Thank You Hashem on Let's get real with coach Menachem

okay welcome everybody to the program this is actually tonight our 11th Shear that we're doing hasem thank you Hashem that we're holding here we had a lot of big programs um and this is actually our one of our biggest programs M gonna have tonight um we're very very special I'm gonna give a very short Adama then we'll after coach opens up I'll will pass it back to me but in short um me actually coach went to a thank you hasem event in Brooklyn many months ago about eight nine month ago we're regular Lakewood dudes guys and we were very um inspired by by by the whole Shear that we that we went through and it was a was a little bit of a eye opening Epiphany light went on and since then I had me me personally I'm not going to talk for Coach himself I had a major life change and um I looked at things in a different aspect we'll get into details tonight we're here tonight to really we all Rari we're talking to people that know nothing obviously we thank hm we D all day that's what we do right so we're going to try to really break it down to what thank you hasm means what's what's the point of it what is it is what is this movement and we're gonna really break it down so we're gonna open up first with Coach Mam and then pass it back welcome everyone it's very exciting welcome to another show and let's get real with coach manim and tonight is really exciting but you have to feel the excitement and that's what we're going to do tonight so first of all I want to thank everyone again for showing up tonight and for all the people that are working hard behind the scenes to make this a success and it's really again unbelievable the feedback the emails the people are really involved to see how much people are gaining from this program so last week with rabi schaer we started the conversation how to make a real basically last week we we tried to close the gap from we all we all know to actually to be able to feel because we're all from we all know hasem runs the world he does everything everything he does is for the good and that he loves us even much more than we could we could imagine but there's a gap between knowing this and actually feeling when we're going through situations in life to actually feel it to live it and it was really amazing it was an amazing show and for those who didn't see it or for those who want to this share could go to mai.com um actually there was a problem um with the video from last week so we're going to have it up mem in a few days but um hopefully it'll be up and we discussed after the share that basically everything we discussed was still logic sitting by a show by let's get real And discussing auna and we're getting it and we're all inspired but it's still logic we have to take it to the next step to to internalize what we learned by slowing down and by starting to feel which is not easy and I feel this is going to be tonight tonight the program is going to be a little bit of exposure we're going to continue with the emotional part with connecting to Hashem through thanking and there will be amazing ideas Amazing Stories which um yes like um Oshi said I was by the program and it was unbelievable just sitting there and hearing what's going on we're actually going to feel our emotions going up and down so everybody should get ready for that and because it's exposure I just want to let you know before or if you hear some idea that you think to yourself this idea doesn't really sit with me just feel it you can say this idea does not fit with me but don't run don't run off the program just stay here listen start feeling these things whether it's positive whether it's negative and this will be some practice some exposure to get people more into that feeling and mem we'll be able to feel and thank and be grateful for what we have like the topic is so some people I got from the the emails the feedback um a lot of people are not sure what this is like ushi said is the movement being positive all day soem will hear everything tonight you don't have to be a breast you don't have to be a positive guy you don't have to be a hippie and you don't have to be flying in the seventh heaven you can be a regular person you learn new insights new ideas and uh that's why I'm very excited to have RAB burkwitz and thank you very much for being with us and we're having Jonathan riti to help us out to balance it out for for a lot of people that when they see over here wait a second this is some Kish thing going on I don't know if it's for us so he'll help us out to um get to make some sense out of it um so before we start I just want to mention that there are some people that are going through real pain and when you have a friend sitting in the in the the low dumps in really in the in the negative in the black whatever the situation is to go over to him and tell him don't worry thank Hashem is the worst thing you can do and for that you have to be an uh what you should do is you go over to him you sit down next to him you go down to his situation you listen to him open your ears and just listen be there for him that's all you can do for now and hopefully eventually he'll find out about this program or when he's in a better mood so there are people out there who are in pain and by coming on to this program they might think right away um no this doesn't talk to me yeah if they would know what I'm going through just to thank AEM this and that it's it's all ear it's a lot of ear so what I want to tell you is again I don't know where you are and Hashem should help us all we should we we should see we should see um positive things but if you're not up to this if you can just sit there and just listen and hopefully you'll get some insights out of this and you'll be able to change your life like it did for 30,000 and many more which we'll get to hear um right away thank you so much everyone and thank you again for and for RAB for being here tonight thank you beautiful beautiful opening first of all I want to start with thanking our sponsors this week we have our advertising sponsors we have the Lakewood Scoop for promoting us this week we really appreciate it I wanted to thank yanev and Robbie from kazak uh they offer programs from children's team singles couples Millennials Baby Boomers for our cherish seniors kazak is programming for all for more information please be part of kazak and I wanted to thank also Co live for sponsor us m m s I really appreciate it and I want to give a to and to be ready for coming here tonight the way the program is going to work tonight for everybody who hasn't been here before um this is not a Shear this is not a speech we are here all together to ask to be interactive and everything is an open platform here anything that you're feeling if you're too embarrassed to ask for yourself you obviously could ask for your neighbor we understand it's not a big deal and um but the point is we're going to ask the questions we're g to ask it as simple as can be we want to understand it we're going to break it down and we all want to be inspired here tonight and we want to really take something home we want to take away material tonight can we get some takea away material tonight what are you big time Big Time okay so we're gonna start off the program let me just make sure everybody's on the same page we're gonna start off first rabar burkit the founder thank youm will open up followed by Rush Hartz Jonathan RI everybody could see he's mysterious he's there and then we're going to go into a lot of q&as and we have a lot of questions and the more people could turn on their cameras the more people could be interactive the more Baka will be I want to first introduce AR burwitz Ari burwitz is the founder of thank you hasm movement he inspired over 30,000 people to live constantly with awareness appreciation of the Endless good hem gives us AR burk's big bio you ready for his bio here we go everybody AR Burk is a simple y a push he's a businessman and he has stories that could AR we can't stay here all night I'm letting you know there's a cut off time you're not gonna be able to hear all your stories I'm giving you a warning now but uh he has stories that I would almost say unbelievable because they're so unbelievable but they're real and I actually have my own personal stories from thank you Hashem I will get into that later because I'm going to be let's get real so rabari take it away okay hello everyone my name is Ari burkwitz from the thank you hasham organization I'm here tonight with over 30,000 people that thanking AEM and it simply changed their lives I started the thank you AEM movement first it started when I grew up in my parents house there were always people that told me Ari always for whatever we have we have a house we have a car anything we have we have to be thankful so we started with this then I got married and I started going into business and I realized something very interesting a lot of my friends are complaining they don't have fosa they don't have a car they don't have a job andem I keep on thanking hem and I see things are things are really moving in the right direction I thought it's first a mule and then the more I went in with the thaning the more I realized that it's a higher power it's not me I'm just a regular boo of Hashem Hashem brought us down to the world for one reason it says from the ramban is saying I created this nation for one reason that they should thank me and people will thank make sure that they have they have everything they need so they can continue to thank Hashem even more and a nutshell uh I went out from one company and I wanted to go in into real estate and I remember it like it was yesterday it was on a Friday afternoon and it was I would say two hours before this man and all of a sudden my wife tells me that one of my children has a fever and we need to go to the doctor I said okay thank you hasem it's only a fever and it's not worse so I'm starting going down to 45 I live a Mony and on the way I see a house for sale by owner and usually you see it by a real estate company here I see for sale by owner I called up long story short there's a woman that is looking to sell her house she's looking to get for it over 400,000 I said okay my price is somewhere in the 300,000 range if you want 400,000 it's not for me thank youm anyway and have a good chabas and she answers back thank you and good chabas I went to the doctor and the doctor says everything is good you can go back home now remember everything every little thing that happens to us there it happens to us for a reason and I said Hashem you made my child should have a fever and then the doctor says everything is good and I'm back home what happened here on Sunday I get a phone call from this lady and she said Ari I remember you told me gabas I used to be more religious come down to the house I want to show it to you she shows me the house again and I realize yes the house is wor more than 400 but I said Hashem I want to go into business I want to start making money I make a deal with you Hashem if I can get this house for a very low price I promise you I'm gonna start not only me thanking you I'm going to share this secret with the world that when a person thanks Hashem they truly see Miracles and their whole life is better so I send her a message before I go into pray and I said my price is with $100,000 less instead of 405 I said 305 and please let me know I go in I now when I instead of asking AEM Hashem please give me this please give me that I said Hashem thank you for all the times that I had everything I had in my life and I want to thank you even more I come out from SCH I open up my phone I see I have 31 messages but the first one popped up was from this lady Susan and it says these words Ari this is my lawyer's info I accept your deal keep on thanking God and everything will be fine I was blown away and I say right there and then Hashem you listened to me you gave me what I needed I just made $100,000 right there and then I said AEM I'm G to take it now to the next level and I started with WhatsApp I started with one group two groups three groups and I went on and today we have 26 WhatsApp groups we have group me we have telegram we have Instagram we have a website we have a hotline and whatnot we have over 30,000 people people are thanking Hashem they see Miracles and life is just good okay beautiful starting we're gonna AR we have a lot to get to I'm gon I'm gonna sa some of the big stuff r i want to tell everybody who doesn't know who ra is Rush is from lives in man he's the son of the current SP Williamsburg he's the grandson of the famous who dedicate himself to helping shine and grow rusha continues with the past with a Twist of professionalism studing