's almost 12:00 um sure you have a couple of questions then I'll let you guys get some sleep uh what's uh anything question keep clear and holy mind during the time of relations okay how can that be achieved because if someone is not allowed to think about when he's naked and doing relations who not to drink Dr you're naked no the correction you're not allowed to learn T in a filthy Place filthy place means there's bad smell because bad smell is bad for the N if you're doing a prayer for example if you're doing a prayer the minimum requirement for you to do a prayer is to cover your private parts so if let's say for example somebody asked me this question the other day if somebody wakes up in the middle of the night and uh let's say he sleeps with shorts on or with boxers uh does he have does and he goes to the bathroom does he have to now to say because you have to say aem's name does he have to Now put on a shirt and put on long pants and on a and the whole thing to do the prayer or he's half asleep it's the middle of the night it's 3:00 in the morning just woke up in the middle night went to the bathroom or should he just skip the prayer no he doesn't have to put anything if he has at least shorts on he's covering his private parts he's allowed to he should put a keep on but he doesn't have to you should keep it put one he doesn't have to he does not have to put a shirt on he should but he doesn't have to meaning if it's either going to be don't do it you're not going to do it or you're only going to do it with your underwear on or with your shorts on it's fine you can do it why because the minimum requirement to do a prayer is that but but that is to do a prayer to think about AEM it's not only it's not only that you can think about Hashem all the time but you have to think about Hashem all the time the issue of what you can't do in a filthy place where it smells whether it's the bathroom and it smells in a bathroom or even it's outside and smells for example if anyone that has kids and let's say for example you're picking up your kid and your kid went number two at that moment your kid went number two and there's a smell you must stop praying or learning whatever is doing until you remove the smell so even if you're in the middle of a uh for example uh women that have babies this is a constant problem why let's say for example she wants to uh pray amid she's obligated to do amida once a day she's probably now according to the Tor you're not allowed to stop says if someone comes to you and tries to talk to you in the middle of amida not let to respond to him if a snake start craing on your leg not let to stop am only if a scorpion why a scorpion because then it's m like risk snake is not 100% life risk or if there's a king and this king is known that if you don't respond to him he's going to kill you then you're allowed to break otherwise if it's not real life for is you're not allowed to break it but that's for men women on the other hand women on the other hand if you have a baby if you're caring for a baby unless you're in the middle of amid and the baby is crying and you know that if you can continue to finish finish but if you know this something is happening or perhaps the kid went the kid went number two you can stop don't say anything don't stop the like don't uh start talking GUI GUI just stop change him or her remove the smell and go back to exactly where you left off you don't have to start again as a woman you're allowed to do that why because in reality if a woman was not allowed to do such a thing she would never be able to finish amid why because if she has more than one kid there's always somebody crying there's always somebody going there's always somebody doing something it's not possible for her to have pray so obviously it's a this is something that's a lot it's a special leniency for women men on the other hand unless there's a scorpion so if you have scorpions in the neighborhood should probably move though don't hang out with scorpions so someone need allow to think no Contin continuing with the things as far as thinking about hm you're allowed to think about hem and you should think about Hashem all the time even more so when you're intimate with your wife even more so why look at how your body is performing it's it's it's it's an extraordinary machine where you literally have something that is nothing is going to turn into a human being I mean if that if anyone like if you actually go to any of these doctors that deal with births you know these whether it's men women doesn't really make a difference I actually went one time went to one of these doctors the doctor was completely not a religious person I don't know what she was or whatever but she saw us we obviously look religious and immediately soon saw she goes isn't God wonderful wow there's a reiton didn't even know doctor's a rabbitson you know what happens why she goes look at how amazing somebody she tells us she goes somebody has to be really blind and stupid not to believe in God cuz look something that came from she's telling us this we don't even know this lady what a nice lady she was something that came from nothing and I get to see what happens throughout the whole journey in the stomach of the wife and eventually turns into us somebody has to be stupid blind and dumb all combining together to not believe that this is God it doesn't make any sense it's it's literally nothing is turning into everything so when you thinking about the beauty of the creation it's very easy to appreciate the Creator if you're not thinking about the Creator that means you're probably not appreciating the creation if you're not appreciating the creation you may be a hyena you guys like the hyena analogy we're going to use that next week we're going to use that one we're going to sell we trademark the hyena we going to trademark the hyena one next next question no we learned says you have to have pure thoughts what's pure thoughts thinking about bum and beastley what you think about what's pure thoughts pure thoughts thinking about hem pure thoughts thinking about the ofm the Holiness of hem how grateful we are to him how amazing he is how loving he is how extraordinary he is that's pure thoughts what are you going to think about steaks what are you going think about only thing that's any good in this world is HEM everything that's relating to whatever you want to think about is going to make you closer to Hashem it's going to give you good thoughts that is give you good children too because again remember the intimate intimacy between a husband and a wife when the wife isah when she's pure it's a holy event there's nothing wrong with it it's holy it's a seph t it's not like it's like a oh it's nice yeah they no no it's like it's Mount Si it's Mount Si I'll give you an example hasem says in one of the he says don't touch my one one don't touch my don't touch my what don't touch my what does it mean every single child every single Jewish child that comes to this world has the potential to be mashia hasem says don't touch my m every one of the little every one of these little babies has a potential to be a mashia don't ruin them don't ruin them so what if you thought if you thought about it like you're like we're supposed to and next time you change the kid instead of thinking oh little stinky little this little that oh he makes so much noise oh he's so annoying oh he this instead of that you're thinking you know what let's say somebody you know one of these little angels came to you say what the mashia what [Applause] mashia you know that this kid is the mashiah all of a sudden it doesn't smell all of a sudden the balagan is fine all of a sudden you're excited you do more poop do more pee break the house break this it doesn't make why he mashia he's mashia all of a sudden the kindergarten teacher likes him even though last week she hated him all of a everything everything why is's mashia that's what hasm is saying don't touch my M don't touch my little children why every one of them has a potential to be mashia some literally some figuratively meaning they could be the point being is is that if you understand that the whole aspect of intimacy in Judaism in the Torah is Holy and it could literally bring the mashia why wouldn't you think thank AEM why wouldn't you think about good things or you rather be H this will help us become closer to and get us to laugh a little bit but also get closer to [Music] [Applause] [Music]