Stop Acting On Dates And Start Being Your Real Authentic Self

If we understand that the goal of the date is to see if I really like this person and if they really like me as we are for the purpose of ongoing couplehood. That changes how we approach the date. Instead of holding ourselves back from sharing our true thoughts and our true opinions, we share them as much as possible in order to show who we really are and because we want to see who they really are. When it comes to dating, we want to know who are you? What are your opinions? What are your beliefs? What are your politics? What is your religious position from date number one? Start sharing about religion and politics and your goals and your desires and your dreams and what you like and what you dislike and why. That will help you to get a successful date. The successful date means can I get some clarity on if this is something I want to pursue. So, if we are authentic on a date and then we decide, no, this is something I definitely don't want, that's a successful date. At the end of the date, they should be saying heck yes or heck no. And the only way that happens is if we are as real as possible on the date. And if you end up with a heck yes, that heck yes is going to be strong. And then hopefully we get two hecky yeses and things can move forward.