by world leaders in human psychology he is working with couples and individuals to Achieve Personal breakthroughs and a fulfill and a fulfillment life as of today he's also inspired leader of the team of the thank you has movement to help people make positive changes in their life by living with Hashem please Inspire us we have we have the opportunity to be here tonight it's something we waited a long time and B we are here but as we start I would like to share about myself a few years ago I remember I walked in in Monroe New York where I live I open up and I saw said like this if you thank AEM you say course it's good you look out on the good things what you have this will continue you will have much more good coming from Hashem like say hi you say it's good said I will show you what good is I went through a difficult time at that at that um that period of time um and we know us and after I made the decision I would like to thank more called me up a short time after I saw this he told me look I want to openly thank you a movement would you join I say of course this is this is what we need and that set me up on fire and I started to change my life and it's not to compare and it had a lot of stories what happened since then so so I don't know you want me to start right now with the story or we come back later to it but it's not the same and by get in what I say is we got inspired and that's why we got to this point and I'm saying it other people if you get inspired by us do not stop right there continue and Inspire others that will help and hold you flame going and you you keep the momentum going so let's say you you sign up the thank you Hashem website over there you have all the platforms you sign up over there but you have to make sure after you got inspired to make a commitment I got to do something tonight which will help me go on a different level and not fall back in all negative pattern just to have a beautiful life in many years to come amazing bua I I don't want to do this but I I'm gonna ask you to please say the story what happened to you with your child uh when you started to say thank you hashm and then we'll go to re re as short as you could say it please we didn't touch thank you touch yeah so when I started this the it got involved and thank youhm I know I have to work on myself first before we can Inspire other people I made a a a decision I made a commitment to myself every morning before I I get up after saying I will thank AEM for 72 things I do have so I will do that for 40 days and at that summer when I started it I had to go with my baby to Cleveland Ohio hospital Friday morning 10:30 a.m. I walked out for the hospital and I I I I suddenly saw there's no flights going back from Cleveland to New York so I got left there what do I do now I have to get back to Flashman New York it's 550 miles how do I get from point A to point B so I contact the organization they told me they would set me up a car rental so I go to the airport and instead of going to the terminal I go to the caral rent my car and hit the road it was very challenging for me after being two nights in the hospital he been exhausted and it's short time for shabas it like have too much time to stop in the middle of of the way and like take a nap and rest there's no time for that 10:30 I ordered Uber to take me 10:30 5 10:40 the car didn't show up I got all nervous then I told my wife hold a minute I didn't do what I have to do I had to to thank Hashem in the morning because I was running to the hospital I I didn't I didn't thank Hashem in the morning so let me forget about Uber just canel Uber I have to do what I have to do she looked like me like crazy why are you out of mind we have to get in time who has time for that I said no no no no no I have to do what I have to do I walked away I walked down the street and I started thank counting one two B I have eyes B I can't talk book I have kids B have where to live so I just started thank has every single item s thing every single thing I have I Rec counting 72 things 15 minutes passed by I came back I ordered a new Uber to take me to the airport under five minutes the car showed up and we started to see right away Hashem is helping me and there's something going on I I went in the car and I follow the car go to the airport and I told him not to go to the terminal want to go to the Cal because there I have to take out my car so on the way there the driver asks me um where do you plan to go I told him fly M New York and he said wait a moment you about to take out a Cal maybe I can take you to that place I said yes maybe but I'm not sure I can afford that price so what what I talk about a a taxi cap from Cleveland Ohio to flash New York it's not the same price like buying a sandwich so it's not for me but to my surprise he told me no you're going to pay for the car rental gas and toll you know what you paid me just gas and toll and I will take you to flyman New York free of charge I was shocked and suspicious in the same time especially at that that time we hear about Isis kidnapping I didn't know what's going what what's going on this man I go want to take you not across the street and even across the street you want to trust to get an AO scard maybe you not get Alive come out going s m he want to take me I called up my father and I told him the story what's going on he told me like this it's go it's very interesting I told the driver I accept your offer he turned off the Uber app he turned off the he turned on the GPS and hit flash Master York 556 Main Street flash Master New York and it came up to 550 miles and he said go start we start to go of course I put on my GPS as well I want to make sure he follow along the right the right Road and I was so what's going on it doesn't make any sense someone just taking you from Cleveland to New York it doesn't make any sense but as time goes by of course I fall asleep have a good sleep like three hours or more and I came flashman's well rest Ed on time for shabas was right right with his man and he dropped me off I paid $120 how much was G and tall and he went back nine hours right away went back he drove 18 hours free of charge I have no idea why but no explanation but this is this happened this happened just I I did my job I thanked Hashem has showed me that is unlimited what I can do for you okay so before we jump I'm just GNA tell everybody watching I know this sounds wild it sounds not believable is this the new answer this is what I do we're gonna get to it we're g to break it down simple as can be Let's uh introduce Jonathan your bio is so big it'll take about three hours to read it I cut it down as short as possible re has an author over 25 lecture albums on topics including inner growth health and parenting with powerful insights with love happiness and emotional intelligence R ready okay a special thank you toas for inviting me and putting all the details together for all of you and all your team so we just going to talk a few moments about and um then we'll pass it over to everyone else so uh the movement of talem began approximately 200000 years ago when kazal did something quite revolutionary there there's only one braa in the entire Torah that's Bas and some argue Bas as well is D but everyone agrees that basan is for sure the question is how did hazal come up with over hundred bras I'm most supposed to say every single day that's number one and number two well if it if the right thing is to say lots of bras every single day why didn't come up with that he only gave us B maybe b as well but otherwise all the rest made them so comes along the ramban I'm just going to explain it very simply that we're about to go into the fourth Gus gas Edom we're going to be spread throughout the whole world it's going to to last for a long time and we're going to lose our grip on Sim and so claims the rambam what's the deepest greatest Sim Sim possible to know Hashem is with me all the time so the L of the rambam is there are many blessings our sages legislated in order in order that we remember Hashem constantly what is that remembering thank you for my eyes thank you for my spine thank you for my nervous system thank you for every single senu and muscle and bone in my entire body that's because of my skeleton that's really supported by my spine thank you Hashem for my clothes m thank you for my shoes for providing me all my needs the purpose of blessings is not to tickle Hashem pink he doesn't he's perfect without our bras the purpose of blessings is so ridiculously simple it's for me to live in reality and what's reality LG life is good now I think there's a different geara LG I think in the world his life is galic but the it comes down to the same thing so I want to share with you something quite shocking there's no Mitzvah out of T Mitzvah to be not one and what's interesting not only ramban but the SM the SM um ran the none of them count the Mitzvah of sim as one T and the most obvious question is why didn't even least at least hit the says it's a huge Mitzvah to be happy all the time there's no Mitzvah in the Torah out of T so where's this coming from so I'm going to give there are a lot of ways to answer this I'm going to give you the simplest way I can I can think of someone gives you a million dooll Sal you turn up at work and you you you're you're amazed that you you've hit this job you come early and because you're amongst the first 10 people who arrived today at work he gives you a check equivalent to your whole year salary and you say what's this so this work turning up early then after all the rest of the people have turned up to work that day he gives you another check and you and the day's only begun it's 9:00 a.m. and you say what's this it's a $50 million check and he has given you the equivalent of everybody else's salary that they would have got the whole year over the whole company then halfway into the day he gives you another check and you ask what's this he said well you didn't take the full lunch break instead you worked more so I see that you're giving extra and so I want I want to show you my hakar to you so let me ask you you start you become a billionaire within one year of this job does your boss need to add in the contract please be happy hello you I got to be mad not to count the blessings of being in this job and I am exaggerating because we were born trillionaires and even that's an exaggeration because God owes me nothing did he owe for us to be conceived H ask a gynecologist the chances of you being conceived is one in millions tens and tens of millions you won the lottery nine months before you were born now how many people here listening um their mother had an abortion oh you were born without an abortion oh you want another Lottery oh your your wife your mother didn't uh have a miscarriage you want another Lottery you were born healthy you want another you won four lotteries and you're only one second old you're born Jewish OMG you didn't even choose that says alone is is enough of a reason to pick oneself up because you didn't do anything for it so no matter how far down I am in looking down on myself and I'm unworthy what have I got to be grateful for and the answer is for everything that I'm counting if if I don't count then I'm not going to notice so saw that was supposed to be such a hisus of gratitude H is that you take care of all our needs every single breakfast lunch supper that it would spill over that gratitude was enough to spill over into the rest of the day but seeing that we're going into aalas and the number one agenda will be survival taking care of the family persecution running from another pram so we're going to lose grip on Sim gratitude and start thinking the world is not good riots democracy falling apart safe I'm not sure if we're safe anymore oh my gosh a microscopic virus spreading throughout the whole world and I could fall into the Trap of thinking that life happens outside in and who wants me to know that's never reality reality is there's no sim outside of you ever it's impossible in the words of the in the first I think it's in over there he actually says the in the state of happiness happiness are the exact OAS thought because where does happiness truly take place and the answer is it's a thought in the moment because how many thoughts can you have you can only think one thought at a time by the way did you know that's why say the grammar is wrong it should be got it should be plural the more things I have the more things I have to worry about and the answer is no no no no no you can only have one thought at a time one thought at a thought so it's never lots of worries it's only one worry at a time that's why you don't find the Lo of why is why is it only one Yar there should be lots