TBC - Day 14 - 'Walk Discreetly with G-d' - Rabbi Alon Anava | Atzmut.org

[Music] [Applause] [Music] so on the second day i told you that chuva can be broken into five letters we quoted already four tsukim out of the four letters of chuba and now we're left with the letter hey and there are a few verses that you can interpret the hay with if you remember in the second class that i gave you i told you that shiva the tough of chivas should be wholehearted with your with hashem then the sheen shiviti hashem nagita you should place hashem in front of you always love your neighbor like you love yourself bet you should know him and hey this is a verse from the book of mira that is called now i'm going to tell you already now i already spilled the beans by saying i don't know if you even notice but there are another five verses that can be explained for chuba but i was planning on doing it another day but today we're going to learn the hat next class is we're going to go with another five letters first of all can be found in the book of mira chapter 6 verse 8. i'm going to read you quickly the verse and then we'll explain it he has told you oh man what is good and the lord demands of you but to do justice to love loving kindness and to walk discreetly with your god that's the verse in michael which in itself that can already give you a very good musa a good lesson to your life what does she want from you he wants you to do justice he wants you to be honest and he wants you to do love love loving kindness and of course what's nearly about this quickly now this can be explained we can do a course about hats i will now touch just one thing that is very important to us on our path of juva one can interpret it by saying i have to be modest so i have to be modest women have to be dressed modest men also have to be dressed mothers by the way and you know in my home so i will be walking modest when i'm getting dressed or undressed should be in the bathroom i should be walking around the house with your underwear so i understand from that this is a simple way of explaining that you always have to be modest with the kadosh but in hebrew the word modest so the word that he's using here is using here discretely but he's he's using the word hat comes from snoot and when a person is sanua he's also you can also interpret it as humble as a person who's enough with sanua i mean you can use the word anavao tsa noah for the same for the same explanation but a person that is humble you can have a person that is great i mean when we're looking at moshe rabbenu the ultimate example so in the torah it says but nevertheless you can use the exact same word on a person that is uh modest you say yes it's new they're so humble and down to earth which really this is one of the major keys to chuva if you have ego and arrogance that is out of control i have bad news for you you will never be able to do shiva because you're arrogant you can only do chuva when you are humble that's it's not gonna work any other way don't think you will be able to ever do chuwa if you're arrogant i'm telling you from my own experience and i'm telling you from dozens of places that i read it another can go well with the with chuba pride arrogance ego doesn't work with chuva it will not ever work now some people are more arrogant some people less arrogant some people have a big ego some people have a small ego the point is that when we're looking at the last letter hey of chuva and the verse tells you you can be arrogant in front of me you can show off you can be you can have your apply your ego on me that's one thing me or you it doesn't matter they're seeing me but you can't do that with the kadosh become with me or another person it's not going to work you're going to be arrogant with other people nobody will like you nobody will learn from you nobody will assist you nobody will want to hire you it's not gonna where people cannot stand arrogant people or as we say in the simple language the pots nobody likes that but more than that you can't do that with the kenosha it can be arrogant with the kalosh now you need to now take this point that i'm talking about to have any type of pride ego arrogance i'm already telling you you have to diminish it because you're not going to be able to do shiva because your ego is going to tell you constantly that you are amazing and you're doing great and for this you don't need to do shiva and for this guy you don't have to ask sorry he has to have sorry from you and your ego is going to twist everything that you are perfect and everybody else is messed up so i'm already telling you as a hint as a favor as whatever you want to take it arrogance and ego will not work with shiva periods you have to be humble that's why the kalosh baku a person who really wants to do chewbacca know that who does to him catches him crushes him because he can only do chuva when you're in the bottom what do we say now every day i have called you from the depth you can't call shame when you're sitting on a penthouse on the 67th floor with champagne and cigars and you're driving beautiful you're not going to look you like that very few people are able to do chuva when they're on top of the world in the negative way meaning in too much physicality and and pleasures so the genocide handles the situation and he crushes you to pieces now because then your chiva is authentic but this is all very important to know i'm now trying to reveal another level which you have to really ponder on what i'm saying now and look for it in yourself because we sometimes have arrogance with the kadosh we have a ego directed at hashem why are you doing this to me hashem excuse me how many times something happened to you and you're questioning hashem hashem i have been so good why are you doing this to me excuse me you asking hashem why are you doing this to me and many other things that you question hashem you doubt hashem yeah i'm not saying you are a hundred percent observant and you talk to hashem on a daily basis but you still question him or challenge him that's arrogance he can be arrogant with the kadosh you know you know i'm sure you know the famous story i'm not going to say it now it's very long but when arabia kiva was murdered brutally they were asking zettoave is that's the torah and that's the reward the answer of the shem was stuck shut up that's what i wanted to do that's the answer such as answering the shock she told means shut up i can question now the kadashi i can't that's a little bit of arrogance and ego so comes here a great reduction tells you you want to do real chuba huts you know i did this and that i left my own path for you you didn't do anything for me who doesn't need you by the way he can click the erase button and you're out of the equation some people say no hashem needs your ship doesn't need you in any type of a way he can delete you out of the existence of the universe if he doesn't if he wants to so what i want you to focus on is to really look in your actions and your thoughts and your behavior and completely uproot any type of ego arrogance pride whatever it is that you are so humble in the eyes of hashem that instead of questioning doubting or complaining you thank the kanosh bahu even for the strongest slap that he ever gave you for everything that kadosh baku does for the good you thank him twice for the bad you sang three times because who knows what he needs to do to to clean you out that's really a more deeper meaning excuse me now interestingly the english never works well the translation it says you walk humble or modest with the not against not in france when you humble and you diminish your ego you're with okay in english she also says with your god but the aim is together you can work with hashem face to face with side to side it has to be with completely so this is a deep deep secret that we have to understand am i arrogant with the kadosh but feel about arrogant with other people that's not even a question here i don't even have to you to to explain it you can't have arrogance or ego with other people you have to completely diminish your arrogance and your e and your pride and ego but with the kadoshvar i think was your friend and i know we talked about it a few times you can talk to the kadosh like he's your best friend but you need to know when the times that he's your god and your creator you apply that in your life i can guarantee to you that your chuva especially that it's the last letter of the childhood hey will be complete when you are a hundred percent humble with the kadosh bahu look at our great sages and many others that they accepted everything that kalash behold told them don't you think that avinu could have told hashem when he asked him to slaughter his son whoa whoa whoa well enough you tested me enough look at how much i'm advertising your name all over the world the enough is enough no problem right away i didn't even ask a question woke up four o'clock in the morning and right away that's being hat i will walk humbly and i will accept everything that hashem does and that really is your greatest ticket to do chuvash lemma [Music] you