of yaras yarim M tus cover there's so many tiers why is only one Yahara and the answer is because Yahara can only a attack me one thought at a thought so how far am I away from being down to start counting the good in my life and the answer is you're always one thought away from TOA hasem gratitude is training in happiness God never needed to give me a Mitzvah to be happy it's ridiculous because it's so obvious the moment I start counting and I'm only just born born Jewish oh my go and and from whoa well you became from on your own you came back on your own you're about to sh and you start adding on reality God wants me to pay attention to the good because it's real says now he's the one who suffered Kaz tell us more than any human being in world history more than suffered the most in a 12-month period DAV suffered the most over a lifetime and yet out of 150 love songs what comes out again and again and again do gratitude Lem why to look look what the life Hashem gave you your father-in-law tried to execute you a few times your own son of shalam rebelled against you try to kill you your own son Adon yahs your Authority you lost 4 children in your lifetime what's going on why are you so grateful because God is good how good how good look what you've suffered and his answer was very simple when I'm finished complaining about what's not good in my life I've got to follow my own logic because if huge if huge if I have a right to tell you ram what's not good in my life then I have it to follow my own logic and tell you also what's good so says the moment he went to the list of he couldn't stop because it's unlimited and I close here what says in quite a few Tas he quotes you have already gifted happened already Sim you already gifted happiness thei in my heart in my mind you already gave me all the reasons to be happy oh and that's why going I close here tells us that even if you don't feel happy pretend because when you pretend Theus of pretending will make your Pim feel it and here's the lam unbelievable Lam he says because when you pretend to be happy and this is right at the end of per he says able to pretend to be happy right so do that then you will acquire that which you're not experiencing right now but you're going to pull it in you know what that is you will give birth with the internal happiness and here's where I end you are pregnant with happiness you already have all the reasons to be grateful in your life and that's why this is such an addictive condition that's why it can really change the world it can change the whole of humanity in recognizing God's reality LG life is good thank you for your patience thank you R ready that was beautiful really really nice okay we'll take a little one minute uh poll to give everybody a little break and then ready coach we're coming for you because we don't know anything what you just said it all sounds so cute but we got to really understand what you said because it all sounds okay let's take a quick poll okay I want everybody to be interactive please answer the poll first poll is gonna be like this hold on anybody who can't see is on the phone I'll read it so everybody can please answer it's Anonymous so I don't know who answers when do you consciously connect to Hashem there's five choices I try three times a day when I DAV once in a while when things go wrong when I need something to work out my way I thank hashm every day in my own words or the last answer I'm not really connected again three five answers I try three times a day when I DAV once in a while when I do good when things go wrong when I need something to work out the way my way I thank hasm every day in my own words I'm really not connected come on five seconds re ready I saw you did no I'm joing five four 3 two one here we go this is interesting rush you ready yes 190% of people say I try three times a day when I DAV okay 8% of people say once in a while when I things go wrong 14% of people say when I need something to work out my way you ready for the winner I thank AEM every day in my own words 54% look at Gabby he's so happy and 5% of people say I'm really not connected at all okay was great to see okay let's break it down um we have a bunch of questions a lot of people are already texting to ask questions I I before I go to the questions I just want to clarify some things I want to get a little personal and then I'll start breaking it down got it the co-producer said something specific okay so my first question is like this you ready to go first what does it mean thank you hashm I d three times a day I go to SCH I learn I learned I I do all the regular mitzvos what does thank you mean what explain it simple thank you Hashem means connecting to Hashem while recognizing the things I do have Barry we all D every single day but the problem is that when we D we ask hasem for stop when we stop and we start thanking hem just out of the ordinary just thank youm for this thank youm for that it just changes your life your whole day is better everybody you want to jump in or pass 97% and I'm serious 97% of the entire chakis is saying thank you and praise there's very very few pous the pous part the requests is only in the middle 13 bras of shman almost the entire rest of the whole of daving is praise and thank you now because we may not be aware of the words we're saying so we're missing out on kavanas so the problem is actually not in the system the problem is I'm not plugged into the words but the system is already there providing me with 97 % bosma you can check every single line count them up if it's a thank you appraise or request and you'll see 97% is saying thank you and praise and it's all in preparation for the middle blessings where we use the platform of each middle BR in Shimon to ask Hashem for our needs but the vast majority is thank you why because we're training in God's reality the more we realize how big you really are how much you can and do and have the power for then my qu my requests are more intelligent I can ask you for anything and everything I saw a great line just today I don't know what tomorrow's chapter will look like but I trust the author God is only good and so the Trust In Hashem can take away the worry so the Practical side of this is look at the words in daring if I don't understand them learn them and if not go with that 54% that says your own words use Bas to say after say thank you for my eyes you said thank me thank hasem for your spine thank him for your clothes say your own words because that was the original reason for ding not to not to become a whole new ding ding is only 2,000 years old actually 1700 years old prior to that the mitz OFA which is 3,300 years old was to 108 18800 Almighty talk to God in your own words free call 247 36510 that was and still is the real thrill Shon es was not a substitute it was a way to get us back into the original which was praise and thank you and then you get to the request but the request is such a small part use doing to talk to God coach okay we're having um major answers over here getting warmed up I just want to add I just want to add that all of this can also be um logic and that's where the work starts many of us have become robotic and we DAV in we learn we do everything right and then we have a question but we don't feel so there's something missing we have to do things different if we continue the same way we'll have the same results what can we do different like re EDI said listen to the words look at the words I just want to add to be able to feel you want to be thank you want to be grateful for that bras that you're saying you have to stop you have to slow down you have to let yourself feel because by saying it again and again again that's that's all in the head I think T tonight we're going to he hear a lot of ideas of how we're going to start feeling these things and again feeling doesn't mean only positive you're going to feel negative too but let it be there and that we'll learn how to feel and we'll be thankful like then we'll go back to RAB what RAB Yeti said how in the world can we not be happy with what we have but that takes work to actually feel it okay I'm going to I'm to say a little something personal I'm I have a bunch of live questions if any could handle it um I'm going to tell you what I learned about thank you Hashem um I probably about the last five or six years started learning and listening to a lot of sh I really got a tremendous understanding of it um I'm a big re that's we had him on last week and I learned a tremendous smile from him I would consider him my my re for um when I came to the thank you hasm event eight months ago with with my friend coach manam uh the one thing that was mind-blowing to me and and I took it upon myself and I think it's it might sound in one sense very simple but in one sense for me it wasn't so simple is that when I do DAV my ding used to be all theas the best but that wasn't the part where I focused I focused right before everything that I need that was my wish list and I'm not saying I'm not going to talk for everybody I'm going to talk for myself but what happens is when somebody goes with that Focus obviously you're not everything you ask for you're going to get because you don't know what your ultimate good is so it becomes difficult but the thank you Hashem concept the way I understand it is that I'm focusing like rabari Burkwood said the best line I'm gonna say it again and again when you have a cup half full or half empty which one are you thankful for re ready you know the answer the cup you're thankful that you have a cup in the first place exactly so if we start focusing on the thank you like said and I actually took it upon myself I can't do 72 it sounds very easy try to say thank you 72 things is not so simple you can go through all your body parts you probably run out after 20 but if you really start taking a number and you start focusing on things you want to be thankful for um you could find Millions but it just we're not so good at it what happens is there's two things that happen my opinion sorry can I can I can I can I cut to the chase okay so first thing that happened to me I'm talking from personal events is that my mindset became positive what does that mean that means instead of always looking at everything oh I didn't make this and this deal didn't work out of course this is not going to work out in my mind psychologically because I was always focusing on the good even though I did it without the proper thing but internally it was psychologically changing my mindset that when I didn't get I got pulled over twice I didn't get a parking ticket I was like oh thank you but to me that would have been like oh my gosh I got pulled over like it would have been the negative so my mind I started I'm G to use the word py myself up to more positive thing okay good it's a great psychological trick so it really really works we have but then what I realized something bigger happened and I I really learned this I have to be honest and we're going to get to it and obviously people go through some tremendous times especially during covid um when people go through tremendously hard things and tremendously hard times this I don't use the word Gaza or something is supposed to happen whatever is supposed to happen to a person in Shay if you take it as a every time hasm gives you a little patch and you complain and you scream he says you didn't have enough pain you have to have more when you take everything with with happiness then it gives the whatever the G or I don't use the word gazer because it sounds very negative whatever person supposed to go through person is supposed to lose money he'll lose it maybe he'll lose less but it'll go quicker things will slowly pick up because you're taking everything be I'm sure could probably pull up some kazal that will probably confirm some of the stuff I'm saying but the general thing is always thinking of the positive and not only psychologically will give you a positive mindset but it's also going to actually give you Satay when things are going through hard times I understand it sounds easy and it's a cute little trick and I have a lot of people are going to ask the question soon when people are going through real cus people you know go through real things but it's it's really going to be life altering and you'll see in short periods of time it's not a magic trick it's not a seula it's not a kameha but it's really G to open up uh things in sh mind for you and I'm talking from personal experience and we can get into some more of that soon let's break it on okay who's the first live person okay this is a very good friend of mine I'm putting on ask your question clear on mute well you um you basically said it's not a schoola so I don't really know what to ask anymore ask your question the same way you did before let's go I wanted to know is it a school or is it a ploy to get God to give you what you want say you know thank you God for this problem thank you for that and then wait for the miracle to happen but it's not going to happen you know in daving you have you say all the thank yous to God andas and Shir and M then you get your three bashes you know but you just said it's not a schooler so then what is it just the mindset R you go first eight months ago there was the we were in bar Park together if you remember over there I met someone he's almost 40 years old he tried everything to find a zivic and become engaged nothing works nothing whatever he tried didn't work so by the event after the event he says I'm very inspired Ari can you tell me something that yet I will become a I said I want to ask you a question what do you do for the last 20 years I guess from the 20 till the 40 what do you do he says what do you mean I cry my heart out to Hashem every single day I go to kikim I do whatever I can nothing works I said let me do something else with you how about you start thanking asem every day for five minutes not more five minutes you thank Hashem that you're not engaged yet he looked at me like what did you smoke I said look try it out and if in a year from now you're not a then we'll try something else now as you said before it was eight months ago that we had this event last week Thursday he calls me up he says Ari before I call any of my family I'm calling you I'm engaged he says Ari I realized where my mistake was I used to cry my heart out and basically when you cry Hashem says you cry I'm gonna give you more reasons so you can cry more everything Hashem does is for our best but if you crying it's going to go by another year another five years 10 years 20 years if he wouldn't met me I would meet him probably by the 6D and he would still not be engaged so thank you ashem he met me over there by the event and I said change it around just a little bit talk to Hashem but instead of crying start thanking asem like the high the holy origin sadic used to say that one thing brings another thing Hashem is good Hashem wants you to give good he just wants you to thank him now think about it when you thank Hashem for the Deming ly bad you know what happens over there in Hashem says you thanking me even it looks bad imagine when it's going to be good you become engaged how will you thank me then and this is exactly what keeps on happening every single day to people so just thank Hashem and you will see that everything will change around to the better before I pass to the coach man I want to answer this question as well I want to say one thing I I shared it with Ari today um today on tour anytime char already had a story I I ped I happen not to listen to all those short clips but this story was so but so thank you Hashem that it came to me today I'm GNA repeat the story to the best of my ability blazar Rush writes in his book a woman that came to him who didn't have children for over 10 years came to him what should she do to have children said I'm gonna tell you but I'd rather not tell you she because you're not gonna be able to do it the lady says to him I want you to tell me she says I I really re says I didn't want I don't and she mama twisted his arm so he said okay you know what you need to do you need to go into your room every day for one hour and thank hasm they didn't give you children for 10 years said excuse me say that again in English said yeah you need to go into the room and thank hasem you don't understand the but you trust is and thank hasem she had to swallow that pill and this is for Charlie I'm saying bash Charlie don't kill me don't don't don't shoot the messenger and The Story Goes a year later RAB Rush was the sandic by her son I see a lot of people get caught up with schoolis and when it sounds like aula they say wait a second I don't doas the first question is why not um if this is what Hashem wants from you then let's go and again it doesn't mean that whatever you're asking is going to happen Hashem runs his world and hashem's going to do it the way is good for you we don't always know what's good for us but what we do have to do is thank hem for whatever it is which sometimes can be very hard but believing that Hashem if you did it I believe this is what I need now and I thank you for that and then the rest is up to him and if we need to get it we get it if not we get at least the or the to go somewhere else to get some different uh way of thinking so you don't sit in your uh in that rot in that negativity I'm just letting you know we have a lot more questions if anybody wants to jump in please right now is right now no brush unless you want to go to the next okay so uh Dani you asked if if it's meant to be a so it's actually it's a Sim um of how to respond when things don't go right it's in B inim and the there is actually taken m in right at the end of M now it doesn't say it says this is is not meant for me to look at when I don't know oh is it m it's not M and you go look it up that's not what was meant for is meant for me to know the in advance so I know how to respond to the situation when it comes up so I'm actually meant to take this as how do I respond when things don't go right with my mind completely I'm not faking it it's real I mean I mean what I'm saying I'm not under pressure and he's willingly saying thank you Hashem on the Rah with the thing that went bad in the same way that he says thank you for the good that happens to him now tells you it's not a skul for getting what you're not getting you know what it's a skula for because now he says because a Jew is meant to be an evid Hashem and for an evid Hashem when things go right to hasem when things go wrong oh that's great you know why really yeah because there's a of and includes with all and what's this is the which is not but for gratitude to be grateful to hasem and the Lo there in the Miss is be exceedingly exceedingly grateful when things go wrong so it's not aula forgetting what I'm missing it's a from being close to AES because he's saying since it's part of being an EV hasem then when the r comes along the Sim is that he's serving a by saying thank you and that is that is ultimately the greatest reward and for that by the way when a person does a MIT he gets a thousand times more than a regular Mitzvah so and that's from in says it's a it's worth a thousand times more so I'll just close on this said in in make your mouth wide with praise the and I will fill it with more reasons to be happy so in that sense you can expect that when you're grateful you'll notice more reasons to be grateful because I'm I will says Hashem fill your mind with more reasons you'll become more aware of more gratitude and what's missing won't matter so much anyone answer you want to go to the next one I have lined up with questions I say one thing after hearing all these all these amazing answers I would say just one just do it pick up one thing right now as you watch the video and I think why what can I think AEM right now at this moment what can I think AEM start doing it if I explain you the taste of marble cake will take me years to explain it if I give it to you you know right away the answer just do it okay let's go to the next Live question Victor sh sh I'm pleased to be here tonight it's amazing all these words you guys are saying and my question is to make it simple not to take anybody's time and I guess rabi maybe you can give us more explanation how did you how do you make yourself mindful when you're going through a lot of turus and you're going through a lot of bad thoughts while that is happening and your mind is all crumbled up with different thoughts how do you push that away and bring in positive thinking of praising and thanking hasem ready re ready before you answer I just want to let you know have about 15 questions exactly within that range excellent question there is no word in the tanak for emotion there is no word if there is no word for something that means it doesn't exist heresh is not a word 100% of what you feel is what you're thinking 100% of the time unfortunately we've translate or mistranslate innocently the word La we translate it as heart it's an innocent mistake and I'm not going to tell you why we do that it's just a mistake ran says on the words says on Andra say the same thing three words who had your mind leave means mind now why is that how's that help answer your question because once we know that everything we experience bar nothing 100% of what we experience is what we're thinking then there's the chance of incredible Liberation because the moment I realize the sorus I'm experiencing is not the wife who's driving me crazy or the kid who's driving me Cra Crazy or the diagnosis which is driving me crazy is what I'm thinking about my wife about the kid about the diagnosis that's driving me crazy there's many many proofs for this I'll give you one example there's a a Jewish lady her name is Wendy sesus she's in her eighth year of stage four cancer nashim who have stage four cancer 96% don't make it Beyond five years 96 she's in her eighth year of stage four cancer she gets up on a stage and I heard the following words from her it was a 15 second speech and then there was an hour of questions and answers afterwards and these were her words I have cancer I'm not cancer my body has cancer I'm not my body end of speech well we experience of sorus is not what we're feeling it's what we're thinking because the moment I think it I end up feeling it so if I if I want a if I want a shortcut so to speak to recognizing the true source of what I experience is what I'm thinking then then I've got the chance of going to the next thought because how long is the life of your thought of my anxiety my fear anger depression frustration n resentment and the answer is always the same the life of a thought is as long as you think it how far are you ever away from a different thought and the answer is you're always one thought away and that's a I think it's paric in when Hashem describes Mitzvah of T and don't get me wrong a of t means you're changing the way you're thinking that's what he of TBA TBA means change direction you're changing the way you think and what does the PK say about about it this item is exceedingly close to you all you have to do is say I love you thank you I'm sorry and it's in your thoughts as uh rosha said do it just do it it's in your mouth's power and thought power to just do it and so it's not about positive thinking or negative thinking it's about reality thinking it's about clicking into the's reality that you're always good to me and even if I don't always feel it guess what I'm not feeling it because I'm thinking it how far am I away from thinking differently always one thought away Barry I'm sorry for jumping in over here somebody text me a friend of mine text me a personal question can I ask a personal question you okay did Ari burwitz with with thanking Hashem ever experience a clop with anything in life and is and is still going to go with thanking Hashem a CL okay great I was waiting for this question's coming after you it's okay I can handle it if Hashem gave me this that means he gave me the to answer it you look at me you look at my smile and you hear all the success stories you think Ari never had anything pause I'm gonna pause you why don't you tie this into why when what the reason why you started thank youha I got married in 2003 and 2004 all of a sudden my life in a way became upside down I didn't know what to do went one doctor to the other and they diagnosed me with crohn's and kitis when this happened I was like what's going on I didn't know how to chew it how to eat it how to take it and I was really broken I always thought you know I'm in control I'm doing this and that and all of a sudden I'm lost what do I do now and I tried every single medication and as I tried this medication this had a negative effect it got worse tried a different one nothing worked one day one night I'm in the synagogue where I D in Israel at Marv and after Marv the president of the sh he wants to lock up the place and he knows already that Ari stays behind and I and I go and I use the men's room I come out it's very dark in the shore and I'm like okay what's going on everybody is home everybody is having a good time it's Sunday some people go to barbecues some people go to friend's house some people are listening to the show oer and uh Coach man and I'm sitting here in sh in the bathroom and I'm like what's going on why is AEM doing it the me there's a very little light working that's the exit sign with the orange red lit light and I see it's the light is going towards something and I'm looking at the light and I see it's going towards the Ash and I take a look at this paper and over there it says give thanks to hash and that's where it hit me and I said one minute wow Hashem could have given me so many other things gout uh migraines pain this that he gave me something and it's probably one of the only things where you have to go and when you finish going you have to say AB you have to say Hashem loves me so much he wants me so badly to thank him him so he makes sure that I'm going 20 30 40 times a day so I can thank him 20 30 40 times a day my mistake was since 2004 till 2018 that I was crying about it and I was trying to run away from it and every time I was trying to run away I had to go more times till it hit me then and I say Hashem you love me so much you want want me to thank you Hashem I can't wait to go again in the bathroom please let me go again but guess what the next time I went to the bathroom was eight hours later which was at first and then I went and I took out this and I said Hashem you made me go because you want me to thank you and this is what I'm going to do and I said it with such kabuna and all of a sudden I went to sleep and it was the first night in 14 years I slept through the night I woke up in the morning I said with such a different you know it's amazing I heard from that say in the morning even before you wash your hands how's it possible maybe you told maybe you can say but the power of thanking is so powerful it pushes away everything it goes straight to the kiss of it and I want share something amazing with you when I started this this was in the beginning when I opened up all the groups I realized something crazy happening every time I add more and more and more people to start thanking Hashem with every th000 people I had to go one time less when I had 10,000 people I started realizing that instead of 35 times I'm only going 25 times when I had 20,000 000 people I realize one minute I'm only going now 15 times when I had 30,000 people I realized I'm only going five times my dear friends I'm here to tell you today if I went one time today it's a lot already we have 35,000 members and the 35 times is just out of the window so when a person if Hashem is giving you something in your life you say thank you Hashem for giving it to me because if you gave it to me you love me so much and you choose me to be your soldier if you think about it every single of the imas were aorus and Rashia says on the spot here because hem loves to listen to their B and they to him so when Hashem is giving you good I mean you have to be out of your mind not to thank hasem but when Hashem is giving you something this seemingly bad grab it with both hands and thank Hashem for it because this is where your has is Gonna Come I heard a good saying a few days ago in yish they say brings so keep on thanking hasem and you will have all as possible amazing Rari I do want to get back to the question from before because there actually are similar questions so vict your question's not over I'm going to put on another Live question schlomo are you ready let's go here we go hi my name is schomo I'm actually in Jerusalem right now youim I just wanted to thank you all for the beautiful share and all the beautiful answers very impactful very change lifechanging had one question I know so we say that we have to thank Hashem for everything even the bad uh for one's own sarus I wanted to know of of course the person is somebody else's SS if somebody's going through a sar relative or friend to pray for them and you want you care for them you're empathetic for them but can you also and should you also think a shim for other people's s a relative or something like that and if you do does that also have the suula or the to take away the Sor like you do for somebody else's Sor or sickness thank you yes so my answer is everything we experience by ourselves or by other people everything has a to do with us everything so when we start to thank hasem as it is connected to us in fact of course it will help in ease and get away yes call through AR we can help other people by start to thank Hashem anybody else want to answer that question I I actually I don't know any president um in that if you hear someone else's sorus that you should say thank you to Hashem um I I know there's many many good I think of the Mana at Sal I knew personally he was not that uh uh he would cry with real tears listening the sorus to of of another Jew or or the talks about the need that when you hear the pain of others a person needs to feel it uh it's not something for me to to to dance about their pain I can be dancing about my pain and I can even be dancing about where my pain is is ham actually going to affect other people too but um I do believe that the purpose of other people's yurin is to make us much more sensitive Jews to D for their s should take it away for them and to feel it because that's uh what rash was saying earlier um that that the pain that you're experiencing ought to be mine too because we're a part of the same goof so I don't think it goes as far as I'm being grateful for your unhappiness so things are paining you I don't believe that's supposed to go that way maybe we can add after crying for your friends pain you can beaz yourself and believe that whatever hasem does is for the good not that you're dancing with the other person's pain you're doing you have that balance you're doing hasem and then you tell yourself listen Hashem is going to help and hopefully he helps and whatever Hashem does is for the good that's the physic and I just want to go back to even dancing with your own pain to be able to dance with your pain right away can be a little bit dismissing your emotions because us people um usually have to go through when when it hurts it actually hurts for some people it pays to actually cry first because they're really shut down and they tell themselves yeah it's fine it's good is whatever he does is good is good but really you're not really in touch with what's going on and maybe it is Kai to before you start dancing with the thanking Hashem you should break down into tears a little bit connect to that emotions become real and then you can come out and say Hashem now I'm gonna thank you and then that's real all right let's keep going over here I can I add something I make it quick I'll make it quick okay the point is we're not dancing on other people's TS the point I felt when this person asked the question he's feeling already other person's problems he's connected to it so the way we want be missp to asem is from a place of thanking Hashem and this what I meant by being thanking Hashem and this where our our fillers our hearts connect to hasem in yeah I would like to ask when everything in your life does good goes good you know marriage your job everything is okay how do you remind yourself to stop and like hey it comes from Hashem let me thank him pause before anybody answers she is coming from the other way whole time we're asking when the how do we thank AEM he's coming from the other angle Hashem gave me everything it's so POS coming to me how do you how do you remember to thank hashm who wants to go first that is why thank you sh number one that is why we have every day in the middle of the day we have the we stop with what we do and we just thank hasem for everything and when you do so by the end it actually says I'm Ash and dust I'm nothing and you are everything and you simply remind yourself that it's not you Hashem is the one that is giving everything and I just have to be thankful and grateful and the more I'm going to be grateful and thankful the more is gonna give me like we say in yish BRS so if you have good in your life already you are obligated to thank hasem even more and if you think it's good now you'll be surprised how much more Hashem is gonna give you it's going to be really good yet I'll just add that like I've said before we have to work on feeling what we know and what we hear is all the logic and you could say thank youm for this thank youm for that what we do what we like I said we have to stop in middle of the day now stopping is very hard for most people they're so busy 247 and they're always doing even though they're doing the right thing but they never give themselves time to actually reflect what's going on where am I what am I doing to to stop that's number one then to breathe don't forget in and out so you can let open up from your head and let it trickle down into your body so you could start feeling it let it go down and don't run give yourself a minute two and in the beginning it could be hard even for five minutes to sit there and really appreciate the thing is that we don't really appreciate till takes something away from us and then we say oh if only I remember I had the there were years ago when I had back pain from stress and I I was on the floor and I couldn't walk I thought that from that day on I'm G to be thanking Hashem every day for walking I did in the first few days maybe a week or two but then you just forget about it if you can sit down and imagine you cannot walk stay there and then get up and say but I could you start enjoying so the step the the first step is to stop stop breathe and feel grateful very good I think it's very clear answered good you don't have to argue we're all on the same page okay I'm gonna the next question is a little bit I'm gonna a lot of people are texting me in different version I'm gonna ask the question it's similar to what we asked before and this is a very tough question I am in tremendous pain one person writes I lost my father one person wrote I have no parosa one person wrote tremendous sickness that they have I can't focus on positive to thank Hashem things just look so dark and gloomy I have I don't want to use the word I have anger towards Hashem what could I do give me tips how do I get out of that so I could start refocusing myself and thanking Hashem in such a horrible situation two days before I remember myself in similar position I felt very hard a lot of things came in the same moment and I felt like choked and I felt like full of negativity and full of a lot of sad feelings was very very hard and I tried to remind myself hello you have can Inspire yourself you can start than hasem think of the good things there so much good things going on in your life and all the nice stories that c songs but in reality I was in so much pain I wasn't able to do anything even though I I I tried to do it it wasn't helpful at all you know what I did I I walked out my house I started to walk on the street and in a quiet place I start Hashem you put me in this position where I am right now this feeling why I have is also controlled by you so you put in like here right here thank you so much thank you for what I feel so hard thank you for my heart feelings thank you for my problems thank you thank you in the beginning I have to tell you I didn't felt like I felt like it's fake I didn't mean it but I I just pushed myself to repeat it after 15 minutes I cannot share enough how much I felt his love and connection and so much positivity go through my blood is so much energy I felt like even if I sh trailer will not bump in me it will will smash in pieces because with my energy and my positiveness my excitement my what I had after 15 minutes doing just thanking Hashem for what is bad if this person that has the question is here on board tonight whatever hardships he has in his life he can just stop and think for one minute am I able to look into the screen right now that means I have eyes to see when was the last time I thanked Hashem for my eyes if he can listen to my answer now you have ears if you have ears and they are working thank AEM for this I want to tell you something I stop a lot of times people on the street people call me me and I didn't find yet a person I asked him 10 15 20 things and he will tell me no on everything I will tell you the opposite I can ask you now 15 questions do you have clothes can you see can you hear can you eat do you have fee do you have a car do you have a job you have shoes I mean little things and start building your from there we'll talk about the big stuff later you cannot reach the 10th floor or the 20th floor before you start stepping into the first step so say you wake up in the morning you are ahead of the game anything else from there is just a bonus thank you Hashem I woke up today you go to your closet you have all the ingredients to make yourself a nice warm coffee thank AEM that you have the ingredients for a coffee you have air conditioning in your house it's so hot outside thank you Hashem I have air condition there are millions of people in other countries they don't have air condition when was the last time you thanked Hashem for this and when you start working on the small stuff and you're building your foundation I guarantee you give it most give it mostly 12 months you're gonna come back to your show like sheia cat everything in my life is good what should I do now with my life how do we deal with it such such s so much pressure we're in the worst M how do we thank a um I think a lot of people after they hear this show um they will feel guilty because it sounds like we can do it in the snap of a finger and they're still in there negative and it's not easy like I always try to go back to that negativity but the thing is that we feel what we focus and when a person is in the dumps for whatever reason the only thing he focuses on is that negative thing if he has to pay the mortgage and he can't or a kid is sick he's not thinking about everything else the only thing that's bothering him is the thing that's in front of him on the table so obviously I think he should not don't be so harsh on yourself you're going through something that's not easy and yes we're not going to get you out of this so fast by trying to get out of very fast that itself brings a lot of pain understand this is where put you and this is where he wants you to be now you happen to hear this Zoom meeting and they're saying things can change you're not up to it yet and that's okay and then slowly after relaxing in the negative you'll be able to look around maybe you can find some positive and then you'll put back on that show the recording and see how to do it but it doesn't always work so fast logically makes sense like re Eddie said you can take one thought and change it to another thought sounds amazing but it doesn't go so easy and it takes time truth is after a while once you learn how to do it it gets easier and easier and hopefully you will be able to teach others how to do it amazing okay a lot more questions I want to cover more ground it's late it's way past the we usually finish 11:30 but Bari the is feeling it let's take a I think we should just keep on going we are here to change the world and if people are on board just keep it up keep on going I love it okay let's take a quick poll just take a little break because I like to drink a little water so it's like like a little intermission like a little commercial sponsored by the poll okay the next question just to get a more of a feeling of people it's a double question here we go everybody please answer so we can feel the feeling of the crowd what's your overall mood these days upbeat good every day different could be better down or in pain that's the first question what's your overall mood these days second question when things work out the way you want do we verbally thank a where sh at the question is for you when things work out the way you want do we verbally thank Hashem yes no I think it's in my mind sometimes I say the words in the bying 5 4 3 2 1 okay 24% of people are upbeat 28% people are good so basically half the people basically everybody's good 29% of people I'm going to say are bipolar but that's fine I think I am also 11% could be better 4% are down 5% are in pain help the 5% please when when things work out the way you want you verbally thank Hashem 60% of people thank Hashem 2% of people do not thank hasem 40% of the people think it's in my mind 23% of the people are sometimes they thank hem 1% I say the words of my S just very interesting interesting facts okay let's go to the next question okay every time I get excited and I start thanking hashm because things are finally working out a little bit good in the next few days something happens bad to me I get another clop I rather just quit when things are good I want to end on a good note coach interesting question maybe you could elaborate basically they're they're feeling that I don't when I start getting into thanking Hashem and okay they see a little bit Improvement you know they they make an extra $5,000 the wife says makes them a delicious supper there's no fighting that night he start say thank youm and then the next day he wakes up his boy calls him he gets fired his wife doesn't make supper and he's like you know this whole thing it's it's it's like you get yourself mentally prepared to start being positive but then it's all cute while things are going good but once you get that clop how do you continue with it it's a similar question but it's a little bit of a different angle so to me it sounds like um this is how people play around with their emotions meaning that it's much better not to be connected with my emotions because if if I look out for the positive I'll feel the negative I don't want to feel the negative so basically I won't feel because I'm just going to put down the before we start you can't choose what emotion to feel the part of the brain that feels is either open or not and there are many people out there for whatever reason if it's the way they grew up or if something happened they just decided you know what I I got to do what's right whether I like it or not and I don't want to be in touch with I like it or not because then I have some or nots and that could be painful but what happens is we get burnt out the life we lose the life we don't have the emotions any emotions and you can probably look around you can see people that are doing every day the same thing you talk to them they say and that's it very very little life what has to be done is they have to open up to the emotions and it is much healthier that way for many reasons and even U physically because when we suppress our emotions it comes out other ways what we have to do is become in touch with our emotions and start feeling and it's not easy because then we feel negative but you're going to feel positive and with such a program tonight it will help you to see much more positive posi and when you have some negative you won't get so lost because you know runs the world and you're feeling it it's not only in the logic you're feeling and you're living it so I think with the the question does make sense which even though it's interesting because you're coming aware wait a second this I like this I don't like this I do like this I don't like and I don't like this you know like anything even the good things but the truth is once you have the methods and the steps of tonight's program you'll be able to open up the emotional side of you start living start being thankful and you'll be a different person you'll be excited to get get up in the morning you'll be looking forward for whatever you want to do you'll even you won't be scared of getting out of your comfort zone and some things will work some things won't work but at least you feel you're growing you're getting somewhere and um with that even if it hits you a little bit you'll be ready for it you'll know how to deal with itari the person starting to say thank you hashm is getting clapped he's losing the energy what does he do if it happens to you you should know that you're doing good and something better is about to come your way I realized it one after another with having over 30,000 members on the groups and I talk to so many people every single day it's a known thing already that you know I remember when I started the groups I saw right away from the beginning it's not easy and then it just hit me call you probably doing something good that thear is putting you the stones in you in in the whole you know so what I did is I just said I'm gonna keep on pushing and I'm Gonna Keep On pumping and I'm doing it for Hashem and Hashem will help me and look where we are today the whole world is thanking hasem and I'm looking here at the pulse I if you ask me beforehand either down and pain could be better and look at this all beat and good are the two most popular ones because at the end of the day you thank Hashem you will see Miracles and Hashem will help you one than will bring another than I want to ask you a question if you drive with your car and you get a flat tire will you throw the car away or you will say no I have I have a certain Mahal I have a place where I have to get to I'm going to change my tire and I'm going to keep on going the same thing you start thinking AEM you get a flat tire say thank you hhm for the flat tire but I'm gonna keep on going I'm Gonna Keep On grinding and by the end of the day you're gonna come out a winner because the har he has a problem that we thank hasem because he knows that once the whole world starts thanking hasem mhia will be here this the same day it's like it's like he said earlier said one time that if the whole nation if the whole Jewish people everybody will stop for one day complaining and they will start thanking Hashem he guarantees that mhia will be here not next week the same day so the isar is trying to pull us always uh you have this no but you don't have this I have $1,000 yeah but some people have $2,000 always look at what you have like you said earlier Usher the cup half full the cup not half full if you have a cup to begin with be thankful and Hashem we'll fill it up eventually okay let's I'm gonna go to the next question because I wna I want to get more in mha are you on hi yeah I wanted to first of all thank you so much for this whole chat that that started my whole life really changed since I started this chat and I started thinking Hashem I saw miracles from day one already like I I was dealing with different stuff like and every time I said Thank You Hashem and I posted different stuff I saw like tremendous Yeshua whether it was immediate or whether it was six months later you just have to keep believing and thinking Hashem like Rari says and I just keep seeing tremendous Yeshua so that it really does work and thank you so much I did have a question I wanted to know do you have to also do in or have the at work with thinking Hashem and daving you can go first daving is the way how we connect to Hashem it's already a setup formula which is in place it works all we have to do is pre press the right combination and and the luck op up so just following the path we do what the D set it up for us and we do it with the right mindset we do it by thanking by connecting the idea of thank hasem this what we Implement into our Phillis since we started the show it's already 11:38 PM that means it's after and that means today ises now let's look into and see what it says over there so two amazing things that we all going to say tomorrow and please have it in mind when you say it number one we say you say it a total of six times then you say a total of four times what this teaches us is that always when it comes to pray and to thank AEM is you should always do a 6040 you should do 60% thanking and 40% ding so your question was if you should d as well of course you should D but when it comes to make the percentages you should do 60% thanking and 40% ding the second thing is if you look first we say and then we say before you ask hem for anything before you cry first start withm start thanking hem because if you are alive today and you're alive tomorrow first start with yes yes you have what to askem and you're going to pray to hem and you're going to cry your heart out by but first do the thanking part like we [Music] say if you want to open the doors if you want to open's ears start first with thanking there is no there is no there's no yet har when a person thanks and that go straight to the while you are dear in the open door and hem is listening to you that's when you start okay want to because want to start with the next one with you we have one more live I want to keep on pushing it I just want to I just want to say my just my thought you know the way I understand thank you hem it's not a maybe you know can help me out over here I understand what I'm trying to do is obviously all the like like said is all thanking there's very little B in daving the point of the thank is more of an awareness that when we DAV and we have we're focusing the daving in the positive thing it's a psychological thing it's not a New Concept in Judaism we're not changing what which obviously the ultimate way to connect is through and through that is our connection to that's how we connect and any always say and it's like even Rabbi schaer said how you connectm is the way we stand in front of hm again do we ask do we cry do we laugh do we smile the point is it's a positivity of being having a cous life and thank you same way a father's a child a kid comes thank you so much you know I really appreciate what you bought me can I have another prize I'm like maybe kid says you know T you owe it to me I said I owe it to you nothing zero that's just just that's my take on it that's just my take not not let's take another Live question they don't stop next okay you can go to sleep I'm here all night thank you Hashem if if one person is starting to thank Hashem tonight then the whole thing was 100% more than one person but I want to clarify one thing RAB I'm gonna say it tell me if I'm wrong or not I'm just gonna I'm getting a lot of text and people not understanding thank you hasm there's a website thank.com Rari hasas they were shown Toki who said they're beautiful Tas and theas are all thanking Hashem you can go through it there's in English there's in Yiddish there is in Hebrew Russian French Chinese no I'm not joking just the three main ones I'm sure you could translate in Google and it's all thanking you rabari has a program where he has 30,000 members on all platforms WhatsApp Twitter telegram the way you sign up you go to what thank.com it'll explain you how to sign up and you could get the text the point of the thank you hasm is at one o'clock Eastern Standard Time a lot of people say it together I personally me Ash hopefully well will tell you that I personally have said it many times at 1 o'clock I put an alarm on my phone at 1259 it doesn't always work I'm in the middle of the meeting it's very hard for me to do it I try it if not I say it right afterwards um rabari was a witness to I had a crazy story personally I had something that I had to deal with and uh I was aari and actually coach and a few of my friends set it together I also sponsored thank you Hashem uh you know for for the course it was not a lot of money how much was that like a million dollars for the day how much was it story that day is only $50 okay one I figured I thought it was a million and um that day I had a nest I don't need to get into it anybody want can call me my number is posted I'll tell you the story it's not a secret but I just don't want to go through it now it's just a long story um that it doesn't mean that's the only my personal school is when I I first go not I try to do connected boy you know para's boy three and then I could do more and I do thank you hem but at least I start with connect but then if you want to do more you do more and that will make your mindset positive and I personally seen a lot of things in sh open up for me but everybody talk for themselves um I want to take the next Live question let's go thank you uh to the r for a wonderful presentation thank you rabie berwitz rabie herwitz um you mentioned rabari that when something happens to you that you perceive as negative you always have to thankes that it occurred but do we have to be concerned and perhaps this was alluded to earlier do we have to be concerned that in sh is there AAL that says that you know hey this thing that you perceive as negative occurred do we have to worry that in sh at thisa at this moment you're being judged and could have been worse because on the one hand you said we have to thank we have to be but on the other hand we have to worry that you know what hey this occurred it's a wakeup call Dua you know Etc thank you that was a great question Harry okay AER so is the question in a Nell the question in Nell is when something happens bad you get into a car accident right you're supposed to get up thank you Hashem I'm alive I made it through the car AC valid but at the same time it's known that hashm is giving you a wakeup call right sometimes a person needs a patch so is it a thank you Hashem thank you Hashem or is it no I have to change myself what does it mean is it or is it not a s very good very good question so like I said earlier when we thank Hashem we do both we do both we doing and we thanking Hashem so when you do this when you thank Hashem you basically take away all the judgments think about it someone is giving you a smack like you said before a patch and instead of giving back a patch you say thank you for the patch what do you think is gonna happen this person is gonna say wow you thanking me for giving you a patch let me change it around and let me give you good stuff yes it is 100% true sometimes you get a p and this is a wakeup call but at the same time don't fall down and just become and stay there it said after the he said doesn't want to make a person do an A so much as he should fall in into atas because in the atas this is where his playground is that's what he can do with a person whatever he wants so if Hashem sends you something of course say Hashem I made a mistake I apologize but I'm not going to stay down I'm going to wake up I'm going to stand up I'm going to start daving I'm gonna do more I'm gonna do more and at the same time I'm gonna thank you for all the times I didn't get a patch and you will see slowly but surely the patch will simply disappear you just pick up yourself you thank Hashem and that's it and go on you know you don't think back what do I have to fix no it's not for us to do it so yes we do need wakeup calls we do need reminders but we can have it through positivity we can have it fa it this what we are going for we want to have it through G to get it through so that's why we just pick up ourselves thank you Hashem I'm connected to you even though I got this got hit now and I justum go on beautiful coach I know a lot of people are going to have a little bit of a hard time with this oh yeah they're not used to this just go on so I'm gonna let them do a little bit of uh if they want they can do a little bit of but they better they better watch out like you're saying if it's going to get them spiral all the way down then they did the wrong thing but if they they become close to hasem they thank Hashem and they look at Hashem and say oh hasem you calling me I'm sorry I wasn't around for a few days I know I was busy and you're waking me up because you want me to be close to you you're right let me see what I can do better like just then you can go but I I'm giving him a little bit of that if he wants because a lot of people are not going to be able to eat this okay I have so many more questions um good [Laughter] maybe you can summarize maybe there's one question that maybe people did still did not understand this whole concept of thanking Hashem I think I I think I have a question that's gonna summarize a lot um somebody texted something I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna cut everybody off because I have the power and I'm gonna answer the question somebody wrote I'm a busy mom beautiful family I have time for one 20 a day Inu is when I use the time for asking thanking hem is that correct or am I supposed to be just thanking and asking my in my um the answer is you could ask AEM any time for anything and you could always thank AEM it doesn't have to be during it's part of the thing is that's one of the things that I was is that at one o'clock we say it it could be any time during the day some people like to do it in the morning um some people like to do it by shaku but it's really just taking a time out of your day and stop with all you being wrapped in yourself in your needs and your problems um and saying you know something hashm thank you for all the things I do have so that's that's the way I would answer it so if it works for you Inu definitely do it Inu Works any other time do it during the time don't don't be tied down toen specifically that's my answer I'm sorry for cutting every else off okay let's let's let's let's really get to the punch line over here and uh you know so we're going to go a little further and we're going to really break it down this is a multiple facet question we asked it again but we're going to break it down again again thank you hashm doesn't mean it's school it's not a trick it's not it's not something that's going to like this is all basic it's all Basics really alibas gimmel we're just really hyper focusing on the thanking you because we're a weak generation and we I'm I'm a weak person and I I get self-absorbed with problems and I get focused on things that are negative like people do and what we're trying to do is mentally a get out of the negativity so if this works it's great you know positivity and um if that works it's great and again I I do I do feel strongly that when you do take a positive out look obviously there's a lot of if you look in you start you start looking through the parish you'll see in most it's like everything is really talking about again this is the maybe I didn't get the right as a kid I didn't understand it but everything is really just thanking hem for everything he has done and everything he does for us consistently and this is where all the problems start when people go through life starts I'm 34 years old I'm waiting for a we are married for 18 years I'm waiting for a sweet little child we tried everything no children two family members and two in critical condition from a car crash sick child in the hospital running from Doctor to doctor with no end in sight I have another 100 of these all the same question I just summ it into one question I'm going again through tremendous life challenges obviously I D obviously I cry tremendous you take this first wrap it up and then let's go to closings which will be another thing I'm going through a life altering thing I can't pay my mortgage my child sick I have relatives that just just died people lost a tremendous amount of family members during co co was the ultimate you know breaking point for a lot of people you know people that anybody who's watching the program and B survived Co you should be standing on this program screaming thank you to hem that's first of all that's a Al besides that I know how many people that lost people and lost their jobs losta those are for the people that are really going through our things how they how can they tune into this method this concept this idea eight months ago when we were at the B Park the team event I in the middle of the event I asked everyone please as we know we just do it everyone everyone just stand up and you pick one thing it's very hard for you one tremendous difficulty you go through in your life that big big frog and thank Hashem for that people were like looking around the room are you nuts are you crazy what what what I almost I almost left when you did that I'm just letting you know I told him just do it thanik you and you know what happened two days later I got a text from Ari berwitz someone sent him a text that when Rabbi harit tell him to stand up thank AEM it was very ridiculous for him but he did it his problem got away he got free from his problem so I would say before you start thank Hashem for your problems make sure you're really okay to let him go and get free of it wow it sounds like uh Magic and again these people that you mentioned that whole list and people are going through these heavy heavy heavy things in their life I don't think it's something they can run away from and I think uh step number one is to uh be uh just acknowledge that they're going through a very hard time in their life and I personally find many people that they try to run away and I don't think it's a good idea to use thank you Hashem to run away I think the best thing is to use thank you Hashem in a healthy way and and um if it doesn't work for them now that's okay they should wait but not to run away from what's going on and um these these things that you mention that whole list not easy again not easy what are we going to say but but but but if you if you go to the like we started this program we have to believe that there's that Hashem runs the world and we don't always understand what's going on we just don't and it hurts yes it hurts we're still here we're not malim we're humans and it is painful nothing to talk about and um hopefully like I said before you can slowly get up find some positives to think and it goes back and forth we're not running away from our situation um if you could if you're strong enough to push and say I'm gonna do this like says please go ahead and hopefully you'll um get back to us with that story and tell us that it it it worked out somehow I don't know how but it worked out but it doesn't always work so fast and it's not always so easy and that's okay the main thing is to be connected connected we're focusing tonight with the thank you Hashem but it takes time to get there but if you're connected with pain which pain connects too and many times that's a reason that we have pain to become closer to Hashem and um hopefully with that you can go to the right direction with the positive and continue grow become closer and do the right thing beautifuli we're gonna we're gonna go to the closing is that okay wanted to answer if it's okay 30 seconds yes sure thank you I had a couple calling me up when it started the C like two weeks into this whole pandemic when it was like really the spike and everything saying something very scary a husband and wife both had great jobs for the last 15 years on Monday he got a phone call you don't have to come into work anymore if that wasn't enough on Tuesday she got a call you don't have to come and work either they didn't know what to do they felt like the whole world is coming crashing down on them they called me up what can we do I said I want to ask ask you one question you both Sayang that you had great jobs for the past 15 years when was the last time you thanked a for it I said we never thought of it we thought it comes aromatically like this I said Hashem took away the jobs we have to remember something when hasem closes one door he always opens another door at the same time and it's actually a bigger door I'm telling you you have better jobs better jobs awaiting just do W thing if has to away the job that means you have more time now in your house every single day start thanking hasem dance around in the house and thank Hashem that for the last 15 years you had a job they told me that the next day is g to bees like the day and they're going to say Hal and that's what they did when they said Hal they were thanking AEM they were not so busy with the and the they were more busy with the 60% of they were thanking hasem two months go by they call me back saying that they V very good accounting with the money and savings that by the end of the two months they had additional $3,000 in savings more than they had in the past 15 years by the end of the month they don't know how here the he got a job she got a parttime job but the end of the day they both had more money in their bank account I told them you see Hashem doesn't close a door if he doesn't open another your job is take this opportunity thank hasem and by the end of the day you will see that it will be even better than before beautiful so far this program has been truly inspirational I want to wrap it up what we're going to do is we're going to give a little closing um let's first thank our advertising sponsor I wanted to thank first of Lakewood Scoop again for promoting us and pushing us out there I want to give a special thank you to kazak Yan and Robbie for always being there um I want to give a special thanks to uh RAB RI who had to he actually doesn't stay up late and he really stayed up late and he pushed it he goes to sleep every night told me early and tonight you really want to be part of it he was a tremendous physic and I really appreciate it uh I just want to again close with saying one thought and then I'll pass it on the point of thank you AEM is to again take the things that we go through in life and try to put a positive mental spin on it people going through tremendously hard times now people always go through hard times in life there's always kuas where are harder than others through all the years even though I've learned a lot in yeshivas and then I put a lot of energy in when I was going through my tremendous hardships um it was all good in the logic so in logic I was able to understand this paper and I was able to process it where I difficult is when you're going through a difficult time it's not so much logic because your emotion takes over so for me personally I needed something in my emotional boost to get the emotional boost going because my emotions were overpowering my SE so some people are more stronger in mind I guess I'm more emotional person so I'm more emotional when I started implementing the thank youm concept which meant I started in Myas looking at the positive I started saying my Bo three good things first and then I moved it up slowly what again to me personally happened my mindset became more positive um I mentally it was like taking uh all you know all my uh pills without needing to take the pills whoops I'm not supposed to say that but that's basically what it is he gave me that positive because my mind started thinking positive because there's only one thought that can go into your mind at a time right you can either fill it with a positive or A negative and if you could stuff it with a negative you're going to be negative if you could put positive there put positive and then subconsciously what you don't realize what happens is that eventually you become more and more positive start thinking Hashem more and when basic things happen you're just thankful you're happy for it it sounds weird it sounds like crazy concept but it's pretty simple actually and it's probably every psychologist book will tell you the same thing in Basics that you think positive will be positive and the truth is in every mus says the right brings the what does that mean that means when you really believe and you really have a you really have that will bring what does that mean that means when you go through something hard you say I thank you for it I know this is for my good I know it's hard that itself will lighten I don't want to use the word gazer again I don't have the right word for it the the whatever supposed to go through to go through in a better way so you're accepting you whatever if could be will G will be done quicker and easier and that's the concept tonight and I found that anybody who could take that home with them please go to thank yourm get the the if you want to say that specific don't want to say that you could say your own thank yous there's no there's no agenda here it's just that you should be connected to H in a positive way start off psychologically and then you'll see things will change I'm not a suula guy I'm not I don't get F into things so quickly but I've seen from my own personal experience a tremendous change people that do try it try it and I have a challenge for you instead of being so negative for the next 5 years and wasting your life complaining try it for 40 days it's not so hard right I'm not asking for a donation say thank you take one time a day say the or just think positive for five minutes or thank hasm for small things whatever the number works for you five things you have eyes you're married you have a house you have a car you have a job whatever it is try for 40 days and then you see if you want to continue or not no pressure If you don't sign up is a full money bag guarantee everybody thanks coach take it away wow you just put everything together in a few words amazing so for you again for this whole program putting it together with the whole team Andi and and it's amazing keep on doing the work because the more people become aware of it they they live it they become close to and that's the Tas over here um I just want to finish off that um we heard everything that's going on we there was actually a lot of emotional stories not um not so much logic more emotions and like I said you had some exposure maybe you understood some maybe some of that you didn't agree to all and that's okay what you were doing now is we're going out to the boot camp we're actually going out to the field closing tonight and it's starting right there go out with a curious eye just look out how Hashem what Hashem wants say hem this is what you want become aware become in touch and see how it goes like likei said and we'll be able to close the gap from the logic to to the emotions we can start thinking and seeing positive things we can build on it helping others and with that we can bring the closing is around the corner that was the beginning of the destruction of the and afterwards comes people are asking what can I do to help bring Messiah there is one thing that very few people know what is the first what's the reason why we are here in gas to begin with if you want to tell me the reason is because it say it was then why was the other one if it was then why was the other one it really boils down to something and this was last week's we see something very interesting Hashem gave the Jewish Nations so much good he took them out from Egypt he gave them he gave them the business he gave them the M he gave them the SLO he gave them the water he gave them theana covered the Jewish Nation had nothing what to do all day and Hashem did it for one reason because he wanted them to be free so they can thank him all day it said that even the woman didn't have what to do if someone's clothing T Hashem brought the an and they fixed the clothing uh everything was basically there you didn't even have to go out for perosa the man was waiting for you at the door what did the Jewish Nation do instead they were they kept on crying and complaining and we was the punch line as we saw last week's by when hasem said send the to check out um the Holy Land I didn't hasem didn't say send maragam he said send anos but you see send them as tourists to check out the good they came back as morum as spies and they only came back with the bad and what happened there it says that the whole Cloud Israel sat down crying what does Russia say on the spot over there says that the Jewish Nation were crying and that day was Kish and because of this Hashem said you were crying for nothing I will give you much more to cry and that is the reason why the first was and then the second was also people don't know this and they think they're going to do more they're going to do more learning they're going to do this and they're going to that M will come but go back to the why C this whole destruction of the MDES because the Jewish nation was crying what is our job to do very simple stop crying and start tanking and like I said earlier the holy sad said that if the whole CL is will stop for 24 hours to cry he guarantees that the same day Messiah will be here so if you take out of the whole show you should take out this stop crying and start thaning and mhia will be here very shortly very beautiful before wraps it up for us you're warming up in the in the in the the batting P cage over there I just wanted to say uh next week again we have we do this every Sunday night at 10 o'clock next week we have Dr schm mlan Who is probably the biggest psychotherapist out there we're going to be tackling mental health to the max if you say thank you Hashem you don't have to come to the program next week for all those who didn't and didn't start you please come next week you'll need it and um there's going to be a full video recap of everything this is all recorded it will be posted on mfl.com and RAB Burkin I think will also be posting it on some of his chats sign up and he will update you on everything and um so first of all I want to say thank you for getting together us was such a great time such a great great experience even myself got so expire inspired by what we hear tonight and also want to say thank you my friend Ari Bitz and of course coach manim it was very good uh we get connected our emotion the logic side so we don't get away with something cheap and of course I want to say a thank you for all the fellow listeners we came on tonight they say sh by as asking questions we got answers and by asking good questions answer is very easy to answer so thank you so much and I would share but anding ending my wrapper up I will say this my father told me and I to it by myself we grow when it's a challenging time we grow through challenges so if if you have a challenging time in your life please right now tonight start thank Hashem and I will say again just do it just do it and just do it if everything is good in your life you still have to challenge yourself because otherwise you wouldn't grow you know what you can download the app on your phone or you can buy a counter on Amazon for $749 and count every day s two things you thank Hashem but again please please tonight take five minutes and thank Hashem just do it just do it and do it and do it and you see the amazing results everybody thank you very much it was an amazing program rabari I got it ready so many texts people say amen amen how do you sign up go to thank you hasem he has all the information you could text me you could email Coach anybody has any questions reach out to us reach out to Ari burkowitz reach out we'll give you everybody there's no secret information everything's out there I want to I want to end off one we didn't say it and I'm I we really want to end just do it but I wanted to say one thing that we forgot to say is the biggest time to thank Hashem the time that you supposed to sit in the five minutes and thank hem is when everything's good V because that's a it's when you're really on the bottom of the pits when you feel there's no hope and there's no options and there's no way out and there's no way I could ever pay this mortgage no I can ever win this court kit no way this person could ever survive that's the time if you thank hasm during those times you will have a a of thank you because that's how you really the thank you am I right thank you see everybody next week thank you Hashem